STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
WHEN YOUR FRIEND HITS ON YOUR HUBBY
Please Stella and bvs pls you people should help ans this questions.
Is it right for your friend to call your husband behind your back? I have this friend that has been calling my husband oh. She would call and just say she wants to know how he his hmmmm.
Hubby always tells me when it happens. Just yesterday, hubby and I where hosting,when her call came in. He now answered and kept on speaker. Na so my so called friend ask where he was now.if he was back to land. He said yes oh,that's why she can reach him.
He asked her when last she saw me,she said last week. Meanwhile i have not set my eyes or heard from her this year. Next was she saying all sorts,and said she's been asking him to take her out,but he is doing as if he does not understand. After all that she now said she needs 250 to 500k for something urgently.
Hubby told her sorry oh,that he just finished paying fees and my sons excursion trip abroad so him sef dey find money to borrow. She now said okay,but she still wants a date. This my friend is married oh,to my brothers best friend. And i know her hubby well.
Hubby told her sorry oh,that he just finished paying fees and my sons excursion trip abroad so him sef dey find money to borrow. She now said okay,but she still wants a date. This my friend is married oh,to my brothers best friend. And i know her hubby well.
I just weak. Yes my hubby is the jovial type that is very approachable.
Should i confront her,or should help hubby set the date and expose her on the date?
*How did she get his phone number?Hmmm you must have told her a lot about him to get him interested......
Na wah...
Let him plan to meet her and then when they meet,you walk in on them at the Restaurant or where ever...LOL.
It would be interesting watching her trying to explain and in shock.....
She wont let him rest until she gets him so you might as well burst her game!!
Please come back and gist us what happened oh....you hear?
What a friend! Please plan the daye with your hubby and walk in on them. Shameless woman.
ReplyDeleteAm the poster,and no did not give her my hubby's no. What i did,was to give her hubby's access card to our club,while i had mine,since hubby is not always around,and she could take her children to use the facility without always waiting for me. His no is on the card. I guess that was where she got it from. No and don't tell her things oh,she hot most of her info from my brother. And she's been to my house several times. And met my hubby only once,when we took my 2nd son for common entrance examination.
DeletePoster you can have your husband record their conversation. Just like she was saying she'd still want a date, your husband can feign ignorance, asking her to be more specific and explicit, pushing her buttons while calling her by her name so, when it's later played to her, she wouldn't be able to deny it.
DeleteIf I were in your shoes, After playing it to her, I'd threaten to pay her husband a visit and she should know what that means...
poster collect the club access card back from her,my dad is the only one I have ever given my Hubby's complimentary card,no weapon formed against your dh and your marriage shall prosper,don't keep calm,act fast,I hope she doesn't go African insurance on your hubby.
DeleteDear poster, pls don't sweat too much. Let your brother know what is going on. Set up a date between her and your husband, then you walk in on them with your brother. That way, she shld get it that a fire alarm may ring in her home. Enjoy the date with them while she gets your subtle message and withdraw the card from her.
DeleteThat is a clear message sent, if she further presses, then her husband should listen to played recorded phone conversation of her call to your husband while you and your husband pay them a visit. Some battles are just cheap. Thank God your husband is open about it.
Your husband should shut whatever it is this thing is DOWN.
ReplyDeleteShe is obviously looking for some fun or playing a game. You have the evidence at least you heard her say these things. He should stop taking her calls. Smart phones can have one particular number screened, her call would never come in and if she devices another plan by using another husband then let her be told to step away.
If I were you after that call I’d call her up and ask her why she said we saw last week when it wasn’t true. She needs to know that your husband tells you about her calls.
Hubby has blocked her line after that. She went as far as adding him on social media. My hubby is hardly around, work takes him out alot. This is the only year,he has even spent 4monthe straight without travelling.
DeleteSimples#inalexanderorlovsvoice#.
DeleteWhy go to all the trouble of setting her up. Just give her a call and let her know you listened on her conversation with your husband and just tell her off.
U lucky o. My husband go follow am sharp sharp. I no know which kind man I marry.
DeleteLMAO@anon17:14,kpelle😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂,it is well,how do you cope?does he use protection with them?nawaoo.
