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Saturday, January 12, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
WHAT THE MOTHER IN LAW.....


Good day Stella, Thanks to you and your blog for helping us to share what
we can't even tell any of our family members as i have a very delicate
issue at hand and i don't know what to do....
I need your candid and
sincere advice and that of the bvs.


 Have been married for 7yrs to a wonderful husband but no child, hubby has low sperm count, been to several hospitals for treatments even herbal homes but no result. Throughout this journey my family and hubby's family have been very supportive even though his mum was somehow fingered to be responsible for our barrenness after so much waka waka from church's and other places but i didn't believe because she's been so good to me.


 She requested to see me two weeks ago, i went
with hubby and she called me into her room and told me to go out there and
look for a man to get me pregnant since hubby can't impregnate me.... 
She
said i should sleep with another man, get pregnant for the man and pretend
as if my hubby was responsible, I told her i will think about it.....


She said the secret will be between both of us that i shouldn't disclose it to
hubby or anybody...she said even if hubby somehow finds out he's not the
father of the child that she knows how to handle him that i shouldnt bother
about that. 


Am confused as i have not cheated on my husband and i don't
know how to start, I love him so much but i don't know what to do,,,,, Do
you think i should tell him what his mum said or tell my mum or just don't
tell anybody and do what she said even when it bleeds my heart to do so?


Can i trust her and live with the guilt? Stella and Bvs pls what should i
do? Thank you all very much.



'If you tell him what his mum said,he will definitely ask her and she will deny and that might be the beginning of wahala for you.....
You can discuss this with your mum if you trust her but no matter what it is,do not agree to what this woman says and try to find out why she has given you this dangerous advice...try to find out if there is something she knows that you dont but most of all,like i said,do not agree to this...

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  1. Poster dont try it she will use it against you in future . And you didn't ask her why she suggest such to you

    ANNOY OWAMBE

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    1. Instead of this why won't both of you go to a fertilty clinic and get donor sperm.

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    2. exactly. what if she is dead by then. please go for IVF if you can afford it. how will live with the guilt if you cheat on him?

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    3. With that advice, the mother-in-law is giving her petrol and naked fire to go raze down her marriage.

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    4. Dear poster, have you and your husband exhausted all medical resources available at your disposal? Visit a fertility specialist, at least if you will eventually need to go the sperm donor/artificial insemination route, it will be legit and not this kind of shoddy deal your mum in law is suggesting. More so, your husband will be in the know if you're going the medical route, nothing to rope you into trouble in future. My 2 cent.

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    5. So even though your hubby has low sperm count,his mother has been fingered as the cause of your barrenness.

      And now this same woman wants you to cheat on her son?If she could use jazz to make her son have low sperm count,why can't she use same jazz to make you sleep around?That way,even if you are caught,you can simply say you were hypnotized.

      Lmao!

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    6. Poster your mother in-law has used your husband's sperm to drink tea in the coven and she is looking for who will go down with her. pls don't listen to her. She is evil. the devil came to steal, kill and destroy! In fact don't give if a thought. if possible, tell your husband everything. infact call her now, tell her you wanna see her alone. go there with a recorder or record d whole convo with your phone so you can have an evidence to show your husband. your husband needs to know the kind of person his mother is. Imagine! what kind of mother would suggest that for her daughter or daughter in law. May God answer your prayer and give you a child this year

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    7. Kamikaze, what are you talking about? Cus i dont undestand

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    8. I support the recording stuff but pls don't tell your husband. Keep just in case you and your husband decide to do insemination or IVF. With that she won't say the child is a bastard in future because you have evidence.

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    9. Poster DONT EVER DO IT SINCE YOUR HUSBAND ISN'T IN THE KNOW. SHE WILL USE IT AGAINST YOU O... Just tell her that yu can't do anything that your husband didn't give yu a consent to...if possible record future discussions about it with her incase she denies you tomorrow.

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    10. What happens to fertility treatments? Don't trust that woman, instead go do donor sperm and your husband should be in the know.

