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Thursday, June 06, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative.....

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ALL DAY;EVERY DAY GBENSHING




Good day house.

my heart is so heavy.

Pls is there anybody in the situation i am about to describe?how did u overcome it?.my hubby and I did no s#x before marriage.now after marriage I have 3 kids.i wake up 4:30 am.infact i am woken up by my hubby.he does foreplay then s#x everyday.


He refused me working.he provides all we need.we have two maids and lots of appliances but honestly I am not happy.he leaves the house early.he runs a business.he never Carry's his lunch.by ten he will start calling me for lunch


I usually go before 12.though I Dodge going most times because once I get there he must have me again.and he does it pounding hard which I always loved till the second year of our marriage because the do was too constant.he comes late .he is never tired;even if it is foreplay he does it with me before bed.i am always sore.if I complain he buys drugs and gives me a day to heal. days I am sore he must have foreplay without penetration.



he will buy me gifts just to make me happy.

Sundays I feel like running away.it is worse.we can have it like four times.i have talked to him.i don't know where he gets the energy.he said he does not know but he just loves my body so much.i no longer enjoy it.he is a bit on a big side down there.kissing is like every minute we are alone.when i deliver we stay same room.he will beg me to touch him;or he touches himself.he always vows he will never cheat but men I wish he does cos I am not enjoying him.


I have talked and talked .he is a very good man;just that side.most times he wants us to go on trips together SOLELY because of s#x.i am so sad.my down is sore;I really I am tired.

Pls what do I do.he is a great husband and father.very romantic.always wants his family to be happy.never takes a decision without me even.i am a signatory to our company.the name are our both initials.he is very good.just that side.what do I do biko.
Sorry for any error I am just down.




*Correct!!!!
Madam nah like this e suppose be nauuuuuuuuu..
Those of us who dont have our hubbys at home every day wish for something like this nauuuuuuuuu....Na wah,one mans meat is another's poison...

If he cheats now na wahala.....Please look for a way to treat your soreness and try to agree with him to give you every other break and on the days your kini will be resting,you can make him come...Madam relax your body and enjoy yourself..ah ah!!!

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  1. You married an nymphomaniac

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    1. I don't think so @ 15:02.

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    3. Hes a sex freak

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    4. I don't think so, if he was he would be cheating, he's just crazy about her body 🀣🀣, poster start looking for ways to quarrel with him so you can rest once in a while...

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    5. Poster, if you married a considerate man with empathy, he'd think about your pain and pleasure as well, not just hes... shebi u said hes a good man, a good man will not want to see you hurt or uncomfy with something, soon you'd start feeling like a sex doll... express your pains and feelings to him abeg... sex no be3 course meal

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    6. He is a "satyromaniac"...not An nyphomaniac

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    7. Poster, you need to put your foot down and stick to 2-3 times a week. Too much of sex can kill the fun in it. You need to have something to look forward to, let him miss your body for a day or 2. I’m sure you will be looking older than your age sef, too much fucking can cause that!!

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    8. In men it’s called satyriasis. Not nymphomania. My dear he needs a psychologist. It’s abnormal. Stella u don come with this ur abnormal red pen again. I beg too much of anything is not good!!!

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    9. Dear poster, I don't know how you feel but I comprehend your feelings. Your husband is a good man but he may love you/your body so much, takes sex enhancer, or have a psychological problem. In all, you too can overcome it. He may just be doing it to make you happy not realizing it is scaring you. Talk with your husband, have a heart to heart discussion, tell him how much you love and appreciate him, how your sex life is the bomb but bare your heart to him that you are no longer enjoying sex with him. Do not nag, and try not to bring it up in an accusatory manner, he must have a soft spot, talk with him using that soft spot. You may find out he is doing it just to show you how much he love you or much important you are to him. If he is taking an enhancer, he may not tell you but will stop it the way he started it. Then if it is a psychological problem, walk/work with him to get healing. Free up your mind and body while you both find a solution, loosen yourself to embrace him and the soreness will lessen. When you don't want penetration to help me ejaculate any way you can, be creative and also pray over things you can't change. God can never give us a cross too big for us to carry. God is interested in your union, sex life inclusive. Don't allow this to push you away from him emotionally or physically, he loves you from what you said, he will not hate you for opening up. Also watch it, if he tells you the reason is to avoid cheating, it is blackmail and he may be cheating already. I wish you peace, healing and understanding. I guess moderation is the key word!

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    10. Hmmmm what do women really want?He cheats ,you complain,he doesnt cheat , you complain .He is not romantic, you complain ,he is romantic you complain ...

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    11. May God help your marriage and mine

      I don’t like penetrative sex and I have low pain threshold

      My husband is complaining but he doesn’t take it easy and lasts long. I’m trying but I cannot come and kill myself on top sex
      I’m already having waist and hip joint pain just after 5 months of marriage

      I wish I don’t need to have sex.

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    12. You better enjoy. I am barely a year in marriage and the sex is already once in 2 months. I don't even look forward to it again... mtchewww

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    13. Anon 17:08 sorry dear but I have to πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. This life sef..... Uwa Ezuoke!

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    14. This is a serious issue
      That is how my husband will be walking around the house with erection every time and he will be stroking his D
      Even when he is sleeping, his hand will be inside his boxers
      I used to be scared and have palpitations but now I just ignore him
      Too much of everything is bad

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    15. 17.08 you de craze. Why did you marry? Why not be a lesbian. You want to frustrate your husband then you will come here and cry that men are scum. The faster the guy dumps you the better for him. How can you hate penetrative sex and get married???

