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Friday, July 26, 2019

Spontaneous Friday Post

#fridaaaaaay #exlanationsneeded #neversaynever #fridaybehaviour #shutupandlistenandlearn #theshowgoesonwithoutanyone







Moin Moin people!!!


In Nigeria talking about HIV/AIDS is so scary that you must either not laugh or talk about it..I gave an advice which some saw as a Joke inside yesterdays chronicle and decided that i would hurt those living with it and i had no right talking about it.......

It is only in Nigeria you find this attitude.....everywhere else it is OK  to do so to make those with it relax and even find something to laugh about...
My elder brother would have been 51 this year but he didn't make it because he died of  HIV/AIDS.......I am of the school of thought that talking about it lightly  helps a lot..I am very sensitive to this and feel talking about it lightly helps with the stigmatisation.....Yes,that's is why i gave that advice cos it is only in Nigeria people run away when they hear someone is living with HIV/AIDS cos  the topic is so feared and such a taboo...
Talking and laughing about it lightly also helps me deal when memories of my big bro set in....................If you are living with it or know someone who does,its OK to laugh and joke about it...but if you are of the school of thought that feels otherwise and hurt by this,then please forgive me,people have different ways of dealing.....


As for the lots of errors noticed these days,i apologise,my laptop has reverted to partial factory default which is German and struggling......it changes words and some keys refuse to work.......I apologise  ahead of today's gbagaun..please correct me when you see any.....I no kee person,nah gbagaun i do...lol


Am i a comedian?Yesterday i went somewhere and didn't wanna stay long at all and my male friend kept apologising to his female visitors that if only i could stay,their ribs would crack from laughing and these ladies kept begging and saying they had heard of me.............I asked my self when driving back...Oh Lord,is this a sign?Am i in the wrong job?LMAO!!!

Still thinking...Rumour has it or direct writing?I need one more piece of info for my story to be able to decided.....----lol


Have a great day and remember there is no in house news today......Rant post and job posts loading....

Kisses to everyone and remember that it is a good thing to always ''clear the air''...The Bambinos say ''mama is always clearing the air but never clears the food on her plate when eating''.

Wink!!!

173 comments:

  1. Do not join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat,for drunkards and gluttons become poor,and drowsiness clothes them in rags. Proverbs 23:20.
    Do all enjoy your weekend but avoid too much mine so as not to turn to a drunkard and don't be a glutton, for too much of everything is bad!

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    1. Goodmorning bvs
      Stella I was once an Hiv facilitator, we go to churches to educate people on Hiv and Aids, it was really challenging as people don't want to discuss it, some will even shout 'Blood of Jesus' at the mention of Hiv and aids. May God help us and may the soul of your brother continue to rest in peace.

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    2. Rumor has it. Yay! πŸ™ŒπŸ½

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    3. HiV/aids is not not the end of the world

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    4. Rumor has it should come quickly. Stella you have been shaking tables on your instagram page since

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  2. Stella keep me anon, bv i need advise urgently. I met my guy a year ago and no sex has been involved, until he told me he can't again that he has over tried. I asked him whether he has ever had a sexual transmitted disease and he say yes and that was years back that it was treated.

    I became scared cos I'm too careful that have never had even itching before but he took it as nothing that he treated it na, do all men get disease or should i be scared. He said it was like 15yrs ago

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    1. If he has over tried why can't he marry you? If he can't let him go. A man who hasn'tout a ring on it shouldn't put a deadline on your private.
      What is your business if he can't cope, like is it your duty or responsibility to provide him coping strategies?. Like he hasn't been getting it elsewhere since 🚢‍♂️🚢‍♂️🚢‍♂️🚢‍♂️

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    2. And you are here asking. What stops two of you going for a test to determine your status?

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    3. My dear infection or not just close your legs. If he says he loves you and can't control himself them he should take a stroll. I hate guys that threaten women with breakup cos of sex. How are you sure he isn't lying about the time of the infection. Be careful o. Whether you sleep with him or not he will still dump you. Be wise. Your own man that knows your real worth will come.

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    4. If you had measles years ago and got treated and someone was afraid of contracting it from you today, wouldn't that be really stupid??? Stop being silly...

