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Friday, March 08, 2019

Actress Yvonne Talks About Her Crashed Marriage And Her Friend Who Has Stronghold Over Her Ex....

Beautiful Nollywood actress Yvonne Jegede in a video interview conducted by Pulse Entertainment editor, talked about her crashed Marriage which lasted three months ,the friend who has a stronghold over her ex and what she would have done differently....







How has it been like being married to a colleague or an entertainer?

Initially, I didn't want to be with an actor but when you have a friend that has been there and has constantly told you this is what I want from you, then you turn around and wonder if God is not trying to bless me while I keep saying I don't want to marry an actor.

So, I'm just going to try it. And marrying an actor was good. Marrying an actor was good in the sense that we both understood the job and there are so many things I won't have to explain to him. So, yeah, it was good. And if mine didn't work out didn't mean others won't work out because when I got married, I did my court marriage on a Wednesday and I was on my way to court when a director called me and said I have to be in court but I said no because I was getting married.

He begged and said can I show up after the court session and he started explaining and I said “you know what, call my husband and tell him”. The director drove over to the house, came around and before the guy even said abeg, my husband was like okay, it's fine but if it was a banker or doctor, the person would have asked the director if his wife was on set at that point in time.




Mistakes and lessons learnt from the crashed marriage?

Of course, I make mistakes and I am not perfect just as I learnt lessons too from the marriage. I'm not an angel, I can't be perfect, I made load of mistakes that could have been overlooked or corrected but here we are today. I have also learnt from them and moved on, I have learnt from experience and such mistakes won't happen again.



Was the marriage worth it while it lasted?

Xavier! Have you seen my boy? He's a blessing, so yes it was worth it and the times we shared together were nice. The journey was sweet, I wouldn't trample on those times and say it was bad the whole time.



So, you might try marriage again?

Well, I am just focusing on my child if and only if somebody wants to go down that line with this old lady but right now, the energy, no, not right now.



You changed your name from Yvonne Jegede Fawole to Yvonne Jegede, what's going on?

I am Yvonne Jegede is the name on Instagram.



But that has sparked off a lot of talks about the state of your marriage

Right now, we are not living together, and we are not living as husband and wife, we are not husband and wife anymore and I would say a mutual agreement to go our separate ways. It didn't work out, it wasn't working out.



Were there complaints, was he not satisfied with the marriage, what really went wrong?

You can say that but you know when two people have lived together as husband and wife, and you have issues like this, there are complaints from both sides. I have my own complaints, I have my own issues that I am dealing with and I don't see the relationship and marriage going beyond where we got to and we had to call it quit.



Was this decision before the birth of your son, Xavier?

We started having issues before the birth of Xavier. I think I was about two to three months pregnant when the issues came. Immediately the issues came, there was never a dull moment, it just kept going up and up and it got worse and it got bad and today here we are.



Was your ex-husband with you through the pregnancy, delivery and after birth of Xavier?

No. As a matter of fact, he wasn't and there was no sign of him being interested which is what got me on my own side really really, got me thinking.
He wasn't there physically, emotionally and at that stage, I was very tender, very vulnerable and I wanted the care, concern, I didn't get any of that. It was basically like I got myself pregnant, so, things just couldn't get better. I was the one who was pregnant, he had the hormones raging, so I guess that was why he wasn't there.



Was there a third party?

Third party? No, there was no third party but he was listening to people or let me not say people, a friend, somebody who was always talking to him and telling him what to do. And that friend of his was my friend before and I guess I wasn't in the country and they would hang out and getting along as friends and that was it.


But it wasn't an affair?

No, it wasn't an affair but the friend had a stronghold on him.



And you have no idea why your friend would have such stronghold on your husband?

Well, she was cool with me and I was cool with her too, we were like buddies, more like family friends so to speak and he got really comfortable with her because I introduced them to each other and he would go over to her place and she come around and just chill and hangout.


How has it been like with a baby and separated from your husband?

I'm still by myself. I am a very strong person even if nobody says it to me, I know how I handle my issues and businesses. I would say there's never been a dull moment, there has never been a time that I sat down and felt the world is against me. I am doing fine, I have never regretted anything in my life, not even this especially with Xavier.

I am good, I have been literally by myself since April because I noticed I missed my period in January, so since then till April when I moved out till today, it's not felt like there was a marriage.

It didn't feel like I was ever married, so, it has all been about me and myself through the whole process and when I saw the publication that he wasn't sure of his child that was why he didn't post the pictures online.
I wasn't sure who he said that to but you know how this world is when you meet somebody, you talk to the person and you realize this person is not so bad and you remember all the bad things you have heard about the person and you begin to wonder.

So, I have gotten to hear some stuffs, when I got married, it wasn't like I got pregnant and just came out to announce my marriage, no. We went to look for a child, we sought medical help and he came home one day to tell me that he has one friend who has a doctor contact we can go to and can help us as he helped them.

And we went in October, November and December, three times and in January, boom, I missed my monthly cycle. I was in Dubai when I noticed and told him and I told him that when I return, we would go to a doctor to make proper confirmation.

I came back, we went to the hospital and things just changed drastically after I got pregnant. I think what prompted me to move out was that I was in the house with him for three weeks and we weren't talking, we weren't speaking to each other and I didn't have the power to complain because if I did, it would be hormones and hormones.

