STAND ALONE NARRATIVE....
CHOOSING BETWEEN TWO MEN...
Hi Stella,
Thank you for the work you put in. This is a blog family like no other. I am sending this to get words of wisdom.
I am 30 and professionally fulfilled by God's grace. Early last year, I dealt with the worst heartbreak. I didn't know how I would meet a man and start all over. I tried SnM but e no pay me. So I turned to God.
Shortly after, I met a guy- Mr. A through a job I did. He's my spec. We practically starred at each other. I had to ask for his number. We chatted for months but he wouldn't ask me out on a date. I summoned courage to invite him for an event and the rest is history. He is a 29, caring, funny, hardworking, carefree and tolerates all my excesses.
It started as an innocent conversation that lasted all night. I never expected to grow fond of him.
Our calls lasted hours and we had lots to talk about. This is something I lacked with Mr. A who loves to have fun and hangout but I always thought the conversation was missing.
Mr. B is an old school mate, 34, buoyant, a wordsmith, focused, caring and has a PhD. We live in different states but he agreed to relocate. He says he wouldn't want my career to suffer since he is the one who came for me, he should do the moving not me. I found this to be selfless cos I had turned down suitors cos of distance. We had met a couple of times and it was fun even though he is an introvert.
Honestly, my heart wants Mr. A cos of his fun loving side plus he is my spec. But my head tells me Mr. B it is. I love both of them and I haven't given any the cookie, thanks to lessons from this blog so no need for insults. I only decided not to put my eggs in one basket *side eyes at queen*
It is time to choose now as they both want to start marital rites. Help me make a decision please. Biko Stella, use your red pen. Thanks!
Hi Stella,
Thank you for the work you put in. This is a blog family like no other. I am sending this to get words of wisdom.
I am 30 and professionally fulfilled by God's grace. Early last year, I dealt with the worst heartbreak. I didn't know how I would meet a man and start all over. I tried SnM but e no pay me. So I turned to God.
Shortly after, I met a guy- Mr. A through a job I did. He's my spec. We practically starred at each other. I had to ask for his number. We chatted for months but he wouldn't ask me out on a date. I summoned courage to invite him for an event and the rest is history. He is a 29, caring, funny, hardworking, carefree and tolerates all my excesses.
I had decided he was my answered prayer till Mr. B contacted me.
It started as an innocent conversation that lasted all night. I never expected to grow fond of him.
Our calls lasted hours and we had lots to talk about. This is something I lacked with Mr. A who loves to have fun and hangout but I always thought the conversation was missing.
Mr. B is an old school mate, 34, buoyant, a wordsmith, focused, caring and has a PhD. We live in different states but he agreed to relocate. He says he wouldn't want my career to suffer since he is the one who came for me, he should do the moving not me. I found this to be selfless cos I had turned down suitors cos of distance. We had met a couple of times and it was fun even though he is an introvert.
Honestly, my heart wants Mr. A cos of his fun loving side plus he is my spec. But my head tells me Mr. B it is. I love both of them and I haven't given any the cookie, thanks to lessons from this blog so no need for insults. I only decided not to put my eggs in one basket *side eyes at queen*
It is time to choose now as they both want to start marital rites. Help me make a decision please. Biko Stella, use your red pen. Thanks!
*Communication in a relationship is VERY IMPORTANT.
Since you are confused about both men,look out for the one whom you are free with,can make conversation with,can say your mind without feeling trapped or have someone say you were rude.
Your heart surely knows who you want, i would rather you follow your heart.
ReplyDeletePoster I will tell u to choose communication which is B... but anyone u choose abeg send me d one that's left number abeg..lool
DeletePoster please go with Mr B
DeleteBut pray 🙏 to GOD about it
Poster use your head and not your heart.
DeleteHahahahaha trolling baby Weldon Ma!😂😂😂
DeleteI go with Mr A
DeleteBut unfortunately for me, you are the one to make d choice.
Being a wordsmith doesn't guarantee u will be a good spouse. You are obviously smitten by Mr B swagger and his educational status. He cannot be a good communicator and also an introvert @same time.
Also, you dont love them both. U love Mr A but infatuated to Mr B.