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    11. Better inform your husband o, nothing like that, inform him fast sef before she blackmails you for not following her advice, then seek medical advice on what to do next, you can both get a donor that’s way everyone is in the know

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  2. this is serious, you should have told her outrightly that you can't do that , instead of telling her you will think about it , even if you want to sleep with another man, your mother in-law shouldn't know about it, it might be a trap, beware. make sure you tell someone you trust, like your mother

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    1. She is not evil biko.
      This is common occurrence in many places/ parts of the country

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    2. Yes,it is common in certain places especially in cultures where a child belongs to the husband as long as the woman's bride price was paid before she got pregnant irrespective of who actually impregnated her. But the husband are usually in the know in such situations and they agree for their wife to bring pregnancies home from the outside to pass off as their because they cannot father children and they want to save face of want their family names to go on. Posters situation is not legit be cause her husband will not be in the know, it can be used against her anytime in the future especially in this day of DNA. Her MIL can also easily deny it and she would be forever painted as a loose and promiscuous wife. Imagine if some medical advancement occurs in the nearest future and poster's hubby's spermcount was fixed. This same MIL will start pushing for DNA tests on the previous children saying her son should not train bastards etc. She will also be pushing for new "good" wife and fresh family. Poster will then be stuck with a child or children and scandalous tales.

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    3. Why is it that Nigerians cannot just adopt children. They are so many children who need parents out there. And the child will even carry on your name sef.
      Is it that we can't love someone else child like our own?

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  3. Trust me, she cannot handle him as she claims when he finds out. And its this kind of thing that made friend's husband go to try his luck on other women cos his mom told him to try n also went back n told d wife to try luck, the man own catch, but d woman is still trying luck, I dunno if d child really belongs to d man, but , don't try it, if you guys have funds, opt for ART...and pray it works at first attempt.

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    1. Yaba left escapee12 January 2019 at 15:41

      If hes a mummys boy she can handle him very well

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    2. What is all this in 2019. Have you been to fertility specialists? Why are Africans so backwards and attach everything to witchcraft. You should have told that woman there and there you can't do it.
      Go and try Artificial insemination as black berry suggested. If it doesnt take,use an anonymous sperm donor from the clinic that you don't know. It will be between your husband and you.
      All the waka waka to spiritual houses with money spent. Carry that money to fertility clinic. Bridge clinic in VI, they have different treatments be it insemination, anonymous donor sperm, surrogacy and all sorts and you back it up with prayers.

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  4. Poster better leave the marriage and find succor elsewhere.

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    1. It's actually not a bad idea for her to leave the marriage. But she says she loves the man

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    2. Yaba left escapee12 January 2019 at 15:43

      Leave the marriage why???
      It hasnt gotten to that level jo, why allow another persons sick idea put asunder in your marriage?? These are trying times, like most marriages out there face, when the storm passes you'd be glad you held on

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  5. I have the feeling that the husband is in on the plan but using his mum as a frontman.

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    1. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars12 January 2019 at 15:22

      However, let your hands be clean. As in clean on this matter.

      Don't fall for this trap. And don't let anyone pressure you. Tell your mother in law. No. And that you won't be discussing the issue in future. Case closed. And beware of her. Pls pls.

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    2. That’s very likely. Poster, if it’s possible for you guys to go for Assisted reproduction, please do. You could do Intrauterine insemination or IntraCytoplasmic Sperm Injection. Those two are not as expensive as IVF and they might work since the problem is with husband. Please don’t do something you might regret all your life

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    3. Yaba left escapee12 January 2019 at 15:44

      Its possible.

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    4. Yaba left escapee12 January 2019 at 15:46

      Same as a movie i watched...
      The man & his mum planned it, but the loving wife informed the man on the MIL advice.. and the man was angry!! He said "Did you have to tell me"!!!

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    5. Great advice Adabekee.In 2019,with all these options,the poster still thinks there is some merit in her mother-in-law's evil advice.

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    6. Thank you Kamikaze! I think in Nigeria people only think about IVF once there is fertility issues. There are so many less expensive options. If these ones don’t work then one can do IVF. Since the husband has some sperm and the woman doesn’t have any problems, ICSI might work very well for them

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  6. Yaba left escapee12 January 2019 at 15:09

    lets assume you agree to this absurdity & go along with the plan, how do you lure a man to cum inside you in the peak of ejaculation? Or you think you'd pin him down at the right moment? Another man will just be fucking you constantly without any result....Or you know an ex that'd do this & not stir up troubles later? Its a dangerous offer!! The chances of it backfiring is enormous.

