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Wednesday, July 17, 2019

Wednesday In House News..

Hailings................









STIGMATISATION WITH HIV/AIDS CARRIER



Hi bvs, I need an advice I'm an HIV positive, living positively, but the problem is stigmatisation, people get to know through the nurses working where we collect drugs, thinking of relocating, but my husband said he's not interested in relocating, and I'm not working presently, I tried selling things, but you know the town is a small town, most people dont want to associate with me ,and this is giving me concern, and I'm lonely..


 I wish to relocate to where no one knows my story, while still coming to this town for treatment, cos I noticed that is what most people do But in scared of the unknown, my husband promised to be coming to check on us regularly, hes a state worker here.


 I dont even know where I can go, Im a graduate but no job, I know my comment is disjointed, I just need advice on what to do to rise above this situation Stellas spontaneous post yesterday morning motivated me, but how, where do I start from?




Reading this made me so sad,I dont even know what to say...........I am so sorry that you are going thru this..They run away cos you probably are not rich and can throw money around....Rich people who are carriers have friends and family around them...so this is what i will pray for you,to be rich and succeed.

Please do not move out cos you will lose your husband,this same thing happened to a BV who is positive and the hubby fell in love with some one else and begged her to move on.....All it took was a few months for him to move on oh....please stay where you are and if them look you look them back...be bold please






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AFCON Gist.‪



So some of my female friends (journalists) who are in Egypt for the AFCON have been having these nasty experiences. They enter a cab and the driver will start to masturbate. It happened even to a fifty something year old woman I know. The driver asked her name and he brought out his thing.‬ ‪ He was calling her name while stroking his nonsense thing. She had to tell him to stop and she ran out. ‬


Another one did a video recording of the driver while he was seriously at it. They do it to black girls I think I they already know the visitors. Disgusting to say the least. When I asked them why the men couldn’t ask girls out or maybe pay ‬‪for the do, HYPOCRISY. They could do this in their cars and get away with it since nobody sees them as pious **** that they are.They can’t do it with their babes because, HYPOCRISY! ‬


Another thing is this. Some of our men are having a field day with their face covering babes. An Egyptian would bring some girl into an apartment, all covered up. In your mind, she is his wife. When they get into the apartment, she starts her business. A particular gist I am privy to, this girl was brought in for a guy, after he finished, the other two guys indicated interest and there were no condoms.‬ ‪She agreed to go raw because why? na their money kill am. So the other two guys had their turns and paid not minding if she has a disease or not. To them, they have fulfilled their lifelong ambition of sleeping with an Arab girl who is very beautiful. They can fine sha.‬ ‬‬


‪It is consensual, no qualms abi? As long as it is not rape. My only issue is this: If you come home with a disease would you tell your wife? Seeing as you have resigned to your fate “after all I’m 50, wetin remain? If I take antiretroviral drugs for 10 more years, I never try?”‬ ‪You don try my brother but I ask again, what about my fellow woman? Would you tell her?


Here’s wishing the Super Eagles all the luck for the third place match.  ‬‬




See gist...............flirting has nothing to do with religion please...Preeks dont have conscience......






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TEEJAYS CORNER

LATE BUT NEVER TOO LATE.....


I had barely sat down at the Catholic bookshop in my parish as I picked up a pamphlet from one of the book shelves to read when a man I presumed should be in his fifties, gave me a pleasant smile like one who had known me for sometime.

I greeted him "Good evening Sir." In a swift response, he answered "Evening my son. After reading that, I would love you to have a read on this too. I hope you wouldn't mind?" he asked. It's okay as I received the leaflet from him in appreciation. I later discovered he is the author of the leaflet he had given me.

"Before you read, let me take about thirty minutes of your time" he said. It was a sad story he had shared with me about his youthful age. Such a terrible lifestyle he once lived. Everyone else condemned him but the mother. They all lost hope in him, as every words of admonition failed. There was no evil he wasn't associated with. On countless occasions, he had been arrested in the past but the mother plea will get the father to bail him. The mother became the good woman to him than the father ever was according to his perception.