And from time, I have never been the type that knows how to keep malice because I can't be in the house with you since it's two of us and I can't speak with you. I was pregnant, I could smell the trash, I felt irritated but I found myself getting upset with some certain things and my husband will be even more angry than I was, he was not helping things and all of a sudden weeks gone by.

He started irritating me more when a little friend of mine came to spend two weeks with us and he would walk past me and say babe I just bought some things, do you want to make stew for me, I am going to the gym.
She was there for the first and second day and she walked up to me to ask why my husband was talking to her and not me and I would be like make the stew for him and fix my eyes on the TV. Initially, I thought I could handle it but I couldn't and I packed my things and said, you know what, I am pregnant, I need somebody to take care of me and I went to my parents house where they can take care of a pregnant woman and that was how we found ourselves here.



And you insist there wasn't an extra-marital affair?

No, not at all. Maybe he's doubting me, I don't know but I am very certain about myself that not even when I was trying to become pregnant. I never even dated before I got married, I didn't do it after we got married, so I wouldn't do it while we were trying to have a baby together.
Like I said, it took us almost four months, so it couldn't have been that era. So for me, I was very clean and committed and for him, no, none of that, there was no text message, so I don't know.



Would it be right to say he didn't want the pregnancy?

He should have said if he wasn't, it isn't like I was going to take my baby away, hello! He should have said so I would know what the issues were and till today, there is no communication. We don't speak.


And when you read about the publication about the baby's paternity?

No, I didn't call him. I only reached out to him when I feel the need to because he knows Xavier is his son, he is 100% sure he's his son. But who did he speak to, who are the sources that were spreading these.
He's been to the house twice after we got back to the country, he's come to see his son twice and he has pictures with his son on his phone which I took so why he's not posting them, maybe his personal reasons, maybe he's not like me who is showing to the world, I don't know but is that enough to give me a name? No, you don't give me a name like that, common, that is not right, people tried to bully me or make dry joke over this, about my life, would you be happy if I were your sister but anyways, I am here, I am strong and will be strong for my son. I have morals to set for him and what the world is about.



With all these, would you say the relationship or all that happened was a mistake?

It was never a mistake. I don't make mistakes especially not with decisions like this. He was a good friend of mine before we got married, we were very cool, it wasn't like we dated or a situation where I say there is a guy I am seeing but we were very good friends, so much trust, so much friendship, so much laughter and these were things I wanted to enjoy in my matrimony but I guess love was not enough, love is never enough in marriage.


What would you have done differently?

What I will do differently is, don't overlook things because those little things you think you can overlook and not comfortable with might become the same things that will make you walk out of marriage.
So, I will not overlook anything, no stone should be left unturned, ask questions. It’s not like we didn't have that conversation after the proposal, yeah we did and everything he said during that conversation, promises, I didn't see any of them after we got married, which is not really the problem but the problem is we have a child, a beautiful son and we have to do everything right by him.

from pulseng.



*Let me get one thing straight?It was this her friend feeding her hubby with poisoned info or what?who could this traitor be and why does the name of that actor keep popping up in the rumour mill?..This is not fair at all

172 comments:

  1. Oh Abasi mbok...i just love my life. Living solo and loving it.

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    1. Bimbo akintola i guess

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    2. The problem I see here is ego. Within that 3weeks no one could call the other partner to ask or know what the issue was. Lemme sha not take sides oh from her narrative cos if abounce talk him own, everywhere fit scatter.

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  2. The guy is pure wicked..what nonsense, he can't even talk to her,so she knows where she went wrong..very unfair

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    1. The guy is really sick upatairs

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    2. She knows!
      How can u beleieve she doesnt know. Thats a big lie

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    3. You're always quick to swallow the first complain, have u heard the other side?

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    4. What you should done differently was kept your friends away from your marriage!!!!!!! Make God and an older married relative with the fear of God and wisdom in marriage your friends.
      My friend this my friend that. And I'm sure you were also telling them of your runs which they must have told your husband and still pretend with you.

      I married very young and had friends all around me and my husband. Pick them up and dropped them off in different cars, had some stay with us for a while. Didn't know I was killing myself with somuch naive.

      The gossip I hear today of what they said about me eh! One even went as far as telling my brother-in-law all my complaint about the stress I was going through with them.

      Thank God he exposed them before they broke my marriage.
      Today I be one man squard, just God, me, my hubby, kid, mother-in-law sometimes o! And my late mum's friend cos she be good woman.

      Is well, pls don't say anything more, learn from Lilian and keep your enemies confused.

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    5. What will he have to say?she was pregnant for heaven sake...

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    6. Men that keep malice are the worst. I just escaped from one. The relationship drained the hell out of me. Every little issue he has blocked me. I will always keep apologising. Till I started showing my own madness. When I left him he cldnt believe it. Till date I still blocked him.
      I have been dating someone for 6months now. We havnt argued 1nce,I have peace of mind. Emotional abuse is draining. Malice keeping is draining.

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    7. Hmmm Osnac, worst thing one can do is have a friend stay with you as a married couple o. Thank God you learnt.
      I married in my 30s so I had seen life. I still do have friends but my confidante is my mother and even with that not everything my hubby does wrong I tell her. I also want her to retain some respect for him..because if you reveal all to an extent she will see him finish.
      Marriage no be child's play. But most importantly don't pick a man that already has so much demons he is battling. They will only intensify in the marriage.

