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Wednesday, January 16, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BLACKMAIL...

Good day Stella, please help me with advise on what to do please I'm a bv with an id. 

I got back with an ex we didn't actually break up on any bad grounds distance separated us and the relationship died away and during one of my visits to his place I went visiting with my phone and laptop once because I had things to do that demanded my laptop. 

Whilst i was cooking he went through my phone and saw my chats with other guys these were not sex chats some of the chats included me thanking someone who sent me money to help me out of freewill not demanded.

He became angry but didn't react, I noticed his countenance and asked what's wrong and he kept saying nothing I kept persisting until he told me about the chat he saw how someone gifted me money. I told him I don't have anything to do with the giver and he just helped because he knew I needed help, this guy went ahead to tell me he didn't know u was a prostitute that gets money from me even though I don't sleep with them called me all sorts of name and told me I don't respect him.

He then purposely called his ex girlfriend on a video call whilst I was there to get me pissed as a pay back so I can feel how he's feeling.
NOTE: this girl is taking care of his junior sister and schooling from their house as he's away from home and his mother is late while the father is old.


Whilst on the call I was using my laptop and phone and he kept asking the lady about his sister and why he hasn't been picking her calls, the lady shouted at him and asked him why he's not understanding that she has been busy. When I heard that I busted out laughing and asked him if that's the way the lady talks to him and he says I'm the one who's not respectful.
He told me he doesn't have any thing to do with the lady again that the family only volunteered to help accommodate the sister. 


The lady heard my voice and became angry with him and with the annoyance he took my laptop and flinged it to the wall I in turn took his and broke too, seeing that when I went to pick my laptop he took my phone and broke to pieces I left his house that night around 12am even without my keys because he even came after me with a knife in the house out of anger and I ran out to his landlord who came to intervene and waited for me inside the house to change up in the bathroom and leave.

After all this he started telling me through messages and whatsapp chats on another phone of mine he didn't see to break to repair his laptop else my family and I will have no peace and will face the greatest shame ever.
I told him he broke mine first and I retaliated. I eventually blocked him on all my social media, and his calls but the messages kept coming in and he became angry for blocking him.

He sent a message and demanded to see me I refused going because of what he did (the whole scenario of breaking my laptop and phone and pursuing me with a knife in the house till I ran out ) I accepted the fate of my broken laptop and phone and wanted cutting him off my life.

He started threatening me with nudes of me he took whilst I was asleep in his house other days which I wasn't aware and told me he'll send it out to my family and friends.
NOTE: I don't sleep naked but most times I sleep without panties just night gown. So at night he'll raise my nightie to take pictures and another pic he pulled my nightie to snap my breast.


This guy created a Facebook account and messenger with my name sent this pictures to my school, my male and female friends, and my aunt . This people have been contacting me me about this pictures but I'm too broken and down to speak with anyone even my brother got to know about the pictures and my school has called me asking who I offended that opened an email with my name and sent my nudes to the school email and the lady who handles the school email as called for a meeting which I've not gone because of shame.


Because of the calls and messages I started getting I unblocked him and asked him why he did that he said because I refused seeing him and disobeyed him that's his own way of showing his anger he has demanded to see me this weekend I don't want to go but seeing what he has done I'm scared too.


He has told me he's waiting for me to go report him to the police I don't know if he he has intentions of making it worst if I do or he'll just settle them and they let go I don't know what to do Stella please help me with urgent advise please.

Thanks and sorry for the long episode please I just wanted to explain how it all started so you'll understand please thank you




PLEASE GO IMMEDIATELY AND REPORT THIS TO THE POLICE AT ONCE.....what he has done is a big and you dont need to let him get away with it...There is nothing he can do anymore worse than what he has done!!

Do not go anywhere to see him alone and i think you should use the opportunity to set him up so that he can be arrested........do not see him alone else he might kill you.....

And do not be ashamed..what for?
Kim Kardashian became a star after he nudes were released to the internet,i pray these nudes open a new way for you,please stay strong...Also contact facebook to bring the page down ASAP....Please.

