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Thursday, January 31, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
UNCONSCIOUSLY IN LOVE WITH A MARRED MAN


Dear Stella good day and thanks for all your good works. I'll like to share my story but I don't have a blog ID. I need honest advise from you and BVs.

I am 28yrs (will be 29yrs old this year) and I am currently in no relationship.


 There is a married man I met sometime ago(late 30s and very handsome), very nice to me and usually gives me his sincere opinions especially when I am at crossroads in my life. He advises me about everything and anything and has even spoken with my mum once(she told him thanks for helping me). 


The issue now is that I think I am unconsciously falling for him, He calls me very frequently and spends lots of time on the phone with me. We are currently not in the same state and I know he has no intention of having sex with me(he is a good christian man, just loves to encourage other people) but I am afraid that I am already starting an emotional affair with him. I have guys coming my way but I am unconsciously comparing them with him and pushing them away. He has once told me that we are just friends and I am sure I am not the only girl he is currently "encouraging". Though once he told me he loves me but I know it's platonic as I know he is happy in his marriage.


I also battle with this confusion of why he is always calling me even when I haven't called him and we can speak for long hours. Doesn't that mean he is somehow interested in me "outside" the encouragement part?


My problem is how do I break out of this "confused" state and free myself to be able to move on with other available guys. I sincerely don't even want to break his home (though sometimes I ask myself what I'll do if he leaves his wife for me?) and a part of me don't even think I can if I wanted to.

Please advise me. Thanks

113 comments:

  1. U sef agree say na confusing matter so disconfuse urself by knock ur head three times and say "my head receive sense, this is stupidity
    Get busy with other things & avoid his encouraging calls, u can do without it

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    1. If u spend so much time on d phone with him,then ask yourself,am I denying him access to other people.
      By him focusing on you and you enjoying it,u are denying him having time with his family and u are also denying yourself quality time u ought to had spent with a suitor.

      Solution:form busy.restrict his talk and any discussion to once a week

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    2. Please stop picking his calls. Don't give him attention again. Just stay very far away from him. Please

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    3. You are foolish
      I will not even blame this man if he fucks you for free cus he no send you message
      Only you is entering a relationship all by yourself, he has told you he is happily married
      Don’t give the single guys in your life a chance keep chasing shadows until it gets too late then you will start jumpin from church to church

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    4. Poster pls listen carefully, he feels exactly thesame way you feel but won't let it in your face cos he is a "careful" married man.
      Any day the opportunity opens up for him to smash your honey pot, he won't hesitate. He has successfully earned your trust but deep down at the back of every man's mind, ......

      He is a nice guy but he is toying with your emotions and ur mental well being. He crossed the line when he said he loves you ........ That put u in a state of confusion.

      This is how you ease him out of your life.
      Pretend u are busy and tired more often.
      Stop comparing him with the young men that come around.
      Give one of them a chance and encourage communication. You will get attached also if he is a makes good conversation.

      Finally, tell him about your new friend and how good he is. Don't pretend to be busy this time and don't let him hijack the conversation. You must not let him hack into your head. Let your new friend dominate the whole discussion on phone. He will get the message.

      Repeat this trend. Exaggerate the good little things about your new friend. Don't ever mention he has a flaw or else he will capitalize. Don't over dramatise.

      He will leave you by himself.


      It will take a little time but you will heal. It's not healthy at all when you start thinking about about stuffs like "will he leave his wife for me"?

      Take control of yourself and thank me later.

      #hadeyhalaba.

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    5. Help yourself poster. Block him and move on.

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  2. you break off by ignoring his calls. Or you do the mature thing by telling you, you want to be available for the next guy who meets your criteria because spending time with another woman's man makes you unavailable to single guys.
    Besides, as the "Christian" man that he is, the encourager of the universe, perhaps he should spend those hours encouraging his neglected wife.

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    1. As you are unconsciously falling for him. Please also consciously fall out.

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    2. ������

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  3. Hahahahahaha Stella no red pen? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ me def no know what to say

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  4. Was expecting Stella's hot slap to reset your brain, but since she restrained herself, who am i.

