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Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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'POLLUTED MIND'



Hello Ma'am.


I have been an ardent follower of your blog for over a year now though I have never made any comment. But I want to commend you for the good work.


I will be 27 in a couple of months and it is quite inevitable that marriage would be one of the the most Paramount issues at this age grade.


I was quite lucky to have met my boyfriend sometimes last year and the relationship has been nothing but amazing. And his family? Very welcoming, supportive, nice and awesome.


The relationship is well over a year now and all the moments spent together have been filled with pleasant memories, joy and mutual love. We exchange gifts, we pray and we gossip. Infact, I can literally say he is my best friend because I can discuss anything with him. He shows me off like a trophy to all and sundry and treats me like a queen even with his little income. He is so proud of me and made me believe that I am an answer to his prayer and compensation for all the things he has gone through in the hands of ex girlfriends. This has done a great job on my self esteem too and I love him dearly.


A couple of months ago, I told my mom about him and she asked for his full name so as to pray on the relationship.
My mum is the spiritual backbone of the family, and she tends to always ask pastors before taking any decision.


So after some weeks, she called and made me understand that three pastors have prayed about him and these are the outcomes:
Two of the pastors disapproved of the relationship because they saw that everything would be rosy and lovely in the beginning but later on in life, I might or will become more successful than him which will lead to envy and jealousy and it will be a very tough problem for me to handle . And again he'll fall in love with another woman later on in life.
While the last pastor approved of the relationship.


So my mum's conclusion is that I must end the relationship. I tried to tell her that this man makes me happy, he has been very encouraging in my academics and career but she said it all charade and pretence which will change after some years in marriage.
She still called me yesterday to ask if I have broken up with him. How will I just push away someone I am in love with just like that?


  Stella, I am very confused because I just can't come to terms with cutting off a relationship with a man that hasn't done anything to offend or make me sad since I met him. We are even planning on getting married next year if our.finances get better.


I don't even know what to do with all these prophesies.
I am even more worried about him than myself because he'll definitely be devastated if I break the relationship just like that.


I have tried praying on my own, but the prophecy has polluted my mind and dream life that I can't think straight again. My focused and faithful heart towards the relationship is now doubtful and I am so sad about it.
My happiness has been tampered with.


Why do we have to take names to pastors when choosing life partner ? Can their predictions be taken seriously?


Please note that I still don't want to make a grievous mistake in choosing a wrong life partner as well. I am just so confused. I need your advice and that of other BVs.

God bless.



*I dont know anything about these prophecies and would also like to know...Are they reliable?I think these prophecies mess up peoples lives oh.....hmmmmmm
Cant you discuss it with him?

100 comments:

  1. As if you wrote my life history poster...

    not all marriages are perfect...

    dont go against your mum...

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    1. poster please listen to your mum.....alot of people will come here and tell you otherwise.

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    2. Which one is listen to her mum?
      Why didn't her mum consult her capable pastors when her daughter was of dating age so they can tell her who is the poster's husband, his name and his house address so she doesn't have to date the poor man 1st andcwaste his time and emotions since they can see the future correctly? What kind of thing is This? It's difficult finding true love already, so why should they wait until you find one before they know they are prophets and can See? It's so annoying. Mtcheww!

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    3. Never allow anyone not even a parent to make the choice of a life partner for you, cos they are not the ones that will marry the man, it is you.
      Did you rush into the relationship without checking him out? Have you received any warning signals prior to what your mom said? If yes and you are comfortable with what you discovered then stand you ground. There is a thin line between respecting parents and being manipulated by them. Draw the line. You have reached age of accountability so whatever you choose to do is up to you, parents can advice but they shouldn't bully you into doing their wish.
      It's dicey handling mothers that love listening to plenty spiritual people at a time.
      Since you pray, take the matter to God in prayer and try to have a clear mind. To rid your mind of the pollution you need to replace every negative word said about him with something positive you have seen in him. Then pray to God and ask Him to reveal to you who the guy really is. If you are already gbenshing it will cloud your judgement and discernment o.
      Don't tell Him what your mom said about him cos saying it to him may send a signal to him that your believe her and if things work out between the two of you, the memory will remain. ,

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    4. Mbok let me perch here. Poster, your mom sounds like my mum, very prayerful and always seeking counsel. Tho sometimes, we run into fake pastors and prophets but what I always do is, pray. Not just any prayer, I always ask God to reveal the real intent of this person (the guy).
      I once dated a guy for 5 years and I prayed this prayer. God answered. Guy man just started misbehaving. First,The little things he used to do for me, he stopped and that made me know he was pretending all along. If I ask for his help, he would throw tantrums. for example, I paid him a visit and i cooked soup that day and we both ate. I later fell asleep and when I woke up, in that weakness that comes with just waking from afternoon sleep, I told him to help me boil water to make eba. This guy bluntly told me he would never do that!
      Little little actions like that, made me know where I stood.
      It's not a binding and casting type of prayer. Whenever you have your personal devotion, every morning, ask God to reveal him to you. Then keep an open mind, don't love, don't hate, just in case you start seeing changes. Don't break up just yet. Just pray.

