This is serious!!!
I love my husband so much, but something happened.
My husband and I did not really date, he was abroad at the time and we communicated mostly via phone calls and chat etc. I didn't have much physical contact with him before wedding, infact I barely saw him - only when he came to Nigeria. On our trad day, we had our first s#x and to be honest it I was not happy. His d#ck is extremely small as in small.
I cried so much that day and he apparently noticed my disappointment.
But I have adjusted overtime. He is a very good father to our kids and a very good husband to me. Infact we have hardly quarrelled. he is a very peaceful man. A day before Easter, we had a minor quarrel and I used his small d#ck to insult him for the first time. I have never seen my husband cry before that day, he was so sad. He took his keys and stormed out of the house, only to come back 2 weeks later and say he wants a divorce.
I am really sad about this. I really do love this man and his small d#ck is really not a problem again. i have been begging him and he is adamant.please what do I do. I know I shouldn't have run my mouth and I am truly sorry.
*The fastest way to Kill a man is to talk down on the size of his d#ck or down rate his performance in bed.......You have killed his self confidence my dear and even if he forgives you,the Marriage will never be the same....
You used your mouth to destroy everything you built over the years.......Small d#ck,small d#ck,who big d#ck epp?
Whatever you do,DO NOT bring in a third party into this cos if he knows you have told someone else eh,he will even walk away without the divorce.....please shut your big mouth and continue begging..pet him and show him a lot of love and hopefully this too shall pass.....
And bridle your tongue woman!
Good luck!!!
You used your mouth to destroy everything you built over the years.......Small d#ck,small d#ck,who big d#ck epp?
Whatever you do,DO NOT bring in a third party into this cos if he knows you have told someone else eh,he will even walk away without the divorce.....please shut your big mouth and continue begging..pet him and show him a lot of love and hopefully this too shall pass.....
And bridle your tongue woman!
Good luck!!!
He already knows he has a small private but you had to remind him. God help your marriage.
ReplyDeleteThe problem with this poster is social media effect. The rubbish people say on this social media is too much. More than half of them can't even take their advice/rant. Small dick small dick, but he's a good man and good father and u love him. Look at u now. My Hubby's own is big but no money. I work my ass off but the money coming is small. But he's a good man. A good father too. I love him. He still gives me butterflies in my stomach. I try my best to manage him like that in love. Go and mend your home madam. See where blokos has put you.
DeleteThis is serious, pls keep begging. God help you
DeleteHis small dick is no problem again 😊
DeleteWicked woman! Why damage his ego like that? You've lost a good man. If I'm your husband, I won't even forgive you
DeleteStart preparing for divorce proceedings 😎
I'm so hurt. Anon 15.34, you are correct. Spill over from social media insults on men who have no control over their size.
DeleteJesus.
Poster, you did not see something else to talk about? You have already ridiculed him. Even if he forgives the love will diminish.
DeleteMadam you are only crying because he has money. If na poor man now na happy you go dey happy. If he has big dick you complain we are insatiable always be contented. Advice to both male and female bv
Deletekeep asking for forgiveness, that's all you can do, you took a good man for granted.
Deleteyou can also call your pastor to beg him
Call pastor in this kind of sensitive issues, I so do NOT recommend. Do you know what pastor is facing in his own home? Who should pastors call? Resolve issues wihout a third party biko.
DeleteCall pastor 4 wetin? Pls dont do that. Pastor na God? Uve ridiculed him enough dont go adding salt to his injury. Take Stella's advice and kp trying.
DeleteI believe his reaction now is not only about the small dick you called him. he probably has been noticing your diassapoint in the small size thing and when you said it out. your cup was filled up
Delete. madam DO NOT INVOLVE ANYONE.KEEP BEGGING AND BEGGING. do things that makes him happy, betterstill things you know will make him happy. till he sees that you re truly sorry.. am sure there re girls out there that will not mind his small 🥒
Wetin Pastor wan come do? Preach abi kini?
DeleteTake Sdk's advice and tape your mouth if he ever forgives you .
You no do well at all.
It's well, keep begging him, he will forgive you... I'm feeling so sad right now. . I just hope he forgives you
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm@ Sonia?????????
Deletena blog visitors put this woman for trouble, when y'all come here to abuse small dicked men, you dont know that some people take it to heart abi, now see where it has landed this one, pls let's be mindful of d things we say on social media so we dont lead people astray.
DeleteEven me, am angry with this poster.
DeleteSonia, I believe your head is turninonisown... She has ruined her marriage. Even if he forgives her, he will never sleep with her again. Stupid woman
DeleteThis is domestic violence against men, you should be sued for it.
Deletelolzzzz @ domestic violence
DeleteAnon 16:13... You are very correct.if o my we understand the effects of our words on people's heart. We will mind what we say her.
DeletePoster keep begging....Hes hurt. He will forgive you. Don't ever allow the devil to tell you that he's doing shakara for you ooo!
SDK, your advice is good enough
ReplyDeleteMadam u are not sorry u called him small dick. You are just sorry he reacted the way he has. Your chronicle shows you have never been ok with it and es, you will never be ok with it and have long been brewing this insult in your head so you can slap him with it the very first opportunity you get.