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  7. Madam, this woman; MIL is setting you up to kick you out and marry another lady for her son. We've seen this movie before. When the chips are down, she will deny you; your word vs. hers. who is the "prostitute, ashawo, akwuna kwu kwu??" You can't call on God by then as he too will not support you because with your two koro koro eyes you committed adultery which he frowns at.

    Solution: You know the problem already; low sperm count? Why not adopt -yes, suggest adoption to your husband and raise the child while the treatment for his medical challenge is on. Then if you are buoyant enough along the line, do IVF. Do not carry your two hands and scatter your marriage. Nobody will believe or listen to you when you are labelled wayward.

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  8. I hope you have your luggage ready to move out of your husband house. How can you even consider doing what she ask you to do ? Is better you divorce this man quietly n marry another than to deceive him. This woman is setting a trap for you n if you fall you will forever regret it.
    I have seen testimonies of women who have no womb give birth. Anon in spontenous post today, yes our God is a good of wonder. You have no womb but a miracle is still posible.
    Poster your case is just low sperm count n your evil mother inlaw is trying to destroy your marriage by advising you to sleep with another man. Low sperm count can be corrected ma. Do not invite trouble in your home.

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  9. I think the woman is aware of her son's medical condition ,dont do what she said, meet a fertility expert and he/she will assist you,i hope you can afford it

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  10. Double wahala. Poster be very careful with your mother in-law, this kind of advice if at all should be given to you it shouldn't have come from her. Tell your mum if you can trust her. I will advice you guys adopt a child into your home. God is ever faithful and children brings blessings. That child will bring angels into your home and then, your situation will turn around. Be good and do not yield to mother in-law advice.

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  11. Oturubeke...nawaoo you will give birth with hubby in Jesus name amen.hold on
    Ladybugsis#😎😎😎😎

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  12. Don't tell your husband oo. Don't do wat mil said also. You can confide in yo mom

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  13. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars12 January 2019 at 15:15

    Stay away from your mother in law. Ghost her pls. If she didn't know what the problem was, she won't give you this stupid and senseless advice. There is definitely more to this than you know. Stay away from her. You can.And pray hard. God is still reversing the irreversible. Should go with her plan, she may be the first to point you out. Cos you have no way of knowing what is in her heart. she is deep mehn.

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  14. Hope your husband is getting it treated. while at it, discuss alternatives with your husband since he is not getting cured on time. You can be artificially inseminated without necessarily sleeping with another man with your husband's consent. Don't believe your mother in-law can keep the secret.please involve your husband it's better that way.i wish u the best.

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  15. Thanks Sdk for ya nice yarns. When matter jam marriage/kids, you no dey disappoint.

    When I been dey yarn about Naija girls, una go tell me make I shut up say thunder go fire my smooth nyansh. Una see the coup de etat wey women dey plot for oga doormut. Una see as "bastards" dey take overtake marriages so?
    See as Satan dey im own lane, women just go dey "tempt" am make im come scatter and destroy?

    Afraid don dey catch me.
    Madam, make you cool down protect ya marriage o, na evil spanner ya mama in "raw" dey give you make you carry yasaaaaa the whole thing.

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    1. It is very unlikely that her husband doesn’t know about this plan. Most times the man will be the initiator of the plan but use other people for cover up because it is somehow to tell his wife this kind of thing.

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    2. I believe the husband knows about it too. I also think he can. Try using it against her in future if his situation improves and he wants an excuse to marry another wife. I'm starting to see sense in the people saying poster should just divorce this family altogether and go and marry a man and family without all these issues. Because in her current marriage, she seems to be all on her own and different people are using her to play ping-pong to save face pending the time they can discard her when the don't need her anymore.

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  16. Pls don't take her advice, if you tell your mom or your husband then be ready for too many dramas,except your mom can be trusted tell her about this & find a solution to this childlessness... If you are too desperate to have a child & can't wait maybe you adopt one & see what happens next.

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  17. Do not do your MIL's bidding. She seems like a dangerous person to me. You can go to her again then bring up this same discussion and secretly do the recording. Then tell your husband about her suggestion, let him promise not to tell his mom because that would turn you and your MIL to enemies.
    Do not do her bidding o, she will definitely use it against you later.