"One faithful afternoon, I got the most shocking news in life that mother is gone. I wept as if I was a baby and had wished death would have taken another away than mother. (At this point, I could sense the emotion as he speaks). It was a sad day... That day in history changed so lot about me. Gradually, I started avoiding every occasion associated with crimes and wrong doings. If only Mother had lived to see me a changed man....." This he said emotionally. Today, he has taken it as a duty to always reach out to youth to admonish them on the implications of crimes and negative addiction.

We have it as a duty and a task to make our parents happy while they are still alive. Our actions shouldn't make them regret birthing us or even send them to the grave untimely. Can one truly live with the guilt of being responsible for the death of a parent? I doubt. Though it came late, but was never too late for the soul redemption of the man whose story I had just shared briefly.



*Negative addiction?Is there anything like positive addiction?









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FROM MY INBOX OH::::::NA WAH


Hi Stella, i will say am one of your old time blog readers and if i say that am happy with what you did i will be lieing, i read it on the blog that you have ur own people. It is now i finally confirmed it

I posted items for sale and you wrote that they were too expensive, like you were the one buying it, and said because it was rusty it was expensive. I have seen pictures of ***** you have posted that are more expensive than mine. If u did not want to post it you could have said no as it is your blog and can do what u like instead of sending me one liner messages as if u have a personal vendetta with me. It hurts me because u are someone i really admire. At least now i know better. What you did was not nice at all. I am selling those things to balance my children's school fees not like i will not need them again. I am not happy that i am selling them''.




Can you just imagine?There is no one that sends advert that i do not interact with in one liner messages until they get their adverts or whatever they want to post right,it even takes some of them weeks...I always give instructions on if goods are ok or not and some thank me and leave quietly if they cannot do any changes.

This person sent me something that when i zoomed in on i saw it was rusted and not new and the price was much.....I replied her say ''too expensive'' and she replied saying it is negotiable and i replied saying ''yeah but it was also too rusty'' ad she replied saying because it had been in storage,i replied saying yeah but it didnt change the fact that it was rusty.....That was our last correspondence before that mail up there ...These kinds of mail makes me regret even doing any advert for anyone for free.....

Anyone who has ever advertised inside ihn will tell you that before i post things,i ask questions and sometimes outrightly say no....Sometimes these people keep sending until we get a solution or i just outrightly refuse cos of the photos.
What is the meaning of ''now i know bette''...Know what better?

Please people be the Judge and those of you i have said No to as well should cme and bear me witness that this is a routine everyone gos through..........
Some of you should stop doling out your frustrations on me OK?

Madam you got it all wrong...today me and some sorted out their advert,same way i advised you and they didnt have any problem...some of you do this and i hate it...







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101 comments:

  1. IHN is here....good afternoon everyone

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    1. Poster that is feeling somehow, calm down. Stella has personally corrected me , Over and Over and Over until I got it right!
      A good biz mind takes correction, get motivated and try again and again until she gets it!
      Try other platforms no one wld even give u a reason or correct u. Pls I would advice you apologize, Stella corrected you, it was left to u to mk adjustments and not carry it in mind ok. Na biz u Dey do o! Think twice

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    2. So true @ image scale.
      I personally wanted something posted and she refused as it was an advert.
      I actually paused to think about it and saw it from her angle.
      And it was no biggie.
      If it was my business, I'll have done same.
      I understand frustrations must have made the lady not be patient.
      It is well.
      Just reduce price and repost.
      It's well with your family

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    3. Good Afternoon Everyone...

      Sales have been slow at my end for some months now.(Edakun EPP me..lol)

      And Next Week is POP...


      More Sales and money to buyers and Sellers.

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    4. Poster, don't be angry. Stella does it to me too. Even though she should have posted it for u. Who wants to buy will buy or negotiate.

      Stella, it's not easy o. Thank u for helping us here with free adverts. Pls keep helping. U don't know the one God is using to bless u. Thank u mama.

      Some bvs are also witches. I will share my experience soon.

