My Friday is going well and as you read this,I am blogging from my Kitchen....I made a little cosy area in my Kitchen for when I work....who wants to see?
I am roasting drum sticks in the oven and cooking fried rice....well concoction fried rice ooooooh...hehehehehehehehehehe *wink*
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EMEMRGENCY ADVICE NEEDED
i am in my late 30s, in a relationship with a lazy man. He doesnt want to get up and do anything. i have sent his cv out, prayed and fasted...i feed him although we dont live together. we had an issue a few months back and i met someone else. within 3 months we are marriage bound. he is gainfully employed,very good christian and my kind of man.
I should love him but i dont. now my lazy boo is back, behaving more seriously and actually trying to sort himself out unlike before. i am confused. new boo wants to marry asap as in asap and its what i want but i feel kind of confused.
I need advice pls. i dont know what to do,i am usually very put together but i am confused.
What do women really want?You complain one is lazy and a better one comes along and now you are confused...if a man had to choose he would choose easy...please forget the lazy boo and go for the one who excites you..A lazy spouse is a nightmare.
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TROPOPHOBIA
All hail the queen and boss of blog(geria) I am in a dilemma and need your opinion that of other BVs here. I am a graduate and earnestly seeking for a job. A friend offered to wet the ground for me in her company(a construction coy) so I could get employed there.
The issue now is that this company is in Lagos while I am in Kaduna(sad sigh). The monthly take-home package is less than 100k,but I will have to sort out logistics such as accommodation. I am not used to to Lagos lifestyle(I have never been there) so I don't know if a job with that pay is worth it. PS the company is in Victoria Island.
Thank you Stella as I await your red pen(E slap possibly) and that of your bvs.
Moving to Lagos is not easy,that 100k pay without a place to stay is nothing..Please stay where you are if you cannot arrange accommodation and the rest....You dont know how long you can hold the new job.....These kind of risks not worth it.
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WHEN SHOULD A MOTHER STOP
Dear Stella,
Good day to you, please i will want house to weigh in on this matter.
At what age should a mother stop bathing with her daughter, i have a girl of 22months and shes used to us having shower together at night, some days ago i told my cousin to bath her but she refused, my cousin stays with me oo and bath her in the morning before going to drop her in creche, i had to carry her and we bath together with no cry, i even want to poo before bath so i had to put her outside the door which she refused until she stayed with me and play with water till i was done.
The reason Y am asking this is that , while bathing she will tell me mummy wash bombom, if i turn my back view in the process of bathing, she will touch my bombom and say mummy see bombom , dont touch it oo ..Mind you i have introduced the teaching of nobody should touch the bombom and chest to her and her teacher in creche also lecture all of them because of this pedophiles rampant everywhere even your relation.
Mothers in the house, pls what age can this be stopped and which other way can be this teaching be done without preaching another thing to them. I tire for exposing the kids to things like this.
Huh!!!...Swimming together with a child is OK but bathing together is not something i did ..I dont think its OK,you need to stop now!
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A MARRIED WOMANS RANT
Hi Stella
Straight to the point!
I am married with two kids and I am sex starved.
I used to be very active in the other room and had this explorative mien. Brief background, I used to masturbate a lot and even tried s#x with a girl once of which I enjoyed, but it was a conscious effort from me not to add lesbianism to my other vices (masturbation and alcohol: yes I loved drinking) So, I cut the babe out of my life totally.
But now, jeez! I miss being active, I mean good one( the one we both have to explore out bodies before the penetration) Why? The person i am married to is a drunk! Yes drunk!! But not the kind of drunk that misbehaves in public though, the kind that sleeps off when he is drunk.... I mean long hours sleep.
As it is, I am no longer attracted to him. I don't even try to make the move to initiate s#x again with him. Because he smells...bad.That combination of sweat, alcohol and cigarette smell? And yet he will refuse to take a shower. As in, his hygiene is on zero level! Sometimes after that long sleep, he wakes up with a terrible mouth odour from the above reasons and wants to have s#x. How now, I just stylishly excuse myself and masturbate.
Some of you may say, why don't I try tell or force him to shower... My people I have tried, to no avail. I have not seen a mature man that just doesn't care about his hygiene. When you see him, he cuts a picture of a neat looking guy(mostly when he hasn't drank though) and he has a professional Job.
After two kids, I still look pretty and trim. Infact, some of my bosses are on my case, but can't bring myself to doing that, because I honestly am not a freak, don't fancy dicks. My thoughts always are 'is it not just dick, let me just masturbate jare and feel good'
I just finished masturbating for the upteenth time and decided to rant. But honestly, deep down, I crave for that touch from a nice smelling dude.
Thank you.
*I visualised the smell and i am so irritated....Will you live like this forever?
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COMMENT SECTION RANT
Lemme rant,i have two guys am dating one is dark and the other one is light,i started dating the dark guy,b4 I met the other guy,i agreed to date the other guy due to emotional violence am facing with the dark guy,he does not care,so full of himself,very proud...most of the time I will be the one calling him,if I go to his house the only thing he can offer me is sex,nothing again...many times I will go to his house,there will no be food,only indomine...