DeleteAnonymous 17:14 same with my hubby o, he will just follow her sharperly and fuck the hell out of her. God will help us. Poster I thank God for the kind of hubby you have o. Just call that your evil friend and let her know that you are aware of her advances to your husband and warn her seriously to stay clear
DeleteThat your friend no get shame at all
ReplyDeleteHelp your hubby to set the date and expose her their
Help your husband bust her. Cos if your husband busts her alone, she still won't stop.
DeleteNdi oshi amu
Sic spanner
DeleteDear Arab Money, you dey THERE dey expose ya grammar somersault eh?
Ajuju n' ese okwu?
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Delete*there*
DeleteAnon sic no vex abeg na mistake 😁
Plan the date,where and when, then burst them and snap or pretend to video, then cause a little scene and embarrass her.
Delete@Arab Money
DeleteHow I go vex kwanu?
You no see say I just dey laugh up THERE?
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😂🤣😂😂😂anon 15:18
DeleteYou killed me @ ndi oshi amu 😂😂😂😂
Is it everything that you ask on a blog?
ReplyDeleteDon't you know how to put your friend in check.
Be here asking Jamb questions when you could have stopped this a long time.
Better wake up.
Poster, what your hubby should have done when she called and put it on speaker was to let u say 'hi' to her after he asked her when last she saw u and she lied. That singular act makes her intention crystal clear.
DeleteIf hubby had given u the phone to say hello to her, it tells her that you know and will make her stop flirting with your hubby. She keeps calling because ur hubby is indulging her and she thinks u don't know, so somehow it encourages her to keep calling because she thinks probably your hubby feels the same way and will come around soon enough.
No long talks. She needs to know that u are very aware. It shows her that ur hubby isn't interested like she thought. So next time she calls, please say hi.
This is spot on!!!
DeleteThere’s a way your husband will want talk to her and she’ll get the message.
Don’t play games, let her know you know.
Devil works in mysterious ways
End time frenemies.
ReplyDeleteThey're every where .
DeleteWhat a shame.
Things are happening o
DeleteI have a friend like that o,she has this massive crush on my husband. She knows I don't play when it comes to my husband,like I have serious limits as long as it has to do with my husband so she tries so hard to hide her crush but it still shows.
Delete17:44, pls dispose of that friend. Haba!
DeleteI've had this same experience,
ReplyDeletePeople are not loyal these days only a few are trustworthy ,I learnt a valuable lesson " to be discreet *
You can either Express your disdain or cut her off completely.
I don't agree on setting her up on a date with your hubby,call her asap and ask,why she's always calling your hubby,and also and asking him for money,and I hope you know she desperately wants him and will do everything to get him,I hope she won't accuse your hubby of asking her out when you confront her.
DeleteMe, I still say you set her up! And make sure you burst them on a date or something with recordings of your own. She seems like the desperately slutty type who has her eyes on your husband and would go to any lengths to get him. Calling her alone with not deter her. She’ll just start avoiding you and start going after your man full-force since you guys are no longer close. Burst her with evidence, make a little scene, make her feel humiliated but also realize that your hubby was in on it. Nothing can scream “I’m not into you” more that that. The shame and humiliation of that moment will not let her come near your hubby again. And the knowledge that you could use the video to further shame her or show it to her hubby. Dirty women who have decided that olosho is their calling. Treat her f-up and go even farther if she doesn’t pedal down. Nonesense!
DeleteANG see full course meal. LOL
ReplyDeleteCan you imagine the audacity?!
You and ur husband should set her up via a date already. She’d be shocked outta her hoeing pants😌
The lady is married so Fan and ANG will be silent on this. Their target na single girls.
Delete@16:13
DeleteAbeg 🙏 you in the name of God, make you no dey bring (Pharisee) Fan into this matter
I no get target, na SIN, aru, mpu, fork, wickedness, snatching wey Naija girls -married (hoes) and unmarried,
the shoot wey them dey shoot babies, na dat one I dey yarn. If you be Pharisee, na im be say,
you don invite me be dat inugo?
Lmao
DeleteFan and ANG wouldn't talk much
Lol... Stellz, ur idea is the real deal.. This should be fun, try it, Poster...
ReplyDeleteI respect ur hubby, honestly. I hope he carries on this way with every other lady out there, & not just because this one is ur friend.. Burst her game noni, U and hubby would even bond better carrying out such game on an intruder, i support 100%!
Very Reasonable Man
DeleteWhen you invited rat that there is always meat in the house why won't the rat get interested.
