If you are sick,please go and see a doctor and do not come here using lewd words...Thank you...
So...................how far?
Friday, November 02, 2018
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If you are sick,please go and see a doctor and do not come here using lewd words...Thank you...
So...................how far?
If you are sick,please go and see a doctor and do not come here using lewd words...Thank you...
So...................how far?
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Yea am awake watching ZeeWorld"The Promise"
ReplyDeleteOMG i haven't watched for two days now..
DeleteSo,my husband turned out to be gay. I found out and opened a badoo account, got a handsome guy and got pregnant for him during my ovulation. I stopped seeing him after I got pregnant. Forced the idiot man to have sex with me after I discovered I was pregnant so the fool thinks the child is his while he kept fucking his young boyfriends thinking that I do not know. It's been four years and I needed another child, I opened another dating site and met a very handsome guy that is not financially stable but very clean and loyal. He's what I will call a good boy, I kept forcing him to have sex with me and we did 4 times until I got pregnant. Meanwhile, there was this divorced very wealthy old man that has been disturbing me since I was in the University, I have been running from him but the guy don't wanna leave me alone. He knew I was married but was still disturbing me. I knew I was going to get pregnant for my little boy so I slept the old man and told him I Was pregnant, he was scared and gittery. Lols, well bottom line, I got pregnant for my little boy, old man is parting with 750k monthly asides occasional money for baby food and clothings. My salary is 300k,stingy gay husband gives me 30k monthly. By next year, I will part ways with hubby. Little boy is in love with me but I don't want to further complicate my life. Old man gave me a land with a house, though not furnished. I want to either sell it and relocate or leave it for the value to keep appreciating.
DeleteI have just told little boy that I had his baby, hope I haven't made a mistake cos I don't think I wanna trust any man for marriage again. BTW little boy is 37 and I am 40. I was a good girl but now eeeeee men are nothing but Bush meat to me. Since I had my baby, I am HIV negative, no more sex. I have also saved plenty money, na mermaid levels.
Married, pregnant , lesbian and proud
DeleteSmart woman, is best you relocate and leave those guys, both the old man and the young guy no one is good to trust, your gay husband is shameless and when he. Will find out that his both children are not for him. I have also made up my mind to deal with any man that cross my way, what my ex husband did to me I will do it to so many guys.
DeleteCorrect woman @annon 22:10.
DeleteQuestion is, do you intend letting hubby know the baby isn't his?
If yes! Then you have no worries telling your small boy about it.
But, if your answer is "no"! Then, you know what you've caused yourself.
You can tell small boy that the child isn't his and that you just wanted to know his reaction by telling him that.
Anyways, enjoy your life to the fullest, but my fear for you now is that your hubby, old man, small boy and first baby daddy might be BVs and read to understand what's actually going on.
22;10 well laced up lies! Keep it coming. Mumu
DeleteGood evening ladies and gentlemen
ReplyDeleteAm 33, pregnant with my fourth baby. I plan to abort at four months if it's not a boy. I have had at least 12abortions in my life time. Don't judge me.
DeletePlease enough of the abortions. Boy or girl, some people soak their pillows in tears just to have one. Please darling, keep the baby.
DeleteAnon 22.41,I cannot say I know your story but whatever backstory you have to this is so wrong. Please leave that foetus.
DeleteMy friend told me of her cousin who fell into depression after scan revealed she was another baby girl after 6 girls. She lost the baby. After evacuation, it was a baby boy! Go figure!
Its just past 9pm. Plenty of is r awake. Its weekend
ReplyDeleteI'm tired of doing runs in abuja o swear. All I needed was money to go to Dubai and do more runs to make big money but all I could save was half of the money . My roommates were buying new thing and I'm tempted to buy too. They always gossip that I don't buy things out of all the money I was making .Sleeping with younger guys for 30k a night is not funny
ReplyDeleteThose guys are stingy.
DeleteThat’s prostitution, right?
Delete😀😀
DeleteAshawo no be work
DeleteNa wa for una. Carry t*t* just dey punish am any how. Put some respek in there lady.
DeleteAshawoooooooo
DeleteI'm dating a rich married man and this guy hasn't touched me since March because I insisted on condoms and he claims i put him off the last time we had sex because of condom issue. He said he doesn't like using condom which I don't understand. He said why should he use condom with me when I'm his only girl. He sent me money to go and do full medical. HIV, hepatitis, vaginal swab everything. He does full medical yearly because of his job.
DeleteI felt insulted at first honestly and wondering why this man can't just use condom as I can't even afford to get pregnant for a married man.
You would think a married man will like to take more precautions.
I'm not comfortable with withdrawal method because it can fail anytime. And i can't be using postinor after every sex.
This guy though just 42 is very rich and likes everything is way. Am I not playing chess with my life sleeping raw with a married man ???
Iv collected my medical results the thing is just laying in my cupboard, to open am sef fear is catching me.
I have 3 kids from three different men that doesn't know themselves. They are all paying Money for upkeep, rent, nanny etc. I am a low key millionaire. Truth is three kids were all adopted, I wore moon bump but I am taking very good care of them. Since all these men want to be unfortunate. The excitement that they have a little side attraction. Three men are married men and two of the wives claim sweet husband on instagram. Ndi uchu.
DeleteThings are happening, deal with those foolish men.
DeleteLie from hell. Who get N30k to give olosho in this Buhari time? Last last N10k. If begging follow am, N5k go do.
DeleteNa wah . Women are spitting fire these days o. My dear the ones that can deal with them should deal mercilessly with them. I support you anon 22:45.
DeleteAnonymous 21:31 my dear contact jaaruma and buy her products, it works like magic trust me
DeleteLove all the women here being smart! We need more women like you in the world. Women need to be strategic and think with their heads not their hearts sometimes we need to tune in to our masculine energy.
