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Sunday, February 17, 2019

Sunday In House Gists - 21st Century Wife/Husband

Hmmm.........The Twenty First Century wife/husband!!!









How does one identify a 21st century wife or husband?What are the characteristics?How can a non 21st century person identify and avoid you?

And why are you 21st century?
What are the advantages and disadvantages of a 21st century wife/husband?
Please talk to us if you are a 21st century wife/husband or if you are married to one!

102 comments:

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    1. Chimamanda sits very well on this table ooo

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    2. Qualities of a 21st century wife:

      1. She doesn't like to cook: gets a cook.
      2. She doesn't like to clean: gets a maid.
      3. She's open to bisexuality: agrees to threesomes.
      4. She's "open-minded": anal sex specialist.
      5. She might be in showbiz: stays out all night in the guise of job requirements.
      6. Is willing and open to cheat and she's very active on Instagram and Snapchat showcasing her body to prospective customers.
      7. She uses her body to rise through the ranks: sleeps with top management without second thoughts.
      8. She keeps up with the Joneses: family must travel out for summer and upload pictures on Facebook.
      I could go on and on but in summary, most of the young people of this generation lack moral values and have their priorities all messed up. I can't blame them though, their mothers have been too busy building their careers. Unfortunately, this 21st century wives will only raise children worse than themselves as the children can only emulate them in an increasingly perverse world...

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    3. Lmaooo.... Stella you had to go there不不不不不不不.dammit.

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  2. Chai Stella like quarrel pass fight. this is not shade, this is a forest!

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  3. Time to sit and read
    21st century couples, time for selfie

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    1. A 21st century wife/ husband is a woman or man married in the 21st century e.g myself, Stella and every other existing wife. We can be best described as the luckiest couples that ever existed. We use gadgets like telephones, washing machine, dishwasher, cars, blenders, gas cooker, microwave, air conditioner to make life easy. We go to schools, pursue a career and at the same take care of our kids. The women are actively involved in decision making, their husbands don't beat them or treat them like shit. The wives treat their husbands and inlaws with utmost respect, support her husband, prays for him and raise Godly kids. We treat our domestic staff and spousal families with utmost respect, understanding the fact that they won't stay with us forever so we help them pursue their own dreams by taking them to good schools up till university level. We welcome our in-laws any time any day As for me I wash my Hubby's & kids clothes,Cook and serve his food and clean our bedroom, no one does that for me,and yes, we aim to be the virtuous woman in the book of proverbs while we slay and pamper our skin, gym and keep fit, wear quality cloth and makeup , we are enlightened hence we dont quarrel at the top of our voices or physically assault anyone not even our kids. We discuss global politics, sports and other issues and we make money moves without envy,as they say if you want to kill a dog you give it a bad name, if you are rude, crass, lazy and promiscuous that is a behavioural problem that occurs in every generation don't tag it with this our wonderful generation. If you belong to the 18th/19th century by now you should be grinding pepper with stone and gisting with your co-wives over your big pot on firewood. As for me I am a proud 21st century wife married to a 21st century husband.

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    2. Sweet chocolate
      This is the real definition of a 21st century couple
      With this, I am one.

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    3. What u just described is the ideal/ perfect wife and not the supposed '21st century wife I feel SDK is talking about...

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    4. Thanks Olori, I forgot to add, the IHN lady is not a 21st century wife because she has not learnt how to be nice but you see that her husband eh, he is the real 21st century husband, that is why he did not beat her because he understands she is his partner not a "child" that should be "corrected" with beating. Side eyes at Mrs Aminu et al

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    5. Hmmmm Sweet chocolate,beyonce hands for you abeg

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    6. U fail am 2/10. Fail. What u r is good wive not 21st anything, u don't have such tag. Abeg u see how home home home repeatedly played out? Not party outing, bla bla bla.that's a WIFE a good one at that.

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  4. wife weh deh woz husband and mother inlaw slap. Let me read comments

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    1. Majority of them go for d Band and the title marriage, once achieved they FUCK any man that can bring d bag. .

