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Friday, February 10, 2017

Candle Going Out....

Please forgive me if my blogging is slow today and forgive me if i am dull.If i write LOL,dont believe me.







Last year January,my mum in law was planning a big party for her 80th but a few weeks into February,she suffered a stroke and went into Coma,whilst in coma,she suffered a heart attack and spent over three months in Coma.

My kids were traumatised,everyone was and i watched my hubby who is her last child go very quiet and not say a word about what was happening.

She has been at home recovering and every time I visited,the light in her eyes and that special smile for me was awesome.
This week she had a relapse and everything is going down...The Doctor said to leave her at home for her last moments.....This Morning we got a call and my sis in law said she is in her final moments and to come but not bring the kids....My boys cried before they left for school cos I told them their Oma was going.

My parents in Law live in their own house a few streets from mine and I am just coming from there *sigh* and all i can say is that in Death beauty and ugly are the same,so those of you who love beauty, the outside of a person,please,get a new mindset.

My mum in law had three boys and one female and my hubby is her last.She crossed her Tee's and dotted her eyes and all her kids are successful..she put her home in order but its time to go and her body is fighting to go but she loves us so much she is fighting to stay.

Her Oxygen is shutting down and her fingers have turned blue...I dont know how long she has but I know that she is heaven bound becos of how she lived her life...Now her Candle is going out and she has to answer the call.

Shocking for me especially cos it feels like I am losing my mother all over again.I have lost my smile and I cried like a baby this morning when i stood before her,my hubbys older brother was making jokes and trying to get me to smile but i couldnt stop...

Those of you who cry and worry about tomorrow,live whatever life you have and make merry.Be happy for today and forget about tomorrow.

I love that woman and everything i know about babies and kids,she taught me.

I am on alert,I dont know when she will go but i will go back later in the afternoon to say goodbye again.
*sigh*
I guess it is easier when you hear someone has died than to watch them going,it is a frightening and shocking experience....

Forgive any errors,my hands are shaking and i wont edit.




223 comments:

  1. Awwww Stella may God comfort your Hub's family.

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    1. So sorry Stella. I can feel the pain from your words. May God give you strength

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    2. May the good lord comfort you

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    3. eeh yah...... Stella
      mate GOD comfort you and your family.
      it's well

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    4. Stella don't make me remember my mama..... I beg u.
      😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

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    5. You would never understand what it means to watch someone die until it happens to you. Your write-up brought back painful memories of how I watched my younger sister died, right in my arms. See me weeping in the office like she died yesterday. The pain and torment is different from when they just call to break the news of the person’s death. God please heal my mum... the pain of loosing a child is unbearable.

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    6. Stella you just have to brace up for the worst, and please be strong.

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    7. So sad, but having to watch her and knowing there is nothing you can do about it. I can't imagine how you feel right now. SDK the Lord is your strength, He will console all of you. Take heart.

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    8. May the Lord comfort you and your entire family. Its a painful experience that I could relate with but in it look unto God for strength.

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    9. Oh dear! My thoughts are with you and your family! What a blessed woman your MIL is and when it is time, may the Lord receive her soul into his bosom

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    10. May God grant her eternal rest and grant the family the fortitude to bear the loss

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    11. Awwww Stella take E-hug. Oma will be fine because she is going to be with the Angel. Take heart.

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    12. Take heart Stella. She's in a better place and she'll keep living in your hearts.

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    13. Awwwwwww so sad. May God comfort u guys. It is better to just know that the person is gone than to just sit and be waiting to hear the call.

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    14. Awwwwww!
      Should I call this a peaceful exit?
      Eternal rest be granted unto her oh lord, and let perpetual light shine on her, may her soul rest in peace, amennnn.
      Take heart Stella.

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    15. 😢. So sorry Stella. Take heart, the holy spirit will comfort you. It's sad.