DeletePlease dear how do u get 30k per night which area all I see is 10k on rare occasions 15k abj don frustrate me
DeletePlease dear how do u get 30k per night which area all I see is 10k on rare occasions 15k abj don frustrate me
DeleteThat man just want to useless u he has no respect for u,plus he is high positive trust me na fake results u see,do it and cry to me later
Deleteanon 22:27. Run for your life that man has HIV. That's how they spread it telling u your are the only gal. My dear if you fall because of money, OYO is your case.
DeleteI came too early. Will be back.
ReplyDeleteI'm just here with 900 in my account which has made me kinda down since Monday. No money to even buy bag of pure water because I believe water is more important than food. Well, I will keep on hoping for something this coming week. love yah Stella!
ReplyDeleteYou mean 900 thousand? If it just 900 naira don't worry God will visit you.
DeleteI wish I can send you some 10k but unfortunately, I don't know if you will like to take fuck money. Ie dirty money from gbenshing up and down. Excuse my french.
DeleteFetch a bucket of water and boil it u should be able to drink that pending the time pure water money go show
DeleteBlessing I am not the poster but that is what I do. My hubby travelled out and since I am jobless I manage whatever he sends me. I boil tap water for myself and buy one pack of bottled water for my baby because she is my priority
DeleteYes any shoki ?
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteStella Stella.....am tired
ReplyDeleteYes Stella i'm still very much awake but with a low battery. Whatagwan?
ReplyDeleteWe are in the same boat. I would read up tomorrow
DeleteJust thinking about life. One of my nice neighbours was ttc for more than 15 years. The couple are nice and wonderful. God blessed them with a baby boy last year April but unfortunately he died 7 months later. We cried, mourned and prayed for them for double miracle. Just like Tope Alabi song "Logan ti Olugbala de" --- 'Immediately the saviour came in'. This Monday, God blessed this couple with a set of twin. It has been celebration galore in our area. I know this blessing will be permanent. We already know their names because there will be no naming ceremony this time around.
ReplyDeleteI am using this as a point of contact to all couples around us ttc. God will step in and do wonders.
Amen
DeleteWow good news. Congratulations to them.
DeleteAmen.
DeleteHmmm this night is going to be a long one and I came too quick, let me go and bring my mat,popcorn and chilled fanta will be bck asap. Indicate if u want some o
ReplyDeleteI'm awake oo, e b like hubby wan do watch night. I sent him to check the kids...now I'll pretend to be asleep😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteFunny you😀😀😀
DeleteYeaaaaaaa!!
ReplyDeleteI ve so many tinz 2 say.
Let me go/ regroup myself.
BRB!!!!!
It's about to go down *in Dbanj's voice*
ReplyDeleteFirst to comment👐
ReplyDeleteYimmu
DeleteStella, i dey o .
ReplyDeleteMake I read Fantabulous
My problem is that I'm tired of taking this antiretroviral drugs I feel my stomach bulging and I believe it's cos of the drugs. PS. HIV is not only contacted through sex I just can't wrap it round my head that once HIV is mentioned the first thing people think of is sex. Will there be anything wrong if I go on a 2 days break from my ARVs? I'm tired please.
ReplyDeleteHow did you contact the virus?
DeletePls don't stop taking it. Talk to your doctor about it. Also check your diet. It could be what you are eating. I don't really know anything about it though. May God see you through it.
DeletePlease, don't stop your ART. Even if it's for two days. You'll adjust to it with time. If the side effect is becoming unbearable talk to your doctor.
DeleteYes, there's something wrong with stopping your medication even for just 2 days. The virus can multiply and ultimately become resistant. If you think you have side effects of the drugs, please talk to your doctor. They might change it or find a way to stop the side effect without changing the meds
DeleteResistant meds can predispose people to AIDS. So please don't stop. Thank you.
I’m just too angry for words. I was hoping to have a happy weekend but this carnivorous animal spoilt it for me
ReplyDeleteIt is a human animal or an animal animal?
DeleteWow Stella, I dey awake o dey shine eye like thief man torch.
ReplyDeleteWatching 'Two and a half Men'. Charlie Sheen is a damn good actor. Between him and that guy that played the lead role in Fargo (season one), Lester Nygaard (don't know his real name), it's hard to choose who's a better actor.
I'll be awake until 3am, that's when I sleep.
#insomniac#
Anonymous Windsor.
Just wash 4 bitter leaves in water and drink a cup around 7-8pm, come thank me later
DeleteWow. I'll try it.
DeleteHmmm...just came in, , so tired like kilode.....Thanks to the Lord for the strength....i had alot customers today oooo
ReplyDeleteMc pinky
I am here to read comments ,bcs i have nothing to rant about...i part frm hairstyling ,i think i can also cook verywell,yes i am a good cook..nd also i can sing,act nd also an inspirational/motivational speaker..goodluck to everyone who is ready for tonight anonymous rant.
ReplyDeleteApart i mean*
DeleteBored, cancelled my two dates.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for calls from 2 guys I really like.
ReplyDeleteAm tired of staying in this bondage called marriage, I need a break this emotional torture is too much, I don't have money to rent an apartment yet with my kids but am already packing my bags,imagine more than a year no sex nothing, my blood pressure is rising everyday,for how long will I keep on waiting for a miracle, I even overheard him discussing with his girlfriend about her pregnancy, all I want is where to stay and a better work tod do so I can take care of my children.
ReplyDeleteMadam you better give yourself some sense and walk away before you die and leave those kids to suffer in the hands of your husband’s gf. Don’t you have relations that can assist you? What about friends or any family members that can help you? Can’t you steal money from your husband and ran away with your kids? That man does not care about you oh.