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    5. Poster seek God on your own. But I wont advice you to throw your mum's counsel away.

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    6. Poster ok don't discard your mum's counsel and don't shoot yourself in the foot. Come up with a plan that makes you both stay apart for a while, do something silly or annoying for a while to see how he reacts. You can do this for a month or more. if he stays same, my dear poster go with your heart. See not all marriages are rosy all through, it will be rough at a point, then friendship and communication will keep it all together. I feel those prophets said that cos the guy in question is not that buoyant now. They want a rich dude for you. full stop!

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    7. Even though your mind has been polluted, try and ask God a sign, most prophesy are borne out of what they can get from the person who brought the request, so be very careful.
      God still speaks,try and listen,its always a still voice.

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    8. Let me speak from experience. I had same prophecies, this time all of them (several pastors) said that my marriage will fail. My parents refused to let us marry. I prayed, kai,I prayed very hard. I had several suitors but I loved my then boyfriend. Infact we broke up several times because I wanted to please my mother. But guess what? We always got back together. We eventually married and have lived happily for eleven years. Yes, we've had the normal challenges every marriage will have but in all, my husband treats me like a queen. There's nothing I lack, I mean nothing material. Emotionally, he's there. Sex? The best. Respects me like no other. We have beautiful children, too. I ask myself how my life would have been if I listened to these guys. I would have missed the best thing that happened to me. So, darling, pray to God to reveal to you who your husband is. You will need to be very objective to see the signs. Be fair to him because no man is perfect. Ask yourself, if this prophecies were true, why are they not all in agreement? When prophecies come, they come as a confirmation of what you already know. God is not a God of confusion. I wish you the best!

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    9. Poster Your Solution is very simple!

      Time to test those prophecies.

      Just call your mum, Tell her that you have met a new guy and you are liking him small. And this time you want to be sure before loving him completely.

      Give a full fake complete three names of a possible suitor. Ask her to hear from her pastors if he is your husband.

      Her answers will tell you if they are really true Prophets. #GuyThoseGuyoyos

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    10. Poster, is your mum married? Was she married? How was her marriage? What is she like in general? Is she wise? No offence but your link to God is no one but Christ who never fails. Your mother is human so will fail even when she is acting from love. And btw a pastor is a man with a job. If you play around with this good man another woman who's mother also loves her will marry your man.

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    11. While I won't discard the counsel of your mum cos my mum also is the pillar of prayer of our family, I have realised that whenever we truly try to abstain from sin and live a righteous life, (not just sex this time) God reveals Himself to us. All we need to to is to be spiritually alert, be prayerful and try to be holy. Try to do right by all men and seek God's face. It is these little effort that God truly want from us.
      James 4:8. Draw unto God and HE will draw into you.....


      My advice to you poster, be prayerful yourself, and when you start seeing signs that God is the one leading you, you won't be double minded anymore.

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  2. Well.....i for one don't believe in all this prophesies but you can have a prayers and fasting time with your pastor or Alfa and the Lord would reveal himself for an answer to you.
    That said, no marriage is rosy and there's a man for every woman. If you love him go for him.

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    1. yes,no marriage is rosy but there are some that you cannot just stand.please be wise

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    2. That is how a pastor that my mum gave my ex name to said my ex is very good for me,will make a good husband,have a long life, will be succesful bla bla. But he has an anger issue. It was brought on by people in his father's house bla bla (his father is late). But I should bring 50k so he can do some prayers to break the curse of anger issue.
      I no even answer the man. I already knew he had an anger issue and i was already doubting if I can marry him. Bvs not a week goes by that this guy doesn't argue with me,block me on whatsapp,even change his DP to a womans pic just to piss me off etc. Then i found out so many lies about him. Lies that can't be forgiven.
      I ended the relationship o. And this is someone Pastor said is good for me. A relationship we can't go a week without fighting. If I go out he will say i went to fuck a man. He will hurl abuses at me and bang the phone. I just had to take a
      Walk.
      Poster don't let Pastor choose husband for you or tell you this one is good. When in your heart you know he doesn't treat you right.

