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Thursday, January 03, 2019

Popular Lagos DJ Xgee Commits Suicide Over Alleged Marital Problems....

 Nigerian Disc Jockey Seun Omogaji a.k.a DJ Xgee has ended his life over marital issues he had with his wife.....

The popular Lagos-based DJ reportedly took sniper on Wednesday January 2,2019 and left a last post on Instagram bidding everyone farewell...
His celebs friends are currently mourning him....









The people who clicked on the LIKE button did not know it was a suicide note until his passage was announced.....
I dont get it at all,why put this kind of burden on someone by Killing yourself because you fell out with them?why not walk away or get help?why be so selfish by doing this?What in heavens name could have led to this?Was it worth it??

129 comments:

  1. Please, nobody should sing the depression song again!
    Y'all have abused that word enough.

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    1. Depression has stages na, but people dont really know what depression is, its now confused for unhappiness, brokeness, heartbreak, etc

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    2. Its now you people are saying it's wrong! If it was the wife that left the note or a daughter/son that left the note insinuating that her husband or their parents is responsible for their death, Y'all will turn sympathisers and start bad mouthing the them.

      People who took their life are wicked, self centered, selfish and not strong.
      I don't care what those who claimed to be "Woked" thinks.

      You people should continue to enable them, sympathise with them, energised them and you will continue to see the record of suicide in Nigeria skyrocket.

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    3. Unhappiness, brokenness, heartbreak etc can trigger depression.

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    4. Trying not to judge till I know the full real story.
      But we need to stop saying those that committ suicide are selfish. Do you think it is easy to make such decision? They are at their darkest and their lowest,they don't need our judgement. Do you know what hurtful words do to some people. If a spouse is constantly putting you down,calling you broke-ass, useless,dead-beat and low'life. Some people's words are sharper than a samurai sword. And some don't have the strength to walk away from a bad relationship. Now I am not saying this is the case or I'm blaiming the wife . But let's be careful about the words we say to ppl. Some people are fragile and some are already feeling depressed and suicidal. Even such words "like kill yourself na" said to a suicidal person can push him/her over the edge.
      May I never be the reason for someone's hopelessness.

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    5. Beds and Roses you make sense.
      Until one knows the real story it's best to shut up and look like a gross fool mouthing off on wickedness etc etc.
      Let's find out what happened.

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    6. Ms A abeg which part of the note did he insinuate this? Or am I missing something?

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    7. @bed and roses, I am not in any way judging those that believes suicide is the easiest way out; I am against it πŸ’― and I will continue to preach against it.

      We need to stop the idea of pampering them.... Somebody commits suicide, the next thing is people saying depression is real. You hardly see people preach against suicide anymore, it is now a normal thing. The only way to pass the message to them is to say it as it is.

      Depression and suicide is now the watchword for almost all Nigerians.
      People used to be diagnosed of being depressed and bipolar, nowadays, everyone is diagnosing themselves.

      Strong people keep fighting with hope of winning.

      Parents should learn to start raising strong and confident kids with love and respect for self and the society.

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    8. Judgina entete strikes again. Lmooooooo.

      Beds and Roses. Your head carry oil.

      Only a FOOL will judge from a one sided story on social media.

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    9. Ms A I didn't even read your comment before commenting. I just jumped on the first thread I saw.

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    10. Ms A, you are just speaking from a point of ignorance and in 2019 educate yourself first before you type trash. Depression is an illness and like other illnesses it doesn't just go away

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    11. Ms A is so right. I have read everyone's comment and there seems to be some kinda sympathy for the dead. Hmmmmmm, me oh, fool is going straight to hell...if he likes let him rest in peace or pieces Na im Sabi! He was a selfish goat...he left behind his kids and parents. His kids will grow up with that stigma, his wife or ex wife will have that stigma...the multiplier effects of his action is too much...let him rot in hell. Depression is not self prescribed but clinically prescribed by professionals. Most Nigerians think when you are jilted, broke or sad, Na depression be that....may that fool rot in hell!

