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Boredom Eliminating Post...

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    1. She backbites a lot. Gave her money once cos she was broke and she went about telling people. It now seemed like I didn't have what to use money for, that's why I gave her.

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    2. She kept saying get married, and the next thing she is asking me for money.
      I told myself I'm not her hubby, we just friends, I kept my distance .

      P.s shooter Gal, I'll never be dragged to the mould to fight dirty like a pig. So leave my opinion and say your own. I tell you, you would wish to be like me in real life. I was never trained to be rude and ill manner.

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    3. Afi "mould" na.
      Obara Imma.

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    4. I will never wish to be a low life scum. Never!!!

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  2. he died early at 20 yrs....it took me months to accept it

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    1. Distance, unfortunately I'm not good in calling people and won't be mad at you if you don't call. Friendship continue anytime we see.

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    2. Anne K is you me?

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    3. Sorry dede

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  3. I'm still friends with my friends, like have known them for years and counting. I don't keep plenty friends thou.

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    1. Two reasons:
      1. Because I come from a more comfortable home, she was always demanding for monetary assistance, though little sums when we were still in Uni, I provided the ones I could but when I felt used, I declined. I never knew she wanted to continue after Uni, I had to cut her off, in conjunction with the fact that it felt like I was always reporting my success and failures to her, she will always see the glam and not want to be part of my hustle. When I travelled abroad,for my masters, she wanted me to use my money, to export baby and children clothing for her to start her business, this is after I have made all enquiries from different retailers and even manufacturers. (Since then, I became weary of one-way friendship)

      2. I had to choose between the frienship and her marriage, her fiance who sponsored her through school for 4yrs and had been there for 8yrs. Invited me just once in our 4yrs frienship, and stupidly made a move on me on my last day of visit, not the one to make excuses for a man, but I knew my babe would have walked out on the guy if I told her the truth and she will blame me till eternity for honouring the visit(which was against her will) I mean, this guy took her virginity, this guy had been faithful, only one stupid mistake? I had to let go because the environment was no longer healthy.

      I am not perfect but I dont keep friends since then.

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    2. See ehn! About that first reason you are right oo. Nigerian friends are like that. Once they become your friend, they also become your responsibility. Especially when they sense that you have a little. The money is no longer your money but our money. I went through a lot in secondary school but my mum taught me contentment. Like I won't eat to school and I know fully well that when I get home no food too or maybe small Garri. But one thing I can brag of is, I didn't collect things not beg from friends. That classmates later thought my parent must be really wealthy and have given me everything.

      So I had that attitude till I grew up and became so self-sufficient because I can't and don't rely on anyone.

      God turned our life around my parent sent me abroad. That was when I realised that people don't make friends without a reason unlike myself, I tend to make friends without no hidden agenda. But people size you up before getting close to you.

      All the friendship I had was one-sided. I got tired and kept to myself I started hearing gists that I am proud. Like! Was I suppose to continue the parasitic friendship till they sucked me dry? Never.

      A friend saw me entering the super market and she entered too, without no prior plan of buying anything. I took yoghurt (biggest size) she took too and placed in her cart. I carried prawns, she carried. I carried Mr ben's rice, she carried. So I stopped. Got to the counter, took everything out and she did same and placed them side by side.

      Seeing that, the cashier asked if she was to add the whole amount( mine and hers) together. I said a big "NO". That we bought it separately. You needed to see my friend's face. She became moody all of a sudden and you could tell she was comtemplating on returning it. That was when it dawned on me that she expected me to pay.

      I make friends now though because it's easier I am smarter than before. Naturally, I don't use people so you can'use me. You will end up getting tired.

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    3. Eyaa, you will find a good friend.

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    4. She "saw the light" and became born again. Then she started trying to convert me, like I should start attending her new church.
      Stopped putting on earings or makeup, wore only three quarter 8pcs skirts with bogus blouses
      Stopped wearing padded bras
      Cut her hair and always tied scarves.
      And she wanted me to do same.
      She would walk past me and ignore my greetings if i'm putting on trouser or make up or attachmeents.
      I started getting irritated so I became defensive so we drifted apart. I no get strength for that kain Mary Amaka life mbok.


      Second one was my childhood friend from primary school. We relocated and I've not been able to find her.

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    5. @Anon 21:32, you are so right, seems we have this in common? Can we be friends? I am the Anon 19:51.

