
She says.....
''ONCE UPON A TIME....MY WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
And it was indeed my fairytale. That’s me in the celestial white wedding dress carrying a bouquet made up of 24 of the most beautiful red roses I have ever seen. They were specially flown in from Jos that misty morning....12th November 1994.
Today would have been our 24th wedding anniversary, though we had been together since 1989. It was a marriage which occurred and survived against all odds.
The wedding ceremony was nothing short of superlative and took place at Our Lady Queen Of Nigeria Catholic Church Abuja while the wedding reception, the very first ever to be held at the Hilton, Abuja was a compendium of who is who, and a memorable extravaganza.
The pre Wedding Party took place at the exotic Jabi Lake resort and had Afro juju sensation Sir Shina Peters on the bandstand......we jammed all night!
so many years ago, and it feels just like yesterday...
On this special day, though you are not here to remember with me, Dim Oma, Dim Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, I want to say THANK YOU.....
THANK YOU, Beloved, for 21 years of immeasurable happiness;
THANK YOU, Nnam Ukwu , for the priceless privilege of being your spouse, your Queen, and most of all,
THANK YOU , for being such a great father to our wonderful children.
Till we meet to part no more, May God continue to shower you with peace and joy in His paradise where All is perfect.
Happy Anniversary, My Dearest....''
Wow such a beauty...
ReplyDeleteBianca is a queeniooo queenioo in aki and paw paws voice
DeleteI see SSP
DeleteNow he has died and she is still young. She has never been 'handled' by a young man...
DeleteMaybe it's the same juju Dee Oshiomole used on that white babe is what ojukwu used on her cos e no normal
DeleteI just love the very fist picture.. Bianca looks like a Persian queen. It is clear these two people were very much in love. These pictures says it all. Bianca att that tender age still carried herself like a true queen, se regal, so elegant and demure.I so much love her carriage and composure plus her incredible beauty.
DeleteBeautiful woman
ReplyDeleteShe is just very beautiful!!! She married an old rich,focused man and she was giving peace of mind, security,financially secured future,fame...gosh! I covet all these o
ReplyDeleteShe wasnt from a poor home either,she has been financially secured from birth. Her dad and ojukwu were friends infact he knew when they birth bianca. Their love was one of a kind.
DeleteAnd who told you rich men's daughters don't go into runs and cant be gold-diggers,I know plenty. There is an extent of money your father can give you abeg. There is an extent of luxury you can get from your father's house.
DeleteBut when you marry a rich man. You are the one controlling the riches and not what daddy feels like giving you.
My father is a wealthy man but you won't see him buy exotic cars for his kids. He will buy you brand new honda/Toyota. If you are travelling he will buy you economy and he will buy business for he and his wife becos he doesn't want to "spoil you" in his words.
Anon 12:21 GBAM!It started as runs. It was not meant to go public. When city people leaked it, they had no choice but to make it permanent. Bianca had a young guy she was dating at the time. Her father was opposed to the union. He disowned her and did not attend the wedding. They later made up before he died. Her mother was the one supporting her. What she failed to write about is the constant embarrassment she received from Ojukwu's family and his other children.
Delete@12.21, i get your point but your story is not Bianca's story. You can't know of Bianca's story with Ojukwu and call it runs. Never was. This is a girl that rejected younger rich men to be with the warlord. Defied her father, broke all societal expectations. Their union stood strong despite everything, survived over 20years. Their story has been widely written about, even made into a film. She loved him even unto death, theirs was one of a kind.
DeleteTobi I never said Bianca is into runs. Either do I think they met through runs. I actually feel like its genuine love.
DeleteI'm just saying someone's father being rich doesn't excuse someone from being a runs girl. I have a rich friend that was into runs,her father was a big business man in East but he doesn't dole out money,he gives his kids enough but the girl wants designer bags,first class ticket etc. She met her hubby an older man through same runs,they feel in love and are now married going on 10yrs. She's living in US with her kids.
The truth @When city people leaked it, they had no choice but to make it permanent. Guess who leaked it to City People Yes, the current Senator from Bayelsa who said he won't re-contest next year. Remember he striped her of her role as MBGN when she went behind his back to date Ojukwu. He was there first.
DeleteI think with her it was more for the power than money. Look how far she has gone with power (women's leader of APGA, former Ambassador and failed Senatororial candidate for APGA.) I still see her as a future Deputy Governor (because that is the highest they give women.) I remember when Ojukwu gave her a brand new Santana, her father bought her the new V boot. CC Onoh promised to give her far more than Ojukwu offered but mbanu she didn't agree. Ojukwu had his way with women. He was very romantic and a warlord in bed too.
Delete@SDK ndo if my comments are appearing as duplicates.
DeleteOk I get now.
DeleteMy mum was at that wedding. The reception took place at Congress hall of the Abuja Hilton. The president and all the important personalities and foreign ambassadors were there. Bianca Father gave her a wedding gift of two houses at GRA and a C class Mercedes brand new. Bianca’s Father was a billionaire and former governor so she has been used to wealth all her life and educated abroad. She loved Ojukwu, it’s as simple as that, not matter of money.