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  18. Poster be very careful o!!! As per what stella said about the woman denying eh..be smart.Next time spark up the conversation with her so she can repeat herself then use your audio recorder just for insurance.
    Discuss with your mother to hear her view but ultimately i will advice you not to yield to such an advice.She is the one that will expose you in future.Some mother in laws are from hell.

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  19. Madam go and try assisted pregnancy, instead of gbenshing another man why not do artificial insemination or adoption.

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  20. Poster, biko do not try it o. Your mum in law will use it against you. You and your hubby can opt for an adoption while praying for God to prove himself.

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  21. Poster don’t try it. If hubby has low sperm count you can try Ivf and if his low sperm count is bad that he can’t produce sperm u can opt for a donor sperm. It’s safer this way trust me.

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  22. this sounded like movie I watched last year, Rachael Oniga is the mother-in-law.

    you should have told your mother in-law that you can't do it, you guys should be opened to other options like adoption or surrogacy
    Tblack

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    1. I swear. I've also watched sth like this before. though it's an old movie. patience ozokwor was the mil

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  23. Dear Poster,
    I don't know how close you are to your mum,if you have a very cordial relationship with her, inform her.
    What if this plan was actually your husbands making, he only used his mum as the Oracle.
    If you can afford it, why don't you try IVF.
    In any decision you end up taking, do not resort to your MIL suggestion.
    Do not lose hope, pray, pray, pray.

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  24. Please what is the procedure for adopton Nigeria?
    Am thinking of adopting. I heard it's cumbersome in Lagos .

    Where can I adopt easily without stress in the shortest time ? Who knows the Port Harcourt connection?

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    1. That port harcourt waka you have been hearing about na baby factory parols ooo Ndi SARS ji de kwa gi your name will change to SORRY.
      Nothing good comes easy.

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  25. My dear no try am ooo, if u have the money opt for medical solutions.
    So i have a fav inspirational program I always tune into on the radio. Thi lady calle in totally broken. Her Husband wants her out after 15 years.
    Her story is that the man was diagnosed with low sperm count, hence they couldn't conceive, 4 years after the lady wanted out but the man begged and begged that she should cover his shame so she stayed and bore the insults. The man went on to become very sucessful and told her to look for a guy to impregnate her so they could pass off the child as thiers. when cry and insults were getting too much she accepted ooo, got pregnant but miscarried. He told her to try again she went back ooo but the child wasnt coming. only for oga to come and tell her to pack out now in 2019 after 14 years that he's gone to reclaim a child he had with a girl when he was a young and that he's marrying the woman that if she doesnt he was going to tell the whoke world shes been sleeping around.
    This woman was sounding so distraught, I really felt for her.

    So my dear dont give in to temptation oo

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    1. Honestly.habe come to know men are not to be full trusted ooo.is just wisdom.they easily forget the rain

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  26. Your MIL is a good woman. She's just desperate. Don't listen to people
    It's not today women started covering for their men by having kids with someone else. But it is a dangerous plan. It better to try ivf and if it doesn't work or if doctors say it won't work cause there is nothing in the sperm, then get donor sperm with your husbands knowledge. If hubby refuses, then time to leave your marriage unless you've decided not to have kids. Time is going. Be wise

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  27. What the hell is this???? Is this 1777 that medicine and science were in infancy and people had to do archaic things like this to get pregnant. Can't you go for IUI and then save up for IVF if that does not work out? Low sperm count is one of the easiest issues to sort out in reproductive medicine. You don't need millions, you only need one! I suspect there is probably more to your issues than this. Who told you if you sleep somebody else you would get pregnant? You think pregnancy is like water. Who told you the other person you get you pregnant instantly. Except you want to be sleeping with multiple people. Pregnancy is not always guaranteed, you don't know if you would have a miscarriage etc. In fact you just don't know! Save money for assisted reproduction and work towards that. Or better still use a sperm donor, there are a lot of sperm banks! I can't even believe this is something you are considering. Anyway your life, na una.

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  28. I think its a test and you failed.You should have said no immediately but i guess you kind of like the idea too.

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  29. This happened to a woman I know. A pastor in one of the popular pentecostal churches. It was almost impossible for his sperm to fertilise an egg , yet he hid it from the wife for many years. She later found out and confronted him, he begged her to go out and get pregnant that he will take care of the kids as his and no one will ever know. She divorced him, remarried a widower who had kids. As at 2010, I last heard form her she had two kids for her new hubby. The thing is this situation you are in will always backfire and you will be at the receiving end. Try and look into IVF and other fertility options, use a sperm donor or adopt kids. It is well with you, I have heard testimonies of men with zero spermicide count eventually having children.

