Stella Dimoko Viruses That Kills Marriages Listed Out........


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Wednesday, May 01, 2019

Viruses That Kills Marriages Listed Out........

It is time for the Couch talk............

I saw this on Whatsapp and decided to share with you all to know if you agree that any of these points are indeed Marriage killers.....

· *Laziness*Kills marriage

· *Suspicion*Kills marriage

· *Lack of trust*Kills marriage

· *Lack of mutual respect*Kills marriage

· *Unforgiveness*Kills marriage
-(Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)

· *Arguments*Kill marriage

· *Keeping secrets from your spouse*Kills marriage

· *Every form of infidelity*Kills marriage
-(financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

· *Poor communication*Kills marriage

. *Lies*Easily kill marriage,
-(be sincere to your spouse in every aspect)

· *Relating more with your parents than your spouse*Kills marriage

· *Nagging*Kills marriage

· *Too much talk and careless talk*Kills marriage

· *Spending less or little time with your spouse*Kills marriage

· *Being too independent minded*Kills marriage

· *Love for party, money and spending/partying*Kills marriage

· *Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings or friends*Kills marriage

· *Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit*Kills not only marriage but your life

· *Spurning correction and reprimand*Kills marriage

· *Always wearing a sad face and being moody*Kills marriage

· *FEMINISM ADVOCACY*Kills marriage

· *Uncontrolled or hot temperament*Kills marriage

· *Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God*
Kills marriage

· *Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse*Kills marriage

· *When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.*

· *Lack of knowledge of the Word of God*Kills marriage

May God bring HEALING to every TROUBLED Home + Family 

*A dirty and unkempt home also kills Marriage...


  1. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

    1. Okay. Snooping also kills marriage πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    2. True.
      Snooping kills marriage

    3. Yes a dirty and unkempt home kills marriage

    4. A man i am not sure I love is asking for my hand in marriage and i am thinking of saying yes but confused.
      I am 35 and he 39.
      He has a good job,comes from a good family and is generous and caring. I like him but those butterflies are not there like my ex. We have dated for 5months but he is My sisters old school mate.
      My sister is saying I should say yes that what if no one else comes at my age.
      Bv's Can you grow to love someone in marriage ?

      If you snoop and find nothing, marriage go remain

    6. Anon 14.21 my advice to you might not be totally correct but this was my experience; i met someone at exactly ur age and he was exactly his age. I kept being told dont worry, love will grow, sex will synchronise, taste will match... i would sleep and wake up in a fright dreading my wedding to him. I dated him for 8months and came a point where i conquered my fear of being single for life and broke it off. I broke off that engagement on the 8th and met my husband on the 25th when i had zeroed my mind that even if i wont marry ever let me have fun biko. And my husband from 1st date i was swept off my feet and i thank God i broke off that engagement.

      Babe, u are 35. Dont get it wrong.

    7. Anon 14:21.. My dear as a married wonan,if what you listed above about your spouse is true,please grab him;it's better he loves you more and he won't relent to always see you happy. #Talkingfromexperience# My own butterflies fall my hands BIG TIME.

    8. Anon 14:21.. My dear as a married wonan,if what you listed above about your spouse is true,please grab him;it's better he loves you more and he won't relent to always see you happy. #Talkingfromexperience# My own butterflies fall my hands BIG TIME.

  2. Replies
    1. You forgot poverty, money troubles , men who feel emasculated by their wives success and sexual frustration.

    2. So going through this, I was thinking to myself “all this is probably written with women in mind but the word “spouse” is used in place of “ husband” just to pacify anyone who might have issues with more conditions being piled on women..... Then I got to “when anything threatens the position or security of a wife... “ bla bla bla. And I knew for sure that this was meant for women yet again.πŸ™„. Why can’t the reaction of men when their position is threatened also affect the marriage? Aren’t they the ones who kill their wives or even go to the extent of burning down family homes? Also the feminism part. Smh. I think a lot of things are right in this write-up but it is also very lopsided. I don’t like how it’s yet again mainly targeting women but stating things here and there to make it seem universal thereby putting the onus on having a successful marriage on women. I can already see men confidently using any one of these points against women in marital situations even if it mainly applies to them, and if the wives point it out, they can easily use another point from this same write-up to back up their bad behavior and excuse their faux pas. I can definitely see through the BS

    3. Anonymous 15.51, your write up can kill marriage.

    4. Anonymous your write up can kill marriage. If you want to be tonto. Just don't marry please. Men are different from women. You can ask Ned Nwoko

    5. Anon 17.49 your lack of intelligence can kill marriage.

  3. True! May God help us.

  4. *FEMINISM ADVOCACY*Kills marriage
    I do not support or believe the above, knowing how you want to be treated as a female in your home and demanding it does not kill marriage...only wicked men will see advocating for your right in your home as feminism.