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EMEMRGENCY ADVICE NEEDED
i am in my late 30s, in a relationship with a lazy man. He doesnt want to get up and do anything. i have sent his cv out, prayed and fasted...i feed him although we dont live together. we had an issue a few months back and i met someone else. within 3 months we are marriage bound. he is gainfully employed,very good christian and my kind of man.
I should love him but i dont. now my lazy boo is back, behaving more seriously and actually trying to sort himself out unlike before. i am confused. new boo wants to marry asap as in asap and its what i want but i feel kind of confused.
I need advice pls. i dont know what to do,i am usually very put together but i am confused.
What do women really want?You complain one is lazy and a better one comes along and now you are confused...if a man had to choose he would choose easy...please forget the lazy boo and go for the one who excites you..A lazy spouse is a nightmare.
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TROPOPHOBIA
All hail the queen and boss of blog(geria) I am in a dilemma and need your opinion that of other BVs here. I am a graduate and earnestly seeking for a job. A friend offered to wet the ground for me in her company(a construction coy) so I could get employed there.
The issue now is that this company is in Lagos while I am in Kaduna(sad sigh). The monthly take-home package is less than 100k,but I will have to sort out logistics such as accommodation. I am not used to to Lagos lifestyle(I have never been there) so I don't know if a job with that pay is worth it. PS the company is in Victoria Island.
Thank you Stella as I await your red pen(E slap possibly) and that of your bvs.
Moving to Lagos is not easy,that 100k pay without a place to stay is nothing..Please stay where you are if you cannot arrange accommodation and the rest....You dont know how long you can hold the new job.....These kind of risks not worth it.
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WHEN SHOULD A MOTHER STOP
Dear Stella,
Good day to you, please i will want house to weigh in on this matter.
At what age should a mother stop bathing with her daughter, i have a girl of 22months and shes used to us having shower together at night, some days ago i told my cousin to bath her but she refused, my cousin stays with me oo and bath her in the morning before going to drop her in creche, i had to carry her and we bath together with no cry, i even want to poo before bath so i had to put her outside the door which she refused until she stayed with me and play with water till i was done.
The reason Y am asking this is that , while bathing she will tell me mummy wash bombom, if i turn my back view in the process of bathing, she will touch my bombom and say mummy see bombom , dont touch it oo ..Mind you i have introduced the teaching of nobody should touch the bombom and chest to her and her teacher in creche also lecture all of them because of this pedophiles rampant everywhere even your relation.
Mothers in the house, pls what age can this be stopped and which other way can be this teaching be done without preaching another thing to them. I tire for exposing the kids to things like this.
Huh!!!...Swimming together with a child is OK but bathing together is not something i did ..I dont think its OK,you need to stop now!
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A MARRIED WOMANS RANT
Hi Stella
Straight to the point!
I am married with two kids and I am sex starved.
I used to be very active in the other room and had this explorative mien. Brief background, I used to masturbate a lot and even tried s#x with a girl once of which I enjoyed, but it was a conscious effort from me not to add lesbianism to my other vices (masturbation and alcohol: yes I loved drinking) So, I cut the babe out of my life totally.
But now, jeez! I miss being active, I mean good one( the one we both have to explore out bodies before the penetration) Why? The person i am married to is a drunk! Yes drunk!! But not the kind of drunk that misbehaves in public though, the kind that sleeps off when he is drunk.... I mean long hours sleep.
As it is, I am no longer attracted to him. I don't even try to make the move to initiate s#x again with him. Because he smells...bad.That combination of sweat, alcohol and cigarette smell? And yet he will refuse to take a shower. As in, his hygiene is on zero level! Sometimes after that long sleep, he wakes up with a terrible mouth odour from the above reasons and wants to have s#x. How now, I just stylishly excuse myself and masturbate.
Some of you may say, why don't I try tell or force him to shower... My people I have tried, to no avail. I have not seen a mature man that just doesn't care about his hygiene. When you see him, he cuts a picture of a neat looking guy(mostly when he hasn't drank though) and he has a professional Job.
After two kids, I still look pretty and trim. Infact, some of my bosses are on my case, but can't bring myself to doing that, because I honestly am not a freak, don't fancy dicks. My thoughts always are 'is it not just dick, let me just masturbate jare and feel good'
I just finished masturbating for the upteenth time and decided to rant. But honestly, deep down, I crave for that touch from a nice smelling dude.
Thank you.
*I visualised the smell and i am so irritated....Will you live like this forever?
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COMMENT SECTION RANT
Lemme rant,i have two guys am dating one is dark and the other one is light,i started dating the dark guy,b4 I met the other guy,i agreed to date the other guy due to emotional violence am facing with the dark guy,he does not care,so full of himself,very proud...most of the time I will be the one calling him,if I go to his house the only thing he can offer me is sex,nothing again...many times I will go to his house,there will no be food,only indomine...
