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Friday, February 16, 2018

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
IN LOVE WITH A MAN THAT IS BABY DADDY MATERIAL

Good day Stella,
I am a silent reader and lover of your blog which has actually become my bible being the 2nd thing I read in the morning after my daily devotional, all through the day and the last thing I read every night. I hope to get my blog id soon but until then and for the sake of this chronicle, I want to remain anonymous please, thank you.


It's a very long story but I will spare you the surrounding details and go straight to the point. I am an independent mature single lady and I'm getting desperate to have a child at least. I have this much much older married boyfriend, 50 thereabout. I started seeing him a couple of months back. He is very youthful physically and has that childlike free spirited nature albeit very very charming, considerate and humane.


 One way or the other, we stopped using protection which I did not mind because of my desperation to have a child for him(or any(good)body right now, Lol). He has never mentioned wanting to marry me but when he started removing protection, I warned him about getting me pregnant and he said he's too mature to deny getting me pregnant if he does. So I assumed we were even. I don't mind being a single mum as i have a very good paying job. I think it is better than being lonely, loveless, husband less and childless all at the same time. 


Afterall, some people were married, now widowed or divorced. Apologies to people in that category, I don't mean to sound insensitive. May the good Lord comfort you. Back to my story, it has been two months since removing protection and I have not missed my period. I am just learning to calculate and target my most fertile days and hope for the best.


Unfortunately, i am falling more in love with him by the day. I do not get the quality loving I desire from him due partly to the demanding nature of his job, his married life but most importantly his free spirited nature. He would be the same even if he was single. He hates to be tied down by anybody. Infact, the freedom I gave him to be himself is why he fell for me. 


Unfortunately, i am beginning to want more attention. I started feeling as if he was using me just for sex. I felt like doing away with him at some point. But I have remained faithful to him because I like him very much and because I won't want paternity questions to arise when I get pregnant. So in short, let's just say he has been using me for sex ( cos that's what i am now thinking) and I have been using him 'for sperm' (I wonder what his reaction will be if he finds out). My plan was to tag along for like those two months and get preggies. So i tried hard not to fall in love with him but he has such a good heart that you can't but love him. Especially when you give him what he wants... His freedom. He's the most courteous, non-pretentious and considerate man I know apart from my father. His only major weakness is that this good heart is not good enough for lovey-dovey stuffs except once in a while. Yet, he tries his best to be the best version of himself to make you happy.

 In fact, if you happen to tell him, he will wonder and may brood over what else he is not doing to make you happy.


What I need now is advice on how I can get the best of both worlds? I love romance. How can I get him to treat me more romantically? I cannot say he does not give me time. He can be by your side twelve hours straight but he won't tell you all those things ladies like to hear. Neither is it in his nature to do all those cuddly cuddly things for long. He only does them sparingly. He always has about a 100 thoughts in his head at one single time. My major turn off, is he doesn't cuddle after s3x. He believes we can be together and not be too close for comfort.


I know I'll get more attention when I give him a child cos that's his weakness. You can use his child to get anything out of him. That's what his wife does. However, i am getting a little concerned about that cos it has been two months now and i am not pregnant. Does anybody know how I can fast track getting pregnant? I have done some preliminary tests and I am fine. I believe he is too. He has three kids.


Bonus is that his wife is mismanaging him. She doesn't know how to get the best out of him, so they have fallen out of love. I am not saying she is bad but she is married to a bad boy who is a good man but she doesn't realise that. Or maybe just like me, she realises it but has had enough of his method of loving her. She probably wants him to speak her love language. Maybe become her Prince Charming which he can only be if you give him the freedom he so craves. Which is the exact problem I think I am having now too. How does one get this bad boy who is a good man to love you the way you like to be loved?


I want mature responses please. No curses from married women unless he is your husband. And even if he is, there is no where in this chronicle that says I want to take him from you. I just want my own baby and I hate the idea of unknown sperm donors.


Also, it is not my fault that I now need him to be more loving as he is a very jealous man. He has forbidden me to see any other guy. So wetin make I do?


Note that you can't give him conditions or force him to do things your way, it will only push him further away from you.That's his kind of person. You have to make it look like its his idea.

Abi should i kukuma leave him? (Chuckles)

Lailai, I'll rather manage him the way he is. Some of you single men are not even half as understanding, considerate, loving or humane as he is. I love him so much.


*I dont know what to say to this.....you sound like you have become a side zoned side chick...Please face your love story and leave his wife out of this,it is his version and not the original and even if it is,please mind your business...
Since it is only a child you want,why not go to a sperm Bank and do IVF?

133 comments:

  1. "He was using me just for sex"
    And "you were using him just for children"
    You are riding another woman's husband and want a family/husband of your own?
    Will you want to be in his wife's shoes?
    And you call yourself "mature"; in what sense?
    all the effort you made to justify your reckless philandering is baseless, you have played into God's court by attempting to put asunder what he has put together.
    Repent and leave that man; you will only end with heat break if you don't.

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    1. Did you say the end is "only heart break?"
      How about STI -you think she is the only side ashawo that he has?
      How about hell? -yes a burning hell is the eternal home of folks with such behavior; isn't it?