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    5. If he is tired of waiting let him wife you already or make him move on to an available P*ssy. What rubbish!
      If you want to go ahead and have sex with him, both of you should go for tests in the hospital. It doesn't matter whether you will be using condoms or not, condoms do burst, so go for tests in order to be sure.
      Also, while having sex with him, just bear it in mind that sex will not make him stay with you forever or marry you, he may even dump you after one or two times of doing it. So just do it for doing sake if you must do it and make sure you do it with sense. You know what I mean.
      I cannot dissuade you from having sex, you are an adult.

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    6. Anonymous @10:59, Measles and STI are totally different. Your comparison doesn't match. What if the STI wasn't properly treated as most people just go to the pharmacy and get drugs without seeking proper medical treatment. I'll suggest that he goes for a proper test to ascertain his state of health.

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    7. Silly ke? You are obviously not ready to have sex now and should not be forced. Also nothing stops you both from going to get tested now.

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  3. YOU HAVE TO BUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD THROUGH PRAYER.

    Prayer is an opportunity to fellowship with God and creates an avenue for one to have intimacy with God. During these times, you have the opportunity to commune with Elohim and pour out your heart to Him .

    Prayer gives God the opportunity to reveal His plans and purpose for your life to you. Prayer is a time when divinity meets with humanity for the fulfilment of divine purposes.

    *Is anyone among you in trouble let him pray. James 5:13

    *Be joyful in hope, Patience in affliction, faithful in prayer. Roman's 12:12.

    *Do not be anxious of anything but in everything in prayer and supplication let your request be made known to GOD. Philippians 4:6.

    Prayer shows us the heart of God.
    Prayer reveals the wisdom of God.

    Prayer helps us become one with the father and have the kind of relationship JESUS had with HIm.

    Good morning.

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  4. Hello everyone please where can I get a very good dermatologist in lagos.
    Please kindly recommend any good ones you know. Thanks.

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    1. Google, i know one on the island. But when i get the information i will drop it here. I visited one around the marina and i lost his card.

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    2. Thanks aunty amebo. I don'want to direct my sisiter to one just by checking on Google, though I already checked for her.I want a recommendation from someone with a second hand experience who can vouch for their dermatologist.
      The thing is my sister just gave he life to Christ after so many preaching. She carried out a lot of lifestyle changes. Now has stopped bleaching after so many years all glory to Christ Jesus. She went cold turkey style.So her complexion is so uneven.

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    3. I need recommendation for acne prone skin. My facial skin is so rough.

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  5. Friyaay and Telemundo had to change teca Martinez

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    1. I thought as much when I saw his face from my neighbor's window. I didn't know they have started the new season. Please has Vincent's husband died?

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    2. Princess, we ain't buying this your neighbor's window tale no more. πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

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    3. Chai! This blessed princess, you crack me up each time I see this your neighbor's television... You be clown honestly...

      Good morning bee10, how is you?

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    4. Hahahahahahahahaha @Perxian and Na Godwin, my leg don dey pain me from too much standing and peeping. I believe it will surely end in praise soonest

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    5. Princess, can't you just knock and ask to be let in?πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      @Perxian- right?

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    6. Perxian you get it...
      BP gist is getting stale try something new.

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    7. @Princess, hope u not stylishly begging for TV? Just observing oo.

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  6. My uncle's friend whose wife died last year November has remarried,it got me thinking if ever loved his late wife of 30yrs.
    FEAR MENπŸ˜‘

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    1. Na goat the man marry? You no fear the woman wey jump in agree to marry the man? Me i will fear the woman pass...

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    2. Abeeegi
      So the old man should remain unmarried and get cooks to cook his food, househelp from God knows where to clean his house and take care of his laundry, then when he is horny, he should mastubate okwaya?
      I support him. It's good for a man to remarry fast instead of wallowing in grief. She has died, no amount of grief will bring her back.
      I'm a woman and I would even advice my husband to do same if I go before him.

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    3. His excuse will be he needs companion.

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    4. Your uncle try sef. Some men, within a matter of hours a new woman don take over. Me I cannot rely on the love, loyalty and faithfulness of any man.

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    5. Lol@ fear Men. You guys are lucky he waited 7 Months. My Aunty’s hubby, remarried exactly three Months after her death. I have two Uncles. One lost his wife in 1979 with etopic pregnancy. They already had one child. He didn’t remarry till 1999. The second one remarried after ten years but our own in-law remarried in three months. Three months!!

