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Sunday, February 10, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
THE WARNING


Good day Stella, Good day Bvs,

Thank you stella for creating this platform where we can all gather and seek advice.

This is a long read. Please I need advice


During my university days, I got close to one of my course mates in 300l. During this period she was pregnant for her boyfriend (7months gone) but gave birth prematurely and lost the baby. Well, she didn’t tell people in class only about three of us knew.


Eventually her boyfriend broke up with her and cut all forms of communication between them, he stopped picking her calls but he paid the hospital bills. During our IT we became closer and she would always use my phone to call the guy and he picks up(I’ve never met the guy before till date)


She would always cry after the phone conversation and I always told her and encouraged her to move on and all.


At some point she told me how she visited spiritualists to charm the guy, one even told her that if she sees the guy eyeball to eye ball that the love charm would work. Some of these spiritualists charged her as high as 20,50, 60k and all. As a friend I warned her against this that everything has repercussions. She told me to follow her to “see my future” I told her I come from a Christian home and it’s not part of my lifestyle.


One Sunday the guy called my phone(I didn’t know he was the one till I checked Truecaller) he kept on asking me if I was his ex’s sister I said no. When I got to school the following day I told her the guy called, she said I should use style and ask him what went wrong, in the process of asking, the guy told me to stay away from her that I won’t believe what she’s capable of. I told him well she hasn’t harmed me yet so I’m safe.


When I told her this, I also told her to confide in me what exactly happened and she gave me her own side(dunno if it’s true or not). I let things be


Recently the guy called me and asked why I blocked him. I told him I didn’t till I checked and saw he was actually blocked and his numbers deleted from my phone. My friend was the only one who had access to my phone cos she didn’t have a phone then, (I gave her my iPad to use pending when she got a phone). So he told me he warned me to stay away from her that she’s dangerous and that she sent him a message about me saying “you didn’t see any better person to date that it’s someone as ugly as me and other stuffs about me”


I’ve never wronged my friend in anyway so I’m shocked she would go behind my back to backbite me. This is someone that comes to my house every other weekend, my parents even knew her but I’ve never been to her house (reasons best known to her)Ive actually cut off any form of communication between them cos I don’t want to be involved anymore. 


She keeps wondering what happened but I’ve kept mute. Do I tell her what she did wrong or just maintain my lane. This is someone I borrowed money to for exams and fed in final year, brought cooked and raw food stuff for her in school cos at a point she was broke.

Before I stopped talking to her ex, he told me it was one of her sisters that told him about the love charm and jazz and her past life.

What do I do? I don’t want to carry this in my mind anymore.



*Hmmmm  I would have set cut her off but you already did.....
Confronting her might go South and lead to more lies and she might turn the story around and start telling people you caused the break up of her relationship......who knows what harm she might have done to you that you dont know of?Please be careful....
Ask her if you must but make sure you stay away from her before she starts with you...

49 comments:

  1. Stay in your lane and stay away from her. God has showed you enough.

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    1. My dear I had to comment, a very close friend of mine recently opened up about how she contracted the hi virus from a friend as friendly and not friendly as yours, this said friend later confessed she is still living without d virus, it's a long story but that girl can n will kill u, d day my friend opened up to me I really realized dt nollywood no be script them dey act.... It is very very real cut off all ties n still pray your way out

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    2. I Will advise you to go far away from her, how can you be friends with a lady the knows native doctors house. Please shun before she will use jazz to exchange your destiny. @Blessed Princess

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  2. Just leave her jeje o. You know the kind of level she can go to do things just leave her and break off like you just did. Let everybody answer his father's name

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  3. Ask wetin?
    Poster abeg stay your own. Maintain your lane. If she calls you, answer her. If she asked what the problem is, sweetly tell her you have been so busy.
    Cut off whatever supposed friendship you think you have with her.
    That girl is evil.