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    12. I don't think that people that commits suicide are stupid but I think they not strong enough to withstand the challenge.

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    13. Mrs A. I will support you if your approach will stop people from committing suicide but as a professional I know talk like this leads people further into the dark paths so please educate yourself. This is s very African approach you are taking that never has positive outcomes. Half education is worse than no education.

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  2. i initially said Sniper should be sold for 20k, or totally banned in this country. It has quickly become the first class ticket to suicide, and yet theyre declaring tramadol contraband.... how many death cases have been recorded due to tramadol?

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    1. Erm oxygen correction please
      It should be tagged at 200k cuz 20k is quite affordable

      Before the person go save reach 200k e go don outgrow the feeling to commit suicide

      Sad exit

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    2. I support. Today I went into my store I saw sinper I bought months ago . I just carried gently like it's a viper and trashed it. Am just looking at it in the dustbin with one kind eye, it should be banned. It's evil

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    3. C'mon people.
      Use your sense.
      Sniper can be 500k people, people will find an alternative.
      That's why Nigeria is the shithole it is.
      You lot are looking are reactive, as usual.

      How about looking at the cause/source a being active.

      Since there seems to be a suicide epidemic going on, I would expect Ministry of Health and other Health orgs to swing into action. Educate people on what this is, how they can spot it and how they can get help or encourage and show others to get help.
      Not going to church to sow seed of 200 naira to cancel spirit of craw craw in the brain.
      Not standing around offering 'brilliant' suggestions on how to make sniper 1 million EL O El.

      Please you guys, please.

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    4. Why use every opportunity to call Nigeria a shithole??????
      Trump insult your country and you too start insulting and laying curse on your country too.
      Shame on all of you who do that.

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    5. I totally agree with you. Sniper is not the issue here. Look at the root cause of the problem. I remember when I had my own share of depression, I didn't even know I was going through depression. I had just called off my engagement then. It started with a voice saying to me ' look at you, everyone of your sisters that brought a man home married them, why is your own different, you should be ashamed of yourself. This was actually my second engagement. That was how I started thinking. Fear now entered, I started having trouble sleeping and eating. I was losing weight.I had anxiety attacks.The devilish voice will say to me - just end it because you are a disgrace to your parents. I had fear of sleeping because I thought if I fall asleep I will not wake up. I was scared of being by myself.
      Thank God for Jesus.. In all of this I was still attending church, anytime I was in service I felt peace, I will not want the service to end. I had to open up to one of my church members about what was going on. I just told her I had trouble sleeping. I didn't even know what I was going through was depression. She prayed with me, gave me two scriptures to read every night before going to bed and also I should apply the anointing oil on myself and take a shot of it. That was how I got delivered o. I didn't even know when it stopped. I just realised that I was sleeping well at night, and the anxiety stopped. I don't wish what I went through on anyone.

      Please if you are going through depression always speak out. Tell someone. Know Christ as well. Depression is as a result of wrong thinking. The devil will use your mind against you. Always think the right thoughts. We all have the power to choose what we think.

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    6. 12:07. You cannot grow with emotions and sentiment.
      Did I lie?
      Did I fucking lie???

      IS IT NOT A SMELLING WASTED MOTHERFUCKING SHITHOLE????

      You have NO ELECTRICITY.
      CLEAN WATER IS A LUXURY IN 2019.
      YOUR ROADS ARE A DEATHTRAP.
      NO SECURITY.
      SCHOOLS ARE ON STRIKE. EDUCATION IS JUST A JOKE.
      YOUR MEDICAL IS A TRIPLE JOKE.
      NUMBER 1 POVERTY CAPITAL OF THE WORLD.
      NUMBER 1 CYBERCRIMES CAPITAL CAPITOL OF THE WORLD.
      40 PERCENT UNEMPLOYMENT RATE.

      If this is not a SHITHOLE, is this your version of paradise??

      And you are there picking nose saying ehnn Trump ehn Trump.

      So you think it was Trump that told those of us whose heads are not buried in sand the truth???

