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Sunday, January 27, 2019

Sunday In House Gists - 'Deflowering' The Boo

This post is about Deflowering someone who has not been ''Plucked''..Note that it could be Male or female.....









A Blog visitor Says


''In the late 90s, I heard an older guy arguing with his friends about Virginity. His argument was that he cannot marry a Virgin because she does not know "What's Up" (no experience). He would prefer to marry someone with experience so that he can enjoy the act.

I read something again this month where a guy openly said he cannot stand the thought of deflowering a Virgin. His reason is that he cannot stand the sight of blood and the pains the lady would go through. A woman replied him saying her husband told her he avoided Virgins because he does not want any emotional attachment from any lady..... 

On the part of ladies, some said they would prefer an experienced man to a male Virgin because they like the man being in control.
I also read a comment under a Chronicle post on this blog where a BV said her friend who got married as a Virgin was told by her husband to get someone to deflower her before he would touch her.

Have you ever deflowered a virgin?what was the experience like?would you do it again if the chance comes?
Tell us your reasons''.

180 comments:

  1. Stellakoko igbugom for this blog.you no even wan make person leav this blog..addiction raise to power 100๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Žhave been the deflowerer or defloweree
    Ladybugsis๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

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    1. Let me go anonymous on this.
      I lost my virginity at the age of 28 yrs when I just got fed up of keeping it with no serious guys coming. So when I finally met my ex fiance, he insisted on no sex before marriage but I beg him to take the virginity away on our introduction night,moreover I told him he will soon be my hubby in a couple of month. But along the line the relationship pack up,but I never regretted having that sexual satisfaction. The fist time we had sex,I never saw any blood but the pains was too much to bear. I never enjoyed it. But when he came over to my base after two months later and we had sex that was when I actually enjoyed it bcos the guy sabi drill no be small. But I had to call off the engagement and wedding bcos he doubted if I was actually a virgin bcos he couldn't see any blood coming out after our first night. I was so mad and infuriated when he asked me if I was truly a 'V' that particular question killed all my affections for him and I vouched within myself to dump his ass as soon as I'm done with him which I did two months to our traditional marriage. He wept like a baby begging me but I stood my ground. I told him if he can't trust me when I told him I was a 'V' how is he gonna trust me in marriage.
      After I dumped him I decided to close my legs like a mermaid for close to two yrs no more sex with any guy. When I attempted to gbensh this xmas I realized I've turned virgin again bcos the guy do tire and he can't penetrate and he concluded I was a v. So he said he's not gonna touch me again until after our wedding night. All what my epistle is trying to say is that SEX is overrated, no big deal. I only did because I just wanted to know how it feels to have that thing in between your cookie jar. The real me now, I will never allow any guy including my so called bobo visit my area one without paying my bride price. I always feel guilty and dirty after premarital sex.

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    2. @Anonymous 16:07
      The only sense in your entire writing is your last sentence:
      "I always feel guilty and dirty after premarital sex."

      That summarizes the feeling is all the girls that have pre-marital sex want to tell us the truth.

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    3. Anon 17:26 Abeg tell her...

      Only the last line made sense ... soo you mean you got disvirgined twice lmaoo๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Some people take us for fools on this site issokay o.

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    4. Anon 16:07, i pity the men in your life. You dumped your former fiance because he was in doubt of your Virginity, now you do not see any thing wrong in lying to your current so called bobo (sic) that you are actually not a Virgin.

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    5. @Anon 14:05 Eziokwu!
      Addiction raise to power 10000 sef!
      Well, I'm looking forward to that day, fantasy just full my head. Make I no too talk. ๐Ÿค
      Dear future hubby, wherever you are, I'm earnestly waiting for you biko.
      Till then, let me sit and read. Please who came with pop corn?
      ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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    6. Great ideas, Stella. Wonder if you could do a post on dissatisfied sexual experiences or people with partners with mismatched libido or Erectile dysfunction. See this a lot in my line of work. Great job once again.

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  2. Well-done Stella for the innovations springing up daily.

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  3. It is not difficult to know devils handwriting; lies. He wants people, females to worship him with their bodies. Virginity is a treasure and so it remains. Nobody needs to teach anybody how to have sex. Just like a newborn baby is not taught how to suck breast milk.

    I married at 28 years and I was a virgin. My husband too was a virgin. We both began the process of having sex without the so called "experience". After more than a decade of marriage and with kids, we are both sexually satisfied each time we have sex. We learnt together to explore our bodies, know the things and spots that give us pleasure and it is a pleasure on its own to learn this process; it is fun. Everyday, we learn new things about each other's bodies.

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    1. God bless you for this. The act of deflowering is a covenant and has spiritual implications.

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    2. What are d implications of deflowering?

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    3. @BlackBerry to me I feel it create a strong bond between the person being deflowered and the lover. Such feelings don't fade away even with the passage of time.

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    4. Some people are virgins because they don't have someone tobdobit with them.
      Are virgins that masturbate always still virgins

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    5. Let be enter Anon. Mood
      Me and my hubby married as virgins because we decided to honour God with our body.
      Our first night was so funny. We kept looking for the hole. Hubby's Mr J. was so big and long...fear grip my heart...where it will enter oh. It took us one week to finally enter well with the help of KY jelly
      But I guess the pain stayed with me....for a long time I wasn't enjoying sex..did it to make him happy...hubby wanted it every day. He really gives a 100% foreplay. So I just enjoyed that, I finally upgraded to his level small and I like sex very well now but the problem is that he doesn't last long. I now want it to last long but he will find himself releasing on time.
      He feels so bad about it...Can someone give us tips to help him. He's a very very good man. He still ask me if I enjoyed it after 5years. Most times I don't say the truth so that he doesn't feel bad.