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    1. Don't mind the poster. Someone told you that she visited a spiritualist to jazz her boyfriend and you were still following her like a bull being led to the slaughter. If she can use charm on her own bf, who are you???? You should have left her the moment she told you about the charm stuff. It's not too late o. Just stay far away from her. You don't have to confront her. she will get the message or the babalawo will tell her

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  4. Please continue to stay in your lane. Don't confront her

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  5. Close that chapter completely.Stay away from her. There is no need trying to verify anything from her. The guy inclusive.

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  6. Personally, I can't be a friend to someone that visits all sorts of places.

    I'll advice you avoid her and mind your business cos my dear, if your standing with God isn't strong enough, she might go diabolical on you too and the rest will be history. Stay on your lane!

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  7. Poster is it that you don't like your sanity and good health?

    people like your friend who visit spiritualist are VERY VERY DANGEROUS. Pls just forget her, infact remove her from all your social media and let her carry her cross alone...Don't confront her, drink water and mind your business.

    LEPπŸ˜›

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  8. Poster, alele don't stop, keep it moving. Do not bother explaining yourself to her, you owe her none. Water and oil don't mix, don't you ever allow her into your life again

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  9. You have walked away. Don't look back.

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  10. Confront her say wetin again! Mbok, face your front. Forget her.

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  11. You don't like your friend John. Why believe what type the guy said

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  12. Poster please just forget her already. Thank your God you didn't follow her to any spiritualist.that is how one of my friend followed a suppose friend to a medium to ask about their future.after DT things became very bad for her until she went to church for deliverance and she was told her friend has exchanged her destiny.she did deliverance sa but everything was still not the same.we should always be vigilant especially with people we know DT visits all sorts.

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    1. Exactly what I think the original poster has avoided. If she had gone with her, her juju frenemy would have gone beforehand to arrange for destiny exchange. The reason the girl is annoyed with the poster is that despite the carelessness of the poster in keeping her around, God has refused to let go of the poster.

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    2. Maybe the girl is even a witch and wants to initiate her into their kingdom by asking her to go with her to go see the future. poster pls don't be careless next time o. hope you didn't go with her to see the future? if not you better go for deliverance asap cos it's either she wanna initiate you or exchange your destiny

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  13. God has saved you o. Pls stay on Your Lane.

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  14. Don't ask. Just get too busy for her and trust no one going forward. Love people in a way that you can easily let go of them when they show their true self.

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  15. Move on... You owe her no explanation. Be careful

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  16. Do not confront anybody; it is utterly a futile and counterproductive venture.

    Eheeee
    Naija (Pharisees) girls and snatch and vamoose charms are 5 and 6.
    Once relationships and marriage show, na to visit babalawo, winch doncintas and Sundays, them go enter
    church come dey chant (empty) songs for quaya.
    Can any of the (Pharisees) girls wey dey here tell me say she never visit mediums before to charm man?
    Liver go gree una? πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€

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  17. Don't go looking for what isn't missing. The second she told you to go and see your future you should have cut her off. Block the guy again, and be forming busy till she gets the message that you and her are no longer cool. There's no need for confrontation, sometimes, accept the apology that wasn't given. Shikena

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  18. You are joking with your life. How can you be a Christian and consciously be friends with someone who visits places to see the future?

    You're asking what you should do. Go and do Thanksgiving. I'm serious. Be thankful to God that everything evil she did against you and your parents, didn't work. Please, don't say she didn't do anything. Such a person has no loyalty to anyone but the devil. She definitely did things that you'll become aware of later. Go and thank God that He's not asleep and your angels are not lazy.

    This is why we're not supposed to be unequally yoked, oh. To avoid stories that touch. I'm talking from very brutal experience - the juju frenemy I had arranged for me to be kidnapped, raped and killed. That didn't work; I got poisoned the following day. And all I could think of as I was vomiting was, "Jesus! I'm in trouble and my husband doesn't know exactly where I am." Next ploy was to try to use juju to scatter my marriage and kill my husband. Ever since then, I have no energy to say, "I don't judge cos everybody cannot be the same." I am not the one judging, please. An envious person who can go to juju is evil, abeg. All that story of "But they've not done any bad to me personally" is because you don't know yet.