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  5. Mother inlaw slapper comes oo food don done

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    1. The abandonment gang, wet them ,Nanny at home ,pussy at work

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  6. 21st century wives slaps their mother in law .

    21st century husbands eat only fresh foods. no warming of food.

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  7. That chronicle poster should come and tell us cos I want to learn too...team 21st century wives should gather here for a selfie...chakam

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    1. I think that poster doesn't even know who she is sef...God forbid she isn't any where being a 21st century wife.

      A 21st century woman/wife is one who knows her onions.

      A 21st century wife respects and gets respect in return to whomsoever e.g mil,bil,fil,sil etc

      A 21st century wife wouldn't want to depend on her husband for virtually everything in the house.she's resourceful, diligent and hardworking.

      A 21st century woman wont be giving birth like fowl when she and hubby are not financially bouyant thereby bringing innocent babies to come suffer.

      A 21st century woman knows her right as a woman and wouldn't want someone trampling on it.

      A 21st century woman is in the digital world and not otherwise. There's no set back since she knows what will make her being a wife and mother easier in the homefront.

      A 21st century woman isn't LAZY!

      A 21st century woman is that woman who instead of chasing her husband's side chick round town faces her "man-dog" in the house.

      A 21st century woman doesn't tie wrapper round the house on weekends from morning to night but at should be able to dress sexy and look good...well groomed hair,nails etc.

      A 21st century woman if a career woman should be able to balance the hometown with that of her workplace.

      A 21st century woman should be a role model for young girls still growing.

      A 21st century woman diet slap her mil,fil or an elder when provoked. She should have self control.

      A 21st century woman should make her home a haven for peace and love, a place where hubby would always love to run to at the close of work.

      ....add your own

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  8. Lemme read comments Biko, I am 19th century wife.. Hehehe 不不不

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  9. I am here for comments.
    This post will be lit!

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  10. 21st century couples are those who practise open marriages, fight each other like tyson n mayweather divorce the next day.

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  11. Lmao.
    Mother inlaw slapper, this is for you.

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  12. Me I don't understand all this talk about 21st century wife/husband issue. I guess most woman are being deceived by what they see on the internet. A clear issue of Alfa female and all of that. Even during the days of our parents, we have husbands who know the right thing and do it, they help with chores in the house and there is an understanding between wife and husband.
    I don't support a cheating spouse but before you marry, watch carefully before you enter. We fail to see a pretending spouse during courtship. And then after marriage, the real character surface. According to these women group on facebook. If your husband cheats, quit the marriage. Forget it, those woman with such epistles are in worse situations but they come on line to lie.. No two marriages are the same. And they is no manual to read before marriage. My husband cooks and cleans in the house when he is less busy that doesn't mean your husband must do same. Yours might be good in other areas that my husband isn't.
    I contribute to the welfare of the house because I choose to and do not want to put the burden on my husband alone.it doesn't mean that you have to, If you can do it if not do what works for you. Do the right thing, be respectful to your in-laws as you would to your family. In all be observant and create a relationship with God for he allow will never mislead us.

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    1. Nonsense, why wont a husband cook or clean...You are an example of the the women you described...mtcheww

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    2. Gerrout!!! During the days of which parent? How wives did your father have? All you go school or made it in life? Nonsense!!!

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    3. Uhn uhn alfa female kor,imam female ni

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  13. There is no biggie about being a 21st century hubby or wife. All that matters is love, respect and understanding either from both spouse or extended family!!! All this stupid tradition has caused more havoc than good!!! Filter the trash and pick the good out of it...then your marriage is solid!!(Bible sef spoke about love your neighbor as thy self and love your God) then the rest is story!!!Not some mother,father,brother and sister in law meddling in what is not their Biz!!!

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  14. That lady should come and enlighten us. She has all the qualities. Slapping mother in law is mandatory for all 21st century wives.