      Abeg move aside with your swollen nose and blindness continue deceiving only yourself.

      If anyone can give me a better word than SHITHOLE that this country is, I would gladly use it.

      Rubbish.

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    7. I agree with you..This country is a shithole!

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  3. Depression is real. So many people are guity of neglecting those in this situation maybe because they don't count even on this blog. It's all about preverance. May his soul rest in peace

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    1. Neglecting what?
      Does anyone owe you anything here.
      Is here where your father and mother stays?
      This irritating entitlement mentality will be what kills Nigerians last last, along with their empty heads and nauseating poverty mindset.

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    2. Enter your reply...You are a big fool 14:11. read well n stop talking nonsense.

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    3. I'm not your parents hun,you had better address your insults in the right direction.
      Hungry wretched jungle animal in toddler's body that you are. @22:17

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  4. This is so sad. May he find rest in the afterlife.

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  5. Death is the obliteration of all pains. Him alone knows the pains of what he was going through that eventually made him gave up life. In as much as I frown on suicide, sometimes it takes walking on peoples condition to know what they really felt in life.

    Rest on and sleep well DJ.

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    1. Na person wey die well go sleep well.

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  6. This is so sad. God console his family.

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  7. Honestly.very selfish being.we need less of people like this.why get married if u were not mentally and physically mature to marry.oh now how will she raise them.so will keep cursing the day she met him.so she is his oxygen?his sustainace?his God or what

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    1. Do you have sense at all? What an insensitive comment.

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    2. You should have taken his place, instead. Sick fellow!

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    3. You are very silly. Marital problems may have been one of the issues that triggered his depression. There may be other issues as well so you people should shut it and stop saying people eho commit suicide are wicked except you know the full story.

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  8. Things that always make me wonder.Why suicide? Why take my Life because of another?
    RIP to him if he ever finds peace beyond here.

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  9. Jesus christ of Nazareth! na kill this guy kill himself?
    hope the wife is happy now. chai, this is so sad

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    1. Yaba left escapee3 January 2019 at 09:00

      Pls close your mouth, what do you know? Who kills himself because ur marriage isnt going well, whi does that?

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    2. Why will the wife be happy now?
      Pls mind what u say

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    3. you self close your mouth. and mind what you say too. get off my comments jor

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  10. Gaji.......Why now???
    So sad mehn, it doesn't stop your Wify from moving on
    Rest in peace man

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  11. Whyyyyyy killing Youself for heaven Sake..hia I really dnt know what to say..Rest on ooo...

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  12. This same sniper? What? The devil is using sniper to take away pples life. I don't think I ever want to buy that insecticide.

    Rip DJ

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  13. What really happened indeed, I hope its the right story being propagated and not a propaganda to slander his wife and cause a witch hunt.

    Marriages breakdown all the time, the woman should not be tagged as the cause of his suicide but 'depression'.

    Reading this for the first time last night struck me with the ironies of life. A young man with 2 young children fought for his life in the hospital during the last day's of 2018 but didn't make it. Another walked into 2019 and made a hasty retreat by his own hand.

    Life, oh life, ooohh life, oh life...

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    1. RIP to the dead.

      Good morning castle. Saw your shoutout late at night yesterday & couldn't respond. Happy new year to you as well. Trust you're good? Kisses to Baby Windsor. I'll call over the weekend to hear her babbles #smiles

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  14. Stella, depression is a deep disease of the mind, it cant be explained, you all think theyre selfish? No! Theyre not, ive contemplated suicide a few years back, the little i can explain to anyones understanding is that, you'd initially lose interest in everything, even your best music wouldnt make sense, even if they offer u one mill dollars, it'd be like paper in ur hands, thats the first step of a progressive depression, life will seem meaningless & no value to you, you will so seek for that inner peace, i cant explain but you'd be uneasy from the inside, and permanent sleep will seem like the only solution to you, u will not anyone cause they'd prevent u from finding that permanent sleep, thats why they mostly keep it a secret, its seasonal, the feeling goes and returns, i'm still fighting mine.. theres a japanese remedy i'm following online, it seems to be working.