    1. Your definition of feminism is to chop tohtoh okwa ya?
      If you marry a man, you can chop tohtoh na, na mud you mud
      that marriage so.

    2. That’s why the writer said mutual respect. Read well.

    3. Most people do not understand the true meaning of feminism. If they did, they won't be as antagonist towards it.

  5. Some marriages are wearing bullet proof then. Ode eshi 😎

  6. Replies
    1. 😊.... ohh mine... You are funny but true talk... Poverty... don't go there...

  7. Correct yarns but not complete.
    They forgot:
    *Fork; forking another rod
    *Shooting of babies😒😒 that oga on top put there or small god put there.
    *Abroadina showing up: For Naija girls, this one executes marriage by firing squad! 😯
    *Indomie mixture: Oga on top no go fit fire shot after that thing. Marriage don scatter be dat.😒
    *Carrying every family issue to "pastor" when the two can settle it.
    *Pressing phones all night in the name of husband hunting.
    Eeeeemmmhhh, the one wey the Pharisees go attack well well na that feminism advocacy. Oyibo kporo nku.
    Na when Naija (Pharisees) girls offload them husband, them begin dey chant feminism. Make una no confuse o, no be the nkasi obi (consolation) of bitter (ex-)wives association be dat?
    Ajuju esebego okwu? πŸ¦‰πŸ¦‰πŸ¦‰πŸ€·‍♀️🀷‍♀️🀑🀑

  8. Yaba left escapee1 May 2019 at 13:25

    If a marriage is doomed to fail, even a housefly buzzing around the trash bin can cause the downfall of that marriage.

    If its meant to be, a husband walking into his matrimonial room & seeing the wife engaging in threesome with the neighbour & gateman, that marriage will still stand.

    1. Exactly. Na you get sense.🚢🚢🚢

  9. See rules.what works for u jare

  10. Everything written up there can kill marriage, even marriages that's suited in bulletproof.

    Everything has to do with the mind at the end of it all.

  11. Include stinginess n too much closeness to papa n mama

  12. Everything written is 100% correct!

  13. What if husband and wife are both dirt lovers???

    1. Yaba left escapee1 May 2019 at 13:49

      Then their kids should submit CV to LAWMA for employment.

    2. Then they are a match made in heaven.

    3. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

    4. Yaba you dey worry o πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Stop skipping your medication

  14. Stinginess kills marriage too..

  15. Hate, hate & hatred is a marriage killer!!!
    Many naija hate each other, and pretend just to please their family, be accepted & to be respected within their community. The result is suspicion, lies, deceit, callous behaviors showing disregard towards their "partner." Hatred is a deadly poisonous marriage killer.
    Run away, flee, remove yourself immediately from a husband or wife that hates u because u can ignore or bear a co worker, parents, siblings, close relatives, class mates & neighbour's hate, but the hatred from a wife or husband is something never to bear & tolerate it.

  16. The babambari for me on that list is laziness, the others we can seek help for, but a lazy man none can save, Express on the Broadway that leads to.........

  17. Y'all make marriage boring with all these silly rules. Mtchewwww

  18. Dwarflike tiny preeks kill marriages.
    Preeks that’s always sleeping����

  19. Human immunodeficiency virus...

  20. Comparing your spouse with other people kills marriage. My husband is fond of comparing me with my more beautiful, successful cousin. This has almost killed my love for him.

    1. Tell him! What nonsense! Is he perfect? Find one better guy to compare him with if he tries that foolishness again.

  21. Feminism advocacy kills marriage. Lol. Another write up by a stupid egotistical Nigerian man

  22. My marriage has the above characteristics...I don't know how I and hubby got to this point...We are separated for now ... Being separated before came back...Still the same....I'll send my Chronicles to Stella...16years of my life just like that πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

  23. Anon 14:21, it is not all love that grow after wedding, don't fake love or go into marriage u will regret later because of your age. Being happily single is better than being in a sober marriage.

    1. Exactly. Bad relationships almost killed me. I am happily single now. But I am hopeful.

  24. Marriage takes more than love, there must be genuine love for both parties before marriage is contracted


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