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Sunday, September 01, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE:

THE SET UP THAT WENT SOUTH....


I discussing with my friend on how much i trust my fiancee, and she said i shouldn't trust any man that much, that they think with their pee pee, i disagreed strongly and she asked for my permission to prove my man was not any different.. i asked how she'd do it, she says she has a someone from her Uni days that's very attractive and will do the seduction, i still reassured her that, hes not like that... cus even his whats app chat, he politely turns ladies away, but she kept asking me "Should i go ahead?"... i said Yes!


I didn't hear from her for 3days, so yesterday she called saying i shouldn't marry that man, i asked why... she said her friend is in bed with him as we speak, i laughed and insulted her, but she was just quiet while i laughed alone, she sent all their chats, i was so ashamed.


 I called him immediately he wasn't picking, my heart just melted cus i couldn't believe it... in just 3days, see how he was begging to see her in person, its almost like jazz, i don't think i can go further with him, i cant. Don't trust any man.





*You set up your man and you are now complaining?you expected him to refuse and say NO?What did is the same thing as snooping,just that in this case,you went too far by setting him up....

And you let your friend do this?IF you break up with him and he ends up marrying the babe he was begging to see,i hope that you will attend the wedding and hug them both since you are the architect of their meeting......

Please confront him subtly and tell him that he was set up,that way he will have psychological effect and learn to control his pants...oko asawo!!!

And hey,that ''he politely turns ladies away'' is a set up for you..he knows you read!!!..

Thief jam police,police jam thief,Akara mama throwey!!!

114 comments:

  1. He doesn't even need an okpo like you. Now that you have used your own hands to scatter your relationship wetin you gain??? Ikwakwakwakwakwa

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    1. This ceiling fan how is she is okpo? You are married and a mother but you do not talk like one. your husband dey try

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    2. This is a movie I watched a very long time ago,Genivive was a actress abi celebrity in that movie and her fiance was Desmond Eliot and he loved her so much. She begged Omotola to seduce the guy to prove to them that the guy wouldn't fall. OmoT finally agreed and it all went South, at the end they both lost the guy.

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    3. I’m surprised many people on here are blaming the girl. Knowing fully well her fiancΓ© lacks discipline and can’t control himself.

      Her testing him wasn’t necessary tho.

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    4. Stella, if that guy marries the other girl, good for the poster. Poster, move on, that guy doesn't deserve u. He is a dog.

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    5. 😁😁😁😁😁.
      Good for you.

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    6. Somebody I met for the first time seduced me and fucked me like a puppy yesterday where I went to watch Juventus match and drink beer, I think say na joke, until I release, come realize say na real! Women of this blog should stop pretending. You guys all know where your power is, that's our weakness..... upon all my resistance, discipline, self control, and self worth kpa-kpa. #free us Biko. If you call men dogs, remember your papa na man, your brother na man, your son, spouse, uncle, etc, are all men too. #tongueout

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    7. Poster even the new man you are looking for will still fall. So why let this one fall. U have scattered your relationship leave with it

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    8. I watched the American version of this movie, lol

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  2. You poster you are stupid. Now watch your friend go out with him. Stupid gir6; you don't deserve that man.

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    1. Who did this to African women. So what if the friend goes out with the dog? Poster, u will meet a better man. That idiot does not respect u. He was always a dog, and a cheat.

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  3. Hohohoho..... What a chronicle!

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  4. You're very stupid. You set yourself up but thinking you're setting the young man up.
    Make sure you do the same thing in your next relationship.
    You this sore loser.

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    1. DON, everytime you de vex de attack person, abi you de drink pepper soup with lion meat for breakfast?

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    2. Poster this your matter remind me of that one that happened between 2 hausa ladies. The lady asked her friend to seduce her fiance and both fell in love and got married. I think the whole thing ended with one of them dying though.
      Your own mumu na wa. See as the whole thing end up. Trusting a man not to fall for seduction is a scam. Even if he is a saint, his third leg will think for him. Accept my sympathy sha.

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    3. Don, you do not have sense at all for calling her stupid. I'm very sure if it was the other way you won't insult the guy but rather call the lady Ashawo. I wonder why you hate women so much.