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    6. Marriage na scam, and it's the men's world

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    7. Fear men how? I've seen women who did the same thing and nobody fear anybody.. you want the man to die too?

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    8. My uncle even married within months self

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    9. @Anon 08:24- say what?!😯🀯🀯

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    10. If it was a woman, they will say she was the one that killed her husband, They will say she has been dating the new husband before her husband died and they connived and killed him. It's a man's world really.

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    11. Woww my uncle stayed 5years before he remarried, after his wife died.

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  7. I have acne prone skin with large pores.my face is always rough.please help a sis with recommendations.Thank you.

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  8. Does anyone else experience vaginal dryness immediately after menses? Like, as soon as my period ceases my vagina suddenly is very dry and even sore to touch. This lasts for about 3-5days and then everything is back to factory setting. What can I do to prevent or ease this?

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    1. I don't know but due to individual differences,,that's ur own nature n don't get worried about it

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    2. See a doctor

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    3. Mine is like harmattan season after menstruation.

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    4. LMAO ,pinky how are you supposed to know?Are you a woman? Hehehe
      Stella come and carry your blog son

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    5. Lol, this pinky is a clown. Are you a woman to know how it feels like? πŸ˜†

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    6. Apparently, it's due to hormones (or the lack thereof)
      πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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    7. I have never experienced vaginal dryness. During ovulation,I have to wear panty liners.
      Oh Lordie!

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    8. It obviously flows like a fountain.
      Fertility at its peak.

      Hi Kaze

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    9. Me and you tanda for this table...ive subscribed to using lubes for that period of time.

      ...And you don't need to worry your pretty head, asked my gynae and he says it's normal. It's just the hormone thing too. It's thing.

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    10. Then i will like to know how to cope with excess wetness? Any help?

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    11. I just use vaseline on the area to ease pain when I'm walking. I thought I was alone on this table?

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    12. Hello ShiningLongrich. How are you doing? I was just thinking it's been a while I saw your posts. πŸ€—

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    13. It is absolutely normal. That's how it's supposed to be then by the 6th day post menstrual period the regular vaginal discharge begins to surface and by the 11th-14th day the discharge is sticky white. On the 14th-16th day it's clear and stretchy like egg white(raw egg).

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  9. Yaaaayyyyyyy.....
    TGIF,
    las las, we go all dey alright.
    Papa God,thank you

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  10. Good morning one big and happy family... Hope una crash well last night.

    As I announced yesterday, I am compiling a new list for data giveaway. You will all receive your data as soon as I sort out the list.

    For the airtel users, the airtime equivalent will be sent to your number. We all agreed on that. Right.
    But Glo is totally unavailable.

    Alright kisses everyone. #LoveandLight

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  11. My period is very light this month and I'm quite worried about it. I do have a heavy flow but i don't know whys month is different.

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    1. Light periods may not be a sign that you have something to worry about. Even a period as short as two to three days is considered normal. If you have missed a period or experienced light spotting and think you might be pregnant, take a pregnancy test. Make sure to track your light periods and talk to your doctor.

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    2. It could be because of stress,change of environment.. Eat fruits,veggies,drink enough water too.

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    3. If not pregos, you might be anemic . Go check your RBCs (red blood count), H & H (hemoglobin & hematocrit ).

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    4. I wanted to say the same thing about the blood count. You may need to start taking blood tonic and blood building foods

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  12. Good morning Stella, i got your message. I just felt and know some people will feel bad by it. I am speaking as a professional in human psychology.

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  13. Good morning house. May the Lord bless our today and cause it to be fruitful one!

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  14. Confused girl.26 July 2019 at 08:10

    Pls my good pple of sdk, can anyone recommend to me the best brand of air-conditionin to buy in terms of the cooling effects and durabilty. I am scared to buy a product that wouldn't be chilling well. My mind is on Panasonic, LG, and haier thermocool. Any other suggestions are welcomed. Thanks a lot

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    1. LG with inbuilt inverter,low voltage can power it...
      So far so good, we don't have problem with ours.

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    2. Yea the LG with inbuilt inverter is good, that’s what we use.

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    3. The best is Panasonic.I almost bought the LG inbuilt with inverter but was warned off it because its trial and error for repairs if it get bad. An AC repair man told me they are not sure how to fix it yet.You have to check this up. If you are on a budget,Kenstar is good too

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  15. The BV that his friend and family packed into his house let me tell you small experience with my ex husband...