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    2. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmhhhh, I smell acid bath on this woman oooo!

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    3. Poster truth be told you are lying to your self and you know it. He is just a selfish man that uses women to satisfy his need for sex attention and admiration. I put it to you that this man has no respect for women. All of you shouting loneliness wake up ans ask single moms out there even with the child the loneliness is still there. Get pregnant and watch your play boy change into something else e go do you like film trick. Love your self abeg your self esteem is zero

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    4. This poster is a mad woman. Please leave his wife out of your madness. This man will cost you all you stand for including your job. You will never know PEACE or happiness. You water will turn bitter. Daughter of the devil. All you lay your hands on will turn to dust. I.am joining that midnight prayer to wreck you. Useless fool. Staying faithful to a married man
      This is all you will ever be good for. Dustbin

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    5. Poster, would u be happy if someone does this to your husband? Would you?. Why are you incurring the wrath of God upon yourself? Even the westerners who ain't so spiritual knows cheating is wrong on all levels. This isn't fair at all. That child u wish for will still suffer for this sins u r committing now. You think nemesis forgets?

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    6. Didn't even read to the end. Dating a married man? May the pain you're causing this man's wife dwell with you forever.
      I actually pray you find a husband who will bring in prostitudes daily to your matrimonial home and also beat you up like a criminal. Iseeee

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    7. May that pregnancy never happen with another woman's husband. As long as you keep being the reason or one of the reasons for another woman's sorrows, may you never find the love you seek. May a bigger problem fall on you such that thinking of another woman's husbands will be the last thing you want to do.
      May you die of loneliness treating one infection from one of your community penises.
      ASHAWO.

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    8. May your ovaries 'SEIZE TO FUNCTION' until you leave people's husband. Amen

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    9. Madam....you need to listen to words of wisdom. This man may be aware of your desire, that is, getting a child through him. Have you heard of men taking drugs that can prevent any lady they are dating from getting pregnant? It happens o. You really need to be sure he really want you to carry his child, if not, you maybe wasting your time.
      Sit down, think very well, know what you want and know the best way to get it. God can still give you your own husband.

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    10. Why do i feel like this is my friends husband? D, could this be your man?

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    11. Since you know how to manage the "bad boy good man" more than his wife do, why send a chronicle asking for advice.
      I don't cuss, but I think you are confused. If you want only his sperm, why bother on how to make him love you right, if you are not secretly nurturing the idea of snatching him from is family. I wonder how some people sleep at night.
      Single women always feeling they know it all, yet they can't keep a man, always ranting on how MARRIED women are doing it all wrong.
      Let see u drag a single man to the altar then we can talk. So pissed

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  2. cutlass, his wife is not managing him well abi? be excusing your foolishness.

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    1. Better know that you will never gain anything in this relationship, leave the married man alone and go adopt a baby if you are too lonely.

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    2. Poster pls allow that man to concentrate on his family. Leave him alone

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    3. God will punish you, ahh God will punish you, you say you don't want to steal him, then why are you looking for attention. My dear he doesn't cuddle Cus you are there for sex, these men love their wives forget what he told you, kai you are a mumu aunty gwe gwe.
      Do you know the pain most women go through knowing that their men betrayed their trust by birthing a child outside, would you have respected your father the way you do if he had done that to your mum?
      You will never get pregnant for him, that's all I have to tell you, if you like sleep with him on your peak it will never work

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  3. You need Jesus,ashweooooo,leave the man alone,ur his sex doll

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  4. Allow me to laugh all my energy away as I type this; just listen to yourself talking about being faithful to a MARRIED MAN, and giving a married man his freedom! Wow they are certainly using your destiny to sweep and mop the roads of Abakiliki! You want us to tell you how to get pregnant so you can TIE him down, which is your plan because if you just wanted to use him for sperm you would’ve done that long ago. They’ve fallen out of love and you believe?! What happened to finding your own man? What happened to finding an unattached man who may want to co-parent? You want to have an illegitimate child in the hope that this man will leave his wife for you or marry you as a second wife?



    HooHaa!
    I laugh in the heartbreak and despair loading for you. You think you’re the only one he’s sleeping with and is giving him “freedom”. Get pregnant and watch him cut you off like the fool you are. I can’t even be disappointed cos you’re not worth it. Let me go and show my married friends stories like this so we can do midnight fast on your head on behalf of this woman to turn her husband’s heart against you.

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    1. I love u this anon, me sef go join that una midnight fasting. Nonsense foolish home breaker.

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    2. As a fellow married woman ,I also agree with you married ladies in prayer saying,May that your womb single lady be barren and never receive any seed from that man but may it quickly open to conceive and carry a child when you separate from that man and look for a single guy to be with.

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    3. U think she can get a single man? Lai lai o, she no reachshe can't catch a single dude o, u dunno if she looks like akweke? Lol

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    4. abeg sign me up too.... i go join that prayer, 4get my status 4 now! bad ppl don de get mind

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    5. I go join the prayer too. Foolish gold diggers. Your give done block self cos the wife attends mountain of fire church..

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    6. Post the date for the fast, I go join,she must not scatter that home,in fact I have dropped this her chronicles inside Ark of judgment,she never see anything,useless olosho,home breaker,loneliness will destroy her.