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    5. Bv with HIV so sorry dear. Try as much as possible to ignore those people.
      Sometimes it's lack of education that causes all this wahala,them associating with you doesn't mean they have contacted it.
      It is forever well with you.

      Ma'am pls if that money is important to you, you will edit and resend, she has corrected me too, wetin I dey vex for.
      Pls don't take it personally, no one is above correction.

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    6. Hello image scale 😘😘😘

      Madam, Stella is not like that oo
      She corrects me and I had to take the corrections
      She sees somethings we don't see.
      Just correct it and resend, I am sure she will post.

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  2. So spot onπŸ‘Œthe sign out picture. No go hug whom u suppose just shake im hand.

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  3. Chei. That tacha is a character.who watch her fight this morning

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  4. So true at signing out meme. That sneakers up there is beautiful. Good luck to the sellers.

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  5. #Rant#
    I'm just fed up,I can't have a simple civilized conversation with the man I call my husband.

    On Sunday I was cooking, was making white rice,ofe akwu,beans and fried plantains also I'm heavily pregnant so I'm always fatigued, the whole kitchen was messy but I always clean up once I'm done cooking which he is very aware of.

    This man came to the kitchen when I was barely half through, he had been on his laptop without asking if I needed help. He started complaining that i should always arrange the kitchen immediately while cooking, I got pissed off and we started quarrelling.

    I tried telling him that I always do that once food is ready even before I dish out the meal, he kept insisting that I should be doing it while I'm still cooking.
    Men that nag are just the worst!

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    1. Next time just ignore him. That is how my friend said she cleaned the house thoroughly and was cleaning for hours only for her husband to call her and started showing her cobwebs in the ceiling.

      She said at that point she lost it and told him off.

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    2. Anon 14:14 I could have sworn i wrote that up there. I just finished talking about something similar

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    3. Heavily pregnant and u get power ans! Nnem nxt time keep echoing Ok dear, thanks love, will do it right away ( asiko) just do what ur strength can carry o! If u fall yakata e go follow another woman! No give ya self HbP onto beautiful belle. Hissssss

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    4. If he helps you out, will that make him stop being the man he is?
      Some men are so inconsiderate.
      My dear, do the little you can and leave the rest. If he is not satisfied, he can do the chore.
      Such men are very lazy.

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  6. Who was abusing chikito this normal.na by force to be friends with eka joy?.wetn be uour problem.nonsense who go like be close to eka with her terrible character.mitccceewwww

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  7. Good afternoon ooooooo,how is you?

    May customers flood sellers and may buyers get good bargains.

    Grateful for the gift of life.

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  8. HIV poster, I wish I could hug you. I pray you find something to do that will keep you busy and fetch you money. Some of these health workers are not professional at all. Please be happy and grateful for life.

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    1. It may not be the health workers sef, shes just paranoid.... even ur fellow HIV ppl will open ur nyash, so its not only them

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    2. Plz move on poster, Dunno y Ppl still seeing this HIV stuff as a big deal, there are worst disease out dere like Hep-B thou it has cure Now.. You will be fine

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    3. Kenny, HIV is not a big deal? Ok o... when u walk an inch in their shoes you'd how big it is

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    4. Kenny Jay, what's the cure for Hep B?

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    5. Have one as a neighbor and they live fine, no discrimination... Someone would Have to go to general hospital for the treatment n cure

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  9. Good Afternoon people! If u find out someone has HIV, plz stop telling people about it. Stop the stigma! People who live with HIV/AiDS just want to live their lives like everyone else. God bless us alll!

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    1. If the person is still flirting nko?
      If i notice ure still dressing sexy and flirting, i will open ur nyash quickly, i might be saving an innocent person

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    2. Funny enough people thinks HIV/AIDS is the most deadly virus in life. There are worse virus than HIV/AIDS. One with HIV/AIDS can even live a normal life, have good sex with protection and all that. They can even live over 70years but can you say that to a cancer patient? Hepatitis B is even troublesome. Typhoid even kill faster if you don't take time. So people shouldn't see HIV/AIDS as death sentence.

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  10. The ladies complaining about the drivers masturbating in Egypt and recording it on their phones. This sounds to me like they are keeping
    record of porn to watch.