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    3. My dear don't mind them. That was how 1 fake pastor told me my husband will disappoint me when we were dating, told same thing to my friend , I am happily married, 3 years and going stronger by God's grace. Please pray to God yourself to show u the right way,not all this fake pastors

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  3. Fall in love later with another woman?.... maybe its a healthy love for his daughter.
    All marriages faces challenges at some point, maybe you subconsciously used wrong words & he'd get jealous of ur success, but you've been given the heads up on how to handle issues, if u like throway this guy, the next is not sure till whenever

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    1. Does your mother have a spiritual problem? What is she doing with more than one pastor? I don’t even trust a woman with more than one prayer person, that’s how they will be giving her different information, I will not even let my brother get married to a lady whose mother cannot sit in one place... always looking for mountain to climb

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    2. @pushup lmao

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    3. Push up- very very valid comment! Carrying different spirits from different altars... tufia.

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  4. A lot of ladies in the past have made a big mistakes because of prophecies..
    You go to God in prayer
    Pray with his name,fasting and mid night I believe God will show you things concerning him or after praying with his name you stil take him or his name to pray also..

    May God fix it for you and direct you on the right part..

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  5. most times these prophesy can really mess people up as Stella said. but then I have seen relationships that started well and ended badly. Y not you pray yourself out, I believe that God has a way of speaking to everyone.

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    1. I don't believe all these proohesies abeg. I know someone that had like three suitors then, one of which was her boyfriend and she loved him.. After presenting their pix to the prophet as suggested by her mum.. She left her boyfriend and married another...

      Marriage packed up after 2years and the man died after a year of their separation..

      Maybe what one believes in works for them eventually.. I've never believed in all these proohesies and that's why all these ministries don't freak me. If I manage go sef, even everyone is falling down, I don't fall!

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  6. My dear see now your mom is telling you to shun him, after like three 3 more years she will be the one pestering you to get someone like everyday.

    It's a good thing the Pastors saw that you will be well to do. Now you pray to God yourself to give you the wisdom to manage your family when the time comes. He will cheat they say. Ask married people most of their husbands do it so it's nothing new. With God on your side and in your marriage you can stand any thing that comes. Just say simple prayer of "Father let your will be done. If it's him let it happen if not somehow it should die naturally" but don't end it cos some prophets said so.

    Be your own prophet ooo. God can talk to you you too the same way he talks to them. Fellowship, time and a strong desire to hear him is all you need.

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    1. Here is a good advice poster. Don't jeopardize your future because if prophecy from a prophet whose source you can't verify. Nobody has exclusive access to God, we can all talk to Him and He is always ready to speak.

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    2. Poster, you might want to take senorita bonita’s Advice. I don’t think there’s any marriage without ups and downs, the survival of a marriage depends on how those up and downs are handled. I don’t think there’s any man you will take to prophets that they will not add ‘but’ for you. It is you that will now know how to handle the ‘but’. I think sometimes we are able to avert these bad things that have been revealed through prayers. Me sef I’m going to take this advice for some things in my life, it just made something to click in my brain

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  7. Since the 3men of God are not saying the same thing, my dear continue your relationship with the guy and if it leads to marriage to God be the glory. God is does not cause confusion. He cannot tell this person this and tell the other somethung else on same issue.
    Don't let any fake prophet ruin your relationship.

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  8. Those prophesies are lies.my friend is regretting it now.

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  9. Thank God you did not say that "God disapproved of the relationship" but that "the pastors disapproved . . ."
    The remedy; have a personal relationship with God through praying/fasting/bible studying and you will have peace. You and your fiance should do this together from henceforth.

    I ignored all such, my pastor tried that trick on me but he came late because ab initio, me and my now husband were doing every weekend fasting 6-6pm fri. Sat. Sun. for the three years we dated; no sex etc. My pastor told me he is "bad news, cultist, will not love me etc.". My parents did not support us initially but when they saw that we did not mind going "solo", they joined at the last minute. We've been married for more than a decade with kids and have never argued.
    Once you have peace with God, every other thing is secondary.
    They that are led by the Spirit of God are the sons and daughters of God; Romans 8:14

    Not they that are led by "pastors".

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    1. I need to add also that we've continued with that culture of fasting even in our marriage because that is what Jesus taught.

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    2. My Dear poster... Deceive your mum that you've broken up with dis guy and after some months, tell her excitedly that you've met someone else who coincidentally bears d same name as this guy... Tell her to inform her pastors immediately for prayers and let's hear d new prophesy.... If it happens to tally, my dear run for ya dear life. BTW! remember to keep us posted. Goodnight!