Sometimes I do give him small money,the light guy is opposite of the dark guy,that one is very caring,he does not have but the little he has he gives without asking him,d problem NOW is any spiritual place I go dey will say I should not marry light skin guy,but the dark guy am dating is proud,he felt he is doing me a favour,that is what I think cos of his behaviour,the light guy also have his flaws but at least he is still better,and he is ready to settle down whereas the dark guy is not ready fr NOW.
Should I go ahead and marry the lite guy despite what seers are saying that he is not my husband?
Please I need a 2bedroom apartment in Sangotedo. Budget is 450-500. Or a mini flat for 350. Please BVs, help me. I and my kids are homeless.
08083044618
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LAND FOR SALE
I have a 50 by 100 fenced land to sell in Calabar, located just around 8 miles by Tinapa junction. Contact me on 08087621076 for enquiries
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Nikkys Fashion Corner offers you fashion items that are bang on trend, quality and price. We are the best thing to happen to your wardrobe.
Call/whatsapp: 08028354095
Email: nikkysfashioncorner@gmail.com
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PALM KERNEL OIL FOR SALE WITH FREE DELIVERY
Pure unadulterated locally made palm kernel oil. Suitable for hair and skin. It aids hair growth, avoids hair falling off by making it fuller and thicker. It's a great and fast remedy for dandruff and itchy hair. It contains anti oxidants and provides anti aging benefits. For a healthy and youthful skin, get one today.
Location is Abuja but I can deliver nationwide. Free delivery to Abuja BVs. There's a10% discount when you order for two bottles or more. Please place your order today. 08032361269.
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VACANCY
Sales representative, female.
Qualification: ssce
Salary: 15,000 naira with sales bonus when target is met
Location: Ifako Gbagada
Work time: 7am-4pm
Start date: September 3
If interested kindly send a message to 08074428280.
Please you must be cool, calm, ready to learn, friendly and DRAMA FREE.
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AUTO GELE
We make your regular OLD AND NEW head ties a lot easier, and indeed AUTOMATIC. Just strap it on your head, and you are good to go. Withstands rigour and cant loose. Its affordable, Price ranges from 5-9k. Slightly negotiable. 08077778991.
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We are currently offering discounts to all customers and free delivery within Abuja metropolis.Visit our page,like,share and patronise us, you'll be glad you did.
Ig: @shoesnstuffng Call/whatsapp: 08056122966
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TO LET (LEKKI/ AJAH)
1) For rent... A 4 bed room terrace duplex with two sitting rooms, shortly after Pinnock Beach Estate via Circle Mall, Jakande, Lekki
Rent is 2.4m/ annum
2) To let... A nice Mini flat inside Femi Okunnu estate, Jakande, Lekki
Pay and pack in.
Rent is 700k/annum
Service charge: 100k
3) Brand new 3 bedroom flat (all rooms ensuite), inside Westwood estate, Badore,Ajah.
Upstairs: 850k
Downstairs: 800k
4) Brand new five bedroom duplex with BQ for sale, inside Lekki County Estate.
Call for price
Kindly call or whatsapp if interested: 07064440129
Shoki
0849 1531 4320 09787
4400 0274 5887 28565
8478 6933 9030 99347
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Eko distribution training program 2018
Hello BVs,
This is an invitation for qualified persons to come forward and be trained for 6 months,after which you will be fully integrated into the workforce of EKEDC.EKEDC are in charge of some parts of Lagos and Ogun state. Na old school NEPA we dey talk so o,remember there is job stability and progress is guaranteed there.Please do not tale thos for granted,that is,if you are qualified and without a job now.
DO NOT GIVE ANYBODY MONEY TO HELP YOU PUSH YOUR NAME TO THE TOP O,DEM GO JUST CHOP YOUR MONEY SARA.IF ANYBODY ASK YOU FOR MONEY,TRY RECORD THAT CONVERSATION OR GET EVIDENCE,MAKE WE FOR HELP AM SACK HIMSELF.GOD BLESS OUR GENUINE HUSTLES.
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6BEDROOM DUPLEX FOR SALE
A clean 6bedroom Duplex is up for Sale in Villa Asokoro.
Location: VILLA
Amount: 150M
slightly negotiable..
Kindly contact : 08096335381
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Nb age is no longer at my side,am 30 dis year...I know 30 is not too old but I felt old within me cos am an indoor lady,all my mates have gotten married .for how long will i keep changing guys? maybe if I have many friends I won't be so bothered,am lonely,no sister or bro,just only me.please bvs advise me...cos am depressed.
Am curious as to why you are going from place to place asking if the light guy is your husband?what is wrong with you?Do not rely on any spiritualist to marry a spouse,you have not learnt your lesson from other peoples stories right?I pity you!!!
If the light skinned guy you describe as nice is not your husband,then the dark skinned guy is definitely also not your husband...abi them say nah your husband?
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ACCOMMODATION NEEDED URGENTLY
Am curious as to why you are going from place to place asking if the light guy is your husband?what is wrong with you?Do not rely on any spiritualist to marry a spouse,you have not learnt your lesson from other peoples stories right?I pity you!!!