111 comments:

  1. Nne Rush to the nearest police station and report the beast

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    1. Report to the police and also get a soldier involved,if he gets away with the police he can't get away with a soldier.
      Don't visit him anywhere, he is cursed and he is a psychopath,avoid him like a plague.

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    2. Aunty I beg you in the name of God don’t go there alone, that guy will bathe you with serious acid, that’s what happened to an ex classmate of mine, please do not go anywhere without the police.
      Let them hide and immediately he comes close to you they should bundle him away, releasing your picture is a crime on its own.
      You girls never learn, you can’t say he took all those pictures when you were asleep, or else your face will not be there and if your face isn’t there then you can claim it’s not you.
      Go and see the school official or else you may end up in more trouble, explain yourself and tell them you slept over at a friends place after getting your drink spiked and he violated you finish, you will even get sympathy.
      Like I said if you must see him don’t go alone

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    3. Go n report...Dont go n meet him ohh..
      Can't u organize boys to scar him...
      What da fuck

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    4. Poster you must be a softie fa,see guys like this are hardened criminal and they need correct beating to reset their brain back to default setting. Set up a meeting with him and go see him with soldiers or area boys that will give him the beating of his miserable life after that strip him naked and take his pics while he's still in his own pool of blood and upload for his friends, colleagues and family to see. And after that still report him for assault and attempted murder. See as this thing dey pain me gan. Poster don't let him go scot free,make sure you deal with him in a way he will never forget until he leaves this earth. If you need help and you're in Lagos drop your contact with Stella. I have boys that will help you teach him a bitter lesson for free.

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    5. pay this idiot back in own coin. Drop the idiot phone nos, full names etc

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    6. @Stella,if u want to give advise, please do, without adding salt to the injury.Kim K regret in life is that nude and her greatest fear in life is what she will tell and explain it to her children.
      That is not a good explain to use.U already gave d advise of seeing and reporting to d Police,that is good but please,don't be emotional in giving advise.

      U also need to get across to her via phone or mails to uplift her emotions.As a media person with years of experience,kindly assist in tracking d pictures getting it down.

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    7. You should have left his house the minute he called you a prostitute .

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    8. This guy must be a sociopath. Do not go anywhere near him, he will do you serious harm.
      Get the police involved.

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    9. I can provide some army guys if you want. Let me know when!

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    10. @ Anon 08:51, you can provide some army guys and you're anonymous. No phone number,no e-mail address, nothing. How is she going to reach you?

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  2. Hmm... people no just get conscience at all.

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    1. I am so angry with this guy, please release his contact by the time we All finish calling him to insult him without knowing what he has done he will run mad.
      We had one wicked teach in ss3 we collected his number about 50 children called and kept insulting him, the man wanted to die, this kind of mad people deserve only insane treatments

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    2. poster I'm in support of what @Pushup said,release the bastards number let's deal with him if you can't report him to the police😬😬😬

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  3. He has already done the worse now,there is no need seeing him again,for what now.Please report him immediately as advised by Stella..The guy is one chance.

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  4. Don't you dareeeee go and see that guy. He's wicked. Report to police asap like Stella said upthere. He just wants to kill you

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  5. So what we're you doing in that house; forking?
    Ngwanu it is time to close that tohtoh before spider go lay eggs there.

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    1. STF UP saintlin...if she fucks how is that your fucking business?Dont you fuck?Ram

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  6. This type of animals, don't waste your time going to police, just arrange some military men and they will eat ofe akwu on top his body.

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    1. Arrange area boys codedly to treat his fuck up, strip him naked & take pictures too... i hate nonsense.

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    2. If she arrange area boys, he mighty come after her later.

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    3. He won't come after her...when dey give him serz mark he will understand

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    4. He won't come after her...stop it

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    5. Honestly! Police men won't solve anything but still report to them first then use army guys to pick him up and deal with him seriously. Reporting to police guys is to cover your back in case he goes there to report what the army guys would have done to him. Such an irritant!

