Is there any Success story or Stories that touch from the last Singles Mingles?Are there any couples getting married anytime soon from the Singles Mingles?
I know about two couples getting maried,they didnt meet on the singles mingles but they are both Blog visitors and met via the Blog.....
Please give us updates and alert us of any serial lovers.....
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ReplyDeleteYour ears and nose are the testimony couples? 🙄
DeleteMeaning I am here to listen and perceive good news 😂🤣
DeleteIBK is that you
DeleteBiko how are they meeting via the blog?
DeleteYes oo I met a sweet guy here name Raymond... am not giving the full name.. I love him. 💝💞💖
DeleteDear married men,
DeleteWhat is your business with singles and mingles?
Two married men contacted my friend. One formed helping his brother. The other came with let's be friends.
one guy called me, we started talking, later he told me he was coming from his base and we were meant to see, he wanted staying the weekend in my house I refused , then he said he will lodge and I will spend the three days with him , I told him I can only come in the morning and go in the evening , he asked why , I told him I wont be comfortable staying over plus that I am a mermaid so inorder not to tempt ourselves that it is better , uncle got angry oo and said I wasn't serious that let's call everything off. I tried to explain to him but he won't have any of it so I let him be.
DeleteAnon16.02
DeleteProud that you would know the goat tendencies early and decided not to manage trash
Anon 16:02 ,i love what you did ,ladies need to know their worth
DeleteSpending the day with him is just as risky.
DeleteAnon 19:55, but not as risky as sleeping over. At least she would be properly dressed and woke!
DeleteI just blocked one guy that wanted to know how fat my account is because we can get along. Rubbish!
ReplyDeleteArrant nonsense. Good you blocked him.
DeleteNa dem
DeleteStella some of them (men) are not serious I don't even know what they want. I specifically stated what I want and what I don't want and they won't follow the instructions.
ReplyDeleteSomeone will contact me and say just "Hi or hello for the entire day and nothing else. No constructive conversation.... gooooosh!
Reply with you hi hello too na...make una play am the whole day.
DeletePlease who knows one Abuja twin that co owns a hotel with his twin brother. His name starts with U, he is fair in complexion, tall and the name of their hotel starts with I.. Igbo guy
ReplyDeleteHe wants to marry me like today tomorrow but am afraid ooo
Pray yourself to God o not Pastor pls. hear from him and do your physical findings too.
DeleteMine is one small boy that owns she wot collection in Jabi lake mall. His name is Charles. I just dey look am
DeleteCheck Facebook. Check his friends on there. Check LinkedIn. Follow him to his parents house. Don’t be scared
DeleteEjekam boys. One of them is getting married in two weeks. Hope he's not the one giving you spines
DeleteMy dear, I kw them very well ooo. Run for your life, Ugo is married while his other brother Okechukwu is a scam. No bi only marry. Yimu
DeleteSorry ogochukwu not Okechukwu. Typo
DeleteKia, SDK blog visitors I hail. If u wan know about your sef, just come here 🤣😂🤣
DeleteSome of us choose not to write back despite seeing several fuck ups. We just let it go and decide not to participate again while some end happily and still wish to keep mute. People differ Stella.
ReplyDeleteFeeble y hide infoytgat can help another person ?
DeleteGood morning Stella,
ReplyDeleteKindly advice Bvs to always adhere to what was requested for. And should they opt to try their luck, they should be civil and open minded about it.
The situation where some will reach out to you and go mute is totally uncalled for. Always forming busy, everyone is busy please. It was called "mingle" for a purpose. The alarming confidence in the manner and way they go, about saying "I know what I want" yet are not there or show up to be counted, is very bad.
And please my fellow ladies especially, it's not everyone that likes to be called anyhow. Let's learn to respect spaces. Very impatient, always wanting everything to happen sudden, yet not dedicating the time for it. And if it comes up fast, we still complain.
In most cases we are the problem, be open minded and give something a chance to build and grow. Most of us are just too bitter to be in a relationship.
If nobody was igniting the kind of constructive conversation that you wish for, you initiate the conversation then!!
ReplyDeleteSet the motherfucking tone!!!