    2weeks to our wedding he gave out 2rooms from the 3bedroom flat he lives. Less than 3months after the wedding he told me that the compound was possessed and the owner is ritualist so we must move out immediately..
    I was shocked but this guy forced me into 1room in a face me I face you compound where his friend stays and lied to me that the house belonged to him when he was single but when he got a flat he now left it for his friend..
    I stayed in 1room with him and his friend. The worst is that the room was so small that we could not keep our mattress on the floor but we had to be sleeping on same bed with his friend. The guy will lay at the front, my husband at the middle while me at the back..

    I hid all these from my family and avoided their visit. Anytime I cook and give this guy food my ex will rain all unprintable names on me and threaten to send me back to my parents. There was this day that he came inside the room while I was dishing out food and immediately told me that tomorrow he will give me money to go back to my parents for a while, for him to have his sanity. I later in the night asked him what I did but he said nothing. The following day, he gave me 2k and asked me to go home.. On my way back he called and told me to go to his parents instead but I refused and went back to my parents only for them to send me back and said I should go and work on my marriage. It was later that he told me he came inside the room while I bent down and was dishing the food but his friend stood at my back. "In his word, the guy stood close to my nyash", that was why he sent me home.
    I came back shamelessly and this guy continued his abused to the extend he accused me of being ogbanje when I had a miscarriage. I never even new that he had also been telling his family that I may be sleeping with that guy until his brother told the guy and he came and started cursing him.. He asked him what bad he has done by accepting him and his wife into HIS HOUSE because he's having house issues.. That was when I knew that we were even the real squatters. It's a very long story but the point am trying to make is that that guy might have told his wife that he is the real owner of the house.

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    1. Pathetic. Hope you are doing better now poster.

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    2. Choi!!! All i can say is; Thank God you left that toxic marriage. You really tried!!

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  16. Good morning lovelies

    I think it's because of the discrimination and it sensitivity that makes people not talk about it. Stellz, so sorry about your brother. May he continue to rest.

    The Bambino's off me.... Clear the air and clear the food on your plateπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. We are obviously backward in this country..

      I see no reason why we can't talk about a killer disease even with the person been affectedπŸ‘€..immedi immed we hear,she is HIV blabla,,we run so fast n this act alone kills them faster than the virus itself

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    2. The truth is that cancer is more dangerous than HIV

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    3. Cancer might be more dangerous than HIV but cancer can not be contacted easily the way HIV can. This might explain why the level of stigmatization is high.

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  17. Good morning people. I finally got my id back. Thanks to Martins

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  18. If you want to marry success,be ready to friend hardworking.No one attain success without struggle. No pain😏, No gainπŸ€‘πŸ˜‚.

    GOODπŸ“ MORNINGπŸ•Š Bvs.

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  19. Good morning to you all beautiful people of sdk lΓ  familia.

    Growing up in Nigeria πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬, I was so different. Like, I was so deeply involved with health issues both in men and women, politics, sports and women empowerment.
    There was no topic I wouldn't or couldn't speak on. My father was the force behind it. He made sure I had all the self confidence, respect in the world. I could face millions of crowds and speak to them without any shame.
    I always was open to discussing about sex and the various viral diseases. (I wasn't ashamed to talk about sex and the human body parts) even in my father's presence and my father was very proud of me because of that.
    Today, you see women or men who claimed to be woke being ashamed to discuss issues that matters most.
    You see very well enlightened mothers not being able to call vaginal or penis in the presence of their kids. They don't even say the names of the body parts, so that the kids can learn and also be able to avoid perverts and predators.
    Please, all you educated people (I am not only talking about book educated) should learn to have a open mind about all issues.

    I have worked with people with hiv/aids in the past and I was very blunt with having discussions with them and even with those not living with the disease.
    Let's learn to talk without self pity or being too politically correct.

    Stella, may your brother continue to rest on.

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    1. I think it also depends of individuals,you are an extrovert. It's already in you but your dad upgraded it for you! Regards to your son

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    2. First ,i apologize ahead for any error.

      Ms R, this is a sensitive issue no matter how we try to joke with it.