If the light skinned guy you describe as nice is not your husband,then the dark skinned guy is definitely also not your husband...abi them say nah your husband?
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ACCOMMODATION NEEDED URGENTLY
Please I need a 2bedroom apartment in Sangotedo. Budget is 450-500. Or a mini flat for 350. Please BVs, help me. I and my kids are homeless.
08083044618
............................................................................................................
LAND FOR SALE
I have a 50 by 100 fenced land to sell in Calabar, located just around 8 miles by Tinapa junction. Contact me on 08087621076 for enquiries
.......................................................................................................
Nikkys Fashion Corner offers you fashion items that are bang on trend, quality and price. We are the best thing to happen to your wardrobe.
Call/whatsapp: 08028354095
Email: nikkysfashioncorner@gmail.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/nikkysfashiocorner
.......................................................................................................
PALM KERNEL OIL FOR SALE WITH FREE DELIVERY
Pure unadulterated locally made palm kernel oil. Suitable for hair and skin. It aids hair growth, avoids hair falling off by making it fuller and thicker. It's a great and fast remedy for dandruff and itchy hair. It contains anti oxidants and provides anti aging benefits. For a healthy and youthful skin, get one today.
Location is Abuja but I can deliver nationwide. Free delivery to Abuja BVs. There's a10% discount when you order for two bottles or more. Please place your order today. 08032361269.
.......................................................................................................
VACANCY
Sales representative, female.
Qualification: ssce
Salary: 15,000 naira with sales bonus when target is met
Location: Ifako Gbagada
Work time: 7am-4pm
Start date: September 3
If interested kindly send a message to 08074428280.
Please you must be cool, calm, ready to learn, friendly and DRAMA FREE.
.......................................................................................................
AUTO GELE
We make your regular OLD AND NEW head ties a lot easier, and indeed AUTOMATIC. Just strap it on your head, and you are good to go. Withstands rigour and cant loose. Its affordable, Price ranges from 5-9k. Slightly negotiable. 08077778991.
.............................................................................................................................................................
............................................................................................................................................................
We are currently offering discounts to all customers and free delivery within Abuja metropolis.Visit our page,like,share and patronise us, you'll be glad you did.
Ig: @shoesnstuffng Call/whatsapp: 08056122966
...........................................................................................................................................................
TO LET (LEKKI/ AJAH)
1) For rent... A 4 bed room terrace duplex with two sitting rooms, shortly after Pinnock Beach Estate via Circle Mall, Jakande, Lekki
Rent is 2.4m/ annum
2) To let... A nice Mini flat inside Femi Okunnu estate, Jakande, Lekki
Pay and pack in.
Rent is 700k/annum
Service charge: 100k
3) Brand new 3 bedroom flat (all rooms ensuite), inside Westwood estate, Badore,Ajah.
Upstairs: 850k
Downstairs: 800k
4) Brand new five bedroom duplex with BQ for sale, inside Lekki County Estate.
Call for price
Kindly call or whatsapp if interested: 07064440129
Shoki
0849 1531 4320 09787
4400 0274 5887 28565
8478 6933 9030 99347
...........................................................................................................
Eko distribution training program 2018
Hello BVs,
This is an invitation for qualified persons to come forward and be trained for 6 months,after which you will be fully integrated into the workforce of EKEDC.EKEDC are in charge of some parts of Lagos and Ogun state. Na old school NEPA we dey talk so o,remember there is job stability and progress is guaranteed there.Please do not tale thos for granted,that is,if you are qualified and without a job now.
DO NOT GIVE ANYBODY MONEY TO HELP YOU PUSH YOUR NAME TO THE TOP O,DEM GO JUST CHOP YOUR MONEY SARA.IF ANYBODY ASK YOU FOR MONEY,TRY RECORD THAT CONVERSATION OR GET EVIDENCE,MAKE WE FOR HELP AM SACK HIMSELF.GOD BLESS OUR GENUINE HUSTLES.
...........................................................................................................................................................
.............................................................................................................................................................
6BEDROOM DUPLEX FOR SALE
A clean 6bedroom Duplex is up for Sale in Villa Asokoro.
Location: VILLA
Amount: 150M
slightly negotiable..
Kindly contact : 08096335381
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Thank God it's friyaay....last IHN of the month.
ReplyDeleteYes o...last Ihn of the month.
DeleteWe already know 😎😎😎😎
DeleteGod bless the givers and the receivers
DeleteCheers
Marriage of marriage 😐😐😐😐😐😐
Good afternoon bvs÷
Delete1. Madam go ahead and marry the new guy and forget about the lazy guy.
DeleteThat was how my friend made a good decision years back. This chic was approaching 40years and her guy doesn't wanna propose, she met a brother in their fellowship and the brother decided to pay her a visit that was how her bobo met the brother in her house that day. The chic just left the room for both guys to stay. The bobo got annoyed and left and never returned, well she got married to the brother. My dear forget about that lazy guy unless he's a prince/heir to a throne disguising himself to see who falls in love with him, if not... Go and marry the new brother in Christ.
