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Tuesday, July 23, 2019

Boredom Eliminating Post



I personally do not have any Disappointments but i see a lot around.........

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  1. No disappointments, just valuable lessons.

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  2. Dropping out of higher institution almost two decades ago (trying to make up for it now)

    My first not being my forever

    Not grabbing an opportunity that came in a platter of gold (it would have been my best contact yet)

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    1. Not getting a job and still jobless and cashless and not getting a visa and being stuck in this shithole country

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    2. @ Ms.A i know how this feels? I wish your first is still single...who knows a re-union can still happen. Never say Never...All the best dear...

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  3. Dem plenty. I don’t even know where to start from. So I will pass. Lol
    But m nweta ndi Singapore eh. I no blame them sha. Na my country wey sabi cast anyhow I blame.

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  4. The year has gone more than half and I haven't really accomplished much..though I'm still focused but I sometimes feel disappointed

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  5. When my 5yrs relationship crashed on my head, it was like magic, cus we were so in love, the envy of ppl around... we were used as examples, till she started saying the spark is gone and she doesnt feel so much in love with me anymore! We were already talking marriage & both families couldnt believe it.

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  6. For me, life is what i make of it so i don't dwell on low expectations.

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  7. When my fiance died.

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    1. Awww bless you. RIP to him. God shall bring u another good man.

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    2. Oh, so sorry about that.
      Wishing you strength and courage πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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    3. Sorry about that dear❤️❤️❤️

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    4. So sorry, God will replace all your losses.

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  8. None for now and I pray none in time to come.

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  9. Was the day, he said it wasn't working . Even there wasn't any fight. Ours then use to be best of love so I thought, but he left heartbroken and disappointed.

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  10. My Boss! Just discovering my effort isn’t appreciated! Upon say She dey owe gbese join oooooo! Nonsense and ingredients!

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. Which effort? You no pwess the bweast well? Hope she isn't reading

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    2. Anon 18:45 leave me hand ooh.

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    3. Ikwakwakwawkakwakwakwakwa! And e can big!!

      Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. Madam when are you knacking us the main tori? Abi na your oga dropped that bombshell yesterday?

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  12. finding out that the guy I dated for several years is now a totally different just a year after marriage. marriage is a scam

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  13. l do not trust in people to the extent that they can disappoint me SO BIG. I only put my trust in God. He is the only One who never disappoints.

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  14. No disappointments just lessons

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  15. My marriage. Thot I had a good enough. Found out my husband sleeps with anything and has even had a child outside with all the 3 I gave him. Makes me wonder why I put my all into it. Almost 20 years. Anyway I will pick up and move on. Life goes on.

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    1. You will be fine sis ❤️❤️

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    2. Same here sis....disappointed I trusted him for the past 8 years now I know better. I'm grateful to God I'm woke now...picking myself up now!

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    3. What does picking urself up really mean? I need to pick myself up too

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  16. I wont really say they are disappointment per se, just because it has not happened does not mean it will never happen. Delay is not denial. On that note, i have got none.

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    1. Woww such a positive piece. Nice one African duchess.

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  17. Really disappointed in 2019. Taught this year i will meet an amazing guy and be married
    Taught by now i will have that government job have been dwelling on
    Taught by now i will have my own happy home with big stomach already
    Taught this year will be the year i will take over my brothers fees and send some cash to my mum and relieve my sis
    So far nothing yet, I'm so scared to keep being hopeful, or positive

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    1. *Thought. Never lose hope, sis.

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    2. Thought*
      Keep being positive and also put in some good effort,I hope it works out well for you .

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    3. You took taught for thought* ma

      Keep pushing he is God of last minute miracle nothing is impossible.

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    4. Thought...

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    5. This is exactly me. I’m sure if those who know me read this, they’d think it was me.
      God please answer me, hope deferred is making my heart sick!

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    6. Oh, ye of little faith! Has this year ended yet? You still have today till the end of this year.

      Why do you write yourself off so easily or don't you know your lack of faith is a sin in itself?

      I met my husband towards the end of the year at the time and within three months I got married to the best man ever. So tell me why you think yours is so arduous for God to do? Though you are not expected to put a timeline on God's benison, for it's wrong however your lack of faith is worrisome. Please do ask for forgiveness in that aspect and study the word even more. You will testify.

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    7. Don’t be scared anon, keep pushing.
      Soon, every of your wishes will come to pass.

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  18. The course I read in school
    They made it look like shell and Mobil would be rushing us when we graduate 🀣
    We learnt the hard way
    Now me and ex course mates yab ourselves over our naivety.
    Thank God for his grace and on the job experience.
    My kids must study a productive course abeg.
    Imagine graduating with a CGP of 3.41
    Na that time you go know say every single mark is important.
    If only I had read a little bit more more and had less carryovers😭

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    1. hmm 'every single mark is important' very very..that's why it's good to put in all your best while in school

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    2. I could have written this RSQ. It is well oh.