DeleteChai, women are really taking shit from these species called Nigerian men o.
DeleteWhat kind of man you call husband Biko.. Two years no gbench? There's something wrong with him that needs medical attention.
DeleteMy dear, your sanity is more important I was in your shoes last year. I even. Posted anonymously, today Is over one year left the idiot. He thought I couldn't live without him I left him and I am doing well with my two kids. It was rough for one year but I am very OK now. God will do it for you.
DeleteI say na this kind things dey make person kill person.
DeleteCan you get hold of huge sum of money from his bank account or at home?
If you can, carry, leave with your children.
That's why I won't ever blame married women who cheat.
I'm tired of this life I'm living. I left my job to marry my husband but my life changed for the worst. I can't take proper care of my child, I'm pregnant with our second child and can't afford prenatal vitamins. I have asthma which is being escalated by my pregnancy but no money to buy inhaler.
DeleteEnd of the month came and my horseband cannot boast of 2k in his account because bank has deducted everything for loan repayment.
Is my life not in jeopardy like this? No family to rely on, it's hard to get a job in this town I live. I am just exhausted! I have not bought a single baby stuff and I'm almost 7months gone.
I don't know what to do cos I'm tired of begging my friends for money. Is there a way to do this? I'm in tears writing this at 4am cos I've been awake since 2am from hunger.
Life is hard, too hard.
Go to a charity or Ngo. You will get help, at least food and medical attention. I am not sure where your location is, but you need to seek out charities for aid. Do not allow yourself to be malnourished, your baby needs nutrition to develop properly. Your husband needs to take on a second job if possible. He has to try to earn more if his entire pay check is going to loan repayment. Please I beg you go seek out help from a charity. You and the children need nutritious food.
DeleteI don't know why this is happening to me! I will be 25 in Dec and I'm still a Virgin. @25, no serious relationship at all and it's killing me. Okay now, I decided to have sex thinking that maybe if I start doing it and getting money to buy trendy wears and look Big, the men will come but it seems my village people have plans for me to die a Virgin!
ReplyDeleteanytime I make up my mind to have sex, either the guy will change his mind or something will go wrong. I'm suppose to meet a man tonight in an hotel but he just sent a text saying his flight was delayed so he is no longer coming to my base!!! God why me nau, Why???? where did I get it wrong in life? if only I can auction it like they do in "The abroad" it would have been better self.
God please if u are the one trying to keep me till I get married Biko bring the husband o, I'm on my knees!!!
Relax there is no hurry in life oh, do not rush before you rush out.
DeleteGod is keeping you for something.
DeleteMy dear relax you are just 25 why the rush? And be careful whom you meet in an hotel, a word is enough for the wise.
DeleteMaybe, you are destined to marry a virgin.
DeleteMaybe, you need spiritual cleansing.
Better remain a fargin ooooo. Scroll off in a few mins and start reading escapades of married women. The grass is always greener on the other side until you reach there. You are alive and healthy. Thank God and better things will come at God's time. Trust me. I am one of those that has ran away from matrimonial home.
DeleteHow can you call 25 'just?' You people will just be giving silly advice
DeleteWhere do u stay? I will come. No disappointment.
DeletePls and pls keep yourself, the right man will come. Don't waste your effort,25yrs! Isn't a joke. Pray hard. I still regret loosing my virginity. I lost it to a guy a fell in love with in my first yr in higher institution
Deletei have not been able to do my final year clearance and go for service.
ReplyDeletesingle motherhood no easy.
all my money just dey enter for my pikin.
lord i am grateful all the same.
Enter your comment...fun, fun is all I smell
ReplyDeleteAm still very much awake no work tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...I liked him a lot, although the whole thing wasn't defined, and we did d do, I started to expect too much from him, u know naw, I felt like I now deserve it, but he's just treating me like any other girl, I feel used, av learnt.
ReplyDeleteThat's why you shouldn't expect anything from any guy.
DeleteIf it's a one night stand, let it be like that.
Nothing like he used you, you both used yourselves.
Or didn't he give you money after the do?
I don't know where to categorize myself. Through out my service year, no friend to show that I met during my service year. I really don't know how to start and sustain an interesting conversation. People hardly meet me for a regular chit chat. Some say I am boring. We can be three in a room talking and if one leaves, the conversation somehow ends there. Sometimes I wish I can talk with people for hours and we aren't bored. Sometimes I wish I could joke and socialize with people more but at the end of it, I just end up in seclusion. It's not easy at all.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm... I understand you perfectly.
DeleteI was like you once, but, I forced myself outta it.
Even if there's absolutely nothing to gist about, just think of something to talk about when you are with your friends. Just anything!
You will come around soonest OK.
Such things happens mostly when you grow up alone during your childhood days.
You are probably just an introvert. Talk about neutral stuff like the weather, travel, music, movies, new businesses that are opening, or global affairs. If you stick to these topics you will be OK. Don't take on controversial topics, also there is nothing wrong with you, we can't all be chatty chatty. There is a place for introverts too. Most of these small talk is foolishness anyway and lots of lies and pretending happen, at least you are being true to who you are by keeping your mouth shut and nobody can ever say you offended them with your words, you are fine.
DeleteI am tired of heavy bleeding, I have been bleeding for one month now, the drugs are not working, they cannot control my bleeding, I refused early for myomectomy surgery but as it is now I have to say yes to the surgery.
ReplyDeleteThe first test showed my blood level was 7, after one week it got to 9, after two weeks it drops to 7.7, cos I bleeded so badly in the last two weeks, my sister is saying that do I think going into the theater and coming out is easy, that my body is shaking for the surgery, how can I wish to be operated? My NHIS is paying more than 70% of the bill, I need to buy blood or get donors,to think she is a nurse, she is putting fear in me with those words, I need blood transfusion before the surgery cos of my blood level, my mom is saying I should put my faith in God and pray that all goes well, I am even confused on what to do at this moment.