ReplyDeleteNo need con fronting her, when she calls your horseband and he is with you, let it be on speaker and so join in the conversation. From there tell her, your husband always put the phone on speaker with you around.
If she no stop, my dear you are on your own. You gave her your husband number because i dont think your husband will mistakenly give his number to her.
Since you love your husband, do everything to have him forevere
Yori yori it's not always the case you know. I once cut a friend off because I went inside the house, came back to the sitting room only to find her with my searching for contacts.
DeleteSo, it's very possible she didn't give him her husband's number, she might have deviced other means of getting it.
Exactly @Mama Mia. It happened to me too and I confronted her then cut her off
DeleteMake una de try read story before gisting,the lady said her hubby's phone number is on the club card she gave the friend n she's sure her friend got her hubby's number from there lol..if na me,as phone de speaker,I will just talk after she asked for a date n the money oo,I gat no chills for later or any set up rubbish!!!
DeleteThey get the numbers by fiddling with your phone. Once the Naija girls use
ReplyDeleteyour phone to make a call, them go do them magic, gum all the relevant numbers.
No be so one open her ohu rere ere wey dey drip water snap photos come
forward am to my darling husband and he come dey show me, dey forward am to my phone?
I don talk am tey tey, a lot of ladies here are married hoes, if you no like the hoe, replace am with cutlass cos na so them go cut ya marriage to pieces.
Any little chance, a lot of married (side)chicks here will offload them husbands; no be so?🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔
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Ajuju ajuoo.
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Bia ANG, U were missing in action last night on the BEP, where went U?. I dont think the friend stole the number from her friend's phone, poster would have mentioned it. From my understanding, i think they were all friends before hubby married one. Either way, that friendship is dead mahn!
DeleteYour husband steady collecting nude pics,huh.. Interesting! ☻☻
DeleteIs it a big deal to have a friend's hubby's number. My friend's husbands became my friend too and we call each other, she's there sometimes and sometimes she's not. I call my friend more tho. I don't consider that a big deal.
Delete@anon 15:12 you are so right about people fiddling through contacts once you give them your phone to make a call. My sis gave her roommate her phone to make a call, when the roommate returned the phone,she said "na wa o, so you did not even save your father's no" my sis was shocked into confusion then scolded her asking how did she know if she didn't go through her contacts and how is it her biz. She did not need to shout she only concluded in her mind the girl is double dangerous and continued to maintain her lane.
DeletePoster you have been adviced by Stella..make sure you set up a date with your hubby and don't just walk out on her o ask her to explain herself and rebuke her with evidence. So she won't go home and be thinking she was almost caught and then continue her nonsense.
Ada.
@15:47
DeleteI been take time off to recover from the Sunday Chronicle where
that Naija girl been load her gun come write sdk to give her (conscience)
license to shoot. If you read my tori that day, I weep well well. I hope
say that sisi never shoot those babies (and possibly herself)?.🙏🙏
@Perxian
That "steady" [sic] wey you been write there, na only you waka come o
You don dey STEADILY dey misinterpret my truthful yarns. Make you STEADILY
repent of that ya misinterpretation inugo?
Ajuju?
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After reading anon 15:17's commment, let me edit my opinion. You did not do bad for not talking to her the day she called your hubby. It gave her the chance to implicate herself leaving no chance for exonoration. Confront her through a call like Doppelganger said (preferably) or you set up the date. Either way, don't go sleeping after, cos the tendency for her to go and recharge high.
DeleteAda.
ANG stop being MIA
DeleteBiko
Now it's not the singles but the married ones. Take to Stella's advice
ReplyDeleteSo she is YOUR friend, but you have not heard from her all year and she only sees fit to contact your husband..very interesting. You can certainly do as Stella says, but I feel you should approach her husband and tell him you are concerned that the devil may have entered his household and to take his family's spiritual life serious. You do not have to tell him the specifics, just that she is behaving out of character and both you and your husband are concerned.
ReplyDeleteLol at Stella’s advice. I think you should confront her.
ReplyDeleteLol...what a friend, you have hyped your husband now she's interested.
ReplyDeleteYour husband should stop indulging her else one day he might just be tempted.
BTW, she's not your friend.
Again you can casually give her own husband a stylish hint of what his wife is up to u know, play dirty, she will sit up...😁😁
@Blackey
DeleteYou wan make she "play dirty" with (marriage) bed-breakers?