    Cut off all ties with that witch you call your friend. She is not your friend. Tell your parents. If your parents have a gateman or househelp, let them know that on no account should she be allowed into the compound. And change your number, please.

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  19. I HATE fetish girls, stay away from here period

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    1. *her* jor, vexation nor lemme peruse wetin I write before I press send😑😑😑

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  20. Na wa for ladies. Stay on your lane before she carry your name go coven

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  21. Please don't ask her.. Maintain your lane.. Stay away from her before she will ran you mad... That girl is 😈

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  22. One sign of maturity is knowing when to let things slide;when to ignore;when to keep a blind eye;when to act ignorant;when to control ur emotions.let me tell u something.....
    Let her go.is immaturity that is aching for u to confront her when the truth is staring u in the face.u know deep within u that she knows why u are ignoring her.never regret a good u do to someone.ignore her.dont ask questions.God will always give u a better friend who will love u genuinly that is what I have come to see in this life.

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  23. How sure are you that the guy was truly saying the truth? Anyways the best thing is to stay away from the both of them and change your number if possible,i suppose you should be done with school so you won't have any reason to see her

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    1. But the girl told the poster that she went to juju to hold the guy. And asked her to go somewhere to read future. Do we need to even hear anything from the guy to know that there is �� on the mountain?

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    2. ...there is question mark on the mountain??? I don't understand.

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  24. poster pls avoid her like a plague. you should have done that the moment you find out she used jazz on her bf. instead you were still forming good friend, buying her foodstuff and others. Who send you??? You better avoid her permanently and don't listen to her sob stories. it's better to be alone than to have a friend like that in your life. delete the guy's number too. don't you know she can poison you once she finds out you still communicate with her ex? She may read a wrong meaning out of it and clear you out of the way sharp sharp. better shine your eyes and stop forming good girl

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  25. God saved you. Poster, stay on your lane friendship is not a must.

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  26. There's a quote I saw sometime ago that has helped...."Many times we make the mistake of becoming Friends with people we should just greet and pass.
    Let her be oh. The chapter is closed!

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  27. Poster please don't ask her anything abeg. Stay your lane and be very careful.

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  28. Poster please stay far away from that lady. Be not unequally yoked with fetish persons. Weren't you even scared for your life?

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  29. Poster stay your line. You don't need to ask her anything she has said about you. Also cut of from her ex. There are wicked people everywhere. She can harm you if you are not careful. Fear people that use juju ooo. Expecially if you are not strong in Christ.

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  30. My dear, just stay away from her. some things are better left unsaid

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  31. Biko let me confess o,I'm having an affair with my married ex,he married her cos she was a working class n I was still a student who didn't match his status,3years later he called n i agreed to c him,we spent d weekend 2geda n d sex was wow!conscience worried me sha but oga was eating pussy, crying,begging dat he can't get me off his mind..Nobody should judge me i did it 4 d cash but d issue now is dat he's in love, he looks so lost n unhappy n all he wants is me..I don't need advice or dat ur karma ish bla bla bla,I have no intentions of destroying anoda woman's home, my point is that all u married women forming class n tush n whatever,ur husband myt b somwer eating pussy n begging to be loved.No jokes marriage is not really the ultimate tin.apart from children involved there's really notin much in it.A lot of couple r so unhappy n pretending

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    1. But you have already destroyed their home. You are a prostitute, any woman who has sex for money is a prostitute, you don't have to be on a street corner to be one. Marriage may not be the ultimate, yet you cannot walk about freely with this man in public. You have to perform your services and collect your money under the cover of darknessπŸ˜‚πŸ™„πŸ˜‚

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    2. **All you married women forming class and tush** ....meanwhile who is still single and sleeping around? YOU! You have no self respect.