#itriedmybestanalysingthis
Am not too comfortable helping people to decide when it comes to matters of the heart. But this is my humble suggestion as a man who has been married for 17 yrs. Communication is key in any relationship and since Mr B and you connect on that I say it's a plus. You are Older than Mr A do you think he is matured enough to handle the situation. Women like to be naughty atimes and just want to be pampered because the man is older and they expect you to understand that they are like your younger sister. Can you add the age issue to one of the long list of things you will disagree about. Marriage is not about hanging out it's about hanging in and holding on. Do you think Mr A is ready to hang in or still wants to play the "boys field". You practically ask Mr A out in the first place I hope he doesn't see you as someone desperate to settle down even if he has never mentioned it. Can you handle his circle of friends who will be mostly younger than you. Mr B looks more promising but you also need to be careful. How solid is he in his career. He seems he is ready to relocate easily. I hope he won't use that against you and say you more into your career. In conclusion I would say tilt a bit towards Mr B but have a conversation on the following and it might just show who is matured and ready for marriage. .. Career, finances,starting a family, Developmental plan and Let them tell you your shortcomings. You see maturity, wisdom and experience in their answers. I know you are a wise woman. With all these in hand you take it to God in prayer. You surely get your answer.
DeleteYou are indeed a wise man.
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Anon 20:26,u couldn't have said it better..poster stick with this advice
DeleteU Made a point.based on analysis Mr B does not have a stable career,what kind of man is willing to dump his job all because of love.
Delete@anon20:26 who are u? Can we be friends? I love your words of wisdom
DeletePoster take this advice
DeleteThat comment up there couldn't have been said any better. Absolutely echoed my thoughts. Poster...stick with it mbok. Bros, can we be friends? As someone who is getting married soon, I need all the advice I can get. I'd appreciate getting your contact info. Thanks in anticipation. 17years married nor be beans. Wehdone Sir
Delete@vivilious if a person is into more than one relationship at a time, he/she is cheating wheather she gives the cookies or not
Delete@34 he has his phd, he is bouyant, he is ready to relocate for love......... I smell rat
DeleteAt 29 he is caring, funny, hardworking, carefree and tolerate my excesses...... to me poster that is what I call husband
DeletePoster just so we clear know that you are cheating on both of them... whether you are celibate or not....except if u all agree not to be exclusive
DeletePoster what happened in your last relAtionship that went south? Do u c any trait of issues in last relationship that made it go south in any of these new guys? I will help in your decision making
DeleteNa u toast Mr A nah biko stick with Mr B.
DeleteAnd ladies on the blog I fear una.. can we be friends with a married man? Yeye dey smell for una body.
DeleteAshewo kobokobo!!!
Am Anon 20:26...How do I get an ID. And thanks @anon 7:41.....won't mind being a friend. And marriage is a sign of growth so see it as a major project that will define your existence. Not a bed of roses but it's WORTH all the stress. I wish you the best and greetings to the lucky lady. And @ Ladybosschick thanks for the compliment. Hopefully when I get an ID we get to talk more.
DeleteYou turned to God when things did not work your way. Now, let's assume God almighty gave you an open door and you don't know which, why not turn to him again; in prayer and fasting and his word? Has that God "died"? Why do folks only turn to God when they have problems?
ReplyDeleteSince God is our father in heaven, why not relate with him as a father? Hope you do not open legs and scatter everything?
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DeleteExactly!!!!!!!!, God is not an author of confusion, he will help you make the right choice, talk to me. But based on what you said, I think B is the better choice. Talk to God.
DeleteExactly!!!!!!!!, God is not an author of confusion, he will help you make the right choice, talk to me. But based on what you said, I think B is the better choice. Talk to God.
DeleteHow did you miss the part where she said she havn't slept with either of them?
DeleteAnon God bless you my thoughts exactly. Turn to that same God for direction cos if you make a decision that is not God inspired you will miss it.
DeletePlease pray and ask God to direct!
DeleteB...
ReplyDeleteHahaha
DeleteTrue. B. A will use that fun and be elusive. B communicates and that's a winner in my books.
DeleteMy dear marry the two of them now. If toyin tomatoes can marry 2 men why not you.
ReplyDeleteGo for the one with good communication and better money
That will be polyandry and it's illegal in Nigeria, only legal in some parts of India..you sef😅😅😅😅😅
DeleteMaturity is paramount!
ReplyDeleteChoose the one that is mature, no becos of fun follow one smally that will screw u mercilessly and go for his mates later, u asked him out, u made d first move so, go figure!