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    7. Bia anonymous so you just took your time to type nonsense...
      So because a woman is dating with purpose(put it however you want)you call her foolish.Eyaah
      I guess you've forgotten that this is Africa and polygamy is allowed, or all this kings and societal figures marrying more than one wives they told you that the other wives after the nneku didn't start out as side chicks...Yimu
      My dear to each his own struggles or you've not seen or heard of a person finding love after marriage.NNE because I know that you're obviously a woman(Enemies of themselves)if you don't have any meaningful advice to give or know how to criticise constructively abeg go help Efcc find the missing 36m snake...
      Madam do whatever makes you happy after all if the mans wife was all that awesome he wouldn't have ever been distracted from the outside... Ehugs dearie

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  5. Jezzz!,..
    You see what I was saying about all these aunty gwegz!..
    They would date your husband instead of chopping and cleaning mouth,they would like to snatch him away from you!..
    Imagine this aunty planning to get pregnant to a married man without shame!...
    Tueh!...
    I don't know the man's wife but your plans would never work!...
    You will never get pregnant for him can we bet?...
    Useless aunty gwe gwe gwe that has wasted all her young age dating married men!...
    Thunder fire you there!!...

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  6. Second hand goods...he is giving wifey what u want ...crazy side hen..bcos u don pass chick.lv her hubby..there are matured single men n widowers to have a kid for...

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    1. Alot of agberos out there to do the thing with.. Yeye girl



      Mc pinky

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    2. @ poster A.K.A old layer !...leave person horseband and papa alone ooooo.BEFORE THUNDER FIRE YOU MEET YOU.

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  7. Hian. Are there no single guys to use for this your mission? if you have a good job and money is not an issue why go for a married man. I'm in support if you are concerned about age thing and not having a child and trying by all means but wanting to use a married man for that purpose in not in support. You want to break a home or what? I couldn't even finish reading.

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    1. anon.... why not stop bothering ursef... alot of single men out there but u know what

      This lady was nurtured by road side ashewo

      Mc pinky

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  8. This poster is suffering from brain tumor..

    Why all this epistle when u know u just want us to tell u how u can be preggy for another person's husband.

    My word for you

    Why not leave this man alone, if you are desperate to have a child and capable of being a single mum then go to yaba left, lot of men over there who can love you and get you preggy even with their brain brohaha


    Remember, so many mad pple at yaba left who has not had sex for the past 6years...the sperm go thick






    Mc pinky

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    1. Lol.. poster, BVs go nack pigeons for your head o.

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    2. lmao... mc pinky u talk true. One hand na twins

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  9. Let me use my church mind to advise you!...
    Go and look for a small boy to get you pregnant aunty!...
    This old married man cannot do it!!!...
    There are thousands of small single boys around you!...
    You don't need to tell the boy your reason for dating him!!...
    Leave another woman's husband alone if you really want to get pregnant!...
    This man is just enjoying your pussy and would dump you after drilling the only good thing left in you!...

    Who knows this man's wife let me tell her how to deal with this old woman?...
    Rubbish!!...

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  10. This is the most deceitful chronicle I've ever read!
    One question woman;
    If this man sacks his wife and proposes to you what will your answer be?
    That will show you how perverted and disingenuous you are towards another woman's husband. Whatever problem they are having at the moment is your making. Will you stay with a husband that you know is servicing another woman?
    Do to others as you would like then to do to you.

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    1. The truth is that this man will NEVER sack his wife for a whore. He doesn't want her sleeping around not cos he wants her to himself but cos he doesn't want an infection he Transfer to his darling wife.

      May poster's womb close up to any married man's sperm, AMEN.

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  11. Leave someones husband alone.

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  12. Madam you're just shameless.

    You dey follow person husband and you're bringing her into your confused state.

    May God forgive you.

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  13. You're looking foe a child, you're looking for cuddling, what the fuck????? Confused cockroach, u think a man that has 3children already will trip and come even closer just because of the child u think ull have for him? God is already on your case....TTC singles nonsense mpaaa srhama sebhatata

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    1. TTC has already started in her life, God has already shut her womb.

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  14. No need of "curse from married women?' Is that what you fear?
    How about God who has the power to throw you into hell?
    You are already threading a cursed route and anyone cursing you is wasting words.

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  15. This is why bad people never win. A good side chick knows her place, but look at you. You are now comparing yourself to the wife. I don't have a problem with runs girls, they know their place, but for people like you?, I'll get thugs to deal with you. Look at you opening your smelling mouth to talk about his wife. I don't blame you , he gave you the leverage. If he loves you, why can't he get a divorce??? Olodo Gambia. I bet you sow seed and pay tithe. Filthy thing

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    1. very filty woman! After rubbishing her youth age and now her eggs are rotten, she wants to destroy another womans home, home that she built from scratch.... whr were u wen she was drinkin garri with the man? Yahoo woman, wanting to scam a married mans sperm

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    2. Why would you say her eggs are rotten,abeg take it easy,it is insults like this that make people desperate to prove a point.