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    6. Anon15:27πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    7. Poster, I know it's not easy what's the worst that can happen since he already sent out your nude pictures. Just report to military men. They know how to deal with such madness. He is stupid.

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  7. My dear, There is nothing more he can do to you. He has done his worst by posting your nude pictures. Nothing more. No need reporting him to the police. Nigerian Police is a wash when it comes to such cases. Don't you have siblings/parents?. Report him to them. Tell it all. Don't be ashamed. Shit happens. Don't you have people that can worn him to stay clear of you?. Do you not have boys you can hire to teach him a lesson?. As per going to see him, please RUN as far as your legs can carry you from this guy. Don't come anywhere closer to him. He is sick and needs to take his medications. What sort of anger will make a man break a woman's phone and laptop. He went as far as chasing you with a knife. hmmm. If you go close to this man. Anything you see. You will take it.

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    1. Report him to the police! Destruction of property is a crime. Revenge porn is a crime. These men need to be shamed and convicted. Wouldn’t you like to know when you google a man you just meet that he leaks nudes and abuses women. Please, report.

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    2. If she does not report him to the police how the hell will she get to sign an undertaken to stay far away from her?

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    3. Our Nigerian police are doing their work well now unlike before. Let her report the psychopath asap.

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    4. Poster, before you take any action of using soldiers etc, report him to the police and they will make him sign an undertaking that he will be held responsible for any harm that befalls you. This dude can arrange for people to pour acid on you from a bike because he sounds like a sociopath. You need to get your family involved, call your brother, if you can't tell your parents, to go with you to the station to make a complaint. Don't accept you broke his laptop. Your statement should be that he started breaking your things and picked his when yours landed next to his thinking it was yours. You also need to publicly shame him. Post his details here so people can storm his Facebook page and expose him. Hiding inside for a mad man's mistake makes no sense. You need to fight him like a mad woman else he will squash you like a fly. Get up and take back your life!

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  8. Biko go and report something similar happened to my family friend. They got him arrested and told him to sigh an undertaken... Don't take it easy with him at all guys like that are meant to be dealt with.. Ewu

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    1. Exactly! If you don't report him to the Police, he'll continue taking advantage of you, even blackmail you. Get him to sign an undertaking to stay away from you.

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    2. Exactly! If you don't report him to the Police, he'll continue taking advantage of you, even blackmail you. Get him to sign an undertaking to stay away from you.

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    3. I strongly support you, report him first to the police, let it be in the record and they will make him sign an undertaking.

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  9. Men that use nudes to blackmail or disgrace ladies are sadist, psychotic and damaged human beings. They are broken and damaged and have serious complex issues. My dear keep your head up. You did nothing wrong, all you did was to unfortunately get involved with a mental psychopath. It happens. There is nothing to be ashamed of. take this as a learning experience. As for the deranged individual, don't you worry, his karma is coming

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  10. This guy is a criminal. He has no right taking those pix. Report him asap. Sick mofo. I hate guys who are emotional. My ex used to be like that. First time he threatened me, I left and never looked back...I reported him to the police, and they showed him.

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  11. He has done his worst nothing more again.now is ur turn to deal with him with the authority. what are u shy of,d deed has been done now is for u to stand ur ground and let him know DAT u are more than what he tinks of u.show him,show him hot pepper let him know u are a lion u nobody plays wit a lion and go free.kai d tin just dey pain me.

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  12. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars16 January 2019 at 15:16

    What power does he have over you when your nudes are out there already? I agree with SDK. Pls report him ASAP and stop avoiding the panel and your brother. If you don't speak out, it means he is right. What a vindictive and a very wicked and weak man. Only weak people behave in this manner. Report to Facebook ASAP and have that page brought down. Look at yourself and tell him you are stronger than him. And stand up to him.

    And explain to your family they will stand by you.

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  13. So your idea of stardom is nudity?
    Really?

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    1. Like, i honestly don't get that part too. Yes, Kim Kardashian is famous and wealthy but that doesn't make her a good role model. There are so many famous and wealthy people in the world who didn't make it through a sex tape.