      You should research how many people had to see a psychologist once they are diagnosed of HIV.
      In Nigeria we discriminate it so much, because even some of the educated ones still see it as a death sentence.
      This blog is read mostly by Nigerians, i know we top the traffic.
      My dear Stella used it as her red pen, and you could see alot of people agreeing to her advice.
      First that is very dangerous and could even risk the girl's life, because if the guy finds out he would conclude he also have it. He would blame her for cheating and it could result to issues.

      Alot of people read this blog ,and imagine a person living with HIV wanting to come out yesterday to family and reading that.

      Anyway in abroad, once you get it you will be directed to where you be givien orientations.

      We do it here in Nigeria sometimes. But they see visiting psychologist as a big deal. Everything is seems as bad thing here.

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    3. Ms A please help me on how to get my confidence back, I'm the very shy time & i feel so shy/or i don't even know again if its afraid that even when I'm walking i do fidget sometimes thinking that people are looking & probably talking about me,it's even affecting in my class that my heart will be very heavy if a lecturer is randomly asking questions in class,I don't really like this about me & I want to change for the better,I also feel I'm too old to be in the class were so many of them are in their 20's while I'm 30. thanks.

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    4. 08:51, you alone can work on yourself better. I used to be like you but I changed. How did I do it, when I'm in front of an audience, I pretend like I'm alone and if you are alone, you can't be ashamed of yourself.
      Come out of your shell, make casual friends and join discussion groups. Accept to speak on chosen topics. You will see yourself addressing a few group of people and gradually you will begin to come out.
      When people annoy you or hurt you, stand up for yourself, ignore people's reactions. Self confidence is the key.

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    5. Vagina NOT vaginal or virginal.

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    6. Omg@08:51,are u me,this is my major problem,we need help

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  20. I was seeing a lot of comments yesterday saying how terrible I will be as a bf or as a husband.
    I tend to go extreme for people who I care about and anyone who have been good to me.
    No matter what anyone does to me and I forgive because I always remember that there was a time the person was good to me.
    That is what is happening between my friend and I presently, but I never believe he will go out of the way to behave the way he is doing.
    The reason I said if I had gf was because he wouldn't have dare ask me he wants to move in because he believe presently there is no girl.

    Let us be realistic there is this value a lady add to one's life when you are in a relationship or married.
    I have a cousin who constantly comes around then to my place to do whatever he likes.. He will bring in his gf,cook and eat without cleaning..I won't be able to say a thing,whenever my gf comes around she sees it and she gets angry. I will get to the kitchen and clean everywhere up, she knows I dont no how to turn people down.she picked her phone called my cousin and told him this should be the last time he tries that rubbish, that If I can talk,she can.
    It was a very big issue in the family my cousin's Mon who is my mom junior sister and my immediate senior sister,insulted her.
    I stood my ground and say to them,it was very wrong of them to insult her no matter what..they should have called me first to inform me about what happened. I got angry and I left,my mom called me to ask what happened I told her and she said irrespective I shouldn't have disrespected my aunt and my sister,I told her I never disrespected them I just make things straight with them, but until they call the lady to apologize,I don't want anything to do with them...its over a year plus now I havent spoken to my aunt or my sister...

    So NO I'm not a weakling when it comes in handling relationship, I have come to understand I just need that female figure who will give me a push,when I'm this stupid and foolish.
    And I'm not also the type of person who discuss anything going on with me,even my mom or my siblings I just keep it to myself and deal with it,the only person I confide in is always my partner and gf,I don't like people prying into my private life no matter who the person is,I'm just that quiet person who doesn't like going about discussing my personal issue.

    So I'm not asking a girl to fight my battle for me,I just believe she will be able to push me a bit and that was why I sent the post last week and it wasnt posted,cos I knew I would have gotten a push here and no how to go about it cos you guys helped me out of a bad relationship sometimes last year with your advice here.
    He was a good friend too but I just believe he should understood there are limits and boundaries of what and what he can do in my home.
    I heard the last time he was talking to someone that I just get one apartment na one mini flat the place make sense,I was just smiling bragging to people up and down.he even met one of his former Neighbor and i was telling him could you believe he brought the man inside the apartment showed in around, and the man too was hailing him that he tried oo this place make sense na my you be.
    Someone said I'm not even tolerant if you were in my shoes you will understand my plight.

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    1. It’s okay adopted brother. Like I said, move out and leave them there.

