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Monday, June 03, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
FORBIDDEN TO EAT SNAILS:



Stella God bless you,I have never written a chronicle but today I will,Stella please help me post this.

I dated my wife for 4 years before we got married:...


I forbid snail,I am from Kwale,delta state and wifey is from isoko,while dating she could ensure any party we attend that I am not served any food cooked from snail,she loves snails and I am not against it,I only tell her to brush her teeth after every snail meal.


While married, I told her that she could cook her snail but she should be careful.

We are both blog visitors and I know she will read this,but I honestly don't care again.

I had an appointment in Abuja and that morning we made love like crazy because I will be away for 3 days,I got up and I hurriedly took the uber that I called, I forgot my fone at home but I couldn't go back when I realised it.


Got to airport and bang! I missed the flight,I knew I had also missed the appointment,because of the heavy traffic I decided to read newspaper and while away time.

After 4 hours I took a taxi home, I didn't meet my wife at home, she had gone to her shop,I want to the kitchen to dish soup and made Eba,the soup was vegetable soup with so many assorted, I sat down eating and picking all sorts of assorted while I take each swallow ....


Bang!!!I took one bite of something kind of crunching and I spat it out because I didn't understand the taste, Stella ..it was a snail!!!

I started shivering and had panic attack,I called my mum immediately, I told her and she said I didn't intentionally are it that it was OK.

I called my wife to come home,she came and saw my angry face and saw the food,she confessed that she has been cooking with snails but has never served me with it.

She has been what???I took my car keys and walked out,I want to an eatery and I was thinking all sorts.

The same woman I told of consequences of snails.what should I do?




Na wah!!!!

259 comments:

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    1. First off: you were meant to be out of town for 3days, so the soup had no plan for u to partake if it.

      Secondly: after accidentally eating it and you spat it out, ur mum told you there are no consequence bcos it was an accident. So all you need is just to always ask ur wife to have a separate pot for her snails which you will under no circumstances touch.

      But bros, let's be realistic; in law, ignorance is no excuse. Which means whether deliberate or not, consequences will come calling. But for this ur taboo, accidents come with no consequence, are you sure you are not just starving for nothing?
      Also, with the liberation in vogue and no allergies involved, why are you yoke under this kind of burden? May be you need to ask more questions and liberate yourself from what doesn't exist.
      Everybody knows ogbono is forbidden in Asaba, but I bet you as a person know a truck load of Asaba indigenes who import ogbono from out of town and cook same to eat inside the same Asaba.

      The time for your liberation is now, don't start a storm in a tea cup bcos what doesn't exist. Don't destroy your home or strain your marriage bcos of a yoke that doesn't exist.

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    2. Poster but you have not died from all the tasting nah Abi? Calm down jare, ago what do you want to do now? Divorce her?
      That's how my husband too said they don't eat snail in his house, yimu. I prepared snail sometime last month, guy chop am dey ask for more and he didn't die. Now he's asking when next I will prepare some.
      I'm sure your wife won't prepare it again now that she knows your reaction. C'est fini.

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    3. This kain man wey dey complain upandan, na waoo..
      I don't like when married men involve their mothers in things they would have calmly settled with their wives..
      This one, E no do am to call mummy, ó gbara ga kosara Stella, now to the whole sdk community,
      Oga, quick question, what exactly do you wanna hear/read?
      Do you want us to advice you to divorce her on the basis of say she cook snail and you chop?
      You didn't specify whether you're allergic or if it has to do with some superstitious /ogboni/pericome-na-anyi-ajó-alú thingy.. Ka anyi malu ka esi agwó ya bu 'ibi'.
      You just dey rant, dey vex, na akpoku umu nna..
      *exhales deeply*
      Nwoke'm ga gbalu ógwú gi ñuo.

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    4. I have allergic reaction to snail and periwinkle but long throat will not let me shine. I'm not really bothered about periwinkle but the snail on go hard.

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    5. Na real wah o. If we could keep the comandment of God the way we follow these superstitious beliefs ehh, may be naija for don better. lol

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    6. pls what are the consequences of eating snail? why not give it a try, you'll love it later. that was how I swore never to eat dog meat and was pranked by my friends into eating it. I didn't know it was dog meat. it was so tasty but when they told me it was dog meat, I could nor spit it out. what to do? I ended up asking for more cos it was so delicious. It's only snake, rabbit and lizard I haven't eaten. I heard they are good too and tastes nice. I'll try it one day but fried snail is still my best friend! Well every mallam to his kettle

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    7. I can bet that all of you writing this rubbish are women sent directly from hell. What part of his write up you idiot don’t understand? So if snail was to kill him she would have taken the risk? What part of the you can eat your snail but please done cook with it for me you guys don’t understand? Superstitions or not, the man doesn’t eat snail simple as ABC.

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    8. So......in essence she has been cooking with snail and you have been partaking and nothing has happened to you yet? Pray tell me then, what exactly was supposed to happen to you after eating snail? If it hasn't happened yet don't you think you are just being silly with your 'forbidden' food? As long as you don't have any allergic reaction to food, carry go.

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  2. As u taste d snail, u die?
    Dey sack u?
    Business crumble?
    Ur penis no stand again?

    Or are u a pagan?

    OK what are d consequences of eating snails in your place?

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    1. Hahahaha BlackBerry. Oga what is the consequence of snail.

      Una can fear mans law but God laws is God understand. Yeye

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    2. BB I lol so badly at these your questions. Please ask him o

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    3. Snail does not have blood in it
      which means that snail is a forbidden food

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  3. I no understand o. It means you are not allergic to snail because you have not physically reacted to it so what the heck?! Tradition? Oh fuck it. I have close friends from male and came very close to marrying one and they all eat snail.

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    1. Wait let me tell u what it means to forbid something; my aunt does not eat snail personally and my grandmum said from when she was pregnant with my aunt, she herself couldn't stand it. Now if my aunt enters your house and you serve her food, she can smell it from a mile away. One time my coz mistakenly used the spoon she used to stair snail soup to dish her food, my aunt eat it and all her face swoll up less than 10minutes later.

      That is what it means to forbid something no be this your own egocentric superstition type.

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    2. Sapphire, that's allergy. Your aunt is allergic to snail.

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  4. What are the consequences? Just be inheriting superstitions that have no hold over our lives. Also since you weren’t sure of what was in the soup, you should have made something else for yourself or gone out to eat. So because you don’t like snail, someone who does (your wife) shouldn’t eat it.