DeleteThe lady is beautiful! that wedding dress can still be worn by a bride today.
ReplyDeleteBianca is beautiful
ReplyDeleteStella this couple had a special bond that I can't describe! She really loved Ojukwu. She is so beautiful ooo.
ReplyDeleteLovely
ReplyDeleteBianca is an ageless beauty. I really love their love story. May God continue to bless and uplift you all the days of your life.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful woman!
ReplyDeleteAbeg, this woman na full Nigerian???
ReplyDeleteSee as person fine
I follow you dey wonder @Eka.
DeleteSee beauty.
Eka she no dey even fine for pictures, if you see her, you see beauty.
DeleteWow!!!!!she was and still is beautiful, happy anniversary Bianca and Happy birthday to me 💛💚💙
ReplyDeleteBeautiful!
ReplyDeleteIt's great to marry for love and have no regrets
Nice write up
This woman is drop-dead gorgeous
ReplyDeleteNo bleaching, spotless skin. Nwanyi na nma. Nne m imaka, nwanyi manaria, achalaugo nwanyi.
I don't blame our Warlord fr oinsistig n this beauty biko.
@Mhiz A... Don't write what you don't know. Bianca is originally brown. Just fair small. She bleached and still bleaches.
DeleteEehnn Anon?
DeleteU say what?
This bleaching that has worked from late 80's till now must be a good bleahing ooo.
Abeg go and take several seats biko
Myopia so because you people are just bleaching now you think bleaching creams just started existing. Does that complexion look normal to you?? Even vacations don't look like that
DeleteGo back and read what I wrote you Anon. I never said bleaching creams have not been around for long but rather that for her to be bleaching for more than 30 years and still looks good without any blemish, then the bleaching cream must be a nice one.
DeleteBut I don't blame your "myopic" view cos you don't read to understand.
She makes her own bleaching cream. There was a time she was even selling it. She is light but added bleaching to make her white. If you look at her now she is not as white as she used to be. Her toes are currently brown.
DeleteChoi!! You’ve even seen her toes too?!!
DeleteDon’t be silly. When people dress up and you see them, then look at them from head to toe, what then don’t you see?
DeleteThis Anonymous you get plenty time sef. Why so much nitpicking? We dey enjoy the wedding pictures, not her complexion.
DeleteI have a right to answer no ni.
DeleteThank God she married him.
ReplyDeleteI am not sure a young man would have been able to manage her and she would not have submitted either.
She was looking too pretty even me as a woman I am wondering how someone can be that pretty.
I remember Regina took over from her and you will see that she also n=knew no peace until she married a more matured man. Sometimes this life is not on a straight line jare.
Thank God for me too.
So because she is so fine it's only an old man that could have handled her Well? Na wa for your kind of reasoning
DeleteShe sounds materialistic to me than someone that was in love though.
ReplyDeleteYou are on the deal. The most materialistic people are from rich homes.
DeleteHer parents were rich nd her dad was a friend to Ojukwu, so which materialistic are u talking about
DeleteMy father is rich. But i made sure I married into a family that is even richer. I cant live below the standard im used to. So i dont blame Bianca. Can't marry a rich old man though. Rather marry his son. Lol
DeleteAnon..she was already used to the good life, money was never an issue.She described her dream wedding and the man who moved the earth to give it to her. Oh she loved him..and he loved her.
DeleteShe loved him because he was willing to fulfill her every whim. If Ojukwu wasn’t rich and powerful do you think Bianca would love him?
DeleteIF BIANCA wasn't YOUNG and BEAUTIFUL, do you think OJUKWU would love her?
DeleteThat's the way of successful people === HE WINS; SHE WINS
Sir Ojukwu Na real guy man.
ReplyDeleteYou can say that again! Confirmed guy man oo! This their love sweet die!
DeleteSome Memories Never End.
ReplyDeleteSweetly written and lovely pictures.
😍😍😍😍
ReplyDeleteThe first of the only two "beauty queens" that Nigeria ever produced.
ReplyDeleteThe rest?
Fake cucumbers!
She, Helen Prest-Ajayi and Nike Oshinowo were beauty queens. After that set ehnnn except Adaeze Yobo the rest......
DeleteWhat I meant was "first of the two beauty queens; Bianca and Agbani" the rest are fake cucumbers.
DeleteYou forgot to mention Agbani derego
DeleteForgot Agbani completely. Lol
DeletePlease replace adaezo yobo with agbani abeg...
DeleteThat list isn't complete without mentioning the amazing Binta Sukai..
DeleteHi Adaeze! How many beauty queens do you know to say just 2? There were even some finer than Nike Osinowo. Rita Martins, Rihole Gbinigie to mention a few. Yes to Helen Ajayi too.
DeleteYou ppl just think anons must be the person im not Adaeze. I'm talking of those that i will term classy and are still in the lime light. I even left Nigeria for years so majority of the rita and co you mentioned don't know them.