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Wetin this sisi go do na to record the conversation,
ReplyDeleteforward am to the girl from her phone.
For me, because na photos, we simply forwarded the
thing to our family lawyer and the girl begin beg
lawyer and us make we delete am. If she sees me coming
na tremble she dey tremble.
She no dey greet me without adding "madam", she know say
I fit launch her "porno business" if I wish.
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Poster follow Stella's advice at your own risk. If I were you, I would have spoken to her when she was on the phone with my man and tell him I'm aware and not happy about it so she should desist from it. No need confronting her face to face especially when you guys are not alone. She might be ashamed then get angry and plan a revenge hence taking you unaware. If you just tell him on your husband's phone when both of you are there, she will know you both are a team and avoid you forever.
ReplyDeleteGbam. Exactly my thoughts.
DeleteDoing that would have saved her the stress of this chronicle.
DeleteCorrect, you should have spoken to her on the phone as the conversation was going on with your husband just to let her know she has no chance
DeleteExactly my thoughts,she would have spoke out immediately her friend asked for a date n money!haba!!no need for setting up any fake friend oo,I gat no chills for that!!If she has spoken up,her friend would know that her game is up..
DeleteNawa oo, she's even putting ideas by asking for that money. She knows most men when they give u money they would want sex...hmm date ko, calendar ni
ReplyDeleteNo need setting up a date. Please Stop them from speaking to each other. That lady (let me not call her your friend) want to get involved with your husband. Somebody that have not visited you not even once this year is busy calling your husband. Tomorrow now she will tell your husband one big lie about you. She is not a friend rather a gold digger and a home Breaker. Cheers. It will surely end in praise
ReplyDeleteThis is serious. Thank God you have a good hubby that told you what is happening... Help burst her bubbles oh.
ReplyDeleteMe I don't trust men, because some of them exposes a lady when they are tired of the relationship. Don't waste time waiting for any meeting, call her immediately and inform her of your knowledge of everything. Tell her to stay clear of your husband otherwise you will expose her.Delay might be dangerous.
ReplyDeleteshe is an endtime friend and Nikita,homewrecker.omo wreck ur friendship wit her n burst d Nikita hard like holygost fire.show no mercy.🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha. Oya share yours. We are all learning
DeleteHow did she get his number? if na me when she call dey talk those rubbish na then i go talk. Say madam wats all these, if you try this again i will tell your husband. That is why i dont tell friends anything, even as i am single.
ReplyDeleteFrenemy alert! Your hubby should set up d date with her(to your knowledge) and u show up to dine with them..it will be so much fun.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile I just read yesterday's BEP, so nobody wants to go on a date with me? *Sobs*
Ur husband should have even shut this down a long time ago. But as it is now...have a talk with her.
ReplyDeleteThis is the reason I said i do not like over familiarity with my friends relationships,all those exchange of num is not necessary for Christ sake. I have friends I can call sisters but I know where my boundary ends.I can always ask after them from my friend and do all the gisting but it ends there.Madam confront this longer throat friend of yours,Infact stylishly take her phone and delete your husband's num and delete her num from his phone.stay the hell away from that woman before she kills you for freebies NAWAoooo ooooo Friendnemies.
ReplyDeleteDeleting the number might not solve the problem. I will just edit d number and do finishing touches.
DeleteThere's no time to play CIA or FBI games with her. Call her in front of your husband and nicely put her in her place. You screwed up by not collecting the phone from hubby on that day. You also need to be prayerful. Wake up at night and pray. Anoint your husbands belongings. Someone that bold has something that she is relying on. Please do not delay. If I were you I would call her right now. This is a 1 minute conversation and before you know it, it's over. Make it stop NOW.
ReplyDeleteThat your so called friend has broken the 'girl code' never ever flirt with your friend's man. You should have confronted her on the phone that day to let her know your hubby doesn't do hide and seek with women. Anyways, go ahead, tell her you are aware of her plans and if she doesn't stop her game plan, you will tell her hubby or embarrass her. She's a frenemy. Be ready to 'fight' dirty.
ReplyDeleteOr ask for money from your friend's husband or boyfriend
DeleteMy dear I had a roomie in college back in 100leve that stOle a toaster's phone num from my phone cause i took her like sister and kept gisting her how he works with shell bla bla the one that burst her bubbles was when I turned down his offer to fly me over just see him,my naive self was telling her every every,babe stole the num and the rest is history.