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    1. A hot slap will go a long way to do a lot of corrections in her scatter scatter mind

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  5. Hopeless girl leave another woman’s husband alone, hope u know that u are wasting your time with him? Cos he would fuck u and not leave his wife for u.. continue wasting time u should use in building a relationship with a single guy on a marrie an living in another state .. your mum even spoke to him on phone, as what na? Inlaw? U guys don’t have shame , u and your mum

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  6. FLEE! FLEE!! FLEE!!!

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  7. See this ashawo falling for someone's husband..I pray the wife is a crazy woman that will just bath you with acid. Ekwensu

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    1. Take it easy , your hubby is with me right now, since you get angry quick

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    2. Thought you restrained yourself up there πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

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    3. This woman, you sound like a violent human being. The day your husband falls out of love, you would probably kill him too, not only the side chick. Now let me ask you, to what end? You really think there aren't still naive girls existing? Weren't you once naive yourself? Why insult someone who has brought her issue here for advice? You think if she knew what to do or think of the situation, she would be sending chronicles? Learn to be sensitive

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    4. Lolz Cyndi baby no mind me oo
      Omosexy d thing no gree meπŸ˜€

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    5. Na you I find come.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    6. 16.22, acid will probably help her to mature fast and swing out of naivety. Onye ara, leave someone's husband alone if you dont want to be cursed. Ashawo.

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    7. Fan fan, you never disappoints when it comes to a matter like thisπŸ˜…

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    8. The day you sleep with him, you are cursed with an everlasting curse and joy will be far from you. You have the chance to repent NOW.

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  8. This thing called marriage ehn. My dear if you know in all sincerity that you're not interested in starting an affair then pls stop being available all the time.
    Because if you dont you would be inviting trouble, you guys are already getting fond and attached to each other and I understand its because u guys are already into each other
    its high time to set boundaries, flee from the temptation before the temptation destroys you

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  9. Poster,forget the encouragement, encouragement,he is after 1 thing,your punani,he simply wants you to fall in love with him so as to gain easy access to you anytime, you better wake up and get a single guy to start a relationship with

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    1. He is only working on you till he will capture you.

      He will never open his mouth to tell you. He will work on you till you will be the one to open your mouth to beg him for a relationship.

      He will now use and dump you.

      PLEASE RUN NOW!

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  10. You better stop picking his calls.
    Brother encourager face your marriage.
    My dear that man is the type the bible says mark them and avoid them. He is already messing with your head.
    And he is emotionally cheating on his wife.
    You face your front ,and pick one of the bro coming your way. If you need encouragement turn to the pages of the bible.

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    1. Na real turn to the pages of the Bible.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  11. It's a scam.. He wants you to fall in love then it will be easy for him to get you. Snap out of it!

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    1. Gbam! Advises you blsh blah this type will be a demon at home. He's just nice just to get in your pants. He knows what's he's doing. By the time fall madly with him, you will be the one initiating the sex and he will grab it.

      Borrow yourself some sense and get yourself a boyfriend before it's too late.

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    2. Big scam, but Not only that. He wants her to fall for him so she will end up to be the one chasing him. By the time he's done, she'll be the one running after him. He is not in a hurry because he already has several girls he is doing same thing with who he's probably already sleeping with. Poster is next on the line.

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    3. Poster do you have a job? A hobby? I suggest you focus on other life benefitting things than somebody’s husband.

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  12. See this aunty playing naive! who are you deceiving? This man wants to Fork you, you know it, he knows it! He says he loves you bla bla bla. You say he is q Christian man...realy? Nonsense talk! You are not the first single lady this Christian man wants to fork. let us hear word! You people must have forked simple! You both are playing games! encouraging Christian man kill una there!

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  13. You better go and use iron sponge and kwochaa that thing that is scratching you.

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  14. You are subconsciously falling into a trap he set for you. It is natural for you to fall for someone you talk to everyday married or single . Do yourself a favour and cut communication.

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  15. You better cut yourself off from him and find yourself a good boyfriend. At 28 or 29 you want to fall for a man that will never marry you, rather waste all your early 30 thirties, by the time you realize yourself then it will too late. He has nothing to lose cos he's got a wife and am sure kids. Borrow yourself sense ooh else you be a side chick like me, though is a job.

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    1. As in eh, she's old enough to know that Mr. Married man wants to sleep with her, simple. The devil wears prada, the easiest way to deceive people is to use I'm a Christian to cover up. Devil quoted scripture 3times while tempting Jesus. Even if he's a pastor, cut all communication with him. He has absolutely nothing to lose!!

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    2. No mind am yanga dey sleep trouble dey waka waka waka around am..... you go see pepper madam no worry. We go wait for your next chronicles.

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  16. After reading this, i honestly feel like slapping you Poster.What nonsense? This is 2019 o, at your age you still need sense. Haba!
    No wonder stella no even mind you.... Rada rada

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  17. Dear poster, even tho the man may have had good intentions of encouraging you but truth is that he crossed the boundary with you. Now u are falling for him even tho u didn't set out to and he is 'maybe' falling for u even tho he didn't set out to. It's natural.

    Constant communication creates a bond between two people. Between opposite sex, it can develop into an attraction. It's purely human nature. For a married man and a Christian,he should have known better. It's wisdom that when dealing with the opposite sex as a married man, you should maintain a certain boundary to avoid feelings creeping in.

    If sincerely u want to get rid of this feeling then u need to get rid of him. Break that communication and find urself another confidant (definitely not a married man). Explain to him why if u need to and if he truly is born again like u said, he will see reason with u and cut off this relationship before something bad happens.

    Cheating starts from the mind, the emotions. It's only a matter of time before it gets physical. For the sake of your conscience and that of his family cut this relationship off.

    Put urself in his wife's shoes. Would u want another woman breaking ur home? That's why Jesus said, " Do unto others what u want others to eo unto you."

    Do the wise thing.



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    1. God Bless you plenty for this advice. Have you heard now aunty??? It is very easy...STOP CALLING A MARRIED MAN FOR ADVICE!!!!

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    2. The purity of your comment is as pure as your user ID. Thanks for this great advise: No name calling, no insults, just straight to the point & very mature. My dear 29-year-old poster, please do us a favour & stick to everything written here. You'll not only be shaming the devil from using you as an instrument in destroying another woman's marriage but you'll also be sparing yourself of the guilt that comes with fornication.

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  18. If your concerns are genuine, then cut off all communications ASAP.
    Don't go this way. The end thereof, is destruction.
    If you don't like something, don't smell it.

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  19. lolololololol. him don't get your mumu button.

    jus like John Cena, u won't see him till him clear U.

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  20. Both Of you are silly! keep on deceiving yourselves! I just pity his wife who thinks she married a good man. What a emotional cheating way. You too keep falling you hear? keep lying to yourself. You know he wants the ponyor. Abi you don give am already? You are confused on a married man's case. The man is leading you on and you are calling him a Christian. Hypocrites! He will do you and clean mouth nothing will happen. This is not his first time

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  21. Hmmm,why should it be a married man encouraging a single lady?then telling her he loves her?calling for hours and he is happy in his marriage?its all conflicting ma'am,please SNAP out of it asap cos I'm sure it will lead to TROUBLE!!

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  22. What you'll do if he leaves his wife for you?lol .he would never leave his wife for you,they never do

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  23. If he leaves his wife for you. Madam please start ignoring his calls since your emotions is having a better part of,This man has been sincere enough to tell you his just your friend and nothing more.Please respect his marriage and snap out of that illusion you call a feeling,get into a relationship with someone you like that will be the be best way to kill that feelings.

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    1. How has he been sincere? By calling her for hours on end, leading her on and "advising" and "encouraging" her? Please...men are just dogs...

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  24. please is his name Demola?? Na beg i beg you if it's a
    'yes'. This is how he behaves...saying he is encouraging and mentoring woman up and down! He can be generous too...but that is his weakness which will most likely lead to his downfall because these woman fall in love with him. He is a married man, please ignore his calls...he has two kids already that needs his care and attention that he hardly gives at home. Does he normally call you after work at the beer palour?? Joh oo...leave my friend's husband alone!!

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    1. I also want to know, is his name Peter? He 'encourages' me too

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    2. If his name is Femi, forget it! You’re on a looong ting. He’s been doing it for years. Encouraging young ladies to be prayerful, sends daily devotional messages etc. them he’ll hunt that he has feelings for you, he’ll even say he loves you but won’t be too clear. He’ll act a lil possessive and discourage you from certain guys claiming they don’t have good intentions. Omo! Forget it. Na your Punani him want. He did all of that with me, I was starting to fall but told myself this wasn’t right. I started distancing myself and he started really chasing and doing things out of character considering the “Christian boy” character he first presented. I told him I didn’t have any feelings for him and think he should focus more on his wife and I cut him off there. He called and I didn’t pick, he sent messages, I ignored. He sent more messages and insulted me to get a reaction. I still didn’t budge so he gave up and faced his wife. Poster, be wise!

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  25. U want to break his home abi? Someone cannot be nice to you in peace again. No worry, when u marry ur own too, another single lady ll befriend ur husband, fall pregnant for him and chase u out of ur matrimonial home. Then u ll know how it feels like. Till then keep falling in love until u become a babymama... Mtcheww!

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    1. Poshhajia, na the man they give her signal, and its not her fault, the heart is idle and lonely.
      Thats their way, they will keep doing Mr.Nice to gain your heart and no toasting ,you will just find yourself dating while notice.

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    2. Poshhajia, AMEN

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  26. I am in the same shoe with the poster but mine is that am married with a child and he is also married with a child. It all started wen we worked at the same place and we were both married then . We got along very well, he left the place and since then we ve been communicating very well, falling in love with each other but we just told ourselves that nothing will happen between us because we love our spouses very well. Moreover if we r meant to be together, we should have met earlier. So we shoved our emotions down and remained good friends

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    1. Its good that you had a brain reset on time, cause we don't hurt what we love.

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    2. Good , both of you you are on the same level hence its so easy to shove the emotions.

      i just advised the poster that she should also get hersef a man.

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    3. The Spirit of God hasn't told you that you're supposed to cut off all contact with your former colleague? You're either very brave or plain reckless, oh!

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    4. Its list, not love, love is pure, hahahahaa.

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    5. Which kind remain good friends.better end the friendship.

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    6. While not trying to discredit your short story ma @15:38, you both are deceiving yourselves.

      You can't claim to fall in love with your each other and still love your spouses dearly.

      It's confusing and you know it. What you have for each other is infatuation. You admire each other but respect the home.

      I pray God will not allow devil to give you the liver to commit adultery. You are threading on a rough terrain.
      Pls thread carefully.

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    7. Poster you are lonely. Me after what I've been through with men, I feel like they are not worth it. Anyway this is about you. Try to free yourself from this manipulator so you can have room to let someone else who is free and probably worth it in.

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  27. You've gone and formed a soul tie with someone else's husband. Helper, ko; saviour, ni. You're actually fantasizing about what will happen if he leaves his wife FOR YOU? The devil wants to destroy you with your own permission - because next thing now, you'll begin to plant ideas and a wife that was minding her own business will end up dead. Leave another woman's husband alone. As in, cut him off and face your life. Change your number if you have to. No matter the kind of help you and your mother think he has rendered, he's not God without whom you can't survive. It is people will your kind of spirit that block road for others. People think every married woman is insecure, no! Many married women can't tolerate their husbands doing anything decent for a single lady - this evil you've cooked in your heart is why. Cos even when the man is keeping his eyes straight, females like you will want to reward him for his help by scattering his home. Repent and stay away from other women's husbands.

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  28. I have not commented on here in a really long time ...
    It is a two way thing,buh all I got to say is, why mistake niceness or kindness for green light?
    Check yourself too, he has made it clear, (he could be messing with you yea), buh why not just see the good alone. My two cents

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  29. Abeg face your suitors and forget about another woman husband biko

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    1. She doesn't have any and WILL NOT have unless she leaves someone's husband.

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  30. Seems you assume a lot about your married friend.

    It's time to stand up for yourself and reduce the encouragement, make friends, go out and mingle.

    You have no future with a married man, he won't leave his wife for you and all this encouragement might stop if gets intimate with you.

    Remember you ain't the only one he's "encouraging"

    Get closer to God, study your bible and draw strength from God's word.

    God bless.

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    1. God bless you for this,
      shes really idle and needs all you listed.

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  31. Stella why didn't you use your red pen? well poster shake this feeling off you.just take the advice he gives you and make use of it.infact take it that you are just friends indeed for the fact that he is married.erase and rebook any thought of anything otherwise.

    and for the man why is he behaving as if he wants to give green light.well maybe that's his own way of caring and encouraging others ie coming real close but he has to watch cos others might not understand it that way.

    have you watched the Mount Zion movie *family next door* similar thing happened there

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  32. I have no words for you but trust Stella's bv to give you very 'good advice' that will reset your brain and know that what you're feeling is infatuation.

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  33. Dear Poster, see the bitter truth is that he knows wat hes doing and yes if you haven't gbensh, you will do it soonest.

    see all these pple telling to avoid his calls are not helping you.
    My Advice is that stop comparing that man with the guys coming your way, STOP IT, keep that man for one corner , let the encouragement extend to material things ,do not start taxing him but you know how he speak those his words also he will do the giving.
    Get a single guy out of those coming to you, let that establish you and meanwhile let him know you have a man to yourself too, with that if he wants to go ,he will and if not you have your support system , so ignore him completely while your guy is there...
    i have been there and i know Wat you mean , although i have boyfriend at the same time unlike yours, but i almost use my hand to end my serious relationship with my guy.

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    1. As long as she still picks his calls the feelings will still remain. She should not deceive herself. She needs a clean break. Otherwise she will be asking for what she didn't bargain for.

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  34. Your concerns re valid, I think U should discuss them with him. If he's genuine enough, he'd act right & probably let U know U can reach out whenever U need him, since U re the one who needs the encouragement. Please break free now before it becomes too late. I don't think U re in love just yet, it's natural to get addicted to someone you talk to on the daily...

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    1. Discuss what? Poster you had better not discuss anything with him o, his he your father or boyfriend to sit and tell how you feel. Better face your front and go ghost on him if you can and kill what ever lust you feel towards another womans property.

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    2. Anon, U don't ghost people U have benefited from without a reason, it's the decent thing to do, even poster says her mum thanked him sometime for helping. If he continues to call afterwards, be rest assured he doesn't have ur best interest at heart, then U can ghost him, i'm sure he'd understand...

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    3. Husbands are not women's property biko, neither re wives men's property. There's free will, even in marriage. This kind of possession and mind set are what leads to domestic violence.

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  35. I love this blog die......
    Thank you guys for telling her the truth

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  36. You are already breaking his home. The time u spend on the phone with him is already affecting his marriage. Pls leave him b4 u make him, his wife and yourself miserable. Take it from me. I have been the wife in that position and I know what it has done to all of us involved.

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    1. Anon pls dont blame the girl, put the breaking of home on the man.
      Na him dey call her, na him dey encourage and lead her on.

      She on her part is just fantasizing a bad thing.
      she can only reduce the call and i can bet it with you , such men don't mind traveling down to her base to check up on her if she tries to cut if off suddenly.

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    2. Well, true but its the girl that wrote chronicles for us naa, not the guy. Let us correct her head for her. Whenever the giuy writes SDK, we will correct his head as well. Even though the guy is breaking his home, the girl will lose more in the end. It's Naija, and the guy is seemingly a "Naija born-again". The Naija-church will forgive him oh, its the girl they will call devil, whore, strange woman, etc

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    3. Abeg the girl can easily block him everywhere. Over 20 years ago, a married man (whom I did not know was married at the time) tried that nonsense with me. Thankfully as I was team mermaid, nothing would have ever happened anyway. I cut him out of my life straight away with a stern warning. He then had the audacity to trace my house and came visiting. I called him every name under the sun through the intercom and told him to go spend quality time with his wife and sons and put his all into his marriage and stop chasing small girls. Thank God I did. I ended up marrying someone who knew him. Apparently he told everyone what I did to him. Madam, don't let this useless man derail your future blessings.

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  37. Lol! You're playing with your life. For real. You're talking with a man that is not your father or husband, for hours but you want to pretend your hands are clean. Even an employer doesn't talk to anyone for hours. What kind of encouragement is he giving you, that warrants hour-long phone calls? Or are you so stupid that the encouraging words didn't sink in the first time? Who knows whether the problems you need encouragement for, are not happening because God is fighting you?

    When I wasn't yet married (but was still carrying face for my husband), we got involved with other people. We knew we were "The One" for each other, but I don't know if they were waining button for us in the village. Every girl my husband tried to date - terrible things started happening to them. A former fiancee of his and her family were told when they prayed, "It's not the devil, but God fighting you. Your daughter put her hand where she shouldn't, you're trying to help her marry a man that God reserved for another woman. Your daughter hasn't died yet, because she didn't know." The same things were happening at the same time, to men I tried to date. Fortunately, nobody died. This was when we weren't yet married, oh. Yet, see as you want to destroy your life.

    You don't know the specifics of the marriage covenant between this man and his wife. You don't know if this is a couple that God has special plans for; you've gone to put yourself in the middle like a thief with liver. Do you think the man will pity you if it turns out his wife is the type that mistakenly forgets acid on people's faces? A married man is who you're talking to, for hours & you don't know that witches in your village have concluded your matter. I laugh in my husband's native dialect.

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    1. And tomorrow this man and his wife will use you to give public testimony of "how God jealously protects marriages He ordained" like my husband and I are doing today. It's what we would still have been saying if any of the people we got involved with, died in the process. After we have conveniently forgotten that we were the ones that chose to go and date others after we met.

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    2. Lmaoooo! Story for the gods

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  38. If you know you won't want someone else doing the same to you, please stay away from him. How have you been getting advice before you met him? Think about it.

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  39. 1. He is not going to leave his wife because ofyou , the sooner you know this , the better. Even if you meet with him and end up having sex, you just increased your body count.

    2. It is a pity that you see nothing wrong in dating a married man hence the reason why you desire this man- work on the this, it is a bad habit, you should detest anything that has to do with a married man, relationship wise.

    3. This man knows what he is doing, he has his plans but would only gbensh you- be wise.
    4. Get busier, get a hold of your emotions and do not allow anyone toy with you.

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  40. Is she the one wanting to break the man's home abi it is the man that want to use his own hand to break his home.

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    1. Ok if it's the man that wants to break his home, my sister don't be his instrument to do so, block that man sharp sharp. Give the brothers coming a change biko

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  41. Poster if you are genuine please distant yourself 4rm him. I was in that situation during my youth service. There was one a married man who took me as his sister. He was young and intelligent. He introduced me to his family when I got to the environment newly. We were in the same department. After some months, I started to fall in love. I knew it was wrong. I started to seek him. At times I would talk to myself when I am alone that it was wrong. I pray to God to him me and God gave me wisdom. I distant myself. Avoided him like a plague. When he is in d staff room. I would go somewhere else to sit down if I was less busy. I stop visiting his family. I opened up to my close friend about it. It was a very serious issue but I thank God i reset my brain. If I had gone too close without caution, he would ve succeeded in sleeping with me b4 our eyes go clear. So poster d ball is in your court. Whatever it will take you but your emotions in check. I wish you luck.

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  42. You said u will be 29, if u like keep catching feelings for an unavailable man till u waste your young years, then u will change story to 40, no bf, no kids, meanwhile u wasted time with a man who has no plans for u.

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  43. This time bomb strong pass boko own. It is an explosive device that is not improvised; yes, na you manufacture am and na you go explode am.
    The way to break off is to break off; as in delete everything as if it did not happen.
    If you no discipline yasef by fasting, na fork you dey head so and na only fork you fit collect
    as the wifey hold knife well well. She and husband no go cut shi shi give you. And you see as age dey roll like roller coaster?
    Your eyes go soon clear.

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  44. Does this man stutters,he works in the south south region. If yes,you are so on a long thing....it is a regular longterm format,to what gain I don't know.

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  45. How can u be talking to someone’s husband for long hours? See let me tell u, that guy would fuck u but won’t leave his wife, u said he is a Christian abi? So u think his family , his church or beliefs would make him marry u? He is o my encouraging u now so he can sleep with u ooo , haba u are not a kid na, d minute he sleeps with u, he will start avoiding u and just so u know, he has other pretty girls he encourages, be wise nd cut off that relationship

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  46. When he eats your cookies he will stop calling you. Find your own man.

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  47. seems I know the Ediot , that's his part time job, he always like feeding his ego by making women fall for him, he's a no good news , always playing the born again Christian card, and always claiming to love someone that isn't his wife
    guy man is just bored, he likes toying with women's emotions, I think he has a problem, he likes to explore but he's afraid of being caught, I'm almost sure it's the same person
    poster you're not the only one he's playing the game with, he's messed up

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  48. Poster does your man friend live in PH? Does he work with a maritime company? Does his name start with R? TDH? If he is the one, better run!!! He does same with married women too, run, he is a Christian "boy of God" encouraging all. When I perceived his antics I dumped his friendship.

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  49. Just stop picking his calls and stop thinking about him

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  50. seems I know the man o
    is he a BV?
    hmmm, lips sealed

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  51. Na wash!!! That man is a manipulator. You must be naive to think just because he hasn't mentioned sex, he doesn't have it on his mind or in his plans. The devil often comes disguised as an angel of light so of course he will come under the guise of adviser, encourager, sympathiser, confidante, shrink, big brother, daddy figure and all what not. It's all a guise my dear. Whether he's doing it consciously or not, he's just using you as an emotional crutch coz him and wifey are prolly not in a good place in their relationship. No godly christian man will carry on conversation with a young single unmarried woman into the night without worrying what effects it will have oh her knowing that women are more emotional. See you now, you're already feeling confused over where you stand with him. His mind tricks are working on you. Emotional manipulators are charming yet heartless and selfish. Cut off and get out NOW. He is unavailable and will only hurt you in the end. There are tons of single available men out there. Pray to God to connect you with one and leave that married man alone.

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  52. I don't know if single church going brothers have dealt with you before.

    Then you want to play with a married churchgoing brother. Later, he will say you are possessed. All those tactics of getting him to talk to your mom shows you are an old trick. This is not your first rodeo. You used mom tactics to hook him so he can spend and spend. He knows what you are doing and he knows what he is doing. By not asking you for sex, you will spread faster than ever and even think you are in love. He is not in a hurry to ask for sex because his wife steadily supplies. He is preying on you. When you eventually give in, he will remind you how he didn't force you. You think you are the player by telling us, you are not the only lady he talks to should in case his marriage breaks so you won't be fingered but honey, you are playing with a senior relaxed player.

    If you have to shag every man that encourages you in this life, you will have an overstretched vagina. Stop repaying kindness with sex.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  53. Poster you are a mature woman of 29 not a child. How hard is it to block this man everywhere. He is a seemingly benign tumour in your life. Seemingly harmless but occupying the space that should be for something else. He is the worst kind of manipulator. Seemingly good but he has an agenda. Read your bible. There is a section that advises to fleee from all appearance of evil. Let him spend time encouraging his wife for a change. Mcheeeeeeeew

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  54. They never listen, "I respect him, he advises me well, we are just friends, I knew him before he met his wife....blah blah." You are pretending my friend. Deep down you know this man is married but no I must still be close to him, I must seek his advise...I will still say what I used to say to one particular girl who can not stop communicating with my husband even after donkey years...prayers of a wife and those of her children will never go unheard. Duzzi and Sly

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  55. But let me ask how many men are jealously guarding their homes? See how women are up in arms against her but no one is castigating the man. Why have we ceded all our power to men??

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  56. I'm in her shoes. This man is a pastor, and we've fucked several times. I love him and he loves me too.

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