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Been married for 6yrs, am 38yrs now while hubby is 40. we already have 2 sets of triplets and have agreed to stop making babies.
My source of worry is that I do not enjoy s#x with hubby any more basically because my Vijay has expanded due to child birth, I do not feel hubby inside me whenever we do the do. Am sure he feel the same though he has never raised it or act differently.
Due to the above, our s#x life has declined drastically as I do not make move for the sole reason of not enjoying it, coupled with the fact that hubby goes on business trips for between a month or two occasionally.
I have done several exercise, took medication but no improvement. These have greatly affected our s#x life. Would like to get advice from anyone who has gone through these stage of life and what they did to get it back.
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Use vaginal pearls, they tighten d vagina nd cleanse your vagina too
ReplyDeleteThis life eh! See me almost crying each time I have sex and I have had four babies vaginally who weighed btw 4.3kg to 4.8kg each. Pls who knows what I can use to widen up a bit? just a lil bit o.
DeletePoster I heard soaking cloves for like 3 days and using it to wash inside the vagina works. I dunno if it should be a continuous process, and I also dunno if it's a temporary or a permanent solution sha.
Your boasting has been greatly noticed. So how does this solve the poster's problem?
DeleteYou can soak cloves (zobo pepper) in water for 3 days, then use the water and wash inside your vagina. It will tighten, you can wash the zobo pepper before using to avoid contacting infection. Or you can buy raw groundnut with the back. Dry it for 2 days(you can wash before drying to remove dirt). Pour it inside big Eva water, pour water inside, soak over 24 hours. Then be drinking the water, a glass morning and a glass night. It also tightens vjay. Many testimonies on both method but heard the groundnut method works faster.
DeleteDon't mind the cartoon character. If I hear!
DeletePoster try yoni steaming, there are lots of herbs you can use. Or go for vaginoplasty if the money is available since you've stopped having kids.
Don't be ashamed, it's not a taboo topic. I know a doctor that has a lot of women who come in for the above mentioned procedure and guess what? He's in the North.
Why the lie now. Babies over 4kg are usually birthed via CS. Even to birth 3.8kg vaginally sef na war. You too dey lie pls.
DeleteAnonymous 18.03...says who. I weighed 4.2kg when I was born and it wasn't through CS.
DeleteI also gave birth to a 4.2kg baby and my vagina was never the same.I will opt for a cs if the next one is also big....I heard cloves and the groundnut method works well....All the best sis.
DeleteHaters everywhere! See as them dey jealous wetin me sef dey complain of. Lol. The fact that it is possible that one can become wider after having babies shows that one can also become tighter! The vagina expands and contracts abi una no know?
DeleteAnd who is this ignorant person talking trash about having babies above 4kg through cs? Lol. Not that I even need to defend myself, shebi it's my own p#ssy, my own babies and my own request? Abeg fade!
Will appreciate solutions though.
Don't mind them Jare. Use lubricants and allow that place remain as e dey o. I can't do vaginal birth abeg.
DeleteAt Anonymous 18:22, I gave birth to a baby weighing 6.8 at birth vaginally
Deletehaaaaaaaaaaaa @ anonymous 21:27 you say what😱😱
DeleteAnonymous 22.27 unless that 6.8 is in "pounds".
DeleteI put it it to you that you 're lying.
@anonymous 21:27, 6.8kg? Or 6.8grams? The scale in the hospital you had your baby was faulty.. believe me
Delete6.8kg baby?? Madam Wat manner of lie is that nau? And u can still use ur legs? As in you can walk? Some lies can wake the dead abeg
Delete6.8 grams lol kai anon 22.21 you are too funny 😂😂 but seriously thoigh, I also doubt that 6.8 kg haba
DeleteMaybe 6.8lbs which is about half that weight in kg.
DeleteWash up with cloves na...although its temporal or save up n go to kleinburg for a vaginoplasty.
ReplyDeleteHow do u wash with cloves...?
Delete@Blackey,
DeleteSo no hospital in Naija fit do vaginoplasty?
Una don dey find ways to vamoose from Naija okwa ya?
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Soak a portion in bottle water for 3days, use rinse ya kundus...if it burns, know its killing a lingering yeast infection.
DeleteBlackBerry I tought this cloves is Included inside kunu..
Delete@blackberry is it garlic clove or clove that’s like little seed and stem
DeleteNwuye herod, kleinburg is in Lagos..
DeleteCloves is little black seeds with stems, I duunno if its used in kunu..
@Blackey
DeleteI been think say na Kleinburg Canada you dey yarn
Which kin Naija name be dat one?
Ajuju
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Its the same Kleinburg..same owner ...
DeleteJesus is Lord.
ReplyDeleteLOL! Don you will not kill person today. Read and learn.
DeleteHa! Fix this Lord! This is beyond me. It is well with you poster.
ReplyDeleteIf you can afford it, do plastic surgery. And it's very possible that your hubby is cheating on you...