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  10. If all this pastors are seeing who's good and who's not good why are there so many issues in marriages today.

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  11. "Why do we have to take names to pastors when choosing life partner ? Can their predictions be taken seriously?"
    Please start by changing the we to you. Thank God you call them predictions. Let's all be careful of substituting God with soothsayers. Was papa recommended to mama via "pastors". Let's be very careful cos these so called pastors know nothing about Christ and Christianity.
    Poster, go on your knees and find out from God if that man is your future husband. So the first two pastors are OK and the last one isn't? I don't even know whether to laugh or vex.

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  12. What did I just read? Chronicles this days are just making me so angry.

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  13. a prophet told my choosed a husband for my friend, according to him all her other suitors were fake, guess what, they got married in 2013 and the marriage ended in 2016 after she had endured enough beatings plus cheating from the foolish horseband, she almost died in That marriage if not for God's intervention, and this my friend is one of the most good girls I know then, so u can imagine. Most of this prophets are endtime,follow ur heart o, cos I've heard lots of stories

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  14. Poster, for now, the guy has not done any wrong to you to warrant breakup.
    But if you're troubled about why your mother said. Then, hear from God your self. Pray and fast for divine direction. God speaks to everyone but in different ways.
    Don't be angry with your mother because she's just watching out for you.

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  15. Your mama na waka waka mama. See confusion everywhere. Your mama na the type wey no dey take ear hear say miracles dey happen for okija fiam she go rush.

    My dear you too can go to God in prayers. Do 7 days midnight prayers and tell God to reveal your man to you

    Good luck .

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    1. Hmmmmm Yori Yori I'm begining to like you in this blog. But I still have little grudges against you for marketing that your fake bishop here.

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    2. You didn't have to say that about her mum. It's insulting. I'm sure her mum meant well for her that's why she went to those pastors.

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    3. God bless you @datakwaibomchick
      Mothers are the best ever. Being supportive of family through prayers. The Phrase "behind every successful Man is a woman" says it all. As we age, we'll understand better what we really don't have enough understanding of right now.

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  16. My advice. To check the potentials of your mother's pastors. Write 3 fake names that doesn't exist and give them to pray. You would see that among the fake names you have given them they would pick a name that doesn't exist for you trust me. Pls do this and bring feed back for me o. Don't believe this people o . Go to God yourself or accept who you want to accept and face the consequences yourself. No marriage is perfect.

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    1. Gbam! Give them fake names and you will see them picking different ones as your husband. Be wise and stand your ground dear. I know a mother's love is so strong that she can go to any length to protect her own but in the process she may ruin everything she's trying so hard to protect. Truth be said, our parents don't always know it all neither do they see the future or have answers to everything. Pray with an open mind and stand your ground before you lose a good man. If he's God's will for you, my dear you will have peace of mind. I tried it and it worked so well for me.

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    2. What a waste of time!! Poster, forget about this soothsayer nonsense and focus on elevating your life. 2019 is almost here. Get serious!!!!

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  17. Nonsense. Are they God. You have a good man and one woli is telling you to leave him because of what??? Listen babe, you are the first prophet of your life. Pray, ask God to reveal the secret and hidden things. You will know if he is your husband. You will have peace. So many prophets have misled a lot of people. Too many that I know personally, the end result is a messed up life and children afterwards. That will not be your portion in Jesus name.

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  18. My dear go to God in prayer. Fasting and midnight prayers. Pour out your heart to God and he will direct you. Pple should stop giving names to pastors to pray. It always ends in confusion. All of them can never give
    u the same reply. As if God is not the same. ithappened to me but I prayed myself out.

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  19. Your mother is not a spiritual backbone. Her dependency on “pastors” to direct her life is her spiritual backbone not God.

    You should have stood your ground when she asked for his name but I guess you were curious. It’s just unfortunate what your mum has done.

    Fight for what you want. It will be difficult as she’s already under their manipulation.

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  20. Let me share somethig with you dear Poster. In 2006, I was faced with a dilemma of either staying in the country with a good job or taking the leap into the unknown to leave the country. My Aunty went to some prophet who said there is no way there, I shouldn't go, it will be tough there.

    I took time out to pray and brought it before God, and got the green light. Years later, the amount of progress and opportunities I have had (property, passport, exposure, international job etc) I am just so so glad I did not listen to any wrong advice that would have derailed my destiny. PLEASE SEEK GOD YOURSELF. Then pray He touches your mum's heart if you get the go ahead.