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  15. I may be wrong to say this but it seems like it's the "21st century" wives who get the Betta guys who are well mannered and loaded.. if this postulation is true then it seems like we good wife material have a thing or 2 to learn from them. For me, sometimes I wish I were the kinda bad gal who could get the good guys. As a goody goody (omo get inside) girl, it seems like I keep getting dealt with a bad hand. When it comes to love and even general progress in life. I'm now used to unfortunate events occuring so much that now I have a quick recovery time. Doesn't make it less painful though. One happened last week Sunday and another, today. I wonder when my tears and prayers will finally be answered.... It's only God that can cuddle me and tell me that it will be ok...lol.

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    1. God please come to her aid.

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    2. My dear Shy Artsy gal, it took me a long time to realize that we are /attract what we think. Please start thinking there are good men and one will manifest. Watch YouTube videos on the power of positive thinking...especially Bob Proctor on Paradigm Shift but be careful, some of his philosophy is New Age...

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  16. By The way, When are we entering 22nd Century..

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  17. Too blessed to curse17 February 2019 at 14:25

    21st century wife's are the type of feminist that want to share chores but won't spill bills.

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  18. 21st century wives don tie wrapper like village geh.
    They don't eat fufu except semo.
    They don't used stove to cook.
    They fix long nails.
    They are feminists.
    You can't come to their houses uninvited.
    They don't take nonsense from in laws.
    They like going to see movies at
    They do the do in every position and angle.
    They fix long lashes and weaves.
    They hardly cook self except noodles.

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    1. ....but why would you show up at my house uninvited??? That's bad manners.

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  19. 21st century wives association,
    We slap our mother in laws.
    We leave our children at home and go clubbing...
    We wear reviling clothes...
    We challenge our husbands because we are not their slaves....
    We divorce our husbands because we can't take shit...
    We can't wash our husbands clothes,we are not wash women..
    We can't cook...
    We can't clean the house... i dey come

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    1. Sic. spanner
      "reviling clothes?"
      Abi una dey carry hands attack tear clothes (enter market)? Na mad women association una be o.
      You are REVEALING una true nature ndi 21st century craze women association.

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    2. But why can't a woman go clubbing with her husband at least? That u are a mother doesn't mean u don't need your 'me' time. The couple can take a much needed rest and leave the kids with trusted relations or nanny.

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    3. Anon 16:00 can you simply correct her and rest?.. haba

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    4. Mhiz A,
      No mind dem..oh! Association of oppressed(..abi na loosers) men!!!
      If a married goes out alone or without husband tagging along, to socialize in clubs, bars, events, night outing in town etc, then she becomes a bad woman & bad mother????
      Thunder hell fire all lossers, pity party men, gigolos, pimps & 1d1ots looking for a woman to rubbish & to spoil reputations.

      Yes..oh I rather adopt a dog, cat or rabbit in my house rather than to bear the sight of a useless man around me, evil intention monitoring spirit & man looking for something to hang on & shine!!!

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  20. The 21st century wife is outspoken and firm.
    She sees marriage as a partnership between two consenting adults.
    She refuses to be the sole homebuilder but insists the home be built by both
    She discusses her deal breakers before marriage
    She refuses to be a kept woman. She pulls her weight equally in the home finances.
    She encourages her husband pursue bigger challenges and develops/grows with him
    She is a handful for the unenlightened man as she gives respect and demands it in return
    She knows that not all battles require prayers, some require common sense and a firm decision.
    There is so much to being a 21st century wife, it is not for the faint hearted.
    She refuses to settle for less than she deserves and might seem over bearing to some.
    However in the end, she brings us up confident,well rounded children who treats every one with respect and refuse to be intimidated by society.
    My 2 centa

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  21. Stella why are you like this?不

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  22. Let me try.....
    A 21st century wife is a powerful female Builder, who want to grow together with her spouse and maximize her gifts to be a greater benefit to herself and society. She learn and teach, grow and be beautiful, empower people spiritually and focus on being her best healthy self both mentally and physically. 
    Same goes for a 21st century husband.