    I was also told not to eat snail but guess what, I do and I’m flourishing. I think it’s a Delta thing cos my mum happens to be from that part and she told me “snail is forbidden” without any concrete reason. Your mouth like “I forbid snail” but you eat the one that God and placed in a woman or don’t you? 🙄

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    1. Maybe he don't. And I have a big problem with that. Oga do you eat your wife's snail? Make sure you do that ooo so you don't lose all

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    2. How could he make something else for himself when all along he thought his instruction was being followed?
      You eat snails even when your mum said it’s forbidden for you......no wonder you don’t have sense.

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    3. Do you UNDERSTAND what he said Doppelganger? I'm surprised at your response. He told his WIFE not YOU, He forbids it, He told her the CONSEQUENCES! She went ahead and got MARRIED to him. What if he is a pagan? There's a difference if he didn't tell her. He did.

      We should look at it from the point that she is unreliable,untrustworthy and undependable. I'm partly Isoko, till date we don't cook SNAILS or PERIWINKLES. Before my Dad died, we still never cooked it, no matter the dish my mom cooked. My mom also hates goat meat, till date because of the smell.
      They courted and she COMMUNICATED with her INTEND!

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    4. @anon 15:37...u are the one with no sense. This man was supposed to be away, so what if the wife cooked it for herself? These are the kind of men ladies must run away from... Me me me. You said u don't have a problem with her eating snail.. Where else should she cook her own snail?

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    5. Anon 15:37 you are clearly the one without sense. Firstly he wasn't supposed to be home so it's not the wife's fault and secondly he knows his wife eats snail so do you want her to suddenly stop just cause her husband doesn't

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    6. Doppelganger I don laugh my colleagues are asking me why I dey laugh comot water for eyes ..but you the one God placed in a woman or don't you

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  5. Oga pls calm down. I don't eat snails too but it doesn't mean I will start getting worked up if I 'mistakenly' eat it. Call your wife, sit her down and straighten out things with her. She should not force u to eat what u forbid.

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    1. Bless you. The best amongst others! Apt response.

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    2. And he must not force her to stop eating what she likes. This man only came home, cos he missed his flight. The woman probably prepared it for herself. I hope u won't forbid your kids from eating snails.

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    3. Did he ever say she forced him? Didnt you read that he was supposed to be out of town for 3days? What if that food was meant for her and others at home since he wont be home? Why didnt he put a call across when he didnt travel,at least she would have told not to eat the soup

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  6. Oga, me I confuse o
    You talk say "you told her she could cook with snails but to be careful"
    So wetin she do wrong?
    As you no dey house na, na you she cook for?
    No be you go woman pot carry food dey chop?
    Okay, wetin fit happen as you don chop snail, you no yarn us?
    You been dey cult?
    Ajuju n' ese okwu?
    If that be the case, call on Jesus to save you inugo?
    Abeg, this ya gist get loop holes and
    tunnels, make you come fill am well inugo?
    And free madam, she no do anything bad at all at all.
    📣📣📣📣
    See snails wey me and oga on top dey carry naak correct onugbu and veggie soup.
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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    1. You no complete am with plantain asuluasu. That one na your favorite swallow.

      This one you no bash woman today, we go thank God o.

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    2. @Rosie

      So you don dey monitor my kitchen eh, eh monitoring spirit?
      After una don snatch every every, you wan snatch my plantain kwa?
      Me, I no dey bash any woman o. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️I dey admonish and correct Naija girls.
      😊😊😊😊
      Naija girls are special entities wey dey do earthquakes with them 😺
      make I no yarn more, that Nigerian woman in this tori sabi better chops
      No be indomie mixture you and ya kind dey dish out -one minute done!
      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  7. What's the consequence abeg. Forgive her u hear, na so marriage be. She might have forgotten being that she loves snaik

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  8. She cooked for herself which you didn't forbid.

    You came back, opened her pot and ate without asking first.

    Now you're writing chronicle.

    Yawns.

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    1. Read well she confessed she has being cooking with it but doesn’t add it to his plate. That is very disrespectful
      Even if there are no consequences, she is very wrong for doing that.

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    2. pls note, u told her she can cook it but should be careful, u left, she cooked it, u came home and dished d food yourself without calling her to confirm, pls be logical here, it isnt her fault, u should v confirmed from her first bf eating

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    3. @15:27 disrespectful how? But she wasn't the one that dished it for him now more over she thought he is traveled

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    4. Oga, start cooking your own food. All these kids would get married, cos they believe they are men.

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  9. It was definitely a mistake on her part, don't think it warrants this level of annoyance from you
    Calm down oga
    Shuo

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    1. Which mistake? She cooked for herself since Oga wasn't gonna be around. This boy is a man is just foolish

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    2. She confessed she has been cooking with snails but she doesnt serve him. Anon 15:27 go back and read again.

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    3. miss Aboki did you not read where he said he gave her the go ahead to cook snail, but to be careful? The woman was only careful not dish it in his meal, but oga carry himself go pot. They should settle things amicably and move forward since it has happened

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    4. So she must cook two different dishes, cos of this man? This man should cook his own food, so he can put what he want.. Mtcheew... All these boys sef

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  10. Abeg what's the consequences of eating snail fot those of us that arent from ur place
    BV sylvia

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  11. Oga make we hear word. In this 21st century? An educated man for that matter?? Truly even if you carry monkey go abroad and come back igo still remain monkey .

    My husband don't eat kpala fish (abi na wetin be the name) but when I was pregnant na that fish i dey like to chop so every food I cook I must cook with it.He had to manage!

    Na women get the kitchen so anything we give you chop (weather na shit) Oga chop in peace and stop complaining!!

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  12. Its not her fault after all she didn't serve you the food herself. Go and appease the gods of your land, they ought to know it was a mistake,lol....BTW,you didn't state the consequences. Hope you're not going to die sha.

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    1. "She confessed that she has been cooking with snails but has never served me with it"
      Did you read that part? That means the poor man has been eating food prepared with snails.

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    2. Miss Aboki and ever since he's been eating food cooked with snails did he die?

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    3. That's not the point @pearls. It's one thing to convince him to like snail and it's another thing to make him eat food prepared with it under pretence.

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    4. Miss Aboki, e Don do... Can u stop typing...