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    8. Osnac...tankGod for u and ur home

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  3. Yvonne it’s well with you..

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    1. I really feel sorry for her..Her ex is a very wicked and heartless man ..Who does that,stressing a pregnant woman...Atleast for old time sake,try and be there for her. Good riddance

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    2. Very wicked and pure definition of evil, hope he wasn't jazzed.

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  4. This Abounce if a guy is immature. How can you be keep malice with your wife to the extent that you ask her friend to prepare stew for you? They had no business getting married, I see that now.

    Yvonne love is enough. People who say love isn't enough, what is love then? Love isn't just a romantic feeling, it's not kissing and cuddling all day long. Love is kind and gentle, forgiving, self sacrificing, does not bear a grudge and is not boastful.

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    1. Love is not enough in marriage.

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    2. Gbam love is not enough in a marriage.

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    3. They kept malice with each other for that long cos they had people staying with them, cooking for them and asking them who says sorry first and why that people is a mumu.

      When I have issues with my husband I keep it to myself, so that when I get back my senses I can easily say sorry to my hubby without anyone asking me how far? This method makes us not to carry our issues to the next day or two cos no one dey massage our Ego.

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    4. My darling, while the foundation of every good marriage should be love, love in itself is really not enough to sustain a marriage. The phrase "love is not enough", means both partners need to bring more than love to the proverbial table for the marriage to be sustained.

      I agree, love is deeper than sexual attraction and desires, love transcends the physical. The type of love defined in 2 Corinthians 13:4-5 is the agape love. However, love between a man and a woman which increases sexual desire, needs constant "watering" and nurturing for the flames to keep burning bright. In a marriage, you need patience, understanding, wisdom, financial, emotional, sexual and spiritual support from both partners. There must be a lot of compromising and forgiveness.

      No matter how much love there is in a marriage, if bills are not paid as at when due, one or both partners aren't mature enough to handle disputes or one partner seems to be doing all the heavy lifting, that union is a ticking time bomb. Imagine being in love with a very lazy spouse and in the passage of time, he or she starts having issues with hygiene. If drastic changes are not made, you will see that resentment will creep in and before long, the love will start to dwindle.

      Financial stability is another key factor in the success of a marriage. Like my Nana, God rest her soul, used to say "if you play love in a tight room, it will jump through the window". Statistically, financial issues is the number 1 cause of divorce, not even infidelity.

      Sweetie, just like one ingredient does not a delicious dish make, you need more than love to make a marriage work. I would say love MUST be present for a marriage to work but love alone is not enough.

      e-hugs.

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    5. Women never settle for a relationship where only one person is doing the heavy lifting

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    6. Sisterly, Love is Never enough! Never!

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  5. Yvonne please stop granting interviews before abounce will come and open your can of worms. may God give you the strength to go through this.

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    1. Thank you oh, thats how theyd keep gathering internet sympathy, see the gullible ones already taking her side without hearing from both sides.

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    2. She just granted one interview, so get your facts straight.

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    3. Exactly what I wanted to type!
      Yvonne, please stop granting interviews. Learn from Lilian esoro

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    4. Hanty she granted just one interview with pulse, not her fault people are cutting it in bits

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    5. Must you grant interview?
      Na election you win?
      Who did all this help apart from internet worms? People dont really care, keep shut & focus on your son.
      Shes been ranting on IG and turning herself to motivational speaker

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    6. Why can't she grant interview? It was interview that saved Ties savage's career from her evil ex husband..Pls babe grant as many as you can,at worst he will call you a loose woman and so???

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    7. SMH for anon 10:41.
      The only reason Tiwa spoke was because Teebills accused her of alot and attempted suicide, she couldnt keep shut... and it didnt save her career either. Just say u want to keep hearin amebo

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    8. Thank you anon 12:00, sanu! atleast some of us still believe less is more.

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    9. Where was Ninolowo at d said time u travelled, be digging ur grave o. Continue

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  6. Me sef no understand these her answers o, so it means your husband didn't cheat on you, you too didn't cheat on him,but he was hanging out with someone you introduced to him who later became his bestie & they sidelined you, he just lost interest in you,then this so called friend fed him some lies about you, (or a secret about you which you hid from him?) ?Because I don't know how all of a sudden a man stops caring about his wife without any reason. Somebody that loves you? There's something you both are not saying. .. Therefore I conclude you both have smelling skeletons in your cupboard & if care not taken might expose soon. Well same time I pray you both find this love again.

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    1. It's possible naa, know of a similar case.... the woman didn't cheat, don't know about the man but he was told some things by her brother's wife and the man sold some properties and left her

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    2. I guess what she’s trying to say is, she does not have any evidence to accuse him of cheat8ng, she might suspect but that is not enough. She said no text messages.

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    3. Pregnancy hormones broke down the marriage because the husband is immature. The old boy couldn't take care of his wife when she needed him more. Agbaya

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    4. oh shut up! I was married last year and the same shit happened to me. The only difference is the WOMAN has always been HIS friend, so my marriage was basically a product of their interaction, perception and conclusion. I was a visitor in my own marriage. She dictate how he would treat me for the day, I left with my new born also.

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    5. Someone's past in not enough to stop loving or change drastically. I mean we all have past. The guy is immature if the above is the case

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    6. Not everyone has a bad past, you guys should quit consoling yourselves with we all have a past.