      Cheers

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    6. I'm so thankful I do not have any stories to tell. My friends are incredible and as loyal as I am. Over 10 years and no drama.

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  4. 20 children cannot play for 20 years. Time, distance etc





    *Larry was here*

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  5. She attacked me badly, spiritually.
    When you have friends who are jealous/envious, take to your heels.

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  6. She tried sleeping with my hubby. I never knew showing her things my husband sent us and money he give me will be my fall. I still love her from afar.

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  7. Lol. My childhood friend.
    When she graduated she was job hunting. I got a direct job link and sent to her to try out she did and was employed, during the training she stayed with me, and after she was past training she moved. At first I thought it cause she just got the job and stress, she stopped communication I do call her at times then to ask how she is fairing, but I stopped when I realized I was the only one doing so. Her cousin called to tell me she is getting married and asked that if I have heard the news, I said I haven't and wished her well. All the best U. This life eehn. Lol. Na wa!

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    1. Something happened when she stayed with you
      Call and ask
      I’ve seen this over and over
      People hardly forget bad done to them as guest. It can be so painful

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    2. if I hear?if anything went wrong she should have let her "friend" know...

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    3. Nothing. Not one thing. None at all. I guess she stepped up
      What I later concluded was probably she knows I was looking for a better job that period, so I won't be asking her for monetary favors. But it all good.. I never did one thing, one thing to her. Whatever she wants I want, during all the training she was wearing my wears to the job.. If she feels like eating beans it that beans we would eat.. It all good sha.. This life eehn

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  8. well i hooked my former classmate up with my boyfriend's elder brother, he is very rich and well to do but he is somehow a player. I advised my friend to carry along her brain and not just her heart cos i can't really vouch for him, infact it was actually my boyfriend that asked me to advise my friend o cos his brother can be a demon sometimes. Things started getting rosy between them and she starts saying bad things about me to my boyfriend's brother, she heaped lies on my head and say things i didn't do. it hurt my feelings that i cried for months, my guy broke up with me because of everything she feeds him about me. I later heard my boyfriend's brother broke up with her and whatnot. She messaged me on WhatsApp last month begging me and seeking forgiveness. it hurts

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    1. It hurts pretty much. Forgive her and move on.

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  9. I got married and she is single. I gave birth to twins at almost 8months and they both died and she said to me, so we are now the same again. Just negodu!

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    1. Obara God!!!!!
      My mouth is open and has refused to close.
      Just luk at

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    2. JeeZ
      No wonder the bible says the heart of man is deep.

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    3. Oh my God. What an evil minded 'friend'

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    4. In as much as what she did was wrong did you ever mock her single status?

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    5. Omggg she must be a sadist and anti-joy. Sorry about your loss.

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    6. Aye akamara. You will be a mother to living babies soonest.

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    7. 😱😱😱😱😱😱

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    8. Ha😱

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    9. What! That lady is not your friend in the first place.
      Wicked soul.

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    10. May All our friendly enemies be expose by fire

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    11. What??? Some people are devilish abeg. That lady was never a friend.

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  10. Don't keep much friends, but distance I also included.

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  11. Not best friend but still close.

    Just got tired of unnecessary drama and her throwing shade at everything I did or had in my life.

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  12. She slandered me, fabricated horrible stories about me.


    The other one was forcing friendship with my ex's wife. Stumbled on her numerous likes and comments on their pics. Knowing well how this ex dealt with me emotionally . We are still kinda close though.

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    1. I would never be kinda close with someone like that. Dump her.

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    2. Perxian ..lol,not at all !

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    3. Lmao...lesbian kwa? Ogini?

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  13. My roommate in the university used to be my confider, my backbone and I loved her so much not until....... well in my hostel there was a fresher girl like that, one day her elder brother came to see her in the hostel and i helped him locate her room cos he said he wanted to surprised her.... well to cut the long story short he developed interest in me after getting my contact through her sister. The guy is cool, handsome, rich and career driven guy he is all i ever wanted in a guy, I introduced him to my roommate, He bought stuffs for her one day and she requested for his contact to say thank u but i don't know she was up to something. he told her I'm a serial abortionist, i kill babies every two months and I'm a call girl, the guys started acting funny later and my roomie even advised me to move on. it was in our final year that i got to know through the guy's sister that it was my roommate's handwork. i felt betrayed!

