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Sunday, December 30, 2018

Singles Mingles Update.....

As we slowly meander out of 2018,lets do an update on the Singles mingles...that is if you have...

Some people have beautiful updates to share....






This positive update came in Yesterday...............

''Madam Stella,

I hope your day is going well! You are truly a blessing to the world.

I was meant to send you an email a while a go, but I kept forgetting. Anytime I remember, I feel like one of em lepers that Jesus healed but didn't go back to show appreciation.


I can go on and on about the things I have gained on your blog...too numerous to count. However, I want to share the most important one with you.


Are you ready for my amazing story!!!!


I met my husband on the September 2016 (male version) SnM. I never believed that one can truly find true love online. Our meeting was predestined.


I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years about 2 year before September 2016. I left him because he was dragging his feet to come and see my parents. I couldn't comprehend the hestitation. The moment I said it was over, he became super romantic and started begging. Nope...too late...I always think through any decision I make. Once my mind is made up, na only God fit change am... exception being hubby .


Now back to the main gist. I added him on BBM (based on being within the same geographical location), but waited few hours before chatting. I figured plenty girls will add him. I didn't want to compete for his attention. I didn't want him to be chatting with other people while chatting with me. I wanted his full attention (see strategy ). Our flow was amazing. It was as if we've been besties for decades. Our first meeting was 3 weeks after the SnM.


How did I know he was the one: I felt peace. Peace I never felt with my previous ex. Every one said I was stubborn (even my mum told hubby that I was stubborn). Hubby told me that no, I am not stubborn. He wants me to even be more assertive. I fell in love all over again. He loves and respects me. After love, respect is a major major trait that I can't compromise on.


How did he know I was the one: He said I brought him water on our first meeting. Quick back story: during our chats/calls, he always mentions how he drinks plenty plenty water but he is always forgetting to fill his water bottle before leaving his office. So he always ends up stopping to buy water. So I decided to buy a case of water for him. He was shocked. He said no woman has gotten him such a thoughtful gift. Then, I thought na lie and scope. But Stella, it was true oooo. It's quite sad that women (and men) have stopped being thoughtful in relationship. It doesn't take a lot to be thoughtful.


He proposed 1 year 2 months and we got married 2 years after we met...and we are expecting twins late Spring 2019.


We have positive impact on each other. We push each other to be better versions of ourselves. Yes, we just started. God being our strong foundation will continue to be our guide and guard.


Stella Stella Stella,We are super grateful. We love you die. I'll send some pictures later.

I am now a believer that online is an avenue to meet people. One should still take every precaution to be safe.

P.S.
We had a no s#x relationship. We wanted to focus on other things and didn't want sex to cloud our judgement. That being said, I am a great proponent for ladies to do what they want as long as they won't regret that decision if things don't go as planned.

We love you to the moon and back. *kisses*

- A very silent BV




*WOW;congratulations to you both...You didnt indicate that i should not share this story,so I am assuming,it is OK to do so...
Please send the photos,let me see oooooooh!!!!

78 comments:

  1. Wow... Beautiful story. Pls send in your wnb also. Cheers

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    1. So you like beautiful stories like this and not the fkfkfkfkfkfkfkfkfkfk even before meeting the person?

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    2. Congrats poster...God will continue to bless your union. I equally met someone very good on SnM and the only challenge was our genotype ( we are both AS). I for don marry born finish sef...

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    3. Nice story. I wish you more happiness in your marriage and safe delivery of the twins.
      I tried S&M 3times with the last being 2017 and decided it's not for me. I do enjoy reading nice stories like this.
      Ladies be extremely careful,iv met alot of scammers here. One was married with 3kids and claimed single,even though I asked repeatedly but found out after investigating through Google and Facebook, the last was a natural born liar,lied about everything including his name,profession everything(he was even jobless and claimed to be a contractor),he even stole someone's identity,name,pictures even videos and presented himself as the person. Until I went to facebook/Google again when things just were not adding up. I spoke to the real person and he said this is not the first time they have impersonated him. How do you use someone's names and whole identity and use it to add girls on BB on S&M. He even used the person's birthday and he claimed that same date was his b-day. He will wish his siblings and parents happy bday. All these lifted from this guys facebook/instagram and load it on BB.
      I noticed he never wanted to do video call and he was reluctant about meeting. reason I started suspecting him. He finally confessed to all bcos the real person contacted him and threatened him with police for impersonation and was now begging us. Idiot that was proposing marriage to me.
      Anyway same month i cut all contact with him. I met someone the regular way at my friends wedding and we started dating few months ago.
      Goodluck to all that find love on SM.

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    4. The only time I tried, one guy added me and told me he was single. While chatting with him I started hearing a child crying. To cut long story short, he admitted he is married but willing to relocate and marry me if I can sort his papers for him. I weak. Since then I dey fear SM

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  2. Over to the 'minglers' coman report

    Congratulations poster. God will continue to guide and guard ur household.