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  21. Please these prophecies mess up people's lives ooo, I am a living witness. I am married but not emotionally attached to my husband, my emotions lies with my boyfriend whom the pastors rejected. Poor and naive me, if only i knew what i was doing to myself. Eleven years gone, 4 kids and no feelings for my God chosen husband. Life is not fair sha, sbut sweet if you spend it with people you love. I miss my boyfriend. Life has happened to me.

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    1. 'God chosen'? No, you mean 'pastor chosen'.
      God's purpose for your life is not eternal misery.

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  22. Prophets are not God. We should learn to hear from God personally. In the scriptures, prophets did not choose wives or husbands for anyone. Just ask God to speak to you with confirmation. God always confirms His word.

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  23. Have you asked yourself why the 3 of them aren't saying the same thing? If truly God was the one speaking through them, then the whole talk will be the same if they are truly speaking the mind of God.

    See hennn, sometimes we tend to look for trouble when there is none. At this point in your life, you should be talking to God by yourself about everything, forget about the prophesy and tell God about this with a clear mind. Don't end what is going on well for you all because of what one prophet said.

    As for your mum, give her time, she will come around.

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  24. Obey your mother ..She is right...Right now it your future and life you talking about don't allow the love becloud your future..He will not be the only guy...Save yourself of Had I know ?The pastors are right ..God will show himself up...A better guy will come

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    1. The 3 of them didn't say the same thing so how are they right? If after some years she didn't come home with a husband (God forbid), the same mother might start asking questions. Pastors are not God!

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    2. Poster, you really need to take time out and pray/fast without distractions. God ll reveal all you need to know.

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  25. That's how my mom took the name of my sister's suitor then to one pastor. Na so pastor prophesy say the guy na God send. My sister too fell for it and married d man. Big mistake! The marriage was he'll and after 9years, my sis barely made it out with just d clothes on her back. When it was my turn, money again took my then boyfriend's name to diff pastors and they OKed him. Thank God I was wise enough to go to God in prayer on my own. I simply told God that if truly that guy was my husband, let everything fall into place but if not, let issues come up and let the rship die a natural death. Few weeks after the prayer, everything started going wrong and in 6months, d rship died. The very next month, I met my husband n I'm very happy in my marriage. What I'm trying to say is that, taking names to diff pastor(s) 'll cause more harm than good and create a whole lotta confusion. Pray to God on ur own and ask him to give u signs to prove ur bf is the one. He 'll definitely answer you.

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    1. Correct! i believe in praying same, asking God for issues to come up if the relationship is not meant to be.

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  26. All these useless prophets. Build your career and a solid friendship with him ignoring whatever they said.Don't tell him anything nor break up with him.You will settle down with him when the time comes.Thank me later for this.Idiots as prophets

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  27. Seeking the will of God from Pastor is wrong from everything Jesus taught.

    A very committed lady in her church (note Church and not committed to God) dated a man for 6 months. Both at some points belonged to the choir. The man in her own view was quite dedicated. Even her pastor confirmed that he is her husband. And of course as you'd guess, the man is loaded. So they wedded and lady went to live with her husband. It was then that her eyes popped open like popcorn; the man is a radical muslim; almost the boko type! He had boasted to his friends that he must marry this lady and when the thing got down to a bet running into millions of naira, he decided to join the church and subsequently the choir. Of course your guess is a good as mine, marriage packed up as soon as it started. The lady even in counselling found it difficult to forgive her pastor. But wasn't she laying her frustration on another person?

    PLEASE LADIES, THE LORD'S WORD IS THAT WHOEVER SEEKS HIM WILL FIND HIM. FAST AND PRAY LIKE JESUS TAUGHT US; AS A HABIT NOT JUST WHEN YOU HAVE PROBLEMS.

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  28. Poster,you better go to the Almighty in prayers and leave all this "pastor said this and that". It's because of pastor's approval that my elder sister is in the mess she is in today. My mum convinced her that the man of God she confided in had approved of her husband bla bla bla. My sis has been married for 13yrs and has never been happy in that marriage. To make matters worse, the silly man infected her with HIV. She blames my mum for all the heartache she has experienced. Go to God in prayers and get answers to your questions. Don't rely on man cos the arm of flesh fails.

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  29. SENORITA BONITA just said my mind.

    There is no single marriage without a problem. The issues here are not a witch MIL or a diabolical family or child bearing, or financial issue, abusive marriage or some terrible disaster in future.

    Look if your mom is looking for a perfect marriage, she will have to wait till eternity.