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  16. Madam you are living in your own world,where you have built castles in the air. In your mind your are miss perfect and his wife is mismanaging him. Better face reality. You wont get pregnant for him,as long as your intentions are not sincere. You are the type that once you get your way, you will be asking for more. Oliver twist oshisco. Husband snatcher like you. You will remain second best forever if you dont leave another woman's hubby alone.

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  17. I've been reading very idiotic chronicles but today's one is from a moron. Stella make sure you post this o.

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    1. Poster plz leave somebody's husband alone
      . There are alot of guys out there that are willing to give you belle and elope.

      Leave the man alone ah ah.
      Oh Chimo!

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  18. I'm not the same boat with the poster o, abi na the same man we dey follow sef

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  19. You need to see my face and posture as I read the trash you wrote up there. My dear the man does not love you at all, he is just having sex with you no feelings attached. As for his wife mismanaging him really? U are the mismanaged one jare! He goes home to her who are you to tell he is mismanaged my dear men will tell u their wives are witches just to sleep with you after that go home and clean his mouth. Please I got no advice for you wait let me tell you what my mind is saying his weakness are his kids not a child from you. You will be shocked when you discover that only if u give birth to something alien or outside a boy or a girl. Thank God you said you are ready to be a single mum. May God grant you your wish. Let me put the significant word here ( single, alone) that's how u asked for it, that's what u shall get. Wait are u so ugly u can't get a single man of your own to commit to u just wondering.

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    1. That is what baffles me,maybe she is not beautiful or good natured, or she's in her late 40s.

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  20. I'm in the same boat with the poster, abi na the same man we dey follow sef

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  21. You sound very very stupid,dull and very immature,u want to get pregnant for another woman's man???? Home wrecker,no wonder u are not yet married,u are only good to be used for sex,no man will want to wife someone that reasons like u,pls leave someone's husband alone ooo, ashawo,go and find urs,akpara mkpo,may u not get pregnant until u realise that that man is taken and can never be urs,I reject ur kind in Jesus name

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  22. Meanwhile, since he brought this on his family, you guys should go and do ivf, shebi he loves you and forbade you to see other people? Tell him you want a baby, abi is he wicked to make you barren for ever? Tell him that. Your menopause clock is ticking. Ps: I wish you could have seen him being lovey dovey to his wife on Wednesday. Bad boy persona my foot, it's so you you don't forget your place.

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    1. her brain is so shallow eh, chai... a married man that goes home to love his wife is giving u such conditions and ure nodding, did he promise u marriage? or a child? cant u see ure more like a sex doll that talks? Its clear that hes just up for the pleasure and to ruin u totally, he'd fuck u into menopause and go hug his kids at home last last, u hug blanket, mumu! Its this ur mumuism that kept u single till gwegz age! yet uv refused to acquire sense. Wake up bitch!!!!!

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  23. Na to mix concrete seal that your stinking hole better pass!

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  24. I’ve taken it upon myself to pray against you naked at midnight for 7 days. Get ready for what’s coming your way. Shameless She-Goat!

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    1. Heheh Pls do . This poster will never know peace and if she is not careful will continue to look for a child. The loneliness you fear so much shall be your portion. How dare you bring his wife and kids into your twisted mess. As you set out to break that woman's happiness and peace may yours never stand. Sleeping with him is not enough you want to have a child , ode!

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  25. This is not a chronicle. Jehofa over do has been helping you that is why you have the gut to spill out all these things. You're only informing us about your crooked ways and at the same time trying to console yourself about your insensitivity.

    You made reference to Divorcee and Widows. Hello!! Those people managed to get themselves some decent nihgas from onset before things got sour unlike you who though independent isn't good enough to attract a single guy.

    No amount of justification will work!

    Leave married men alone. You ladies are your own problems.

    How pathetic ladies shout all men are cheats all men are scum and all those slogans without taking notes of this category of ladies who are the ones pursuing married men.

    Ladies sort yourselves out!

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  26. I don't know but I feel dis chronicle is not real,like it's just a lonely person trying to gain attention,I don't want to believe somebody can be dis heartless,senseless, foolish,mad,shameless,brainless, worthless,useless and very selfish all at the same time,nah nah I don't want to believe it.

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    1. them plenrt oh, stupid ppl de well well, ive seen, so i believe this chronicle

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    2. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
      I guess so too.

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  27. Seeking affection from somebody else's husband. It's like u did not read the stories of side chicks dying in child birth abi. Continue. Hope it won't be too late for u to repent when karma comes knocking. With all these dumbness u want to become a mother.

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    1. Leave her na. Shebi it's pregnancy she wants.
      I laugh in Spanish

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    2. Stella Maris baby16 February 2018 at 19:32

      Confused lady with Confused Chronicle..

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  28. chai, this world don spoil finish!! watelse could we possibly see?
    Is he not withdrawing before he cums? abi ure banking on precum.
    He dsnt like to be tied down u say.... u think he wants to get u pregnant?

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  29. Hello ma'm, in sperm bank there is what is called biodata
    You describe the kind of man you want and they will look at the
    biodata; height, race, age, complexion, family/social history etc.
    and they will give you a match.
    In this case, you don't have "paternity issues" like you fear
    and that is peace of mind. Just do it and you will see yourself
    pregnant and happy.