DeleteTo be sincere with you...He is gone! Keep praying for the strength to cope because it's not healthy for the man to come back and stay married to a woman he habours growing hate for. Just accept whatever he decides with good faith and peacefully. Then pray God's mercy finds you later either by another husband or time healed relationship. Whatever comes out of it, take it and handle with courage. Pray o.
Meanwhile my Alhaji neighbour that owns our estate was illvthe other night and had to be rushed to the hospital covered with just a piece of wrapper. His is smaller than my little finger but he is rich, has 4 wives and 11 children.
DeleteSo those say I g he will come back cos he will be too ashamed to let another woman see it is a big lie.
Dick size is not the most important thing in marriage.
Poster just take whatever he dishes you peacefully and with dignity.
My dear not very big d**k but aleast moderate is ok. My Hubby's dick is small but I overlooked it because he is providing for me and my kids, he cheated once and I insulted him badly, I even told him to his face that he cheated with his tiny dick, and he didn't say a word cos he knew he fucked up.
DeleteAnd that was the only thing you could notice in such a critical time? Na wa!
DeleteHa! Anony18.13 say what?! Lol...
DeleteYour husband no go fit vex as n.a. him first find trouble.
I fear you.
🤣🤣 oh my! You blog people are so funny, I can't stop laughing
DeleteMadam what you did is wrong. It shows that you have not totally accepted the size of his dick. That said, I will advise ladies to 'test' before marriage. I pray he forgives you. May God bring peace and love back in your marriage. Cheer up, it will definitely end in praise. Good luck
ReplyDeleteIn the same paragraph where you're advocating fornication is where you're calling God with your chest. Smh.
DeleteIt does not mean she hasn't totally accepted. We all say hurtful things when we are angry.
DeleteMadam, like Stella said don't ever bring in a third party into this even your parents. Keep pleading with him.
Ndi Pharisees mixing God and fornication?😒😒😒
DeleteLmaoo! Anons are the best, mahn. 😂😂😂
DeleteBlessed Princess's comment typifies the Nigerian lack of fear of God today. God and sin are mixed up interchangeably and sinning is wihout remorse because it's not even seen as bad whilst yet calling God. Politicians, fornicators, bribe givers and takers call God's name without blinking. It's a matter of time, the sheep will be separated from the goats.
DeleteB.P...i ain't understand your comment Atimes. Are you in the Lord's camp or outside His camp. You join many things together 😏😏🤔
DeleteWonders shall never end.. U use small dick abuse ur hubby? Too bad, no matter what keep begging and don't involve third party wet go know say d thing small.
ReplyDeletePlease stop begging that man you don’t deserve him!! Women like this are the reason most men want virgins. Foolish woman. Pack you load and go look for a big dicked man then. Na today? You know how many big dicks wey we don see but we’d rather settle for a peaceful man than a dog with a big dick. please just get out. Next chronicle!!
DeletePut yourself in his shoes..if he abused you that you were too wide for his size, you go happy?
ReplyDeletePenis small but he banged u n got u pregnant.
Even if he forgives u, he won't forget, d mere thought of him sleeping with u again will make him lose erection fast cos your tohtoh will be a visible reminder that he has a small peepee.
As u insulted his ego na, wetin u gain?
Oh sharap and get down from the high horse! Getting pregnant is not by the size of the penis.
DeleteApart from penis, you've never said something hurtful to someone eeh?
This anonymous telling her to get down from her high horse for telling her the truth?
DeleteBB said the truth. Many marriages exist with big dick that keeps shooting blank. And know it that as much as all of us get angry, some of us recognise limit. We address the issue and not the person.
A properly worn condom would've saved d planet from 15:27.
DeleteYikes...your IQ is below par.
Oh women! God help us.
ReplyDeleteI dont know why it surprises me when women talk about the size of a man's penis .
DeleteAnon, they have damages themselves by being with multiple men.
DeleteThe same way it surprise women when men take about booty and breast sizes😏
Delete*talk*
DeleteLet’s even assume it was in the heat of the moment you said it, you couldn’t retract or apologize? You allowed two weeks go by giving him enough time to realize he doesn’t deserve to be with a verbal abusive.
ReplyDeleteImagine, if during an argument he used stuff he knows you’re insecure about to insult you?
Also, all this proclamation of love and grieve is because he didn’t react the way you would have wanted. You wanted to break him and that’s exactly what you did but you weren’t expecting it to blow up in your face. Honestly, I don’t think you are happy with his small dick situation and I doubt it’s best to keep playing along because you don’t want a “divorce”. Plead with him and keep pleading, if he rescinds his decision then good or else you better gbe body e out of his life because after the first taste you should have said no to the rest of the wedding if small dick was what you couldn’t live with.
You are indeed a sage!
DeleteShe deserves what is coming her way isn't this body shaming ?
DeleteSome things are better left unsaid but then again what do you expect from a woman that cried in disappointment from the inception.
If I were that man I'd have called it off right there.
I dont pity her.
You don dey manage the 🥕 and crying when 🥕 wan Waka, abeeg shift and face front let babes show him some love. You don't know what you have till you loose it, be looking for cassava abi cucumber there. Ajo onu
ReplyDeleteIn other words, Bobo has been looking for way to Waka to babe we Sabi love him 🥕 like that.
He needed som1 in his life that appreciates his gbola size the way it was naturally. But you proved you don't.. I honestly don't know the advice to give this poster.. U have ruined u guys sex life...