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DeleteGood as you don't want to put all the eggs in one basket lol
ReplyDeleteKindly be on the lookout for MR C who will have everything you will need in a man 😂😂
Mr A sounds like a playboy! Beware of heartbreak
Mr B sounds like a brokeass. I mean why would he even think about moving if he has a good paying job or an established business in the state where he is? Very sweet of him thinking of moving just to be closer to you.. But nne shine your eyes
*side eyes*
Exactly my thot poster,please take this Advice oh,this is what I wanted to write ....beware oh! I'm certain ,non of them is ur husband
DeleteU are the only one tinking here. Mr B is just a smooth talking broke ass.
DeleteBecky divine and cohort, scroll up and read where she wrote that Mr B is buoyant. Which means he's financially secure 🙄
DeleteMy dear u hit am.wai will he want to move bikonu and start all over again hunting 4 a job? Na so e easy reach? Okweya! Babe think well ooo. He's moving no shit. I bet u.
DeleteYou get mouth jare
DeletePHD holder willing to move to convince a lady
Ladies are easily swayed by what they hear .... Men are moved by what they see. I just hope u r buitiful sha cos dis wahala no be here
Thanks so much. You mirrored my thought. 😘
DeleteYou guys are thinking. I raised an eyebrow about the moving part. Some men will promise you heaven and earth just to get what they want. Pls only the Holy Spirit can show you the way.
DeleteThe first thing that endears me to a man is the conversation I have with him. His sense of humor, his ability to make me feel comfortable like I'd known him my whole life, to make me feel easy about telling him anything, especially those wild fantasies every good girl sometimes have. And he doesn't judge but delves into his own too.
ReplyDeleteIf a man has got education, a good job, is God fearing, and really into you, then what you need are the things I've stated above.
But don't tell any off, till one puts a ring on it officially. Your heart already chose, follow your heart.
Please Mr.A it is...!!! But hope he doesn't feel somehow about the age difference.. I kinda want Mr.A.
ReplyDeleteMr.B has probably sensed something about you.
Ola wealth,you want mr A? Are you the poster?
DeleteHow wiil poster A leave his work and everything...!! He knows you gat the Doe..!! That's my thought ooo
DeleteLadies you people are trying, because when a man comes to you confessing love, you don't know if the love is true until you try. Unlike men, once he approach a woman, he knows his real intention (either to knack and run or come to stay)
ReplyDeleteLadies I raise Beyonce hand for una.
Lols @Knack and run. Doroknacker!
Delete#DontQuoteMe
Lols @Knack and run. Doroknacker!
Delete#DontQuoteMe
Now, you have "put your eggs in two baskets" and you are confused; foolish sheeeple of queer and boos. That is how gullible a lot of girls are. Very soon, the two men will discover themselves and you will lose all and send in a chronicle of depression!
ReplyDeleteLooooooool!
DeleteLols....You can imagine.
Delete#DontQuoteMe
Wait for your queen os start looking for mr c, since you are the one searching for them.
DeleteGo for Mr B. The older the better, its a life time commitment.
ReplyDeletePoster I will advise you to follow your heart so that you will not come back to blame me for wrong choice.
ReplyDeleteBut bear in mind that not all that glitter is gold
Can we really make a choice for you? Oya bring their pictures and account balance, it will help me make the right judgement. Lol.
ReplyDeleteWish you good luck.
Ur comment got me laughing
DeleteYou be thief.. See your big yansh... Lol
DeleteMarry the older one jor.
ReplyDeleteThat's how you ladies will come here and be telling us about Mr ABCD and how to chose between Mr XYZ. I could imagine if you found out that the Misters also have someone close just like they have you, your chronicles will change to a "cheating boyfriend" no wonder they say ladies cheat easily mtchew...Why allow Mr B to play with your emotions when you know Mr A is your spec? now you are confused, abeg gerarahere.
ReplyDeleteHow did she cheat? Are you blind or didn't you read dat she hasn't given out the cookie to either of them? Or is there a law that says she can't have more than one male friend? How sure are you sef that these men do not have ladies they are gbenshing? Gerarahere too
DeleteNne chop kiss 😘..no homo...exactly as i wud hv replied. .
DeleteLol. So cheating is about sex but she is probably collecting stuffs from them. Grow up already.