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    4. Yes she is stupid

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  5. Na really thief jam thiefπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ trouble dey sleep yanga go wake amπŸ˜‚

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  6. Baby write it like this;
    "Trust no man who does not know Christ as Lord...who lives in the flesh -carnal man"
    I trusted mine as fiance.
    I have trusted him as my husband for more that a decade and we are joyfully married.
    Please do not corrupt the sacred and beautiful institution of marriage that God
    himself instituted.
    If you and your fiance did not make Jesus the center of your relationship, then you are lying on the bed the way you made it.

    Yes, carnal men think with their "rods" and yours just proved that.
    Will you at this time seek God to live in Christ?
    Or will you go on experimenting with
    iniquity?
    That is the ajuju.
    And please do not use your mouth to kill even if you have decided to abandon this man. Find out from him/hear from him before you condemn.
    And put a ?? on that one you call "friend". Cheers.

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    1. ANG for life. Happy Sunday

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    2. @16:02
      Happy Sunday to you too dear.

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    3. Poster please take an advice. If I were you are going to his house immediately to confirm not just believe anything my friend says some friends are wicked and evil stay away from that friend

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  7. haq haq haq haq haq, oh baby, na man you trust like this and still had him set up. Abeg I no fit laugh oo, welcome to your reality show. You should have been prepared for what you will do incase it went south, it wl help yu deal with the issue better. stop vouching for human beings, Pele, it hurts, take heart. what your deal breaker? it will help in deciding especially now that you are not married.

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  8. Simply coz a rat refused fish doesn't mean it won't eat it, same thing goes for lizards, they all lie on their stomach, you won't know when or which has a stomach ache.

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    1. @Blackey

      Welldone o
      Abeg, men (indeed humans) are neither rats nor lizards 😊😊😊
      How about the Sisi Naija wey I allowed to come to my house anytime she wished
      to borrow my laptop tey tey
      and on the day she thought I was not at home and my husband (who also knew I traveled) just entered
      This girl tried seduction, did not work, she stripped and threatened my husband that she will shout "rape" if he did not do
      Still my DH did not yield (in spite of the big smooth breast that was even better than mine), all he was saying was "B" put on your dress please
      I was watching this movie o 😯😯😯
      Abi I no yarn am here before. Finally na me come settle matter my own way...

      Let me tell you. A man that fears God will run away like Joseph if Potipher's wife catches his clothes.
      Such men exist and God knows them.
      Will ladies seek and obey God to receive such good and perfect gifts?
      that is the ajuju ooo 😊😊

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  9. Both you and your friend are stupid. In fact including the one you called fiancee. This is all I have to say.

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  10. Thief jam police,police jam thief,Akara mama throwey!!! stella off me with this line, Hahahahhahahaha

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    1. Seriously. My daughter sings that song, i Don't know where she picked the song from because i don't know the song

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  11. You can’t say that poster. There are some good men around you can trust.
    You put yourself in that spot, deal with it.
    How can you allow such a devilish plan? You agreed with your friend to test your man and he fell πŸ’πŸΏ‍♂️
    What outcome were you expecting?
    What brought that conversation anyway?
    Who is a saint? You don’t go about tempting people to prove a stupid point.
    First of all, cut off this friend of yours.
    She doesn’t mean well for you.
    You had no business setting your man up like that.
    How do you guys comfortably discuss your relationships with your friends?
    Tell your fiancΓ©e how you set him up, he will either apologize and drop the other lady, or tell you off and remain with her.
    In all honesty, that guy is not worth it. Such an easy lay.

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    1. What I don’t get is that was the testing supposed to reach gbenshing level? Were they not supposed to stop when he undressed and just send poster a confirmation?
      The girl your friend hired to help, does she just go about sleeping with men at the drop of a hat in the name of testing? Now that he has fallen will she dust herself and go abi she don get man?

      I feel bad for you. I don’t know if your friend’s intent was for good.