DeleteHaaa... Obviously he has been mocked with that line before and you opened up an unhealed wound. Kai, eeya, just keep begging and praying.
ReplyDeleteHe must have said something that pushed her to say her own.
DeleteOya na let him go to court and tell them the reason he wants to divorce his wife,let's see who shame will catch. Nonsensical nonsense
I agree Fan. Yes she crushed his ego and man pride but its nothing he can't recover from. Men do worse things to women and we are expected to forgive. Besides Who here hasn't said something they deeply regretted. In a fight, people say things they know will hurt the other person, it doesnt mean its right. Poster work harder at begging him to forgive you and then after a while, give him space and pray for him to heal. Make sure you never use such words on him ever again and learn how to fight fair not fight to the finish. On another note, I'm worried about the emotional state of a man who will ask his wife for a divorce because she called him small dick. Hope this thing has not been brewing in his mind since and he's looking for an excuse.
DeleteFan
DeleteI really pity you .
Fan I don't support this one oh! Mocking a man with his penis size or lack of money are two things a man will hardly ever forget especially when such mockery comes from a woman they love.
DeleteIt's the equivalent of mocking a woman with her inability to give birth when she knows she didn't cause it herself and there's nothing she can do about it.
E go hard gaaan!
SDK ladies can carry trophy for big d#ck search...😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteBig d#ck kor, Ori maalu ni....😏😏
Ha madam! You no just try at all.. All these years you didn't tell him about his small ekia until una quarrel..... just continue begging him o
ReplyDeleteHahaha....ekia...Do u stay in benin?
DeleteThe tongue is very important. That is why there are various verses in the bible that admonishes us to control it.There is nothing as condescending as having a ‘flaw’ and the person u love, deliberately tries to use it to hurt u. That is wat he feels. Hurt. Do you blame him?You have made a mistake,that is human, and from ur writeup u seem sorry. The only thing to do is to beg still...It might take a while but with love for u..he will forgive u. Never berate him
ReplyDeleteNever talk him down..
Bridle ur tongue...all the best poster
But we have read on this blog where several women complain of their husband's insulting them because of widen toto after giving birth to their children ooo, how many of them where seeking for divorce? It's truly a man's world
DeleteANG come and talk sense into this woman ooo
ReplyDeleteSee as you take ya mouth cause problems for yourself?
Lmao the moment I read this Chronicle that was what I typed 😂😂😂
DeleteGo and pray. And continue to beg him. If you tell anyone else, you're on your own. I don't know why you left what you were arguing about to abuse his d*ck. What did you think would happen after you did that? Heaven help you is all that I can tell you.
ReplyDeleteEnough of this blame game. Who knows what he might have told her before she said her own
Delete@fan Emmanuel, don't mind the man.
DeleteHe is using reverse psychology on her. He is dragging the whole situation so that when he finally accepts her back she would never be able to complain about it again. He wants to silence her forever.
He is not a gentle man either. He is only overcompensating so she would overlook his challenge.
Madam, see how you use ya mouth scatter ya marriage. What you did is extremely cruel and mean, especially to a man that has been good to you. There is nothing to do but to keep begging for forgiveness and pray hard to God for help. But just know that your marriage will never be the same.
ReplyDeleteI go dey control my mouth from now on oh!!!
DeleteShe has learnt her lesson naa.What she needs now is solution not condemnation biko
ReplyDeleteNo solution. Let her prepare for divorce
DeleteYea prepare for divorce but if it was a man that told a woman that her vagina is wide, you lots would say it's not enough to divorce. In fact, you guys will advise her to go find a solution to it. Hypocrites.
DeletePoster you have tried begging , it's enough. Like someone said give him space. Stop begging him.
God bless you anon 16.07. Was it not here we read that a man divorced his wife on the wedding day because of the size of her buttocks. He loves it big but the wife's own was small and this man didn't budge. Marriage got cancelled right there.
DeleteThis woman is even a good woman she didn't leave him and continued with the marriage.Do you think if the table were turn and she was in her husband's shoes, he wouldn't bounce? No be men again?
People say things in the heat of an argument and they forgive and move on.The man has an unforgiving spirit.
Poster don't kill yourself. You have apologised what else does he want?. He will come around if truly he has a small private. Don't bother yourself he is not going anywhere. What is the assurance that another woman won't mock him with that or another woman who marries him won't be cheating outside. You are a good woman who made a mistake just like anyone else in the heat of anger. Breathe and calm down.
Who knows maybe he purposefully did the distance relationship thingy to lure her into marriage so as to hide the truth of his private from her till marriage.
Sure I know u are not married.
DeleteWide vagina has a solution. Virinoplasty is less than 100k. Not same with small dick.
DeleteAnon 16.27 you think if this man wasn't working abroad and didn't have money this woman would have stayed with his small preeq?
DeleteTell them. As if she just woke up from sleep and said it. Poster stop begging him,he should be the one begging you for providing a small dick. I personally don't joke with huge dick
DeleteFan Emmanuel that man didn't create his dick himself, God created it DAT way.
Delete@Fan I disagree with you here, he is not the one that provided small dick, he is born with it. So it is not his fault and in anyway, the wife made her choice from the onset. She should have backed out from the beginning
DeleteAll men too would should know a woman didn't create her breast and behind herself...God did.
DeleteNa wah oh!!!