DeleteI mentioned those predominantly still in lime-light I will call classly to an extent.
Lol at the I left Nigeria. Google Rita Martins who won several years ago. Some of us too live abroad but know these people. Stupid excuse you gave there.
DeleteSee how beautiful and spotless Bianca is, and just look at the warlord himself Ojukwu.
ReplyDeleteWonderful memory
Olusola Saraki. Fine man.
ReplyDeleteClass
ReplyDelete"24 Fresh roses flown in from Jos".
There are rich people and there are RICH people.
See beauty. Jesus! 😱😱I couldn't even see road to read what she wrote.
ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary. What a beauty!
Beautiful Bianca Wonderful memories.
ReplyDeleteI'm a witness, my anniversary in few days too.
ReplyDeleteAwwwwww!!!!
ReplyDeleteOjukwu na real guy man oh
Bianca is a drop dead gorgeous beauty with a heart of gold, I remember seeing her greet the women sitting by their house at I can't remember the street name again but I think it's edozien street in Enugu, I was passing by to go eat, but bc prime people was my every week read, I recognized her immediately I saw her. Until now I have not seen anyone more beautiful. Is it the angelic face or the full straight beautiful legs, even me as a woman, I bow. She's really beautiful, as beautiful as a picture, then later too I saw her in school, I think she came to do stuff at the law faculty (UNEC)
ReplyDeleteCome to the abroad and you'll see women that are as beautiful as the morning
DeleteCome to the abroad and you'll see women that are as beautiful as the morning
DeleteShe's indeed a beauty to behold
ReplyDeleteAwwwwww sweet memories... Biance our ageless beauty...
ReplyDeleteBianca is not materialistic in any way. suitors that are younger, richer and more handsome than Ikemba came for her hand in marriage she refused all. I am still wondering the kind of pure love she had for Ojukwu. We went to Queens School Enugu
ReplyDeleteWhat suitors? She left her boyfriend then for the warlord
DeleteRicher than Ojukwu? I doubt it. I don't think you know how rich that man was especially inheritance money from his father that is still in contention.
DeleteYounger and more handsome, yes.
Beautiful.
ReplyDeleteThey looked so happy and Inlove.
Beautiful woman. Born in to wealthy family. Her dad former governor of old Anambra state. Humble and God fearing. Dedicated catholic. Fell in love with her dads best friend. Her dad was against it. Still was, only forgave and acknowledged the union shortly before his death. This is LOVE. Rest on ojukwu, even if led your people to war and fled. Leaving them to their fate.
ReplyDeleteShut your trap
DeleteWhy drag the civil war into this
Why not. Did the anon lie 👀👀
DeleteSee beauty abeg!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful woman
ReplyDeleteTrue beauty never fades. Like old wine, it gets better with age. Even if she contests again today at her age, she will give many babes a run for their money. Bianca is a goddess of beauty. Ojukwu chop better food for this life abeg.
ReplyDeleteI dey tell you. There is beauty and there is BEAUTY.
DeleteThe way she is looking into ojukwu's eyes shows she married the man she loved. Should Bianca display her wedding gown for auction i bet you she will make millions.
ReplyDeleteI must comment o, Bianca you are beautiful ,I dnt know the words I can use to qualify your beauty, Kai are u a mermaid Mgboo?
ReplyDeleteThe love story part got me crying, I pray that my own love story with my heartthrob will be like this.
Sweet Bianca, ojukwu will be happy wherever he is knowing that you are his wife.
"Was".. They've been separated by death
DeleteCorrect mermaid.
DeleteYes!!! Great things really happen in November.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday my beautiful princess. My first fruit. May God bless you all the days of your life with good health and happiness and joy and love and all the good things of this life, Amen.
The most beautiful woman I've ever set my eyes on. Gosh!
ReplyDeleteThis woman is just too beautiful for words
ReplyDeleteWowwwww,these were really beautiful pictures and one could tell she enjoyed the 21 years of the marriage.
ReplyDeleteshe enjoyed it oh. old money, ojukwu sef had oratory prowess...treated her like a priced possession and didnt let anybody rubbish her oh especially with the initial opposition from her father
DeleteYou are right - infact its like you grew up in Enugu, Baby Oku?... Cause you used the expression those who knew him often used to describe him : He sure had ORATORY PROWESS ... In addition he also had a certain AURA about him [EBUBE] .
DeleteI once saw his at the Enugu Airport in the 1990's. When he walked passed me, i almost fell from his magnetic charm, and he looked back and smiled kindly at me [as if he was used to unintentionally causing commotion in women within proximity of his presence]. Mind you, before that encounter, i was one of those asking WHY ON EARTH Bianca married him ==== AFTER that encounter, i understood.
It was also common knowledge that a few high profile women lost their marriages as they were following him --- it was Bianca who tamed him; and of all his extraordinary exploits, it is reported that it was only Bianca that he legally married in court&church!