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  14. Please report the case to the police immediately and DO not go and meet him.This too shall pass,be strong

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  15. See how i`m boiling with anger. Please get the bastard arrested, go with soldiers and have him locked up. The guy is a psychopath and if you go to him alone,he might kill or maim you. Don t let him hold the nudes over your head for the rest of your life,there is nothing people have not seen before,call his bluff and turn the tables on him.

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  16. Poster,sorry you have to go through this. You should man up and keep moving. How did you even end up with that guy? He's so not normal.

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    1. Please when someone is a victim don’t be asking them questions like “how”. We’ve all been duped or deceived by wicked people. She has already left the guy so no need to still be asking her “how”. Not saying you meant harm, but casual victim blaming is a bad habit we need to stop as Nigerians.

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    2. Thank you Anon. You should also know that there's something called a rhetorical question.

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  17. Set him up to be beaten by your brothers.

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  18. The police is your friend right now. Just do as Stella has done ASAP. What nonsense. He can't do more than what he's done so don't be ashamed. After all,nudes these days dey sell person. It will trend for a while and before you know it,viam,its gone.

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  19. Wow babes there is noting to be ashamed of. The picturea themselves will vindicate him. Report to the nearest police station and get a good lawyer to charge him to court. You are on your way to being a millionaire

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  20. You better take him to the police station and SUE HIS BLACK ASS. LET HIM AND HIS GENERATION PAY FOR DAMAGES.He must be MAD! Keep every chat you have with hi as evidence. You can SUE FOR REVENGE PORN!

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  21. Poster please report the matter to the police
    Secondly be very careful with him, with his mindset, he set you up with guys to rape and videos you
    I think he is immature

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  22. Just save your conversations ,where he accepted that he did all dt,plan as if u want to make peace , but have plans with the police to arrest him, go with your brother or whoever your trust in ur family ,just get him arrested,he has done his worst,nothing more,brace urself,face him squarely and make sure he goes to prison,dnt settle out of court,you have nothing to be ashamed of,na pic them see ,them no see real life,just dnt let him win,its obviously he is a sicko and i wonder how u didn't notice ,for him to be taking ur pictures without u knowing means he has had plans to hurt u for long without u offending him .But whatever happens pls dnt let him go scort free, i know you are hurting but just like Stella said,it will pass, people will forget later and move on ,but let him regret his actions for the rest of his life

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  23. How do you people meet these beasts??? An ex should be an ex, no going back. I really don't know what to say. No need of police. This is Nigeria. Just be carrying knife anywhere you are going to. It may come in handy.

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    1. anon 15:27 you're d biggest fool of all. You're even worse than d guy in question. Why will u advice her to carry knife anywhere she's going? if u don't have any reasonable advice to give, u can simply read and learn from others.

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  24. Traits of a campus cultist. That guy needs to be beaten by hungry soldiers. You no know any soldier or Naval guys? If you do, tell them your story and leave the rest to them..... I assure you dem go deal with that Bastard and he won't even know who he offended.

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  25. Stella,thanks so much for this advise given to d poster.Pls poster,in ur own interest follow what Stella has said without any delay.

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  26. Don't set him up, he might be beaten to death and his blood will be on your head, report him to the police, he'll be invited and sign an undertaken... No harm will come near you. Raise your head and stand tall, do not be ashamed, explain to your people and let it be...this too shall pass.

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  27. If you report to the police it WILL be taken up. There are also many organisations that will help you. If you live in lagos contact STER or the Mirabel organisation. Revenge porn is a crime and punishable by imprisonment. He also needs to pay for destroying your property and threatening your life. Anonymously give his name if you can to a social media activist that will shame him. Twitter or Facebook, anyone you like. Go MAD if you want, or kill him with your silence. Either way, make sure you WIN this case. Please.