ReplyDeleteMadam Biko stick to Stella's advice, LET HIM NOT KNOW THAT SOMEONE ELSE HAVE HEARD ABOUT THIS ISSUE. Good luck with your begging oh!!
The deed is done, and I know how you feel, but at this point pretend you don't care anymore, he will come around. He doesn't want to risk another woman seeing that small dick. You didn't try at all though
ReplyDeleteIt will shock you. If Tonto's ex could cheat on her despite being 40seconds, e come be because one isn't hung like a porn star? Not every woman wants a man who's big. So if the man finds such a woman, he will marry that woman
DeleteYou know he is a 40 secs man because you were there in the room with Tonto and her husband while they were getting it on abi?
DeleteNot every woman wants it big, yes! But "No woman" I repeat "No woman" wants it "REALLY" small. Thank You.
Anon 16:41, don't make such general statements, some women don't even want sex,some are ok with just finger.
DeleteThis is not even something that you can call people to beg for you. You'd have to tell them what you did and before you know it, everyone knows that his preeq is small.
ReplyDeleteNo other option but a grovelling apology. Don't sha use blackmail like a public display or "I will kill myself, bla bla bla". Just small drama like roll on the ground and sob like those Ghana women that are paid to mourn for people. But don't overdo it before you become a nuisance. Remain on your best behaviour. See, he may even retaliate by cheating on you but he will come around when he will come around.
😁😁😁lmao@ghana women paid to morn..ikwakwa
DeleteHahahahahahaha. .you're very funny...
Delete...Just small drama like roll on the floor?'😂 (that one na big acting already na)...Then remain on your best behavior again?! How?
DeleteI read this more than five times cause I imagined the scenario and I couldn't stop laughing😂😂😂😂😂
The madam should just keep praying to God from now.
Madam, ONLY GOD CAN SAVE YOU NOT DRAMA, ACTING, BEGGING OR PRIDE (proverbs 21:1)
Sure! He will retaliate. Be ready for maybe, a child or two outside just to prove a point to you.
DeleteNa wa for una. Onye nke a si na o a child or two. Na small she talk say the preeq be not impotent. They have kids!!
DeletePoster please it's ok. I fault you for not apologizing immediately, but what has happened has happened. He will not divorce you. Continue to act sorry, sober and subdued.
If he does look at the brighter side, you can now get you a big cassava or even yam sef.
Madam keep begging him,he will forgive you and don't tell anybody about it.
ReplyDeletethe rate at which women Love sex and big dick is alarming.the man is a good man what else do you want.sex na food.now you won use your own hands scatter your marriage.mtchew.
ReplyDeletemechipuonu biko...I'm not a big fan of sex but wouldn't want a small prick. Moderation is key.
DeleteSex is not food but it's still part of package.
15:46 upvote 😁
DeleteWomen are demonic, wayward women are not to be wifed,marry a virgin or go for a divorcee or widow,never marry a sexually exposed lady.
DeleteDont mind them. Now everyone is not nothered about the size.
DeleteWhy did the man keep such a thing from her till marriage since the size does not matter?.
My friend good sex is food!
DeleteFan Emma no bi lie nwannem good sex is strength biko
DeleteHMM NA WA OH. yOU HAVE killed him. You have a bad mouth and you knew the damage it would cause by saying that. You wanted to bruise his ego for a shortwhile but you damaged him.
ReplyDeleteNow he knows his small diccc is a problem to you. He will never enjoy sex with you again knowingly fully well he does not satisfy you.
She doesn't know yet, only God will condition his heart to accept her like before.
DeletePeople saying things about people's body as if we can create even half of a hair strand. Aunty keep begging and apologizing sha, if he sees you're truly remorseful then he might have a change of heart. And like Stella said, don't involve anybody oo keep it between you both, and pray too!
ReplyDeleteHe will be alright
ReplyDeleteNot trying dick is one thing. Not seeing it at all before marriage is wow
Bridle your tongue, bridle your tongue mba. See where your bad mouth has landed you now? Keep begging and praying. I believe with time he will forgive you and if he doesn't prepare your mind for the worst.
ReplyDeleteMost people just read this blog daily & dont learn from others mistakes! Lady, thats a landmine you just stepped foot on, after wedding the pelvic region of your partner should be like an uncharted territory to you, never explored and accepting & embracing it totally, WYCIWYG (what you see is what you get).
ReplyDeleteApparently, hes suffered or has been ridiculed by the size of his member, you just woke a sleeping beast, i feel so sorry for him, i doubt you've completely adjusted to his size, why else will you blurt out his small dick as a punch line? I doubt he'd ever have his confidence returned even if he 4gives you, youve put his ego in a blender... the biggest question is how do u put back a broken egg? The protein in an egg is approx 13g, depending on the room temperature, and a comfortable ambient temperature, generally taken as about 20°C measured, but how its being distributed through the body system and broken down is a topic for another day, as long as nutrients to the body is concerned its a priority, who the hell puts a cart before the horse? Its almost like arguing why the are no vehicles in Game of thrones but horses used as a mode of transportation, SMH.. this life sha just constantly evolving.
No matter how much u try, mistakes happen
DeleteIt’s. It right for hubby to threaten or request divorce either. She’s human and she made a mistake. Yes I’ll hurt if my man says something like that but it’s enough to divorce abeg. Meanwhile they can seek assistance with this smalliie
Person drugs don finish ooohhhh.