Most were seeking "Godfearing" this et that. When it's them that should be feared..
ReplyDeleteChai...why?😭
DeleteHahahahaha
Delete😂😂😂 oh my god!
DeleteLolzzzz. My belly o
Deletehmm.. I'm waiting for my testimony to mature before I share. If all goes well, might as well have an SDK wedding. For real.
ReplyDeleteNice one
DeleteAmen oooo
Delete💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
DeleteIt will go well
DeleteIt will end in praise oo. We go buy aso-ebi
Deletesnm is a scam.
ReplyDeleteSDK girls are cunt
Cunt attracts cunt. That you haven't been lucky doesn't mean that SnM is a scam and that Stella is also a scam.
DeleteSeun Fed. God will judge you
ReplyDelete😂😂😂just because i sell corn for a living alot peeps stopped chatting with me. Well if only they know.
ReplyDeleteCan you marry a corn seller or allow your sister or daughtherto do same
DeleteLmao @15:47
Delete15:47 yes
DeleteMy dear, don't ever be ashamed of what you do to earn a living
DeleteYou're better than many who choose to snatch husbands/prostitution to survive
your hustle is Legit
I would rather marry a corn seller than a fraudster. I believe in humble beginnings and adding value to people's lives.
DeleteShe's talking to me and my friend. I let her go.
ReplyDeleteJust talking?
DeleteLol keep talking and ask her out
DeleteIs talking relationship
Talking is not sex. How was she to know he’s your friend. If you’re interested, go for it
a first class graduate doing her ICAN or something related was all acting busy. madam will take eternity to pick calls/respond to messages. I have absolutely no bad thoughts for you. I can only wish u well in ur life endeavours.
ReplyDeleteit begs the question, what do some ladies really want when they drop their contacts on a public fora for mingling? you make yourself almost unapproachable in real life and repeat same on social media.
haba!!! which way forward na?
Don't mind them. Whatever happened to multitasking?!
DeleteJust because she dropped her contact does not mean she has to be interested in you. She's busy and not desperate. Are you type to ask 'what did you take for dinner'. Free the babe she's not interested.
DeleteThe girl no like you. If girl like you, na she go first dey greet you. Babes of nowadays dont really form hard to get like that, its usually subtle
DeletePoint of correction...Some of us still form real hard to get because we know our worth...Im a mum.of two based in Europe and still expect a man to woe me
DeleteMom of two, sit down there and be waiting for who to woe you.
DeleteForming hard to get on top of used product.
What does based in Europe have to do with the conversation? Or only those in a particular location can play hard to get?
DeleteMom ignore Don’s words
DeleteHe’s not learned to advice without putting others down
You people should not forget to invite us to your wedding.... O
ReplyDeleteStella most ladies here are scam! They are looking for an escape route out of poverty. Who told you you can't make money on your own, a man can love a liability but no man values a liability
ReplyDeleteOk you know most ladies here
DeleteSo what if you help her out of poverty
DeleteMany men have done it and also dated or married the girl
Women do it too
As long as she doesn’t only want your money
I missed it! *sobs*. The last one i participated in, had one dude who wanted to show me his dick. Do i look or sound sexually frustrated? Blocked him and his hammer of horror C curve...... mmttssshheeww.
ReplyDeleteStellz do another please for matured people.
Hehehehehe @Hamner of horror C curve
DeleteHahahahaha hahahaha...wait, what?!!! ..hahahahahaha..*clutches tummy*.. 😂😂😂.. Oh Lawd!!!..
DeleteSome human you met. The degree of undiluted fuckery!.
😁😁😁😁😁
DeleteOh lawd! Some of these guys do not get it. How about getting to know each other first?? His own problem is showing dick when he should be getting to know u. SMH
DeleteBP is like C curve ooo. Before it goes and hook and pluck something. he he he eh
DeleteStella I don't know we have agberos on dis blog, one called wen i was in class, after the class i called back and he sounds like dos lagos tout with his heavy yoruba intonation said he got my number from sdk i now told him we will talk later in d evng when i get home instead of him to call back in the evening he didnt he was actually waiting for me to call him i just shake my head and waka pass.