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    5. I know someone that doesnt eat dog meat for religous reasons(he is muslim), he visited his best friend one day and that one served him peppered dog meat knowing well that his religion forbids it. The man ate and went home, then the friend visited him weeks later and told him. This man was livid with anger. The friend made a joke about it that he didnt die after eating the meat so why the fuss. That singular act put a strain on their relationship, trust was broken. If you were the man what would you do?
      What the man's wife did is all shades of wrong, he told her before marriage, if she couldnt deal she should have refused to marry him.

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  13. You kiss a woman who eats snail but u cannot eat the food snail is made with... I guess I really don't get it.
    I don't eat snail too but my family cook same meal, I just don't eat the snail itself. Calm down and have a talk with your wife.

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  14. I don't know what to advice you because this is deep after the warnning to her,let me wait for bvs advice to you.

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  15. That you forbid snails, does it have an effect on your wife too?
    If it does since you are both one now, then she didn’t do well.
    But if it doesn’t have an effect on her, I see no reason why she can’t eat snails 💁🏿‍♂️
    She didn’t know you would return home same day I guess that’s why she made the soup for herself.
    It’s a minor issue oga, calm down.


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    1. Na wa o. Is it that you people didnt read till the end or what? The wife confessed she has been cooking food with snails but doesnt serve him the snail.

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    2. @Miss Aboki Nyarinya
      Ngwanu interpret, you wey read am till the end
      Odi ka ishakugo ihe ahu?

      😊😊😊😊😊😊

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    3. Thank you ms aboki
      The wife was wrong. We can say forgive but acting like she did nothing wrong is wrong in itself.

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    4. I read it wrong jare. I thought she’s been cooking it for herself alone.
      Didn’t know it’s from same pot she dishes his own food.
      Very very bad of her. If na Watin dey kill person, that one for don go.

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    5. Madam Aboki quit sounding like a broken record!!!

      So now that he has been eating snail meals without the snail, what has happened to him?

      Besides he told her she could cook her snail but be careful. So, she cooked and has been careful not to serve him.

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    6. HRH or whatever you are called pls keep my name out if tour mouth! If the tables were turned and it was the woman that sent in the chronicle would you be saying the same thing.
      What the woman did was wrong, very deceptive fellow.

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    7. Exactly @miss aboki
      They’d even accuse the man of trying to use his wife for rituals.
      Nonsense!!

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  16. Why will she do such a thing... I used to have a friend (RIP to him) he doesn't eat onions, what I do, anytime he's around I don't put onions in his meal, infact I don't buy onions at all... But I love onions very well...

    She would have stopped cooking snail since you don't like it, when we love someone we tend to love what they love... Sorry about that.

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    1. Did you read where he said he was going away?

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    2. Oh please!

      Why will she stop cooking snails? She cools her own separately which is very OK!

      You always blame the woman. Why must the woman always be the one to let g of who she is and what she likes???

      Go and sit down abeg.

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    3. Anon 15:28 didn't you read the part he said the woman confessed cooking snail Everytime but she doesn't serve him...

      Anon 15:34 no word for you

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    4. Always read properly before reply... The reason he is angry is because she confessed cooking with snail Everytime but she doesn't serve oga the snail...

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    5. 15:34 he told her not to serve him food cooked with snail and she did anyway he told her this before they got married
      She could have refused to marry him

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    6. you are a compound idiot, you stop buy onions because man. as you do good girl finish how far

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    7. Sonia, in the same vein, your friend should develop love for onions because you love it and oga should develop love for snail because wifey loves it. As long as there are no allergies involved.

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    8. 15:55 My God, you are insensitive. You want Sonia to kill the man by accident or didn't you read he was allergic.

      You don't even know her relationship with the man.
      Sheeesh!

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    9. Anon 15:55 what’s wrong in not using onions to prepare food for your friend who doesn’t like it?
      That’s what any good friend would do.
      I have a friend who doesn’t like onions and I don’t use it anytime she’s around.
      You don’t know what true friendship is anyway.
      It’s people like you that sell their fathers properties for a man.

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    10. Anon:15:55 he is dead now, he died 3years ago.... And we weren't daying ok... He was in a relationship with my cousin...

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    11. Oh wait. No allergies, just not onion lover. My bad, 15:55..

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    12. Can't this grown ass man cook for himself to avoid snail problems?

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    13. Anon 16:59...You sound foolish.

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    14. HRH he was allergic to it, so anytime we are expecting him, we don't cook with onions...

      My aunt's husband and mother inlaw doesn't eat onions, before the husband went to the US, she doesn't prepare food with onions until he left the country...

      Like me I'm allergic to spaghetti and macaroni, I throw up whenever I eat it... But my family still prepare spaghetti, whenever they want to prepare any of them, they call to inform me, which I always sort out myself once I get to the house...

      I use garlic to cook in small quantity, if I perceive garlic in your food I won't eat it, it turns me off... I put garlic in a way I don't get to perceive it in food, I will just be throwing up...

      Persian leave that Anon alone... We have so many food we are allergic to, I won't force mine on you because I like it...

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  17. Wow .
    This is serious.
    However you should still care about your marriage deed has been done have a talk with her, some people are naturally daring and dont believe in most of these things .
    Sorry about your panick attack .

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  18. Poster you too vex abeg!
    You met soup, I’m sure she cooked it to sustain herself while you were away.
    She says she has never served you snail so why are you fretting?

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    1. Don't mind him, he's just looking for a 2nd wife...

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    2. She has always cooked snail in his soup
      She just doesn’t give him the snail

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    3. since he has be testing the soup water that was cook with did he die?

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    4. @anon 15:28...she told the woman she can prepare snails, but be careful about it, so that's being careful. Preparing the dish, but not giving him snails...

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  19. First of all, you are a man-child!
    Something happened in your home and the first person you can call is your mom? I hope you know that you are indirectly putting up your mom against your wife? What if your mom wasn't so understanding?

    Secondly, i hope you entered the kitchen of that eatery to ensure you aren't being served another meal prepared with snail?

    Thirdly, did you stop to think that you have been eating food prepared with snail, all these years and you haven't died, isn't it enough to tell you all these things aren't real?

    Finally, it will be very foolish of you to loose a good woman over a meal of snail you have "enjoyed" through the years.

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    1. Don't mind him.