      I will be reading comments

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    6. @22:57
      I wrote the first comment up there. There is a way out and it is similar to what you both did before marriage.
      Self control; yes self control. how to achieve that; fasting; yes fasting. Just take him through a fast like morning till noon,
      then gradually, morning till evening and wake up midnight, pray and get him on and see him hold on for long.

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  4. Yes there's no fear in it ...some virgins don't spill blood and most times at their early age before the main do...You find out that even without straphing and the stuff shoots from the trouser it makes the vjay weaken..on the read do..You notice it opens immediately without delay cos she has been in several romance by fingering etc.

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    1. Can a finger disvirgin....cos u said by fingering ?
      Ladybugsis#๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

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    2. If youve been fingered... youre a secondary virgin

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    3. Who are those in the category of primary, secondary and tertiary virgin

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  5. But some virgins on the first night doesn't feel pain and some blood won't show..
    Blessed fan emmanuel

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  6. The experienced ones,oya start spilling am here to read comments.

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    1. Pharisee, you don come market(ing) come dey "strategize?"
      Who be experienced ones?
      Nne, make you cool down o.

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  7. I have never deflowered any man and I don't plan on doing that.

    I'll prefer a man with experience that can get to my g-spot and I also get him satisfied.
    I can't deal with taking the purity of any man away.

    Now, there was a Nigerian man that married his wife as a virgin and he was a virgin too.... I used to give them side eye when I saw that they already have three kids within few years of getting married. I'm like, so this guy know how to do the do and they all look so innocent, lol.

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  8. Una don start?
    Which one be horseband telling virgin wife to go find someone to deflower her? The man no like am at all talkless of love.
    Chai, the nonsense wey we women they allow to thrash us plenti o.
    Persin wey dey talk say im want experienced ladies na hoe hunter im be tey tey. Make una ladies avoid that brat o. That one na manhoe.
    I been marry as virginia but that one no be the koko. The koko be say, make una remain faithful to una husbands. That time wey you talk say na God you wan serve, make you no dey put leg for world and put leg for God, mabanu. Make una choose one.

    The night hubby cross barrier, yes, im pain small but e come dey sweet well well. Im come dey addicted to my smooth nyansh dey jolly legitimately. You see legitimate pounding dey sweet, sake of say your mind go dey cooleee, no worries say belle, nyama nyama and all that.

    These days, whosai, virginia scarce no be small. All them girls don dey sneak out like rats from them holes, come dey receive pounding for man house. You go see car park for road corner come dey shake jigigigijigi. . . Na quickie be dat one o. Naija girls no dey shame again o.

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    1. Lol,you are so funny madam AnG aka Anon Sic. Your hand writing is so easy to identify

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    2. Persin go be virginia for tohtoh but them don drill am for nyansh sote, e don become like borehole. Them don suck the boobies sote, the nipples don be like funnel tail?
      Which kin virginia be dat one eh?
      Even the so called virginia tohtoh don see better tongue-washing.
      Ndi Pharisee, make una carry sofly o, virginia mean say, you close legs,
      ya mind be virginia, e no dey corrupt, you close nyansh no dey doti ya bodi.
      If you no be virginia, you no be am. Nothing like secondary virginia.

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    3. Funnel tail,๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  9. Wait, a man actually sent his wife to be deflowered by someone? WoW!. Well, I can't marry a virgin. Not in this 2019.

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    1. 2 bleesed 2 curse27 January 2019 at 14:42

      Wow you cant marry a V ๐Ÿ˜ฎ who are those saying they want decent ladies for marriage?

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    2. Yaba left escapee27 January 2019 at 14:44

      I can marry a virgin over & over & over again....
      Theres this pride & gratification knowing youre walking on a sacred ground where no man has ever stepped foot, you cherish her more.

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    3. Any man that say that trash. I will look for a man with big dick and fuck him well.

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    4. @ Anon 15:30, you will just die.

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  10. Yeah, i dated a guy who wished i wasn't a virgin . he wished i was hoe. Men are terrible and manipulative! God us ladies.

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    1. That's because he didn't love you he wanted to use you as a sex toy. He wanted to explore your body for his lustful gratification. A guy who loves you would be blown away take it from me...this is coming from a guy.

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    2. False !!
      Have deflowered two and believe me it wasn't pleasurable.
      Virgins are good and all but not all men want them.
      Def not me..

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    3. My dear anon 14:23 like the other anon told. He just didnt love you so DONT FRET.

      You will meet someone that will cherish you. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    4. Did they remain virgins forever nii? Or their whole existence, their intellect, personality,is summed up by the stress you got from breaking their hymen?
      You simply never loved those ladies, else you won't reduce your feelings towards them to the state of their hymen except sex and pleasure plus experience in the other room is the only thing you live for!!!!

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    5. The same reason it shouldn’t matter that the girl isn’t a virgin. Yes, why reduce your feelings to the state of their vagina?

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  11. The aspect of emotional attachment is so true I must say. I know of a lady that often talk about the guy that deflowered her many years back. She still feel something for him and the memory still lives with her. It usually create a bond that, not even the passage of time can erase. Marrying as a virgin is a pride for a woman but not a guaranteed of a lasting marriage. It doesn't stop a man from cheating.