    REMEDY
    Its a good thing you have seen what will happen. And its kind of favourable to you. Now that you know the problem, work on your hubby. Get him well grounded in christ. Get him books, nuture him and mitigate against the prophesies. And YES prophesies can be averted. Whenever prophesies come out, its God asking you if you want or you don't. Its usually not a must. If its +ve pray and fast using the WORD OF GOD for it to come to pass, otherwise it remains inactive. if its -ve reject it by all means with prayer fastings and other frantic efforts, otherwise it will happen.

    THE TRUTH
    Every man has the potential of doing what the pastor said about that guy, as in EVERY MAN.

    MY CONCLUSION
    Try every means to convince your mom, go for that guy.

    Goodluck!

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    1. Since you nicknamed me ‘Political Anonymous’, I think it is only fair to nickname you ‘marriage counsellor extraordinaire’. How are you, my friend?

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    2. Awwwwwn, my darling!

      I missed you like kilode? How's you? Its been a while here, had to double my hustle. Whats xmas gonna be like? Lol

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  30. The prophesies are not specific in my opinion. First you may be more successful and he’ll be envious, this is an almost natural reaction that could easily be managed by the two of you, he may love another woman later in life? Well who says it won’t be a girl that’ll call you mother ?(your daughter), now the third prophesy is a contradiction of the first two, which means this is a gamble and someone is lying. There was no prophesy of early death, separation, domestic violence and the likes. If you think he’s good enough for you, pray and please go ahead !

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  31. I would advise u pray by urself,I had similar experience someone they say is my husband was jobless and didn't even have any source of income imagine what marriage would have been if I had made that mistake.

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  32. Did you have personal conviction before your Mum took his full name to the pastors?
    Love, friendship and most importantly conviction (inner peace) are what you need. If you have those three, you are good.
    See, the death of Jesus already tore the veil between man and God, hence, you can pray on your own. Don’t allow anyone ruin your future. There is no marriage that is 100% perfect, nothing in life is, it takes efforts. Your destiny is in your hands, place it in God’s hands.
    My pastor said that was how his mother’s pastor said “if the former marries his then fiancรฉe, they don’t owe each other any child”, he rebuked it, went ahead and married her, in 9 months, they had their first child. They have been married for over a decade now, going strong and their marriage is an example of a Christian home to a lot of younger people.
    Not going ahead with the man should be solely and prayerfully your decision.

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  33. First write wrong name and give them,secondly fast and pray you must surely get an answer

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  34. Indeed I pity anyone who has been visiting this blog without learning the life lesson that we share here. Some of you ladies especially, come here to fight and bug each other instead of learning. I will go ahead and share this story which I learnt from this place. I've been searching them out where I stored them and thank God I found them:

    Mary (not her real name) was 19 and very beautiful; six feet tall, ebony chocolate (if you imagine what I mean), and "an hour glass" shape that turns heads 360 degrees. Men began to come for marriage when she was 16 (looked more mature than sixteen) and above all, the daughter of a known lady professor who insisted that she'd complete her masters before marriage.

    At 25, she had hit the jackpot of a suitor and her mother capitulated. Ariel (not real name), her suitor is an oil magnate with an intimidating personae. Well, mama had to consult pastor to ascertain the veracity of the magnate's proposal. Pastor confirmed it and told them that the marriage is blessed with 3 boys and lots more. finally the wedding was fixed "in six months time". All the while, Mary's friend (a seasoned Christian) had encouraged her to take out time and seek God . . .pray and do not allow folks to think for you . . . have a personal relationship with him etc" but the "bride" will have none of it . . . she's been swept off her feet by the whole exactness of "the dream jackpot" and the anticipation of the family.

    It was during "counselling for the wedding" that the first shocker came . . . "why does the pastor want you to be coming in turns for counselling?" Her friend had asked but she could not give any reason. The "man of God" knows what he was doing. Well, long story short; Mary was raped by the "man of God". And what became of his "marriage confirmation"? Well no marriage held . . .The lady's eyes opened to all the deceits, she was too downcast to consider marriage to a man . . . she hated men . . . the downward spiral continued to the point of attempted suicide; and saved by her lady christian friend. It was then that Mary . . . decided to seek God in fasting and prayers that she overcame the passion to take her own life and made peace with Christ. Mary. . . is not married yet (in her late 20's) but has overcome the hatred for men . . .

    Let's see Ecclesiastes eleven vs. nine

    "You who are young, be happy while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth. Follow the ways of your heart and whatever your eyes see, but know that for all these things God will bring you into judgment."