DeleteGbenshing is not the only way to cheat @vivilicious, not that I'm saying she was cheating
DeleteVivi so cheating is all about giving cookie?
DeleteI learn everyday from ladies here...🙌🙌🙌
When you commit to a relationship and still share emotional stuff with anoda person, youve already cheated.
DeleteCommitment must remain unflinching.
We are all guilty of this. May God help us all
Turn to God. It's very crucial now.
ReplyDeleteHe did it for you, so trust him to do it again and ask for the grace to agree with him cos it looks like you've made up your mind.
Yes, if God is your father, do you only go to your father when you have problems or challenges?
ReplyDeleteDon't you greet him and hang out with him daily?
Why is it only in marriage and "fruits of the womb" that girls remember there is a God?
When you will be playing with your pussies and killing in your womb, you will not remember that he exists! Make una girls learn to relate with God always, he is not far away.
How many of you read your bible and prayed today?
Ok, how many of you were on social media today scouting for men?
Ok still, how many of you uploaded pictures to instagram today to display market?
Nobody can choose for you except you so make the right choice,forget about the spec stuff and choose the one that will treat you right.
ReplyDeleteBetween where is the queen and boss?
@ Pinochiode you are tellIng her B as if you are in her heart, u think say na Phd be everything...
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂
DeleteIf there is "no man" na wahala,
ReplyDeleteMan dump am, na wahala
she get two, na wahala
wetin babes want sef?
Poster u don't have problem.....
ReplyDeleteHia, girls too get issues
ReplyDeleteVery soon persin go write chronicle tell us that there is too much air to breathe
Go to God again in prayer
ReplyDeleteFollow ur instinct
ReplyDeleteDear poster, turn to the same God that heard your cry and sent you two men.
ReplyDeleteHe's faithful to give you the best always.
And I'm here as single as a pulpit.
God sent one man.
DeleteI dunno who sent the other to create confusion and distraction.
Halaba you dey craze.. Lol
DeleteFollow your heart. And follow your head...
ReplyDeleteWhich one.... Follow the two?
DeleteMr. A might remind you one day that you are the one that sought his company. Please still wait since you are confused. When It comes to matters of the heart it is best not to make rushed decisions.
ReplyDeleteSince God gave you the both to choose from, why not ask him to tell you the one who is after his ♥?
ReplyDeleteGod speaks in different ways and since the cookie hasn't been given out, your head is still very much clear.
Go to God again.
Why don't you go with Mr B, because Mr A might just start point out the age thing later, go with someone who is willing to make sacrifices for you.
ReplyDeleteLong live SDK
Apt...
ReplyDelete"...so i turned to God". Poster, kindly turn to God again and let HIM choose for u. HIS choice might not be ur spec, HIS choice might even be some otha guy but whichever one it is, just know dat HIS choice will be d best for u. If/when storms come, u can always holding HIM by HIS words/promises concerning ur marriage.
ReplyDeleteGo to HIM dear. HE speaks to us @ all times just dat our minds r too busy to hear/listen to HIM.
*u can always hold HIM
DeleteYou love both of them?
ReplyDeleteThe same way?
No
Talk to Mr A about his "non conversation " nature if u want to go for him
If it's Mr B try and introduce fun into his lifestyle.
Don't force it either way,you can't have it all.
Congrats in advance on your wedding.
Poster this advice is apt
DeleteMr B it is..Communication in marriage is veeeery important. A marriage cannot survive without communication.
ReplyDeleteIt looks like you are even the one pushing your relationship with Mr A.. the guy just dey use you dey 'catch trips'
ReplyDeleteIf it was that simple, I'd say B. You wear the shoe and you know where it pinches. Follow your heart.
ReplyDeleteStill talk to God to help you and I believe He will.
ReplyDeleteYou are a mature woman and at 30 i will assume that you will settle for the 34 years old who is MrB because he is mature and communicate with you on all level. It will be easy with him because he is also selfless so you will be his priority.
ReplyDeleteB ko, C ni....dont you have sense at all or do you think this is objective questions and answers segment. someone asked for advices and you are here choosing for her. if you dont know what to say then keep shut ma friend!