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  3. Love is a beautiful thing when you got the right attitude to love. I have come to love some bvs here as a result of their style of comment and really wish to meet some of them some day if life permits.

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    1. I doubt anyone of them wants to meet away from this blog based on logistics

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    2. Happy Sunday Teejay, please where is Lady bug. I miss her so much

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    3. Ezege you are scared of love jare.... I know say you for don participate during SnM but you too fear..thank God finally for Queen Aries..it shall be permanent.

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    4. Don't agree for Arian. Na lady πŸ› be the koko
      . Lady πŸ› your number 1 fan. But you self bad. You did not ask of her

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    5. Teehay sweety we love you too biko. BTW where's your madam? Abi u stopped her from commenting until after the wedding?

      JayBug 2019

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    6. Lady bug is still feeling the heartbreak @Omah and GnM. The boss man you can say that again. Yori Yori so you wish buggy buggy for me?

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    7. Lols @ still feeling the heartbreak. It shall be well with Nannybug.

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  4. May God bless your marriage.

    Aha all the girls will soon load drums of water to meet guys.
    Did you read where she said; "we had not sex during the relationship?"
    They won't see that one o.
    First date, they won't wear pants. There legs will be parted and suspended like ladies in the labor room.

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    1. Oh ANG is that u? welcome back. I missed you

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    2. ....na DAT hanging of leg sweet pass.

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    3. @Blackberry
      keep hanging your legs and be sweetly drilled or bring down your legs and be married.
      Some ladies live with a man, and think they are married and still hang their legs outside.
      That's not marriage.
      You see as this poster humbled herself to attract a good man. Stay on your high horses.

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    4. ANG, you no hear say them dey steal pant for rituals?

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    5. You don't hang ur own legs? Or do ur plaster your legs to d foam like a retiree.

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    6. Hang your legs and hang your boots for marriage.

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  5. Mmmmmh why do I feel that those selling crates of water will make a lot of money this 2019?

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    1. Hehhehehheehehehehhehehehe..
      water everywhere πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. Some of them will even pack cans of milk only to hammer tent peg on his temple.

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    3. Oh my goodness πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜

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    1. Sdk jumps into the comment section, who is she talking to ?

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    2. So if no story to share make we lie?

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  7. Wow! Nice story silent BV, Congratulations... so happy for you love every aspect of your gist, the twinnie part made me but to comment. I am a twin and I pray to find love and have a set of twin very soon too. So happy for you may your joy be endless...
    Kudos Estee for creating the love platformπŸ’–
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    1. Singing Luther's AnyLove🎀🎼
      I speak to myself sometimes
      And I say
      Oh, my
      In a lot of ways
      You're a lucky guy
      Now all you need is a chance to try good love...(thou he said any love but I prefer good love,I have to define the kinda love I want. I don't want toxic loveπŸ˜‰☺)

      In my heart
      There's a need to shout
      Dying, Screaming, Crying let me out...
      Are all those feelings that want to touch good loveπŸ˜‰?
      What a world for the lonely babeπŸ˜‰
      Sometimes I feel
      I'm gonna lose my mind
      Can anybody tell me
      Just where to find good love.
      Good love?

      Everyone needs a love no doubt
      Good love! Good love!
      Everybody feels alone without
      Any love
      Any love

      I know there's a love, waiting to enter my life. Enter my life

      Every day as I live
      I try to think positive
      I pray for someone good to come
      Any goodπŸ˜‰love

      Love is sweet and so divine
      And I can't wait
      For my love life to shine
      Can anybody tell me
      Where I can find goodπŸ˜‰love
      Any goodπŸ˜‰love?

      I know there's someone waiting for me, to enter my life, come into my life

      Suddenly I'm up in clear blue skies
      Lonely tears start to fill my eyes
      I can weep
      But I refuse to cry
      I've got to keep holding on
      To think love is strong
      To keep holding on, and I know
      I know, I know
      I know he'll come into my life
      Come into my life
      πŸ’–πŸ’žπŸ’—❤πŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’ŸπŸ’œπŸ’›πŸ’•πŸ’“πŸ’–

      Been in love before,just didn't work outπŸ˜‰though I enjoyed every bit of it while it lasted, but I know exactly how it feels to be in good love with the right person not toxic love I must say.
      Love is a beautiful thing, let's not give up on love people,let's keep hoping and wishing and I believe it will find us one day, it's sure sweet to love and be loved back in return...πŸ’‘πŸ’–
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    2. Anon 13:22 are you female or male?

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    3. Anonie 20:29 How does my post sounds to you, why do you ask, got sumthin good for moiπŸ˜‰πŸ˜Š? Lemme cut the chase I'm three times a lady in Lionel Richie(Commodores) voiceπŸ˜‰...
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  8. That was how one added me and said she got My Number under the bridge. How Stella?