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  7. Hmmmmmm. My heart goes out to Yvonne.
    No woman deserves to be treated this way. Be in a marriage by yourself, carry pregnancy yourself and birth and train a child by yourself.
    I don't care what she did. Least Abounce can do is be there for his son. Sad

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    1. You people shouldnt interfere with Karma oh, its serving her hot hot, she now knows the pain Nino wife felt with kids, you were busy flaunting him, and not only Nino, what about others? Now u want sympathy, abeg GTFOH...Abeg leave matter for mathias,

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    2. You are daft you this silly anonymous. Was she the one that scattered Ninos marriage? Every body knew Nino was single when he got back from yankee.Nino himself said he had 2 kids but was no longer with the mother. They were separated, you evil lots always gloating over other people's situation.

      I just hate people who can't think, dead brain cells, karma is only for women while the men don't get 'karmarised'.

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    3. Nino was separated from his wife,they just reconciled.. Which karma?

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    4. First of all, Nino and his baby mama are not even legally married. She did not snatch Nino. nino's baby mama was doing her own thing in ATL. Yvonne was not the problem.

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    5. A lot of you people talk about stuff you don't know like you were there when it happened.
      Which nonsense karma? Nino was separated before he came back to Nigeria. His 'wife' was doing her own thing not only in ATL but elsewhere. I know specifically one boyfriend she used to come and visit in the state where I am. I still wonder about this their fake reconciliation. Leave that nonsense karma story abeg

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    6. He ran back to her to cover shame of impregnating another mans wife. His best roles in movies just played out in real life

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  8. The problem here is ego,within that three weeks they didn't talk to themselves,if one of the parties has apologized it won't have generated to this. I don't think there is any big issue here,no domestic voilence,no cheating. If they can give room for forgiveness and move on,their marriage can still be salvaged. The first two years of marriage is always difficult.

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    1. Ego ruins everything........

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    2. Dont mind her, did she invite that friend for the 3 of them to sit and trash the issue? Find out the underlying cause and uproot it... yvonne knows what she did.... you cant be innocent and your husband is keeping malice with you in the presence of a friend, that friend will ask sure! You never talk true

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    3. But can the woman keep apologizing all the time? It will get tiring

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    4. Have you seen where apology was not enough?

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    5. Tynu you will not die young. This is just pure ego , pride and bulshit. You guys got married and definitely there will be challenges. Why not sit down and talk? How will my husband open his mouth to tell my friend to cook for him? 2 immature people!!

      I don't even think you guys really loved each other. Yes love is not enough in marriage but it is foundation. When you love your spouse and have the fear of God, It makes it easier.

      Those days when my husband will be forming anger and malice, I will still cook his food and keep in the kitchen though Yvonne's case is understandable cuz she was pregnant and her husband should even be the one taking care of her.

      Your marriage ended before it started and that your useless friend from the pit of hell deserves an acid bath. Oh how i hate such people around me. A useless jealous friend and a gossiping baby husband, what a combo.

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    6. But an old man like him that married a small girl should know better. Agbaya

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    7. Apologize for what? Is he dangonte or a rich man

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    8. @10:10 wooow, a whole acid bath? It's not that deep for one to destroy someone life. Keep that kinda disgusting, evil thought to yourself, please. Some people would read that and think it's a normal reaction to have and actually carry it out. Let's spread forgiveness and being able to move on when we're betrayed with God by our side.

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    9. You guys have no idea idea what men who keeps malice are like...you have absolutely no idea.

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  9. If this was what really happened then there's really no issue here. Young marriage, in-experienced couple. Just adjustments from both sides. I wish his Aunty Bukky was still alive. This wouldn't have happened. May God rest her soul.

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    1. @THANDEKA,Bulky Ajayi (God Rest Her Soul) was his Momma.

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  10. I really love this lady, keep being strong and beautiful

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  11. I feel very sad reading this, its seems like she cannot pin point what scattered their marriage. Wouldn't it be better if the story was he cheated on me, than this.

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    1. Exactly,I felt so sad...maybe is spiritual

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  12. Bimbo is the friend...
    Never allow a family friend too close...
    Guide ur home with all jealousy...

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    1. I thought so too, that old witch😬😬😬

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    2. Wow, Bimbo Akintola ??

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    3. I'm disappointed in bimbo if it's true. A mature friend like that should be there to build bridges between a young couple having problems and not to scatter it.
      Is it because she is not married. She wants everyone to be like her.
      I have a friend(my mate) whose husband has reported her to me like twice. That I shld tell my friend to give him peace. She too will complain. He is never at home; even weekend,he's always going out bla bla.
      I had to advise her to take it easy. You are not working,you live in a nice house in lekki which ur hubby bought. You have 3kids going to one of the best schools. How do you expect your hubby to do it. If he doesn't hustle. You better be patient with him.
      I will never speak bad about my friend to d hubby too. I just tell her pls be patient you know how us women talk anyhow. You too try spend atleast Sunday home. I know some of the husbands dirt dat he carries women. I hear his gist. But I will never tell my friend. Except smthn like me hearing he has a child outside. I mind my business. Do I know what my own man too is doing outside ?
      Such friends like bimbo are devil's.

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    4. I'm so disappointed in her if truly she's the cause of their breakup.

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    5. Just ask God for forgiveness for this evil you typed theee. Ha!

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  13. This is a sad story.She's not perfect,he isn't either.She seems hurt.I pray she heals and lives a happy life.

