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SLOW MAN
I need advice blog fam...
I need advice blog fam...
So there’s this man I am interested in. He started the initial toasting then he became one minute hot one minute cold and now I’ve caught feelings.
He’s the perfect man for me and I have been praying it either scatters if he’s not or it continues if he’s the one. Problem is he doesn’t show attention first but he’s very receptive when I show him attention.
I am always the first to reach out to him, I’m the one to push and push to see him. His reason is him being busy, which is due to the nature of his profession. I notice though when I withdraw is when he looks for me and shows traits of jealously. I’m thinking should I just let him go or be patient and hang in there?
He’s entirely too slow for my liking and this has been going on for months. Pls advise .........
*How can you catch feelings for someone who is not available but shows up being Jealous immediately you are quiet?I have a problem with these kind of men......You said he is the ''Perfect man'' for you but you are still complaining?Please do not settle for less than you deserve in any situation,because you will get even less than you settled for........I dont see anything hanging on in there for at this point........
You don dey catch feelings?
ReplyDeleteMake I yarn you another thing wey you fit catch:
1. You fit catch rod with ya tohtoh
2. You fit catch baby with the rod
3. You fit catch disease
4. You fit catch "cold" when im dump you like thrash as you see say the bobo no dey think that marriage wey full ya head.
5. If you shoot off baby, you fit catch guilt and suicidal feelings wey fit drive you craze.
6. If nurses come catch baby, you fit catch babymama title.
So you still dey catch (feelings)
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DeleteYou are not the only girl he is interested in, you are one of the bunch... he can’t spread his time to include you, you are not even the most preferred
DeleteMy advice is stop reaching out first and also get another guy Incase this one fails you
😃😃😃😅😅Kai anon,I couldn't stop laughing at that☝..I wonder how rustic your mouth will look in real life..
DeleteThis anon is my fave on this blog wallahi
DeleteChronicles these days get as e be
ReplyDeletePoster leave someone's husband alone. Isnt it obvious the signs of jealousy is to make you think he feels a tag about you? Mtcheeew. The day the wife will call and insult you is coming dont borrow yourself brain. That man is not available. Nature of work my perky boobs.
DeleteAunty he is not just into you. A man that likes you will never be too busy. Cut him off and STOP reaching out
ReplyDeletelet him go! It will magnify after marriage except you are willing to leave with it. Una no go still hear
ReplyDeleteShow him the same measure of feelings he shows you, maybe he has a main chic n he wanna cheat on her with u, anyway better keep ur eyes skinned.
ReplyDeleteDo I understand you?
ReplyDeleteHe is not interested in you oo
ReplyDeletePlease let him go
ReplyDeleteIf he truly cares, he will make time out of his busy schedule to reach out to you
He is stringing you along.
ReplyDeleteHe has someone he likes better than you.
You are on the queue in case she dumps him which would never happen.
This has been going on for months and you are still there, hmmm, obviously your market value has reduced in his eyes now.
In his mind, now he is thinking;If you are worth chasing other guys would be on your case, and you would have moved on.
He can sense your lack of better prospects,that's why you have taken on the role of the pursuer.
Please Aunty he is not into you. Give him space. Hain!
ReplyDeleteJesus Christ poster did I post this? Just that mine is a business man and has manager running it for him so he has time, same town but for almost 4 months now we haven't seen and if I try to go my way come and see begging. funny enough I so much like him, to call me na wahala.
ReplyDeleteHe wanna cheat with u.
DeleteBe dating yourself you hear?
DeleteTypical chronicle of a woman who is dating herself. Perfect man for you indeed! Somebody that is not even perfect for himself. Stella's red pen totally on point today. You better start accepting dates from responsible and caring men. This one na absentee boyfriend biko and if you continue with him, you will send more chronicles. Be wise. *continues listening to "Yanga" by Chidinma*
ReplyDeleteIt is crystal clear that you don't mean much to him.stop the one sided love and open your heart for meaningful relationship.
ReplyDeleteHe's emotionally unavailable. Move on, poster
ReplyDeleteLooks like I was the one that posted this. I was in a similar situation until I decided to stop sending any messages, didn't call him again and that was it. Everything died like that
ReplyDelete😀😀😀 nothing died. There was actually nothing in the 1st place
DeleteI pray everyday for women to value themselves more. We really don’t. That’s why we get chronicles everyday. If we valued ourselves, we would be more confident, less desperate, less worried about ‘the marriage timeline’, not concerned with people’s snide talk about being spinsters. If this man cannot treat you like a queen, you move on. If he likes you he will make damn sure you know it. Men don’t dilly dally about such things. He’s perfect for you - let me guess he has money? Women we deserve more oh!