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    1. 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

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  11. Good afternoon Fam,

    @poster with advert issue please this is something that can be resolved quietly without issues. I could remember my first pictures with write up i sent in for advert Stella wrote back to me to correct it ( thrice) and i did before i finally got it right. Please kindly apologize and do the needful. Have a lovely day all.

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    1. Quietly you say?
      But she sent it to Stella’s inbox not in the comment section. Stella brought it here. I’m sure she’s just trying to correct everyone who might have felt the same way the sender is feeling

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  12. Hey! Who is watching #ThisIsUs series?
    So Grandpa William, Rendall's dad is gay?
    What happened to Tobi on Christmas day?
    Wait a min! I didn't know that a child can be jealous of her parent....can it happen for real? I've never had any reason to be jealous of my mum whatsoever.
    Or is it just white thingy? These white folks can be funny sometimes. Kate was so jealous of her mum since she was a kid because her mum is slim and pretty while she is so faaaaat!😲😱

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  13. Stella, I used the word negative addiction, for there are things one does consistently that are positive. For instance, my mom even at her age still goes to morning mass every day. She has become addicted to that. She recite the rosary as well everyday. One can be addicted in sweeping the church every week and so on. I hope you understand what I mean by that now.

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    1. Forming a habit and having an addiction are two different things sir. Get it right please

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    2. Really? TJ. I still don't read ur write-ups but I just read this comment and it's whack. Take anon 15:10's advice mbok

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    3. Anon 10:15, So habit isn't what gave rise to an addiction? Is smoking a habit? Yes it is.. Can one be addicted to smoking? Yes!!! I am shocked reading habit is different from addiction. Anyway, I hear you. I don't have strength to argue further. You are right and You won!!!

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    4. Oh I forgot to say, in a bit to sound intelligent you failed to understand that under the synonyms of addiction you will find habit. Use Google search and check it out. Habit is a synonym for addition.

      Come to think anon 16:06 gave in to your submission hastily without understanding better of these words. What am I even doing self? I thought I said I won't argue further? I am out pls Lol....

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    5. Stella, to further answer your question again. I found this on Google search.

      The term “positive addiction” was advanced by William Glasser in a book with the same name. ... Positive addictions, unlike their negative cousins, enhance life. Glasser provides six criteria that must be fulfilled for a person to have a positive addiction to an activity.Nov 19, 2014.

      With this, I rest my case.

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    6. @teejay..Habit is actually different from addiction. You using smoking to buttress your point actually waters it down. The words may be synonyms but not
      exactly same.
      One can develope an unhealthy habit or actually suffer from addiction? Determining the difference between the two can be difficult, since both grow out of repeated behaviors. Given the difference in scope and treatment.

      One notable difference between habit and the disease of addiction is the amount of time and effort required to change the behavior. Altering habits requires minimal effort, time, and attention.

      Addiction, on the other hand, often demands an integrative, long-term plan to treat physical symptoms like withdrawal as well as the emotional disconnect between body and behavior.

      One can be addicted to gambling ,smoking and one can make it a habitual activity going to church or reading the bible.

      On the other hand synonyms are words that have related means and you can use them interchangeably depending on the context.

      a word or phrase that means exactly or NEARLY THE SAME as another word or phrase in the same language, for example shut is a synonym of close.

      Addiction many a times is used in the context of being a disorder and in that parlance, habit and addiction are not the same most especially putting smoking which you used as an example into perspective.

      Don't go guns blazing every time one corrects you, as odd as some corrections may appear to you there are always things to take home from it.
      Calm down learning is an everyday process.

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    7. Thank you Orela for helping me educate this ignorant mofo. You saved me the strength of typing.
      Oga tj, please continue to wallow in ignorance. You never take corrections. Always on the defensive. Learn! And say thanks when corrected.

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    8. Your friends must have a really hard time trying to have a conversation with you TJ

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    9. All of you arguing with Teejay, do you not know that addiction is an outcome from habit? Yes a habit can remain a habit but an addiction definitely always stems from habit. I also believe this is what Teejay is trying to explain. As an example, smoking addiction starts from a habit of smoking.