ReplyDeleteYou are just a snob, I don't like people like this.
DeleteSee them, you were even waiting for the "Agbero" to call back.
DeleteAre you crazy. Why not call him back. He called and he should call back? U couldn’t even text back. You are a bit rude
DeleteBetter find his number and call if you have any interest
@14:11, imagine that! She was waiting for the "agbero" to call back. Madam what would you have done had he called you back? Lead him to Christ?... Yeyenantu 🙄
DeleteAnon 13:14 with her entitlement mentality. Next time when you get home, text or call him and stop waiting to be spoon fed all the time. Agbero ko you are only pained because he didnt call back or maybe he heard your voice and ran for his life too
DeleteWhen someone drops "Hello" or "Hi" without following up with a meaningful introduction of yourself, that's a turn-off for me. I wouldn't even want to respond to your hello.
ReplyDeleteOmg just say hi how are you and he’ll take it from there
DeleteWhy ignore cause he said hi
Me that is actually busy, because I want I relationship bad, I will still message you ladies and will get response after 6 hrs. I will still reply you and get anotber response after 8 hrs. If you're not here to actually meet people why drop your details. Me I don't have time for nonsense. First delayed response I take it you're being bombarded by different guys so it's hard for you to focus I understand. But after 3 days it still takes up to six hours for you to respond to my message, my dear I won't write you again ooo
ReplyDeleteDid you send your pics
DeleteSome of you don’t know how to get a lady’s attention
You want to do slow build up
Honestly we too are visual
I was not really feeling one dude cause of distance but he sent his pics and some brief info about himself. That put a human touch on him and I got interested. Honestly we are all human. If you liked any of those babes text them with a few details and send pics. Ask if they can video chat sometime or want o meet up for a drink or meal
Post your info on this post. There’s less competition here than snm
The earlier SnM participants realise that the whole process is like an audition/interview, the better for them. If I am to participate in a SnM, I would make sure that my first chat would be catchy. It's not an act of selling oneself cheap, it's just an act of standing out from the crowd.
DeleteYou will have a catchy chat when the person at the other end responds to your message not when they take 6hrs to respond to hello, how is it going?
Deletecontacted two from the post and all of them are as good as not contacting them
ReplyDelete#GOAT™
they don't know how to chat
ReplyDeleteit is better of to chat with a child than some of them
#GOAT™
Try the anon that has been begging you to chat with her. Goodluck
DeleteExactly my thoughts perxy. Give that annon a chance
DeleteThe few ladies I met never liked my job.is it a crime to work for efcc?am SP IN NPF.so police no be job Abi.
ReplyDelete😂 it's a sensitive one, police in Nigeria don't have a good reputation at all
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeletePlease don't blame her, too many curses are unleashed on your colleagues and job on a daily basis by pained Nigerians 😂
DeleteNobody wants to live with a curse all in the name of love 😂 😂 😂 I fear who no fear Nigeria police 👮
DeleteCome let's date, I'm a Civil Defender also an SC. Send ur digits, u can militarise it. Cheers
DeleteI have a friend who had enrolled at the nigeria police college when she met the guy she is now married to. The guy insisted on her quitting else no marriage. The guy is an oga at airtel n said he can’t be married to a policewoman
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ReplyDeleteWe are going on strong o,na money dey delay our wedding ni.I know say better job go come wey dey pay us pass this one we dey do amen.
ReplyDeleteAmen..
DeleteWe actually clicked fast, quite a distance from each other... Like I was madly into him he was i guess, he dnt want to take me seriously, like how long are we supposed to date before you do? Like you just wan they use me wank for horny times. Anyways I prayed to God for signs and I saw it, he finally said his mind about not wanting to be serious for now, thank God before then my mind don commot for his matter.... I hope to meet the one destined for me soon, but till then I will keep praying.
ReplyDeleteWank (so you are sending nudes) and pray in the same sentence? choose one side.
DeleteYes i was stupid.... I know better now tnx
DeleteYou can see why he never take you serious. . Why send your nude to a man? Stop doing that, if he want to see your nude, let him work his way to have you first.