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    1. My husband has less than 1 million sperm count with over 50% dead. I have 2 kids now. Though it takes time to conceive but it eventually comes. After all only 1 sperm can fertilize an egg. Sister, track hr ovulation and have lots of sex in that period . God will still come through.

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  30. Am sure your husband will get treated,have seen cases of men with low sperm count ,using drugs,adviced to stay away frm smoking and alcohol and eventually after some years everything was fine,dnt give in to your mother inlaw,try to record you people's conversation on fone or whenever u go see her,u may call her you want to discuss with her, when u get there bring up d issue she suggested ,record your conversation in such a way that when u tell ur hubby he won't doubt you,then let her know while recording that u can't do what she adviced and u would wait till God's time since your hubby is on medication, if u give in it won't end well , pls dnt try it

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  31. Madam don't you have a RELATIONSHIP with your husband???????
    Your mother in law told you something and you're giving it a thought without talking to your husband about it?
    Shouldn't your husband be the first person to talk to about your fears, worries and concerns .

    Allow the devil to use you to destroy your own home!!!!!!!!
    Better borrow yourself brain!!!!!!!


    In this age of advancement in science and technology you want to impose a child gotten from adultery on your husband and you think you will not be caught abi!????????



    If that woman denies you or if she dies before kasala burst, wetin you go do.


    Tell your husband what his mother said, but get his assurance that he will not tell her and explore assisted reproductive technology to conceive.
    You can use a sperm donor if you have the money , but don't go sleeping with A strange man abegggggiiiiiiiii

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  32. please poster dont take ur mil advise

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  33. Now that technology has gone far is when somebody will give such as advice.. She should carry her wahala n shift joor...even if there is no technology ish,can't someone trust God again

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  34. Na wa for some mother in law ooo. Poster don't try it. It is a trap. She would be able to defend you when the battle start. In fact she would be the one to expose you and that will be the end of your marriage. Your hubby could be involve in this matter but just play as if he doesn't know. Don't tell your hubby but you can confide in your mum if you are close to her at least somebody should be your witness in case. Go n see a fertility doctor I believe there remedies. Above all believe God.There is nothing He cannot do.Goodluck

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  35. Hmmm.....my uncle’s wife was told same by my grandma. The couple have never lived together since they got married that’s some thirty something years ago. There are kids. None look like my uncle even though their gene is very strong. My grandma is long gone and no one is complaining. Not saying they are not my uncle’s children oo... In fact this is not a true life story in case I am decoded. Lol.

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  36. Don't try the trap!!!!! Delay is not denial! Tell ur hubby about it. Let him see an urologist. Low sperm is different from no sperm count!
    Don't be pushed into a grievous sin!
    Let us mum in as well.

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  37. Poster please I beg you don't do it, that woman will definitely use it against you in the future. call her and tell her you can't do that to your husband. That woman might have a game plan be very careful.

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  38. This Is a dicey situation, ur husband might be aware, remember she sent for both of u.
    Even if u try ur luck outside and u get pregnant, won't ur husband be suspicious? Or he doesn't know his medical history? Same tin happened to my family friend, took MIl advice, got pregnant, had d baby only for MIL to leak d secret, she was sent packing with her baby, luckily for her a rich widower married her , she have kids for him now.
    My take, explore ever necessary medical options available and above all take it to God in prayer, he will make u happy.

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  39. What type of phone are you using that cannot record conversation?

    I will reccomend every woman to record conversations like this with their in-law for posterity sake. In case the mother in law wants to deny it.

    I am sure, she must have told your husband same. No matter how nice a mother in law is, when it gets down to it, she will choose her son so be wise. Maybe she told her son same and is subtly trying to destroy your home. Let me tell you, they will never believe their son has low sperm count. It is always the woman's fault.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  40. Poster, there's more to this your mother in law suggestion. What kind of mother would encourage her daughter in law to cheat on her own son?
    Your husband will get treted except your husband's impotency is a spiritual attack. Do not heed to her advise. Please tell your mother about it.