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  23. Correct topic: (NAIJA) 21st century wife
    Identification:
    1. Fake; hair, lashes, brows,nails, boobs, nyansh -fake lives
    2. Burial ground; for pikins; "I have shoot of babies for him yet he dumped me like thrash". Na her mantra be dat one
    3. Always angry: Because of number 2. She no marry the person wey she been hook first.
    4. Tuaaaaaaaaaa! Na dat one you go receive for ya ears/cheeks if you come find wahala enter her lane... MIL, FIL, BIL, SIL, NEIGHBOR O,
    Boss for office o . . .she fit slap all for one swoop.
    5. She dey always celebrate 21st birthday -make you no ask me why, I no wan receive measured slap this early mor mor.
    6. Wedded but single; still dey search for horse(band) wey she go ride commot Naija. You sabi wetin I mean?
    7. "Going and coming" -dat one be the description of her nyansh. If you see am dey come, make you no block exit cos na coming be dat, no be
    going.
    8. Addiction: To money, fork, social media (she fit tanda for her papa grave upload status; chilling on papa's grave)
    9. Pharisee/Sadducee: Na she dey lead for qaya for church. Na she dey lead for "tie and die" (man grabbing technique) for babalawo. Na she dey chant God pass for online.
    10. Virginia: Na forkunizer virginia she be.

    Abeg make you no yarn am wetin I write, I no wan collect slaps.

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    1. Chai! Forgive whoever offended you biko

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    2. This anonymous you sound so bitter and poor and Deeperlifeish, nobody be the course of your poblem. Leave fake people alone I am sure you are poor and can't afford all those fake stuffs. It takes money to be fake dear. If na like your type dey make heaven, I do not want. Ugly natural thing.

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  24. 21st century horseband, manslikegbenro - when you haff issues,
    Report to your social media inlaws

    ,mansliketeebilz - when madam whos the breadwinner refuses to give your lazy ass pocket money again to spend on your sidechicks, report to her social media village relatives, tell them how your mil and wife has been suffering you, threaten to go and kill yasef

    manslikemaje - when you cheat on your wife and have several babies outside, and she reports you to your family, sue her for having the nerve to repory your philandering ways.

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  25. Bvs, My own problem is my boyfriend, he's not in the country but he wants nudes pictures, or during video calls he would ask me to reveal boobs or something told him no severally, cause frr tho I'm not comfortable with it, and it's soo hard to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't respect your wishes, he can't take me seriously since sex was involved before he left though, I need Candid advice, I don't mind the insult, maybe it'd make my brain reset or something+ I'm 22, scared of being single. 唐唐

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    1. Scared of being single u say?
      Ain't u single already with your boy friend in the abroad?
      Better dump dat fuck boy like a hot coal and seek out better guys here.

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    2. Don't send him any nudes ooo.Show him nada

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  26. A 21st century husband is one who cheats on his wife brings home STDs infect his wife and expect her to understand . while a 21st century woman is one who believes every thing she sees on social Media , have no regards for in-laws and intolerant.
    A 21st century mother Inlaw is one who fails to understand her son is married and needs some privacy, sees her daughter Inlaw as a gold digger.

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  27. me i'm still a 21th century bachelor

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  28. Let me sit don here make BVs educate me, I don't even no which century I belong to...

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  29. A 21st century wife is a woman who knows how to give better slap

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  30. Lemme park here and read comments

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  31. A 21st century wife/husband is one who is married in the21st century. A non 21st are those who were married outside the 21st century. Characteristics
    The women depend mostly on gadgets to run their homes. The women usually work full time or run businesses. They don't like to age and can do any thing to stay young. They are usually financially independent.
    The men? hmmm, they love to share financial roles with their wives . They are more enterprising than their ancestors were. A beg I am tired of typing.