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    1. Yaba left escapee27 January 2019 at 14:46

      Teejay, talk if youve ever deflowered a virgin before... and ur experience.

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    2. I can't even stand my ex that disvirgined me. And I'm thankful daily I didn't marry him.
      He's 40 now,living somewhere in Europe with 3kids from 3 white women.
      All that attachment stuff they say is crap. I married the guy I met after him and he is equally good in bed.

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    3. Anon 17:53 You are liar ... i know your type. You just want to discredit the whole attachment thing for virgins. Multiple people have said, there is a strong bond between the virgin and the person who did it.

      Please save your stories ... thanks. I know that you are a non virgin siiinceee even b3fore your so called ex who has 3 babymamas ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

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    4. Anon 18:22 What are u yarning about? I got disvirgined at 23 and I still don't feel any emotional attachment with d guy till date..I see him as on d men I had sex with in d past and nothing more..It was a consensual sex..I even begged him to disvrigin me..I felt indifernind about it afterwards.. It's been years and I don't remember him..
      Two years ago he sent me friend request on FB,I saw his name ,remee remem him and still blocked him..He is doing well for himself..Working with SPDC in Warri..I don't want him to come and start reminding me of how he broke my virginity..
      We parted amicable when we dated and no bad blood..I don't hate him but I don't have any attachment with him..

      Dat u are still emotionally attached to a man that deflowered u doesn't mean all of us are like u..Some of us are good at moving on and forgetting d past..
      I think those women that still get attached to the men who deflowered them are those that hang onto their ex and hardly get over the men they dated..It has nothing to do with being deflowered or not..It's all in ur head..Get over urself and move on from ur past.

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    5. True!! I also don't feel emotionally attached to my disvirginer.Who emotional attachment help?? Lol. It's only peeps who don't have better things to do with their time that worry about that stuff.

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    6. I beg I have no emotional attachment for who disvirgined me. In fact it’s just cosnof this post my mind went to him. Thank God I didn’t marry him. someone that will be forming church but was so happy to do the deed. Says his God knows he’s a sinner. And he is now a pastor. Mscheeeew

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    7. All of you are a bunch of liars. Be deceiving yourselves you hear? The truth is deep down you still feel something for the person who deflowered you but just can't admit it.

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  12. Im female and I have done it twice but I won't do it again ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ It sucks having to teach a man the appropriate way to kiss and touch you and most importantly where to put *it*didn't work out with the first one but the guy is attached to me,just the way I'm still emotionally attached to the one I lost my virginity to. Second guy we still chilling after 5 years but he's more experienced now of course ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    1. see them o
      YOu no go do wetin again?
      When money show now, iwakpo nwoke n' ike.

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    2. I am 36 and still a virgin . No penis has ever entered me. My relationships ended because I say no sex before I am married. Obviously they are after the body because they might run away after the sex and I will be full of regret. Still a virgin and happy till I meet my own hubby. NO Regrets at all. I hope for a mature man.

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  13. I deflowered my then boyfriend, now Fiancรฉ. We made love and it was just one minutes. I ran out and came back later. He had zero experience and I was the opposite. We gradually graduated from 1 mins to 15 mins, 30 mins and can now go for an hour plus. I do run from him now set vos he can go on, on and on. It took us one hour before we got here. Up till now, he doesn't know where my tohtoh is but I do guide him for easy entrance. He loves me too bits and we are getting married soon.

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    1. The fokunizers don dey crawl out?
      Of course in ghost mode. As for them ID,
      them be virginia senior sisters.

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    2. Wow ๐Ÿ˜ฎ he doesn’t know where your tohtoh is? For real even after grinding you for one hour plus for yrs. Make him no carry his screw driver burst your stomach one day o as he Dey search for the mystery tohtoh

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    3. LMAO! i cant get the image of your boyfriends dick putting on dark glasses, with a metallic bowl, chanting Babiya Allah off my head. So after how many years, his dick still need to be "directed" to the entrance to your "tohtoh"

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    4. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Plenty no well for this blog o. Hahahah

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    5. You people should leave me and my mystery tohtoh alone o. Na tight I tight no be say I steal una gbensh. Ciao

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    6. What won't I read on this blog? You mean he grinds you for one hour plus and still don't know where your kpekus is? Unbelievable! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    7. Madam Virginia, you too no be Anon? You so hypocritical

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  14. Stella sure knows how to keep us blog addicted
    I didn't bleed tho and it was painful. I said I'd never do it again but guess who was horny two weeks after

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  15. Yaba left escapee27 January 2019 at 14:38

    .... �� this topic go sweet sha!
    YES! Ive deflowered 2 and half girls in the past, the last one is considered half cus it started with fingering & smooching, then when the cap was introduced to the party, she couldnt stand the pain, then she returned to factory settings, telling me its not my war to fight but her husbands, no qualms na, he who fights & runs away lives to fight another day... subsequent visit, her catch phrase has been thrown along with caution to the wind & we're at it again but with the help of KYjelly to smoothen the journey, after 30mins of serious heavy petting & plate washing, she says shes had an O, and theres no point going further, besides "its not your war to fight"... so there was never a full D penetration.
    Unlike the other 2 chicks, one was actually a challenge & took so tight, even my smallest finger caused her severe pain & discomfort, & we'd just have to stop for that day, it took me almost 2months to break the hymen & even afterwards she didnt bleed, so she assumed i was so lame to think she wasnt trully a virgin, but i assured her that not all woman bleed.

