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Tuesday, August 06, 2019

Nigerian Lady Who Married Man She Courted For 3 Months Shares Her 'Traumatic' Experience...

Lady who met and married a man she divorced three months after shares her experience.........








36 comments:

  1. Life happens.learn not to look down on anyone;
    Don't judge anyone if you do not know their story.

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  2. Stella she married him 3months after knowing him, the marriage wasn't 3months

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  3. She didnt get a divorce within three months, she meant she married the man within 3 months of knowing him.
    Well, whatever makes her happy...Happiness is Key

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  4. Quest to marry "abroad" and no courtship, that is what kills a lot of
    Naija girl's marriages.
    Do proper courtship to know if you both
    have same beliefs, dreams, aspirations... mbanu...na soteee fork, fork, fork...chop belleful (thank God no shoot off here)...
    post pictures on social media and
    expect the best from the worst.
    Your mama may not have been as greedy as a lot of you are today.
    😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯

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    1. I wonder what exactly you reason with, your brain or your anus, aint you tired? Life doesn't treat us the same way, sorry meet and marry in weeks and they are happy, while some court for ten years and didn't make one year. Most of these bad girls end up in a good marriage while some good girls end up marrying bad guys

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    2. Get off man. Sicko

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    3. Don’t you have anything else to contribute rather than sounding like a broken record? I think you have a psychological problem. Jeez.

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    4. Very irritating person. Saying the same thing all over like a psychopath.

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    5. Are you always this annoying. Mtcheww

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  5. This just got me teary eyed man!

    Life is really unscripted.


    Last last peace of mind and happiness is what really matters.

    It's well.

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    1. You have just said it @ Reina,
      Peace of mind and happiness is all that matters

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  6. This thing called marriage is just God sha There is one bv here who said she got married within three months and seems she is great ly enjoying her marriage. Whereas there are people who courted for so long only to enter marriage and realise they are married to total strangers. The success of marriage, depends on the people involved. Two months ooooo two years ooooo the marriage that will last will last.

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  7. My dear,being a single mother isn't a stigma rather its a placard of feminine strength. God will use your child's success in future to reward this choice you've made.

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    1. James 3:10 King James Version (KJV)

      10 Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.

      Why do you find it so easy to call people fools? And before you say they started it, most of them were only supporting their favorites. Why are you so bitter? If you are so sure your sister will carry the money you ought to be cruising and doing all the background work like a boss. You called Mike’s supporters fools who want to enrich an already rich man, how desperate can a person get? Please change your ways.

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    2. 16:07aka righteous man,may you never get tired of trolling me,amen.

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  8. poster you wrote about what i went through from my ex husband. Te way the guy changed after wedding when he could't get what he was expecting from me. Is better to be alone than to be in an unhappy marriage. We only stayed married for not up to six month, still trying to find my feet and file for divorce.

    I am afriad to even open my heart to love anyone, my dream is to get pregnant and have a baby without anything like being married or living in the same house with a man.

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  9. my dear ehh, stella sha

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  10. Stella, u are wrong. They got married 3months after meeting. They have 2 daughters together

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  11. I have this fear for marriage that I cannot just understand. I have a very adorable daughter who keeps me going.

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  12. Yaba left escapee6 August 2019 at 13:14

    shes so cute.

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  13. So I happen to attend the same law school with her in Abuja, someone brought this to our law school they scolded the boy,didn't even know this will get to blogs. I feel for her though. God help in our choice of spouse in Jesus name Amen

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  14. Hmmmmm....I'm also a victim...I endured for 5 years..mine was even both lack of compability as well as dosmetic and emotional violence...most miserable 5 years of my life. Thank God for my 2 adorable girls and thank God I was able to escape with them. I'm presently undergoing a divorce case in court. Plssssss don't ever rush into marriage, courtship is a must. Make sure you know the person in to to, from his or her family background,to way to the person was brought up. Thank God for my very supportive family.

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    1. It is well dear.
      God got your back

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    2. We got your back darling. Happiness is all that matters

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  15. Survival of marriage takes the grace of God. It doesn't matter how long you court because believe me, human behavior is a very complex thing to study. I dated my ex for 5years with no bearing of the relationship, not knowing he was even cheating on me and he saw nothing wrong in it. I met my husband and in 3months we got married. To the glory of God, our married life is fine and we haven't had any misunderstanding. He loves and respects me, and I never regretted marrying him. In some cases, it isn't how long two people court, we should ask God for a God-fearing man.