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    16. Me I wish for this type of husband o . You’re sore because you become dry . Me dey clean my juice with tissue because of too much wetness sef

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    17. 19:37 that's too much information abeg

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    18. Poster better put sleeping pill in his food so when he comes back from work he will dose off and give you peace. Control your narrative before we hear say fuck kee person pikin.

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  2. I read it 4 times.
    What a great read/testimony. May every other home receive such in Jesus name.

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    1. Lol... Testimony you said? Make Oga take am easy ooh. Gbenshing no be come kill me ooh. Just like the story making round on how a young boy f#ck out life from his aged suger mommy and when asked he said madam told him harder.

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    2. Amen!! I receive

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    3. Recieve what!? Abeg I reject that sex part biko

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    4. This is too much ooo,in as much as some women want this type of sex life a man should know when to control and keep it down a bit.why not have a talk with him maybe you guys should put up a timetable to know when he will have it and when you take a rest. Because my sister this your husband does not look like someone who is ready to stop,just wake him up in the middle of the night and call his attention to it I'm sure he will listen to you considering the type of person you described him to be.

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    5. Lol,anon 15:05 u are funny dye,poster please talk to him again in a cool manner atlest let him give you like 2days break,the rest days will be all for him , enjoy your marriage,u can apply oilment to your sore.

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    6. I forbid it in Jesus name...Wetin happen?Just do the prayer for yourself abeg.Is she a slave??

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    7. Godbless you Anonymous 15:24.

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    8. I reject it in Jesus name. What kind of bondage is This?

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    9. Madam, sorry for the pains . Find a way to get your feelings across to your husband.There must be something you can do to satisfy him without the penetration. Discover it and you will be happy.

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    10. she should make one ashewo her friend, they will teach her how they do it and their pkomo is still intact

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    11. I reject it
      Who wants to die on top sex?
      No please
      Everything should be in moderation

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    12. Too much.. Reading it alone almost made me dizzy. It's not normal. The man needs some kind of help.

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  3. Stellz u made light of her predicament, but truly it is'nt funny. Have you ever been sore down there? Poster some one once said , we must be practice honesty. To self, and to others. You have admitted to yourself that the sex has gone way over the top. Now u must tell your husband IN CLEAR TERMS!You can talk to him about it in the evening when you are alone. Tell him how trully you cannot take anymore. I wish you the best.

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    1. Exactly!!! This is something serious before it result to medical problems.

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    2. It’s already a medical problem.

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    3. Stella I don't agree with you. This is a medical problem and no woman should go through it. Too much of everything is bad.

      I feel for you poster. God knows he will not allow me fall into this kind of situation. Sex for me is a big chore! Not every woman loves sex this much like you said Stella.

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  4. Madam, You cannot have it all, put your mind to it, you'll see your self enjoying it.

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    1. Enjoying it for every minutes you said? When you haven't walk on peoples shoes, it's better you don't give conclusion on their plight.

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    2. Even your best meal, you cant enjoy it daily or twice a day

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    3. Becky she can't enjoy it, it's now like sports for her plus the soreness down below mehn! Everyday? Meaning it would be difficult to wash it as it would hurt so badly especially if she can't stand pains oga would have to do that too🀣🀣🀦

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    4. There is no way she can enjoy it. With all the sores, How? Poster what happens when you're on your period? Tufia. This kind of man cannot release his wife for a few days vacation with only the children.
      Keep talking to him. Let him know you can't take it anymore, if he trulycares about your wellbeing he will find a way.

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    5. Thank you Teejay. They keep dishing out advice, when they haven't worked in her shoes. I thought they said sex is not food.

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    6. Please loan your husband to another woman

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  5. He is an nympho.
    With the man You just described up there I am not sure he was celibate along with you before marriage. You were the only one who waited till marriage to have sex obviously.

    Stella quit saying "correct" biko. Was this not the same reason why Halle berry ran away from bennet?.

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    1. He is a sex addict. I don't know what to advice you. Hope you get good advice.

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    2. What is your advice?

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    3. 15.34,No...what's yours?

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    4. He is not a sex addict as if he was he would be doing it with any and everybody. He has satyriasis which is the male version of nymphomania and he needs to see a shrink ASAP. It’s not a laughing matter and can be very distressing for parties involved including the man.

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  6. Stella, too much of everything is bad... you think its what you want until you are in her shoes.
    Hes a sex addict.
    Dont ever think he isnt cheating already, he is codedly.
    Youre a sex machine and nothing you can do... start saying No! Youre sore and need to heal, before he'd use sex and kill you

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  7. Hmmm.... I will read comments.

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  8. There's not much you can do madam, just learn to enjoy yourself and satisfy each other during the love making process.

    Don't drive your husband away and try to explain to him how you feel some times, when you're not in the mood.

    You married a man with high libido and he won't ever change until old age comes knocking on his door.

    You actually married one of the best men in Nigeria, I mean with all the good qualities you mentioned above that he possess, he is a very good good man.

    You can try talking to him also about you joining him in the business, like working five hours a day.
    You have maids doing almost all the house chores.

    Enjoy your sex life my dear and build the bond.

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    1. U no well o. Did u not read that ordinary to take him food he must do again? U want her to join the biz so he will do every 15 mins and the biz will Kuku fail??