If I could manage the bleeding and fibroid I will not option for an operation. Has anyone been there before, how did you handled your family? Is there any drugs I can take to stop bleeding as the ones given to me both by my doctor and my sister not working.
In the same boat. Have done myemectomy before the fibroids came back. Having heavy bleeding. Just started doing castor oil pack on tummy and I think its helping.
DeleteTry this lady om IG..fdnaturals
DeleteMay God heal you completely.
Do the surgery before it turns cancerous. Same happened to my aunt and she died cos the cancer had spread already. Get blood, pray and go for your surgery
DeleteHi. So sorry about your condition. My mum was in this state some years ago. She will sit and blend heavily. She began to look pale so she went in for the surgery and removed her womb completely. Thank God, it's been 9 years now and she is very fine.
Delete@Oki.. lol.. you're retarded in a cute way..
ReplyDeleteAin't nothin cute bout that. Unless you are retarded too.
DeleteI feel like committing suicide to punish my mom. I have had this devilish thought for 2months now since she won't stop singing "Go and get married" in my ear.
ReplyDeleteI am only 24 and she is doing this already. not like I even have a relationship presently so where will the husband come from? Mars???? I know she won't forgive herself if I die!!!
Do not kill you self for any reason, you will go to hell if you try that. Maybe you should look for a house and stay a bit far from her or give her assignment just the way I did to my mom when she was on my neck for the same reason.
DeleteI told my mom to look for cute, sexy, tall, well to do guy, the one she want as son inlaw and let me know then I will marry him, my mom is still searching for the man lolz
Don't do it oh, please.
DeleteRather threaten her that if she doesn't let you be you would commit suicide on her head so she can live to enjoy her life.
Be careful what you type here o.
DeleteBVs can be wicked. Some will tell you to go and drink poison and come back afterwards to be writing foolish condolence messages. Hypocrites
i am sleeping with this married man and am planning to ask him for 50k tomorrow but i dont know how to go about it, babes please how do i do it o,
ReplyDeleteThe way you us to open leg for him is the same way you should talk to him. You can send him chat or sms telling him you have some personal issues, he is married and will not marry you, just chop him and clear
DeleteMy dear, better ask him o. I have slept with one this year just once and I have collected almost 5 million from him since this year and I have slept with him once. My rent is 2mill and he will still pay it by month end. Open ya mouth and call the figure so that when that thunder that will fire us will come you will cross ya leg and receive it very well. You are committing adultery/fornication and you want to be a good girl in the process abeg collect your money o. When it is time to fuck, he won't be looking for ways to enter your pussy
DeleteMay his wife roast you before morning . Hungry muchee chee
DeleteOyo is yoour case he has slept with u already trust me nothing for u,that tasting period os when u collect money, send text mesaage stating one problem or the other
DeleteCelebrating my one year wedding anniversary. I can't wait until hubby gets back home so that I can spoil him silly.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations. Many more wedding anniversaries.
DeleteStella am very much awake ��
ReplyDeleteI'm thought I was pregnant but my period just showed up. Oh I'm in tears now. God please hear my cry and bless me with a child. Amen. Please you all should pray for me
ReplyDeleteGod will bless you soon.
DeleteGod would surely answer you soon, amen
Delete22.34, let go of bitterness, envy and jealousy. Go ask for forgiveness from d pple u offended ,the once u can remb.
DeleteJesus went as low as washing g his disciples feet, not like he was asking God for anything but for him a God to descend that low,to show us humans what it means to b humble ,says a lot.
I have a friend, she is over 48yrs she has been asking, wishing ,praying for a child, but d Bitterness,d Envy. D show of I pass u with money and level attitude, d backbiting of her fellow friends and generally behaving like a FOOL( as far as am concerned) r the things I feel holding her prayers back
The good lord said we shd come to him Naked! Like a lil child( without sin) , go to d closet and pray but after u must have asked for forgiveness, so says d holy book
Majority of u move from Church to church, from hospital to hospital but d solution to ur Barrenness is in ur MOUTH! Go and find d pple u have offended , go down without a pride and say sorry.
I don't know y am telling u this .9t
Almighty God will visit you soon and he will give you a great Xmas gift. Isaiah 54 make that your daily routine.
DeleteEiyah. God will give you your own glorious children very soon.
DeleteAnon 00:56 You are nasty as fuck
DeleteAt anon 8:23, I’m telling you. Anon 00:56 is nasty and judgmental as hell. Pls don’t ever give advice to people. Your type are no help at all
DeleteI've reached my breaking point. I just want to explain myself to be sure I'm not selfish.
ReplyDeleteFirst reason I want to leave is lack of intimacy. Since my daughter was conceived, 9 months of pregnancy plus 1 year 4 months she has lived, my husband has never touched me. Prior to that, it was 18 months without having any form of intimacy whatsoever with a man I live with. I've complained, talked, pleaded, begged above all, prayed. Nothing. I stopped talking about it about a year ago, thinking maybe I was complaining too much that's why. He has never approached me. I've even asked him if he's gay. He said no. We had a very short no sex courtship. I usually have very painful ovulation cramps and he knows, that's when he'll come and meet me.... Not for sex, but to masturbate (he encourages me to touch myself as well) and release inside me. That's it for that month. Till my next ovulation. Nothing I do to get him to touch me ever works. I stopped talking about it and concentrated on my son. When my son was 9 months old, I brought it up and it turned into a very huge fight. I packed my things and left with my son. He came begging. I returned. He touched me once again during my ovulation and I took in for my daughter. Since then till now. Nothing
He was abusing me physically before.... But after I left with my son,he stopped and moved to emotional abuse. I can't count the number of times he has told me to pack my bags and leave. I refused for long until this year I decided to call him bluff twice. Those 2 times he'll start crying and begging that I should consider the children. He has said all sorts... I'm forcing myself on him, he's not interested, he'll kill me, marrying me was his greatest mistake..... Lots more. The last fight we had(something very very insignificant) he not only slapped me, he was strangling me till i bit his hand before he let go.he pushed me to the room to pack my things, followed me there and started strangling me again. It was night.iwanted to leave the next day, he started with his fake tears again.