ReplyDeleteSince then I choose my fiends carefully,I can't shout.
Now I don't know the life you lived before meeting your husband and how you became friends with this kind of person. Is she trying to retaliate for something you did to her or is this some kind of karmic situation? Did they ever have any history together? You may need to dig deeper and I am saying this because I have seen a lot of unbelievable things happen in this our small world.
ReplyDeleteANG and FAN EMMANUEL can field this one as this is their major.
ReplyDeleteI will see myself outta this post. 🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️
Abeg make una no dey join me with Pharisee Fan wey de hail fornication
DeleteFan dey hail small girl wey abandon them mama/papa go live with boy wey
never pay them bride price.🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
Your husband fucked up. He should have told her right there and then that my wife wants to say hello to you, before giving her an opportunity to protest, you should have just said hello to her. That way, she will know you are aware that she is hitting on your husband and that he is not interested.
ReplyDeleteLet us all not overestimate our strength and expose ourselves to harm, tell him to block her number and stop being friendly with her. Affairs have been born out of these kinds of interactions, don't give room to the devil in any way.
Madam poster go ahead and treat her 'fuck up' . call her immediately and warn her. Give her all the details you know from the phone conversation and other calls. Nne don't allow your hubby to get tempted biko.that is how small small cray fish I have been nice to kept calling my hubby to request for money, money they were willing to pay in kind, some even have the guts to be typing 'I love you' to him..fear all this small small cockroaches o..anyway next time they try it, I will use 'raid' on them.
ReplyDeleteFor me o, No need to be nice and try setting up a meeting as interesting as it might sound. I like addressing things head on, some issues doesn’t need soft pedaling. Your husband should pick the call and put it on speaker, when she’s done saying all she has to say the he should tell her that you are here o and have you say hello to her. I think that will give you all you need. Make sure you record her too. Nonsense!
ReplyDeletePoster don't set her up coz the connection too long abeg. From ur bro to his best friend. Just shut it Down once and for all. Let her know you know about her calls and should come through you for anything and not your hubby. If after confronting her she decides to stay away, better sef...
ReplyDeletehmmmmmmmmmm nnkan nbe.
ReplyDeleteThis one no be friend again ooooooooo.
Well since your husband is still around, call her your husband phone with him beside you, your husband should do the greeting and from there you voice out and warn her severally to desist else ...... stella advice is good too but been an open environment, i will not really subscribe to that to avoid the 3 of you been embarrassed. ..
Dear Poster, it is not enough that your husband has blocked her number, I don’t know why some men find it difficult to be assertive when the situation necessitates it. He should shut this down VERBALLY AND FIRMLY. He should let her know that he is not down for such nonsense, that is the only way you can let a desperate person know that you are not ready to entertain such thoughts/ discussion. Only blocking her is like running away from the discussion, he should shut it down, then proceed to block.
ReplyDeleteAs for you, I think you should also talk to the lady, better if you do that with your husband in the line as well. The only reason I suggest this is since your husband has told you this, you can follow up by confronting her on the phone and even getting your husband to tell her off on the phone as well. This will also ensure (in your own little way) that your husband tells her off, because some men as diplomatic as your husband will keep romancing the issue until it graduates to an extra marital affair, by then all you will hear is ‘I don’t know what came over me’��
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DeleteSpot on!
DeleteIf your husband is still around, you can have him call her in your presence and say, I told my wife you called and she wants to say hello that you haven't seen in ages (contrary to what she said) There and then tell her all you know and calmly but firmly warn her to back off. Tell her to stop asking your husband for money, since you don't ask hers and tell her never to call you or him.
ReplyDeleteWhen people know that a couple is a team and that whatever is said to one, is said to another, people will tread with caution. The reason she is still calling your husband is because she feels he hasn't told you, she believes there is a chance and she perhaps has some illusions that your husband might be attracted to her. Why else would she keep calling, asking for dates and ridiculous sums.
You must put her down in the presence of your husband and with his support. I don't even want them being friendly. Before one day, she will call when he is fighting with you or when he is in a bad mood and she will turn to a shoulder to lean on and he a dick to ride on.