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    2. I agree it's too much madam poster. Maybe you will have to lubricate more to avoid the soreness down there. You can use liquid paraffin as lubricant, it's oily and stays for a longer time. But abeg, everyday is still plenty. You'll have to have a sincere talk with him, penetration must not be everyday. Some days he can put his penis in between your upper thighs and you close tightly, this will simulate vagina tightness and he'll still cum.
      I hope he doesn't take some of these herbal concotions for libido o!

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    3. Anonymous 16:12, abeg no kill me with laughter. What you said is so true but quite funny

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  9. Have experienced pain down below before? Sorry I forgot I said I will just read comments.

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    1. 🀣🀣🀣🀣 even urinating is a taboo!

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    2. As in urinating and washing there becomes a huge problem.

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  10. Quoting you:

    We have two maids
    He doesn't know where he gets the strength from
    I am not happy
    Wish he cheats etc.

    Quoting God;
    The blessing of God maketh rich and adds no sorrows Prov. 10:22

    What to do:
    Ask your husband that you want both of you to fast and pray and seek God.
    His response will give you the clue you need.
    If he joins you, you have won. If he does not, go ahead and you will
    find out the answer/solution to your
    problems.
    If it is anything evil, it will be
    exposed.
    Be careful about those two maids; I wonder what you are doing with two
    maids; grown up girls? mmmmhhhh.
    Anyway, take the above steps

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    1. He got the helps to assist her at home so she does less work and to conserve enough energy.

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  11. Chai what can I say? Truly,we can't have it all. See what looks like a perfect home, it is sex that another will kill for that's making someone tired. Kilode human being. I will read comment biko

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    1. Abi o. You can't have it all!
      This one just tire me.

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  12. God knows i will can't bear this kind of marriage, i hate sex.
    Once a week is enough for me, my mama dinno born me to come and fuck.
    Madam, find your husband a side chic, let her come home and satisfy h whenever you are sore, that is what i did for my ex

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    1. You did for your ex....that's why he's your ex. Madame, don't follow this advice.

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    2. I can't even remember when last I had sex sef..i don't mind even of it can be a year. I just dey pity Oga and manage like 1 or 2 times a month🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️

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    3. Anon 15:24
      Do you know what it means to have a sore v-jay?
      I couldn't sit properly for days, i had to fake travel just to heal, even with the side chic, he still wasn't satisfied.
      Some people are born with high libido, there's little you can do to help except they find their match. I wasn't his match, so i left.

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    4. I thought I was the only person that doesn’t like sex. How I wish I married someone like me not this drilling machine
      It’s not funny
      One of the reasons I want to relocate

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    5. Very foolish advice..That was what u did for ur ex.& imagine what u'll do for your husband...What happened to your self worth....Shameless indeed....after all u did,it didn't keep him....Some Nigerians with their low IQ

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    6. It's in the abroad you won't find drilling machine? Come and meet my own. I had to keep my house so I can stay away sometimes to rest. He doesn't get tired of sex.

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  13. Shebi una don see why e good to test prick first before marriage?
    You would have known what you are in for.
    Since you were busy doing no sex before marriage,he was busy counting how many rounds he would collect after marriage.
    Please continue to give him his food o.
    His main purpose in life is to break your waist!
    he he he he he!πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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    1. I tire o. Why won’t I test the prick to know it’s strength and durability πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

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    2. People change

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    3. The man could've still pretend na so what is there?

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    4. Go and get Durex Play Tingling pleasure gel and lube.It is so good and it would ease the soreness and add some excitement during sex.
      You know your husband more than we do so figure it out.

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  14. Walks away from tread, clapping hand .Like really? Women what do u people want?

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    1. Because this one person wrote in,it is now 'women,what do you want?'.
      As if 'woman' refers to only one person.Different people want different things.
      It is as simple as that.

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    2. Too much of ANYTHING is not good,what's the joy in cringing when you know oga will soon say oya?you need to have a heart to heart with him poster,let him know how u feel

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    3. I know many like you will not see anything wrong in what the man is doing. If it weren't a problem, she won't send this story as a chronicle. The man no matter how good she claims he is, is being selfish here. He's neglecting her need for comfort during sex and could expose her to health issues as a result which can further affect their sex life and threaten their marriage so he's also not being wise. Alcohol tastes good and makes you feel good but what is the consequence of taking too much of it? Or even food? Too much of everything is bad.
      Poster talk to your husband because he's not taking you serious since its sex and not something prohibited. Only you can find solutions to your own problems. You both can see a sex therapist to also help if he's open to it.

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  15. Nne eh! i wish I was you..End of discussion...

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  16. Madam poster ... pls enjoy urself oo. I know it’s not easy but u have to enjoy yourself ... before I got married to husband he told me his sexual urge is high , I thought it was a normal talk , but after wedding my dear the sex was too much oo.. we talked about it, he told me he can not cheat on me, and each time he see me “mostly naked “ the urge come .... first I wast complaining then later I told myself to enjoy it , and right now I look forward to having sex with him.... if u put ur mind it it u will enjoy it my dear

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    1. Madam does your husband do it four times in a day? Does he do it everyday? Do you experience almost all the time if not just keep quiet

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  17. Inside life...some women will break their backs to have a man like yours but you are here complaining.All marriages have issues and yours is the fact that your man loves sex and loves it with you.Madam the problem that you have is that you don’t even have a problem.