But I'm done. I'm so sad here I can't continue living like this. It's the children I pity in all these. I've forgiven him but I can't forget the look on his face as he was strangling me.
I've not told any of mine or his people these things. I was young, naive and he manipulated me into marrying him.... No church or court marriage yet tho. Recently he's hinting on church wedding but I can never take those vows with this man. Never.
You better run for your life, this man is evil. Someday he will keep you and that will be the end of your life,you don’t need to let him know you are leaving, leave when he is not around,that guy has someone outside.
DeleteMadam please leave that marriage. Your marriage and life is toxic. The children you feel you are protecting you are actually hurting them raising them in such enviroment.
DeleteThat man will suceeed in killing you one day. He has strangled you twice. He has said he will call you and you are still there.
All those women that died from DV they were just like you. Enduring for their kids till death came calling
A man will treat a woman in his life bad for no reason because he wish he was with his fellow man but the society won't permit. He becomes a frustrated person. For him to always make effort to come near you when he knows you can't have sex is a very conscious effort. He is definitely hiding something. I think he is GAY.
DeleteThat look on his face while he was strangling you is his heart and true feeling towards you. I think you should RUN.
Those tears he cries each time begging you to come back, not because he wants you but because he wants to keep controlling you and using you as a cover up. I think the tears are FAKE.
In summary, your husband is GAY, cries FAKE tears to keep using you as a cover and I think you should take FLIGHt far from him and with your children . You will be fine. Trust me.
he sounds gay
DeleteMy dear I'm like you o. 4 children and nowhere to go I just keep a very sharp knife under the foam incase of any day he tries to shed my blood again I will call him bluff stab him severely then whatever that wants to happen can happen. What wicked men are these.
DeleteSo you are still in his house? For the sake of your kids you say? Don't worry, very soon, its your ghost that will be looking down on your kids since you people don't learn from all the stories you read on social media.
DeleteBtw, a man tried to strangle you late at night and you kept quiet, you did not tell anyone?
Who breeds all these kinds of girls?
Enter your reply...
DeleteLeave when he is not around, doesn't he go out? Must you leave when he is around?
Start parking your things small small so that he won't notice, buy another bags, fill them with your things and be taking the bags out of the house one by one and fill the former bag with nonsense things and leave them in their position, so he won't notice. Go very far from him, where he won't trace you, he may kill you if he knows where you are o. Choose to LIVE for your kids pls. Leave that monster because the next time, you may not be alive to share the story again.
Go very faaaaar
Strangulation is the worst type of murder, it’s too personal and one who can strangle you till you almost die is as good as stabbing you to death whilst asleep. Please DO NOT return to him if you want to live to raise your kids.
DeleteThis is not marriage this is torture. Your horseband is mentally unstable, like why the courtship was short. You must divorce him for the sake of your own sanity and that of the innocent children.
DeleteMy rant is that I'm tired of dating myself in this relationship of 4 years. I'm 30 years already and wants to settle down but no serious guy coming. Tired of being lonely and my parents are singing marry marry on my head. This Lagos I just relocated to better bring husband to me. I just want to love and be loved back. Oh lord answer my prayer before this year runs out. Amen
ReplyDeleteNa Yoruba demon trap you go enter with this recipe. My dear, if you are a good girl, remain good and God will bless you in his time. If you must fuck someone, fuck for money buy car, house land etc all na fuck. No do osho free and mess up your heart.
DeleteWill u marry me? I work but not based in Lagos .
DeleteTo think I fall for a playboy this time around, is heart breaking! He promised me a good life which includes marriage etc, I am a single mum to a 6year old girl...... now I am pregnant some weeks gone and playboy woke up to say he is willing to be a father but not a husband, yeeeeeee! I have cried my eyes out already best bet is to terminate this pregnancy o. I can’t do this all over alone again!
ReplyDeleteHey darl, if you have the money and the means, tell him you have removed the baby. Keep the child and have it and zip up forever. You won't regret it. Cut the guy off completely.
DeleteYes honey! Go to the hospital and flush out that blood now that it hasn't formed baby yet.
DeleteHe want a child, he should wait till he's ready to marry.
Don't mind anyone coming here to preach "abortion issa sin" to you oh.
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DeletePls do, don't bring kids into the world to come and be called bastards. Yes they will call them that if their father did not marry you.
You should use protection, why f9uk raw when all he did was to promise you marriage. Its like you never learn any lesson. You re just a desperate and foolish woman
There are certain mistakes that should only be MADE ONCE but in your case you have done it twice 🤦🏽♀️. I wish you all the best and please don’t abort the baby. Your mistake please correct it. Peace ✌🏿
DeleteDon't listen to this same people that will call you after 2, 2 kids for 2 different father's nawa.
DeleteYou better go take out that pregnancy. This sort of mistake should not happen twice. That guy will keep emotionally abusing you for life because you will keep seeing him and sleeping with him because of the baby hoping he will change his mind. Before you know it you will hear he married a 21yr old virgin. Probably he doesn't want to marry a baby mama but he can fuck.
You better think straight. Abort and dump him and live your life with your daughter in peace. One day you will meet someone willing to wife you along with your child.