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  30. No matter how old you say you are, you have the mental maturity and selfishness of a 16 year old. If you just want a child, take your chosen donor to a fertility clinic. And some how your choice just has to be a married man. So you couldn't see an unmarried man to be baby daddy? Kontinew!

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  31. I'm trying sooooooooo hard not to actually curse u now bcx dts what u deserve.

    U think he's ready to scatter his home?
    U think d wife is sleeping?
    My dear receive sense jare.
    U are being USED.

    So u think giving him a child would actually mk u able to get to him? Oh, how lonely and angry u are so gonna be if eventually dt happens.

    Look for ur own and remove eye from another woman's husband Aunty.

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  32. You xpect lovey dovey, attention & love, cuddles after sex, & whisper poems on bed.... are you his wife???? Poster, this game ure playing, youve already lost before the final whistle, why cant u see it?? At ur gwegz age, ure still "suspecting" ure his sex doll.... ofcourse thats what you are!! Lets even assume u take in & safely give birth, you think it'd all sail smooth as you've planned in ur head? Lives will be destroyed on the account of ur selfishness!

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  33. I'm trying sooooooooo hard not to actually curse u now bcx dts what u deserve.

    U think he's ready to scatter his home?
    U think d wife is sleeping?
    My dear receive sense jare.
    U are being USED.

    So u think giving him a child would actually mk u able to get to him? Oh, how lonely and angry u are so gonna be if eventually dt happens.

    Look for ur own and remove eye from another woman's husband Aunty.

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  34. "he is a bad boy with a good heart...he is jeous n has forbidden me 2 see any other man...i'm begining 2 fall in love with him...nothing in dis chronicle says anything about taking him away, i just want babies..." a lot of things is wrong with dis chronicle buh one tin is certain which is dat u re lonely n u re scared of a real relationship so u want babies cos dey cant hurt u. However, ur desperation would make u miss beautiful opportunities in love n life.

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  35. Poster, you sound so sincere and confident yet, so wrong. You are wrong to have believed that you cannot get a man who can and will love you the way you should be loved, even at your age. You have therefore sentenced yourself to this shameful and dangerous option of shagging a married man. Remember, there are always consequences to our every decision and action in life.

    Hawk-Eyed!

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  36. Well in my humble opinion, of course without offending anyone who thinks differently from my point of view, but also by looking into this matter in a different way and without fighting and by trying to make it clear, and by considering each and every one's opinion, I honestly believe that I completely forgot what I was going to say.

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    1. This ur comment actually made me laugh so hard. The poster chronicle could make someone to forget what they want to say.

      Poster, leave person husband alone. Go to a sperm bank and have ur baby.

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  37. Very funny indeed. See why young ladies are dropping dead like flies. You want somebody's husband to love you more, spend more time with you, cuddle you after sex and all other sorts of foolishness. So while you get all these, what will happen to the wife? Imagine the nerve of you saying she does not know how to love her man, and you do right? Lover girl. You want a baby, lol. You side hens don't know where to draw the line I swear. kpele ooooo

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  38. I wonder why a lot of single ladies out there find it more appealing dating married men. The thing is ... Married men become more desirable because they have been through a process with their wives hence they have become mature and bring out their best.
    Why not look for a man you can grow with, through the pains and gains together? Why do you want to so desperately destroy what another woman has built along with her man?
    I think it is unfair. Please, look for your own man and build your life with.

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  39. I know I'll get more attention when I give him a child cos that's his weakness. You can use his child to get anything out of him- that's your quote up there. oya, clap for yourself. i hate to call people names but you're very stupid and a thief. God will not allow you to break another woman's home with three kids. your plans will never work.

    look for a guy, pay him and get pregnant since all you want is a child. Remember, karma and what you sow you will reap.
    No aspirations anymore that you can get a decent single guy to marry because you are obsessed with a married man. God will so disappoint you with that your evil plans. Your chronicles is still unfolding. Agbaya

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  40. were re o, look at you proud to wants to break another woman's home, is that pregnancy you are eager to have that will send you to early grave, oloriburuku omo irankiran,alayebaje,fobosofo.

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  41. Madam is that wat he told u? That his wife is “mismanaging him”? And that they’ve fallen out of love? Hmmm n u blvd him? Until the lion tells his side of the story, the tale of the hunt will always glorify the hunter.

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  42. Bonus is that his wife is mismanaging him. She doesn't know how to get the best out of him, so they have fallen out of love. Abi na ...... As the professional love doctor you are, you have his complete dosage.

    leave them alone , let them sort their challenges. You are nothing but a distraction.

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    1. Imagine o. "They have fallen out of love" like it's her place to determine that. The effrontery!

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  43. Dear Poster, I love your objectivity but why married man. I'll suggest you choose a single, mature & understanding guy or go for widower instead. I can counsel you privately.

    SKY...

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    1. Sky ke? Please change it to ground cos you’re as dull as this poster. Which objectivity? She only wants sperm then she’s falling in love? She gives him freedom yet wants to cuddle and hang on him. She’s contradicting herself with every sentence and you’re here praising her objectivity. She must be your relative because this kind of stupidity is definitely hereditary!

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  44. No comment because as you said, you are matured but only in age because you are not wise at all. Sort your self esteem out first.