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    2. I don't comment at all here but I must commend your wisdom @Sluttychic

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    3. Thank you anon 16:36 ❤️❤️❤️

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  12. Eiya pele oh, you sent someone to tempt a man and you even have heart to trust a man kikikikikiki, it not jazz mydear, she don start to dey blame jazz lolzzzzzzzzzzπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. No mind am! If this kind relationship end for both of them like this, na happy ending sef, as far as I am concerned. Mtchee

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  13. Motor jam police
    Police jam thief
    Akara mama throway
    If i born pikin
    I go name am Joseph
    Jo Jo Joseph American Joseph

    I dint have any advice, I just completed the song Stella startedπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️

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  14. So I dey my own, you come send fine babe wey be my specs to come seduce me and you dey vex...
    Are you mad? Is this not a clear evidence that your village people is doing you?
    My friend go to elegushi beach and wash your head ooo.
    Your case done pass becareful.
    As for me, I just follow the new babe ooooooo

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    1. Mr Craze person, yes, she's very mad indeed. The only reason a "normal" man wouldn't gbensh is if he suspects fowl play, or strong religious reasons, something like that!

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    2. See them useless men. A normal man will not gbensh because he has self control. Only randy men will fuck the new girl. there are still faithful men out there and you two are not among them

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    3. Since there was no fowl play,the dog settled down and ate like a goat.


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  15. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'1 September 2019 at 15:17

    Hahahahhahahahaha this poster too mumu, I gat no words for you meeeehnnnnnn!

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  16. Either way dude not worth the stress. I rather a man cheats on me during courtship so I can make a clean break. Sis, you just dodged a bullet!

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    1. @mrs E, i swear down. Poster at least now you know the kind of man he is. He was just a pretender. you really dodged a bullet. imagine marrying this type, He can even end up sleeping with your maid behind your back. Please don't let this incident make you believe all men are scum. There are still God fearing men with self control in this world. They are few and i pray you end up marrying one. A friend of mine did this to almost all her exs and they fell flat. She dumped them, today she is married to a good man. Yes i say so because she set this her husband up severally when they were dating and he didn't fall. He was the only one who didn't fall. So you see, there are still faithful men out there but they are not many.

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    2. Wow only you and ANG made sense here

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    3. Thanks Africa baby. That's my sentiments. Just that this part of the world makes you feel incomplete if you are without a man. I know that there are faithful men out there. Those faithful men do it as a result of personal conviction and not for anyone. I know a few. So poster, keep searching till you get lucky

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    4. Not only bullet, she dodged an Ak47. Just look at all the men with zero self control yarning dust under this post. If she came with juju laced private parts, that is how you have handed over your destiny because you decided to allow your manhood think for you. If it was him that set her up with his friend, all of you will be chanting ashawo all over this post...bloody hypocrites who can't tell themselves the truth which is that a man in a committed relationship can not zip up his pants.
      Poster don't feel bad, he has shown you the type of man he is, one who won't stay committed to his vows and who would hurt you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, they deserve each other. Respect is reciprocal in any relationship and a man who will respect you and what you have together with him will come your way.

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  17. Okokobioko!!u set him up and he fell for it SORRY that's d only thing I can say now.

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  19. hahahaha
    Poster you be mumu^²
    I like that guy mehn..
    Lmfao...

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  20. Poster, so you decided to throw a whole tuber of yam into a goats pen and you expected the goat not to eat the yam. Anyway, kiss that relationship goodbye. It’s all done. Dude couldn’t refuse that sweet new yam.

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  21. Just leave him. Setup or not he is not into you. Men are bad sha. A woman may not fall yakata like this

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  22. Mumu girl putting her trust in an ordinary man lol.

    The most Complex

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  23. Poster, it ain't your fault that your fiancΓ© is a ho but you called it tho.

    You should thank your messy friend, you dodged a bullet.

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  24. Don’t listen to people bashing you. Don’t feel too bad either. Women intentionally catfish their men to see how loyal they can be. The mistake you made was that you didn’t control the set up properly.

    Don’t confront him yet. If you do, he’ll be wiser in his olosho ways. Catfish him two or so more times. Let’s see if he really lacks self control and respect for your relationship. That way you’ll be sure he really is a man whore. Nobody jazzed your fiancΓ© I can assure you. If you can keep up with a weak and unfaithful man, then marry him. If you can’t, look for another.