      Nwa baby🙄🙄🙄

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    2. O pls! The woman is wrong abeg. He told her expressly that he doesnt eat snails and she went ahead to serve him food prepares with snail all these years. Would you be saying the same thing the tables were turned?

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    3. Best comment here

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    4. You are very foolish. Whom should he Callie’s his mother that warned him about the abomination
      Should he have called your mother to find out if he’ll run mad

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    5. True at your second paragraph.
      You can't forbid eateries from preparing their soups with snail mehn. We are all just doing ourselves in this Africa.

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    6. Don't mind these people Miss Aboki. The poster's grouse is the fact that she had been cooking her meals with snails but never put the snail in the hubby's food which is totally wrong. What happened to mutual respect and respecting boundaries?If a man smokes hemp and the wife detests it but still married him anyway, if the man now added some hemp to the wife's noodles while cooking, deliberately o, and she eats it without any reactions though, would you all say sebi she has been eating it without any reaction? Pls let's respect each other's likes and dislikes in marriages whether it makes sense to us or not.Hian!!

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    7. Anon 15:15 chop kisses

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    8. Thank you miss Aboki and anonymous 15:15. The woman was very wrong serving him food prepared with snail all this while.

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  20. Do nothing since you are still alive but really why are people like this? Someone gives you his or her rules and regulations, you accept, only to come and start doing otherwise? It would be hard to trust such a person. I really don’t know honestly. What are the consequences of eating snails in your place biko? I am curious. Madam bv why na? Let me read comments abeg.

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    1. How did she do otherwise bikini???

      The husband traveled. She cooked what she like to sustain herself.

      Husband unexpectedly came back and ate.. How is it her fault???

      See your mouth like "madam bv why na"

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    2. Thank you! Everybody is blaming the man but the woman is very wrong. I dont eat pork or dog meat, my friends know this and I will feel bad if any of them give me food prepared with any of these meat even if they didnt serve me the meat. Madam bv you no try.

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    3. Omg 15:34you are not s good student. Read again

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    4. My bad. I read that she'd been cooking with snail.

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    5. "she confessed that she has been cooking with snails but has never served me with it."
      Anon 15:37 did you read this part? I see comprehension is a very big problem on this blog. Na wa o

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    6. Anon, she didn't cook the snail because hubby was away. She has been cooking the snail with their food but had not just been serving hubby with the snail. That is all shades of wrong. Trust is definitely broken here. What was her motive in doing this?! Was she secretly wishing and plotting hubby's downfall?
      To the BVs bashing hubby because they believe this is superstitious, would it have made a difference if hubby was allergic to snail and it could cause his death? If yes, then stop bashing hubby. Cos his belief (superstitious or not) matters and madam BV is definitely WRONG.

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    7. People browse through and rush to comment. What do you expect? 😏

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  21. What Juju have you done that you were told not to eat snail oga????? Let's start from there

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    1. Hahahahahahahaha... I wonder ooo

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    2. No Juju, na him get house na wetin him want you as the wife go do, the wife is a disobedience wife as simple as ABC

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  22. Oga;please in whatever you do,Dont use anger to take any action..Calm down and relax first and please you don't need to involve anyone in this either..

    She didn't serve it to you,and to be sincere it's not fair if she can't cook what she likes simply because it's forbidden in your place..

    She cooked,didn't know you would be returning and it's not your fault either for eating food without asking her in the home you both stay as Man and wife..

    Talk to her,voice out your anger without being insultive,then reach an agreement with her that anytime she cooks anything with snail;she should put it separately in the freezer and if possible use a separate container to put it so you can easily know that "This particular food was cooked with snail"..

    A man and wife comes from different background and so is their tradition and belief..but with communication and understanding;everything would surely go well..

    Please don't take this too far,nothing will happen to you either..

    @MARTINS ABOY

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    1. Tank u
      She didn't served u,and u told her she could eat nail whenever she want..why are u so angry at her?it was clearly not her fault that u ate it

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    2. Martins you don't get it. She has been cooking with snails for him but won't serve him the snail when dishing the food, even after she was told. Just like someone who said he doesn't eat meat but uses teeth to share it for children. What I frowned at in this, is that the woman is guilty of disobedience.

      My Dad never eat snail all through. When he was young before he converted into the Christian fold, he was very sick and almost at the point of death. The native medicine man who treated him used snail, and he was instructed never to eat it, for there will be a consequence if he does.

      Even after converting from tradition to Christian worship, Dad still keep to the warning. Mom for one day never cook with snail for him till he passed on.

      What am I trying to say here, is that obedience is better than sacrifice. I know of someone who don't eat cook fish unless it's fried. He has never eat it and won't.

      Poster, just take it easy and resolve this issue. Forgive her and don't let this break your home.

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    3. "she confessed that she has been cooking with snails but has never served me with it." Martins and Sharon did you people read this part or am I the only one seeing that part?

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    4. I guess I read it wrong then. I thought she’s been cooking with it but has never served him ....,,strictly hers alone. But preparing same food with snails for the both of them is not nice.
      Even if she doesn’t serve him the snail, it’s still from same pot.
      If na woman complain like this, bVs for don tear the man to pieces just like they are doing now.

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    5. Teejay shebi your mama knew why she shouldn't prepare snail for your papa and the consequences, the man should also have told his wife the consequences if he eats snail in any form

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    6. @pearl read the chronicles again and see where he wrote he already told her the consequences.

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    7. @Pearl, yes she knew, even us the children. We all eat snail except him. Whenever my sisters want to cook food with snail, they make sure it's just little that will be consumed that day. I never for one day see Dad serving himself food from the pot. Mom was angry with him one day he stayed hungry waiting for her to come back and dish food for him. Everything in marriage is understanding and obedience.

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    8. *If one is using an insulting word, they are being insultive* So Martins is correct.

      If you are going to be doing ITK and correcting people, at least get it right 🙄

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    9. Gbam!! What did they do with the snail for it to be forbidden?? See enh, dude has been eating good cooked with snail but never served to him. If there were consequences, e for don kaput. Oga BV, leave matter alone. Madam BV, nor vex oo!! Don’t cook snail again sef in the House to avoid a reoccurrence.
      Buy peppered snail and satisfy yourself outside. I love snail too and it’s hard to cut it off.

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    10. Elle, insultive is not even a word let alone correct but how would you know that. Lol smh

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    11. So you people are now saying the woman should be cooking two pots of dishes or not add snail to the meal? Isnt that unfair? Shouldn't they both come to a compromise?.