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    1. Wait till you wear the shoes before talking rubbish

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  18. You married a MAN, MAN, πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜€πŸ˜€, use style wear pad with hemoglobin for a weak...use lube...or would u rather he has a sidechic? U no go complain if him get assistance outside.. ..enjoy u hear, if u can't tell him to go get a babe to assist u 😁😁😁 cos he can't kill himself, na fuck him like, he didn't kill anyone. Good luck, note oil to your kundus.

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    1. @Blackey
      Which one be "pad with hemoglobin" again bikonu? 😯😯
      Wetin the pad go come do for her now?
      Nwanyi a, obu so ira otu bu oru gi eh?
      Abegi kowatasia ooo. πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

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    2. Stain her pad with hemoglobin..

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    3. Blackey
      YOu never still explain that thing o
      Where them dey sell hemoglobin?
      Abi na doctor prescribe that one?
      I confuse o 😯😯😯😯

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    4. De Deon's haemoglobin.... My teacherπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    5. Hemoglobin is a blood tonic.
      BB is saying she should use it on her pad to fake menstrual period

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    6. Y"ll r funny...what makes u think the man has no side Chic ..Does she go everywhere with him?U sure he isn't sleeping with one of his office staffs especially during the hours she is at home preparing his food,etc. A man with 10 wives cheats talk more of a man with one wife.

      Her Solution is to either open up her mind and enjoy by buying jellies/lubricants,Kayanmatan herbs n p*ssy upgrade..ur hubby is rich...U can afford Haruma empire...,Sex up your sex life,make it fun...Try dress up in bed..U could play actress,maid or stripped roles.
      Learn to say no when u are not in the mood...or will he rape you??.U sound like one who fears her hubby. Hope he isn't ur father's age mate...
      U can sleep in ur room when u don't feel horny....n lock the door.
      U can talk to him n tell him what u don't like about your sex life.
      Does he also sleep with you on your period??
      u didn't mention.....
      Lastly,get busy..Learn a skills,set up a business or further your education.
      Tomorrow is pregnant...Don't be a Zombie...Idle doing nothing...Better still save enough cash for future....This is importantaaa

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    7. @Blackey/Charity

      Na Charity explain this yarn give me o
      so the Sisi go dey menstruate every week? 😯😯😯😯
      Abi she go become the woman with the issue of blood?
      😊😊😊😊

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  19. Poster it can be tiring but I also think you don’t get wet easily. Pls try and use aphrodisiacs biko, it helps .You’ll be fine

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  20. hey Madam dont push your husband away i wish na My husband be this please go and look for a way to get urself wet when ever he touches u.

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    1. Na by wetness? What about her body, abi she go pour water make e wet too?

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  21. This one pass me. Too much of everything they say is not good.

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  22. Lmao satisfied woman's problem

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  23. ok ooo weldon try make u push ur husband enter another woman hand

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  24. Shuoooooooooooooooooorrr!
    Madam, this one no be legitimate poundings again o... 😯😯😯😯😯
    Baba God no dey give gift wey dey pain.
    Wetin una dey worship?
    I ask because na from that side wahala fit dey o.
    Make you begin seek Jesus in prayer/fasting o.
    Nke a agbaro aka o.
    If you mud, the man go replace you fiaaaam, another (Naija) sisi go raise/enslave ya kids o.
    Make you begin fast and read Jesus teachings and you go find peace... you go draw ya husband join... yes cos two of you are one.

    You no dey work and you come get two maids? 🀐🀐🀐🀐🀐
    Make I ask o, those two maids get tohtohs?

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    1. Exactly.... Everyday pounding isn't good naa. I wonder where the man got such strength even after work.

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  25. Hmmmmmmm madam please ain't you looking for a problem where there are non? Please try as much as possible to look for solution for the sore or maybe you can buy lubricants to add smooth penetration. From what you have explained above he is really a very good man and him finding you attractive every other day is very good, please discuss with him so as to seek for solution together. Please don't destroy your beautiful home with your hands. About 65% of women don't enjoy sex that much , most pretend to enjoy it. Please be guided.

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  26. Stella biko I disagree with you. Too much of everything is bad, is marraige now all about sex cause clearly that's what the man has as an idea of marraige. That woman feels tired already,and that man obviously is a sex addict which is a terrible disease on it's own. It's not fair on the woman

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  27. Get him sex doll to alternate in between....blow him some days.try the other side too if ur religion or morals permit..also if u can stand the pain but not much pain if u use lubricants.Pls dont push your husband away o. You just might lose him nd you will definitely regret it.Sorry madam. I can understand your pain, but most men are designed biologically that way.

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    1. By the other side, you mean anal sex?

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  28. Poster i'm in the same situation. The only difference is that i'm TTC and I work. The only issue I have with hubby is over sex. His drive is too much. Now I have developed artificial bow leg waka because that place is always sore. I can't even talk to anyone about it bcos it's so embarrassing. This last salah holidays I had to pretend that I had work to do. I rushed off in the mornings. I pretend we work on Saturdays. I jus tire. I'd be reading comments because I need to know how to deal.

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    1. I have a friend whose husband pound her everyday, now she don get artificial bowleg, she walks as if boil catch her for yansh

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    2. And this is what some people are wishing For? Naa I'll pass.