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    1. You are really sick oh so you want to marry a virgin but you have no problem defiling them? who will marry the ones you defile? pick a hustle man!.

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    2. Yaba left escapee27 January 2019 at 15:36

      My conscience is clear as i didnt rape anyone... someone up there says he cant marry a virgin, i beleive i'm helping a brother out.

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    3. Three virgins? You sure love underage girls sir. Teenagers are your spec. Yes your conscience is clear cos they are always on heat cos of puberty stage. But you sure do have eyes for innocent little girls sha

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    4. Anon 16:54 Sooo in your mind, its only underage girls that are virgins. You are on a long thing dear. So many virgins above 23 and even 30 above sef. Look at Yvonne Orji the american actress, 35+year plus.

      In todays world, Underrage girls are not even virgin again lol.

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    5. Yaba left escapee u be case i swear down

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  16. My hymen got broken due to too much sports,i have never been penetrated
    And i dont intend to befor marriage.

    Just dont know how i will even open my mouth to tell such story to my future hubby.

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    1. Yaba left escapee27 January 2019 at 15:06

      Which type of sports pls?

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    2. Story. After you don collect big big koala. Just tell him you are not. No need for long stories nd lies biko. U better dey enjoy dick now. Infact how did you know it was broken??? I won know. And wat kind of sport. Pls ansa

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  17. This attachment to the guy that did it isn't true lmaoo, maybe it's just my mentality cause e no work for me.

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    1. Same here. He loved me more. I just had like for him. Took him 2 days to deflower me. I later dumped him without looking back

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    2. Me too..I dumped the guy I never looked back..I no dey even remember am.No attachment at all..

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  18. 2 bleesed 2 curse27 January 2019 at 14:44

    Why is it always tge lady that gets attach? How about the guys?anyways some guys have defiled like 4 to 5 ladies so it means nothing to them.

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    1. Guys get attached too, and very much sef ...

      Did you read the comments ?? Many men experienced attachment.

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    2. Been dating this guy for close to a year and I always complained about his possessive nature. if I’m not around him or at work or with my sister na man I’m with. Recently, in the course of discussion, I found out, I was his 2nd serious relationship and he got disvirginee in his early 30’s. This explains the possession and unnecessary attachment. Most times i wish he has been with a lot of others before we met cuz, gurrrrrrl, I can’t deal ๐Ÿ˜ช๐Ÿ˜ช

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    3. enchantress be very careful...its a different thing to be possessive and a diff thing to always suspect home of infidelity. marry this kind of guy you are in trouble, he might have a serious personality disorder. marry this one and he will start beating you when you come home 1 hour late...a relationship where you are not happy and feel imprisoned is no relationship. shine ya eyes sisterly

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    4. Ok Baby Oku. Noted. Thanks ๐Ÿ˜˜

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  19. Biko, let me read comments...

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    1. Hi Babe can we be friends?

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    2. We have noticed you. Forming tush upandan

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    3. 16:16 is it your tush? why is it paining you?
      15:36 hi darling.

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    4. You trolls need a break. I have deleted my comment if you guys do not see comments you won't troll.Bye Felicia!

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    5. Yes, she is always sounding vain; but her written english is headache inducing.

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  21. My friend ex broke up with her then claiming there was no blood after the do and that she was claiming Virgin. I believed her, because she had no reason to lie about her virginity.

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    1. U got disvirgined not long ago. Took long to break my hymen. The moment I started feeling d pri*k going in and out. In my mind I was like so this is d sex they are talking about???? Over rated. Thou hv only fucked my guy only but the guy that pounded me last 3weeks eeeh. I think say my former guy good. Meeh this guy dick long and na bad fucker. Choi...I was begging for him to let me go. Hian. For two days my pu**y was on fire.

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    2. Well I hv no story to tell thou. Reading mood activated

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  22. So, I met a guy during one of the great ASUU strikes of my Uni days and we fell in like. We were chatting and feeling each other, so he asked me out and I accepted. On the day of relationship consummation, I was READY.
    First of all he brought out biro cover... I did not mind much cos it's not about size right?? I was expecting him to be foreplay master to augment. Brother was just fumbling about, ha! I put it down to first time excitement, it would be better in round two. He now put it in and two seconds later we were getting dressed. I was furious. As in, I came from my far house to this place for this???
    He now made everything sweet again. He apologized , said he knows I'm disappointed but I should not worry, he'd get better. He said it was his first time. I said what?? He said yes, he just had sex for the first time..
    I was over the moon. Drunk on feeling special. Saturated with loving tenderness for this rare creature sent to me for nurturing..
    As the love dey shark me, I no fit endure.. I had to to tell somebody. I got the perfect chance to gloat after about a week when one of my amebo male friends asked me the ' how is your guy?' question...After pouring out the gist, he sent me a 5 min voice note.. Laughter from beginning to the end. I was like, are you ok? By the time he pointed all the loopholes in the guy's virginity story, I was feeling so foolish. That was the end of that relationship, notice I did not refer to him as an ex, it's because I just gathered everything in one folder and pressed delete. It never happened and he still has no idea what went wrong.

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    1. Hahahaha @gathered everything in one folder and press delete.@Blessed Princess

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    2. Oya go to your recycling bin and bring the jist the guy told you. Let's disect. Perhaps, your friend played you. Aproko is my hubby. Lol

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    3. "Relationship consummation?"
      Naija girls don come with another (hoe) vocabu o
      Me I sabi "marriage consummation".
      Una don dey consummate relationships?
      After, when husband marry una put for house, una go tell am
      say na sports scatter una tohtoh.
      Ehee we sabi dat kin sports; BED-MINTING abi na jigijigi minton eheeeeee!