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    16. Stella dear may comfort your hubby and all his sibling. Take heart my dear. You just made me remember my sweet mum. 😢😢😭😭😭.

      It's well..... Oh! Death where is they sting?

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    17. Stella, the Good Lord will comfort u and the family Oma leaves behind. Elixir, the Lord is ur strength. Sending e-hugs 2 u and Stella.

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    18. May the good God comfort u and your famil Stella. .it's really sad to lose a loved one

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    19. I'm so sorry Stella. May the Lord console you and the family she's leaving behind. I'm happy your husband has you to lean on. The pain is excruciating when a last born looses a parent. May the Lord accept her soul. Amen.

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    20. Thanks Candy. God bless you.

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    21. Hmmm, I know how you feel dear! I just lost my lil cousin too, he was just 15 years old! Sad much!!!


      ... Jesus is my worth!

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    22. I'm so sorry Stella. I feel your pain darling and I'm holding you right now. Please stay strong. Love you loads.

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    23. So sorry Stella,e- hugs to you,this brings back memories of when my dad died. It is well,may she rest in peace.

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    24. May the good Lord comfort you Stella and your hubby and his siblings

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  2. May God grant her eternal rest in his bosom. Amen

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    1. So sorry Stella. This just brought back memories of when my dad (my hero and best friend)died 4yrs this May...it is well with you. Take solace in the fact that she is in a much better place and her memory will live on through your boys. Sorry dear

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    2. Ohhhhhhhh stella love, ur write up broke me down again, I have seen it before, ppl who haven't experienced this won't understand,
      Sorry dear and may God comfort you and your family

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    3. Your MIL is in a better place! May God comfort you all, Amen.

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    1. I shed tears while reading this. Stella may God comfort you and the whole Korkus' family. It is well.

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    2. Take heart Stella. May her soul find perfect rest in God's blossom.

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    3. May God bless u n urs with the fortitude to bear the loss. May she find rest with the angel. Accept my sympathy

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    4. Hmmmm why can't i find my comment?Was it because i asked why the spontaneous post didn't give any hint of this post or your bfs crying?Madam na u sabi

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    1. I can so relate to what you experienced this morning because have watched a dear soul,so close to my heart struggling btw life and death.so its never a good sight,it will keep reoccurring in ur memory.Stella pls be strong.God is in control and if he does not permit this,all of this wouldn't have been happening.it is well

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    2. Aww.so sad. So sorry Stella. May she go quickly and very peacefully.May God comfort your family

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    3. So sorry Stella.It's well with ur family and in laws.

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    4. Stella so sorry.
      Take confort in the fact that she's going to be with the Lord.

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  5. Oh God
    Don't even know what to say
    It feels like losing ur mumu over again
    SDK may God hold y'all tight 😩

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    1. So sorry , just take heart and accept it whenever it comes.

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    2. Rip to ur mil, at least she Is ripe In age.I never knew dis kind of post will come today, i've been crying my heart out since ysteday, its been like dat since my hubby's sudden death, seems i'm d only one dat is yet to move on, I pray God gives me strenght to hold on. Rip my dear N.its as if u took a part of me to d grave.

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  6. So sorry, Stella, may God be your strength . Be strong for your children

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    1. I'm so very sorry Stella. My condolence to you and your family.

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    2. May God console you all. Please take heart

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  7. Oh My God Stella, I'm so sorry, I feel the exact same way right now.... Just heard a shocking news and I don't even know if i should cry or believe!! This kinda pain is better imagined than experienced!!

    It's well Honey....

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  8. Awwww Stella. Be strong. My prayers are with you

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    1. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm very touching! Soooo sorry about that. Pls be strong! Its sure well!!!

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  9. Eeeeeeeeeyah this is so sad. I'm so sorry Stella. God will give u the fortitude to bear the loss. Pele dear

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    1. Be strong Stella dear. I pray the Holy Spirit comforts you and your family.