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    2. @Poster, you are not beibg mstuted here. Tou are behsving foolishly raised to the power one million! What arrant nonsense is this? Continue keeping quiet you hear. Until the datyour sqyatter turned hoyse owner friend will ask you to wash his and his wife's undies for them. Mtsheeeeeeew! Mothers really need to do better in rasing up kids. We need to raise our kids up to speak up against what they are not ok with immediately it happens. I can't believe a grown was man will be this foolish!

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    3. But you said yesterday that you don't have a girlfriend na

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    4. SO DID U GIVE IN TO YOUR FRIEND'S DEMAND??U need to be stong as a man ..the bible even sad so.What u can't take ,say it out. No point pleasing others to displease yourself.Love yourself 101% so that YOU come first...What's difficult in informing your friend u not comfortable with letting him and his wife/baby say at your mini flat n either supporting him with some cash to look elsewhere?? See theres's nothing like u need a woman/gf to give u that little push...pray u don't get unlucky by meeting a lady who will see that as your weak point and use it against you.

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    5. Oh i see you let them stay..well, do what pleases you...You are a weakling,,,FULLSTOP.

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    6. If you'd channeled the energy u used to type all the epistles above to developing your sense ,wisdom n strong will...would have been very profitable to you....Onye asi mara ife, ya ajuu

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    7. DBarezz is telling you the truth. It might sound harsh but accept it.

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    8. Poster....the energy you used in replying all these days redirect it to solving your issue.
      I wonder why you bring the matter to this blog and when given advice you end up saying.."I cant say NO"..then why are you discussing it here again?
      Everyone has said the same thing and you have rejected their submissions.
      I dont have advice to waste on someone who wont listen more so what I would have typed is not different from whatever you have being told.

      @DBarezz..no need waiting strength ..this one is a confirmed weakling the type that is tagged oponu...and I am glad the friend is using him like this...maybe this will be the situation that will make him learn to be a person that is firm in his dealings.
      God said help others but he didn't say one should be stupid...

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    9. My boyfriend called to inform me that he want to stand as a guarantor for is friend who is like a brother to him, and that, he has agreed to stand has the person collecting the loan. He will give the bank all his details and his account will be debited with a particular amount monthly while his friend will be paying the money into my boyfriend's account.. I ask him if he was okay and why his he telling since he has agreed already. He said he just felt I should know.. I told him he was stupid and ended the call. He later called to agreed that he was really stupid. You my guy, don't let me say that to you too oh because I'm very angry with you meekness.

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    10. In my opinion, I think this poster is under some sort of influence-"jazz". Cos I sincerely don't understand how a grown adult can have problems setting things straight in his own home. You think everyone advising you is wicked, don't you? That they don't have human feelings or sympathy and so it makes you feel you're better? My dear, wake up from your slumber and smell the hot coffee. All I can really say in the end is for you to suit yourself.

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    11. Poster,

      Courage is what you need. Do Not Think how your friend and his family would feel because doing so will make you not take the necessary action of kicking them out.

      Nobody can fight your battle(s) except you alone; you are displeased and unhappy about this situation-tell your friend so tonight and make sure his wife is present during this conversation.

      As others previously mentioned, any smart woman will run away from you. No one wants a push over for a boyfriend, a partner or a husband.

      Get Up and Stand Up for your right!

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  21. Good morning people of SDK villa. May today bring good tidings to us all.

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  22. Stella good morning! I can totally relate to what you said about people reacting differently to issue of AIDS/HIV. I lost 2 of my family members, my mother and my sister so I know how it feels like. It is a touching subject so am always sad about it but I don't stigmatize those living with it. Rather I appreciate the fact that there are some courageous people living with them and accepting them like that. Good morning everyone!

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  23. Good morning my Neighbours.
    Please how do i grow my Instagram page?

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  24. Good morning my lovely house mateπŸ™Œ..

    May ur brother continue to rest on in peace...

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  25. Parents that don't better prepare their children for the harsh realities of the world is why we have so many entitled adults.

    As you prepare for success, also prepare for struggle cos life can be like "yeah, bitch..we 'll see bout that".

    Nothing like seeing naive ass adults.

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  26. Good morning my Sdk family.. today's weather is coolo!!!!have a blessed day.