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    4. everybody is here claiming virgins or my husband dis virgin me.. una well-done oo God is watching u

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  23. My hubby deflowered me on our wedding night but I didn’t bleed though it was so painful ๐Ÿ˜ฃ. Imagine him saying he doubts I was truly a virgin because he didn’t see blood. As if he was a virgin himself. Toch!. I didn’t bother explaining to him that not all women bleed because one he wasn’t a virgin himself and secondly, it’s not like I kept my virginity for him. Am just not one of those that see virginity as a trophy. Celibacy was something I did for myself. I had academic goals in school and I needed to focus, I just didn’t want any unnecessary emotional attachment to any man distracting me.

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    1. No need worries!! The good tin is that you did not lie and within you you kept yourself.

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  24. I was deflowered by a girl with her strapon and i bleed. It was very painful cos chic went and got a big dick strap. After that day I wasn't so interested in using the strap again and we just stuck to tribbing and and orals. I just knew I wasn't really going to be into men so much after my 1st experience. Wow how time flies. Had to return to abj cos of her. It sha didn't workout again btwn us.

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  25. I have disflowered a guy before but I felt he was lying.He said he was a virgin but for a first timer I was shocked.He lasted for over 30mins and his thrusting was so good so me I was confused.I was so petty after that I avoided him I wanted to show him how girls can be disvirgined and dumped lmao small pickin mentality.

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  26. Stella don't be deceived by such statements.
    A lot of guys would come here now and say "I don't want a virgin" but it's all a lie. My friends and i say it a lot too but believe me when i say it's a lie, we no mean am at all.
    We say that to make ourselves happy,since we know the chances of meeting virgins is slim anyway, so let us just act like we don't care.
    I have been there and done that though am changed now so if i get married to one today,trust me i won't be disappointed at all.
    Shebi na experience i go teach am, we were all novice at one point and sex is innate.
    If i find one i would treasure her but if I don't, no wahala, i continue to brag I don't want one.

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    1. 1000likes. U just said the truth. Psychologist call it defence mechanism. That's wat men keep saying.

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    2. Some trully dont want oh, its not any form of defence.. virgin wahala de plenty, some men hate the sight of blood or cant risk marrying a lady that complains too much in bed

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    3. I agree with you. The way my husband over protect our 6years old daughter... First, she mustn't hug or allow anyone carry her. Recently, he said he wants to cut her hair so she won't be attractive to the other sex. I had to tell him to calm down. Allow my baby enjoy her childhood abeg.

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    4. Are you a man?, if yes,then you are an outlier.
      If you are a lady then don't speak for us. If it is blood,i will simply look away, and will she complain forever.All the reasons you gave up there are just mere excuses. I second his statement.I have a friend on the island, a big boy who had all types on women trying to get his attention. Yet there was this particular chick he ran after like there was no tommorrow. That one refused...compared to other girls this particular babe wasn't much to look at. He comes to the office and talks about her everyday. You won't believe that when the girl refused he said he didn't want her anyways, she was a novice. That was the day we realise the girl was a virgin. When this my guy was ready to settle he went to look for the babe and they are married now.

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    5. Speak for yourself. I never truly wanted to marry a Virginia. Dated one too, loved her to bits and tho it didn't workout (small pikin issues on both our parts), I left her a *complete* virgin.
      It wasn't also about l looking for experience, I just wasn't interested... Seemed too much of a hassle. Besides did I really deserve one???

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    6. TRUE TALK !!!! even the women that always hate on virgins, its defense mechanism ... they keep consoling themselves that men dont want virgins ...

      Lies and fallacies, They love it. Anon 16:45 Why do you think you dont deserve one ??? It doesnt matter if you are not anymore. It doesnt work that way, If you want one pray ernestly, vividly and declare you will get one. And you shall get one. Dont put yourself down ... EVER. SOMETHING called grace, its not by i deserve it or not but by i must have it.

      All the same goodluck with your choice. Blessed.

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    7. Hmmm, your own case different na!! Virgin, you no want, experienced babe sef, you no want.Na confused level you dey operate from untop dis Mata.

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    8. so those that were raped should come and kill themselves because they are not virgins baah.., virginity doesn,t make one less human. there are girls that have sex through anal and not vijay yet they claim to be virgins., and some out of carelessness or peer pressure..

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  27. It took a week Abi 2 to disvirgin me
    ๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š

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    1. 2 weeks?
      Na well them dey drill for sahara desert?

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    2. ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ Anonymous 16:42 u no well.
      Me sef no understand . We will try and i will cry he will stoP.

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    3. It took almost a week for me too. Guess my husband couldn’t stand my tears cos it was too painful. I even suggested going to d hospital for surgery. Imagine what he had been waiting for for many years.

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  28. I wasn't disvirgined, I was playing a lot of footfall while growing up. They said that I was disvirgined in the process. Don't know how true it is sha.All I know is that I did not see blood on the very first day. @Blessed Princess
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    1. I did sports, ( football and hockey) and still saw blood. Guess it’s not everyone that sees blood.

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    2. I didn't see blood either and I'm not into sports like that. Although I do splits. It took 4 days for me, pain wasn't too bad though.

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    3. sports can tear the hymen...splits, that one na automatic tearing of hymen aka disvirgin in naija parlance..lol...there are always exceptions to most rules so you are all correct.

