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DIFFUCLT CO-PARENTING
Please a quick one....
I've been separated from my ex- hubby for the past two years but he isn't cooperating at all and i wish for co-parenting but he is insisting I must come with the child any weekend he requests for her because he has no one at home to take care of her if I drop her off. What can I do?
It may be a strategy to get close to you but trust me unless you are Interested again or still Interested in him, you have no right being in the same space with your ex husband...
If he doesn't have anyone to take care of daughter when she visits, then tell him to visit her at home and make sure other people are there, or you might at an eatery....
Dont go to him oh......
SDK have said it all, nothing to add.
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ReplyDeleteIf it is a one day visit, it is no big deal if you stay there.
ReplyDeleteBut, if it is through the weekend, he should visit her at your place.
No two ways about it.
Reason why to Marrying baby mama will sometimes be difficult if the baby daddy is still alive. The ex always wana knack.
ReplyDeleteThat's a strategy. He wants you back.
ReplyDeleteIf he has no one to take care of her, then he shouldn't insist on seeing her. Does he help you when she is with you? NO. So why does he want you to come assist him.
ReplyDeleteCome with her as how? If he's too busy to stay with her then he can do lunch or hang out with her and bring her back to you. Must your baby sleep overnight if he's busy?
ReplyDeleteThis guy sounded like my ex husband, if he is dark skin and recently moved back to lagos, na scope to get into your pants.
ReplyDeleteWhen you come around he would open up about what caused the separation and makes you feel he is the wrong one and if youre not disclipline enough, you will give in.
He should see his child in an open space.
I don't know the problem with these ex husbands, ex baby daddies, they always want to knack or not to let go, don't listen to him, that's a strategy, unless you're interested in getting back together with him, if not, two of you should find another solution.
ReplyDeleteHow old is your child? As long as she is no longer a toddler, he should be able to take very good care of her because she's his child . Does he come over to help you with caring for her when she is with you? Unless you want to rekindle your relationship, otherwise he has nothing over you
ReplyDeleteStella has said it all. Forget about co-parenting for now. Let him visit you in an open space . Except if you want to get back to him
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