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  10. It is well with your family Stella..she has lived and fulfill her days I think.God grant her eternal rest and give ur family the fortitude 2 bear De loss wen she finally slp..

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  11. Imagine the person you are ignoring today doesn't wake up tomorrow.... Will you feel guilty?? ...Learn to love the people around you while they are still there...

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    1. Feeling ds right inside! It is xoxo saddening! God will strengthen u, uphold u n stand by u throughout ds phase! It is well

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  12. So sad Stella. Be strong okay. Love you.

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  13. So sad Stella. Be strong okay. Love you.

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    1. Take heart dear,am an orphan,what u wrote make me remember the day I lost my father 12years ago,watching him die is what an can never forget

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  14. Wow, so sorry for what you guys are passing through, death is inevitable.

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  15. So deep! Take heart Stella, death is the ultimate price we all have to pay. May she find peace when she eventually sleeps n I pray God comforts u all.

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  16. STELLA HONEY TAKE HEART .... BE REST ASSURED SHE ABOUNDS IN THE LORDS BOSOMS .SIGHS DEATH OH DEATH SURELY YOU ARE INEVITABLE. MAY THE LORD REPLENISH YOUR SMILES AND RESTORE JOY TO YOUR FAMILY AMEN

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  17. This made me cry. Life is just but a passing moment. She is lucky to have people that love her so deep and you all are unbelievably lucky to be blessed by angel. May She transit well to Glory. Heaven will gain back an angel. Be strong dear

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    1. So sorry Stella life its full of ups nd downs I knw what you feel bcos I have been der b4,may Jehovah make you all strong.

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  18. Be brace dear, like you said she's going to a better place. Pray for her and sing to her as she leaves, God be with her. *teary eyes* it's well

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  19. This is a heartfelt message, Stella take heart, cherish the good memories you shared with her. Be strong.

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    1. Be strong Stella,it is well.
      RIP Mama.

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  20. Uwww! Sorry Stella, may you all find comfort in God.

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  21. OooooLord!
    Please be consoled, sigh.
    Very thought provoking.

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  22. Take heart stella..you're a rock..stay strong.xxx

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  23. So sad....but nothing can be done..I remember watching my elder brother dying...so painful, watching ur loved ones dying...oh my God (memories) Take heart Stella...

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  24. Sorry to learn about your Mum in law. Remain strong for your hubby & kids. Like you said "she's heaven bound" so it's better you celebrate her life than cry, we would all go someday somehow. Cheer up!

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  25. Oh Stella dear. It's a tough one. Please be strong OK.
    Thank God mama's lived a good life.
    Tight hugs from me to you. It's well.

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  26. Reading this made me feel some type of way that I don't like.
    This life...

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  27. I love you Stella and my prayers are with you
    Been in and out of the hospital since last week and I understand how frail this life really is. The woman beside me lost her baby @6months yesterday after 8 years of TTC. This morning, she passed on.
    I was once with my mum at UCH Ibadan, Oncology unit, June to August 2006. We lost 1 patient daily and it was traumatizing watching relatives mourn. I saw corpses daily and was only a little girl. I felt I had gotten accustomed to death but nothing prepared me for the loss of my own mother when death came calling in October 2006.....
    One cold morning at 6am, on her hospital bed, she looked at me with tears in her eyes and breathed her last 😭😭😭
    Just like that!
    My bedrock, my backbone, my mummy gone for ever...
    I cried for days
    I cried for months
    It's been 10 years now and I still cry koz truly, we can never get over such loss.

    My prayers are with you Stella, your kids and hubby. I hope you get to read this.
    I ll call you when I am stronger
    For now, I just felt a leading to open visit the blog and I saw this post.
    Kisses from me and mini me.....