ReplyDeleteIsn't this cheating? You're dating a guy and having very long romantic phone calls with another to the point of discussing marriage with him! I believe the first guy is oblivious of this and probably putting in his all to see it work. The same women will come here and say "all men cheat". My wish is they both have sex with you and leave. I always laugh at guys that say "she's a good,responsible and homely girl". Ain't no woman like that. They're always looking out for a guy they feel is better.
ReplyDeleteNa wa for u oooo
DeleteI suggest you go for Mr B. This is someone who obviously loves you more than you love him- best recipe for a good marriage.
ReplyDeleteJust curious though...why is a PhD holder ready to change States. Is he jobless? Strange that he has no ties to keep him front packing up and joining you. Most old sch mates are not who they claim to be. Investigate properly and when you are sure he is honest, go for him.
All the best
Seconded
DeleteStill waiting for a proper chronicle! Incest, father used kids for juju?? Some iriri aiye kinda chronicle! Come on! 170 million of y'all! See poster mouth like mr a & b! Mtttcchhewww.
ReplyDeleteWrite your own horror story now abi??
DeleteI am one who loves communication, that's one of my top requirements. With communication, you can loosen be up to be a fun lover, since that's what you want as well. I'd rather a conversationalist than a fun lover, but that's me and you ain't me.
ReplyDeleteGo to a man of God that sees vision, come back and thank me.. Don't forget to pray personally and ask God to show you sign.
ReplyDeleteFor me I would choose Mr B..communication is the key
ReplyDeleteConfused women. So now communication is key? Not fat bank account, not big cassava?
DeleteLol @ annoymous.
DeleteUse ur head abeg, who is more mature and close to God.first
ReplyDeleteB.... Mr A will leave you at home with the children to continue with his hanging out and outgoing things. Go for the homely well balanced type.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteMr b
ReplyDeleteMost times our spec ain't the right choice....B sounds more promising please do not compromise any one willing to make a sacrifice for u Is worth keeping
ReplyDelete*cheers
Please go back to God in prayers, if you think you might still get confused, talk to your pastor or mum and pray about it together. There's power in united prayers, I believe God will come through for you!
ReplyDeleteMr b.
ReplyDeleteI won't marry a man that I can't communicate freely with. I have fun by making funny jokes and any man that I can't do that with is a No for me. So stick with who makes you happy by listening to your stupid jokes without making fun of you
ReplyDeleteThe fact that B is a wordsmith won me over. I love intelligent and articulate people.
ReplyDeleteBut, why not ask God for his opinion? No one can ever really know the heart of man like the creator of that heart.
You've gone to God before in desperation and heartbreak, why not in confusion?
I think deep down you know what you want!Think about it honestly...Don't be selfish with your thought.
ReplyDeleteYou don't want anyone abeg. I would advise that you choose mr b. His maturity would keep your relationship. Mr A fun and all would fizzle out and you would most likely be left with a baby. Choose with your head not your heart!
ReplyDeleteI think from ur description both are cool but does Mr b who decide to move to where you are has a work to cater for you and the new family u want to start building bcos money is important in marriage bcos raising a family no be moi moi consider many things b4 picking one of them.
ReplyDeleteB is the answer!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,ready to move cos of you?he no get work or business? And he is rich abi buoyant?and ready to relocate just like that?nne check am well ooo before they do you before you look the less you see.
ReplyDeleteIn essence,a man can confidently tell a woman to relocate knowing fully well that he can take care of the woman's needs in case if she didn't see job or business to do but for a guy,ermmm,relocation of business no be moi moi unless if he is working and transferred.anyways what do I know sef!
I'd be wary of the fun lover if i was you....
ReplyDelete@poster...Marriage goes beyond fun...because crisis will come and it takes God, love and stability to pull through. In my opinion, Mr. A seem to have better prospects career wise, temperament and all. Would u rather a talkative man or a party goer?..since u seem a little more extroverted than he is, you can pull him into your space..and complement each other, than have two extroverts..that'll bring disaster.
ReplyDeleteTrust me when u start having kids..real life will start and FUN alone will no longer suffice. Don't get me wrong not saying u should go for a cave man that'll bore u out, but a combo of heartfelt + well thought decisions is usually the BEST OPTION for taking important Life Steps like MARRIAGE.
Besides women tend to be more mature upstairs than men even when they are of the same age not to talk of when he's younger..he's clearly still in the boyish fun mode and u are probably still in the same mode too..but motherhood will snap u out of it...while "snapping out of it" happens faster for women, rather unfortunately it takes men a little longer.