2. If you can endure emotional violence or trauma, go and marry Mr too-Big to apologise but don't disturb us with chronicles o.
3. Madam why are you complaining? Because you have started making money and decided to see his flaws that he drinks, smokes, smells. No perfect marriage and forget those posh guys you see even your bosses. You can help him, ask God to give you good ideas on how to help and handle him for better. No perfect guys out there, if I'm lying ask Pretty Mike.
ON BLEACHING
ReplyDeleteI know a woman to be chocolate color then after a while she became very fair.
I remember she used to mix tempovate cream and other orishirishi in her Sivoclaire or GG cream that year.One day she dashed me a Peauclaire cream and said "she didn't add anything to it".It wasn't upto a month of using this cream and i became snow white.Teachers kept telling me to stop using whatever that was turning me white.(I was in Secondary School then).
While i was using that cream,my body itched and whenever i go under the sun i get a burning sensation on my neck, i sweat heavily and smell of chemical.
Out of curiousty i picked up the cream one day and i saw boldly writtten ⚠️"stay out of sunlight when using this product" and the active ingredient was Hydroquinone 2%.Shortly a ban was placed on all products containing Mercury,Hydroquinone etc and i jejely threw the cream away.
It wasn't long she had a myomectomy which never healed.(Skin was too soft and couldnt hold stiches).Water kept gushing out and i guess it became infected too.As if that wasn't enough she was diagnosed of breast cancer and before 5months of diagnosis she died.The operation site never healed till death.
Some lightening cream patronisers will say what they are using is not harmful and all natural and i really hope so too.A chemist once told me that all lightening cream codedly contains hydroquinone because its a major and active bleaching agent but they don't write it on the bottle these days because of the ban(Especially the ones made in Francophone countries like CoteD'ivoire and Benin republic.)
I know for sure she didnt have trace of cancer in her lineage becos her parents and grandmother were still alive at the time and confirmed they never had a cancer case in both families.I just had to put it on all the chemicals she applied on her body.(Who mixes tempovate and some other tubes i can't remember in a cream already containing hydroquinone?).
Well,I learnt from this and thought to share.Yeah hydroquinone or any other lightening agent is not the only cause of cancer but why not avoid it for starters?
I admire all this snow white/whitenicious girls but its not for me.Before you say i can't afford it or want to spoil market for them toners/lighteners/team fairest/team yellow girls rock etc that woman up there is my mum who died at age 42.
Read to understand!!! Read to Learn!!!
Wow... Just wow! Thanks for sharing.
DeleteThe fear of chemicals used in producing this bleaching cream is the beginning of wisdom
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DeleteSpeechless! Will they hear? So sorry for your loss dear
DeleteNice one!!
Deletethanks for sharing .
DeleteBleaching has it's side effects.
DeleteHmmmmmmmm
DeleteGod bless you dear.
DeleteNice one oh!,thanks for sharing.
DeleteThanks everyone ,felt it was TMI but just had to share after i recently saw the creams i mentioned above in a shop.
DeleteHello everyone!
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of car 🚗 can u buy currently with the money💰
ReplyDeletein ur bank Account??🤔🤔
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DeleteToday is my little sister's birthday... Yeah, the 'Celebration' member and her church people have been celebrating her 😂😂😂😂.... I wonder how someone I'm older than with more than 5years can be bigger than me, Loool!! HBD Lil Sis, love you..... And oh, I celebrate you😁😁😁😁
ReplyDeletePs: I know you'll see this🙄🙄🙄
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DeleteHappy Birthday to your Lil sisters.
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DeleteHBD cookie sis.. ..i celebrate you
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DeleteHappy birthday to your sister, God bless her new age
DeleteFake social media misplaced feminists are out to ruin this world, especially the Nigerian ones. What is it na. You people just want to ruin the whole ceremony and drama of marriage for those of us that are not married yet. What is it gan?
ReplyDeleteNow the extremely dumb ones are going after payment of bride price, claiming it is the reason men now act like they own their wives.
And don't even try to use that as an excuse for not being able to walk out of a bad marriage cos that's the silliest excuse I ever heard. All u have to do is to return the pride price paid on ur head which is so little money that it won't affect u in anyway. I know this cos I have a friend going through divorce.
If bride price payment is the reason for some men acting so possessive and mean then most yoruba women should not be suffering in their marriages but no, a lot still suffer.
So pls pls pls, it has nothing whatsoever to do with bride price and has everything to do with marrying a bad man
And for those that think people collecting bride price are actually selling their daughters, is that how much ur own daughter would worth???? A few thousands of naira???? Pls spare me abeg. Y'all are just looking for ways to totally wipe out all our traditions.
I repeat a bad man is a bad man, just pray and hope not to marry a bad man.
As for me and my household, we will collect bride price, we will even kneel to feed our husbands marriage palmwine.