    Nigerian women it’s time to stop “being the bigger person” and “forgiving”. Take legal action when you can, please. Whether or not he took those pictures with your consent it is revenge porn and voyeurism the moment he puts it on the internet without your consent. The people who sent that to, if they are decent humans they’ll know you’re the victim here. There’s no pant they’ve not seeing before. We’re adults. We have sex, we watch porn, we also have genitals. We have to stop letting sick men use sex to shame women. Please, report him, or give the case to someone who will. I really wish you the best.

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  28. If you know any army person, report him there for them to take quick action cause he might bribe the police. What nonsense, God just saved you from such a horrible man

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  29. Sister, please be strong. I know this is hard. I wish I could talk to you. We will all be praying for you on this blog

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  30. That guy is evil. Whatelse does he want to see yup for? As he not done his worst? My dear go n report him n get home arrested as soon as possible. What a nonsense. Go and see the handler of your school email and explain everything. There is no shame in this. It has happened. Face it n deal with the wicked soul that you call ex.He broke your laptop, was he expecting you to fold ur arms and then congratulate him without retaliating? Nude is no longer a new thing. U were not the one that put them up on the net. Involve ur family n don't be ashamed.

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  31. He’s threatening you with the police because he’s scared. This guy is a narcissist. When you show them the slightest aggression and signs that you’re done they are filled with fear and will do any desperate thing to control you. Show him a side he hasn’t seen before, watch him cry like a baby. But do not keep him anonymous if you can. SHAME him. Report him to the police. Maybe he has something on his ex that’s why she’s hosting his sister. If his exes had reported him you think you’d be in this position. Please do something.

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  32. Go to a soldier barrack and report him there in fact settle them sef, so that they will go and pick the guy and show him shege banza

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  33. A lot of guys are low key mental and are just waiting for small thing to explode their madness.

    I remember a friend telling me once that babe before you enter oga House see him so pissed at you deliberately do something really bad and watch his reaction.She wanted me to check how hot tempered he can be. Somethings needs to play out during dating so you know if you can cope during the marriage.

    He has done his worse. Arrest him. There's nothing he can do again. Please don't go see him alone. That guy can even set you up to be beaten avoid him seriously.

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  34. My dear please I am on my knees report the he-goat to the police that's if truly you are here to listen to us,pick Up your family members call and open up to them just like you did here, make sure you carry them along.never ever go alone just like what Stella said the Mumu boy is ready to strangle you at any given location just have that at the back of your mind. The motherfucker should be dealt with like now now now. Please start opening up. Goodluck my dear may God strengthen you.

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  35. Hmmmmm...na wah o BV with an ID. Could we start by scratching the part where you claimed he took your nude photo whilst you were sleeping? You were sleeping, not dead my dear. If someone can lift your nightie and snap pictures, it means you can be raped without knowing too once asleep.

    This is why I don't believe in the word 'Ex' when it comes to romantic relationships. Anyway, it's obvious you are scared of this animal in human skin. Why? You were a side chick to begin with. The lady who cares for his sister is the main chick and he would never do to her what he did to you. Didn't you witness how she talks to him and also how he reacted when she got angry at your presence? He went crazy because she's the real deal.

    Stella's red pen is quite on point today however and I'd add that you get a lawyer as well. It would make the police take things more seriously. That sorry excuse of a boy (even though you loaded his gun with the bullets he shot you with) should see the inside of a cell/court/jail or pay hefty damages for the emotional and physical trauma he put you through. If you are female, NEVER EVER let a man have your nude photos! Not even your legally married husband. Any man who demands that is a pervert. Besides, his phone or Laptop could get stolen by persons who might have no qualms about publishing such. Ladies, guard your dignity with everything you've got. The Bible says: "Beware of dogs." Phillipians 3:2.

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    1. Duhh..he got angry cus he was disgraced. Babe wey him bin wan use form rubbish am.

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  36. 2 bleesed 2 curse16 January 2019 at 15:42

    Make a report as quick as possible and get him dealt with.He has already done his worst brace up and serve him hot too.