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    10. There is Positive addiction and NEGATIVE addiction.
      Teejay is 100% correct.

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  14. hmmmm, it is well with the HIV positive woman, I have lots of questions concerning hiv, some novice still believes it's only passed through sex, hence looking at carriers as sinners. if it's through sex, why are most women positive and their hubby's negative? and these women has never cheated on their husbands, I think saloon play a huge part in this, let's us all go to saloon with our personal stuffs, even at that sef, what of if the stylist is po's and prick herself with needle? let's stop looking at positive person as a sinner, they are just victims, we the negative ones are just lucky

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    1. You're right dear. It's not only via sex
      I'll always tell people have your own weavon needles abi what is it called? Or ensure the salon uses new ones for you, ensure that the manicure and pedicure equipments are properly sterilized before you allow them use them for you. Have your own clippers etc. Some blood banks don't properly screen the blood they give out and that one scares me silly. One can never be too careful so looking at them as if you're a saint because you are negative is totally wrong.

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  15. Wow fine fine things in IHN! Lovely sign out quote.

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  16. Good afternoon all,cus customer fall on all selling. Enjoy your day

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  17. Imagine typing a whole lot to have it not post...nonsense network😭

    Madam seller, don't be upset because all she's trying to do is to make sure you sell your stuffs and also not make her blog seem like a dumping ground for things. Imagine looking through and seeing rusty items with outrageous price tags, so take the criticism in good faith. It's a win win for everyone unless you don't like improving your selling point. Review your price and no allow your feelings come between you and paying the school fees.

    Poster with HIV, I feel for you. So sorry you are surrounded by people with small mindset. How on earth did your status leak? Don't move anywhere oh to avoid stories that tickle the heart. It doesn't bother your husband so don't allow them bother you. Ignore them and their whisperings because human beings will always have something to talk about someone.
    Why don't you move your business online? Bring it here I'm sure Stella will be happy to post for you, open an IG page, register on Jiji, Twitter. If you are not savvy with how it's done, follow pages that are selling what you want to and study how they do it. Then you will only have the delivery guys to deal with. Hold your head high, your status doesn't define you. Never leave the house without looking peng and on point. For all you know, you are probably healthier than most of them. Hugs dear and hold your man close inugo.

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  18. The person selling sneakers, no phone no and location...

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    1. Check well now you dont want to buy oh

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  19. the moment you realise stella is trying, going through mails and replying, you won't feel the way you did poster cos it's not easy. Maybe you should have tried to understand.

    Na wa for those Egyptian taxi drivers o.

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    1. Egypt is one country I will never go to if given free visa and flight ticket. I rather go to Ghana or Botswana.

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    2. Enter your reply...agreed Stella is trying.
      I notice she sounds friendly here on the blog. maybe na eye service sha. but ,if you talk to her through other ways u go understand. she dey giff attitude if no be blog

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    3. What do you know?
      Ordinary expired passport you dont have, ure making choice.
      Botswana & Ghana are both learners where Egypt is.

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    4. Anon 15:53, see problem ooh... You go force me to like country I no want like? Like you said, na expired passport I no get I no kill person.

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  20. Trust is not something you dole out to just anyone. You've gotta earn it.

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  21. Madam Advert, some weeks back before I corrected Stella on the Bambino usage, I sent her some cars photos to help me advertise, Stella in a one Line reply asked me who I am helping. I just laughed and explained things to her even reminded her something of a previous advert I sent to her, I believe I was all out and honest with her but her response wasn't that cool to me, I didnt take it personal because prior to that time Stella has helped me post adverts on some stuffs too without hassles. And I didnt start feeling that she has some persons that belonged to her circle and all that crap.
    What you should have done was to review your prices instead of sulking. There is no blogger in this country that does free adverts for it's BVs for free even if you've been reading the blog for donkey years.
    Again, sellers should learn to apply their conscience in doing their business, always ask yourself if someone present this item to me at this amount, will I buy it? Will i buy something rusty at the given amount?
    So please let's cultivate the attitude of having the right mindset about people.