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    1. She must be very hurt.

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    2. Very hurt! As many others have said and from an outside perspective, it seems like they could have tried to work it out, especially if they still care about each other. God will heal her heart and she will meet a man who will love and care for her and her son. Time is a great healer.

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  14. Stella if you see how i tapped into this marriage eh.i so love them together.well just as she said love is not enough

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    1. You see your life?Hope youve drained your pipe oh,

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    2. Hope you're a guy sha because if not, what did you tap? An old unkept man?? I never liked him for her.
      I would have supported your tapping had it been he married someone like Nkechi Blessing or Anita Solomon

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  15. She still lives him...awwwwww...and I was rooting for this marriage πŸ˜ͺπŸ˜­πŸ™„

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    1. She should move on with her life and stop granting interviews. The guy seems immature.

      Pipi Lee, it's been a while

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    2. Pipi Lee you must really like Yvonne or abounce it'd been a while.

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    3. Pipi Leeeeeeeeee.....OLD OLD BV.


      Long time love...some of us have gone anonymous lol...

      Jisike

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  16. I feel so sorry for her.
    Its well babe. God gat your back.
    Its so not right to shut someone out. Communication is the key

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  17. Paternity allegations!!!!Cheating Scandals

    I insist this union shouldn't have existed
    Some people make good boyfriends not husband
    The commitment, forgiveness and tolerance is not for everyone.

    Yvonne take care of your baby and I hope you are surrounded by people who loves you because postpartum depression is real. Be strong dearie ♥♥♥

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    1. No paternity allegation,did you read it at all. She granted the interview when people started insinuating that.

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    2. I know what I am saying
      there is paternity allegations
      Abounce has low sperm and feels since he is still on treatment,she can't get preggy.The gist is all over. Aunty Bimbo Akintola, wehdone MA.

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    3. Olori Olori!! As if you live in the same house with them,you can not be certain about the allegations, these are just mere speculations. But look o the baby looks like Abounce now.

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    4. Say what now, Olori 😲😲😲😲😲

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    5. That's the gist and it's not true
      The son his Abounce, if his mom was alive he won't allow this. Reason why she granted the interview. If he is doubting, he should go for DNA

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  18. Yvonne stop talking & focus on your son, the man in question has altered a word, negative or positive!
    I'm not here to apotion blames on anyone but if your marriage lasts 3months you both failed... he/she failed to make a good decision.
    You know what you did... & u expected 4gvness but that was his ticket out.
    If he trully loved you, he'd have 4gvn you but we all react differently to crisis, i cant blame him...

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    1. Not everyone is good at keeping things in. Sometimes speaking out is therapy for some ppl.
      I would rather a man who voices out what I did and we thrash it out.
      Than one that will be keeping malice and wont even tell me what I did wrong.
      It is killing. Pls don't judge her. I once had an ex that had this abounce malice attitude. Very horrible guy.
      My husband now voices out if I offend him. We talk about it. I apologise and next minute we are playing like nothing happened. He has a big heart
      I hate men that keep malice like my ex.

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    2. Since you know the whole story why don't you say what she did

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    3. Yaba left escapee8 March 2019 at 09:53

      Truth: If your marriage lasts just 3months then you both failed.

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    4. What did she do? Is the boy not his son? He has only seen his son twice?? Wow, dude you are a useless father.

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    5. Failure aint nothing. We fail to succeed another time. Learn from our mistakes and keep it moving

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    6. This your culture of silence will destroy you, the world is accusing her of infidelity and you are telling her to keep quiet. Please scream as loud as you can to prove yourself.

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  19. Frenemies everywhere. women pulling each other down since the beginning of time! I hope that "friend" is happy now?

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  20. Celebrity party and cooperate first grade Ok gowns 070847147548 March 2019 at 09:14

    Oh dear, I feel for her. I can relate but not being there for her is not acceptable, pregnancy isn't easy at all

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  21. Her ex reminds me of my ex husband. Childish immature men who were never ready for marriage. Only difference is that I didn’t have a child with my ex husband. Thank God! It’s always hard when you have to deal with issues like this with a child.

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  22. "What I will do differently is, don't overlook things because those little things you think you can overlook and not comfortable with might become the same things that will make you walk out of marriage"

    If you're about to get married, let that be ingrained in your head; it's the truth, the only truth.

    Forget how much of a wordsmith they are, forget how great they are in bed, forget how many bloody languages they speak or how much they know a bit of everything,heck, forget the money; If for a second you see something is off, run, run away and never return! Because, when you begin to live with him/her everyday, it is the perfection you see, it's their annoying quirks and imperfections that gets magnified. I don't know why that is,but, I suppose that's marriage.This is not to say there shouldn't be small compromises or they have to be perfect.

    Someone told me ones: if you choose right enough, you will manage less.

    Be wise!

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  23. They were close friends before they got married. Few months after, the lively guy became someone she couldn't communicate with. What happened to "marry your friend" slogan?. It is well with you beautiful Yvonne.

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  24. Stella I follow you ask that question: who is that traitor that won't allow them to drink water keep cup? This minute y'all be playing lovey dovey, the next minute, y'all are sworn enemies. God abeg o

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  25. Wow...... Kai, I've never really felt like this!!

    Yvonne, God will strengthen you, for your son, he will!! She's so hurt,God....... That malice thing is just crazy, na wa!!!