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    1. Please, continue to fight. The joy of the Lord is your strength.

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    2. Wow. I pray you find lasting peace dear.

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    3. Leave them...they don't understand... only if you have been there can you understand...

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    4. I really implore your courage, pls keep seeking for help. You shall surely overcome.

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    5. Please continue to fight, it is w
      ell with you, amen.

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    6. Continue fighting it and if possible share the Japanese remedies also,you never can tell who will get help from it.

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    7. Continue fighting dear. The lord will see you Through. Hugs..

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  15. When you are down
    Focus on what you love doing and do it more
    Rest in peace young man

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  16. I'm still in shock over this..
    Stella,u can't understand a depressed person,little things trigger it...planning on doing a post on depression.. Damn,I support the band of selling sniperπŸ˜₯

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    1. Ban sniper ? Why .. That thing works magic on cockroach and black ants

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    2. Yaba left escapee3 January 2019 at 08:59

      Ban*

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    3. Tanks..
      @nnuku.u won't understand..

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    4. Please do a post if you have all the info. People need awareness because the comments I read under these stories scare me more than the story. Depression is a mental health sickness. If you see a mad man eating from the bin will you ask him why he is so filthy? No! The same way you do not tell a depressed person to reason about committing suicide or stop being a sore loser or that they don’t have any reason to be depressed. If they could understand those things they wouldn’t be depressed. We need more awareness. I was ignorant too in the past

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    5. Nnuku try and have small sense, if ur loved one havent used it you'd be talking rubbish up and down

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    6. Same way it works magic with ants and the rest is now same way it's working magic in humans,a law should be put to check this sniper of a thing cause it's doing more damage than good

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  17. Murderers now have a way of getting away with murder cos not all suicides are real..

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    1. Yaba left escapee3 January 2019 at 08:58

      So you mean they forced him to make that post before they closed his nose & downloaded sniper down his throat?

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    2. Yaba left, she might mean future occurrences.

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  18. What the heck did l just read?? Over a thousand people liked the post too. I think a lot of people don’t really read a thing their friends or people they follow post. They just like it.
    I feel bad for his family and close friends. Dem go tear the wife apart. Suicide is never an option. Sad!!

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    1. I could swear they didn't read the post but just clicked on the like button.

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    2. Do Nigerians even read?
      Can they comprehend?
      Always diving into the abyss of nothingness bouncing repeatedly on their heads and cracking empty skulls like peanut shells.

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  19. Is suicide ever worry it? Can Sniper be banned?
    Sad sad sad

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    1. Why shouldn't it?? Can't you see people people are misusing it cause it's cheap

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  20. 2 bleesed 2 curse3 January 2019 at 08:53

    Omg how easy it has become for people to take tgeir own lifes
    Suicide is never an answer. This is so sad.RIP

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    1. It’s for depressed people because their perception of reality is different. That’s why we need mental health awareness

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  21. What kind of marital issues will make you kill yourself and leave your children? Maybe it had to do with money. Walk away,divorce,anything but suicide? Maybe he must have done something that he was terribly ashamed of. Either ways...may he found the peace he is looking for

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    1. U may be right, there re some things worse than death & 'shame' is one of them...

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  22. Yaba left escapee3 January 2019 at 08:54

    Even they knew it was a suicide note, he'd even have 10k likes, people click like for good and bad, some dont even read your caption.

    Did he write that he ended it cus of the issue he had with the wife? which marriage dont reach that fighting junction? He must have been depressed and his attitude like everyother depressed person affects the closest person around.

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    1. Exactly my reply up there @ your first paragraph.

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    2. A lot of depressed people appear happy and normal outside. Only those who are very close to them know that they are being affected by something, but even these people most times don't understand how deeply. Mental health awareness is key. Don't blame those who liked his post. It is a new year, they obviously didn't quite understand.

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  23. Nawa.....people will just be liking things anyhow without bothering to read the content. Life is so precious, I'll never understand why people chose to waist it.