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  29. I got married at 23 and hubby was 33,we were both virgin,and he was able to penetrate me after 4 days of been married ...not even a drop of blood, hubby been a medical personnel gave me a vivid explanation

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    1. What a nice hubby !!! God bless your marriage.

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  30. I wanted to keep mine ooo but meeh I get to taste how e dey sweet. Agbaya like me!! When small small teenagers don spoil finish. Omo I tried it and well will I say it was good??? The guy good oo but sex not as sweet as them they hype am biko.
    I taste diff one and meeh. Dick pass dick ooo. I wonder if I go fit stick to one guy for future ooo.

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    1. I understand your feeling. Felt like that too initially and even after marriage. But after having my children,babes,i kid you not,it is sweet die. I always wonder how amazing God is and sometimes why he didn't allow organs last for like 30mins...chai.....e for just be amaaaaaaazzzzzziiinnnnngggggg.

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  31. Lol, I had a friend that was asking me out and seriously wanted me to disvirgin him, omo I rannnn๐Ÿƒ‍♀️๐Ÿƒ‍♀️๐Ÿƒ‍♀️๐Ÿƒ‍♀️๐Ÿƒ‍♀️........that was like 10yrs ago though. I still see him on Instagram occasionally.
    He's married now with a kid

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  32. I was a virgin for 24 years, I decided to lose it one summer after I came to Lagos on holiday. Met a guy, we hit it off, went to chill, I didn’t tell him cos I just wanted to be “opened” and get it over with. We did it, blood everywhere, found out he was married, he thought I was on my period and lied to him, hated me after. I ended up going on a spree and slept with 10 guys in a month. I hated sex.

    Three months later I met the love of my life. Turns out the married guy was his older brother’s friend. Told my then bf I was an “ashawo” and he should avoid me. My bf hates me till today. Dumped me three times and I’ve never gotten over it. Funny thing is my bf is the only guy who has ever made me cum. From the first time he touched me I started craving him. I love him so much, he’s everything I ever wanted in a man. I never knew the perfect guy existed. Well we all have to live with the consequences of our actions. My worst secret in life and what I can’t forgive myself for is how much it hurt him cos he loved me and wanted to marry me. His whole family got worried cos they never saw him with a girl till he met me. Now he’s moving from one scruffy bitch to the next and I feel so bad. I could never tell him because the married guy so spoilt my name in Lagos, telling everyone what happened. I ran away and now live where no one knows me.

    Life is funny.

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    1. You better tell him what happened and go crazy on that married nuisance who deceived you! Don’t cover up for bullies, blow their cover. They are cowards that thrive cause you keep silent. How can he bully you into living where no one knows you. Stand up for yourself. People call me crazy because I will never let anyone soil my name and my reputation. I will give it to you 100! Call me crazy because I stand up for myself and guard my name jealously I don’t care. Even if I am ashewo, I reserve the right to decide who can call me that and get away with it.

      Go get your man and resolve your issues. Shame the devil and warn that idiot to stay away from you and your name or you will drag him and his wife to the extent that he will be tainted for life as he has tainted you!

      My ex-boyfriend listened to people and we had so many problems that the relationship crashed. Now he’s married to someone he doesn’t love and he’s running all over miserable and looking for love! All the advisers have married who they love and he’s on his own with his problems.

      Please go and get your man! Let no one try to determine your destiny! You can lie that the married man raped you while you were a virgin and on your period that you think he’s a ritualist! When he hears that news circulating up and down he will try as much as possible to distance himself from you! Goodluck and please come back to update us if you married your man!

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    2. Oh my God, girl you need to rediscover yourself.
      Look at how three months to meeting your life partner, you allowed Satan to steal it
      through a foolish experiment?
      To rediscover yourself is to go to the creator in repentance and be renewed.
      He is the best for you. He will lead you.

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    3. That married man is a wicked man. Kiss and tell. Was he not married when he slept with you? God punish him dere. Please
      Put youself together and move on with life. We don't look like what we have been through. @Blessed Princess.

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    4. Anon 17:11 why is he wicked.

      He simply told his brother the truth to protect him. Would accept that the girl/boy you slept with before marries your sibling. ISSA NO !!!

      Very Akward i tell you, people say they dont care but later in life when fight arises in the home the guy will always she remind her of how she slept with a family member. A BAD FOUNDATION.

      Example : look at Layal T. Lol !!!

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    5. The married man did not rape her; did he?
      Girls need to be more discrete and safe with their bodies.
      She was the one that decided to throw away her destiny.

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    6. Thanks everyone. Yes it was my fault, a silly mistake but I had just given up on guys. I didn’t think I’ll ever fall in love and be loved genuinely or get married. The last thing I want to do is start bringing up what happened and the last thing I want to do is to lie to him, hurting him is like hurting myself and the way I feel can’t be compared to how he felt so I just stay far away stalking his social media etc hoping for him to find love and happiness because he’s the best man on earth. So many other lies from so many others damaged the relationship as well and I don’t know where to start from to repair it so I’d rather just move on, though it seems I can’t let go of him. It’s been more than two years now but every time I close my eyes I think of how he kissed me and held me gently and well you know ....

      Women are always on the losing end, of course just as you said all the advisers are enjoying their lives with their wives and he just seems so confused but yes I think it’s better to let things be as they are.