Naija people (men) taking advantage of single mothers is like 5 & 6
DeleteAWON BASTARD BREEDERS! Ndi uchu & ndi aruru ala.
Na so dem go carry fake attention with kindness come near u.. only to impregnate & then start foot dragging or funny behaviors set up.
Please single mothers with dignity & any honor left must close their legs like mermaid. Go to school, start a business, build an empire & LOVE URSELF & LOVE GOD ABOVE ALL. Rise above pity party & low life stigma things of being or becoming a bastard breeder woman something.
Raise ur child(ren) in a God fearing & loving home that no man or entity can target to mess u up again!!!
Ask him why if he did not promise marriage. Perhaps if you can find out his reasoning if it is something about you, or if he is just a liar. Your pregnancy has not taken form yet if it is brand new, it will be easier to abort now than wait until it is a fetus. However, you make sure you go to a proper place because you have a very young child depending on you. You can also fervently pray for a natural miscarriage to happen if you pray wholeheartedly and cry unto God it will go away. Anyhow, don't ever put yourself in this situation again, even if you have to form born again, don't let anyone lie and use your body so they can move on to what they truly desire after leaving by the wayside. Lock up shop until a ring is on your finger. You don't have luck in fornication world so leave it alone.
DeleteAnony @ 06:28
DeletePlease don't bring that stupid manipulative idea advising her to "ask the man if she is the problem or her character is why he is refusing marriage" ? How can he consider for unprotected sex, and baby making out of wedlock no matter the character and yet deny marrying her???? Single mothers and all women as well be wise!!!
Don't ruin your life with a man who needs you as a sex object, for bastard baby breeding and such illegitimate drama nonsense!
The man is typical type who want to hang around you, monitor you, exploit you for clandestine sex and then marry someone else or even he may be married as well right now and he is not telling you.
Learn to have dignity and self respect as a single mother and never allow yourself to become anyone's sex object and cheap jump off. Block, delete, reject and forbid that kind of thing in your life.
Once you are a single mother, don't ever let any future relationship with a man be about you becoming his sexual fulfilling object, making child(ren) outside of marriage. Rather chop & clean mouth! Chew a man & spit out! As long as he is not committed to you in marriage, turn off you emotion and sentiment of attachment to him and only pretend like you are Hollywood Oscar winner actress when it comes to forming love to a man in that regards.
YOU DID NOT COME TO THIS WORLD TO BREED BASTARDS OR ASSIGNED ANY CONTRACT TO PRODUCE ILLEGITIMATE CHILDREN WHO WILL BE CAUGHT UP IN INHERITANCE OF LIFE DRAMA & SCANDALS!!!
Nne pls go and flush it out.
DeleteIt’s hard enough to be a single mother of one, I can’t imagine how difficult it will be to bring another child into the picture.. from a different man. Haba.
Any child you have next should be from a husband and not a boyfriend.
Am frustrated and very sad, at the age of 23 I have nothing going for me, no work, no money, not even school, am still struggling to gain admission, my sister always sings to my ear of how much of a failure she thinks I am, I am frustrated and tired of dis life, I just feel like ending it all, I don't want to be a disappointment to my family.
ReplyDeleteMy darling, if this is all that is bothering you, rejoice for it is workable. God can do it for you in one year. Just Thank God that your problems have solutions, in no time it will all be in the past.
DeleteDon't try anything stupid oh, if she calls you a failure tell her she is useless, fire her back too, you are still very young oh don't allow words get to you, start growing thick skin oh
DeleteYour sister isn’t your God. Please turn to your maker. Read Isaiah 54 it’s my favourite. Peace ✌🏿
DeleteYour sister is not a good sister. She is using psychological warfare to ensure you never rise up. If you believe her and internalize her evil words your life will never move forward. Whenever she comes around and start to put you down tell her, back to sender in the loudest most powerful voice you can tell her. You let her know she has no power over your destiny and your today will not be your tomorrow. Rise up with the power of life in you and set a strong determination in your soul to succeed and see all your dreams come to pass. Rise up in power never accept anyone's negative words as truth, you tell them the devil is a liar. Defend your mind and your future. You are just 23, life is just beginning for you, and I tell you that I am 100% sure that you have a good future ahead of you. Where you are today is not where you will be in ten years, your life will be better in every single way, even you will be shocked at how good it turned out.
DeleteDOnt kill yourself for not being a graduate at 23. I didn't even go to UNI myself, but you won't know if I don't tell you. I have a successful business. Have a house of my own and run my own things.
DeleteHere's what to do. Buy books. Borrow books. Read...read...read. Buy books on Business, History, information system, mass communications any book.
What am I even saying? You have the internet. Go to youtube.com search for "ted talks" and watch as many videos of ted talks as you can get. There are 100's of them.
Trust me, if you do this (watching ted talk) consistently for 1 month, you'll be more smarter than the average fresh graduate from all those half baked public Nigerian universities.
More importantly, you will start knowing what to do to become successful. DOn't ignore this advice. Watch ted talks on youtube. I wish you Godspeed!
Plz don't stay idle. Look for something to learn, there are so many of them, fashion,Catering, fruit mixology, cocktail etc. This days people that even have certificate are struggling to a get a good job.
DeleteThis life sha, those with heads have no cap to cover with.....
ReplyDeleteI am a man of 32+, not looking bad at all, have a good job, recently got married to a lady of 27+, mind you, I was a V before we got wedded, but she wasn't, of which I never mind, I just wanted a lady of my own. B4 we got married, we never spend the night together, while we dated, we were miles apart, so everything happened on phone and with few visits.
Fast forward to present time, I just found out that she's lazy, imagine keeping dishes for days, presently she's on leave, and my wife won't bathe the whole day, until I force her to do so later in the day, as I type this, she just took her bath for the day, she's a terrible cook, I make soups myself, if she makes Semo, it will be as if it is garnished with granite stones, all she's good at is frying things, and she does heavy makeups too.