    Spanish

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  24. It's always sniper. Please seek help on time if you are going through depression. Suicide is never an option. If only the people who like this post reach out to him, maybe, just maybe he will still be alive. Too bad.

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  25. This is selfish and totally wrong ,the wife will feel guilty for his actions for a vert long time, likewise people around them ,especially the guy's family members ,they will see her as if she frustrated him to take his life ,it's not fair at all��how will his mother be feeling now.He could have just walked away and sort for consolation elsewhere

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    1. You are sick! How is this selfish? Insensitive comment! Depression is a mental illness!

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    2. A critical look at his suicide note does not in every way indicate that the wife caused his depression. Let the wife speak or keep silence. Time will tell why he committed suicide. Suicide is not an answer or a way of escape when one is feeling depressed.

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  26. May his soul rest in peace....suicide is not the way out of problem

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  27. Heya,y not get separated from ur wife instead of committing suicide

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  28. Rest in peace cute guy. No matter what, suicide is never the way out.

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  29. pls o, they should not ban sniper. that thing has been helping us since 1900

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  30. My eyes welled up with tears as I have also contemplated drinking sniper and ending it. A bad marriage can make you run mad. I will never forget that day,It was like God let me die. But God spoke to me clearly and told me I am not yet done with you. Be calm. Recently the feelings have started coming back but I said marriage no be do or die affair. When I am sad I remember my life isn't based on marriage alone .Sometimes I still have the feeling I would be relieved and people around me would be relieved iif God should take me.

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    1. God has deep plans for you and I am convinced as I read your post. Get close to Him and find out. He will grant you strength for each day and bright hopes for tomorrow as you lean close. Lean each day till you hear His word or feel His peace. Grace.

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    2. It is well. Hold on to God. Brighter days are ahead.

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    3. You must end your life cos of a bad marriage you hear me ?!! Brainwashed idiot like you lot that thinks marriage is a do or die affair . Die die die idiot. When my so called marriage ended I revenged by becoming successful. I paid cash upfront for my car thousands of pounds. He even drove the car recently. I shipped a truckload of foodstuff to his parents . His village as a whole has never seen such . I poured money on the people that scorned me. They were scared. They couldn’t believe that despite all they did to me I could do such!! When he came into my home he fell down and started begging he was stupefied by the set up. God is great ! Use the life God gave you to shame them by becoming successful.

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    4. If you like kill yourself for frivolous reasons, the rest people here will continue.

      Cowards always think suicide is a way out, transferring their sorrowful life to their family members.
      Selfish people..

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    5. Madam anon 10.32 that anon up there is better than you. Why because she knows she has a problem and is dealing with it.you on the other hand your divorce has made you a very bitter person with a heart of stone. Why call someone brainwashed idiot. And die die die. Madam you need therapy. You think you are healed and moved on????. You are still bitter.
      When will people learn people are not the same and they handle things differently.
      Some shake off divorces with the speed of light and even start dating. Some it may take them years to heal.
      I won't even respond to any insult you throw. But mind what you say to a depressed or suicidal person inugo.

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    6. Do U think its that easy to be successful?! By the way success doesn't even buy happiness.. U sound vengeful and if U didn't do al that U mentioned up there, U would feel empty. Ur sadness/bitterness prompted U...what silly talk! Mtcheew!

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    7. No doubt you became rich by questionable means because you’re so driven by bitterness and hate.
      The first anonymous is a 100 times more honourable than fool you.
      Why don’t you die with your riches lonely ass fool and leave people to deal with their issues their way.
      Oniranu.

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  31. I dont understand y the post has so many likes. People just click without reading....

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  32. This is so sad. Why take your life?? I know there's an inner voice that keeps whispering do this do that, but when I hear such voice I bind it, no matter the situation ,God won't let me take my life cos even as life is hard, life is also swt

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  33. Alternative Facts3 January 2019 at 10:21

    Sadly, Nigerians do not read. If they’d read between the lines they would have known those were suicidal thoughts.. so many likes

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  34. Who commit suicide bcus of a wife?Are there no longer beautiful women in town?.Suicide is never an option.What shud children in Yemen and Syria,a worn country say.We are always quick to tag unhappiness as depression. Suicide is a straight ticket to hell.Now,the wife will cry a little and get married again. Each time i watch Aljazeera network i give thanks to God.Come and see news coverage of refugees,internally displaced people who av notin to eat.All am saying we av no reason to commit suicide. Unhappiness is just a phase dat will lead to happiness.