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    1. A VERY VERY VERY foolish poster. She doesn't even know what she wants. '.....Apart from my father' so you have a father and you want to ruin someone else's home. You sound so confused...I juat feel sorry for you. You matured but your brain didn't at some point

      'They are falling out of Love
      'Doesn't understand love language
      'I am using him'
      'I love him'
      'I want romance'

      Very stupid woman I swear!

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  45. I will not curse or abuse you but I will replay your exact words to you. He loves his freedom YET he married another lady. He is not loving towards you. He does not cuddle after sex. He is using you for sex. You are desperate for a child. Hmm. Have you even thought beyond your own needs and towards the needs of the child? A child conceived in adultery and via deception on top of that. Wow! You are a very bold lady. I feel so sorry for you. You know that people reap what they sow right? Before you think I don'r understand, I am also a mature woman of 52. I am not married and I would NEVER be a mistress or side chick. Not because I am holy holy but because I have God given morals and values. Keep rationalising what you know in your heart to be wrong. LIke I said I will not abuse you but pray for mercy on your soul. I will uplift the poor wife in prayers. I pray God will fight ruthlessly on her behalf.

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    1. OMG, i wasn't gonna comment today but your comment pushed me. You're blessed and wise, may the God of Ruth bless you. Look, before this year ends you ll meet a special and God sent man that ll marry you and treat you right and the God of Sarah will give you children. For upholding the truth, laughter and joy shall be yours henceforth. Amen. Holy Ghost confirm!

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    2. May the God that has never failed or lied bless you with your own true loving husband in Jesus name, Amen. It is done. Thank you Lord.

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    3. May God Bless this woman this year and for life.

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  46. Really..u are dating a married man...u don't want to be jughed, insulted or even hear the truth..so what do u want...loving another persons husband and u think u are better than his wife..pls go for ivf ..I just feel u are self-centered person

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    1. Even IVF will not work for her. She has an evil heart.

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  47. Lol! It's stories like this that make SDK very entertaining. Like I always say, some posters already know the answer to questions they ask on this blog and need our advice to validate it. Do what pleases you ,poster .It is well.. .

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  48. HAHAHAHAHAHA
    Never in my life have I seen such foolishness
    Nne you are no longer a side chick, you are now a side mama
    A sidepiece at 40.....
    Look at how you brought your foolishness to this blog
    What do you want us to tell you
    Of course you cant get pregnant cos the wife's prayers have blocked your womb and frozen your ovaries
    what does an old haggard idiot have to offer asides expired pussy that water has even dried inside
    Instead of you to pray that God will loose you from this shackle of foolishness, you are here casting the wife
    Chai! I feel sorry for you
    This is how most unintelligent side chicks end.
    Wasting their youth away with a married man, and fighting with the wife for attention
    The smart ones will use the man and limb the ladder of progress, jump out and get married timely, but the foolish ones will think their boobs will never sag and their pussies will never dry up.
    You want him to show you romance? Nne your case is hopeless., Kayanmata cant even work for you.
    Be there and be wasting your productive years , being faithful to a man who goes back to his wife and 3 children every night
    You are cesspit, he dumps him frustrations, woes and pressure on you and goes to love the wife
    Shame!(In cersi lannister's voice)

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    1. I didn't even finish reading the stupidity! I would have been gulped it if she stuck to her needing a child from him alone. Not this gibberish she's writing.

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  49. Its been long i made a comment but i need to comment on this post.

    Madam. u are "madding" as in ur madness is a continuous process. See the gibberish u're writing over another woman's husband. In ur mind now,it is you who knows how to bring the good boy out of the bad boy. "He has fallen out of love with his wife".....so he told you! If truly he doesnt love his wife anymore, why hasnt he divorced her and marry you who ur myopic mind thinks he loves? Keep deceiving urself.

    You want a child and you cant find your own man, abi? It is another woman's husband you want to have a child for. The same rubbish and frolicking u did upandan that u wasted all ur youthful years and now u're desperate. If u're that good and know what it takes to keep a man, why were u not able to hook a man all these years?

    Now listen, God isnt a wicked God. Your prayers to have a child for another woman's husband can never be answered simply because u cant build your happiness on another woman's sorrow.....so carry ur left legs and go for IVF or get your own man.

    Side chicks be thinking they know how to treat a man better than his wife. Yeye dey smell. mtcheeeeewwww

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  50. This guy is a legend!!! So Babe he has managed to convince you that he deserves his freedom whilst still been married, doesn’t want you seeing anyone else, and makw you also think that he’ll give you a baby without any tangible commitment. Hands up to you and him jare. Nothing do una! Carry go.

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  51. The man you are talking about i swear his my ex let me tell u i chased him away cos he will continue wasting your time till you are useless,if you think you wan get belle abeg go ahead but mind u,u will have to cater for the baby till the rest of you like mark this day because he will never and never marry u.This guy u are talking about stay on the mainland around ijaiye axis just bone story OYO LOWA

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  52. You are very funny poster..... Do you really want us to encourage or teach you how to get pregnant for another woman's husband? Common madam it isn't fair at all.......... You can get a single guy to get you pregnant since you are financially capable. If you try to get pregnant for that man, he will run away.