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    7. Start by giving him a call and asking to see him. You both can talk. You can decide to be completely honest and harsh out all the lies that have been told. Then let the chips fall where they may. He can come back if he can start on a new slate and learn to trust you and not listen to outsiders. Or you can both move on. At worst you would have cleared your name. The person you slept with is not his relative and this was a long time before you met him. The man also deceived you! Go after your man. His family may even end up cutting that married friend out of their lives because of his wickedness. Give it a chance and stop being so hard on yourself.

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    8. older brothers friend naim you wan kill yourself? f%&k the idiot. is he mad? i wish you were near me i for call your ex bf tell am the truth myself. stop judging yourself too harshly.. i have seen God bless very bad girls with a good man and lovely kids sef. we all make mistakes and till you forgive yourself then u will just be running away for nothing. if you still love him and he is not married yet just call him to tell him the truth and how you feel. if he listens fine, if he treats u like shit then bye for good

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  33. A guy has actually told me before he doesn't do virgins cause he can't go thru that stress, that someone has to do the work first before he comes in. I did feel bad tho, but i had to let him go

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    1. Never feel bad for being who you are.

      Many girls out here would kill to be in your shoes.

      Keep your virginity, the right man will come. Blessed sunday

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  34. When I got disvirgined, I got disvirgined because I no longer wanted to be a virgin based on all the wonderful tales I had heard about sex. I just picked my most trusted male friend who I started dating for that purpose. Once mission was accomplished I ghosted him and started my life of sex in relationships. I also did it like that because I had heard tales about the emotional attachment that comes with being with your first when you are both in love and I didn’t want that for myself. I am happy I went about sex that way because I can be a soft hearted, emotional and over forgiving person. With my experience with men, having that attachment will have destroyed me. My first eventually even turned out to be an amebo and he told people we had sex. He also eventually came to ask for my hand in marriage but I had since tasted better dicks and can never marry someone with a small to average penis like that. I discovered my sexuality and the kind of size that gives me pleasure and I can never settle for less than that in marriage. In all to each his own. Sometimes I wonder if I kept my virginity till marriage how things will have turned out. However the men I dated are not worth that kind of gift at all. So I have peace within me that I did it in my own terms and no one has that hold on me.

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  35. Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa.
    Let me come and be going biko
    *twerks out of post*

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  36. Met a very good guy too back in the days. A Virgin /Born again Bro. Sometimes, I slept over at his place in VI to get early to my weekly meetings. One day, I just felt like pushing his limits cos as a babe, I love it when men drool over me and beg for it. It makes me horney. So I started my temptation journey... Just to realize there was no erection. He acted startled. Went to see a doctor who said it was out of anxiety. He even traveled to Delta for native medicine. He was still busy giving me feedback when I don't port. Who has time for stories. He even had mind to tell me he doesn't have erection in the mornings. But that the doctor said it's nothing to be worried about. I told him.. Well, let's be praying... Yimu... My ship had sailed.

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    1. lolzzzzz ah but u were supposed to stick with him through thick and thin

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  37. *twerks back in* me ayaf disfargin someone sha, not primary fargin ooo, ehen. guy man was a jew in the act of bed breaking. But now ehn, guy man na baba. *runs away*

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  38. it was wack as in terrible. it started and ended within 37 seconds. the way and manner he shouted, pulled my wig and flung it away when he was about cumming freaked me out, he even cried afterwards as in he sobbed choi. i tot he was possesed mhen. Right there and then i knew it wasnt gonna work. he had zero experienced and never told me until after the show. this cute tall black handsome man looks every shade of a player. seeing him you will think he has been drilling borehole for long, but na na na dude was a virgin. i felt bad, really realy bad.

    He got obsessed with me and was chasing me around everywhere like a black demon, i tried avoiding him as much as i could but for where he wont stop. few months later he got transfered to PH and that was how i was saved.

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    1. Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa. I just imagined him removing your wig and flinging it out the window while you watched him with a startled expression๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    2. Hahahahahahahahah... Very funny

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    3. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ @ pull wig

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    4. Praise God ๐Ÿ˜น๐Ÿ˜น๐Ÿ˜น

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    5. Hahahahahahahahaha!If this doesnt make it to hilarious comments section ehn...I pictured it and I'm in stitches๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Laffn alone and making people wonder

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  39. d day i was disflowered i had sex for straight 1week. pussy was on fire. sex is really overrated

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    1. Sex is the sweetest thing ever! Especially if you’re so in love with your partner. Take time to understand your body first, then his, talk through it, laugh through it. It’s amazing

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  40. I dont know how and when I was disciplined cos I never experienced blood coming out, am an adult now no regret life happens.

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    1. same here , I think it's for the better jare, I don't cling to anyone that he's my first

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  41. I've had three guys tell me they can't date me because I'm a virgin. I believe the right one will come

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    1. My dear, DONT BE AFRAID and let it not discourage you. I know the right man will come.

      They didnt love you or they simply saw you as a sex challenge and when you refused they left. Its okay.

      When that one comes, you will know and it will done in your spirit. Just remain prayerful and pure.

      Love you to bits my fellow virgin girl ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    2. Thank your God you escaped.They never wanted anything serious with you to begin with.

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    3. Awwww.... thanks so much guy ❤❤

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  42. Virginity is sooo beautiful, i am one.

    I do it for myself, God and my health. No need to sleep around catch an unnamed disease and be running around looking for how to treat it. In my opinion, its better to stay pure.

    A lot of men say they dont want to marry virgins cause its defense mechanism. They believe the probaility to meet virgins in this present era is small. Meanwhile there are plenty of us out here, real virgins.