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  19. Not getting Access Bank graduate trainee job years ago......I got the rejection message on my way back to Abuja after the second interview. Then, it hurt worse than a heartbreak, hurts still when I remember the risks I took to take the exams and attend the interview. I guess it was my age....I was 25 then.
    In all, I thank God and don't dwell on it.

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    1. so sorry May God replace it with something 100 times better

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    2. Stop beating your self because of that access bank recruitment exam I don't count it as disappointment, I don't even remember it sef. In fact I did the exams twice but still nothing came out of it, a lot of the people I know who didn't have connections did it and didn't pass while one girl I knew in school that was well connected then did the access exam passed.

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    3. This life sef. My bff is a manager there and she's on the verge of writing her resignation letter before she dies before her time. Count your blessings dearest, it could be God knowing it won't be the best place for you.

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    4. Thanks for the kind words everyone.........

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  20. I really wish I can say this minute but I don't want to be trolled with it here. Lessons have been learnt already but in a hard way.

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    1. Drop the gist and forget trolls, them never strong reach ☺️

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    2. Teejay you typed what I was about to say. I don’t want to be trolled or judged so I’ll just keep quiet

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    3. That's the best decision. Some BVs are vicious and are ready to pile on hate at the slightest opportunity.

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  21. Being alive..
    My chi seems to be doing a very good job thwarting every attempt at ending it..

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    1. If your suicidal attempts are failing, that should tell you you're destined for much more. Hang on bro/sis, your Chi has got you covered. You'll see.

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    2. You better say yes to your chi! I am in the same whatsapp group as you. God still has use of you. He will surprise you in a big way trust me. You will look back and ask for forgiveness. Do not give up!

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    3. Please don't trudge that path. If only you know how many people's destinies are tied to yours. The beauty in realizing that the life you live, isn't crafted for you alone.


      Decisions, challenges and paths we take are not only intertwined but also interconnected to some else's life's journey and it comes with a rewarding outcome in the end, though immaterial but priceless.


      If you be strong enough and overcome this, who knows the lives you would touch, the lovely people you would meet, the heftily ponderous heart whose burden you will help relieve, with your own personal experience in days, months or years to come.
      Your survival story could be another's lifesaver. You are someone answered prayers.

      My life isn't impeccable either, whose life is anyway? Perfection is a mirage, don't be bamboozled for it doesn't exist.
      But know this, whatever you are going through in life right now, isn't spectacular to just you, and you are not alone.

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  22. Hmmm... My foolishness at some point in the past . Especially wasting my time on a pathetic dude like that. Gotten over it though.

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  23. The only disappointment wey I get for my life?
    That...that...that...all Naija girls that I know have not
    repented from their sins and given their lives to Jesus
    even with everything wey I dey yarn
    them.!
    That forks are still being stolen, horsebands are still being snatched,
    Babies are still being executed in the wombs, and infants are still being
    strangles -even in nysc camps (na here we read am o), tohtohs are still being
    chopped...
    That na my only regrets! 😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

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    1. Your own no dey pass naija girl isssh

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    2. I taught I be engaged and be preparing for marriage. The year started with beautiful relationship that looks so perfect half o the year I got heartbroken . I'm just confused and tired, where do I start from? Even my prayer life is weak. Some times I'm so pained that I least don't know what to ask when I'm praying. Mother expecting I should bring a man home by now, I'm I not beautiful yes, I'm I jobless no, I'm I not of good behavior, I am , I just keeps wearing that smile and deep inside , im so hurt with the heart break. Jesus takes the wheel.

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    3. Did anyone steal your own fork?
      Was your DH snatched?
      Is your own totoh not being chopped?
      Leave naira girls alone 🚢🏿‍♂️🚢🏿‍♂️🚢🏿‍♂️

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    4. @Side Chikito
      And ya own no dey pass to attack me. 😊😊
      I know that your only regret is any day wey you
      fail to attack me, even in your dream.
      🐀🐀🐀🐀🐀

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    5. @SluttyChikito
      "Naira girls?"
      I no go put sic. ma ncha -at all. 🀷‍♀️
      Una dey operate in Naira and snatch NAIRA ATM dudes
      anywhere you find them. Una own na "shoot at sight" (with ya eyes)πŸ‘€πŸ‘€
      Una be specialists in "taking dudes with your eyes".
      Nobody dey chop my tohtoh and you know that.
      Anybody that touches DH, the shock pass transformer own.
      My Side Chikito, I know say you don dey come closer to Jesus but
      those veteran sisis come carry you go coven again?
      Naira girls o, dollar girls, (stolen)"pounding" sterling girls o,
      Euro girls o ... all of una go preach the gospel. Hallelujah!
      πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    6. @20:06

      I write to you because I feel you came under my comment to read what I have to tell you.