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  27. Abeg let me take this time to celebrate an amazing woman today. One woman who has helped shaped the lives and future of thousands of people directly or indirectly. one woman with a mighty heart of gold. i celebrate you today Stella dimoko korkus. Oooh if only you know what you have done for me ehn? *side eyes at bvs*

    You sdk have recalibrated my mindset, change my factory settings on so many life issues and made me realise how great i can be. (i stumbled on one of your old ihn and the message there transformed my mind) my life has change in the last 2 months and its all thanks to God and you. Thank you maami, i dont usually say this to people alot but i love you plenty. God bless you. i would have drop this in your inbox but i want bvs to see this correct yansh licking that i am licking this morning hehehehehehehehe.


    now that i have finish licking your yansh whats next? eeeeerm so leah sharibu is dead? is this not the sort of issues that should inspire people to go protesting with placards? no they wont, they will rather stay behind their cheap phones drumming support for stupid celebrity scandal and giving moral support behind their phones . So leah is truly dead? If she truly is then may her soul rip. whats the next line of action necessary to be taken to ensure the lives of those held captive including the Christian aid worker that was abducted? are we going to sit and fold our arms while they are being held captive till those idiot lose their cool and decide to slaughter them like chicken? Why are christians not thinking of organising a protest to aso rock now? What have we done to God that he has decided to curse us with evil and wicked leaders? Jehovah have mercy on us na. remember your covenant with Abraham and pls save Nigeria. wipe out all the evil leaders who put their own selfish interest before that of the nation first. kill them all, wipe them all from the surface of the earth. bring back sanity into Nigeria. Lord we need you right now. In jesus name Amen



    I am so tired of this country. no one is safe anymore.

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    1. And pharaohs neck will be stiffened and broken without repair

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  28. Enter your comment...Yesterday was my children end of session party/ prize giving day and both came overall best in their classes. I remembered when the younger one was in his former class, the fear in him not wanting to go to school, having to hold his pencil and even crayon, in short anything about school you could see the fear in him, but surprisingly he was called as the over all best in his class. I am so happy that he could break forth. He was so happy when he was called out to get his prize. I must say nothing beats a good teacher.

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    1. Congrats you and your kids. This made me smile

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    2. what a proud mama you must be Fav,kudos to them.
      If you can, get them both gifts,it will spur them into doing more;they will never want to relinquish that position easily.Congrats!

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    3. Congrats mama,congrats to your super kids

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  29. Happy Weekend bvs
    Kids would always be kids.
    So this my little neice calls me 'mummy'.
    It makes me glad cos I feel she has forgotten about her late mum. She doesn't even ask me about her anymore, this has reduced my own grief too cos I used to cry secretly on such days.
    Now, my kids have started something else. Whenever they have a little misunderstading with this poor girl, they will tell her to stop calling their Mummy 'mummy' because I am not her mummy, her own mummy is in heaven with God. They do have reasons to fight her especially when I pamper her being my adopted last born.
    I have talked and preached to them to stop telling her that. I let them know that being her mum's sister, I am also her mum because we are family and all sorts of other explanations. They repeated it last night.
    I am scared of enrolling this girl in the same school with them now, I don't want them saying it in the presence of other pupils and exposing the girl to bully and mockery in school. You know how kids can be. Enrolling her in their school would have attracted a discount. Oh! These children. Any tips on how to handle them would be appreciated.

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    1. Aww i could help, but can't type lengthy now. Later just caution then with love.

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    2. God bless you for helping her. I think you have to work more on your children and try to to make them know that they have no need to be jealous of the girl and you love all of them. Also insist that they not bully the girl anymore as you are now also her mother. It is not easy but try to make sure they feel equally treated and loved.

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    3. Your children are supposed to protect that child. Their reaction might be a result of what was inculcated into them from the beginning.

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    4. I had tears in my eyes reading this. Whenever I read about a mother who died and leave young kids, I usually imagine my little daughter without me alive.
      Mrs Gee, pls keep talking to your kids. They are still small, I remember you said they are below 10. this is the best time you should make them see her as a sister. May God give you the strength and means to raise her as your daughter.

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    5. Threaten them with flogging, reduction of their pocket money, fun outings, watching tv ,etc..Also caution them with love..

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    6. It should start wit u, u probably have been saying it to their hearing in a negative manner hence they pick off ur vibes. Start afresh if u really mean being her mom. I bet u know wat to do.