ReplyDeletePlease stop putting wrong ideas into her head.
DeleteAre you her husband's side chick?😛😋
@Vet. side chikito
DeleteLooks like you are his tohtoh supplier?
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This Anon up there, did she ask you? Are you her husband?
DeleteWetin I do this Eliza Battery bikonu?
DeleteWhy you dey chatter wetin no concern you eh? 😯😯😯
The girl talk say she don do side chikito work come be
veteran, allow persin wey chop stew from the Naija left drink chilled water na?
Hian!
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Eliza Battery, lmao
DeleteNne relax, okay? There's no need to panic, this issue is actually not that serious...
ReplyDeleteThere's this thing women who re done with child bearing do, don't remember the name for it now, it's like a Vagina reconstruction... Maybe U google it & where U can have it done...
Dont fret it, ur sex life will go back to what it used to be, in no time...
This is serious... coming back for comments
ReplyDeleteC y I advice women to go for METAL! Igwe. Wide or not wen Odogwu enter d doors must still b FORCED open. Stop getting wet during sex if u can
ReplyDeleteAre you normal at all? She should stop getting wet so that bruises will be her name,you are a wicked person
DeleteEnjoy your Vee and tell him to enlarge his abuna or sew up some part
ReplyDeleteFirst off, you need to be open and discuss the issue with your hubby. You can opt for a vaginoplasty or learn to live with it. You don’t need penetrative sex to be satisfied and learn to pleasure your husband in a different way.
ReplyDeletePoster, you had two set of triplets vaginally, you try o.
ReplyDeleteLet the bvs that know what she can do or use kindly advise her.
Two set of triplet via VD ? You are the mvp. I suggest you see a specialist and see what your options might be. All the best
ReplyDeleteIt's one of problems following multiple vaginal deliveries. U need to see a trained gynecologist to perform vaginoplasty.it will return ur vagina to normal. U can enjoy sex again. Forget drugs and excersize.it will not work. Ur pelvic floor muscles are lax already. Vaginoplasty is the answer. U can go to any of the teaching hospital around u. There u can see plenty gynecologists.
ReplyDeleteYou pushed out triplets twice? 🙌🙌
ReplyDeletehahahahaha twale for the real MVP🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆
DeleteMy own is very dry vagina..I'm breasfeeding at the moment though.No matter how long he does foreplay..I'm still very dry down there.To think I used to be very wet before...Its wel oh.(It started even before I got pregnant with my second baby)
ReplyDeleteMy dear, just get k-y jelly at any pharmacy near you. It will lubricate you properly and it's very safe health wise.
DeleteAm pregnant now and already arranging vaginal reconstruction with Grandville laser. Chat them up on Instagram.
ReplyDelete6 kids have passed through your toto. It won't be band box fresh. Save up for vaginoplasty and have it tightened. You deserve it after all the PTSD your toto has suffered.
ReplyDeleteYou can do a vaginoplasty here in Nigeria. Any good gynaecologist can do it. But start with Kegel exercises. They work.
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ReplyDeleteVaginal rejuvenation to the rescue! That's the only solution to your problem
ReplyDeleteCs has no effect on your V. Buy a virgin stick. It effect is temporal but it works margic
ReplyDeleteI’m looking for where she wrote CS on her chronicle
DeleteWhat CS are you on about?...let me go back and rear again
DeleteNa so dem de take fail exam. The chronicle is not even that long for this confusion to come up. Lol
DeleteHow can you push triplets from your vjay,twice at that. Nawa o nne you try I swear. I birth twice with a set of twins, all two pregnancies I opted for elective c section, I no fit shout abeg. So sorry about your predicament sis, I can only suggest vaginoplasty. You really need to get your groove back, you guys are still pretty young. All the best!!
ReplyDeleteMy sister birthed her first child and she was cut widely by the first doctor but during her 2nd the Dr noticed it and said the first doctor cut her wide and tried to reduce the width by stitching it a bit. Please ask if it can be done. My sis has 2 kids and is not still tight due to the reduction.
ReplyDeleteSorry Poster. please do the surgery as advised but bvees. I can only imagine what you are going through. Wish you all the best ma
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ReplyDeleteI want two sets of triplets when it's time dear Lord. Poster if you have money go for surgery. Why don't you guys talk about it though?
ReplyDeleteSow seed for the sewing for the mini
DeleteFor your triplets anointing tapping
Triplets vaginally? Twice? 'Strong woman' has grade o. Poster I hail you.
ReplyDeletePoster,two set off triplet via vagina😮😮 u try oo
ReplyDeleteThat T word you guys use to describe vaginas is just too crass! Ugh!
ReplyDeleteTwo Set of Triplets from ya talo talo madam why's..
ReplyDeleteTry and use yoni pearls it helps
ReplyDeleteHow is it possible to deliver such high risk pregnancy via vagina ?!! Una can lie !! Tufia
ReplyDeleteI m sorry poster but the vagina does not widen at all. hasn't got any muscles. its only skin.