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    3. TTC anonymous, I came here for you specifically! My husband was always pounding away (except for the period days) and na so we do the do and unknowingly knocked out a pregnancy or 2 (Drs & abnormal cycle confirmed this) as newlyweds.The day I came from work and he wanted to do the deed as usual, I told him I was nauseous, sore nipples and had fever (just like those 2 other times) and would need a shower and few hours rest. He surprised me by coming in with a pregnancy test strip and water. I drank some and peed and voila! I was pregnant.
      My point is after your cycle and ovulation, do constant pee tests, so you don't knock out a new & fragile pregnancy. Sometimes he should have gentle sex inbetween so that you reduce the risk of this occurrence.
      God's blessing upon all expectant and ttc women out there, God will see us all through to victory in Jesus name, amen.

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    4. I'm also TTC, if not, I dont like sex at all, like once in a while, but my husband is like the poster husband, he cant see my nakedness without having erection.

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    5. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£
      Una sorry oh!!! Who wants sex every day abeg?! I can't imagine the state of down there

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  29. Oh dear
    I'm happy for u o..
    Pls enjoy yourself.. Lols

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  30. Madam pele πŸ˜„
    There are other ways to enjoy sex without penetration na
    Have you tried oral?

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  31. That man should be considerate abeg, before him kill person pikin. Her people gave her to you no be to pound life out of her naaa. Pity madam small naa. I don't want to believe Oga uses enhancer but gosh who gbensh everyday without getting tired? Abi na food now? Poster talk to him calmly and please don't suggest that idea of him to cheat like you said above, for when he does, the whole love and affections he has for you will stop.

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    1. This one Teejay is in every section
      Hehehe

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  32. Lol i am not in the position to give advice...i am in this anytime hubby comes around. Now my problem be say he go use this chronicles tell me say he is an angel. Everyday gbesh de weak person. Soote him know my period

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  33. LMAO let me learn from the married people.

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  34. Hmmm...
    If na me get this kind husband I go run commot for that house o. This is one situation pray never to be in.

    On a serious note madam he is your husband so you can't deny him of his right,more especially as he is a loving husband to you & a great dad to the kids.
    If you complain too much he might go look for it outside. So I suggest you try to relax & begin to enjoy him again,like Stella has said find a way to make him agree to give you a day break in between the marathon sex. Thank God his D isn't too big. Madam please rest your body,take care of yourself since the money is there,go & buy all these aphrodisiacs,the type they say make you wet all through the gbenshing time so you don't feel sore again. Eat foods that enhance libido ,foods that will keep your sex moral high. Maybe you can meet with some expert in these fields so you don't loose your darling husband.
    OR On another point of view,maybe you can be the one arranging a side chick for him,just for his gbenshing pleasure if he agrees,but remember this one has its unpleasant side effect o. What am I even saying,God have mercy o

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  35. Stella, you never jam this kind of thing
    It is not like this. A man is a slave to whatever
    has mastered him 2 Pet. 2:19
    This man is a slave to sex.
    Marital sexual intercourse is supposed to be enjoyed
    not endured like the poster is doing.

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  36. Enter your comment...Na me dis woman dey talk.my wife and I fucked every day.yummy yummy

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  37. I can imagine the stress madam. Hubby wanted to be like that but I no gree abeg.. I easily get sore down there. Abeg which kain love and touchy touchy be that? I told him if u want to cheat you can go ahead oo I no fit keep myself on top preeq

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  38. Pls ma,put your mind in it and enjoy it, the best part is that he's not cheating on you and I don't think he can and pls don't pray for him to cheat on you,may God continue to bless your union

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    1. You can't be too sure or certain he doesn't cheat. Can you swear for any man?

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    2. If i hear he's not cheating. Lol
      This kind of man can never be satisfied, even with a side chic. He is a sex addict doesn't mean he is faithful

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    3. Smiles,TEEJAY I can't swear for any body oo

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  39. God help you poster, the Lord will strengthen you.

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  40. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£ nah real, "madam relax your body and enjoy yourself".

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  41. Please c get a ky gel so you’ll always be wet down there.

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  42. I wish my husband is like yours....please lets do exchange na!

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  43. Poster don't you ever let that man look outside ooooo, cos once he starts mmmmmmmm there will be no coming back. This is what most women are looking for and you are complaining. Buy enough lubricant madam poster and let oga enjoy you to the fullest. If you are sore, beg him to give you time to heal. You should thank God you have an active sex life with your hubby. Goodluck.

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    1. "Let oga enjoy to the fullest" so what about her? She doesnt deserve it too? You people like to talk rubbish sha. Who wants to have sex everyday more than once sef? When that person isnt sick,so that's her sole purpose on earth. To use sex to kill herself just so he can enjoy to the fullest. Isnt sex supposed to be enjoyed by both parties anymore

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  44. You love your husband and that’s good. You write well about him. You don’t know how to say no to such a good man. People will blame you after all he’s a good man
    But that’s not alllove is about. He must also learn to respect your body’s signals and you must learn to respect it too and teach him likewise
    Your body is saying it’s either too much sex or sex not done very right. Invest in lubes and also help him slow down during sex. Pounding pounding can be too much for the vagina
    Slow him down and you tell him hold on, don’t initiate sex for a little bit, let me come to you

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  45. My husbands own is he wants sex all the time when i am pregnant. I dey hear am now no be small as i don take in. I understand poster. Too much of everything is bad. Please u guys do not make mockery of this. Its serious.

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    1. reduce rough sex with him so u bby no go get issues....

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  46. Maybe you people doesn't use enough lubricant during the do, if not you wouldn't be complaining about soreness.... Please buy KY Jelly and thank me later.

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    1. Read the story well abeg, this is not about Ky jelly or any lubrication. Its about too much, or exaggerated pounding. Imagine e don turn to daily bread

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  47. I'm not a sex freak but can we exchange husbands please. So long he provides all my needs and he's not cheating on me.