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    3. Lol @ all you married women forming class and tush. You that's the real classy one - man dated you, dumped you cos he claimed you were a student (as if students don't marry), returned to fuck you in secret and dash you money - like the prostitute you are. Kai, your own level of class eh? We should call you class captain! You think you've won something. Some escorts are even taken out; you're still being hidden cos he realises you're still as trashy as you were when you were a student. Graduation didn't save you; that's why he knew you'd still be where he left you, like a tree. He knows that even three years later, you don't match his status - you do it for the cash. There's really nothing much in marriage; says the single girl being screwed and paid in secret. If you need the money so bad, it must also mean that your work or business life isn't doing well. Meaning you're still not his type.

      Continue till you discover that it's a plan by husband and wife to use you for rituals; who will know when it starts manifesting when you're just a dirty secret? Go and see how some of your fellow vagina-preneur colleagues in Abuja are - after married couples have used them and their destiny. They drop dead, or run mad after being paid. After dying in such a horrible way, they still go to hell. Tomorrow, husband and wife will repent, then use you to give testimony. And nothing will happen - you know Nigeria, we love a good story of how a marriage was saved and how the trashy tramp got served. Nobody is preaching to you; please, continue.

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    4. KARMA is a B*T*H! Please continue and do not stop. We need more of you to service this men for us. But, remember, we always on our knees praying to God about Gals like you. And God does answer prayers. You may think that you are going scot free now but let me be clear. When God wrath visits you, you would have long forgotten about the services that you provided and the money that you collected. And you will wish it never happened but it will be too late. I have seen may Gals like you, and it does not end well for them in the long term. So please continue do not stop.

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  32. Someone who believes in jazz and uses the services of those practitioners is not someone you can trust. She was never your friend, you came into her life to serve a purpose through her tough times. You have completed your spiritual mandate so move on. Wish her well and pray good prayers for her, but please move on and surround yourself with positive ppl who are an upliftment to your spirit.

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  33. Dear poster, sometimes it's best to just move on. Try and find closure in God. Going back to discuss this and ask this girl questions will complicate the situation for you. Move on okay? You'll be alright.

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  34. Poster, please if there's anything she gave you that's still in your possession, burn it. And keep thanking God that He delivered you.

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  35. come and take lessons from me poster on how to cut people off. its very simple, ignore her, block her and avoid her. if she ask you till thy kingdom come what happened, dont answer just say nothing. wetin my eyes never see. let me tell you my story briefly. i went to an all girls school, was friendly with a group, we were always visiting each other houses except for my house hardly as i lived far away from school. when these other babes started sleeping with guys i had to cut off becos i know my papa, he will disown me if i dared carry belle. all those friends are married today except just one. me too never marry. i started praying fervently for brwaktru, na so i hear say the one wey dey make my hair dey envious of me so tey she cut my hair take. i fire prayers for 3 nights strait and cut her off. she call em tire i no dey pick, send text if she offended me or i noticed anything, i still no respond. the day i dreamt that i was getting married, as in the exact date and month , na the day this babe marry. i sha go the wedding but no eat anything . till today i have not come across her face to face for over 4ys now. people are dangerous and only God will save us.

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  36. I have learnt several things in life and one of those things is that people are very pretentious and you can never know what is in someone’s mind. This one atleast told you that she visits spiritualists loooool what about the ones that smile at you and then visit spiritualists to destroy you behind your back....Don’t let people fool you. As for me I have decided to not take things at face value. I had an ex who told me to my face “if you don’t marry me you will marry and divorce many men” my mum is so prayerfully so one day he asked me and I never told him anything “if my mum prays a lot” another time he told me to my face “you don’t know what you carry I must marry you by force” one time when we were at school his mums spiritualist called and was praying prayer of joining both of us to get her. My dear this world is deep one day I just started thinking of the many things he had said to me and I started praying like mad that he will find another person and leave me alone and as God would have it it happened. He is getting married and I have never been happier. The bobo thinks I am sad but does not know that I no send am.

    My point is there are always signs that tell you to leave a person alone and they are revealed through dreams and other means and I don’t mean visiting spiritualist.

    One of the biggest prayer points I pray to God everyday is “ whoever wants to destroy me or will destroy me in the future oh God let the person hate me with perfect hatred and stay away from me..” my dear it works cos they hate me so I know how to pray against them too...

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