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    1. Indeed we never get over the loss of a loved one. Thanks for dropping this. My mum passed on some months back, cancer too and I was expecting I would get over it as quickly as possible. 10yrs and still mourning? Then I guess I am just getting started. It feels so lonely without her. How did you cope? Do you have siblings? I am an only child and I don't even have anyone to confide in.
      Please reply this Gifted hands

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    2. So sorry madam Stella.
      Truly,We never get over such loss.I still haven't gotten over my dad's death. So painful to lose someone close.The mere thinking that you will never get to see them again is enough to make you cry everyday .God see us through.

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    3. Sorry Gifted Hands. May the soul of your mum continue to R. I. P

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    4. I was also with my mum in that UCH oncology ward, people die there any how Kai, this made me remember my mum, cancer be bastard!
      Stella may comfort you and your family

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  28. Stella ndo,please stop crying and leave everything to God. You love her but God love her more. She will not die but she will turn to Angel.

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  29. These oyibo doctors are good! So they tell you when you going and you make peace with your maker and make heaven...just like that? Wow!
    Stella take heart....she has lived above a three score and a ten. Added decade was God's grace upon her.
    It is well,pray God gives you the fortitude to scale through this. There shall be nomoreloss

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    1. Am telling you dear,her own better. At least she had the opportunity to make things right.
      Stella take heart,the worst experience is to lose someone you love. But God is always there for us. And he will never leave nor forsake us.

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  30. Stella be strong! We all wish that our loved ones will stay with us forever. But Almighty God knows best. Be strong and look forward to the future.Ur mother in law is going to be with the Lord.Celebrate her life and memories in your heart. Almighty Jehovah will take control in any situation. Sending a big e-hug and kisses to you dear!

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  31. Stella Sorry and take heart. You are lucky,, 80 years and she has seen life, seen her children and grandchildren, and she is happy, knowing that her children and grandchildren will bury her not the other way round.

    It is well. Take heart my dear

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  32. It is well Stella. Celebrate her instead.

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  33. I know the feeling, I lost my great uncle last year October after two surgeries he still didn't get better a very healthy and agile man was
    reduced to a vegetable, he couldn't even hold his cup of the properly the last time I saw him, I knew his death was very soon but was still hoping for a miracle, left the house at about 9am only for me to get a call at 3pm that he had died, I wept because he was a good man, he was my father in Benin even in his condition he still asked me to come to the house when I was sick so Stella take heart, she has lived her life, you should be happy that she lived a good life.

    Ezi O

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    1. May your soul be healed and your spirit find comfort soon stella.

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  35. It is well.
    Oma lived a long and full life,
    A feat most people aren't fortunate to have,
    Whether by heaven's design or something else.
    Be strong, Stella.

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  36. It is well with you and ur family ma( amen)

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  37. God is your strength Stella nobody can understand what you are going through expect the person has loss someone too.This brought tears in my eyes cos I lost my dad about two years ago .hugs

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  38. Cry. It is ok to cry.

    Loosing my bossom friend and Dad within a month is something that has made me view life from a different perspective.

    I learnt a lot. I am still learning. If there is anything I learnt from their exist, it is how to be Kind. How to be soft, smile, show kindness. No one knows tomorrow.

    Take heart.

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  39. What a pity. Nothing prepares you for the actual moment a loved breathes their last. My grandmother mother was 96 when she passed, I always thought if she lived long enough then it would hurt less when she would eventually pass. Nothing can take away the pain of loosing a loved one no matter how old. Stella take heart. Be comforted

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  40. It is well with you Stella, May God comfort you all. Amen

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  41. Stella take heart. It is well. The Lord is your strength

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  42. Awww
    Be strong Stella
    She's going to God in her old age
    May we not die young In Jesus name

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  43. Take heart SDK, God be with you and your family.

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  44. Take heart dear

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  45. May the Lord make her journey smooth and grant her peaceful and eternal rest. Be strong Stella, it is well.

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  46. Awwww! May God comfort you all in this difficult time, no matter how sad you feel, she is going to be in a better place soon, and her presence will continue to live with all of you. Take heart Stella, you have made all of us moody....