ReplyDeleteWord. Thank you.
DeleteI see another chronicles loading of how uncaring and unromantic your husband is if you don't kele.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry hang in there you hear.. U wl soon send another chronic. Myopic thinker mtcheew...
ReplyDeletePoster,you ve a problem...infact Ur major problem is indecision.na pple like Una dey cause accident for t junction.something wey no be problem..Una go bring am come..most of the pple advising you ladies are single,and yet Una bring Una problem for chronic singles to give Una advice.they are some things dat don't need advice..what it really need is sense..is not to come here and be disturbing pple of stupid chronicle.poster use Ur headquarters to co ordinate Ur bearing.my 1kobo.....
ReplyDeletelolzzzzzzzzzzzz. love your response jare ,maybe the guy has money thats why he is perfect for her . madam you better open your eyes make u see wella
DeleteHe's the perfect man for you... And then he's entirely too slow for your liking... Wetin we no go read for chronicle? My dear poster! pls take a Walk outta that relationship and I mean like right now....
ReplyDeletethere are people like this. I've met one. they are not really interested in you, but like the attention you give them. leave him. nothing good we'll come out of someone like this
ReplyDeleteHe's not meant for u.let go.
ReplyDeleteThese type even if u date will eventually break ur heart.
ReplyDeleteMake I read comments
ReplyDeleteHe's not interested in you.
ReplyDeleteYou're just the 'achi'soup,he has afang,efo riro,egusi,edikanikon,banga,okro,gbegiri ati ewedu,ila,fresh fish and crab soup,white soup.....the least is endless.by the time he does those rounds and your turn come reach,you'll see him as being "a bit slow",shey you get?
Hope this helped?as your're a little...slow.
Calling her slow wasn’t necessary. Sometimes we love the wrong people. At least she’s seeking advice
DeleteBut she called her man SLOW already....So what are you saying abi is it your SLOW????
DeleteIn the case where the guy does this but he’s always the one reaching out what does it mean
ReplyDeleteHe has someone that occupies him full time - mostly married or in a relationship. Be ‘guided’
DeleteIt means that he has mental issues... Men are never confused.. What they like, they make time for, they search for and they go out of their way to get.
DeleteGbam! Men are not women.
DeleteExactly Shakara! They know exactly what they want and what they are doing. You will be a fool as a woman to assume they don't. If their actions don't align with their words, you know you've got yourself a player.
DeleteMost people have said it all. "He is not that into you".... That's all!
ReplyDeleteLol... The guy is playing mind games with you. Some people, both male and female get off on that, stringing people along. Someone is treating you like crap and you say he is perfect for you, so what the fuck are you complaining here for?? Please cling to him tight, continue reaching out, try to register as many missed calls on his phone as possible everyday, continue to shower him with love and care, after all, he is perfect for you.
ReplyDeleteYou have no value for yourself, your time or your resources.
Jeez!!!
You better don’t appear so cheap and desperate to this guy, if a man truly loves you and want you he will be the one pushing it. I think that guy is not into you.
ReplyDeleteI think before some people sends in chronicles, they already know the answer to the problem but they just want to be convinced by people’s opinions. Aren’t u tired of always checking on him first? A man dat cares about u should check on u every now and then abeg. He’s not as perfect as u painted in ur first paragraph nne. Borrow sense and some self respect too. Carry body for am let him know u can do without him
ReplyDeleteHe doesn’t want to make you his girl. When a man loves you and wants you, he goes for you, even if he’s not financially capable of settling down quickly, he’ll shower you with so much love and care so that you’re not stolen away from him. The man you are wasting time with is waiting for you to receive sense and leave. You’ll be shocked at how soon he’ll marry whoever he loves.
ReplyDeletePoster, he is not into you. Stop wasting your time with him.
ReplyDeleteBv's have said it all! He's just not that into you. Go read articles around this common phrase. A man even wrote a book about it. He may seem like the 'perfect catch' outwardly, but nne he's not okay. The perfect man for you will be perfect in his deliberate, loving, concerned actions towards you. Move on there's other single and available guys out there.
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