    John ten vs. twenty seven:
    "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me":

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  35. Sorry poster your mom is not special or spiritual backbone of anyone, infact your mom has no backbone she like every pastor/envangelist chasing woman with no knowledge of God. I pity people with mom's like yours always running from pastor to pastor. God forbid some said I can't have kids and I have had a couple of twins.

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  36. Poster, I advice that you comport yourself and get down on your knees and pray for yourself, talk to God to direct you in making the right decision, let God show you a sign that the prophecy of the two pastors and the third pastor are either true or false. One of my in-law is married to my sister today because he told God to show him the woman he would marry, and on the day the society they both belong to in the church were having Love feast, he said he told God that any female that will pick up his gift, he believes that the person would be his wife. Note that they are not in any relationship, neither are they friends. Eventually,my sister picked his gift not knowing all of this. That is how they both got married and are living happily till date. So, I encourage you to pray on your own so that you don't regret whatever decision you will end up taking.

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  37. Since when did pastors start predicting the future? Na wa oh! What's this rubbish of taking names to a mere mortal?what happened to your mouth,why can't you talk to God and hear from him,that's how some so called pastors will be seeing what's not seeing them. God is the only one that knows your past,present and future,let no man deceive you,a marriage will only work if both parties decides to work the work and not by predictions,better go and talk to God and leave what pastors are saying cause if that was the case their members will all be in marital bliss

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  38. Poster put your trust in God and pray. Most times when you listen to these prophets your attention will b divided . instead of you to be praying that God Provides for him And bless your marriage, you are now praying for who will be your husband. you already have a good man, pray for him, fight for him. soon your mum will come around.

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  39. If you buy goats from the market come name them Akin and Tayo, come carry them names give those una "pastors", them go prophesy, come chose one give you.
    Instead of make una dey seek God, una dey seek man.

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    1. Let her go back to her mum, and give her mum random name (the person she no even no at all) let the pastors prayon the name and see weather they will discover that the name is not geniue.

      Then she can make her decision if all the pastor said are real or not

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    2. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.. thats true oh, someone should try this, they will prophesy that one will make a good husband

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  40. My dear pray this very difficult prayer and watch God sort this out. Tell God from the bottom of your heart that if it's not his will for you to marry this man you love so much, let him scatter the relationship himself. Afterwards ask God to connect you to the bone of your bones and the flesh of your flesh. Feel free to give God a time frame because he is your father and loves it when we are specific. Summary of this is God can talk to himself that's if you'll patiently listen. Good luck

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  41. Sincerely, God can use our Pastors to reveal what happens in our lives. But the prophesy mentioned the obvious in any marriage... you would have issues and the man would have extramarital relationship.
    I attend a living church- Greater Liberation City and prophesying is nothing new to me. Having said that, you need to firstly give yourselves sometime to seek God's face. This will mean time off from the guy, your mum and all... Marriage is a serious business and no brainer.Its only at that point that the clear revelation will come.Now you speak with loads of sentiments and emotional attachment.Nkmama

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  42. Poster please prayerfully seek the face of God yourself.he sure will give u answers.ask him to give you a spirit of understanding so when he speaks to u ,u would listen.

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  43. Have a personal relationship with God. Conduct your self in manners pleasant to the Lord. Be in a relationship with open mind and remember no one is perfect and their no perfect marriage. Always pray and thank God for a blessed husband, marriage, home and children on daily basis. This prayer has worked for me for 25years. Remember your mother and pastors are not the ones getting married. Best of luck dear.

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  44. I don't believe in going from one Pastor to the other. Before a Pastor tells me something, God must have even revealed it to me, first.
    Go to God in prayers by yourself. When you eventually get married, you must continually interceed.
    Tell your mom to allow you seek God by yourself. Learn to DIY, please.

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  46. After cataract,politics. Religion is d highest cause if blindness. if you too believe d prophecy that's ur problem,BT u shld b concerned abt ur personal happiness.
    if he makes you happy,den stay with him,if this pastors hear from God why are their prophecies different..think

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  47. Poster pls thread with caution when it comes to prophesies. Your mum mean well but then she's not going to marriage with u. There are many good and false prophets so my advice is to seek God's face in this issue. Study your bible because God speaks thru.the word. Fast and pray am sure God will speak to your heart or give u dreams but don't put ur future and joy in any man or woman of God. May u hear audibly when God speaks to u.

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  48. Poster go on your knees and pray for God's direction

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  49. Poster u better follow your heart and pray to God. don’t listen to these prophets, with time your mum will adjust. Most of their revelations mislead people and has ruined so many people.