This is a wedding of few months old, Kai, sometimes I wonder, what do women really want, this is a lady who craves for the wedding like her life depended on it, and she cant even keep up,
Later on, most of you ladies will be crying for a husband, I feel y'all single ladies need to check yourselves, age and marriage are two parallel factors which shouldn't push any of you into marriage.
Well, I'm determined never to allow my wife frustrate me into considering cheating, because the Bible frowns at it, I wasn't raised that way, and I can't begin to renounce what I've studied from the scriptures.
I just wish some of you ladies learn from my experience
Oga, that's just unfortunate!
DeleteThat's life for you, the good ones get the bad ones while the bad ones get the good ones.
Have you talked to her about her lifestyle?
Try talking to her and let her know you aren't comfortable with the way she leaves dishes and not bathing.
As per the cooking, since you are a good cook, you can teach her.
Good luck to you.
Teach her then....it's only a matter of time.
DeleteWhat nonsense are you typing? So what if she can't cook? Why not teach her if you can or get someone who can? She is dirty, talk to her about her hygiene. See how you have highlighted all her flaws like you are perfect?
DeleteYou were a virgin and she wasn't , so?
Abegiii, stop trying to sound like you are better than her or did her a favour by marrying her.
How I hate dirty people. I can't even sleep well unless I take night bath and my house is always spotless,my hubby that is a man cant even stand a dirty kitchen he washes his plate always.
DeletePls talk to her about her hygiene and her laziness around the house.
If she refuses to change,look for someone she respects and listens to and report her.
Those blaming this man pls shut up. They don't even have kids yet, is this how she won't bathe and feed her kids all day. Let's stop supporting rubbish in the name of women.supporting women.
How will she care for her baby. Is that how she will be dumping feeding bottle in the sink unwashed ?
So you never smelled her, even her mouth. You never went to see how she lived before wedded her? Let her know what you can live with and the importance of cleanliness for you. Send her to cooking school. You do not know how she was raised, maybe she grew up someplace where water was always on ration so regular baths were not a part of her life, maybe she grew up eating Indomie and fried egg so she can't cook because there was never food to cook so she could learn. Instead of making assumptions introduce her to another way of existence so she can improve herself. Try to find out why she is this way. If she doesn't make an effort to change and you cannot live that way then move on. However, since the marriage is still so young allow her the opportunity to improve herself.
DeleteBros PLEASE talk to her,is she the type to listen?with time she will change though it might be a lot of work,PLEASE don't give up or turn to what you know is a sin,you can make it work God will help u!!
Deletesleeping with this sugar married Anty until she disclose to me last 2month she want us to make bby and obviously she will be giving to her husband! claims we should seal our love with bonds. just thinking....
ReplyDeleteThis lady I liked thought it would be better if she played games. I took her out for cosmetic shopping that cost N60k. After that, I paid her off with N100k to stay away from me. I am glad she is doing that. Before you think I am a mugu, N100k is less than my daily income. I couldn't care less. I now have a peace of mind. I wish her luck.
ReplyDeleteI found out I was pregnant last month. U need to see the joy in my husbands face since then, shouting I’m a man! All over the place.
ReplyDeleteThis night I saw blood coming out of my vjay.
I can’t stop crying 😭. I love seeing him this happy. How do I tell him now? What went wrong? Dear lord pls
Get to the hospital immediately. It might just be threatened abortion. Progesterone will keep your pregnancy.some women still bleed in the first trimester
DeleteNothing went wrong, 25% of first pregnancies end in a miscarriage, it happens to a lot of couples. Just comfort each other and move on. Maybe this pregnancy would have killed you or the child would have been born with deformities, trust that God knows best and move on.
DeletePlease tell him and go see a DOCTOR immediately, u might just be spotting
DeleteThanks guys. I’m on my way to the hospital now. I’m so sad
DeleteThe blood is kinda heavy tho... is spotting like that?
DeleteOMG things I am reading. Let me go and sleep. Finished watching lord of the sky. I love lord of the sky physics and also love Chema. Fine men.
ReplyDeleteLove you all. Goodnight
Just like the last two dayschronicles.i am in a 3years off and on relationship with a an ugly,fat,shapeless,refused to do something about the fat man. He ain't broke though. I have been friends with him for so many years and I guess I am pity staying by for how long.i stopped the cookie giving this year brcos I am not sexually attached to him.worst part is he is a pathological liar. I am fed up pretending that I care when I just want out.
ReplyDelete30 and scared of beigb alone,bt what is worst,being with someone I can't stand or being by myself?
Only you can decide. Marriage amplifies all that you hate about someone. You will have to hear his snoring, smell his morning breath, hear him farting in bed, smelling his bowel movement, see him picking his teeth and the table and watching him get bigger and wobbly. If you can't like him now, do you think you are going to like him more in the next five years?
DeleteDid you just described your BF up there?please do you both a favour by LEAVING him NOW
DeleteYes we are 😁😁
ReplyDeleteTo make love to my husband is now war. Especially during my ovulation, this man will avoid me like a plague. Where did I go wrong?? When he makes love to me he withdraws instead of ejuculating inside of me, I need a son and I won't bother him again
ReplyDeleteAll these sob stories about marriage while good guy like me cannot find a wife. There must be something wrong with me that I am attracted to only deceitful and conniving ladies. I don't like stress in relationships. I guess that makes me boring bc I don't feel necessary to use violence in any way. Any way, let me keep using my lotion to handle business. When push comes to shove, I will buy a doll and call it a day.
ReplyDeleteWhere are you based?