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  22. So my fellow bvs, I went to the proprietor's office this morning. The man thought he could intimidate me with his British accent and grammar. Me? I show am say me sef don prepare for am. I had heard some people say he uses 'English' to shut parents up. They said, when he starts, those ones will just back out. They will tell him 'it's OK. No problem'

    Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa

    I no gree for am at all. The one way I no hear, na so I dey tell am

    'sorry?' 'pls come again'.

    Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa

    Abegi! I am his client na. I pay him for enrolling my daughter in his school. Wetin!
    He will call God 'gard' entrepreneur is 'ontroprenior' e.t.c
    wetin concern me? I talk my mind o.
    I complained to him about the party fee memo they kept giving my daughter. He said that is their policy. Every child must pay for the party, they don't leave anyone out, they must all attend. I told him they should leave room for some faiths that do not embrace such parties and even though my faith is not against it, I'm not interested. He asked why and I told him I wasn't satisfied with the last party they did. I went on to point out the lapses. He apologised and promised to look into those areas I complained about.
    So, as it is now, I may still pay, he attended to me well.

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    1. He must be a good administrator with the way he handled your complain. Just pay and allow your daughter to shine that day. This is one of those childhood experience she will grow up with.

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    2. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€ thank you for the feedback.

      Seems as if he has the customer service thing hands down to calm your nerves like this.
      Tell them you need a discount unto say the party wasn't up to par last year so you didn't get value for your money πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ‘Œ

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    3. Lol, but the man later get u

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  23. The lady with HIV i feel so saddened reading that, my cousin that is doing her IT in teaching hospital said, one lab scientist there had issues with a man cos of file, and she started screaming this HiV positive man is talking rubbish and everyone just started starring at the man, i felt so bad when i heard the story, i felt like that man should just report her and she lose her job

    Madam people living with HIV dont get drugs where they stay, since the drugs is once a month, they go to another state and get those drugs, where no one knows them, you made a mistake na. So sorry okay, just relocate and be collecting your drugs in another state okay. You will be fine

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  24. Stella has spoilt you people!! Free adverts, give away, single and mingle etc. Stella, some people only respect people who treat them like crap. Your kindness is taken for granted and they even feel entitled to more sef. It is clear there are only very few business minded people on this blog. The value of each advert is in my estimation not less than 100,000 per image based on traffic, reach, number of impressions, a captive audience and personal recommendation. Una continue o till Stella pulls the whole thing.

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  25. wow! loaded ihn. The complainant about rusted advert she sent, na your type be back-stabbers. you couldn't even appreciate the fact that stella made out time to correct your mistakes severally, yet you had to bring it up again. na ur type dey spoil better people luck. mumu reloaded woman. pls don't bring your bad belle to spoil stella's good heart on the free adverts biko

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  26. So sorry about your predicament @HIV positive bv.
    Good afternoon bvs

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  27. Beautiful things for sale. May you all sell well.
    Container don land, those kiddies shoes are beautiful.
    Sign out meme on point.

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  28. I loaded the mtn (4799). Thank you Bella and more customers to you.

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    1. You must be faster than Usain bolt Lol...

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  29. Stella always gives advice and input when you send advert in. I sent in my flier for advert last week and she adviced me on getting the right images which am already doing by taking many shots of my meal. The corrections she gave aren't biased.

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  30. The HIV person, you could have registered in another vicinity entirely. chai, you'll be fine. trust in God for a miracle.

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  31. Madam with the advert issue.

    Stella doesn't have her 'own people'.
    She is doing this for free and doesn't even owe us an explanation, yet she gives and also give useful advice for business promotion.
    My advert and material have been declined before and I took to correction.
    Stella has also given me tips on how to promote my business using her platform and it was a one liner too.
    Through her corrections, I have learnt to be creative and how to take better pictures.

    Thank you Stella for all you do for small businesses.
    Please, forgive the person. I apologize on her behalf.