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  50. Do you want to know if they are genuine tell your mum there have been three other guys on your case you would like pastor to pray on them to know who to choose... If they can predict they are fake names call off the relationship... If not you have your answer simple.. As for problems in marriage they abound u two must have a mindset of making it work

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  51. Poster no relationship without it's own cross to carry you can't run away from ur destiny pray and hope on God

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  52. My story, one pastor told me not to marry myhubby that he is not the one for me ,well long story short I thank God I never listen to him, i went ahead and marry myhubby best decision I have made in my life, plz leave pastor alone pray to God He will direct ur step.

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  53. Please this is a dicey issue, first thing is this poster do you really hear from God?, most times we tend to run to God to speak to us concerning life partners when we don't really have that relationship with him ,we want sharp sharp answer from him ,when we have not even mastered ways God talks to us personally, and this is really a problem ,because even when God is telling you something about the issue ,you will be confused that you won't even know that it's God speaking to you in any form from the onset ,because you have not yet understood how he speaks to you personally .Cos lot of things speak to people ..Your earnest prayers should be God let your will be done, empty yourself to him. . .And please do not discard your mum's advice. Apply wisdom ,in as much as there are fake prophets there, mind you that there are also Godly prophets there.
    I trust God to help you

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  54. Poster please marry him if you live him and if you have peace with him
    I was in your shoes and I followed my parents and their pastors advise and I can tell you that was the worst mistake of my life, I left a guy that I lived so much because of prophecies from pastors and later got married to the one that they said was good, the one they said was good was actually a scammer and married me for my money and I left after he had drained me of all my money and was making life a living hell for me the marriage lasted just 2 years, I still wish I never listened to my parents and their pastord

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  55. Take the matter to God yourself.

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  56. I don’t believe in pastors praying before you say yes.

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  57. Well it all depends.

    Don't forsake your mother's advice. First thing. Pray.

    Prophesies are given so that they could be averted. So saying the first years would be rosy, then latter issues.IT COULD BE PRAYED ABOUT AND AVERTED.

    I have seen this happen severally. Also start telling your mum the good sides of the guy.

    Allow the guy start visiting her. She would start having another opinion and pray again.

    The prophesy doesn't mean the relationship, God only reveals so that we could pray about it.

    TELL YOUR MUM THAT.

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  58. Poster do u know that d same prophet that prophesy good about my marriage years ago,also prophesy doom about my sis marriage too. (Crying) today my sis n her hubby are BLESSED that I n people around benefit alot from them while my marriage is suffering cus of financial set back. My only solace is that I loved my hubby naturally even b4 any dammed prophecy same as my sis that loved her hubby naturally too. I remember she said to me "I will go ahead n marry BBBBB cus I loved him n his family. I was really scared but when I saw her determination I was encouraged. So in ur case dear poster follow ur heart not d prophecy

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  59. Don't listen to your mum. See, if you Love him marry him. If the feeling is mutual marry each other. Don't listen to any of those prophecies. If you and your partner makes a determination that its going to work, trust me it will work.

    Those prophecies have done more damages to marriages than good. Follow your heart and stick to it.

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  60. Omg! dont let any pastor predict your life, i was told by different pastors not to marry my husband that as soon as we get married we'll not be happy but guess what i married him and its been the best years of my life. Those pastors are not God so follow your heart and dont let any man destroy your life for you. Pray and fast about it and enjoy your relationship

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  61. If the Bible is your standard then you must then you must realise that ...you play a role in all of this.. .Israel sent spies out only one said the land flows with milk and honey... you know the rest of the story... go back to your mum... but pray before you do... tell her you want to see the pastors yourself....confront them with God's word... Thank me later..

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  62. What stupid pastors. Useless “seeing” pastors that nearly ruined my life? Told me my sister was a witch and was responsible for all my wors, nearly tore my family apart. Told me I’ll marry described the man in his vision. Started turning down people that didn’t fit the idiots description, until i gave myself brain and married my husband that didn’t fit the pastors description. Years later my sister in actually not a witch but a blessing and the idiot had the guts to call me to tell me his wife was a witch that had been bewitching him n his ministry. He claimed to be all powerful and an all seer but couldn’t see that his wife of many years was a witch. God forbid i cut him off. Thank God my sister forgave me of all accusations. All seeing pastors are scam, whatever andwers u need the Holy Spirit will tell you. You don’t need another unclean human to tell u. Hope your mother gets wise soon because those pastors will soon lead her astray. Please stick to ur man, don’t let those unclean people tell u nonsense.

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