ReplyDeleteYour husband hasn't complained because it doesnt exist. Your pelvic floor muscles are there to close off where you pass urine and your rectum,nothing more.
What you need is a sex toy clitoral stimulator not a vaginoplasty.
Anonymous 18.17, if you 're no expert don't say what you don't know.
DeleteThe vagina is like pleated skirt.
Multiple vaginal births makes it lose its "pleats", hence the widening
I'm just wondering how you can birth triplets twice SVD. Twin is already an indication for CS,let alone triplet....I raise beyonce ganesh for you poster💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
ReplyDeleteAll the advice are not necessary since your husband doesn't complain ,just ask him if he is boarded if he is not stop thinking for him
ReplyDeleteWhere is he boarding to? She already worried that sex life is boring and husband is not saying anything and you are talking about the husband boarding? Hian
DeleteBoarded how pls??
DeleteGoke meant to write 'bothered'.
DeleteTry V-tight gel. U can only buy it online @ amazon. It is medically approved and its work like magic
ReplyDeleteMy own is just re-stitching cos the stitch after delivery tore 2 months later. Is it expensive? I plan to go to military hospital to see a gynaecologist. I hope it's not the same as all these vaginoplasty. I no get that kain money
ReplyDeleteVaginoplasty in Abuja Nigeria is like 50k. It could be higher in a private hospital. Is very safe.
DeleteYou should ask your doctor the procedure for surgery.
ReplyDeleteI tap triplets in Jesus name Amen...
ReplyDeleteI'm also learning..
Two sets of triplets with vagina birth, what? Who were you trying to impress or prove? Oya na ! See the result.
ReplyDeleteTry the groundnut remedy , it works, hubby will testify at first try. But don't do past 3 days at each try make the place no close pkata pkata
I wonder who she was trying to impress too
Deletetwo set of triplet 🙌🙌🙆🙆🙆🙆 I rest my case
Wth is the groundnut remedy?
Deletewill you judgmental bitches just shut up? do you know her story? impress who? if the doctors did not see and need for surgery will they do it? some people just have it more easy than others.. stop judging people till u have the full story. fools
DeleteDid you expect it to remain the same after 2 sets of triplets?
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry but apart from vaginoplasty you have no other option as the structural intergrity has been compromised.
Those advising you to put gloves etcetera... you will be disappointed
I'll read comments
ReplyDeleteIn as much as I feel for you, I won't accept you seeing yourself as an invalid or handicap. There are more pressing challenges bothering people than you are giving attention here. There are TTCing women who would give anything to be in your position instead. Let's stop being ungrateful to God.
ReplyDeleteWhile not losing focus of the purpose for which you wrote, I will advise you to see a sex therapist if possible. In the absence of that, I'll encourage you to take your mind of penetrative sex temporarily. Try other aspects of sexual fulfilment including clitoral and breast orgasms by way of masturbation, orals, fetishes and fantasies. However, before then, why not have a heart to heart with hubby on this matter? You can show him this page so that he can understand how much it has really affected you. I'm sorry cos I may not know exactly how you feel but I would say since people who lose 'essential' body parts(limbs, eyes, ears etc) don't stop living, then you shouldn't. Find a way to find joy and happiness regardless. We only live but once. I've heard of surgery too, if it's a feasible option for you. But don't overwhelm yourself with this problem cos people have worse situations to live with and they still survive daily. This is small in the face of human challenges my dear, pls focus on other things for a while. Time they say, is a great healer. This too shall pass. Everything will fall in place, it's only a matter of time. Some young women have turned widows untimely and life hasn't ended for them.
I'm not downplaying your predicament, I'm only encouraging you to hang in there and be strong. Don't let the devil jubilate over you. I believe once you don't give it too much attention, gradually the (kegel) exercises you said you were doing and other recommendations here like the clove leaves will have the chance to work. But without positive energy, they may not. Pray you all the best dear.
On 2nd thoughts, I'll like to ask what your fears are exactly. Is it you losing your sensation or the fear of off losing your husband to another woman? If it's the latter, my dear, again, I'll say, what will be will be. If it's the former, follow my advise and give yourself some time. It's like healing from rape or other abuses. It takes time. I'm also suspecting that it may not be the width per say since hubby has never complained, they(men) are not usually that understanding. I'm suspecting that maybe some anaesthetics you were given during childbirth to numb pains have still not worn off completely. Maybe you're the only one feeling this. I'm just saying o. I'm an economist, not a doctor. What do I know? Anyway, speak with hubby first and stop suffering alone in silence.
Enter your comment...pussy no get shame for this nija.pls put anty pussy.
ReplyDeleteVaginoplasty is the only solution to your problem poster. It rangescfrom 50k and above in Abuja. Just enquire about the cost in your locality.
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