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    1. She helped you
      Guys like that are useless

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    2. But were you an "abortionist" then?
      I'm asking for my room mate.
      Ikwakwakwakwa

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  15. My best friend of 11 years did her trad without inviting me.Is started like a joke when i stooped going to their place,you know what happens when the relationship is one sided.she has never slept in my house but i practically sleeps in their house.she complained to my guy that she doesn't understands me but she did not for once call to know what the problem was. I try chatting her up twice but she never gave me a positive response.i know her mind was made up maybe because of the upcoming wedding.on the said wedding day was her birthday and i flooded my status with her picture ,wrote a long later to her of how i have missed our friendship.called her several times and and she only picked when i called with another line.i did all these not knowing it was her trad. later that day,i saw her traditional wedding pictures.my so called friend did not reply my chat nor call back till today.i blocked her stupid ass from all social media.

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    1. She was never your friend.
      Good riddance 😑

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    2. And why the hell were you doing so much in the first place? Friendship was always one sided. Know your worth.

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  16. They got Married n ve kids bfor me n they said level don change,dat they ve nothing to discuss with a single person but when they need to borrow money n ve people to grase their event they wil call me.i got tired of such freinds.i left them n stay with d ones dat are real not fake friend.we are no longer friends again .

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  17. My own friendship always ended with fight. I fought a lot. So now am friendless.

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    1. 😂😂😂😂😂

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    2. I felt I typed this o anon 18:31

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    3. Are you me? Is me you? I am currently friendless.

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  18. Her husband was toasting me, bragging to me that he must fuck me, sending me porn on my phone so I stopped going to their house and then stylishly severed my relationship with my friend because the sight of her husband started irritating me.

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    1. Choi! Which kind horseband be dis?

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    2. My own was my randy sister in laws horse of a band o...tufia for some people.

      I walked away from that family.
      In fact I ran so fast my legs were slapping my face

      Fiaaaannnn

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  19. Happened years ago,she introduced me to a guy,then i found out they were both gbenshing behind my back,her reason when i confronted her was that because the guy said i refused to gbensh him for nearly 2yrs of dating.My friend begged me but i just couldn't continue with the frienship,the guy tried to warm his way back to me but i just couldn't bear his presence around me.

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  20. There's one I think I shouldn't be friends with anymore because whenever she calls or we see, she must always have one person or the other to report.

    Abu, Is it the never ending big brother talks??? She would call me and if its not to report someone, it would be to talk about big brother.


    Her personality is way too strong for someone like me with a strong personality too. She's really nice but I really can't or don't want to continue like this.


    It is well

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    1. Eka Joy! Eka Joy! Eka Joy!!How many times did I call you? didn't I advice you the other time to get an earpiece or headphone anytime she's around and nod ur head very well even if you ain't listening to a song.. #okbye

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  21. I had to let my BF go. She took me for granted and dipped in and out of our friendship when it suited her. Last straw was when I sent an important document to her to review and she didn't get back to me for 3 months. She couldn't believe I would ever dump her.

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  22. She got married and we kinda grew apart.

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  23. Distance, also she was not reciprocating my friendship any longer. I was doing most if the calling and messages. Till i had enough of it, and the friendship died down.

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  24. She's too distant, no matter how jovial I try to be...one line replies, monophonic, I just had to tow her line n become distant too.

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  25. She died 7 years ago at the age of 18. I have never met any one like her, she was my childhood friend. A sister from another mother . We laughed and cried together I loved her so much with all my heart, REST IN PEACE CHII ANGEL

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  26. She wanted my life!!!

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  27. On this table right now o.All the young girls that I have opened my heart to and treated as younger sisters have turned me to a laughing stock. They really don't know the true me, I will give you space like this and still be laughing with you. My true mode activated , Biko, good riddance to rubbish.

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  28. We both got married.. Her husband became richer, ifeanyi uba kinda rich things.. So she moved up, and made friends with richer pple.

    We really were best friends, growing up I come from a rich home, she didn't. So I am glad she is having the best of life now.

    I figured she made friends with her husband circle of friends wives.

    SHE won't pick my call, come for my child dedication or birthdays and won't call to explain why.

    And when she eventually picks and I tell her I want to come visit she says;she's not home. I just figured we aren't on same page anymore.

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    1. It is well......