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    1. Hahahahahahahah which bridge,is it the third mainlain bridge? 😁😁😁😁

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    2. Hahahahaha shebi you asked questions and you got the reply

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    3. Are you sure you are not servicing the touts under the bridge?

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    4. Maybe you posted your business flyer under bridge?

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    5. Serves you right. You dropped your number here and you are asking how the person got your number,no be madness dey worry you

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    6. Ewo πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ hahahah

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    7. Lol,she gave you the right answer for the stupid question you asked.

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    8. Common girls I never asked her where she got My Number from. She only said so. U ladies should take a chill pill. BTW I met an amazing young lady here. She sends me inspirational messages everyday and prays for me. I think I am beginning to fall for her tho. She's quite intelligent too. I also asked her in one of my trips what do I get for her. She said anything I feel. I was surprised...most girls will start asking for iPhone,money,human hair etc I will surely get her something she will never forget.

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    9. Castle, lemme o. Hahahahhahahaha.

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  9. Congrats poster. May the good Lord bless your home

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  10. Hmm I didn't meet anybody and I don't like the guys there.They are not photogenic, money conscious and boring to chat with

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    1. see you wey dey talk of being boring as if you are interesting.... you don't know there are many swag guys on this blog that don't comment...till it starts boiling

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    2. Exactly Natasha,the guys here are tooo money conscious.One guy chatted me up and asked if I have a car I told him no,next thing guy man stopped chatting .Me sef kuku fashied him.ain't gat time for gold diggers men.

      Another one called himself a Masters degree holder, he said he wouldn't chat with me if I didn't send him my photos first,I sent him photos ,he still said I should send the photos of me standing and sitting.
      Masters degree holder with sentences full of grammatical errors .

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    3. Anon14:38'is his name Richard??
      That cow said he was looking for a rich girl when I asked him what he looks out for in a woman and. He stopped chatting with me

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  11. I didn't participate in the last snm. But I met one amazing genius on one educative platform like that,late Oct...after I dropped a comment on one post like that bros followed me to my inbox and introduced himself..mehn I was flabbergasted to be sincere. I think I will stop the gist here...he told me he views this blog sometimes.
    Hello baby genius πŸ˜€

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  12. Nice story. Congratulations dear.

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  13. So happy for you Sis. The men I have met here na "pls send boobs,v***na pics" or "can we do video call sex?" Awon idiots!

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  14. A guy in lag a lawyer added me after 4 days he stopped responding to my messages. We flowed well and got along really well too. Anyway i don free am no time.

    Deji if you read this weldone sir

    To my babe Joy that added me I love you boo x

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  15. Congrats ....
    Lovely story.

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  16. Most of those guys na scam. All they want is erotic chats n sex

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    1. This is correct and nudes

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    2. Go online n download nudes n send to them.

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  17. Congrats poster. I love your story.Wish you eternity together.

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  18. some females added me up,so far we av had a wonderful conversation,tho just need friends

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  19. Congratulations. May your marriage continue to be heaven on earth.

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  20. Beautiful love story you've got dear.
    May GOD continue to bless your home.
    Safe delivery ahead mummy twins.

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    1. @Rubynnia, where have thou been? Wassup with you. Happy New year

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    2. Hello anonymous 15:39
      Compliments of the season to you.
      Happy new year in advance to you too.
      I've been reading the blog, though quietly.
      Thanks for the shout out.
      Cheers!

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  21. Time wasting idiots

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  22. Es oh jay. Is only God that will judge u o...
    Useless tiny son of a bitch.

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    1. Hiannn! You too? Wetin that tiny imp do you?

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  23. Ive met Wonderful peeps on this platform.
    Shout out to Amara,Ugo, Tobi, Laurette, and the others I can't mention. While they are some people on this platform that I think their heads needs to be examined before participating in this snm platform, some are so confrontational when you chat them up, and not to mention the ones always looking for pictures!! Shooo!! Some are low key married but looking for love on snm🀣 lmao.
    Anyways merry Christmas guys

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  24. Just made up my mind not to participate again. The last one l did. The kind of people that contacted me made me feel bad. Most of them are underaged boys. The only matured amongst them was busy asking for sex chat. Are u for teal!!!. Congratulations to the lady with the story up there.

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  25. Congrats to the poster
    God bless your home
    I wonder why it's so hard to find that 1 person

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  26. Congratulations poster....not been lucky enough to see who I want....Am done mbokπŸ˜™πŸ˜™

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  27. Congrats girl. I have come to realise that some will be lucky in this while some will enter one chance. Good to know something good is coming out of this, even if it’s at the ratio of 1:100

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  28. met someone here in 2016. he was jobless and still jobless. always asking for money and has not introduced me to any member of his family. in 2019,i dont think i can continue this charade. i will be a bit more outgoing and hopefully i can meet someone the traditional way.lazy lover. my attracton to a man is that the man must be hardworking,a hustler.

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  29. I met a guy here. He seemed a born again Christian. If I miss Church one day ,he won't like it. Then he started asking for sex. I had to run

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