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  26. I feel this babe pain oooo . Plenty bachelorhusband everywhere

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  27. Leave this Yvonne... her hands are not clean, she knows what she did.
    Do you expect her to be truthful?
    Theres no smoke without fire, no sane man will up and leave his pregnant newly wed just like that...

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    1. Indeed keep blaming the women for the actions of useless men.

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    2. What did she do?
      Omniknowest!
      Are you the actor in question?
      Let Abounce say his own.

      Even if,just if the baby wasn't his for the sake of old time he should have been there for her during pregnancy and settle issues later.

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    3. Who told you. I know someone with similar story and it's even a man. Now he regrets how he went about the marriage.
      Trouble started few months into d marriage and she wanted to birth in the US but the guy didn't have much money and she went anyway with her own money along with the little he gave.
      He felt slighted and kept malice with her through the pregnancy till she delivered.
      The marriage broke down from there and he regrets what he did. The wife now took it further and cut communication with him. Moved to a new city.
      For 4yrs he didn't see his child. Now she's asking for divorce and he wants reconciliation but she's about to remarry.
      You don't know some men. Ego will kill them.

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    4. She knows what she did she knows what she did but you fools have not said it.

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    5. keep fucking abounce....your turn is next

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    6. Say what she did and stop ranting allover the post.
      Did she kill a human being or what grave crime did she committ that the world has never seen before ? Mschewww

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  28. Thats exactly how Ubi was all over the internet making himself look like the victim while Lili hot hot was just mute and observing.... meanwhile he was the villain, so na sitdown look get me

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  29. They were not ready for the marriage and if you ask me. How can a married couple not talk for three good weeks and none of them thought it wise to apologize,even if the person apologising wasn't the one at fault? Where was the love and friendship they claimed to have had.This is a lesson for people that still do bestie up and down, she wasn't wise at all.How can your husband be hanging out with your bestie in your absence?I cannot try such rubbish. Call me old fashioned, but hey, I will not be the one that will use my hand and bring a lady that will scatter my home.As much as one can't control a man,do your own part and leave the rest to God.

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    1. No be only bestie, I am sure the bestie and abounce were sleeping together, No be Bimbo?? If she caused the problems in this marriage rhen she don buy market, hanty agbaya was obviously jealous.

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  30. Chaiiii...I really feel her pain. It is well dear. That's why I don't keep any f**king friend. I'm one man squad. Married women should stop keeping unnecessary besties after marriage. Someone of them are envious and evil.

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    1. Oh shut up! Even married babes are envious and evil. Stop painting single women as envious and evil when it’s your very own ma

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  31. It is well with you yvonne, but stop granting interviews before they will tell us another story. Sincerely its not fair to be treated this way.

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  32. Bimbo Akintola is suspected but it might just be Chelsea Eze.

    Sometimes the people we think doing us may not be the ones doing us.

    Maybe the doctor told him he can't impregnate a woman and boom, pregnancy shows.

    Yvonne, you are old enough to understand that most Nigerian men before marriage are usually not same after marriage. All that talk...he is my bestie bla bla, can't be same after marriage. They start demanding respect, asking for you to cook one million times a day even when you are on a sick bed. Its not their fault, it is a woman like you that spoilt them. I keep telling our generation to raise good men and stop smothering their boys.

    Dear Ladies, you either want to be married or not. Just because someone's marriage ended, it does not mean you should use your hands and end yours. All that glitters outside is not gold. Just because Tonto is living a fabulous life on Instagram, it is not a sign you should throw away your husband. I am speaking to you Yvonne and Venita Akpofuru.

    I noticed Venita Akpofure has changed to her maiden name. It's like their starter pack before they become single is ...associate with Tonto, praise her then baam, revert to their maiden names. I am seeing a trend.

    I hope you realise that Tonto did not intentionally become single. She married a man of questionable character and an okro soaked penis that uses it for community service.

    Please do not throw away your good husband just because of a minor issue

    If you don't want to submit to him, why marry him. Why? Stop listening to people telling you, you married down and married center. That's the reason some of the actresses are single, looking for who to marry up. When they don't see, they start looking for someone's husband to attach themselves.

    Marriage is built.

    This writeup will cover 30 leaves exercise book.

    Let me go back to doing what I know how to do best.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. You dey mind them, they keep telling Yvonne she married down,if the guy was rich, would they say that, very silly women with low intelligence.

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    2. All this your long epistle, you did not say anything. For your information, Chelsea Eze is a verry good friend of her and she was present at her child dedication and posted pictures of both of them professing their friendship. The person is Bimbo Akintola, she was absent and never posted about the child. The rumours are everywhere. They went to seek medical help, Abounce has a problem with conception, it is not a rumor beacuse when women can't conceive, everybody just assume it is her fault, in this case, yvonne was clean. After just 3 months to the doctor, she was pregnant and there was when the problem started.
      Those of you saying Karma are mad and useless. Nigerian women always fighting pricks even when the man has left their lives, the man still their property. Nino and his wife were separated for 5 years and he talked about it even when his wife started going out with another actor, the news was on Linda ikeji, why not call out that man too? So a man was is no longer with his wife and made it public can't date another woman otherwise that woman is a home breaker? He celebrated her when she gave birth, go to his page and his wife liked the comment. Many of you Nigerian women are ignorant and sick. Your desperation for marriage is out of this world. Always trying to pull another woman down even when you know the man is an IDIOT! The only mistake Yvonne made here is to marry this Abounce, he is too low for her, not her level in anyway. His story is in Lagos, ask about him. In the 12 years they were friends, it was on and off, until he asked her to marry him. Watch the interview on youtube for you to understand where this woman is coming from, he asked and begged her and promised her so many things if she marries him.