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    1. You say you are a Master's student?
      You reason like a pot of beans always.
      There is a DIFFERENCE between DEPRESSION and UNHAPPINESS.
      Google can still assist you.
      It's not too late.

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    2. Don't mind the foolish Nigerians, every stupid act is as a result of depression to them.
      Nothing like depression, it's a make believe shit by coward minds.

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  35. Nigerians need to set serious mental health crisis help lines now. For both people suffering or struggling with their mental health & also for the concerned people like family members, co-workers, friends, neighbours & entire communities at large to report, seek for help & access resources for mental health interventions. Going to church or prayers is not solution for mental health, poverty, family troubles, dangerous abuse & most life threatening situations.
    The world now is full of evil, plenty of enemies in disguise & pretences to poison minds, steal lives, cause harm & destroy lives. Yet many people remain ignorant, careless & unbothered to take strong measures required for them to protect their sanity & mental health.
    May his rest in peace.
    I'm sure in his next life he will never..ever be in any relationship that is worthy of his life.
    Just like me, NO MAN, NO HUMAN BEING IS WORTHY OF MY LIFE!!!
    I'LL RATHER BE SINGLE & HAPPY & FULFILLED ALONE BY MYSELF TILL THE AGE OF 200 RATHER THAN TO DIE BECAUSE OF ANY RELATIONSHIP OR ASSOCIATION WITH ANY HUMAN BEING ON THIS EARTH THAT WILL BE THE END OF LIFE FOR ME.

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    1. Lolll.

      They would rather rush to church and sow 1000 naira seed for jedi jedi cancellation, another 500 naira seed for prosperous focus. Another ehen ehen ehen.

      If you see the way thei mummy GO and Daddy GO and Uncle GO kini kan kini kan rush to hospital ehn...lmaoooo

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  36. What a waste! If he wanted to die, he could have died a national hero by taking Jubril with him. But he chose to die an unsung life. This is why I like oyibo people. One person for run go comot Jubril hat and be a hero. Not fear fear Nigerians.

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    1. πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜… you nor well at all

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  37. Depression is real. i almost killed myself n 2014, but when i thot of hell fire i changed my mind. cant suffer in this world and still go to hell fire. there is a thin line between sanity and insanity. it is well with his family members.

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    1. You weren't depressed but just stupid at that time. What changed now? You have money to eat and clothes to wear.

      Everything depression, the only bastardised word ever in Nigeria space.

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  38. My submission on this suicide issue is that we should drop pride at all cost,love yourself and always seek happiness and lasting joy. A proud individual will find it difficult to share or discuss his/her life issues with a counselor. When one is feeling extreme depression and the thought of suicide creeps in,the best is to run to a facility,which ever one that you are familiar with. It could be your church,hospital,friends,family,spouse etc. Once the cause is dealt with,you are definitely bouncing back to life. Again let us consciously make efforts to support one another,be a source of happiness and joy to one another,keep away vile from our lips,encourage one another and try to live in peace with all men. God help us all

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  39. I was once in a depressing relationship...
    My bf never appreciates anything I do. He would always see my faults and tell me I have an ulterior motive to everything... I went against everyone I knew and loved just to be with him. That was the only period in my life suicide was constantly on my mind, I was so ready to end it. But one day I thought about hell, how the hereafter would be worse than this life.
    I finally had the courage to leave, I thought about the worse that could possibly happen to me asides death and I braced up for it.
    Thank God I walked away. Today, I am fine, happy, loved and closer to my God than ever before..
    I pray that every depressed soul will find God...

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    1. Good you have a change of mind. If you kill yourself because of relationship, that's your choice and solely fault of yours.