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  32. So whose business is it that you can't afford the school you enrolled your kids in?
    I have sent in an advert for Stella to post before and she said NO, and gave her reasons which made no meaning to me by the way but I moved on cos rules are rules.
    Make una dey pity person, you think it's easy to screen all sorts of adverts every day and pick what to post or not? If she has devised a means to make the work easy, the least anyone can do is respect it and follow the instructions.

    Please how do you comfort someone over the death of a loved one? A friend lost her dad and she is taking it so hard. Screaming and crying like she is going to hurt herself. If I didn't know her I would be tempted to think she is faking it. Yesterday I cried till I became sick, headache and all. Please what helps?

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  33. The bv ranting about Stella and advert. You misunderstood Stella. I personally sought her advice concerning my advert when I wanted to start sending them in. She made some corrections which I appreciated and acted on. You should should have asked her what the solution to her complaint was.

    As for the one liner replies, she is busy and honestly I praise her for trying to reply everyone even if it means using one liners. I am not a celebrity like her but some days, the messages I get to reply get me confused.
    We should try an appreciate her for the free adverts, she is doing us a great favour. Even some Facebook sales groups will give you condition before you can advertise. Stella 's blog is more reliable as there are no scammers here like Facebook and there are more visitors here, yet she does it for free. A great favour she does.

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  34. thanks bossladyπŸ’•πŸ’•.

    madam that is complaining, Stellz has corrected me and even rejected some of my advert before, she has me to reduce price and i did as instructed.
    there is no biased treatment.
    do you know how much it cost to run advert on a blog?
    biko adjust accordingly ehhh and try again no vex😘😘

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  35. I must comment today: Madam with issues with Stella, what Stella explained up their is exactly how she is, " one liner" I remember one time I sent advert and she replies with "use pic mix" I got the message, made the correction and sent back, which she posted. In life I have learnt to accept people for who they are and appreciate them.
    My late dad always made a statement in pigin "person no dey bad finish" so rather than relate with someone with his / her bad side in mind, I look for the good side and relate with them. For instance I have people I discuss business with but will never bring up my family issues.

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  36. To the HIV lady, I don't know how to say this, but you must OWN your narrative and your life. Yes lady, own it!!!!!!!!! Let me give you an example, I had a friend who didn't have what everyone will call a 'pretty face', she knew it, accepted it, came to terms with it and lived her best in spite of it. She would sometimes tell you, I know I am not the most beautiful girl on the block, but I will give you a run for your money. She is crazy crazy smart and intelligent ; that's what she focused on, her strength . She had the most beautiful friends, had rich and influential men flock around her. She didn't dwell in self pity and no person born of a woman DARED to call her ugly. She created magic and became irresistible. I don't know how to explain it, but you must create magic, an allure that can't be resisted. You are married, you have a man that loves and supports you, ride on that and reach the highest heavens. Running away helps you achieve nothing. You must also ensure you keep working on your marriage, so that your husband would know he got the best deal ever. Cowardice and self pity will not help you achieve it. You can even organise a church programme, invite wealthy & influential people living with HIV as facilitators. Change the narrative girl!!!!!! !!!

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    1. Anon, you said it all πŸ‘Œ πŸ‘Œ

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    2. Yaba left escapee17 July 2019 at 19:14

      "You can even organise a church programme, invite wealthy & influential people living with HIV as facilitators".... dont try this rubbish oh, even in your dream DONT!! You'd stigmatize your entire family.

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    3. Yaba left escapee17 July 2019 at 19:23

      Wealthy & influential people wouldnt attend, they know the significant dent it'd put on them & family, so they wont bother coming.... you'd just expose urself the more, & feel worse than u already feel

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  37. The lady with HIV, if you are being ostracised and discriminated against, surely, your husband too might be experiencing same thing, because people will point to him as the husband to the HIV Woman. Ask him how he copes with it. Have an honest conversation with him, so that you don't lose your husband and your marriage, insist on the truth, surely he too has experienced some ill treatment on account of your health. AS a team, face the world and overcome its challenges.
    Stop wallowing in pity!!!!!!! Nah HIV you get, you no kill person. The problem of your neigbours is ignorance. You owe them a duty to rid them of their ignorance, if for nothing else, for you and your children's sake. Form an HIV support group with those you meet in the clinic who live close. Reach out to organisations that are concerned about PLWHIV. Work towards planning an enlightenment programme in your town, goggle prominent Nigerians living with HIV, invite them as speakers(send them emails, detailing your struggles and telling them how their presence can change things positively for you), reach out to Stella for support, she can also help invite influential people and help with finances too. Do this and see how differently you will be perceived in your community.