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    3. Welcome back, your comments are always on point.
      seems like a trend now, they want to give birth and revert to being single with child.

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    4. I love you XOXO

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    5. XoxoπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    6. Xoxo mystery and Ronalda are welcome back

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  33. It's well. Stay away from all these Interviews and SM. Frankly people don't Care, some are happy it's happening so they can laugh about it. Your husband isn't granting any interview or posting things on SM, you think his dumb? And you know exactly why things are going south in your home, come on its ur home, your husband, you know exactly why his keeping malice with you. If things didn't work out in ur marriage then fine, it wasn't a public marriage So You owe no one any explanation.

    They'll Keep woundering why you guys are not together and after a while they'll tire out and Look for a interesting subject to feed on.

    But you couldn't do that.

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    1. Youre right, im personally happy shes feeling this pain, she did it to other women.

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    2. Oya throw a party and get drunk to celebrate this unusual happiness of yours.

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    3. Well pulse paid her for this exclusive!! Soooo......

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    4. be happy and keep rejoicing. stupid witch, after una go go church or mosque to pray for God to help you. it can never be well with you too. may all the hurt you have hurt people in life return back to you a 1000 fold....

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  34. Enter your comment...yvonne go back to your husband beghim for forgiveness and ask what went wrong Divorce is not esdy

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  35. There's no issue here at all, just young couple with lack of communication. The first to second year of marriage are usually tough. I pray she finds happiness. That's why is not too good allowing your friend coming close to your hubby unnecessarily, to the extent of calling her babe in your front... what an effrontery. Thank God for your cutie son.

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    1. That babe part confuse me walahi.
      And that my OWN friend shld come and make you stew. Not in dis lifetime. I trust my friends sef. Make what stew. My friends dat are even looking for who will cook for dem sef πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

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    2. Babe..just like you address a female acquaintance not like an endearment, you guys.

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  36. Please easy with the interview you know Abounce has been quite a longtime. I noticed she answered all the questions gently.

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  37. My friends always tag me to her pic and say see your twinny but you are the fairer version lol I always disagree but this particular pic up there eh,anytime I see it ,I see my self😱I was watching her interview yesterday I was telling myself Yvonne actually looks like me. Whatever she is going through, may God see her through. I still believe marriage is not a do or die! Don't mock a pain you have not felt.

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  38. I wonder who the third wheel of a rumor monger is. Anyway, I still think she should have taken madam "givethemhothot" style and move on with her life. Now that she has spoken the guy knows her mind, if she had been silent he'd be apprehensive for the rest of his life.

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  39. I wonder who the third wheel of a rumor monger is. Anyway, I still think she should have taken madam "givethemhothot" style and move on with her life. Now that she has spoken the guy knows her mind, if she had been silent he'd be apprehensive for the rest of his life.

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  40. That friend is bimbo akintola I am sure of that

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  41. Both of them have spiritual partners!...
    The guy should settle his while Yvonne should settle hers if not,they can never keep a marriage!...
    Most of these entertainers have these spirit that’s why they can’t stay married!..
    Imagine staying with your husband for weeks without speaking to each other...
    Hian!...

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    1. Your own no de ever pass spuritual husband or wife.

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  42. Like I said before on the other post,don’t overlook that “signs”...

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  43. The issue really was Abounce has a low sperm count and he was on treatment but he is not educated enough to know that once you are on good treatment all it takes is a single sperm to fertilize the egg,we all have a past and we shouldn't use that to judge our partner because love hope all things and endure all things and same things apply to marriage too. I took my brother to a good gynecologist after trying for a year with his wife with visits to several hospitals on the issue of low sperm count,after several test at the gynae where I took him to in december he was placed on drugs and the wife was asked to do some test too and she had an infection,they did HSG for her and everything was fine,she was placed on drugs too and by January she got pregnant,we were so happy my brother is now the wife cooking and all.should he had thrown the wife out after just 4 weeks of being on medicationπŸ˜’πŸ˜’ same applies to my friend too.Too much infection eat sperm head,causes low sperm count and sometimes low motility and we all go around blaming the woman for our mistakes and insecurity,so annoying to say that they are not both ready to weather this storm called marriage

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    1. ARE YOU MAD ?????????

      THE GUY HAS BEEN CALM ALL THIS WHILE, NEVER GRANTED ANY INTERVIEW TO BLAST THIS WOMAN BUT YET YOU CALL HIM A MAN WITH LOW SPERM COUNT !!! WHAT A CONCLUSION ?!!!! Tueh

      NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE EVIL SHA !!!

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    2. Youre their personal doctor abi? You just know he has low sperm count, well done! And you think the low sperm count caused the failed marriage abi? Cant u see their son?

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    3. You made a lot of sense.

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    4. πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„ He should be happy to have a child? Low sperm count

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    5. Must you curse. This person may be an insider.
      Low sperm count is more common than you think. My uncle is on his 2nd marriage and TTC for 10yrs. Same thing with his 1st marriage. I don't need a soothsayer to tell me who has the issue.