DeleteChoi,how did we end up with egg, protein ,temperature, GOT? Nna mehn...
DeleteYle.. I swear I'm lost.
DeletePlease come again, this time make it understandable.
YLE all in the bids to sound funny you ended up sounding dumb. The joke is on you.
DeleteYou are actually mad lol 😂
DeleteFollowed your train of thought..until I saw the organic chemistry of egg, down to halve the digestion story then nutrient absorption. I was still trying to link that to the story then I was thrown into medieval times then straight into a fictional movie.Gbam..I checked ya name..yaba left escapee..lol...you really did escape
Delete15:46
DeleteYoure the dumb one here actually, and probably a new BV if u dont know YLE, this is how he started
😂😂😂😂😂@slimqueen ,me too follow dey lost o. .YLE no go kee me😂😂😂
DeleteHahahahahahahahaha... Yaba the yabalisious yababa!😂😂
DeleteI was beginning to wonder if there is something wrong with my ability to connect and understand. Thank God other ppl too saw what I saw.
DeleteYLE...original.
Sorry, I chuckled a little.
ReplyDeleteIn hindsight, you can clearly see he's overcompensating for his wittle sausage by being a peaceful man but you still want ahead and bruised his ego.
He will forgive you, I don't think he wants everyone to know why he's asking for divorce but you have to bring his confidence back. 😉😉😉
A male ego is a fragile thing. Lol
Perx i disagree...
DeleteYou cant pretend to be nice if trully ure not nice, hes not "overcompensating"
Ok, Anon. So he's nice and peaceful regardless, yes?
DeleteWittle!! Lmao
DeletePls I agree with Perx.When I got to the part she said he's peaceful, I just laughed. Peaceful kor! Abegi...if he had guilder size ,things would have been different joor.
DeleteLocked phones,strange calls at ungodly hours,unnessary arguments....chicks for don fan I'm ego taya but with his Smallie where I'm wan go do waka waka.
Shay keep begging and always keep ya eyes really sad. You no try
The corrector minister,easy on the gbagaun.
Delete@Too blessed, google wittle. Lol, you make my job too easy 🤣.
Delete@Perxian. Not quite sure that is the way to 'use' the word whittle though. Connotes a reduction from big to small. Many to few. You whittle down.
Delete20:39 wittle not whittle. they are two entirely different words, trust me.
DeletePoster you went too far. How could you use such a sensitive thing to mock him. His dick is small but was able to impregnate you. Why do you want to use your mouth to destroy your home?
ReplyDeleteKeep on begging him ooo. Don't involve 3rd party make you nor scatter everything finish oo.Goodluck
Madam, you just woke up one morning, loaded your gun and shot your husband
ReplyDeleteat point blank range!
It can only be from the barrel of a Naija girl.
I tell you on this blog that a lot of you girls prepare for wedding and
not marriage.
A lot of you are so foul mouthed that
you can kill. 😯😯😯😯
And who does not know that your present worry is about not getting your citizenship papers filed?
Una go just dey sheet from una mouth anyhow.
Make you fall prostrate and beg that man o. Or else, nke gi ekpomekwe ooo.
👀👀🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️😯😯
Lol,I pity men that marry anyhow.
Delete@Anon 15:24,Where are you from?You sounded so much like my mother and grand-mother with the phrase "Nke gi ekpomekwe ooo.lol
DeleteYou're so right
DeleteA lot of people prepare for wedding not marriage.
Where is ANG ???
ReplyDeleteCome o
Look ☝
Deletemadam, why did you slap him on top of the insult?
ReplyDeletedon't you know that men hate when woman hit them?
better go and begging him and tell him you realize that it's your vagina that is oversized.
you can involve your pastor if he refused.
Bcos the domestic violence you exhibit is very ambiguous
😂😂😂🤣@your third paragraph😁. poster biko ignore.
DeleteThis is so not fair na, haba! Just keep begging. Please bridle your tongue madam
ReplyDeleteI have said worse things to my husband and we are still together. Sometimes people push you to the wall and you wouldn't know when you let these out of mouth just to hurt the person.
ReplyDeleteYour husband will shock you soon. Stay there thinking you've said worse and gotten away with it
DeleteLike the husband wouldn't have done the same too. Keep your threats.
DeleteAm sorry o but all dis guys with small divk,how far na??? Shebi there are penis enlargement products in the market?? Why not use it?that's HW I saw my ex and his wife on their wedding day smiling sheepishly,Lmao😂😂😂😂😂,to think his friends thought they could use it to pepper me, me that am happy that I won't have to cope with such a small dick any more that is something another woman is going to be managing for the rest of her life😂😂😂😂😂😂see her😂😂😂😂,bitch carry him and go pls,with all pleasure😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteAnother man's meat is another man's poison, abeg face front, is she complaining.
DeleteMumu after he has destroyed you,you think it's every woman that is useless like you,thank God he dumped and married a virtuous woman, I pity any man that will marry a left over like you. Useless girls of Sodom.
DeleteYou are obviously still pained even with all the emoticons in the comment..
DeleteThis is thesame reason you are still unmarried, because you are simply bitter towards your fellow man.
Deletechai chai ..sorry,ndoo,you are still pained ,but it's too late dear..@anon15:31
DeleteLeave it! Iyawo will like it like that.
DeleteAno 15.31 that was exactly my experience too when attended my exes wedding and his sister's and friends tot to do me pepper them.