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  53. Chai!!! I didn't know we have ladies that still think this way in 2018! Madam go for a young man that may end up falling in love with you and you will have a happily ever after.

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  54. @ Poster you have said it all! He is a bad boy who wants his freedom and does not do all the lovey dovey a woman craves for.

    My advise,

    1. If baby is your main priority, you have to stop falling in love with him. Get pregnant, have your baby and no strings attached
    2. There is no way you are going to have a baby with him and still allow him the freedom he wants. I believe this is the current situation his wife is, which you have termed as "mis manage" .

    You need to define your priorities, you can't eat your cake and have it!

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    1. Best advice.
      Forget all the saints insulting you here and focus on ur priority which is having a child of your own.

      Advice is dump him when u realise u are pregnant den travel out to put to birth ur baby.

      When u come back, get a side boo and take kia of ur child

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  55. Hmm... just reading comments. This seems to be bigger than me.

    I'm trying to understand the kind of situation you are in.
    You also try and put yourself in his wife's shoe.

    Aunty, you no do well by loving another woman's husband.

    #Atagara

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  56. This is the most sincere and mature whore i have ever heard. @ SDK, she said and i quote 'i love him' even when she knows he is legally married with three kids so free her.

    Any girl that goes to her BF's house and collect T fare after fcuk is also a whore. Sooner you ladies knows that single faithful guys are not much, the better for you to be the second wife/baby mama.

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  57. Cast a stone if you are a saint.

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    1. Another whore. What saint???
      Okay I will because I have never desired another man's wife. Where is she let me cast my 'block' and hope she doesn't recover from the bruises.

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    2. It's okay to be a sinner. Jesus died for sinners. But don't be a foolish sinner

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  58. Dear poster.
    I think you just have heartbreak and sadness loading for you. You are falling in love with what is not and never going to be there for you. Marriage is much deeper than just " falling out of love". Until you are married, you won't understand. This man is "using you for sex" and you don't mind? Because in your mind you are "using him for sperm"? And you cant ask yourself what is your gain if you dont get pregnant? Are you so cheap?He loves his freedom yet you want to tie him down? My advice is for you to turn back from this road of heartbreak, disappointment and self manipulation you are on. It's leading to nowhere but shame. If you want a child, you can always go the straight pathway of a sperm donor. But this is what it is. Home breaking. And nothing good is coming out of it. Trust me.

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  59. Chai! Who are these anonymouses o??? Miss poster, I would have said what I would have said but you and I know that whether I say it or not, it is what it is.

    Shame on you!

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  60. At your age madam you actually think that Man hasnt seen through you?also you think that man might not be on some sort of contraceptive or you think its meant for just women? See the way u are comparing your self with his wife, i am sure that is what he fed you with.if the wife is such a "mismanager" why is he still with her? Dae there make pant dae wear you.from what u wrote you are not just trapping his sperm to have a child but plotting to become a madam u will never be. These kind of men have sense more than you think.

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  61. poster you are just being greedy... leave another woman's husband alone...anyhow you like sugar coat your story..it doesn't make it right.. be civil and receive sense

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  62. If truly you are medically sound yet not getting pregnant,I think two things are involve,is either Oga has separated his sperm or madam is a prayer warrior.
    Besides dont you think this will be too unfair to his family? I am sure you know the end result of what you are about to do....you are about to break another woman's home.sorry to say but I think you are a very manipulative person.if truly what you want is a child and not a home,then go for a single guy and be a babymama.but I think you want more than that and is the reason this chronicle came up.madam leave another man's wife alone.

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  63. Dear Poster, the truth is that you love this man and to keep him. That's why you want to have a child for him. But my dear he is not worth it. The heart is not so smart. Use your brain and let him go. He is attractive to you because he belongs to another person. Once you have him for keeps he becomes just like every other man you have known. Don't worry you will get a man who will love and respect you. Married men have no respect for side shows. They are users. Let him go and wait for your own. I got married at 45. He is not a widower, no previous marriage, no children. Give it time-love will find you.

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  64. My dear where did you leave your senses? Did the wife tell you all that? You want us to teach you how to snatch another woman's husband?? O ga oooo


    Chikito's fan

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  65. One of the main reasons why I love this blog Is this apart from educating, entertaining interesting and others no encouragement for all these Yeye side chick they all think we are all shallow minded like them but mbah.
    To the poster, when most of you have wasted your precious time in your youth days you now start disturbing other people's husbands

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  66. Poster in as much as I am trying to understand your condition I still feel you are forcing yourself on a man who doesn't care a bit about you,he is only taking advantage of your desperation(which by the way has drown all your sense of reasoning).I know you are mature & probably has advanced in age,plus you stated you can perfectly take care of yourself & a baby,therefore I advice you leave this man & look for someone else who will value you,give you the attention you crave(could be a single guy,even if he is broke,or u find someone comfortable like a widower or a married man that is willing to marry you, whatever).
    No matter how we try to pretend & act like it doesn't exist ,some men still want polygamy.

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  67. why is nobody blaming the man? did she force him? most of you people are acting frustrated! is it today men have been marrying more than one wife

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    1. Who told you he wants to marry her?