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  37. Hope you still have the chats on your phone as evidence. If you can get soldiers,it will be better let then give him the beating of his life.
    Be strong poster.

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  38. He has already done the worst, report him and tarnish his own image that he violated u whilst asleep by taking the pictures..tit for tat..

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  39. Sis, pls go to the nearest police station to report him and make sure the case is charged to court. I hate men like this with passion

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  40. Some guys are mean oh. Kai

    Nne please report the matter to the police station asap.

    Don't go anywhere near him oh. I'm even afraid on your behalf.
    May God help you.

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  41. Dear poster, what more can he do?

    He already done the worst and there's no damage he can do you other than what he's done if you don't go.

    So, don't go see him for any reason.

    He will rape you, take more photos and post to people if you go.

    If I were you, I got nothing to worry again, everyone's already seen my naked pics, right?

    I will cheer up, keep my head up high and I show him my own madness.

    Stupid, idiotic bastard like him.

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  42. Oh Stella! You just wrote my mind.

    Ashamed of what kwanu?

    And amen to your prayers on behalf of her.

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  43. My dear nude for nude. Get either soldier or area boys to beat him, strip him naked and take pictures. Create a new FB acct with any name, post his pictures and tag it "pant thief". Payback is a bitch!!!

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  44. He already shared your nudes and that's the height of it except he has your sex videos which doesn't make a difference. Get him arrested. Get your family involved and don't go visit him except you're going with police or soldiers to bundle him. Stay strong dear, the Lord is with you.

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  45. Stella keep using my comment to be cooking ofe onugbu with goat meat that has smell.

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  46. my fear go to FIDA office in your state of residence and report, as this is an offence and they will take it up. Don't go for that his meeting and make sure every chat with him is not deleted. Record his messages henceforth if your phone can. He has done his worst already no need for shame again.

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  47. Report the bastard.dontbe ashamed cos this phase shall pass.

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  48. This is so annoying. Just like I said up there, go to soldiers' barrack and explain your case, they will treat him the way his kind ought to be treated! But before then, go and logged a complain at the police station to cover your back. The guy is sick and some beatings from karki guys will cure him.

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  49. Please don't let this kill your esteem. Hold your head high and be strong. Don't visit him at all. Please don't!

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  50. Just go radio silent on him. BlOCk BLOCk BLOCK everywhe. He has done his worse, now keep it moving do not visit him or see him just dissapear. So many mentally and clinically unbalanced nigerian men walking the surface of the earth. GOD HELP US

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  51. Enter your comment...useless man. get area boys to deal with him.

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  52. Report the FOOL to the Police. Please, do not be scared of the IDIOT, do not go and meet him, he might kill, maim or organise for you to be raped. This is huge, please, get your family involved. Stand tall, please.

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  53. Someone is blackmailing you.
    Exposing your naked body for the world to see an you are there trembling like a leaf.
    Instead of you to assemble boys to teach him the lesson of his life.
    They will twist his balls like spaghetti.
    You have zero sense.
    Better teach him the lesson of his life.
    Next time he sees even a toy naked he will run like a hyena.
    Useless, dirty, smelling, nonsense Nigerian men with their rubbish sense of entitlement.
    Devil punish you all.

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  54. SOMEBODY HAD THE SILLY GUTS TO POST YOUR NUDE PICS WHICH WHERE TAKEN WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT AND YOU ARE BUSY SNIFFLING????
    All that should be on your mind now is REVENGE REVENGE REVENGE!!!
    What he has done is a crime! Someone up there mentioned FIDA, go and report to the branch nearest to you!!
    Please where are you sef? Can I contact Stella to find out??
    As in he sent your nude pics to your school mail??
    You need to make an example of him.

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  55. Let soilders treat his fuck up.Report to the police.Get a good lawyer and make sure he is jailed.Let him spend the rest of his life behind the bars.

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  56. What the man did is evil.