Those of u that want to naively follow people that are trying to ruin or eradicate your old traditions, be my guest
God bless you..... Like what has bride price got to do with the way a Man treats you?? Yes, there are some with the whole possessive mentality but whether he pays bride price or not, a possessive man is still the same, if your family like, return the money or things he brought, if he won't treat you right, he won't!! It's so appalling that everything is suddenly absurd to these our new generation women.... Some are even adding meaning to the 'kneeling and feeding' thing, na wa!!!!
DeleteWell said!👏👏👏👏👏
DeleteI'm just tired and pissed with these so called opportunistic emergency feminist, mtsheeeeew 😎😎😎
Make una cool down
DeleteWetin dey for marriage no be wetin dem dey talk finish
Na people experience make them dey speak out
Bride price is all fun until your husband does not allow you to go visit your parents because he paid your bride price in full.
the time you people are using to insult people for having opinions, use it and pray that God should protect you from manipulative men with wicked families, who will even refuse to collect back their = bride price after a divorce.
Eka,thanks for typing my mind.
DeleteThey can do away with traditional marriage soon only to go to the registry..My husband isn't owing my family and village a dime but he respects me .Get a good man for a life partner and have rest of mind.
God bless you Eka!
DeleteI will collect for my daughters and they will kneel down to feed their husbands because they will marry men that will respect and care for them.
Nicely put Eka
DeleteLeave them to be crying like a kid whose candy was stolen. No man owe you brideprice or not. They should stop making excuses for badly behaved men, has nothing to do with brideprice payment. Very soon they will women should pay dowry. Nonsense.
Delete👌👌👌. Don't mind all those confused feminists. Most of them worship their husbands behind closed doors. Like I'm still yet to understand their arguments.
DeleteThank God someone finally raised this topic, so because someone denied her hubby sex for two weeks, bride price now became the reason why the man felt entitled
DeleteKeep dating useless men, see the sign then hope he will change in marriage, then later come and start blabbing about bride price. There are still possessive men in USA the last time i checked they don’t pay bride price
I will collect my daughters own cus my parents collected mine
“Bless those that curse you; do good to those that hurt you; pray for those that mistreat you.” One test we all have to pass is being good to people that have not been good to us. It won’t make sense to your mind. Everything in you will say, “Hold a grudge. Talk bad about them. Look for ways to get even.” Your job is not to pay people back. Your job is to bless your enemies. _Joel Osteen
ReplyDeleteNicely said...
DeleteIHN full ground yakata! Lovely weekend to us all
ReplyDeleteI'm I the only one who doesn't like this phrase called "Table Shaking" ?It irks me!
ReplyDeleteGood day guys.
I used to like it,but overused don kill the vibes😂😂😂😂😎😎😎😎
DeleteEnjoy your fried rice Stellicious
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon people..been long u saw me!
ReplyDeleteOmo the hustle is real o in this life! But we keep pushing and thanking God all the way!
Missed ya'all.. Mrs korkus I hail thee
I didn't even notice 😎😎😎😎
DeleteYou just did..😊😋
DeleteHagagaha don't mind bugger
DeleteThe person wey advertise house of N150 million no dey fear when he write am? Na wa
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha it is not for you ok
DeleteUnu good afternoon oooo
ReplyDeleteHow una day???
Exam gat me looking like a village geh
Errm I'm I not a village geh????
Shout out to my mentor sky....
Success in your exams bae.
DeletePlease what is I'm I? in your words above. Slim queen used the same above. Is that a new form of writing am I ? Let me know if I am being left away with new invention.
Delete4days now you've not replied your fb messenger. Na wa o
DeleteDon't mind them teejay
DeleteStudents and graduates be writing like dumbos. I wonder how they even got into higher institutions the first place.
But wait teejay, shebi you na standard six certificate you get? Na kwension oh. No cuss me oh
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DeleteHa! Aju mbaise seller, stop embarrassing yourself na. For sexy to be schooling you in English..... Tssk tsssk tsssk
DeleteI'm means I am, now fit that into the sentence ur sentence up there and see if it adds up. The correct sentence is 'am I not a village girl'
DeleteEwooo!!!! 🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆😀😁😀😁🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
DeleteI shame for you, you had better face your aju Mbaise,someone corrected you,but no, you decided to dwell in your ignorance and stupidity 😎😎😎😎
DeleteHahaha @choi no I won't curse you. Maybe I didn't go to school either lolzx. I hate it badly when I see people abbreviate words, I don't like it. My lecturer then hates it with passion.
DeleteChideraa go back and read again and see if it makes any sense to you. Or even read the one I mentioned above from the other Bv.
Jesus! Babe is even arguing! I'm livid!
DeleteJesus! Babe is even arguing! I'm livid!
DeleteThis is so embaassing at tertiary level ahn ahn!
DeleteNa your type dey graduate with 'pass'
You people should not blame Chideraa cos she has been seeing people being corrected here. But my dear, u fail to know that both Am and I am are correct, it just depends on when it's used.
DeleteSimply put, use Am if u want to ask a question ( in the first person), like what u wanted to say up there. Am I not....? I'm is simply the short form of I Am wch u use when u want to make a statement about yourself. I Am coming, I Am eating...etc.