    If the hospital where you get your drugs is a government hospital, report them(the nurse with their full names and the hospital too) to those organisations concerned about people living with HIV and the Office of the Commissioner for Health, write to the CMD, see him personally with other HIV positive persons and lay out your grievances. Do same if a private hospital. Relocating is cowardly, you could lose your family and expose your husband to adultery. Goodluck.

    Zaram

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  38. Thank you Stella for everything.

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  39. I once sent an advert to Stella to post, she didn't . I asked why, she gave no reason. I let it go and moved on. God has been faithful.

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  40. Awwwwww. Stella no vex, the poster with the complaint should just try and adjust.
    Lovely items up there. May customers fall on every business owner on the blog. Thanks Stella

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  41. I have sent adverts for Stella to post a couple of times which she did. The last time she said NO cause she felt the advert could be from a company and not a single individual. I tried to make her understand that it was my personal business. She gave me the "one liner" like she replied me from sleep. Tor! She has made her point, We moved on. That was the last time I mailed her on that issue. I was hurt that she doubted me but, why should she believe me in the first place when she doesn't know me? I could also be lying (but I wasn't).

    Besides, it's FREE advert so why you dey vex like say you lose money? Calm down, inugo? Don't take it personally.

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  42. I strongly believe that there's a POSITIVE addiction
    Addiction is a need to do or have something.
    it could be harmful or
    harmless, depending.
    Goodluck to all the buyers and no disappointment to the sellers.

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    1. I wish my phone supports emoji, I would have given your comment the thump up emoji. I just stated it above about positive addiction from William Glasser. You can read more of it online.

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  43. Regarding Stella's replies , I remember about 2 years ago, I wanted Stella to use my cousin's picture as IHN, it was suppose to be a birthday surprise for her and I know she wouldn't mind. Stella grilled me , asked for proof from my cousin. I had to chat her up on my plans that was supposed to be a surprise, asked my cousin if she was still okay with it she said yes, Stella still said how is she sure I didnt vreate another account and I am chatting and agrreeing with myself?? At this point I became "upset" and told Stella I had no other way of proving myself its her blog etc. I opened IHN and saw she posted. When my husband that is more of a fan of ANOTHER blog came home and I told him what transpired, his reply was its her blog she can do as she wants if you are not happy open your own blog and do as you please.
    Another incident was I sent in adverts few weeks back and she replied with one liner and even when I corrected it she never responded. I had to follow her up and she replied me with another one liner before posting
    My point is I cant be offended after all she is doing it as a favour and she is not obliged to do it.

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  44. Stella you have done this thing to me before and I ended up sowing the phone as a seed. You kept saying the phones are old, babe there's no one in this earth who loves to sell their properties, personally it was desperation that made me tow that line, you don't know if the reason God is blessing maybe because you are nice to people, I think you should be more considerate, I didn't take the matter to heart because you've genuinely helped me in the past, and if you hadn't price down the phone and had awful comments about how old it is, I wouldn't have had the nerve to sow it, so thank you.

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  45. Stella u didn't reply my own hand made shoes advert and didn't even see anything.. And on the girl who is suicidal, no one said anything too and it's not in IHN today.. But I'm calming her sha

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  46. Have a pleasant evening good people

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  47. Madam you lie, I hardly comment but I sent my advert (baking tools)last week, Stella posted it the next day. I just did as instructed by taking original pictures of the items that's all. I'm working on more catchy pic to send to her.

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  48. It's not easy to satisfy people @ Stella. Bv with complaint, it is her blog and she reserve the right to do what ever pleases her, after all its free

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