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  48. This is serious oo. Madam enjoy it ooo

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  49. Stella, sex is good but believe me, this poster's situation is something that no one should wish to be in. All of you shouting about her relaxing and enjoying it...marriage is not a maid and boss relationship rather it is a partnership. she's unhappy about her situation and everyone is making light of it! I'm sorry but I'm disappointed at most comments so far. Do you know what it means for a vagina to be sore? do you have any idea? poster, I'm sorry but your hubby is selfish and doesn't care about you or your health.

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    1. Exactly! It amazes me that people don't see the selfishness of the man here. But trust Nigerian women, she must not complain as long as he doesnt cheat. Marriage is partnership not slave master relationship.

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  50. Madam poster, I wish my husband will be like that, please try and get use to it...

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  51. Madam tell him sometimes that you aint in the mood na. which kain thing be dis? does he want to kill you? fuck upandan daily, who does that?

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  52. Poster, I'm sorry but you cannot get any right comment here because majority of the people here will advice that your stick to your husband. Our society expects that the woman stay in a marriage where she's most times sad and unhappy. Poster, deep down you are sad and you feel hurt because your husband realy doesn't care about your feelings. You need to seek help and take him to see a marriage counselor. Your hubby only cares about his feelings. It's unfortunate that you cannot divorce him. You deserve to be cherished, you deserve a man who wouldn't make you sore...you deserve a man who respects your body and feelings

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    1. ☝️πŸ’―πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  53. Seriously?! There is nothing to enjoy in this torture. Please sit him down and talk gently and passionately about how you and your vagina feel. You’ve painted him as a reasonable guy and if he is, he will be considerate.

    Sex is to be enjoyed by both husband and wife. It is not a chore. This submit your body at any day and night even when you’re hurting is rubbish. If you’re not in the mood he should understand and if he isn’t so should you.

    His appetite is unhealthily crazy. Like a rabbit or tortoise in an enclosure. Inform a trusted doctor or therapist and voice your concerns. Let them put you through properly.

    I wish you and your husband the very best.

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    1. I am telling you dear... In as much as everyone is entitled to their opinion, we should all put ourselves in that woman situation and be considerate for once. If she is enjoying it as some persons tried to make it look, then she won't be lamenting about it. Until you walk in someone shoes, you really can't tell what they went through in life.

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    2. I don't know why most Nigerian females have a patriarchal mindset. Many here have put the fear into her that if she continues to complain, the man will go and commit the almighty act that is to be feared at all costs - cheating. If he cheats in this case, then it's solely because he lacks self-control and is selfish. Fullstop

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    3. Imagine some here even telling her to go and drink aphrodisiacs???? For what na??

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  54. tell your Husband to take it slowly on you, your his wife and some random chick

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  55. he married you so he owns your body. open your legs anytime he wants ok. u dont have a choice. your other choice is to work out which I'm sure u wont want because u are broke as hell

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  56. All I know is prayer changes things. Since you don't work use the period you are at home to fast and pray and tell God to help you normalise his sex drive and watch God answer your prayer

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  57. Madam, surf online and find that sex toy that is a woman's Bum and Pvssy. It will be very Ideal for a man like your hubby with libido extraOrdinaire!😁😁 They also have the one to do a blow job on him. These will help serve his needs on those days you feel sore. Pele my dear, It's terrific having a man who worships and craves your body if you both enjoy sex on the same frequency.

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  58. It might be an 'illness/disorder'. Would he agree to go to the hospital with you to tender a complaint? Or you do your findings and tell him.
    While at that, pls buy lubricant.
    And you don't wanna know what it means to have a cheating partner. You see all the good you listed of him, might be all gone, you might loose your home and be slammed with a terminal disease. So, pls rule that out of your thoughts or prayers: that it might not come to pass.
    It's well with you ooo o.

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  59. Most of you are saying she should endure it or Else he Will go out and cheat. How can he have sex everyday not thinking of her body. Women should empower themselves before marriage if she had her own job she would not be afraid to stand up to him and say stop.

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  60. Poster just know the day he stops producing sperm he stops producing cash. So better shut up and enjoy the money that comes with the sex

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    1. Hmmmmmm anon@16:23 Occult things???? Might be true. Strange things everywhere

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  61. My God!!! I don't envy you at all!!! I think you were the only one practicing celibacy when you guys were dating. I once heard a colleague tell me that his fiancΓ©e is a virgin and he won't touch her so that she'd remain a virgin till their wedding night but he was unashamedly cheating on the poor girl whom he eventually married! So men can be a piece of work!! Talk to him about your ordeal, then tell God to tone his appetite down, then start thanking God for toning him down, sometimes you might be surprised at what God can do, sometimes we forget that just the same way God was there for the big things he's there for the small ones as well. He doesn't have to cheat.

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  62. Sweetheart, I'm sorry you are in distress but, please, never EVER say you wish your hubby would cheat. I know you said it out of frustration but you have to be careful with the words you utter from your mouth concerning your husband. There's power in words, that power is multiplied when a spouse makes certain declarations. In the spiritual realm you've given him permission to cheat and cheat he will if you don't reverse it and reverse it fast.