DeleteLol...I thought I wrote that comment of yours.
lol, this is funny...being with a small dick after after collecting from a reasonably sized dick will take some getting used to.
ReplyDeleteMadam treat his dick size like an acquired taste, it will grow on you. You shouldn't have gone hit him below the belt sha, just keep begging.
Poster you have erred...this isn't the end of the world. Just keep begging him. After pleading for sometime, give him space, he will come around.
ReplyDeleteI use myself as an example, if you hurt me and keep choking me with apology,my dear the case will linger ooooo. Apologise well and then give me space. I will definitely come around and start seeking for face sef.
See Tonto's disciple; I bet you were one of those hailing her film. Now you took it and applied it to your life. Go with stella's advice; I pray everything work out good for you.
ReplyDeleteTonto waited till she was out of the marriage, oh. And she says Churchill is a deadbeat father and yahoo plus boy. The poster says her husband is a good husband and father, and she still wants to be in the marriage. There's a big difference
DeleteStella, Do you know that, my wife said to me a month after our wedding that, I can't satisfy her on bed sexually, that I don't no how to kiss her. Stella, my spirit is still down since 3 years now. I look at her has a wife that always cheat on her husband!I saw so many chats in her phone telling her ex how she was missing him. Regretted raising my hand on her. Have already forgiven her but painful.
ReplyDeleteWhy did you marry an over experienced wife.
DeleteOMG. You insulted him with it and he has used that same peempeem to give you children. Your head is not correct. Am sure you read somewhere where blog visitors wrote that any man that talked bad about your insecurities you should do the same.
ReplyDeleteNow you are afraid of divorce. Big mouth woman. Others are managing their own even when they are killing them, you had to lose yours.
Two weeks was just too much and you were not bothered. Carry your load you use your hands spoil.
My dear do all you can to win your husband back oooo
Ahn ahhnnnn, na wetin sef. The man prick no small? Small yab, vexnation wan kill am,abeg let him forget jare. Slip of mouth wee not kee this marriage ijn. The small pricked man for marry virgin since im tin tiny. I tire for too much beg beg about small mistake, can't I even joke about it,we too dey protect men but if the tables are turned,ppl will ask us to forgive.
ReplyDeletePoster if u beg and he doesn't accept. Give him time to cool off and think how he will marry babes like Tonto that will kukuma put it online.
My neighbour insulted the wife's cooking and she left him, people told him she will come back but she never did, she is married to someone else and they have a kid.
DeleteHuh!? What did the man say when he heard that the wife don marry with her bad cooking?
DeleteAre you serious about this or just joking? If true I guess that your neighbor wife was already looking for a way to japa from the marriage. Hian . My hubby yabs my cooking all the DAMN time , serious yabbing o. I go even form vex. But still he will almost lick the plate after eating. I am not an amazing cook but I try and I've been learning and improving. If he likes he should yab , he will still chop it like that , and if he no want, see him, see hunger. I'm Not even begging him to eat . SMH. I honestly think the poster's husband is overeacting. Divorcee???
DeleteI swear if am this poster I will even be happy that I have finally told him and it made him feel bad. Hence forth he will have it at the back of his mind that his kini is too small
DeleteFan Emmanuel, you're evil.
DeleteSo it will make you happy to remind your husband of his insecurity because 'hence forth he will have it at the back of his mind..'.
Some of you here are not demons possessed. You're demons in actual fact.
Stella please post my comment. The truth should be allowed sometimes.
Wittle is correct please. Perxian is right.
DeleteMost of you guys aren't well read, yet when someone corrects you, it's a problem.
18:51 Sis, you see what I'm seeing. Thank you, hun.
DeleteShe didn't plan to leave but the man said too many things that day, when she remarried, my neighbour ran from the compound because the shame was too much on him, and they didn't have a child, in fact she married about a year after she left him, I saw her recently and she was looking happy.
DeleteMy guess is someone may have insulted him for having a small dick before he married you. He thought he finally found a wife who have accepted his small size, only to receive that knock out punch from you. Maybe you took him down a painful memory lane.
ReplyDeleteKeep pleading with him, hopefully he forgives you.
We all may have at one point or another said something hurtful to another person in a fit of rage. I have learnt to walk away when I have acid in my mouth. You do same.
Cheers!
Ehee na,let him have it at the back of his mind that everybody hates his small preeq
DeleteFan you are so so uncouth. Razz woman.
DeleteWhy didn't you marry any of your ex boyfriends with big dicks?
ReplyDeleteGod gave you a good man but your eye still dey for big dick even after having kids.
You will learn how to control your mouth the hard way.
She wanted a abroad husband
Delete😂😂😂😂@ she wanted abroad husband
DeleteNa wa o .madam this is bad na,after all the years you been with him you still went ahead to destroy it. Just. E petting him & continue begging till he forgets.
ReplyDeleteArguments are dangerous territory because some ppl fight dirty. If he is so peaceful as you stated what could have come up that you needed to strike such a dagger in him during an argument. If you are members of a church then ask your pastor to speak with him as he wants a divorce and you do not want it. You may salvage the marriage some how, but he may never be interested in having sex with you again. Sometimes quiet ppl are the ones who are most inflexible when they have been hurt. The loudmouths will give you back your own medicine, quiet ones will act as though you don't exist. Ask him to forgive you, do not just tell him you are sorry, but ask for forgiveness because forgiveness can stir empathy. Wish you well.