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    7. This is core

      Find out who else tells them that

      A maid
      Someone else


      Stop them
      Leave the discount for now


      Ask them to tell you about GOD
      Hear their response
      Ask them if GOD isn't a father to them , you , cousin , their friends aren't children of the same GOD?

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  30. Pleasant morning to everyone. Show me mercy,Oh Lord.

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  31. Women should learn how to be sensitive, when your husband is going through financial pressure,please let him be, don't come disturbing him for sex. How do you expect a broke man to have erection? That I'm broke is because I started a big business for her, I can't ask her for money cuz I want her business to grow..

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    1. Awww! Explain to her cos I believe she's just trying to keep the romance alive. Keep yo head up, bro.

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    2. Eyah. It is well with you Sir.
      Pls try and do it for her sake. If you were in her shoes, you would not take that as an excuse when your something is vibrating already. In marriage, we need to adjust in order to strike a balance and maintain peace. My husband also had this problem back then, but he would just cheer up and do one short round for my sake. You can try and be giving her one short round too until things improve.

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    3. My hubby's excuse.He will go further to joke about couples in the past that birth lot of children in poverty.

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    4. Poster I think if you are broke with cash, you can still make it up with the other room game. If you are broke in both, is a big problem if you ask me. I pray God comes through for you financially and restores peace in your home.

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    5. Pele , she's just trying to keep your sexual lives fun, some husbands complain when they make the move all the time

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    6. Let her know sir,to her she just wants to make you happy.So sorry about your current state,you did it for the family;you will always be in her prayers.

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    7. Blessed princess you are a case. Mr, she is only trying to take you out of your depression. Try and do it once in a while like someone said up there. I pray God touches your finances soon

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  32. Good morning beautiful people and jummat Mubarak to all Muslim bvs..

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  33. Friday is here finally. Our school party loading....
    HIV /AIDS is like death certificate to Nigerians so they avoid its name like a plague. If they see a thin Person, they mock him or her by comparing him/her with a carrier.

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  34. Good morning house. Yesterday was my POP and I'm grateful to God for keeping me all through the one year program.. One love to you all.

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  35. L is for MBUBERE

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  36. Stella i am going to add the word PLEASE POST.

    Blessed princess my dear, yes Cancer is very deadly than HIV . Do you really know why they discriminate against HIV, it is because they listed sex as one of the easiest and common way to get infected.
    One comment up there stated how she goes to church for awareness and everyone was running and saying God forbid.

    It is so sad to say these discrimination come when they kept wondering how you got it. It is going to be a problem here until we stop seeing sex an abomination. Alot of people engage in it. Its something we can't stop but we should identify the hazard and act accordingly.

    for instance you hear a local speaking and saying baba ojo Don get aids o,na only god know how him woka go carry that one come from.

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    1. Well said. God will help us and heal everyone

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  37. SDK, this your computer is truly misbehaving. It changed Friday to Fridaz.

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  38. Good morning everyone, may this Friday be a stress free one and bring blessing to every one. SDK PA I need data oo. may God bless us all.

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    1. Why are you impersonating me?.I will never beg for data or money on social media.STOP IT!

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  39. Yayyyyyyyyy!!! I've gotten back my blog ID, thank you so much Martins, God bless you

    Thank you Stella for posting my adverts yesterday, God bless you

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  40. Good morning everyone. Yori Yori Princess how you dey? Reasonable doubt hope abroad is treating you well? BV Platter longest time? XP how work? E don teyoooo. Blessing Firstlady how is it going? Teejay wetin mega?

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    1. XP is here in ghost mode. She come here all the time to hype herself in anon mode

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  41. good morning lovely family and enjoy your weekend.

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  42. Good morning beautiful people

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  43. Good morning SDK and bvs
    Do have a lovely weekend

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  44. Where is bv Loveme jeje?
    Mama what happen? Who has her phone number? Ejo make una call am o

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  45. So there is this old papa on my facebook who has been disturbing me with video call on facebook messenger since. He will just call and when I pick it, he won't say anything. He will just be smiling foolishly. I wanted to block him cos he is really disturbing my phone but then, I decided to chat him up, I thought he might be going through some ish like a terminal disease or depression and the likes and those video call make him happy. So I typed and said 'hello, do you speak English?'
    I am still waiting for his replyπŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  46. And that's because he's "abroad" right? I bet that if he was a Nigerian, you'd block him.

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