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    6. What has low sperms count got to do with personality?

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  44. Yvonne, your version seems so pure and there's more to this you are not letting out but I believe you nonetheless.

    A man that can't acknowledge his son is trash through and through. Simple

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  45. In between the lines, you can sense what she's trying not to say. I can't help but remember the pure joy on her face the day of their traditional marriage.

    Two things... Love is not enough in a marriage. I say this because Jesus is the only one who can love totally and unconditionally. So what we term as love is not perfect love so our view point of it is flawed which means we have to bring more than what we think it is to the table for a marriage to work and that is where God comes in. A marriage ought to be a tripartite thing; a man, the wife and Jesus at the end. Any thing less than this is just 2 people living in deceit, pain, long suffering and agony (most often than not, the women especially in this region)
    2ndly, most often than not it's the little things that crumble a marriage. The Bible calls it... Little foxes. They spoil things. What you can't overlook address it and have a mutual understanding before you sign the dotted lines. Don't camouflage and then come and use your lies and deceit to embitter someone who comes to you with open hands and heart unless you don't see marriage as a lifetime thing because that marriage will not stand the test of time.

    I wish you Peace Yvonne. If you are innocent, posterity will judge your ex. There's a beautiful baby boy involved and it's sad to see all these rumors flying about. May God heal every broken heart and judge every deceptive spirit.

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  46. This woman is in pain and for those saying she should stop granting interviews, Do you expect her to keep quiet when the rumor out there is that there is a paternity issue on their son...how can you keep quiet when people are suspecting you of cheating yet you didn't do it.

    I think this is the only interview she has done a rend many blogs are just posting it at different times...so Yes she has cleared the air,pls let the rumors stop now and let her have some peace people.

    LEPπŸ˜›

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    1. You expect her to keep quiet when someone is trying to tarnish her son's image....Tiwa savage's interview safe her career and image ..

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    2. Exactly. That interview saved Tiwa.
      Is it not Nigerian men. If Tiwas issues started from her pregnancy that's how the husband too will have said maybe it's Don jazzy or Tubaba that owns the pregnancy.
      Nigerian men when will you stop the habit of doubting paternity once you are having issues.

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  47. Whatever the case, I pray all will be well with you cause I love the two of you.

    However I advised you not to grant interview or talk to anyone again

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  48. I think they both have issues both not willing to trash it

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  49. I feel so sad reading this, it is well Yvonne.. God will strengthen you for your son.

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  50. The problem in Nigeria these days is that people are so concerned about the wedding party they fail to fully understand/listen to the vows they make before God and Man.
    The man vows to love his wife as Good loves the church. That statement/vow is very weighty but people don't understand it. It is the man's duty to love his wife..infact Loving his wife comes before the wife submitting and respecting her husband.
    I don't care what might have transpired between them, but the husband has failed in his duties as a man. You don't love someone and keep malice with them. You don't love someone and watch her carry a pregnancy to full term and go through post partum by herself. Fawole you have failed as a man!!!
    May God help you retrace your steps

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  51. One interview too many i must say. i am not against her granting interviews. she can grant interviews that doesn't suggest her ex husband is evil while she is the saint. by the way i have proof that Yvonne really messed up. abounce may not speak up now because of the challenges he's faced with but in the future you all will hear the gist.

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    1. Ode, how many interviews has she granted?

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    2. How please? agreed she messed up, cheated or whatever you about to accuse her with but you dont abandone a woman while pregnant! Its unfair, the child is yours so regardless of how you feel it compassionate to reach out, help her through the preganancy and then decide what to do afterward(DNA exists for a reason).People dont understand that you can love someone and still leave them, being good at heart is beyond that.

      Going through pregancy feeling like a spouse was unsupportive is almost unforgivable. Its something you will never forget. She did not bash him on the interview she said she made mistakes and all,people are questioning paternity so she felt a need to respond hence this interview. She expected him to play the father role to his unborn child regardless. Thats his son and thats what a man with compassion in his heart will do.

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  52. Marriage is for adults not selfish babies. Keep malice for 3 weeks???? I have never kept malice with anyone not to talk of my husband. We argue and the next moment we move on to other things. Life is too short to be petty. Some people even go as far as keeping scores, is that marriage??? I am sure one of the 2 parties is from a dysfunctional family if not both. They must no have had good role model marriages to learn from. May you both shove your egos and seat down to talk sensibly. This can be fixed if you both desire it so

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  53. What do you expect from someone that kept malice with his mother till death?? Abounce is prick

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  54. Bimbo Akintola wehdone....aunty that i know that looks very much like bimbo wehdone to you too....it seems people that look like you people have mastered the craft of meddling abi na snatching i go call am. Yvonne if he hasn't messed up too much better take your man and leave foolish women to their miserable lives.

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  55. I see people taking sides already after hearing one side of a story. When will you people ever learn??? Smh

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  56. I see people taking sides already after hearing one side of a story. When will you people ever learn??? Smh

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  57. World people!You people will not make me fear marriage o,i will marry and mine will work out beautifully.I don't understand how you'll see couple dating and happy with so much love and peace then Gbam! After marriage you'll start hearing all type of irritating stories.Wer did all the love and understanding vanish to? How can husband and wife not talk 4 three weeks in the same roof? Is the devil that powerful? Marital vows and love doesn't mean anything again or how? I'm so pissed!

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