My cousin had the same experience even though he was slightly older but in the Fun Mode..it took a couple of years for him to snap out of it...it's still not even 100%.
#my2cents#Choose Practicality over Day Dreams
May God Grant u understanding
Amen
*Silent Observer*
Anon speak on.......15:3
ReplyDeleteChoose C.
ReplyDeleteboth guys are cool, just choose one.the one ur heart goes out to truly,u know dat one deep in ur heart. better still gbensh both of dem & choose d one wey sweet u pass,d one u connect fully with
ReplyDeleteNow nobody is talking about how men are cheats. Hypocrites, women cheat more when single and men cheat more when married. Cheating is cheating. If you loved Mr. A you wouldn't give in to Mr. B,hence go for Mr. B. Na only mean own una go dy see.
ReplyDeletePoster thou art stingy; only u; two good men. U beta release one to me osiso....
ReplyDeletePoster thou art stingy; only u; two good men. U beta release one to me osiso....
ReplyDeleteSometimes,i ask my self as a guy..what do ladies really want?
ReplyDeleteOkay...i got a good job..good business....everytgung okay...my girlfriend told me,what got her attracted to me was that..."i am the positive type" always positive in all i do...not the pessimistic type.....in essence,you know what you looking for in a guy...go for the guy that got what you looking for...
BLUNT...I give you beyonce hands up.... Forget these ladies. Girl go tell you say she's single before una start to relate; immediately after una link up, you go observe say she dey always press fone, smile sheepishly, receive calls at odd hours. When you confront her, she go say; "we are just friends".
ReplyDeleteAll hell will be let loose, if reverse is the case ooooooo
I know d poster kind of persin....dem no dey ever dey serious....dem enjoy frolicking with guys anyhow under the guise of "my spec" when dem never find out if dem truly be the dude spec...(abi men no dey get spec too) kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa....
Thank you jare. Most time i just áct as if i see nothing.
DeleteWetin be my own.
How about you look for the one that loves God most and pick that one. So simple
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a three fold cord that consists of the husband, wife and God.
Younger lovers in this part of the world is a no no for me even if it's 5 mins younger , no respect.
ReplyDeleteFollow your heart
ReplyDeleteYes communication is key🔑. Stick with the one with the fear of God, someone that has a vision for the future, that respects and see the best in you. The one that gives you the most peace when you think of him. Goodluck 👍
ReplyDeleteGo for the older, more balanced, financially buoyant cos there's more to marriage than mere love ooo.
ReplyDeleteStella has said it all, all the best.
ReplyDeleteB is relocating for u means he puts ur needs before his...100 yards husband material
ReplyDeleteAfi ' Mr B is a wordsmith'.. Hahahaha!!! Na the wordsmith e don take catch you for job na.. My dear, go for that one that makes you laugh ALL THE TIME cos there'll be times when life would throw you a hard punch, trust me, na that goofy side of him go help you with soft landing.. Have you asked yourself why a grown ass man would be willing to move to ur state of residence just like that if he TRULY had something tangible where he resides in the first place.. Sweetheart, shine ur eyes!!!! He just found himself an excellent meal ticket and he ain't gon' take chances.. I think you should hold out on both guys for a bit.. Men always assume that once a lady clocks 30 esp an established one, then all that's missing in her life is a man so that's what they offer to get ur 100% attention.. HOLD OUT!!!
ReplyDeleteWithout communication, the relationship doesn't even exist. Follow your heart. Choose the one you know you would regret the most if you lost him.
ReplyDeleteSomeone up there said she should go for Mr B cos he's mature. Please, maturity is not in age o. And nothing changes if she wants Mr A,not even his age will matter if they have that connection she wants.
ReplyDeleteDear poster,pray to God for guidance
Honestly I don't think you are confused. You know you prefer, you're just looking for validation.
ReplyDeletePray n u will find who is best for you
ReplyDelete@Vivilous how shalllow can you be? So becos she is not yet gbensing either guys means she is not cheating abi? Fyi if u r in more than one relationship at a time, ure a CHEAT
ReplyDeleteDo you want to give both the cookie and see who stays? lol
ReplyDeleteTurn to God for direction.PRAY.
ReplyDeleteTurn to God
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