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  41. Poster how can you even say you will think about it. If 80% of people on this blog gives you a go ahead,I'm sure you will do it. My dear it's all shades of wrong. You will live with the guilt all your life. Besides your mother inlaw can subject you to so many unthinkable things,you can't say "No" because of the secret. It can also be a way to set you up and get you out of the way. Forget all her being nice to you,the heart of man is desperately wicked. If you are close to you mother,confide in her or any one you can trust. Maybe a pastor you trust, because of tomorrow. You never know,for just saying you will think about it,she can use it against you and say she was putting you to test.

    Pray to God for wisdom and direction. Also continue seeking help medically and get a good pastor to join you guys in prayer. His problem could be spiritual.

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  42. Poster try to bring up the conversation with your MIL and record it, play it for your mom and husband. Don’t hide anything from your hubby. For children, 7 years is a long time, I admire your patience but please start seeing a doctor. They will guide you to the right method and soon you guys will be Parents. You should tell your hubby that you can never do as his mom suggested rather you will adopt kids to show you really love him. “For better for worse” remember?

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  43. I think the husband is aware, he can't tell her himself, so he's using his mother.

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  44. Men, this sounds like a Nigerian movie. wisdom is profitable to direct, just remember that when the chips are down, she'll surely support her son, then e go do u Voom na anya

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  45. Low sleep count doesn’t mean no sperm unless it’s azoospermia.
    If that’s thr case why can you go for an IVF where the few sperms left can be used to fertilitize your eggs?
    You sound learned so I wonder why such ignorant statements or the wondering from pastor to pastor? I’m tired of this low IQ displayed by Nigerians! You have internet, use it for research. There is google, use it to learn. It’s not just there for gossip and slaying. Feel so irritated.

    Stella please try and use your blog to dispell ignorance. Does the average German think this way- the answer is No!

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    1. Someone has been ttc for the past 7years and you think she doesn't know about IVF??? Do you know if she can afford it??? Or you think it's everyone that has the money for ivf??? MtchewwwwYou people will just come here to type rubbish thinking you know everything

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  46. make intending couples test all testables abeg. make one man no use him makossa spoil person blues. if its the woman that has issues all hell will be let loose

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  47. Different scenarios appear to be at play here. 1. MIL and DH could be in on the proposed plan; 2 MIL had him via same away match means hence her wanting you to tow the same path to cover up some greater issues that you aren't privy to. 3, Could DH have suffered an ailment/accident in the past resulting in his predicament? Whatever the case, this is not a solution to partake in lightly. Explore all other saner options for the sake of your future mental health and wellbeing.

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  48. My dear, if sinners entice u consent thou not. Do not do it, it is ungodly. U can boost ur husband sperm by giving him roasted plantain and groundnut, seriously it works and also pray and trust God for the miracle and be patient. Also let ur hubby see fertility doctor.

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  49. My dear, if sinners entice u consent thou not. Do not do it, it is ungodly. U can boost ur husband sperm by giving him roasted plantain and groundnut, seriously it works and also pray and trust God for the miracle and be patient. Also let ur hubby see fertility doctor.

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  50. Dear poster, there's a way out of low sperm count medically . I mean assisted conception if you guys have money for it. They will only need just one sperm for ICSI. and if he has no sperm at all,they can use donor sperm from someone you and your husband will never meet . all necessary tests will be done and you and your husband will know about it. What your mother in law is suggesting will have repercussions

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  51. This is a bad advice. Don't think it at all

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  52. Never you agree to what your mil said, instead try and talk to your husband for you guys to go for sperm bank. Your mil will use it against you someday, never you tell your husband but you can talk to your mum about it. Be careful with that your mil.

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  53. I advise u exhaust all medical options. Stop going to prayer houses, they have nothing to offer. U can pray on your own, believe and act (faith) God's word and this situation will change. Also offer your husband unsweetened (no milk, no sugar) pap morning and night. Speak +'ve confessions over it as u do and God will show up.

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  54. Really, please how long should the man take the pap?

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  55. Abeg how long should the man take the pap?

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  56. Just do IVF with donor sperm. What is the point of giving her ammunition against you. They can even help you look for a donor that physically resembles your husband and the fertilization is done in the hospital. You will never see the person and he does not know your family

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  57. Poster your husband should try Proxeed Plus and a herbal suppliment called Spermboost.
    I wish you guys Gods grace

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