    Some actions that yield fantastic results take strength and a tough mind. I wish you the very best.

    Before I forget don’t ever brag unnecessarily about your man to people around you. It brings negativity to your relationship. You’re not even married to a man and you’re shouting on the mountain that he’s good. Be careful, girl.

    Ivannah

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    1. @ivannah you are right. The mistake she made was that she didn’t control the set up properly. She should have used a friend she trust who her guy doesn't know so that sex won't be involved. na wah for the babe they hired, she even went as far as fucking the guy.

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    2. Even if it was a friend she trusted, that guy would have still tried to sleep with her. Sister, that guy is a cheat. Just move on. He has no respect for himself.

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    3. My thoughts exactly! Flaunting her fiance before a fianceless friend. Her friend may not be happy for her. Hence, the proposed set up

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    4. @ African baby and anon 18:54

      You ladies are right. She should move on because he has no atom of respect for her. Also he’s sexually weak which is a major major issue in any relationship.

      By proper control of the set up, I mean she would have directly monitored the tone of conversation and should have been fully involved so she won’t be having silly doubts of jazz. What she may not want to accept is the fact that he’s probably sleeping with at least two other ladies if he could fall for one she “sent” to him.

      I want her to carefully catfish him some more so she can really see with her two eyes that the man is an olosho. I’m glad she not even married to him because if now she’s claiming jazz, if she’s married she would probably say the devil himself seduced her darling man.

      Those people bashing her don’t have sense.

      Ivannah

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  25. Sex is to women what money is to men. Men use money to get sex, women use sex to get money.. tempting him with sex is equal to someone tempting you with money.. will you or will you not collect?
    Only a few guys would turn down sex just the same way, only a few ladies would reject money. Good for you.. next please...

    Dante

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  26. I'm disappointed in you poster but I'll forgive you cos at least you did one thing right by coming here.

    In case your relationship survives this which for your own good I pray it doesn't for the following reasons:

    1. That man may be unforgiving and continue to manipulate you with this history.

    2. Even you as a woman, are not intelligent enough. This is 2019 babe, stay woke! Good or bad, nobody sets up their partners to prove rubbish anymore. That's manipulative as well.

    3. Yes, you're right in a way. I don't think the guy deserves you. That was really too fast. Except your enemy of a friend started on the job earlier than when you gave the go ahead. Your man is truly a whore if he fell in just three days.

    However, this speaks volume about your relationship. Maybe you're actually dating yourself. He probably doesn't see you any different from those girls. How old is the relationship and what's the quality? I doubt if you're wise enough to answer the latter.

    Also, do you have proof that he truly did it. Why did you believe your frenemy? Who still has trustworthy girlfriends these days? You're so dumb! I hope you have defriended the frenemy already?

    4. What is the assurance that these girls have not ruined your image and reputation to this man? You don't want to imagine the things they could have told him.

    Now, here is my advice.

    1. I don't think it's wise that you confess as Stella suggested. Especially if you mean nothing to this man. You might have to tell him later(read point 3) but not now. He may not deserve it.

    2. I don't know about you or everyone here. But for me, unless you're engaged or fully married, I doubt if a Nigerian man can be faithful to a woman. Even the married ones cheat the most. So it was really unwise of you to have chosen to test his seriousness with something such as cheating. At this stage, you should be more focused on how he treats you and your family.

    3. I think you should just move on as if nothing happened. That's if you haven't broken up with him yet. Keep the chats as evidence in case he confronts you with playing games with him later. Always be prepared that he might confront you anytime. For now, you need a fresh start. Reevaluate the quality of the relationship. I hope you'll learn to withdraw sex for now until you figure out where you stand. I'll say give it another 3 months. Be the best version of yourself and update us in 3 months. Then we'll take it from there.

    I wanted to end by calling you STUPID but you didn't tell us your age. That will determine if I'm in order by calling you that or not.

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  27. ....then again, just three days!haba!!! its either he,s a dog on leash or you never studied him well!!

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  28. