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Wednesday, January 09, 2019

Chronicle of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
IN LOVE WITH AN EX

Dear Stella,


Compliments of the season ! I'm actually an anonymous BV and I've been following your blog since 2015 and i must commend you for the interesting content you provide for the readers' . Thanks for all u do.


So straight to my chronicle. Stella i need ur slap seriously.

 I'm doing something that i know is wrong but i don' know how to stop . 

I'm in love with my Ex !

 I met him in 2016 while I was living with my elder sister and her family. Prior to this period I was in long relationship with a former course-mate who was nothing but nice to me and had promised marriage which i gladly accepted. But when the 'Ex' approached me , the attraction was so strong that i would do any and everything to avoid him as i was trying to stay faithful to my fiance. But hey, I guess i wasn't as strong as i willed because I fell for his advances and to be honest he's really good looking and was / is really into me. 


To cut d long story short, when i realized the feelings were real I opened to him about relationship status and how it would be difficult to my now ' Husband' seeing that we had been together for too long . The 'Ex' also opened up about a lady he was involved with but just couldn't stay away from me. Hence we both had a decision to make, either leave our significant other and damn the consequences as families were already in the know of our relationships , or simply stop seeing each other. 

We chose the latter .


We kept seeing each other until we both got married to two different partners.

Stella, the problem is I love him so much and can't seem to get over him. Sometimes i feel i made a mistake not choosing and he tells me so all the time. He keeps saying he wishes we damned the consequences and chose each other. 

Even when I try to away , somehow i find myself stalking his social media pages. Its funny cos he does same to me.

Stella pls slap this madness thats gradually turning to an obsession out of me ..
.BVs please help me with words of advice and caution me with love as its a new year biko.
Thanks.

Pls keep me anbonymous.




*No need to waste my energy slapping you cos right now,you are like a drinker who needs to detox..First thing,block him on all social media handles,block his numbers,emails and then go quiet and really think about it...time out always helps...

In that time out period,try to see only the good in spouse and think if you really want out .....You realise that you cannot eat your cake and have it?then why are you letting him eat his cake and have it?if a man really wants to marry you,he will go the extra mile.stop letting him fill you up with Jargon..I am sure he goes to bed every night telling his wife how much loves her and blah blah...
Shine your eyes!!!

60 comments:

  1. Seems the D game of the EX was strong... If they ask u to oya go n meet ur EX now, you go tire o.

    Ur husband doesn't break your waist well enough?
    Got a tiny wee wee?

    Anyway u n ur EX deserve each other than the cheating u guys are putting ur spouses through.

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    1. Thats the bad thing about tasting a sweet dick on the wrong partner while youre with the right one.

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    2. If you know, you know.9 January 2019 at 15:46

      This woman is not okay, love Ex kwa? why did you marry then? or was your Ex not alive when you got married?, that's why I so much love women who know what they want, like that anonymous on mistake proposal this morning.

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    3. Una see Naija girls so?
      Them go dey marriage dey look for husbands.
      Did the ex mention say im go relocate, you come
      forget yarn us?

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    4. Drop this abroad chant already, you are beginning to sound like someone who developed mental illness because someone dumped him/her and went abroad. Do you have a life? Do you have a job? Do you have goals you are working towards? Do you desire to do anything productive with your life this year? If yes, then get busy and stop being obsessed with other people`s life choices. Dont bother replying with your normal boring retorts, it`s tired and silly. Shalom!

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    5. @18:31
      How "shallom" and "silly" come dey mix kwanu?
      But anytime "mental illness" write, you go come read am okwa ya?
      The world dey free o. YOu yarn ya own, I yarn my own. You no fit close my mouth.
      Okay, e bi like say ya website na silly.shallom
      😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

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    6. It is not always about sex when there is still feelings for an ex but many won't understand.
      Poater don't feel like being slap by someone will correct this, just try everything you can to stop communicating with him and make sure you guys do not meet for now,hold on to your marriage and live with this truth that your ex is your lover you will never have.

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  2. You love him so much and you ended up marrying someone else. What were you thinking? it's too late to cry when the head is cut off. Stop these fantasies and learn to love your husband. After all you chose him and I'm sure you chose him for a reason. ehen did you guys gbensh while dating? you didn't tell us that part so we can know how to advise you well. maybe it's the gbenshing that you miss that's why you can't get him off your head

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    1. Exactly loud it for her, all is fantasy

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  3. we buy condemned inverter battery 081413951139 January 2019 at 15:07

    Noted

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    1. ...caution you with which love? What'd you know about love? Lemme help you add the part you consciously left out, "Youre cheating on your husband", marriage thats not up to one year, why did you marry him? If this ur side guy was right for you, you should have married him no matter what people would say, after all its your happiness, now youre stalking another womans husband, Olosho.

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  4. If you find out that your husband is still in love with his ex while you are doing everything to make him happy, how will you feel? Just put yourself in his position for once and think.

    Like Stella has rightly said, block all communication from him and face your home. the said ex won't leave his wife for you so you better stop catching feelings, give yourself brain on time before you destroy your home. A word is enough!

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  5. Just try and avoid speaking to himvplease. Respect the vows you made to your husband.

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  6. poster, it's obvious you don't really love your husband..there are some partners that will love all your exes out of your body, you will even forget they ever existed ..focus on your marriage, you already made that decision..

    Ola...

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  7. This is the perfect definition of fatal attraction syndrome, its very complicated, false love phenomenon involving a very destructive, obsessive and compulsive pattern of relational behavior.
    A wise man from Madagascar said "Learn not to make a permanent decision for your temporary emotions".... he was right!!
    You went into marriage filled with doubts in your head for one guy & butterflies in your tummy for another, which will often leave u with questions like "did i do the right thing?".... you need to merge your heart & head into one person, it'd be hard to do but only i can make up ur mind and do it, weigh the pros n cons of the consequences of your actions, then you'd lnow what to do... if you have sense!!

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  8. Please dear block him on all your social media handle and do same. You will be alright.

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    1. You think she hasnt blocked him before? When shes horny she cant block those fantasies he fulfils in bed, she'd unblock his accounts & contact him again, her pussy is controlling her, what else is causing this her strong attrcation? Its fuck!!!

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  9. To avoid sending another chronicle, block him on all SM.He loves his wife so get that into your head.

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  10. To be honest,both of you do not love yourselves. It's the excitement of secrecy that is making you think there is something there. If you guys really liked each other, you won't have married other people because both of you met before either of you got married and you both had time to build a relationship and then get married. The man does not love you. I know this for a fact. Men GO after what they want. He knew you were not marriageable and could not be trusted. If you think I'm lying, tell him that you and your husband have decided on a divorce/ separation(not true) and you want to use this opportunity to follow your heart's desire. I am 1000% sure that would be the end of both of you. He would never leave his wife or family for that matter. Try my experiment and see what happens. Make sure your husband knows nothing sha. Plan it well and then when you see him for what he truly is your eyes would clear. I'm spesking FROM EXPERIENCE. Nothing is new under the sun. I don't even think you like him that much. You are romanticizing the idea of him and being with him because of the little sweet character he gets to show you for few hours. You have no idea what it is like to be his partner, trust me I know what I'm saying. You may just realize that you don't even love him like that if you were his partner. Anyway,you are not the worse person and this isnt new. I have experienced this before. Be busy with other things or better still divorce your husband for real and go be together.

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    1. I wish I could bottle your advice and sell it. Madam poster CUT HIM OFF NOW!!! What is wrong with you?? Marriage is for the mature of mind, body and spirit. HE DID NOT MARRY YOU because he knew you are a cheat. STOP your rubbish now and start being the wife your husband deserves.

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    2. You missed out the major source of their confusion, its prick & toto controlling them both

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    3. No sensible man would have married her, if you could off pant for him while engagement ring is on your finger, you think he'd trust you? You'd most likely do same to him....
      Its just lust for him, hes not in love with you.... maybe its what u do in bed he loves.

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    4. Anonymous u are very correct,experience they say is d best teacher and i pray she learns frm urs not hers ,so as to avoid bringing up another chronicles here

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    5. I wish I can hug you for this

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    6. God bless you anon 15:24. Some anons on this blog sha are the real deal!
      Poster, please read and assimilate this advice.

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    7. This is the best advice for u o, try it, u never know the value of someone until u lose the person. Dont lose your husband to this man that is simply enjoying both his wife and U ( his side chick)

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  11. I need a glass of cold water. No light since.
    Poster after getting me a glass, i will give you the slap u asked for.

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  12. Only u can help urself.block everywhere.concentrate in building ur home.get busy.go to church always.tell God

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  13. For him to have chosen his wife over you when he had d chance to choose you only means he loves his wife. He just wants to chop u clean mouth. For your own good just block him and focus all that energy and time on your marriage. A man that loves a woman for real would never let her go marry another man when he had the opportunity of sealing the deal in the first place. Stay woke!

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  14. You chose the latter and kept seeing each other, got me confused there.

    A brain reset question for you: How will like your husband to find out about your ex and how much you still love him?

    How will you endure the emotional pain when your hubby starts treating you with hatred or indifference that is if he doesn't send you packing?

    How will you bear the shame when you can't bear the emotional torture and you finally invite a third party to settle your dispute and the reason presented to the mediator is CHEATING?

    Ponder on these and tell me you still have feelings for him.

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  15. Dear poster....I get where you are coming from,but just think about the hurt and pain your respective spouse would feel when they get to find out ..... You feel u made a mistake not choosing him but hey!we should be responsible for our mistakes,try not to make another mistake by Continuing this love as it's already past tense,Focus on your present and future.

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  16. Anonymous 15:24 has said it all.
    poster here lies the answer you seek.
    B bye

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  18. People enjoy hide and seek game and that's exactly what you guys are doing. That's not love, try telling him that your husband is filling for divorce and see his reaction.

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  19. You and your ex deserve eachother
    Send us the final chronicle when your husband finds out and send you packing, since you don't know what t o do . till then o.. Goodluck o

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  20. I was in this same situation and she's married with a kid till now d matter no easy but I told her we should just stop

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    1. ... her husband should do DNA on that child

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    2. I pray your wife does same to you

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  21. Think we'll. Ask him if he's willing to leave his partner. Especially if there are no kids involved. If he's willing and u two really live each other, save everyone the misery and just get back together

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  22. Poster, please face your marriage and leave your EX alone.

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  23. Hmmmmm!!!
    Flee and and disconnect from him before devil carry you shine this 2019.

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  24. Hmmmmm!!!
    Flee and and disconnect from him before devil carry you shine this 2019.

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  25. This poster doesn't love her husband. Or how could she be fantasizing about the later over her spouse. Any IHN spirikoko,this lady needs immediate deliverance so that her head will be opened to receive sense.
    HAAAAAAAA, She's planning on destroying another woman's home.
    Then she'll bring in her f**ked up chronicle pleading for help and advice.
    Advise yourself now woman,because I want to believe that you know what you're doing.
    Receive sense,love your husband,manage your home.

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  26. Anon 15:24 has said it all. Pls don't let your emotions control you. What you feel for him isn't love. Mere lust. Do not learn your lesson the hard way. You don't want to write an " I am pregnant but not for my husband" chronicle. Do you? Advice yourself.

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  27. Lust is a very powerful emotion, and difficult to break off. As others have said, the guy doesn't love you, he probably just wants secret sex with you and the excitement of an affair. Do not give in. Keep away from social media and get busy. Be filled with psalms and hymns and Godly songs. Your liberation will surely come, and Christ will set you free from the pangs of lust. Flee from this, face your hubby and remain strong.

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  28. As one anonymous rightly said up there, you don't love him neither does he love you. If he truly wanted you as his, he would have damned all consequences and got married to you. Try and tell him you have filed a divorce and want to have him to yourself and watch his reaction. But I will advise you madam,block him everywhere, move on and enjoy your marriage

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  29. As one anonymous rightly said up there, you don't love him neither does he love you. If he truly wanted you as his, he would have damned all consequences and got married to you. Try and tell him you have filed a divorce and want to have him to yourself and watch his reaction. But I will advise you madam,block him everywhere, move on and enjoy your marriage

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  30. Okayyyyyyyy!!!!!!! I can't judge you because I understand your situation. I tell you its all about the prick!!!!!! That is what you call demonic amu. Prick from the pit of hell. Poster, cut all forms of communication with that ex, focus of the good in your husband and please stop comparing.I was in a some how similar case but what I did was that after blocking the guy, I stayed a whole year without dating. I was celibate. Our issue was the mother who wanted another girl for him and he chose the other lady over me. That action alone reset my brain, I knew the love was more from my side and he just loved the sex more than me. Sooooo ,after being celibate for a year, by the way I was 27 when we broke up, I started dating again not long after I got married at 29. Sometimes, I remember the guy and smile, he still contacts me oooo just to say hi, I try to be as courteous as I can but that is it. I am married to the best man on this earth for me, what I thought was love on his side was just lust, or maybe he loved me in his own way but not the way u deserved to be loved. Poster, focus on your husband.

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  31. Enter your comment...you already know the right thing...why not just do it instead of coming here to expose yourself

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  32. Enter your comment...just think of the consequences of this your hide and seek game you both are playing and advice your self

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  33. Honestly, you are living in deceit. I can tell you that your side guy doesn't love you as you think. He would not have chose another o er you if he did. he just knows the location of your mumu buttons and the most effective ways to press them to get a rise out of you.
    At this stage, no advice can help you.
    There is a saying " the lessons of life are learnt through pain".
    Enjoy your side guy till you gt caught and see how it all ends, if "Mr.Loverboy" would leave his wife for you.
    good luck!

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  34. I can't even judge u cos I'm in a similar situation.
    And truly, it's d hide and seek game that I derive so much fun from, just like when we were in school and we had to break so many rules...oooohhh!!!
    And my own husband isn't helping matters cos he's never around, he comes home at midnight almost everyday!
    So I think we both need to be advised..lol.
    But sincerely, am I supposed to be with only one man forever cos I'm married?
    While single I was never with one guy at any particular time, and I'm so used to that.
    Don't judge me pls but being with men is d only way I have fun.
    And yes, I go to church!

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  35. Enter your comment...hhh

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  36. Your ex just want to be browsing your web site that is why he is cooking up stories to make you feel he loves you more than his wife. You are having big eyes now, concentrate on your husband and ask him to concentrate on his wife.

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  37. most women in this blog are on this table, please come give your fellow cheat advice oh. this one all of una keep quiet. if na man now una go sabi bash am. poster please desist from such act OK. everything will be OK

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  38. Sometimes in life is not what you really expect that you get if it's a mistake you made by marrying your husband is a life time one you have a live with it.
    And probably your husband might not be giving the adequate attention as you need that is the reason you are still stick to the other guy,talk the attention thing out with your husband, focus your mind on the good aspect of him also look onto your children what they will think of you if they heard that their mother is cheating on their father and pray to God for help

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