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    12. Perxian "insultive" is a word. What is it sef? Accept the correction and move on.

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  23. That deep, huh? You did not tell us the repercussion of eating snail so as to know the weight of your wife's action.

    What your wife did was quite careless if eating snail is detrimental to your health. I know someone who is deathly allergic to onions.

    Have a serious talk with her, make her understand how deep this is and hopefully, it will sink in.

    And wifey.. if you must eat snail, why not make a different pot of soup for yourself or make a snail kebab and store for yourself.

    Since your mother has already pacified you, i think you should let it go.

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    1. The wife was not careless and she didn't cook for him. She cooked for herself since he wasn't around!!

      Serious talk he didn't talk since dating days, is what he will talk now abi?

      Abeg the man should accept that it was a mistake and let go, or he should keep crying and reporting like a baby.

      Nonsense.

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    2. I just read that she's been cooking with it.

      My bad. Pardon 👆

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    3. 15:38 Calm down, sis. The wife has been cooking soup with snail not just cos he wasn't around.

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  24. Some kwale people eat snails. Calm down. My mum is from kwale too. Let go of all this thought before it kills you. Your Wife sef, she shouldn't have done that.

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  25. Bro, you are not saying it's because of the snails you missed your appointment are you ???

    If you had not tasted the snails in the soup, you won't have jumped to conclusion would you?

    She didn't do it on purpose and sometimes some taboos can be overcome with strongwill and positive confessions.


    Don't sweat the little things because it wasn't done on purpose by her.

    It's hard to stop eating snail if you are a small lover.

    Please accept her apology and get back to crazy love making biko.

    May you get better contracts than the one you missed.


    We all get paranoid from time to time. Don't let it weight you down or destroy an obviousmy good marriage .

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    1. if he had eaten d snail, before missinghis appointment,he would had blamed it on his wife,as d consequence of eating snail

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  26. 1 Timothy 4 The Spirit clearly says that IN LATER TIMES SOME WILL ABANDON THE FAITH AND FOLLOW DECEIVING SPIRITS and things taught by demons. 2 Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. 3 THEY FORBID PEOPLE TO MARRY AND ORDER THEM TO ABSTAIN FROM CERTAIN FOODS, WHICH GOD CREATED TO BE RECEIVED WITH THANKSGIVING BY THOSE WHO BELIEVE AND KNOW THE TRUTH. 4 For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, 5 because it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer.

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  27. Some kwale men and wahala are 5n6.
    I dated one and it was Jesus Christ that came down to save me.

    I’m not saying ur wife did well ooo, but ur pepper body too much. So after u called ur mom immediately and she told u u shouldn’t worry since u didn’t intentionally eat it, u still went ahead to write chronicle?

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    1. Don't mind him.

      Reporter.
      Writer.
      Crier.

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    2. He called his mum about the one he ate, then madam wifey came back and confessed she has been cooking with snail but doesnt serve him. Like she cooks soup with snail and other orishirishi but serves him the soup without the snail, that is where his anger is coming from.

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    3. Pardon me 👆

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    4. So miss Aboki should the wife now cook two pots of everything that she wants to add snail to? Shouldn't they come to a better resolution if it's not risky healthwise

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    5. 17:21, how about she prepares the snail separately and add it to the already cooked food?

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    6. Miss aboki is dis man ur brother? 🙄
      I can see through his chronicle the kinda man he is. That’s why I wrote what I wrote.

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  28. Oga what is your problem? She obviously cooked the snails because you weren't gonna be around for like 3 days. Imagine...you had to write a Chronicle because of this nonsense. Big baby boy in an adult body. Your wife better vex 100 times pass you.

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  29. Oga hope e no spoil ur Jazz? As una too like jazz matter for that una side

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  30. Oga calm down. The only problem I see here is she cooking with snails but sincerely speaking I would have done the same if I were her. I will cook the food and not serve you with the snails. I cant be cooking two different foods; its stressful. To avoid that, why not hire a cook or start cooking your own food.

    The only issue I see here is, you oga sir have to work on this stone age mentality. The reason your forefathers put certain laws like this is because of allergic reactions to certain foods in certain families. One or more of your forefathers might have eaten snails and reacted to it badly and they not being educated at that time associated it to some gods. Obviously you do not react to snails. Else you would have reacted to eating the soup without the snail.

    In my family, we have this kind of taboo about certain foods but who cares.
    Truthfully though, some react when they eat it. You see so it's just an issue of allergic reactions. Calm down.

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    1. If you can’t please the man don’t marry him
      There are a million other men

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    2. Anon 15:55 and if the man can't please the woman nko? Abi it's just a woman's duty to do the pleasing

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  31. P. Scheherazade3 June 2019 at 15:26

    What’s the consequence of eating snail?
    If you’re not physically allergic to snails then maybe you should find out why your ancestors forbade it.
    I’m Isoko and I’m aware that where I come from, the men forbid snails but women can eat it.
    My mum is very educated even though she grew up in the village and she once told me that everything done is for a reason and it would be best to find out the reason before blindly perpetrating the tradition.

    She told me that way back when there used to be inter-communal wars, the men were usually fortified with charms ( odeshi, abi how do they spell it ) that could be nullified with snails and so men weren’t allowed to eat or come in contact with snails to prevent that from happening.
    Women weren’t supposed to fight wars so they didn’t need to abstain.

    Nowadays, you’d find a young lady saying, my dad forbids snails so I too forbid it...lol.
    Even your dad doesn’t get into fisticuffs with acquaintances talkless of wars...talk less of you, the child.
    Abeg, I tire to talk.

    Back to you. What should you do? Divorce her na... abi isn’t that what you want to hear?
    Doesn’t the fact that you’ve been eating soup cooked with snail since without any adverse effect tell you something?
    My people perish for lack of knowledge.

    Whatever you do, don’t act whilst still angry though. Calm down and be rational first.

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    1. P. Scheherazade3 June 2019 at 15:53

      *perpetuating

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    2. Thousand gbosas for this P. Scheherazade.
      Poster, leave every other comment and read this thoroughly.

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  32. Oga I am surprised that Stella did not give you a resetting slap, please this is not a social media issue ok, your wife did no wrong, she did not serve you snail intentionally neither did you also eat it intentionally. Please apologize to your wife for bringing this trivial issue to the blog, are you a baby?.