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  16. It's important that you get to know a person well enough before you get married. Take some time to date and get familiar with their idiosyncrasies and determine whether or not you can cope with them. True, some people date for a few weeks and they were lucky to meet the right one, but that's a major risk. Some people drink and smoke and live till they are in their 90s while some healthy and fit 30 something year olds just slump and die or pass on in their sleep. That isn't justification enough to throw caution to the wind.

    I counsel a lot of couples and individuals with matrimonial issues and the highest percentage of them had issues from the courtship period. Either they didn't take time to really know their partners or they noticed red flags but hoped for they will somehow turn green. A lady who met, dated and married her hubby all within a period of 6 months, came seeking advice for the dissolution of her 4 year old marriage. She kept saying if only she knew her hubby had certain habits, she would NEVER have married him. She was too busy planning a grand wedding to take time out to really get to know the man. It's been 4 years of hell and she couldn't wait to rid herself of him.

    I agree that chance plays a role but you must do your due diligence. There were guys I dated that the first 6 months, even the first year were pure bliss, some 007-ish dudes were able to put their best foot forward for the duration but like pregnancy, you can't hide your real self for too long. As soon as the real characters emerged, I catwalked out of each relationship until I met the one. Sometimes I look back and wonder what my life would have been like if I had married some of my exes?

    Time is a revealer of "secrets", before you conclude on any major decision, give it time. It is wise to date your intended spouse for a while to get to know him/her reasonably well. For every success story of short courtships, I'm sure there are over 50 that ended badly. Long courtship may not guarantee a successful marriage but at least you get to know over 60-65% of the basic character of that person. You will definitely find out more after you get married but you know the basic stuff to expect.

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    1. 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

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    2. No be person be this? There are ways of advising the younger ones instead of condemning and being so judgemental. Whoever takes your judgemental ass serious is a joker like you. I wonder what sort of Christian you are really.

      Be shouting fork all over the place like someone bitten by a mad dog.

      Thank you jare Ronalda, though I am married I have learnt a few things from you.

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    3. Thank you🙏🙏🙏God bless you immensely.

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  17. May we not marry the wrong person. Amen

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  18. Marry after three months and long distance at that. Sounds like desperation to me. I am sure someone will come under my comment and state how they married after one month and is still happily married after ten years, well good for you. You are the exception not the rule.

    Marrying someone after three months that you are not around daily will come with many surprises. You don't even know how that person smells after a heavy sweat, you may discover you don't even like their natural scent. Take some time to know them, life is not running away from you, it will still be here for you when you take your time.

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  19. I remember the first time I heard the statement " I regret marrying this man" I was shocked. Now that is a daily anthem, with kids it is complicated.

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  20. I met my husband wen I was serving and got married to him the following year. It's been 7 /8 years of domestic violence and torture. Nigga would pick his phone after beating you and call all your relatives to report. His family will tag you all sorts (same pple you treat well and give money even more than your family. In fact for every year he would pack his stuffs and leave the house for you and rent elsewhere only to return after months.this year it was war. You go to work, he calls you a prostitute.you don't dress fine to work, he'll call you an old woman. The day you dress fine, he will say you are trying to entice men. This man would beat you and go call the police on you. He did it for one last time and I lost it. I was done with this kid!!!!! He moved out his stuffs and I was prepared oh. As God will have it I refurbished my home, changed every single furniture in it, did my house to my own taste and changed my locks. If you see me now hahahah I look FRESHHHHH, HEALTHY,HAPPY,BUBBLY,BEAUTIFUL.see ehn if you give some women better money to start life all over again, they will fucking leave that bastard they are dying with in marriage and blossom.there are a good number of good women who are dying in their homes. Who told you you can't live without a man? Who????? Pick out one single mother who is doing well for her self and pick out one woman who is suffering in her marriage and check their BP and compare.some men are demons in human form oh. They will drain you and drain you until you become chaff.and they are like the devil, they will tell you no man will marry you after these children. Na lieeeeeeeeeeeeeee.i stopped wearing my wedding ring and you need to see the number of Men who come flocking. Believe you me ehn, once you show a man you can survive without him. He will start to see reasons to treat you right. If he wants to go, then tell him to get the fuck outa your way. I'm super joyous I have a standard car, good job that pays, two beautiful kids, a good house. Biko what else do I need? A cheating man that will come home and infect me with rubbish?????

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