      The man who broke your heart is not God's will for you. My advice is that you begin to
      thank the Lord that this man left instead of bringing shame to the Lord and possibly leading
      you away from eternal life. The Word of God states:
      1 Thessalonians 5:18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
      Did you see THE WILL OF GOD IN THIS CIRCUMSTANCE?
      Instead of anxiety/fretting, devote yourself to the study of the Word of God, prayers/fasting and
      worship the Lord in songs. Tell others about Christ. Do not fret for it only leads to evil. Psalms 37:8

      Like I mentioned before, the Lord showed me my fiance 6 years before I met him. I never for once before
      or after that bothered about "being married or not". I was just joyful serving my Lord.
      In fact, after that revelation, it was like the floodgates of suitors began. All manner of "very rich and
      influential people". I remember the only time I was pressured to marry a particular one (because they felt
      he was rich and a "Christian" and that such may not come my way again) and noticed that
      I was getting angry and the songs began to vanish from my life. I left home deliberately to avoid losing this
      songs of joy that I love singing for that was what the evil one wanted. Do you know that that very man
      died just two years after that -in a car crash? I feel pity for him (and the wife he married
      eventually) but each time I think about it, I ask
      myself, so I would have been a widow, just two years after if I had walked out of God's will to get married
      to this man to please my relations?
      Focus on pleasing the Lord and eternal life and not just marriage.

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    7. @20:06
      Please note that when I wrote earlier that "I left home", it was temporarily to my
      auntie's house because we reason more alike. I needed encouragement then.

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    8. @20:06

      Seems like the earlier note I wrote to you is missing.
      Seek God first: Thank God that that dude left you for he isn't God's will for you.
      1 Thessalonians 5:18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
      Did you see GOD'S WILL IN THIS CIRCUMSTANCE in this scripture?
      Do not fret for it only leads to evil: Psalms 37:8
      I said πŸ‘†that I left to my aunties house because they were mounting pressure for me to marry a particular man
      who they considered "Christian/rich" and felt that such a man was rare to come by again. I did not want to lose
      my peace; the songs of joy to the Lord that characterize my life. So I left temporarily after a categorical "no"
      The man went ahead to marry another girl... and two years after, he died in a car crash. I thought to myself, that
      if I had walked out of God's will/lost patience in waiting for my DH like he revealed to me earlier, I would have
      been a widow after 2 years? The person I married, who is God's will isn't "rich" (the way they understand it) but
      I have peace and that is of immeasurable worth to me.
      I wrote more earlier, but hope I have been able to help you reason. Thanks; I don yarn finish.

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    9. ANG... You are a blessing 😘. I wish I know you in real life. Anon hope you take her words to heart and may God heal your broken heart. As a child of God, nothing happens to you without His knowledge, that should give you comfort. The knowledge that He knew that man will leave and didn't stop him means he wasn't meant for you. Don't allow anyone pressurize you into what will not give you peace.

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  24. Not having a degree and marrying my husband....
    But, I thank God that I'm already working towards making lemonade out of the lemon life threw at me.

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    1. Awwa...I pray you reconnect with him some day.

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    2. Awwww. I thought it was just stories, I never knew it was real. *Hugs*

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  26. This happened many years ago. My uncle promised to pay my Diploma fees if I get the admission. I did and the rest is history now, I was so disappointed

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  27. My father's death,it touched the core of soul,I was disappointed that he gave up,he was such a strong man..am gradually getting use to his absence

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    1. Awwwwwww may his soul Rest In Peace.
      He wouldn’t want you to be sad. Be happy ❤️❤️

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  28. I try to live my life with no regrets, only lessons. It can be hard sometimes especially when you get some unpleasant blast from the past. Oh well, cest la vie.

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    1. You need help. You need to speak to someone and free your mind.

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    2. Yeh, I understand.
      Try to shake it off.

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  29. Thought hardly and saw none

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  30. Getting married early, I was scared of losing her i had to quickly marry her but shit,
    it has really slowed down my growth in all ways.

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    1. That happens a lot. But look at the bright side and remain positive.

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    2. Alright. I know now.

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  31. O well surprisingly I don't have any not cos I have not had problems or I don't have wants but cos God has been faithful. He is making it right every passing day, I have gone back to school, I have a job now, my confidence is getting better, I am breaking new grounds and rediscovering myself all over again. I can't complain o! My God has been good to me. He fixes the broken piece by piece and I know he is not done.

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  32. Grateful and Hopeful.
    Everything good will come Amen

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  33. My greatest regret till date is studying microbiology. That course na scam πŸ˜‚

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  34. The only regret i have in this life is getting married to my husband. He is an emotional abuser, very proud, grossly immature , a drug addict, a chronic cheat....

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    1. No sensible human should abuse his/her loved one emotionally.
      That’s like hell.
      Sorry dear. please if you can, walk away. That’s not a healthy relationship.
      You can’t keep suffering like that.

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    2. hmm..God will come through for you

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    3. It's like we are sharing husband (except for the drug and cheating). My efi of a spouse is the bane of society and I am done ENDURING his presence in my life.

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  35. Getting pregnant before getting settled.

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  36. Enter your comment...mine was believing people so much.

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  37. Not being financially independent before marriage

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  38. Shelving my dreams to help someone else achieve theirs. Never again. I'm getting back on track now... Better late than never. Also seeing so many much older people than me walking the same path soothes my soul. I know I could have gotten it earlier but it's all good.

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  39. Working that foolish long cap wearing narcissistic fraud

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