    Long live SDK

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  47. Please be strong Stella...it's part of the circle of life

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  48. Stay strong stella!
    She lived till a good old age!

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  49. Awwww sorry. This just brought tears to my eyes as it also made me remember my dad in his final moments.
    When she eventually goes I pray God gives you all the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.Take heart dear the Lord is your strength.
    You love her but God loves her most and from the way you just described her I know she'll be in heaven till we all meet again at Jesus feet.

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  50. Stella, please take heart. May God grant her soul sweet repose.

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  51. Take solace in the fact that she lived well and achieved seeing her kids grow and give her grandkids.
    i know you are pained but take heart that she will be in a better place when she finally closes her eyes.
    sending big hugs your way dear.

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  52. Sending hugs ur way Stella...I can't honestly say that I can imagine what you are going through, but I pray the Holy Spirit to comfort you and your family. She has run her race! xx

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  53. So sorry. may God give her the rest she deserves...

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  54. Awwwwwwwwwwww.
    This got me teary Stella.
    It's a beautiful thing that she is going,fully ripe at that age, surrounded by people she loves and who love her.
    Take heart Stella.
    God will give you all the fortitude to bear this loss.

    N.B.Its refreshing to hear that you love your MIL. I love that.

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  55. May God give me a wonderful mother in law that I would love so much. May God make me a good daughterinlaw too that she would love a lot.

    My prayers are with you and your family. It is well.


    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  56. You spoke well Stella, death is inevitable. Please, take heart and may God give you all the strength to bear the loss. Amen.

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    1. Hope you find the strength you need in this trying time. Nosey

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  57. Sorry stellz!
    Take heart dear

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  59. Eh yah Stellz, so sorry dear. May God be with her till we meet to part no more!

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  60. My prayers are with your family stella

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  61. Take heart Stella,it's really sad.

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  62. I shed a tear reading this, feels like I know her....she ha lived a fulfilling...take heart dear Stella, the hubs & the boyfriends.....May God grant her eternal rest when she finally passes on

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  63. Aww, I'm soo sorry Stella. Please try to be strong for your children. Life is what it is.. Life. We all wish our loved ones stay forever, but life definitely takes it's course. Please be strong

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  64. Awww maami it's well with u.Let God's will b done. ehn so Rosemary Chidi u said u don't know what is good morning in Igbo abi what are u feeling like?

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  65. OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG.... I am speechless. This is so sad

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  66. So sorry Stella. May God Comfort you and your family... Simplyblossomcakes.

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  67. So sorry Stella. May God Comfort you and your family.

    Simplyblossomcakes.

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  68. Oh what a sad story! The Lord will comfort your family and by extension your in-laws. It is well!

    #DontQuoteMe

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  69. Take heart darling girl

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  70. Even when death is coming, nobody prepares for it. It is well. We pray God give her a great exit.

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  71. So sorry Stella. May God Comfort you and your family.

    Simplyblossomcakes.

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  72. Sooo sorry Stella, you guys should console yourselves with the fact that she lived a good life. May God console you and your family. You just reminded me of my mum now.

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  73. Take heart stella, Almighty God will grant her internal rest

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  74. Aaaww Stella, it is well with her soul.
    Take heart for death is the ultimate end of life.
    Mein beileid schatzie?!

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  75. Omg!
    So sad.
    Stella, pls be strong
    My prayers re with you and your
    family
    E-bear Hugs

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  76. Stella please be strong for your husband and the boys as you said she has put her house in order and she will go in peace. May God console you and your family. It is well my dear sister God knows best.

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  77. Stella take heart. That's one thing no one will miss. Lost my mum over 20yrs ago, not easy.

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  78. Awwwwww Stella, this got me shedding tears. I don't like to talk about death but the irony of it all is that, death must surely come.

    I know how it feels cos i have been there. I lost my young dad and younger sister within a year and it can be so painful #crying#. I keep asking God if the pains will ever go away.