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    1. Big baby. You do them na you go apologize , them do you na you still apologize, them do themselves still want make you apologize na their Chairman be this.
      Carry her load outside. She gave you snail to eat.

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  33. So much fuss about nothing.

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  34. Nawa oo..Pls what is the implication cos I am from kwale and I eat snail. However I dnt think you should be angry with your wife, she probably left the soup there cos she thought you were no coming back soon.
    Secondly, do not allow a lot of soup ruin your relationship and I'm sure after this your wife will be more careful with it.
    Lastly, are you a Christian because Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law that is from any curse at all. Have a blissful marriage

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    1. LOL...
      Don't mind the poster. Even his mom told him it wont affect him for eating it mistakenly. So the spirits abi the ancestors now know the difference between he who eats mistakenly and he who eats it willingly?

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  35. What are you all saying? Did any of you bother to understand the story at all? He never forbade her from eating snail but his grievance is that she has been cooking the snail together with what she serves him even if she doesn't give him d snail.

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    1. Exactly!!! They read without understanding and quick to bash the young man. The only thing I see wrong here is that, the woman is disobedient. Why cook for him with it all along? What if it was something meant to kill him? Smh...

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    2. They read but they do not understand. I am shocked!

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    3. Na wah for Stella's bvs o. The wife had no business cooking with snails the food the husband will eat out of. She isn't at fault for the one she cooked while the hubby was away though. There are some things you don't do as a married woman out of respect for your husband . Been married for almost 30 years with four beautiful daughters of marriageable ages and would find it appalling if any of them did this. Cook your food with snails but spare your hubby's food!!!How is that difficult abeg? Poster pls forgive her and discuss the way forward with her pls. Tell her no snail in or near your food at all. Forgive and forget. Pls ignore those insulting you and do not take out on your wife directly or indirectly. Bottom line: she was wrong.

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    4. So she should go to her shop, and come back and prepare two dishes. Can't this man just cook for himself, cos he is the one with a problem?

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    5. How will she have done it again? Will she be cooking two pots? Will you people do that if you were in that woman's shoes. Why didnt they come to a compromise? Cause that I'm not stopping you from eating it means that she will be cooking two pots

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  36. I don’t understand... only u told her she can cook food with snail but should be careful with it abi?
    Now u were supposed to be gone for 3days. Madam come cook her food. U came and dished for ur self by your self not that she gave the food to u.. u both should share in d blame pls. Make woman please una with everything naim una Dey after.

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  37. Ohhh she has been cooking with it, but did not serve you with it!

    Ignore my comments above, I didn't read that part. Sorry.

    Anyway as you have been eating 🐌 soup without 🐌
    and nothing happened, isn't it time to ask yourself questions and let go of archaic traditions?

    You have even been kissing 🐌 👄 😅😅😅😅😅 sorry ooo.

    Please renew your mind jare.

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  38. Oga if you die, your wife will tell us. But since you no die and no side effect, sit down and relax

    Or eating the snail yiy will not pass this year?

    Why you go look for pot to eat. Did she cook it for you?

    Una hands no dey stay one place. Now you are running like chicken.

    Sorry if you are offended. Forgive iyawo.

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  39. This reminds me of when I was in secondary school, my dad took me to the dibia, I don't even know why he took me there but all i know is that after all the rituals the dibia man gave instructions and one of them was that i should never eat snail. When i came back i told my mum who already doen't support the fact that my father goes to dibia for one thing or another. After i told my mother the snail forbidden part, she said my child don't mind them and don't even put it to heart inugo! After few days my mother went to the market bought snail and prepared food and i ate, nothing happened to me and uptil today i eat snail.

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    1. I love your Mother. Give her a big hug from me.
      We need more like her.

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  40. Oga just forgive your wife and move on, I will advise you stop her from cooking snail in your house. If she want to eat snail he should buy fried one and enjoy herself outside and forget about cooking it at home.

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  41. don't fight d man.....some part of east they forbid so many things becos their fore fathers worships them .....from own side snail is d best but we don't eat Ram or Snakes thanks....pls with whatsoever god involved bro and you are free forgive your wife .

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  42. All I want to know is why you added that you people "made love like crazy" before you travelled. I was thinking the chronicles had something to do with the love making, or the info was just to fill up space? Na question oh... 🚶🚶🚶

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    1. 😂😂😂. It makes for good story.

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  43. This story is as real as a 3 Naira note. The upside is, I will surely enjoy reading how the "poster" will be dragged horizontally, vertically and diagonally around this thread. This must have been written by a mischievous girl who wants a man to be bashed for a change.

    How convenient to forget your phone so you can't call your wife to let her know you missed your flight! You arrived at the airport and discovered that you missed your flight and automatically your appointment. A normal person would immediately take another Uber home to lick his wounds and get consoled by wifey, but nooooooo, you are so jobless that you decided to sit at the airport for 4 good hours to read papers, 4 hours of your life you can never get back. You couldn't read in the Uber and spend the 4 hours in traffic trying to get home? Of course you had to wait at the airport like the night king, you had to give enough time for your imaginary wife to cook snail soup to fit your narrative.

    Then when you got home you didn't rush to get your phone to see if your appointment could be salvaged, you didn't call your wife to let her know you missed your flight, you dashed to the kitchen to eat the forbidden soup. It was after you noticed you ate snail... "Bang!" you suddenly realised the use of a mobile phone and you called mummy dearest to tell her you're knocking on Heaven's door because you ate snail! You must be kidding me. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Get outta here man!!!

    Sweetie, next time try not to be too obvious. Run the story in your head for a couple of days, cover the loopholes, edit the ridiculousness and produce something more believable. Thanks though, the comment section will surely be lit! Bang!

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    1. Lol... Ronalda, you got me thinking as well with this comment of yours. If I get you right, you mean some people staged chronicles? Interesting.....

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    2. I guess he should stated how got home, dropped his bag, showered, changed up, put on the TV and all the other things he did before going to the main gist.

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    3. Tee honey, of course people do. It's not Stella's job to decipher which chronicle is real or fake. She's obligated to post because she will give each the benefit of the doubt. Look at it this way, I could send in a fake chronicle just to stir up emotions then sit back and laugh my head off as I read how Bvs are going at one another because of opposing views.