    But it is a pity that everybody is just lamenting that this lady is being blackmailed without anyone telling her to take precautions not to allow a repeat occurrence.
    Why?
    A man that you are not married to and you are "passing the nights on his bed "naked", cooking for him in his kitchen etc.
    As long as we close our eyes to the careless attitudes of girl in such a way, we'd keep reading this kind of chronicles because
    it will keep happening.
    What a shame.

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  57. You deserve it. I cannot feel sorry for people like you that keep going back to their vomit. You moved on but had to go back to a monster. If he had killed you, we will be typing RIP. You people never learn. I am glad that you are learning the hard way

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  58. In The Case of AGF Vs Ayan Olubumi (2018)involving a cyber crime wherein the Defendant posted the nude pictures of his former girlfriend after the relationship went sour on the Facebook.

    The prosecution called four(4) witnesses to prove its case against the Defendant.

    Mrs Omobola Oyewole, a Fida Ekiti member who represented the prosecuting team urged the Court to convict the Defendant and thereby give justice to the victim who has since been under psychological trauma.

    Justice Taiwo Taiwo of the Federal High Court Ekiti State, while convicting the Defendant held that the prosecution had proved its case against the Defendant beyond reasonable doubt and lambasted the Defendant for the despicable act noting that Ekiti is noted for honour and dignity. His Lordship, thereafter sentenced Ayan Olubunmi to two(2)years imprisonment with an option of fine of five hundred thousand naira only.

    Fida Ekiti believes this is a gender based violence against the victim and totally condemns same. It is a crime against humanity and gross wickedness against womenfolk. It is condemnable and should not be allowed to strive in any civil society.

    We commend this judgement and hope it will serve as deterrence to others who are in the habit of abusing and molesting children and girls.

    We also call for a review of all laws relating to GBV. It is unfortunate that for this kind of offence the law provides for maximum of three years jail term and an option of fine without looking at making provisions for the adequate compensation of victims of such gory acts.

    We use this opportunity to appreciate the efforts of the DPP Min. of Justice Ekiti State, The Nig. Police Ekiti State Command, Fida Ekiti Legal Team and Omobola Oyewole, Esq


    Read online and act accordingly. Go to FIDA in your state and they will follow you to the police station to make a report. They will also follow it up at the ministry of justice

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  59. I hate threat in my life, I use God beg u don't let the guy go scot free, inform the police to sign an undertaken and call the soldiers to treat his fuck up.

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  60. You can also sue him in a civil action, independent of the criminal proceedings. Get a lawyer, you can pay at the conclusion of the trial based on the damages the court will award. Never let this go. This guy has gone too far, you should match him too with the law

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  61. What he did is a crime. He can be imprisoned and fined for it.
    People saying you should report so that he can sign undertaking are mistakened. The essence of reporting to FIDA POLICE, HUMAN RIGHTS COMMISSION and any other NGO is so that they will ensure he is prosecuted. Wetin you won carry undertaking do????
    Contact a lawyer, maybe the popular human rights advocates (femi falana etc) they will institute a civil action for you and you will share the judgment sum awarded by The court with them.

    Stand up for yourself and every helpless woman that this guy has hurt and can hurt. He did this because he thinks nothing can happen. Show him something can happen. The law still works in Nigeria. A court in Nigeria sentenced a man to two years imprisonment for sharing his ex's nudes.

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  62. What! Do not go see him for any reason. Its obvious he is not OK, for your safety. You should file a complaint against him, do you have anybody that would make sure the case is taken up? Lastly,I think you should "hang yourself on his neck" put what happened on all his social media handles, including those of his friends and family. Put his face out there to let everyone know that he should be held accountable anything happen to you. The guy is obviously irrational so don't take this lightly.
    Sorry about your nudes, dont worry, people will move on to other things soon enough. Just stop hiding and own it so that those that can will help you, its out there . Pele. @Avatar Aang

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  63. the guy knows you are weak and that's why he's saying you should go to the police if you can, but you have to prove him wrong..you have to be strong now,pls report him asap

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  64. U seem scared nd fragile.. u better get sense and call soldier to beat him up Nd take his nude. Save his messages as evidence and stop letting this bastard make u scared.. pay the mudasucker back

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  65. no advice to give,most BVs said my mind,BT pls keep us updated on how events play out.