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    2. But no one knows tomorrow though. And If she comes running back to you to rekindle any yeye friendship, I hope you won’t rush back into her arms because you’ve seen her true color. Fake ass oshi. You better move on and close that chapter for good. also make new friends!

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  29. because if you no send me o.. people plenty wey send me o.. plus I'm more closer to God..one man one head! we c wen we c.. #nomoredrama

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  30. DURING OUR 10 YR FRIENDSHIP, HE ASKED ME TO ADD HIM ON MY INSURANCE, I DID! THE CAR GOT INTO FLAMES, I COULDNT GET INSURANCE CLAIMS ON THE TOWING VEHICLE, THEY ASKED HIM TO PAY $500 , BUT HE NEVER DID. ALL BECAUSE THE CAR AND INSURANCE IS NOT IN HIS NAME.

    I PAID THE $500 AFTER ENOUGH STRESS FROM THE TOWING VEHICLE, I WAS JOBLESS AT THAT TIME SO IT WAS A BIG DEAL FOR ME TO PAY THAT KIND OF MONEY.

    AFTER 1 YR HE CAME AGAIN THAT I SHOULD BOROW HIM $1500 , BECAUSE HE NEEDED TO BUY A NEW CAR, OUT OF MY PURE HEART I DID!!! ( P;S SOME FRIENDS KNOW HOW TO MANIPULATE YOU) HE SAID HE WILL PAY BACK WITHIN A MONTH. DUE TO MY PAST EXPEIRNECE WITH MONEY , I COLLECTED A COLLETERAL FROM HIM- HIS $2000 WORTH WRISTWATCH. I TOLD HIM IF HE DOESNT PAY ME BACK WITHIN A MONTH, I WILL SELL THE WRISTWATCH TO GET MY MONEY BACK.

    IN TOTAL HE OWES ME $1500 NOW.
    after 1 MONTH HE ONLY PAID $500 , I WAS VERY ANGRY AND FELT STUPID ! CUS SINCERELY NO SANE PERSON WILL BORROW YOU MONEY WHEN YOU ARE STILL OWING PREVIOUSLY.
    TO CUT THE LONG STORY SHORT - I SOLD HIS WRISTWATCH FOR THE EXACT AMOUNT I AM OWED $1000.

    TILL TODAY HE HASNT CALLED TO PAY UP OR ASKED ABOUT HIS WRISTWATCH, AND I HAVE EVEN BLOCKED HIM IN ALL MY CONTACT.

    HE BELIVVES I HAVE NOT SOLD THE WRISTWATCH AND HE IS JUST OWEING ME. THE DAY HE REALISES THAT I HAVE SOLD IT AND GOT ,MY MONEY BACK, HE WILL KNOW NEVER TO BURN TRUST OF A CARING FRIEND.

    FOR NOW WE ARE NO LONGER FRIENDS!!! NA MONEY DEY KILL FRIENDSHIP PASS MY PEOPLE

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    1. You are still in short of $500, how do you intend to get that back

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    2. Good riddance

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    3. I will never understand women who give money to men.

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    4. You’re a very mumu somebody. You were thinking with your heart and not brain. I mean it’s common sense for goodness sake!!!! He did not pay up the first time and you had to audacity to give him more money. Well lesson learned on your part. Only give out money you know you’ll be able to let go in case of crazy shit like this. $$$ no easy find man. I don’t even know you and I’m so pissed off at you for letting that dude take you for granted! Anyway you sold his watch so make I calm down small. Na wa for you sha.

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  31. The girl had sex with my boyfriend and I found out .Girls eh, she wanted him course he had money , well i left them alone and he dealt with her bitterly

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  32. She found another best friend from her hometown and was treating me like a 3rd wheel. I decided to waka and enjoy their friendship. 😃😃😃 She actually came to discuss with me but I told her I we were fine and no problems at all. We were so close and looked like twins sef.

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  33. Friends?... I chose my friends and I draw the line where you belong. I no want drama as I cherish my space a lot.

    I like friends who are matured in reasoning, I can do anything for anyone I call my friend cos I'm loyal like that...

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  34. This one is too stingy,desperate and full of envy

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  35. He almost got me fired at my place of work by reporting me to our boss. I no longer speak to him at work.

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    1. Prettyjene,'re you me? Am I you?

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  36. She was living with me, I accommodated her, I fed her, she wore my clothes because she wasn't working. One day she told me she wants to start a business that she needed some money to add with the one she had I obliged and gave her some money.