      As for this chronicle, it's way too off and too many ridiculous coincidences that it's no longer believable. How many men would leave their phones knowing they will be away for 3 days and you are supposed to be on business trip? How would you communicate? Let's assume he has nothing incriminating on his phone, most men would still come back for their phones. Ok, let me be generous and assume that he was too far away from home when he realised he forget his phone. How do you explain sitting at the airport for 4 hours? You know how crazy traffic is. The normal thing will be to get an Uber and head home immediately, knowing fully well you would be delayed by traffic. Why waste 4 hours then waste more getting home?

      Tee, if you forget your phone at home, as soon as you get home wouldn't that be the first thing you would rush to get? At least a reasonable man would try to call and explain why he missed the appointment and see if it can be rescheduled, no? Then you call your wife to let her know you missed your flight and you are now home. How come this narrative comes in a manner that makes it too convenient to avoid him eating the snails? After all if he didn't forget his phone, he would have called his wife immediately he missed his flight then she would know not to cook that dish. Secondly if he came home immediately, as a reasonable man would, he probably would have met her in the kitchen. How then would the narrative work? Personally, I don't believe this story.

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    4. Ronalda, l just love you.. You see why you were missed the hell of a lot while you were away from the blog?? I would love to meet you and your family when l come home. You are one smart woman. Great one here.

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    5. Lol u are right ooo

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    6. Is this Ronalda with no bear hugs or whatsoever? Chaiiii this poster don see something

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    7. This actually got me thinking. Pheeewwww! You made so many valid points that you could be right. An the "wife" conveniently reads this blog too.

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  44. Some of you don't know about history, you don't know how to read anything! Customs and traditions of a people are always changing. That no eating snail policy might be from a time in pre colonial tradition of your land but because you are not open minded enough you still practice such culture. I'm not saying culture and traditions of our people are trashy...but come on, Some of you are just too close minded. You don't want to read, you don't want to know...you just follow blindly

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  45. This is sooo wrong what the woman did myself I come from a family that doesn't eat snail all my life as a single person I did not eat snail it has infect my uncle eat it and his body was swollen but when I got married to my husband they eat snail very well I started eating and nothing happened to me.

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    1. Can you imagine all the huge ones you missed all those years?? Ahh, we gotta make up for it oo!!
      Who’s up for a snail eating contest?? Hmmmm, Na who de cook and sell peppered snail again. I want to order 35,000 Naira snail for Adagulu.

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  46. I don't get you sir,I thought your mum assured you it ok?why send a chronicle?even dashed out of the house.I hope you are not a nagging man?Nawa

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    1. Is that all you get from the chronicle? So you didn't see a disobedient woman? Okay you tried.

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    2. Teejay, why are you referring to her as a disobedient woman?? Take ya time oo!!

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  47. I come from the side that forbids eating of snails. As a child, a family friend had it fried and gave to me, innocent me i ate without knowing it was a snail. The next morning i woke up with blisters all over my mouth. Later that day she saw me and asked what happened to me, i told her i woke up with this blisters and she started pleading that she's sorry, she knows my people forbids it, But That she didn't know i will react this way by eating snail. I have nothing against it but i can't touch any plate it's inside.

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  48. I am from a village close to kwale and there we don’t eat snail ,we don’t joke with tortoise. I grew up not eating snail , wat ever reason a person has for not eating something,respect the person decision, I don’t eat egg for personal reason so I won’t want any one making this silly mistake of dishing me food that contains egg

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  49. I am from Kwale and have never eaten snail too and I think the man is angry because his wife has been feeding him soup cooked with snails even though she doesn’t serve him with the snails. He has every right to be angry as she knew his belief, yet agreed to marry him and then decides to do otherwise. Oga deed has been done and I don’t think anything bad will happen to you so please look past her error and mend your relationship with your wife.

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  50. LOL... Funny man.
    What consequences?
    The one you have been eating since you married her didn't kill you abi? So what is your problem.
    What about people from Kwale who grew up in foster homes or outside Nigeria, who is there to teach them all these beliefs?
    Emancipate yourself from mental slavery jare.

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  51. What are the consequences of eating the snail from where u come from??Is it a taboo??Will u die after eating it??Or was it what the native doctor told u to avoid??.U shouldn't even v allowed ur wife prepare it in the soup she serves u..(excluding the snail itself).Do u have only one phone? Why didn't u head to her shop first?Where u blind while eating the food? why didn't u look at what u wanted to swallow?So as u carry soup to swallow...ur mind no come dey there. What do u want us to plan now?? Una go just dey enter society anyhow..better go n look for solution before something bad happens to u....As for ur wife..i guess it's high time,she stops using snail to cook to avoid all these silly mistakes. If she doesn't cook with snail,she won't die. We have assorted dry fish,crab,fresh fish,stockfish,periwrinkle,Goat meat,Kpomo,beef,Pork, Ram meat,etc. If these ones no do am..then she wants to kill you.

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  52. Dear Ronalda

    Do not ever consider a career in investigative journalism or in forensics.

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  53. Oga, I'm from Ukwuani (Ezeioum) Delta state. I so much love eating snail, I see nothing wrong in what your wife did, you were the one that gave her go ahead to be cooking snail in your house. forgive her and move on. Once you're in Christ Jesus, old things as passed away in your life!

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  54. Since the day you married her, she has been cooking with snail but does not serve you the snail; after eating, she brushes her mouth and you kiss the snail mouth and make mad love to a woman who eats snail. Since then, oga nothing do you even as you eat the snail, nothing still do. You are already a snail man, stop living in bondage and looking for excuse to end your relationship. Her action was not intentional and she has apologized. If you forbid snail indeed, you shouldn't have married her in the first place. Please be a man and keep your home. Mind you, snail is one of the best meat and very delicious and crunchy. My father's community forbid fufu while garri is not regarded as food in my maternal home. Since childhood till date, my mum cooks and eats fufu and I never saw my father eat or go near it even till tomorrow. We the children love fufu like mad and still do. Some of my uncles also married fufu eating women and have been blended into it without consequences. Ask yourself why you forbid it and free yourself from the bondage. I can only support you if it is snake or other reptiles, dog etc, no be scrumptous snail abeg.

