The woman named, Elizabeth Etete took to her Facebook page to call out her husband for the betrayal.
She wrote: “Dear family and friends, I come to u in a time of great struggle! I am battling for my name and my children. Put me in ur prayers and help me share this post so such men can be stopped.
“Oluwatoyin Ajiboye came into my life on pure pretense and evil intentions. I have been fighting to keep a family together that never had a chance. While pretending to have a family here he has been doing the same in Nigeria!
“Too many lives has been negatively affected, and this has to stop! This picture of us was taken this yr while he went to nija to marry and pregnant the lady in blue! The second was the first attempt that didn’t workout.”
*Calling him out on the social media makes no difference oh....Madam if he wants to Marry upandan,please face your kids and leave him alone...
Simple..if u are not a fan of polygamy n ur husband walks into another marriage, cut him off, let him stay with d new wife, its just a matter of time he will cheat too, on her.
ReplyDeleteYou people just say let it go and move on. She's really hurting, do you know how painful it is. Its like you have given your youth, whole life to someone and he goes off to marry someone else without even divorcing you, many times with kids involved. Some even use this same wife's money to marry in Nigeria.
DeleteMy elder sister married one useless fool like that too. She was the one paying the mortgage, bills, he was even driving her car. He will drop her at work and gallavant and use her car to pick women. She will the one fueling the car. His mother will even request for money in Nigeria, my sis will send. He claimed to be doing business in Nigeria and wasn't bringing much in, as he claimed business is still developing. My sister understood and carried the load that in few years things will pick up as the business is young.
Not knowing this man had another woman with a baby here.
She has moved on, but that thing has broken her spirit. She is a shadow of herself,she had to send her daughter down her to live for the meantime. Had a mental break-down and had to take time off work. Just pray you don't meet Evil men.
True @ anon 12:13
DeletePeople are quick to say “move on, be strong, dont cry for man, let the man go’... As if say na so e easy, after all your dreams of growing old with your spouse. Before someone moves on she must cry first and do what she can to try and save her marriage, before she comes to terms that it can’t be saved. She must grieve and part of grieving is that you don’t believe what is happening, therefore you try and change it... when you see it isn’t changing that’s when you’re finally able to move on.
My dears, it is very easy to move on, do not fall hopelessly in love, finish..be smart, be selfish...love only God, urself n kids...u can fake for d man cos in dis world, nobody is indispensable, he can change anytime.
DeleteCome o why can't people just be empathetic. The woman is hurting and in pain and as women we need to be more sympathetic. Even u Stella see as u just rubbish the woman feelings. Sometimes I dey wonder why I dey come your page because ypu can tok any how sometimes. Jeez.
DeleteSorry stella I totally disagree with you... He cannot just decide to be getting married upandan... Do you know how many innocent lives he has ruined... Children left all over the place without a father figure.... Highly irresponsible
DeleteSee the idiot sef like who mouth go dey smell. Useless man!
ReplyDeleteIt took me only three days to decode the one that came for me.
DeleteI was so lucky. I would have been the one writing this.
I don laugh tire 😂 🤣🤣 see his mouth and lips like a disused septic tank. You give an ugly guy a chance, he starts to feel like a Danzel Washington!!!
DeleteStella you need to take it easy series when stating your opinion. Your response up there totally rubbished the woman's feelings.
DeleteMoving on is not as easy as you make it sound. At least she spoke it so people can have an ice why she is going through and though people might laugh or pit her down she would find a few who will serve as great support systems.
For the guy mind naw...na women dey rush am. Unam ikot.
ReplyDelete#Yoruba demon. I'm not surprised. They can't just stick to one woman...whether as boyfriends or husbands.
ReplyDeleteDid they force you to follow them. I forgot your women are loose and allow any demon to drill them.
DeleteStella, It not as easy as you make it sound. This woman is hurting. This is her husband we talking about here ooo. She has to move on and all, but there is nothing wrong with calling him out. She might save another woman. All these foolish men of this generation sef.
ReplyDeleteMarry Nigeria ladies do this.It is very wrong even if the first wife is a white.
ReplyDelete"Marry [sic.] Nigerian ladies?"
Delete"Very [sic.] wrong?"
MANY Nigerian ladies write this WRONG grammar wey you write so.