Read well for your exams and I wish you success.
Hian make una easy with insult and curse...na everyday we dey learn...
DeleteThanks eka,shooter gyal etc
Oshey way forward graduate from Ikpogidi Polytechnic. You and oki royalty na the same okada una dey enter.
DeleteMadam dark n fair guys,it's obvious yu love d dark guy reason y yu r ranting. Cos if yu don't love him,yu will even chase him out of your life. Mbok,follow your heart. Cos even we advise yu here,yu will still go bck to d dark guy.
ReplyDeleteto the married woman who is ranting about the smell of the husband after alcohol , he is your husband and though you are in a kind of difficult situation which i understand ,if you cant take it try and amend it and if amending is not yielding result ,please drop it . seek for the a divorce if you think you could cater for the children . my opinion
ReplyDeleteC ur big mouth like seek for divorce.how can she seek for divorce bcos of that? I hate pple that give senseless advice. Rubbish
DeleteSee people ehn, with all the things I have read and still reading online about guys with small prick and how babes keep cheating on them cos the thing no big reach (me sef like it big Sha), I'm here to ask and know if there's anything I can do now that my boys are little (4+ and 3+.yrs old) to make them peepee sizeable before or by the time they are grown so they don't get self conscious when they start doing the do?
ReplyDeleteTheir daddy's own isn't big neither is it small and I wish it could get larger and longer abit.
Please don't walk past without a solution please.
Thanks in anticipation.
I know they have gynaecologist for women, maybe go and ask if they have doctors for men's matter. They will have answers to your question .
DeleteMadam, leave your children prick abeg. Ahn Ahn. Na wa o. 😒
DeleteHahahaha so na your pikin prick matter be your problem. You no get problem at all
DeleteYou be better mother joor... Take 33k bottles of hero (o! Mpa) HahhahhahahaH..... Preparing for the future, so they come with full package.
DeleteAmen to the sign out post.
ReplyDeleteRE: COMMENT SECTION RANT:
ReplyDeleteWhen you girls go to these "seers" to see light and dark skinned girls, do they see scriptures? Flee fornication, every sin a person commits is outside the person's body 1 Cor. 6:18 . . . that the sexually immoral will end up in the lake of fire; Rev. 21:8
You go to a guy's house and fork and probably abort and you go to seer to see for you?
I tire oooo seriously!
DeleteThe lady with the light / dark bfs stop visiting prophets or pastors as regard your choice of a husband. Go to the Lord in prayer by yourself .if not you will wake up one day and realised you are in your 40ties, sad,single and desperate for any man to marry you.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is a drunk, smokes and smells and you are not attracted to him, you are horny bla bla bla
ReplyDeleteDid he start drinking today?
You both probably met at a drinking joint, seeing that you like drinking too.
So you want a validation to fuck outside okwaya?
You both need to clean up; ask God to help you do so and enjoy your marriage.
today is my birthday, I'm happy to be alive and well,i almost send pictures to Stella ,to celebrate my birthday ,but the fear of bvs is the beginning of wisdom , I've never in my life received any birthday present, but It will be a great privilege to have bvs wish me a happy birthday.thanks
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday treasures . ... You're my Sister's birthday mate
DeleteHappy birthday dear, God bless your new age and grant your heart desires in Jesus name.😍😍😍😍😍😍
DeleteHappy birthday tee, Age gracefully with long life and prosperity... Amen
DeleteHappy birthday my dear,More of God's blessings!!
DeleteHappy~Birthday treasures. Wish you the very good things of life.
DeleteHappy birthday!😎😎😎😎😎
DeleteHappy birthday to you, dear. May your days be long!
DeleteBabe where is your location. Let me send you small chocolate. Happy birthday. May God Almighty give you a memorial birthday gift that will make you glad for life.
DeleteHappy birthday dear WULLNP
DeleteCheers
Are you Lagos base?
Happy birthday to you🎂🎂🎂
DeleteHBD treasure . .....happiness is your portion
DeleteHappy birthday Treasure. Many more years to you
DeleteHappy Birthday to you. Long life and prosperity. Many more years in good health. Hip! Hip!! Hip!!! Hurray!!!!
DeleteHappy birthday Treasure.
DeleteHappy birthday dear. God's blessings to you
DeleteHappy birthday Treasure.
DeleteA beautiful birthday to you.
DeleteHappy birthday Treasure.
DeleteI asked about the aju mbaise thing from a seller and she says one wrap won't be enough show evidence that I am using it, that i have to take 5wraps. How true is this people? My stomach is big.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Noooooo,for big stomach,20 wraps should do the magic😎😎😎😎😎😎
DeleteHow 'big'?
DeleteBig is relative na.
Big like house or big like football?
I say how big?
Why don't you take one first and find out how it it will do your body before thinking of buying carton size?