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  55. All these people reading 'she confessed she has been cooking with snail but never served me with it ' to mean she has been cooking meals with snail but when it's time to eat she remove the snail from his plate, please how did you come up with that? You left the simple meaning, that she has not served him any food prepared with snail to go and be twisting in confusion because you want to blame the woman.
    Grammar hard ooooo, simple comprehension seems to be worse.
    Somebody said he is traveling, came home and did not bother to inform anybody. Went and carried food from the pot with his eyes closed or maybe because he forbid snail so he does not know what it looks like, ate and then it's another person's fault that he ate what he 'forbid'.

    Oga you are just a big troublemaker, if no be that snail, you for still find another thing use quarrel as body dey pepper you for appointment wey you miss. You for see one thing for that house use complain, and if you bin no see, you for still quarrel say she come house late or she no give you wetin you for like chop that night meanwhile you no suppose dey house.
    Them dan tell you say nothing, you still dey vibrate.
    Pack her load out, she ambush you with snail , wan kill you but God pass am😂😂
    Not like you even swallowed it. Mshewwww.

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    1. Na you suppose understand the grammar. Oga already knows she cooks with snail reason why he asked her to always brush after eating it. What he doesnt know is that she serves him the food prepared with snail but takes the snail out before serving hence the "confession" from her.

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  56. I have a problem with BVs, Most of you didn't read to UNDERSTAND. Just jumped in with comments bashing the guy. My problem isn't the FORBID, that is making BVs get worked up, but the fact He told her while they were dating and she went ahead to dubiously cook with snails.

    It's a big deal, that Uncle had to call his mother but the truth is Oga the deed has happened. You ate by mistake, Please forgive her and take your mind out of it, i don't know the consequences. My mom is Isoko and she forbids Snail.

    Madam marvo? you are a BV, you have hurt your husband and its not fair, He told you, He forbids it and you still cooked it. Please apologize to him and stop cooking it, relationships require sacrifices. You can eat the snails outside, if you have a craving for it. I wonder what you guys love in that thing, whenever i TRY to eat it i just hate the crunchy sound and the feel in my mouth. Then that slimy thingy on the body. Yuck!

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  57. Poster, since you have been eating food cooked with snail have you died? Did anything happen to you? Its not your wife's fault. You went to her pot and dished your food without asking her..after eating the snail you had panic attack! Lmao.. Abeg do away with that stupid tradition that is holding you in bondage.

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  58. As odd as it may seem...my take is his wife did wrong by still going against his instructions.
    He didn't forbade her from eating snails just cause he doesn't eat. No matter how archaic we think he is with his beliefs, the truth is those are his beliefs and he has every right to have them as long as it isnt posing a threat to others.
    So if it were something that will leave him dead that's how the poster will turn up dead. People should learn to respect the wishes of others be them married or not, after all this wish wasnt really affecting his wife.

    @poster, you are free to forbid any meal you choose to for whatever reason next time be clear about your request too. She may have felt you meant she can cook with the snail but never serve you the meat not understanding that you meant if she wants to eat snail she should prepare it separately. I am pretty sure all these were as a result of miscommunication which she now understands. I doubt if your wife did it in a bid to harm you or not grant your request, you noted she has looked out for you as regards this snail in times past.
    Mend issue with your wife,your mum has explained nothing wrong will happen since you knew not.


    Its so funny how we Africans or Nigerians look at our beliefs or culture as archaic. We call our traditional system paganism but that of the Asians are not. We tag who we really are mental slaves...smh...what then do we tag those who revel in the white mans culture because christianity and other foreign religions were brought to us by foreigners we take pride in that. We take pride in praising everything foreign and calling it exposed meanwhile the foreigners absconded with our traditional pieces and place them in their museums. Abandoning ones culture that is not necessarily cannibalistic or barbaric ain't woke , it's acculturation.

    Next thing some will claim you one is not a true Christian. Thank God , God ain't man. God knows those who worship him in spirit and in truth. Give into ceasar what's center is not only applicable to taxes and tithes.

    Poster you will be ok...this should not cause a fight. Explain in clear terms ,communicate and all will be well.


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  59. You know how pricey snails are right ?

    How often does she even eat the snails sef?

    Maybe once in 3, 4 months.

    So she cooks with snails once in a while not everytime except if she has snail small farm .

    Poster calling his mum to find out repercussion isn't wrong by the way....


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  60. Why do you have to tell us about the gbenshing part???

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  61. Please forgive her,madam you shouldn't have cooked snail in the same soup you will serve your husband since he already told you he forbids it.Some people still hold unto their traditions and beliefs.Love and respect works together.Please cook your snail in a separate pot from his.My friends husband doesn't eat dry fish and he doesn't even allow her buy it talk more of cooking it separately,please let's not take our loved ones for granted,there might be consequences to him eating snail.

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  62. WIfe/Bv, you are very very wrong. You knew from day one that he doesn't eat snail, so why were you still cooking his meals with snails. And after what he just experience you want him to trust you.
    Tomorrow now you will be the one crying that your husband has a side chick, why wont he, when the side chick listen and obeys him, but the wife don't listen to him. I am a female, and the truth is I don't eat so many things, no need naming them, and is not because of any believes, that is how I am, I am very selective when it comes to food. So tomorrow now, One man will now come and force me to eat what I don't eat. In all, Wife/Bv, you better go and beg your hubby for forgiveness, because you really offended him.

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  63. Oga, this one is not her fault. You were supposed to be on a trip, so your mouth nor follow for the soup. You are the one who took her food, because to her, she cooked for only herself. You were not supposed to be around for days. Hence, when yo came back, you should have give her a heads up even while on your way home that you missed your flight. Then she will quickly tell you that you shouldn't eat the soup in the kitchen o. snails are in it. This isn't her fault at all, and stop calling yOuR mama on couple squabble, eiiishhh!

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  64. The only thing i saw was that you called her to come from her shop. You forbid snail. Oga calm do. You hear so. Marriage is a partnership not boss and subordinate . Wat if your wife was MD of a bank na so you go summon her to come and face panel. Haba make it is the commandeering issue that made the wife to be silently rebellious!

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  65. so many insensitive comment,i am from isoko my village forbid snail and cocoyam,the day I eating cocoyam next day or so I notice rashes in my neck,my grandma had to do it the traditional way before it cleared,if she knows she can't obey his rules of not eating snail why marry him.madam this Bv advising you rubbish won't be there when you face the consequences.please if you are reading this apologize to your husband and stop giving him what he doesn't.if you deliberately give me what you know I don't eat I won't ever come close to you again because I believe for you to do such you can as well kill me.

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