    You have to first rule out the possibility that your hubby has a sexual problem because his libido is unusually high and he doesn't seem to care that he is hurting you. Sex or love making between man and wife should be mutually beneficial and enjoyable. If only one partner is getting satisfaction at the expense of the other, that's selfish. If your hubby loves you the way you say he does, he wouldn't want to hurt you, he would sacrifice some days of pleasure for your wellbeing. If he sees he is hurting you and even buys drugs for you, yet resumes pounding the next day, then there's a problem because it appears he can't control his sexual urges.

    This is a delicate matter, convincing him to seek counselling may rock the boat but you have to try because he may really need help. You can suggest that both of you go for professional counselling so you can meet up with his high libido, don't make him feel like he has a problem. If you convince him and both of you seek counselling, it will be the job of the counsellor to point out that he may have a problem.

    I'm all for husbands and wives getting their freak on and maintaining a super spicy sex life but I draw the line where one partner seems out of control and keeps wanting it regardless of the wellbeing of the other. Some men will go flat the minute they notice their partner is in pain, because it's no longer fun. If he could be disciplined to be celibate when you guys were dating, what happened to that discipline now? He shouldn't be a selfish lover.

    If he can compromise by toning it down a couple of notches, you too will have to meet him halfway. He can't reduce his libido to the exact level you want, you too have to find a way to increase your libido to match the new toned down version. Work on your mind, use lubricants, get creative. There are many ways to give your man immense pleasure without penetrative sex. Sorry darling, I can't elaborate, I have to keep my comments PG13. Go online and read articles, not porn, educative articles on the art of love making. You will enjoy it more when you're in control, don't leave it all to him and just keep receiving like a sex doll. Be in charge sometimes, it feels empowering. I just hope it doesn't backfire by making him start wanting you more again. Lol! I wish you the very best, my love, I hope you get to really enjoy your marriage.
    e-hugs and kisses.

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    1. wow you are just too kind. i love you for your kind words

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    2. A million likes to your comment Ronalda. You never disappoint. E-hug to you dear.

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    3. Ronalda God bless you, my dear poster you are not wrong feeling like you do. People are saying it's a blessing but it's a big lie. If you feel the way you do then there is a problem, anything too much is bad. The vagina is an organ of the body and it hurts when manhandled some even swell and close up in some ladies. Please plead with your husband he is being selfish. You are a human being and if he loves you he should make sacrifices and understand you and try to control his libido just a little bit. I am woman and there are times I don't feel like being touched at all, I just want my peace and space and there is nothing wrong with it. You are sacrificing by giving in all the time but he is not sacrificing even a little for u. If it makes u unhappy then my dear it's an issue.

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    4. I have a male friend who confided in me that he was looking for solution as he has a very high sex drive and his wife of 8 months is suffering and said he wanted to help. Said she always gave in but right after she is crouching her stomach in her hands and squints thinking he does not notice before rushing into the restroom. He said what he does sometimes to help is he tells her to touch him and he plays with himself till he comes so she can rest her body. Your husband should consider you and make sacrifices where necessary before you loose your mind. Because for you to complain he does it in such a way that you are not enjoying it anymore due to the frequency. It's good to miss and want something sometimes, which one is everyday 3x I swear down I can never deal.

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  63. Chai! The kind of complain God receives every minute eeh? And to think the some persons what to kill herself cos her husband cheated on her and here another is begging for her husband to cheat so her kpekus can have some rest πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Madam get sex lubricant to fire down

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  64. You are getting bored. Try other different sex Styles. Do orals, buy a strapon and start pegging him too. He will love it .

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    1. Ignore this advice please

      Don't sow homosexuality into his life
      Tufiakwa

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  65. All the best ,god blessings make the rich and add no sorrow

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  66. Poster,the reality is your husband loves you very very very much.

    please try to change your mindset to accomodate this part of him and soon it will fade away as he ages. Use wisdom when you are sore like e.g the kids have a nightmare so you are sleeping with them that night or something.
    The moment the man feels you are not in tune with his sexual desires he might go outside.Forget all these things people are telling you and try to enjoy sex with him,please try.
    I suspect your husband may not have had sexual experiences for too long before getting married so sex is still fresh for him that's why his libido is high.
    Men are usually like this when they just started having sex and, it is this libido that drives them into having multiple girlfriends to fulfill this.

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    1. Pls high sex drive is not equal to love!!!

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  67. Poster I think our are not enjoying sex with your husband, is possible see finish has entered between you both. Try to be romantic iu will enjoy it, Take your husband out, spoil him small and have heart to heart talk with him. You have o continue managing the situation till he change.

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  68. Ewoo !madam I feel for you, sex in marriage is sweet but when it comes without breaks it can be frustrating. I wonder how those sex hawkers are doing it

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  69. Na stroke her man dey play with oooo.. He needs to see a doctor ASAP

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  70. Dear poster this is for you. This will help you to always be wet and ready.
    V-FLUID BOOSTER
    *Ingredients*
    Ugwu leaf
    Egg
    Lime (optional)
    Powder milk
    Honey
    *Procedure*
    Squeeze ugwu leaf to get the green juice or u can blend it to seive, mix it with milk 2tbsp, honey 3tbspn, squeeze half lime....
    Drink this for like 3days, it increases vaginal fluid, its also a dry Vagina remedy

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  71. another man food is another man poise indeed. I wish my husband was like this, madam I can help you give me his phone no, so that I can help you and talk senses into him.

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  72. Dear poster your husband is a nymphomaniac,constant sex with you won't stop him from cheating though. Buy lubricant and pray you don't start looking way older than your age.Solution is to form vex and put your children between the two of you at night...Do not allow him ruin you with fucking!!!!