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  68. Hehehe you never chichomtin. You will TTC till you leave person husband. When God is busy answering prayers of genuine women who are TTC, he'll have time for you wicked soul.

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  69. Dear poster.
    I think you just have heartbreak and sadness loading for you. You are falling in love with what is not and never going to be there for you. Marriage is much deeper than just " falling out of love". Until you are married, you won't understand. This man is "using you for sex" and you don't mind? Because in your mind you are "using him for sperm"? And you cant ask yourself what is your gain if you dont get pregnant? Are you so cheap?He loves his freedom yet you want to tie him down? My advice is for you to turn back from this road of heartbreak, disappointment and self manipulation you are on. It's leading to nowhere but shame. If you want a child, you can always go the straight pathway of a sperm donor. But this is what it is. Home breaking. And nothing good is coming out of it. Trust me.

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  70. people that are sleeping with someone else's husband are also advising this poster.lol...hypocrites

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  71. A man with family, should give lesser time to his wife & kids & more time to you.
    Probably move out of his home he built w his wife for probably more than 10 years and move to u?
    And u want to have a child w him, so u can be in his life forever & bring an unending heartache to his wife.
    How can u be dis selfish, inconsiderate, self centred & wicked?
    Or are u ill-mannered, so ugly & deformed and gwegs dat u are so blessed & privileged for him to look & want u for sexual benefit only?
    I know u will still do what u want, but remember life is a boomerang.

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  72. The man has probably done a vasectomy procedure. Wake up! He can't give you a baby.

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  73. He likes you because you give him his freedom but now you want more attention
    He is a bad boy that is a good man (A good man is a man that cheats on his wife right)

    Bonus is that his wife is mismanaging him and you want to manage him better right?

    You said they are falling out of love ,who told you that?
    Are you living with them?
    You said you don't want to snatch him but you are looking for ways to make the bad boy love you of which you said thats the exact problem you think the wife is having.
    So many things are wrong with th

    Please read your chronicle again and advice urself.

    It is well with your soul IJN.

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  74. This one na retired feminist...... She finally realized she is running out of time. You are doing the right thing but in the wrong way and with the wrong person...... Doppelganger & chikito should come & talk to their fellow feminist!

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  75. Side chicks are becoming more daring. Can you imagine? So you want us to advise you on how to make someone's husband love you? It shall never be well with tortoise.

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  76. May you never have peace in your life for Intentionally engaging in such life.

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  77. My dear I understand you are desperate to have a child... what if the man did something that no matter what, you will never be pregnant for him? Or you think the man doesn't know what he is doing? ... please leave somebody husband alone and find yourself a single guy who is looking for a rich girl to date. As it is, all you need is a sperm donor. Good luck

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  78. VeryConcernedMale16 February 2018 at 22:23

    Poster:
    1. He wants you to not see anyone else so he does not catch a disease. It is not jealousy, it is not love, it is us not wanting you to catch a disease so we die or pass it on to the unfortunate wife at home and kill her off.

    2.His wife is not mismanaging him, she is actually just being a married woman. No man should be given freedom to "be himself" to disrespect himself, his union and his family. It is only a person with low self esteem that would accept a man doing that.

    3. He can not cuddle with you because he is not obligated to, some like him cuddle but every cheat has their threshold. His is being lovey-dovey.

    4. You are just realizing he is using you for sex?? What do you think both of you were doing? Building an actual relationship?

    5. Children are not play things, you want to subject your child to a life of a mother who was sleeping with a married man who does not respect her? You honestly think he would bring you closer if you have a child with him? He does not play with his children but he plays around on his wife. What makes you think your own will be different. He will cater for the child but there is nothing you really have to offer that will make him treat you any better than his wife.

    6.You have a good job but obviously you are not all the way sharp. In this new age of competition, I do not see how you have the smarts to keep a job and sail higher to cater for a child. You are not the most logical person, your entire chronicle was incoherent and smacked of immaturity. I hope you are not more than 22 years of age. If you are older, you have missed the mark somewhere.

    7. Please do not breed until you understand what parenting means and also until you are able to reason like an adult.

    Love,

    Very Concerned Male

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    1. @ Very Concerned Male, you is intelligent.
      Articulated and honest.
      Confused poster, heed to this advice, it is coming from a place of love.

      Go for a single guy that has little or no baggage. If you get pregnant, and he's willing to walk down the aisle with you, beautiful!
      If not, you are highly welcome to the association of baby mamas,and since you are financially stable, no biggie!
      OR
      You jejely go for IVF.
      I will not insult you, but I hope that you make a good decision that will not come back years later to 'hunt'you.

      Biko BVs make una softly dey cuss, haaai!

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  79. Leave someone husband alone!!!!!!!!!

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  80. Poster, you're in love with him so you might not understand things. He doesn't want to catch feelings that's why he does all those things,he probably has had a vasectomy too. Men lie about their home affairs, they make you see their wives in a bad light. My annoyance is that this nonsense married man has smartly tied you down,he knows you are in love with him and can ask you to do what he wants then he pretends that he’ll give you your desire(a child)
    Nne move on from this man(stay away from married men), focus on yourself, and figure out exactly what you want(love and/or kids) and work towards getting it. I pray love finds you soonest

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