ReplyDeleteAbeg what is it jooor. How many times have men told their wives who are on this blog visitors that their vaginas are too wide or smelly or not sweet, how many times? Every day we read people's comments under anonymous asking how to tighten their vagina because their husbands and or boyfriends are complaining. We have even read chronicles about it. The women NEVER ask for divorce over something they cannot change, they NEVER do. Even on this blog, we have never advised them to divorce their husbands because of vagina insults. Instead we would be providing solutions like do kegel, use alum, try plastic surgey etc.
ReplyDeleteSo what is he taking this like earthquake? You didn't lie, his penis is small. Would it have been better if you said it when you both were not arguing. Abeg if you have apologized then let it go. On this blog a man cheated on his wife and she was hurt, he didn't even apologize but because it was before the wedding most BVs thought she was insane for being hurt by it.
Please abeg beg him but stop at a point. If he truly wants a divorce over this then he is not as good, calm or peaceful as you claim. He should go joor and inflict another unwilling victim with his biro cover. Who gatts time for that. Madam if he divorces you, you wouldn't be the first and or last to be divorced. Let him divorce nah. Nonsense. A woman is managing biro cover because of love and he is whining like a child because she points it out in anger. He should have fired back his own too nah and insulted you with your vagina.
Apologize oo but after a while stop. If he wants a divorce tell your kinsmen and everybody the reason then you can divorce and go in peace. There are good men out there with better sized penis that would satisfy you sexually and in every other aspect. To be honest, I am unsympathetic because men have done and said worse and women have gulped it. Let him forgive you or go on the hunt for another biro cover lover. You too madam I blame you, you saw fire and chuked head now you are screaming little sausage up and down. Learn to be a civil human being and control your mouth. If it is too late for this man, it is not too late for the next.
Gbam!!! Marriage comes with a whole lot,any human,i repeat any human who is not ready to FORGIVE and TOLERATE should NOT venture into marriage,simple. Today the yab is on penis size,tomorrow it can be on anything else,so thats how one partner would be threatening divorce up and down?Abeg, he should take take several seats...I am married to a man i didnt know sexually,and i am taking it as it comes,its not as wonderful as i envisaged considering hes my first,but ive set my mind on staying,doesnt mean I dont wish it is better. Divorce ko! Divorce ni! mtchewwww!
DeleteGod bless your honesty. I don't even blame her for anything! Poster if he carries out with his threat, blow everything like Tonto,let everybody hear the truth. Inukwa nonsense
DeleteFan, please leave God out of your evil comments. Biko.
DeleteI wonder how his dick size became ammunition for your quarrel.It's beyond sad,you had a problem with the size from day 1 yet you stayed and had a family so the joke is on you...not him!
ReplyDeleteBeg him and show him you are contrite,do NOT try to initiate sex until he approaches you because men are more sensitive to women despite outward appearances.If he had told you your pussy stank or it was too wide,heaven would have come down!Just try your luck and keep showing him how sorry you are,next time walk away when you feel evil words brimming to the surface during an argument!😂😂😂
Yes at heaven coming down...but would there be a divorce issue? please let's be fair. and stop creating double standard for these men.
DeleteIs it not on this blog and other SM that u people body sham Regina Daniel??now all those people are forming saint to people's body insecurity..Madam u went far considering that u should know the temper level or how jovial your husband is (taking insult or Joke)..what you need do is to continue begging like Stella advised and never you bring in 3rd party except he does that himself which he may not..let him see you are truly sorry and if he stil want a divorce u have no choice than to let him go cuz he may accept you back but just to torture u emotionally or otherwise making you uncomfortable in the marriage.
ReplyDeleteThis is what happens when you've seen too many, yours will not satisfy you.
ReplyDeleteJust relax and stop begging , he will come back. He will not like to expose himself by going to court.
ReplyDeleteThe poster is a very vindictive person. The only reason you brought it up is cos you wanted to hurt your husband. You're saying for the first time like you planned to continue? So if he didn't react like that, you'll do it again? You're a bad woman, your husband cried and left the house for two weeks and you weren't bothered till he came back and demanded a divorce. He could have had an accident or anything could have happened within those two weeks. Because you're a terrible wife. For those who don't understand, abusing a man with his penis size is like telling a woman without children that she's barren.
ReplyDeleteNot true, not the same. Telling a woman without children that she is barren is like telling a man without children that he is sterile or infertile. Same thing.Penis size and no children from a woman are different. Besides if a woman is barren she is, no lie there. I guess the word barren is a bit archaic. Infertile would be preferable. What's the big deal. I am an infertile woman (premature ovarian failure) and if you think you can call me barren and I would be insulted then you don't know what's coming to you. Barren is an adjective and if you are then it's a fact. Who cares? As if the person not saying it would make you "unbarren" same with his penis size. He is an insecure man. Abeg he should go and sit down.Divorce ko divorce ni.
DeletePlease No to your last sentence, they aren't mutually exclusive. Not even close!
DeletePenis size is just like boob size. Some are acups, bcups same as wittle and childish d*cks.
It's yab she yabbed him, some others have said way worse. Stop condemning this sis like this, you are not without blame. Jeez!