Also tell your brother what is going on, so that he will stop tellibg her about your affairs, caution him to stop, he can even take a step further to warn her, she need to know that this is serious and that your man is off limits
She needs to know she will be bitten if she plays with what's yours.
Whatever you do, just be sure their communication is cut off for good.
Don't go digging like someone suggested, just make sure she knows hubby hides nothing from you and is not in the least interested.
She lost every right to be respected and considered by you, the very moment she began hitting on your husband. That's a no no.
Retrieve your card, or have the club take it from her on her next visit to the club, don't meet her physically.
Sense will not kill you
DeleteI fully concur with this.
DeletePleas use your husband’s phone to call her. Tell her the last time she called you were hosting and couldn’t talk but were privy to the conversation as your husband expected she’d want to talk with you also and put it on speaker. Tell her to stop calling your husband thenceforth.
ReplyDeletePlease narrate the whole story as you have written it to your brother also and let things play out. Don’t give any room for setting up any dates, this is not a movie and not scripted. Anything can happen.
I would advise poster to be careful and handle the issue with wisdom. I suggest you call the lady for a discussion and hear her own part of the story not confront or accuse her. A friend's husband recorded the phone conversation she had with one young lady she met through the wife in which she incriminated herself with sex and money talks. He played it for his wife and accused the young lady of hitting on him. The wife now went and confronted the girl, created a big scene in a bid to embarrass the girl. She later realized they were actually sleeping together for years but when the girl started making outrageous demands because she saw the way the man was dolling out money to his other concubines, the man got tired of it all. The girl now started blackmailing him that she would tell his wife about his sexcapades so the man decided to be the smarter one. When I listened to the recording, a sensible person would know that the man just carefully goaded the girl to implicate herself. So poster, be careful how you handle this cos you might discover so many unpalatable things. Sorry for typos
ReplyDeleteHmm... food for thought.
DeleteMy dear, don't wast time at all. Call that woman and tell her your husband told you she calls him all the time. Let her know you are not happy she calls your husband and should desist from doing so from now on. You can call her in front of your hubby and then let your hubby tell her , aunty you don hear my madam, abeg no dey call me. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteMy friend has my hubby's number and my hubby has hers. I don't stay in the same as hubby so it's good she has the contact of my close friend just in case. My friend is married too. My friend doesn't go around calling my hubby's number. She won't even dare it.
ReplyDeleteMy dear you have to put a stop to that nonsense now before it grows into something else.
In my opinion,set the date and go with him.By the time she sees you there,shame no go gree her,e go come remain wetin she wan talk,and what she wanna see your husband for..
ReplyDeleteYour husband sef! He should have warned her sternly
ReplyDeleteSame thing happened in my church recently between choir members who used to close friends.
Her husband played along, requested for her nudes and recorded conversations.The wife went to meet her and showed her everything. she warned her and threaten to show her husband if she calls her man ever again.
Dear poster, there is no need setting her up. Don't give her that much importance. Your husband needs to stop indulging her by letting her know he isn't comfortable with calls and be stern with it. And that whenever she needs anything she should go through you he cant do anything without your knowing. keep your home and most especially keep your peace. she is not worth it. pls keep her at arm's length. No need creating a scene.
ReplyDeleteDon't bother setting her up, use your wisely. Just call her and let her know you're aware of her games and she should desist from it.
ReplyDeleteThat's enough.
Dear poster, please do not bother setting up any date, ask your husband to shut her down, if she persists get involved and let her know you know but do this as peacefully as possible. May God bless your home.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand where all your comments are coming from. Is the man in question a baby? Oh, will she be following him everywhere to handle advances from women? Don't women get advances from Hubby's friends too? Do they set up a committee to handle them? For crying out loud, she's not even your close friend like that. Why can't the man just call her bluff? Why leading her on cos for me that's what he's doing. I'm disappointed in your advise Stella. Why chopping my Stella?!
ReplyDeleteNo need to set any trap. Invite her and her husband over for dinner and during dinner ask her to stop asking your husband for money. It has to happen with 4 of you present so as to avoid long stories
ReplyDeleteI had a friend who did this. Started calling my husband to come visit him when I was put of town. My husband stopped picking her calls and warned his security not to allow her into our compound. That was how she stopped. Poster, your husband can end it by ending those calls.
ReplyDeleteHian... can you call her husband already.... which one is set her up, tell your brother... yadi yada.... call her husband and report her....
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