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  32. All the girls don dey laugh dey "wan read comments", so who be the 21st century wife?
    Ndi Pharisee.
    All of una wey don send thunder or pour hot water for my smooth nyansh for this blog ,
    no be 21st century sisis una be?
    Which one worse pass, na to throway slap abi na to throway hot water?
    Ndi Sadducee ndewo nu ooo.

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  33. I am a 21st century wife please!, I love to look good, no Mgbeke clothings, my hair nice, toes and nails polish clean. I love my self and would not let my husband put me down, I respect you and I demand to be loved and respected. I love the good things of life and work to get it, I don't know how to make fire with firewood, my mum did not teach me that, I cant kill Chicken cos I buy them already killed, please I no grow up for village wey them dey kill Chicken am not a butcher can't touch a life Chicken. I hate to suffer so yes I use washing machine to wash and yes I can wash but why suffer when there is a machine. I don't wash my husbands cloth cos he gives it to a washer man, I don't want my hand breaking from washing hard men jeans, yes my in-laws must call before visiting and you can't I repeat can't live with us, we spoke about it and decided before marriage, I have a maid cos I work but my husband must give me, I can cook o yes cos I learnt from my mum plus I have YouTube to learn and better my cooking, I go Clubbing with my husband and our baby, and yes o I love God cos I don't play with Church. Nna!I hate to trek, I no kill person, except for pleasure, I no want suffer I made that clear in my life and marriage. I don't like my husband cooking and yes God blessed me with a husband who does not kill me with cooking, so sometimes he goes " Baby don't cook, coming to pick you cos we are eating out", let me add I can't stay in a lightless house. So yes I am a spoilt 21st Century wife.

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    1. You must be my soul sister cos you just described me up there and No! You are not spoilt

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    2. Omo you've ended the discussion

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    3. Lol love it! Thought I was the one writing for a second

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    4. You have said it all.
      I'm all those except clubbing, which is really not my thing but if hubby suggests, I'm gamed.
      Also, I wash hubby clothes with washing machine when I'm free and he takes it to the dry cleaner for ironing.

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  34. 21st century wife is a slapper,she can slap for africa,slapper of life.slaps mil,fil,sil,bil,neighbor inlaw,even animal inlaws sef

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    1. A 21st Century Wife Does not wash Clothes With Hands,Also wash Bitterleaf...does not Pound Yam.carry water on his head...

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  35. The horrible bitch that slapped her MIL should prepare for serious beating from her future SIL and DIL. She used her hand to ruin her family because her parents or parent figure will get beaten by their in-laws too. You have lost your husband, even if he acts like he has forgiven you, you have lost him to someone else, now or in the future and no one will have your back. Even your kids will suffer this because your home has become dysfunctional. Senseless 21st century wife!

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  36. 21st century wife is a wife that can deliver slap at a point in time.21stcentury wife have no respect for marriage. It's okey to be stubborn,wanting to be better financially and other ways 21st century wife won't make necessary sacrifies when it comes to these things.

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  37. I am happy that women are now becoming aware of who they are and what they should take or not take. Gone are the days when we live for the pleasure of men, taking all the abuse, tears, pain, maltreatment and rejection.
    Know your self worth in Christ and live for Christ while also having a fulfilling happy life on earth. Do unto others what you wish them do to you. Treat people with love and respect and refuse to be disrespectful. I love the 21st century life and I am the 21st century wife.

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  38. I am a 21st century wife, I know my self worth and I will not take trash from anybody, I stand with that ihn lady, so all of u here thinking u are making fun of her are actually making fun of yourselves instead (Stella included) , it goes to show that y'all are human trash without self worth,u can take nonsense from somebody just because you want to remain under a man, I won't even blame u guys because most of u are jobless, broke and uneducated, so your lives are literally worthless, I am a 21st century wife, I am financially independent, I have a mind of my own, I won't take nonsense from anybody not even a mother in law, I will never stress myself for anything, my man adores me and worships the floor I walk on cos I am an asset and not a liability (something I can't say for some of u here) I am not just a 21st century wife, I am an adored 21st century wife, heck I am a spoilt 21st century wife.

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