    Take heart my dear and be strong for your husband. Thank God she has lived a fulfilled life.

    This is a lesson for the living! Be at peace with God and the people around you.

    This life is vanity. Dust we are and unto dust we shall all return someday. #bringing backoldmemories#sad

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  79. Awwwwww Stella, this got me shedding tears. I don't like to talk about death but the irony of it all is that, death must surely come.

    I know how it feels cos i have been there. I lost my young dad and younger sister within a year and it can be so painful #crying#. I keep asking God if the pains will ever go away.

    Take heart my dear and be strong for your husband. Thank God she has lived a fulfilled life.

    This is a lesson for the living! Be at peace with God and the people around you.

    This life is vanity. Dust we are and unto dust we shall all return someday. #bringing backoldmemories#sad

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  80. E-hug SDK. May God comfort you all.

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  81. So sorry Stella. May God see her through her final Journey. Tell me about that awful feeling of watching a loved one go. This took me back to the day I sat at the hospital for seven hours and watched my baby slowly go. I watched as all her vitals kept going down. When it dropped to 20, it started dropping so fast. Till 0. And that was it. That is one unforgettably experience no one should ever have to go through.
    Really life is not as serious as we take it.
    May God give you and your family the strength through this period. Amen

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  82. I pray for you Stella,may the Lord be with you and yours.

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  83. Oh dear!
    My heart felt sympathies
    May God grant you all the strength to go through this difficult time

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  84. Sooo sorry Stella may God strengthen u and ur hubbys family.

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  85. Stella.... Awww.... Can imagine how you feel *hugs* Gods will alone be done. 🙏🏽 Amen

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  86. So sorry Stella. I can feel your pain. My mum's twin sister died in our house & up till dis day I still remember the way she looked at me for the last time before she died. Lost a very dear friend also recently. I visited her on a saturday & she died monday. Two deaths that I can't ever forget in a hurry.
    Take heart, at least she will rest from all the pains.

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  87. I believe in last minute miracle. I feel like hugging u Stella. May God console u.
    Rosa

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  88. So sorry ..Stella...death is a stage in life everyone has to pass through.

    I watched my mom die,my colleagues performing CPR ...hmmm....all I could do was hug her dead body whilst it was still warm..it's hard watching a loved one go,I knew the end was near but alas I couldn't bring my self to accept it. I cried my eyes out and till date I still cry...it's almost 3years but the events always play in my head like it all happened yesterday..
    May the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace. Amen

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  89. So sorry Mrs. Korkus. E-hug to you. May God console you, your hubby and entire families.

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  90. It is well with your family may the Lord's peace and comfort be with you,so sorry stella.

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  91. Accept my condolences Stella............our stay here on earth is just nothing but temporary!

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  92. The good lord is your strenght now Stella!!!

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  93. Take heart,Stella cry if you have to just to ease the hurt but don't overdo it don't mourn like those without hope she is going to be with the Lord that should count for something and her family is with her in her final moments she is indeed blessed.Cherish the sweet memories you had together that will keep you going that has help me in overcoming the pain of losing my dad.It is well

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  94. GOD PLEASE ALWAYS GIVE US THE STRENGTH TO CARE, FORGIVE AND MAKE AMEND BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.
    A FRIEND OF MINE HER MUMMY KICKED THE BUCKET DIS MORNING,AND MY NEIGHBOURS HUSBAND IS AT THE HOSPITAL BATTLING HIS LIFE AFTER A SUCCESSFUL OPERATION AT UCH IBADAN. GOD GIVE US A GREAT EXIT AND ABILITY TO RUN A GOOD RACE ..AMEN
    STELLA PLS STAY STRONG

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  95. You just brought tears to my eyes Stella.I have never watched or see my loved ones die. But I wish I was with my dad and my elder brother when the died.maybe the pain of their death won't be too hard for me to forget.my elder brother died in 2001 and my dad 2006. I still know how it feels. Please just be prayingfor her so that she will be in Heaven. Take it easy Stella Nwanyioma

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  96. May God console and condole your family and her family at large. Is well with her soul.