Anon, gerrarahia mehnnnnn...you nasty soul.. an intelligent person can see that first word was a mistake..
DeleteAnon SIC...you no sabi English pass me o,you should know it was a mistake.Carry your SIC enter your village!
DeleteAnon 3:05 don't mind the I too know up there,just saw the mistake now cos I don't follow up comments most times.
stupid naija men do this a lot...if you dig deep am sure the woman even pay his bills....men like this can never be responsible except God arrest them...madam pls face your life and leave him, if he married you legally before God he is only deceiving himself. God will judge him for you
ReplyDeleteY. Demon
ReplyDeleteNa so
Deletemadam what tribe is the baby daddy that dumped you. asking for my neighbour.
DeleteYoruba demon. Lol!
ReplyDeleteThis one is either "abroad husband" backfired
ReplyDeleteOr the goat tied to the stake has escaped.
The goat don sabi im house oo.
Na today? Yoruba demon don dey since 1900. Pele madam!
ReplyDeleteWill calling him out change him.. She just made things worse self...iyawo Oloko wondering dick..
ReplyDeleteshut up how will she make things worse? i dont know how u people will always look for a way to still blame and make the woman feel guilty..shame on the man and i pray she doesnt take him back
Delete@anon 13:18, women have been co-conspirators of their own destruction. Most have accepted that men are naturally superior to them, they pray to a male identified God, even the family name is passed down on the male side, and in most places along the majority of religious lines women cannot lead the flock spiritually. Interestingly, when they are ill treated by men they act shocked. The entire system has been rigged to keep women in a low place, and it is natural human nature to ill treat those who are perceived as powerless or beneath you. Women need to wakeup and become aware.
DeleteImagine shaming your fellow woman who is even trying to save others from getting ‘sexually defrauded’
DeleteCos no matter what, a woman must somehow be blamed..
Just imagine the wickedness
ReplyDeleteIs it that easy to move on ? Even those that can't move on from their useless boyfriend will be shouting move on like it's that simple. This woman have build her life with him, have kids with him and what not and you come and tell her to move on like she is some trash or wood. She is hurting and if doing this Will give her Peace fine.
ReplyDeleteThank you o my dear. I think us women are more judgemental sef. No empathy. Someone is hurting and people are saying move on as if na so e easy. This is someone she was married to o. Share her life and kids with o.
DeleteWicked ugly man.
ReplyDeleteThat post is from a woman in deep pain. I can feel the turmoil that she is in. Men can be so selfish an uncaring. Yet, when women pay them the same favour they cannot handle it. They expect women women to accept their outside kids and secondary family as though it is normal. Polygamy is not normal, it was tried and failed more often than not. Why is that in cultures where it is commonplace there is still infighting, hatred, murders and clamor for wealth. Just as it is abnormal for men to desire to be second and third husbands it is abnormal for women to desire the same.
ReplyDeleteSo sad...
ReplyDeleteMy people, the woman is in pain. This is not a three day boyfriend like we read yesterday. This is supposedly her husband. It’s good she called him out because that’s what she felt was right to do. But, if it were me, l will rather cry in the rain than let the fool know he hurt me. But, that will be the end. Jeez!!
ReplyDeleteIf he feigned family emergency to travel home and do this, Ms. Etete should take all his things out if her house and place in storage for him. The marriage is over.
We have Etetes in Kaiama. Make e nor be say Na my town person. Madam let him be. He seems to be living off women. He will move on to the next soon.
Lastly my people. I know how some feel about Yoruba men but it’s not only Yoruba men. Penis does not have tribe. Every man has one. A bad man is a bad man.
I concur. A bad man is a bad man, black, white or coloured...
DeleteWe have Etete in CrossRiver/Akwa Ibom. In fact Na popular name for my side..
DeleteIf I’m the wife, I’d sue him to stupor and report him and strip him of all citizenship rights and privileges.. and even get him jailed for bigamy..
Women need to know their rights! Which one is move on? The law recognizes your pain and makes provision to compensate you for it.
It is this ‘leave him, leave him’ that’s Making these men use women with impunity..
Even for failed engagement, you can sue; how much more marriage.
No be so Nike Oshinowo marriage scatter after the first wife sues her and the husband and won millions? She ran 😂😂😂
Education no be just for nothing, you must be enlightened and ready to fight for your self worth