    A lot of women hate virgins because well they hate what they cant have anymore. Soo a lot of women are pushing theories that men dont like virgins anymore, that non virgins make better wives or that non virgins marry faster. Which is FALSE !!!! Same thing defense mechanism to cope with the loss of their virginity.

    I urge all the ladies who are still virgins to keep it. Cherish it as a treasure. When i say, your husband will cherish and respect you more cause you kept it, i speak from what i 've seen and heard from people around me first hand info. They marry well. And oh dont worry about thr bleeding or not, you will ...

    love to my fellow virgins ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    1. Madam nobody hates or is jealous of you guys. Some guys actually don't like virgins and that's the plain truth,keep yourself that's up to you and pray you find a good man cause even those that aren't virgins till get good men while some that were virgins didn't so it's not a matter of being one or not,just stay to your belief and nobody is jealous of you guys

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    2. You said and I quote "pray you find a good man cause even those that aren't virgins till get good men while some that were virgins didn't", "keep yourself it's up to you". With such statements believe me, YOU ARE JEALOUS.You see what you just did there? It's called "Subtle shading".

      "Virgin or no virgin, anyone can get married to a good or bad man",that was what you should have said. Not you purposefully allocating good men to non-virgins and bad ones to most virgins.
      Non-virgins get good men,yes.
      Moreover virgins get good men too(this has nothing to do with both status)they just dont loud it...since they've got nothing to prove.

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    3. Lol, the kind of guys who don't like virgins isn't the kind of guys virgin ladies want by the way.So you have more than enough to go around.Don't worry.

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    4. keeping once virginity is a good decision and only the strong hearted can scale through. About the disease depends on the type of man u marry. Men are so promiscuous nowadays that sometimes some makes it seem as if keeping onces virginity was a waste of time. Na even inside matrimonial home disease dey come greet person

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  43. Loool that nonsense myth that you get emotionally attached to your first, TUUUEH!
    That's not a general rule, I haven't seen or talked to the guy I first had sex with for YEARS
    Don't know whether he's alive or dead or frankly don't care.
    He had a big dick alright so it's not even about the size.
    What am I even talking about?
    I don't have ex's, the moment we end, you deleted from memory ๐Ÿคฃ

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    1. Thank God you said your personal experience ...

      As you can read on this thread, many people experienced emotional attachment after the deed. So calm down dear.

      And there is a saying, "out of sight, out of heart" ... if he was still around, you will somewhat be emotionally attached to him still. Soo dont deceive yourself luv ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    2. How many people said so biko?

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  44. I disvirgined a macho guy back then in school. Tall, fair, rich , and handsome.
    The first time we decided ti do it, I was very disappointed when I saw his dick was like Bobo straw. When he entered inside I wasn't feeling anything but he was busy screaming 'say my name'. 'Are you enjoying it'? Blah blah blah. I was like gosh, fine boy for nothing. I dumped his sorry arse because he was just too childish.

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    1. You should have said DJ Khalid๐Ÿ˜น๐Ÿ˜น

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    2. First boyfriend had a straw too. And he cheats. Imagine him publicizing his 'defect'. Shameless man

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    3. What happens to a man's ego when he knows that women always fake it with them? N even have guts to say 'say my name'.
      Mtchewww

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    4. Amd for such guys, if their wife cheats, they have the guts to be angry when they can't satisfy her

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  45. I'm still a virgin at 29.still waiting for boo to come along.

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  47. Many anonymous on this post today

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  48. As in , am just reading and smilling with the comments, i Think been annon to spill is the best.

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  49. I think it's unfair to pair of match a virgin and an experienced hand....it can never balance. The truth is that God intended marriage and sex to be between virgins so that the joy and thrill of discovering each other will last through the years and bond them in ways that nothing else can. A match of a virgin and an experienced field player is never going to be balanced. They are on different wavelengths. I married at 28
    ..a virgin and because I didn't bleed in tonnes my husband doubted my virginity. In subsequent months, he found out I was totally inexperienced and in fact busted out one day that I was busy worshipping my virginity instead of getting the requisite sexual experience. Then we went through a phase of him seeing me as a sister cause he says my insistence on sex after marriage became a turn off. Over the last 15 years, while we have a marriage that appears made in heaven, I have lived with a serial cheat who cannot cover his tracks...maybe because I am CIA myself.....I am so bitter that I do not know what advice to give to my 4 year old daughter when the time comes...I do not think that marrying as a virgin was worth it at all. Well maybe for my peace of mind and for God's sake I will still tell her to do it God's way.

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  50. I think it's unfair to pair of match a virgin and an experienced hand....it can never balance. The truth is that God intended marriage and sex to be between virgins so that the joy and thrill of discovering each other will last through the years and bond them in ways that nothing else can. A match of a virgin and an experienced field player is never going to be balanced. They are on different wavelengths. I married at 28
    ..a virgin and because I didn't bleed in tonnes my husband doubted my virginity. In subsequent months, he found out I was totally inexperienced and in fact busted out one day that I was busy worshipping my virginity instead of getting the requisite sexual experience. Then we went through a phase of him seeing me as a sister cause he says my insistence on sex after marriage became a turn off. Over the last 15 years, while we have a marriage that appears made in heaven, I have lived with a serial cheat who cannot cover his tracks...maybe because I am CIA myself.....I am so bitter that I do not know what advice to give to my 4 year old daughter when the time comes...I do not think that marrying as a virgin was worth it at all. Well maybe for my peace of mind and for God's sake I will still tell her to do it God's way.

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