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  97. I don't know what to say, am speechless. *sigh*

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  98. She came,she saw and conquered;if her time is done here,may God rests her soul and keep her family. Be strong Stella.

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  99. No matter what happens, just be strong for your kids and hubby especially.It is well....

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  100. Sometimes a cute smile hides a huge pain that only God knows about.
    Stella, I can feel your pain. Try and be strong. Oma will be fine in a better zone.

    My prayers are with you & family,

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  101. E-hugs Stella. Please stay strong. God will console u guys. Be content she lived a full life, easy to say, when one isn't in ur shoes right? *sigh* so sorry Stellz, be strong. love u!

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  102. Stella plz take it easy. I know how you feel. May the Lord comfort you and your family. It's so painful seeing someone you love about to die. I can relate.
    My prayers are with you dear.

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  103. awwwwwwow i know how you feel and it a terrible feeling. i lost a child about a year ago and it still hurt like hell.take heart knowing she will be resting in the bosom of the Lord.
    this just made me sad right now.








    *takes a shot of whisky*

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  104. hmmmm. what a life we live... Empty world. Take heart Stella. Its well with you.

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  105. oh stel... your write up just brought back this morning incident, saw a secondary school boy knocked down by a car at stadium in lag, he was looking lifeless and i just cant get over it, may God grant her enternal peace and rest. take heart dear, it is well with you and the rest of the family.

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  106. Mummy Mike, be rest assured we all love and care for you.
    Though painful but the thought she going to a better place is a huge relief.
    You all will be fine. The legacy she will leave will continually speak.
    Take heart dearest sister

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  107. Aww May her soul rest in peace. Please take heart and be thankful you guys had her all these years. Could have lost her years ago and you nor your kids wouldn't have known her but God kept her for you all, that's what I tell myself about my mum :(

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  108. Oh! Stella, the Lord will strengthen you and your entire family @ this time.

    Pele dear! You've got to be strong and be of good courage.

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  109. Stella, our prayers are with you. may GOD console and your household. it's really a sad news

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  110. Stella dear,be strong,it's well.Whatever my lot,thou has taught me to say,it is well,it is well with my soul.

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  111. Please be strong Stella, may Almighty God comfort and strengthen the entire family.
    The angels are with your mum-inlaw,waiting to lead her home.

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  112. My condolences Stella. May our households outlive ur MIL. And may d world stand still at our exits.

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  113. Oooh! Dear, pls be strong. She has ran her own race and i pray she makes peace with God to make her sit at His right hand side.

    It is well....it sure is well. #Hugs

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  114. Ahhhhh.. This is sad.
    From dust we come to dust we shall return
    Take heart Stella.

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  115. Wipe years 😢😢😢😢😢 Stella God will comfort u, please have all the time u want and be by your man 247....this is sad

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  116. Please take heart. May the good Lord comfort you and your family greatly.

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  117. itz well dearest.my thoughts are with you and yours

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  118. So sorry to hear this. Teary

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  119. hmmmmmmmm, Stella please be strong. the Lord is with the family.

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  120. So sorry Stella. Take heart. God will grant your entire family to bear the loss. Your consolation is that she is going to a better place. Pele...take heart.

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  121. It is well Stella dear. Take heart and be strong for your husband and kids. Loosing a loved one is a very painful thing. Lost my dad nine years ago but am yet to get over it .......i always take solace in the fact that he is in a better place and free from pains.

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  122. SDK,
    it can't be easy but we all have to go someday. Better for children to bury their parents than the other way round. My Mum had buried a husband, a first son and a last daughter. We buried my kid sister in Nov 2016 and this story opened the floodgates again. What's life after-all? May her soul find eternal rest, Amen.

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