DeletePlease just flee from all these abroad snm guys biko, they are time wasting oh, they just need someone to wank with.
ReplyDeleteIdiot you, stop sending nude.
DeleteWe are going on strong o,na money dey delay our wedding ni.I know say better job go come wey dey pay us pass this one we dey do amen.
ReplyDeleteYes oooo. So a number called me but was busy with my boss and decided to call back much later. That was how the "huncle" sent me a message saying " Old hag can't you pick my call looking at the fact that he senior's me. And why am I behaving like all those Yoruba girls that are rude despite the fact that am igbo" and i was like what the heck is wrong with this guy? Does he know my age and has he seen me? He was like despite the fact he used his credit to call me I can't pick.
ReplyDeleteSo I replied saying" Thanks for reaching out. I appreciate But wouldn't want you to waste your credit calling me. So you can look else where for a relationship.
Na so huncle press p saying " He's sister's would beg okada to marry them( not me). That am not happy he wants to marry me( na so he change subject). I laughed so hard and replied him saying I should be Happy? Really? With your konk igbotic accent. See how you're displaying your frustration because I don't wanna mingle with you.
Na so I seem am and blocked the guy. I hate nonsense
What rubbish talk? chai, woman don suffer. That was uncultured of him.
DeleteI hope it's not just one side of the story you are telling cos I find it hard to believe a person would call another person old hag out of the blues.
Delete15:19 believe it abeg. One guy called me names in first few texts. Said he could find girls that would jump at the chance to have him. I think some of them do it to get a laugh. It makes them happy to call a random girl and say mean things
DeleteYou are a really nice girl City chocolate.
DeleteText number 1 would have put him on permanent ignore mode
I would never have replied
The last SnM before this, the guy that called me can argue for Africa. He wanted a picture of my ass and boobs to know maybe I'm his type. He invited me to nude clubs in ikeja and told me how he's been doing doggy from when he was young. Twice he gave me phone to talk to some girls he f..k on the street. I haven't seen an idiot like that b4, big mouthed, uncouth. Trust me, l blocked him .l was even scared to reply another one who contacted me from 'the abroad'
ReplyDeleteIs ik na. That sick guy dat call random girls .. that use car as his dp. Insult d idiot eeeeh
DeleteMe no dey interested in the SingleMingle because first, all them ladies who participate seem to be looking for marriage. Secondly, I am not that God-fearing: I do evil when I feel it's necessary. Third, in my little experience, ladies I have met don't appreciate communication. Like I call at least twice a day. I am just tired.
ReplyDeleteI met some guy from the Easter SnM. We both live abroad. It's been smooth so far. Met him once although the distance is like 15 hours flight. We both had a connection and have talked everyday since we connected on SnM. Am older that him with 4 years. I have an open mind. If nothing, I know I met a good friend here.
ReplyDeleteI don't know if it's over or not but we are having issue. She's acting like she's doing me a favor, because to her, she's beautiful and men are calling her everyday. I will still participate again, so painful, dropped close to twenty girls to picked her but she think she's everything in the world. I love you but won't condones your excesses.
ReplyDeleteOnly you 20 girls...I carry yansh for you.
DeleteYour grammar is turning her off
DeleteTell her to give you time to fix it
No single soul even made an attempt to call or even flash me. Apart from social media sef, it's same real life. No guy have interest in me and it's not like I'm not beautiful. I wonder what's happening. I'm 28 and I have never had a boyfriend, I don't even know what it feels like sef not to talk of an ex. It's not like I'm desperate to get married but I would really love to be married. I love love and I want to feel it.
ReplyDeleteI pray God answers my prayers. I pray a miracle happens for me this year. I pray I find love this . Amen
Be patient. God is keeping you from harm (heartbreak, stds, player, wrong distractions) and preparing the best for you. Stay close to Him and hold on.
DeleteAnonymous 09:55
DeleteThanks dear. I just hope and pray God haven't forgotten me.
Why didn’t u contact anyone?
DeleteWhat did u write about yourself on the last post
Stella please do a SnM post for those in the abroad.
ReplyDeletesister im interested o.let me be the first to ask you out. miss love
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