    She went to Lagos Island and bought what she wanted to sell including slippers. When she returned I saw a slipper I love amongst the one she bought. She told me the least she can sell is 5k I pleaded for 3k she said No because that was the latest design and have never seen that type nor seen anyone wore it. I later bought the slippers 4k.

    Could you imagine after I wore it, I later saw many people with the same. The day I went to Lagos Island I asked for the price and I was told 600 Naira only.

    That was the beginning of her fight, if she could do such to me that means she can kill me for money. She was staying with me eating my food and I even contributed for that business why should you hike the price for me. That was the end of our friendship.

    She moved out by herself since I didn't give her attention again. I called her she wouldn't want to pick.

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    1. Did you let her know what she did wrong? Moreover, business is business o
      I can buy $1 and sell for $10 after all I went through stress before I bring it down.but she wicked small Sha that difference is too much for a friend

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    2. You are better off......

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    3. How did you expect her to repay the loan if she sold her goods for no profit?

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  37. She was never happy happy for me, she was always in a competition with me and wen I started the food business, she was all over the place talking nonsense of how she knows I won't succeed in it, that was why I cut her off and thanks to Stella,I can boldly say I am proving her wrong, I am happy, thank you so much Stella and to the bvs that patronise me,God bless you

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  38. I used to have a friend,i thought she was my friend,when she had nothing was gave her everything, even down to weaveon she fixed ,i even helped her sister too.
    When we finished school, helped her secure an internship we did internship same place she started acting strange if we are with other people she will start attacking me in their presence which affected our friendship .when my mother died she didnt attend d burial and gave one excuse of not coming,my mother dat use to give her pocket moni or dash moni whenever she comes to visit.
    Time for my wedding she refused to help me with preparation even when I asked for help,she was not present on traditional wedding and white wedding she gave the same excuse as usual even though i was d one dat connected her to her husband
    The Last time was,when i begged her to do something for me she said her husband does allow her to go out that when i decided to cut her off.Am always scared off making cos i always think they will treat me the other way she did to me

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  39. She became envious of me to the point of going diabolical. Had to runaway from the off campus hostel I paid for because she had accommodation problem and I housed her, I left it for her. My relationship went down along with the ish. The way I dey run when I see any ijebu lady now enh...

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  40. She just stopped speaking to me . Blocked me on all social media and I moved on. I'm glad I'm doing well for myself. I was at her mercy then, always depressed and needy but when she cut me off my life turned around for the better

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    1. She cut you off because you were obsessive and needy. She did the right thing. You need to work on your self confidence.

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  41. My besties of almost 20 years are still my friends.

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  42. Because she's aware of her HIV+ status(stumbled on her medical file) but keeps sleeping with any guy unprotected ,I felt like confronting her always or telling the guys but I couldn't so I hated her...

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  43. My travails with friends can write a whole epistle of a season movie.
    1. Left her because she felt she was doing me a great favour by being my friend. This was a babe that don't give me anything materially.
    2. Discovered she use to laugh at me behind my back and discusses things I told her in confidence with other people. Plus she was so secretive about anything about her, she was obsessed with painting herself and her family as perfect.
    These days I don't do unnecessary friendship plus I don't reveal details of my life to anyone to avoid stories that touch the heart. one thing I've learnt in all these is that Jesus is the only best friend I can have. Plus forgiveness is key to living a successful life. As I'm recounting the evils others have done to me, SB somewhere might be doing the same about me.

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  44. they will buy stuffs from me and refuse to pay as at when due. In fact, one asked me if she should prostitute to pay me. some will take a loan and refuse to pay or pay only when it's convenient. funny enough I don't even draw them like I should yet they act all defensive and offended.

    I made and delivered a hair, in fact I sent her the waybill no because she promised to pay before the day ran out. for almost a week, no show. she begin vex for me self. hehehehehe life!

    If I can't trust you with money, I can't trust you with anything.

    the few who reached out and apologized, I forgave and carried out like nothing happened.

    there is one ongoing now that I stood surety for and is delaying payment. I pray I don't end up paying. that friendship be like, e done go finish.

    bottom line is I don't learn.

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    1. No you don’t learn at all and this is why they disrespect you and your business! How will your business grow if you’re this much of a mumu person. You might as well just get a government job. A business oriented person won’t act this foolish. They’re not your friends at all!

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