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  40. Depression is real.
    In Nigeria,when one is depressed, friends and family will tell you to go to church for counselling, prayer or deliverance.
    What training do the pastors have? If some of them tell you what they are going through themselves and that they are also struggling with depression, you will be surprised.
    Depression is a serious mental health issue and only the person affected knows how it really feels. Also, people's thresholds are different.A lot of times, it is not one particular incident like a quarell or a bad business deal that causes it - it may worsen it for sure but it is usually a chronic, constant thing.
    If you are going through depression, PLEASE, your first stop should be a hospital. After receiving counselling from TRAINED medical personnel and possibly medication, you can now go to church. The companionship may help. Pastors, friends and family make it look as if when you are depressed, all you need to do is to cast it away by faith. Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way.
    Please, nobody should say that ..... is not worth killing one self for. You are not walking in the other persons shoes.
    STOP TRIVIALIZING DEPRESSION.
    IT IS REAL.
    PRAY IT NEVER HAPPENS TO YOU OR TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE.

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    1. Depression is not real. Stop feeding yourself and others with junks.

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    2. You are the junk Don. Anuofia

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    3. Unfortunately depressed people (especially men) do not agree that they are going through depression that is why men are more likely to commit suicide from depression . Well, so says research.

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    4. Stella , please please please. You have a platform. Let this not be for only gist and gossip. Please help save lives. Start educating people about mental health . It’s very important. I don’t know why I keep writing this but the comments I see here shows me more people will die from depression in Nigeria because a lot of people are unaware. Please help save a life . PLEASE!!!!

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    5. Yes more & more Nigerians will die from mental health related issues & also many people will be harmed badly by someone close to them like a family member, friend or co- worker or associate with mental health problems. Madness is not just only going naked on the street or eating from the trash. Most Mental illnesses r often hidden & not noticable by others. For example bi-polar disorder is 1 mental illness that the afflicted person will be able to carry on with regular normal daily or living activities. But at the same time manage sussessfully to be fooling people around that all is well. Unfortunately people around someone with a bipolar disorder will be severely suffering too & hurting or even get fatally harmed or get killed!!!
      It's not everyone that u see smiling, dancing, talking very assertively or polite, friendly & seemingly happy or in outward appearance in good spirit is functioning well in the head.
      NIGERIANS PLEASE WAKE UP TO THE REALITIES OF MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES!!! STOP CALLING IT A SPIRITUAL PROBLEM! RATHER TREAT IT AS A SERIOUS HEALTH MATTER!!!

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  41. Depression is not real. It's a phrase used by deluded, mental people.
    Only a coward commit suicide.

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    1. E don do.
      You've repeated it more than 20 times on just one post.
      So what has happened since you dropped your last rabid comment.
      Any time there is a free mental health check at Yaba Left or Aro, please available yourself the opportunity of turning up.

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  42. It's high time this sniper is ban, every time sniper this, sniper that

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  43. When you know that death is not the end life you will not commit suicide.

    There is life after death

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  44. Nigerians please learn to WALK AWAY FROM A BAD RELATIONSHIP / MARRIAGE / FAMILY MEMBERS OR TOXIC SITUATIONS THAT R NOT POSSIBLE TO ADAPT TO OR FOR U TO CONTROL!!!
    *PEOPLE SHOULD STOP SHAMING DIVORCED OR SINGLES OR WIDOWED PEOPLE, BECAUSE SOME ARE 100000 TIMES MORE BETTER OFF NOW, HAPPIER, LIVING RESPECTABLY & DIGNIFIED, HAVE A GOOD LIFE THAN MANY SO CALLED MARRIED PEOPLE TODAY.
    ***THE MEAN SPIRIT, SCORN & MOCKERY THAT MANY NIGERIANS R SUBJECTED TO FOR FAILED RELATIONSHIP,RIDICULE & HUMILIATIONS FOR THE LOSS OF A PARTNER IS CLEARLY NOW VERY EVIL & DANGEROUSLY MALICIOUS.

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