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  73. I was in this situation too, I would go to the bathroom put some hot water in my private par and some times hubby helps to put ointment, but it did not solve the problem, he cheated eventually and caught disease, myself I ve this “burning on my vgay once in a while even though am older. There is nothing you can do except to use much vjay oil, even at that, it will look as he is banging firewood and you will be stressed out because you are not enjoying it.

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  74. Ur case is both a blessing and a curse wrapped together.
    I once dated a guy that was like ur husband. Once he sees me na gboola... as in I’m always scared when I’m with him at night because I know we can’t just gust and go to bed like that without sex.

    Sometimes when I visit him during weekends, I kick my self in one room and tell him I want to do midnight prayers...lol. He will still come knocking to ask if I’m done praying πŸ˜„
    It so affected our bonding because I was always scared of lying on his laps while seeing a movie because his preeq will always rise up and he doesn’t cum on time too. He also told me that he doesn’t wanna cheat on me but one day I saw a lady’s panties in his wardrobe and dat was d day I broke up with him. I ran for my life.

    Now I’m married to d complete opposite. Though when we were dating I was okay with everything but after d wedding we had sex like crazy but immediately I took in, oh dear it went from a πŸ’― to 0 real quick.
    My husband can stay for 3 months without sex until I go to him and take it by force. One day I asked him what was wrong, he said he’s scared that he has never had sex with a pregnant woman before and that he might hurt d baby.
    He also said I’m always too rough during sex so it’s might not be safe.
    We can watch movie till 3am at night then we go to bed and he snore away while I just lie there and think till I will be able to sleep.

    I’m pregnant nd sex starved and I’ve also promised my self not to go to him till I put to bed. I don’t pray to cheat on him but if he continues like this who knows.....

    So now I’ve experienced both sides and I don’t want any of it. Pls ignore my typo as I don’t even av d strength to proofread jor

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    1. Some men have that fear. Let the baby come and he’ll go back to normal
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  75. It's his type that fucks STEADY outside too. Pele dear.

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  76. I hope it won't develop into Cervical cancer...??Na question I ask ooo..correct me if am wrong..I also hope this one no be jazz..n Ami ego

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  77. Kai! see love... Madam Poster! Don't ever wish your husband cheats. There's no describing the pain... My husband has been cheating since we got married. At first it was just sex so I kept it quiet. Partly because I was terrified of him and also because I blamed myself for not being enough. After seven years of foolishness, I confronted the man. It was horrid. He went ballistic and came at me like a storm. But I didn't die, lol!. Now, he is in a relationship with this single mother. They are both muslims; they pray together; he seems happy with her. The pain is out of this world. We have three kids together. I figured I'd take off when I get financially stable but then again, how do I tear my kids from their home. They are so young and they adore their father and he loves them too... He just does not love me. It's been almost a year and we have only had sex once. lol! Once! I've decided to forgive him and "work out my own salvation". I cannot cheat because I believe in God and I revere him. My point is, you too will find a way but do be careful of the words you speak while your storm is blowing. Nothing lasts forever but every seed we sow must and will grow. Our words are the seeds.
    For now, I'd advice you prayerfully approach this situation. Ask God for wisdom. In the interim, get lube or gorontula. Lots of it. Be deliberate about the sex. Will yourself to enjoy it and willfully take charge. A part of the problem is you have seemingly lost control of the process. you don't own it. And it feels like he is violating you repeatedly. You will end up resenting him if this goes on. Resentment is a killer. TAKE CHARGE. It is your body. Take some natural stimulants if you have to... After this pull then down little by little. Take notch down one step at a time... Talk to him play with him and get him to slow it down. For instance, give him something to look forward to each night or every other night. Just think and strategize. You will be fine.

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    1. Your husband has broken the covenant. You are free to have sex with another
      Move onv

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  78. Sex with my husband is once a month. Sometimes I force him. Once it was thrice a year. Once when I was pregnant. Just got myself a vibrator and a few sex toys. Im never asking hiim for sex. Is this what marriage is meant to be like? I’m expected not to have my needs met? It’s mentally stressful. Each to his own.

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    1. Insist he gets help
      Get yourself a boyfriend
      Or get a divorce

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  79. Stella please do a piece on lack of intimacy in marriage. It ruins marriages. I’m so tired. But I’m not attracted to him anymore. He irritates me now.I will continue to be gorgeous and just live my life. No point stressing about it.

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  80. meehnn, this is too much nau, you two needs to see a counselor.

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  81. Cloth sure do cover alot of things ooo.

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  82. While we are talking about this sex crazed husband, I've seen one too many comments from women who are complaining of poor sex life with their husbands. This no sex/too much sex are serious and troubling issues in marriage and extremes of a good thing and it means we need more open discussions about the need for sex therapy or counselling for married couples. Women please don't bottle up these issues. Don't wallow in frustration or pain. Seek help!

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  83. Having sex everyday is a deal breaker though...
    But what do u say about a husband that sex with him is so dry and not pleasurable.
    As in no fore play, no head, no kiss, no touching of boobs, as in no romance of any sort just straight to the point. How then will d woman get wet?
    It hurts expectially when Uve dated other people who knows how to pleasure a woman.

    Marriage is a scam. And when the woman cheats tomorrow they’ll say she did wrong.

    Dear poster I don’t know if I should be happy for u or not but on d brighter side u are kinda lucky.. marriage without intimacy is a time bomb waiting to happen




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