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  66. Why on earth did you get back with this demented psychopath? Did you not remember he was this crazy? Please run and never look back. Report the matter to the police let it be on record and like some BVs advised here, get a lawyer. Don't take this matter lying down. If you don't have the money for a lawyer, go to a non-profit that deals with Human Rights or women issues. Please don't let this psychopath do this to another woman. You have a responsibility now to protect others. If it was abroad, this psycho would be in jail. And you young lady, mind how you conduct yourself in your bf's house. Learn to ignore certain things by walking away when your peace of mind and safety are in jeopardy. You escalated the incident by mocking him during his phone call. Do you realise you could have lost your life that day by getting stabbed? Please don't engage crazy people. They can kill when they are incensed.

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  67. Poster walahi i feel like slapping the hell out of you, someone posted your nude all over social media and u are here asking for advice,what happen to all the area boys in your area, or your elder brothers, what of army barracks, my dear go to any nearest army barrack around u with evidence and report the monster,the way they will beat him u self go dey pity the fool, or all those area boys that sit at the junction of your area and table his matter there just give them 10k with his address and watch what will happen. I dey vex on your behalf seriously, dont go to any police abeg use army or area boys he need to be really tortured

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  68. Pls report him immediately. The worst has been done. Ensure you block him back on all social mediums

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  69. poster report him to police 1st get him sign undertaking then arrange bad boys to injure him via breaking his leg, so he will feel pain

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  70. He is an animal. Don't be shy, he is the one that is insane for taking nudes of u while asleep in his house. He can't do anything to you, report to a police, involve a soldier, go to his house let them bet him up, naked him and then snap him too and send so he know how it is

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  71. This is why I never go back to someone I broke up with. Forward ever, backward never.

    If he chased you with a knife he will do anything. Why would you even consider meeting up with anyone who has done so much evil to you? Contact the police and let them know that you want to file charges for attempted assault, revenge porn, and uttering threats. Show them the texts he has sent you and let them listen to the voice mail messages. Report him to his school or place of work. Every man has seen breasts so don't feel ashamed to go for help. Unless you have some deformity that is going to make you self-conscious nobody at the police station is going to care about your nudes. They may even assign you to a female officer to make you feel more comfortable so go immediately and see them. Please also remember to ask the police if they work directly with Facebook to remove the page, or if you will need to do that. Face this head on, do not back down.

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  72. Why are there so many comments advocating for violence and doing things outside of the law? You must let the law deal with this matter. A functioning and orderly country cannot come out of disorder and illegal activity. The law must be allowed to work and fulfill its mandate.

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  73. You would have reported to the police when he threatened to leak your nudes, that’s a crime . Run to the nearest police station and report him

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  74. I wish I saw this earlier. I really hope you get to read this. Something very similar happened to me. Except I never give in to blackmail. My dear you see how his ex shouted on him and bossed over him? That's what will scare him. He is infact a chicken looking for weak girls to pounce on. Dont just report to the police, sue him to court for blackmail and defarmation of character. Shout back at him is he's rude. Insult his esteem. Give him the impression that youre not more that naive girl he thought you were and threaten to get agberos to rape his sister (pls dont go ahead and do it sha) if he threatens you. Its all a mind game .I can guarantee you, this guy will be scared and leave you alone. I told mine to go ahead and release the pictures and gave him my own threat (with one of his loved ones getting hurt - always works) . Till date, he dare not talk when I'm talking . Such guys are weaklings. Imagine taking pictures while you're sleeping . That one alone sef, he must sleep cell at least 1 month . Finally, tell your family about him and his threats. They will never abadon you. Shake that fool a bit and watch him chicken out .

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  75. May God save us from psychos. avoid him but report him to your family, his family and the police. if he is working go there and lay a report too. he has done his worse and God will judge him.

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  76. Report him to the police immediately after all your nude pictures are out in the public and you will equally get justice.

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