Anony pot belly, I will advise you to buy like 2dozens, put them in the fridge and be boiling it everyday and use as water. Drink Aju mbaise instead of water and you will see its awesome wonders
Deletethe lady in between a lazy boo and a prince charming dude should know its like a pencil between two edge . you so serious you met some one and he is ready for for marriage within 3 months . please dear , i dont care to know what they are thinking but i am telling you what im thinking . monitor the new dude or you will sing "someone like you " just like adele
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon peeps, Amen to the sign out meme,as I step into the new month lord, make way for me where there seems to be no way.
ReplyDeleteTeeJay as a controversial BV wey you be na Eka Joy, Lady Bug and anonymous dem dey rush you....
ReplyDeleteYou want to trend ba
DeleteNnam where have you been? If I say I didn't missed you then I am lieing. TEEJAY na SDK celebrity naa. Abi you no know? Hahahaha... Ladybug finally gave up on me but honestly I love her bluntness though she often go extreme sometimes. As for the other, some sleeping dogs are better left alone.
DeleteIf I hear😎😎😎😎
DeleteHahahagaga dem dey rush my TJ especially anons
DeleteSee TJ wey dey correct person up there. Oga TJ na "ed" dey rush you. You're always in the past
DeleteHappy birthday treasure.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how a woman will get up, enter into a relationship with a man who does nothing for a living.
ReplyDeleteI mean, how do you do it?
And you feeding him?
Madam, you see ehn, you don't even know what you want.
That lazy guy is just coming with that tactics to win you over again.
Once he does, he goes back to being lazy, and trust me you, nothing good's gonna come out from him.
You don't have any love for the new boo cos you're used to that lazy somebody.
Be wise woman. Be wise!
don't mind her, she's been dickmatized by the lazy boyfriend
DeleteDont mind her. Comparing cat and Nkapa
DeleteHe who is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with what he would like to have.
ReplyDeleteSex is not food madame. Learn to tolerate your hubby
ReplyDeleteYinmu,sex is food in marriage 😎😎😎😎
DeleteQueenJay i want to send you a mail. I clicked on Queen Jezebel's profile and she was all bitchy on her intro. That made me laugh. She is such a child. In a few years maybe, you will simply shake your head at your juvenity(juvenile).
ReplyDeleteQueenJay waiting pls..
Thank you.
I am not Queen Jezebel.
DeleteI will send me email address to blog P.A Beloved by tomorrow . You can then ask her.
Oh Lord heal marriages and help us to understand your purpose for the Union. Amen!...
ReplyDeleteSo much happening?!...
Mother's in the house when did u stop your toddler from wearing diaper at night.finding it really difficult as my baby drinks water a lot.he is 2years
ReplyDeleteAt 2,he should have been able to wake up when he's pressed,for how long will he continue to wear diapers, today's mothers are generally lazy, everything is left for the teachers and house helps to do😎😎😎😎😎
DeleteNow is a good time. Reduce his intake of fluid once it's evening... Then wake him up during the night to ease himself
DeleteMy son still refuses to use his potty at 2
DeleteSo I have kuku left him.
Dont want my house to be smelling of pee.
We would try again in the nest few months
Mine still wears at 4. I've tried everything I can, so I just left her. I know she will stop soon cuz she wakes up with dry diapers most times.
Delete*next
Deletewhere is cynahamscakes. Its been a while I saw her post.
ReplyDeleteFor the lady that is following pastor Said ***If there is a man/woman that is ready to pray... ** There is a God that is ready to answer. Go on your knees. God is more than man
Just wait, very soon, soon and very soon, cynhams cakes will show with another story
DeleteHappy birthday treasure, God bless you and grant your heart desire
ReplyDeleteMovie to watch this weekend Crazy Rich Asians.Chao
ReplyDeleteToday is bright & fair
ReplyDeleteHelloo IHN... Thank God its Friday... Jumaat Mubarak folks....
ReplyDeleteAmen to the quote mami. Please I'm coming to eat ooooh
ReplyDeleteBV considering spiritualist's opinion,you better Marry whom you love. That was how they misled my sister and she married the wrong guy out of 4 suitors. Marriage didn't last up to 2years.
ReplyDeleteAmen,to your sign out post. yes i
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy for all the birthday wishes ,you guys made my day already,waoh indeed love lives here in olori voice
ReplyDeletecookie I appreciate, happy birthday to your sister
I appreciate you all, merciful,amanda favour, obianuju Augustina , teejay,lady bug,ijeoma ,zaram,lilly simple ,ijah,chummy Cho Cho,shakiti baby rosemary ezeji ,jelly
woah I'm honored. thanks alot this means a lot to me
zaram and Lilly I'm in kogi state . God bless you guys
Happy birthday babe. Enjoy God's goodness.
DeleteSo you dey among people who want that una governor to kwontinu
Young lady thinking of moving to Lagos, don’t close the deal before it starts. Once had such an opportunity, couldn’t wrap my head on how O could survive. My friends advice was the best, secure the job, you might find an apartment to share or a cheap room, your neighbor might just have a car heading to your destination. Bottom line, things happen for a reason. Lagos is our New York, you will not remain at the same position forever. Be Bold! I was and I never looked back.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for this comment. I love risk takers.
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