DeleteI feel so sad right now, I found out my boyfriend is cheating on me yesterday. I expected him to be all over begging me and apologizing but instead he's making it seem like it's no big deal "afterall it's me who wants to remain a virgin till after marriage" , I'm so heartbroken to think I never even knew I loved him this much. had to end things with him tonight but I'm really down. this is the 4th relationship I'm leaving cus I found out they were cheating, I don't know if it's normal or I just don't know how to keep a man. I really detest guys right now. will just stay single till next year when I graduate
ReplyDeleteSorry. Even in marriage. They will cheat. Love with sense and guard your heart
DeleteYou are a virgin and that automatically means no sex in the relationship and yet you want him not to have sex somewhere else abi? If I slap you eh, better call that guy n tell him it's not yet over.
DeleteIf you are a Virgin and want to marry a Virgin also there is nothing wrong with that. Young male virgins are harder to find but they exist. You do not have to settle for less
DeletePlease Stella do a topic about ranting/venting frustrations. I would think things are bad until I read some stories on your blog. Many walking dead.
ReplyDeleteAm in love with a guy am older than with 4yrs+,he loves me too... The issue now is, age difference, my younger brother is older than him and he's just a year older than my younger sister.... What do I do, should I end the relationship or continue.... Pls advise me. .. My Yun brother must not no his
ReplyDeleteFour years is nothing. If you both love each other then make a life together. Why do ppl like to complicate their lives over foolishness. It's almost 2019 nobody cares about shit like this. Does he respect, honour and treat you well? If the answer is yes then do not let him go.
Deleteyes I still dey awake after I sleep small n sleep no wan come again
ReplyDeleteso I dey use d time to arrange my baby clothes
d way my waist dey pain no be there atall but doc say make I dey take paracetamol anytime I feel pains
make I try see if I fit sleep back. una goodnight
I have to rant ooooo.abeg i am 32 years old and i haven't seen my period for one year now.what medication can i take as i have gone to all the hospitals n none seems to know wht is wrong with me.pls help me o.
ReplyDeleteGo do Vaginal pap test.most times its cause by infection.go and see a gynecologist asap.i ave this issue b4
DeleteGo for an hsg test. Probably you have asherman syndrome
DeleteSomething is definitely wrong, how can all three exes remember me in one week and want sex which they didn't get while dating because I was young and naive, after 6yrs, they surfaced. This looks like manipulation and I just wedded and enjoying Kamasutra. It's crazy
DeleteTry castor oil massage on your tummy, do Keto and thank me later
DeleteYou have hormonal issues. Same thing happened to me, had to do hormonal profile, and it was discovered I had high prolactin and progesterone levels. Took medication and now my period is back, it's been 2 months now.
DeleteI'm still awake oo. Baby got her 14weeks immunization shot yesterday so I'm awake monitoring her fluctuating temperature.
ReplyDeleteI'm administring paracetamol on her every 6 hours.
I wish it will just be morning already, this night is already being too long.
Make I go pick beans sef
Have been through hell and back. Pls keep God fearing friends only.
ReplyDeleteAnon gist us make we learn oo
DeleteWell you can’t stop your antiretrovirals! Even if your virla load is low, it follows a chain and if stopped the virus can form a resistance and you might switch to a 2nd class!if you are still on tdf 3tc efv or azt 3tc nvp!
ReplyDeleteI'm beginning to hate my husband. We would be a year old this month and he lies to my face...
ReplyDeleteMoney we are tight on, he would carry and drink with it then come back to me and say "Baby, borrow me money abeg" and just so I don't deflate his ego I grudgingly give. I haven't gotten myself any clothes or shoes or own a handbag just because I try to save so our 3 months old baby doesn't lack anything.
Just recently, I found out he had been talking to one Oreoluwa and they could go on for over 30mins.. she called on his birthday, I picked and immediately she heard me she hung up yet I pulled out everything to give him a great day... sex even while I'm still healing from childbirth, cake, gifts, invited his friend and cooked and all the works.
F7nny thing is I've known about them all along cuz he acted funny one time she called and I snooped only to find the9r chats and voice notes. I'm not mad or disappointed funny enough...
I'm entirely numb to it but I just realized that he disgusts me when I see him every morning.
Toh, I can't wait for maternity leave to be over so I can go back to work.
I've told myself though that I won't be giving a penny to the cheat anymore... let him use his lesson teacher salary to be cheating upandan lagos...
Unam ikot
Is like u are going for best wife competition u want to win and award i guess, remember God created I single even though he said u shall be joined to a man and become one, he created separately and u die separately use ur head and take care of ur self, tell him his fault don't let heart attack kill ,u if u die another womab would be his wife and ur kida maltreated, have sense and take care of ur self ,you have ur own life dont live a mans life
DeleteSo i got to know yesterday that am not my dad's first born, and he has more kids out...in all my 32years on earth i never knew mu dad is a community d**k...i dont even know how to share this with my mum...has anyone been in this situation before? Please share how u handled it.
ReplyDeleteSend mummy and anonymous text with all the details. Make sure you are home beside her when you send it to offer comfort calm her and strategize with her
DeletePeople gossip alot I dont know why, trust on someone all they do is talk talk behind u, I have just activated my I no send u attitude back, I notice that the world is a game, and everyone is playing except me, I have learned to be a no nonsense person, as my simplicity and sincerity is begin taken advantage off, I Learn to move away from toxic people especially fake family members who contribute nothing to my growth other than to gossip.I thank God for giving me the wisdom.
ReplyDeleteWelcome to my world. People do not understand the liberty than comes with "I no send u" attitude. My life has been better since. Kudos!
DeleteI miss Oluyomi Odukoya
ReplyDeleteMy heart is so broken at the memory
Rest on beautiful soul
RIP Yomi
DeletePhew! What a read. May God deliver us all.
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