17:30 chop knuckle abeg..like divorce solves anything. Let him refuse to forgive and remarry lets see...the same circle of drama will play out this time with baggage as a divorcee. He thinks marriage is for kids...it has nothing to do with age but maturity of mind,emotions,psychology and spirit.
DeleteSee eh not to judge but God knew what he was saying when he said we should wait till our wedding night.
ReplyDeleteIf you had no prior sexual experience you will have no yard stick to compare.
Same goes for cheating, most cases it's with an ex we have soul ties with it goes on and on the devil is smart really.
Wow may God's grace deliver us.
God help me to to train my SON to wait till his wedding night.
Most it even be about comparison...I tire o. When she's not a baby to kno how the thing makes her feel. Abeg!
DeleteAmen.
DeleteAbegi Virgins are not idiots. They know what s good size dick looks like
DeleteMy fiance also hv a small dick he is so insecure to d extend dt if he is bathing he will hide it so dt I don't see it,if he is dressing up he will nt face me,sometimes he will be telling me dt his dick is getting big,I will just look at him dt ogbeni wt is my own wt small dick so far u r satisfying me,nw he is getting more confidence unlike b4,who big dick hep,wt his small dick to enter me is a problem cos am tight tinking of buying lubricant self.
ReplyDeleteYou no dey shame, fiance don dey sleep anyhow without marriage.
DeleteYou guys worship men on dis blog too much, see beg him,beg him everywhere, biko y'all should go and sit down,poster shebi u have already apologised to him,pls give him some time,maybe he needs time, forget all dis women with their low self esteem on dis blog with their "beg him, beg him" advice, they carry men on their head like gala,they all need men to validate them biko don't be like them, give him time
ReplyDeleteKneel down beg am, cry for him body and show remorse - Next time bridle your tongue.
ReplyDeleteHe is a nice husband and does not give you grief - A wise woman builds her house, whilst a foolish woman breaks her house down - TAKE YOUR PICK
I don't know Why everybody is angry with the poster. Men call women p...sy borehole always and they've not died
ReplyDeleteI tire ooo! Even worse things have being meted on some women,they didnt sue for divorce. Marriage is for two FORGIVERS...If you aint ready to take shit..stay put as a single. Let him divorce and re-marry,the next woman will still tell him same thing without apologies and even conclude thats why the first wife left him in the first place...
DeleteBeg him again and again. Give him space. He will come around
ReplyDeleteThis shouldn't be a big deal. When fighting with someone u say tins dat Wil hurt dat person, I'm sure he said tins dat hurt u. If u ve apologized leave him he Wil come around. The only tin I blame u for is not apologizing dat same day. I ve said dat 2 my hubby nd even added he can't he satisfy me, but immediately he got home dat day I went on my knees 2 beg him and even made luv 2 him, everytin ended. Just let him be 4 now he Wil come around
ReplyDeleteAbge beg and give him blow job for the rest of the month. Everyday for the rest of the month and let him know his di*k is the sweetest lollipop ever
ReplyDeletePoster I know you feel terrible,we all make mistakes.i think your husband is overrracting though,even though you went too far.trust me I know how sleeping with a man with small dick feels(I think you like sex lol) it’s unsatisfying and annoying.
ReplyDeleteNow your husband is judging you from this saying”out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaket” beg him,knee down and beg him and cry then give him space.tell him you said so in anger just go get back at him for the argument,tell him sometimes if you sef feel you are too wide after kids and feel insecure too.then give him space and pray to God to soften his heart.if he comes back to you.dont be a doormat,because he will want to use reverse phycology on you,do shakara small and delay Sex a bit to stare up things.so that both of you can have hot make up sex.this will help him forgive and try to forget.do not become a puppy begging.abroad men behave somehow, they act like white people especially the really ones ooo not the local abroad guys.he will forgive you with time do not panic.that divorce he wants is just a way of expressing his anger and to gain control and gain his confidence back as a man.be wise and please hold your tongue.
Poster I know you feel terrible,we all make mistakes.i think your husband is overrracting though,even though you went too far.trust me I know how sleeping with a man with small dick feels(I think you like sex lol) it’s unsatisfying and annoying.
ReplyDeleteNow your husband is judging you from this saying”out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaket” beg him,knee down and beg him and cry then give him space.tell him you said so in anger just go get back at him for the argument,tell him sometimes if you sef feel you are too wide after kids and feel insecure too.then give him space and pray to God to soften his heart.if he comes back to you.dont be a doormat,because he will want to use reverse phycology on you,do shakara small and delay Sex a bit to stare up things.so that both of you can have hot make up sex.this will help him forgive and try to forget.do not become a puppy begging.abroad men behave somehow, they act like white people especially the really ones ooo not the local abroad guys.he will forgive you with time do not panic.that divorce he wants is just a way of expressing his anger and to gain control and gain his confidence back as a man.be wise and please hold your tongue.
Poster stop begging him. Stay away and leave him alone. Trust he will come back seeking for your face. It's enough! You didn't kill anybody.
ReplyDeleteI have said that to my husband before and didn't apologise and life went on. What rubbish! Madam abeg zero your mind and focus on your kids abeg. Men and their oversize ego. You've apologise to him, now stop!
ReplyDeletewhen my husband and I had small issue, na so I para tell am say how long him dey even last wey he dey show himself. my people after settlement na so oga want die on top my matter.i nor know say the thing pain am reach so o
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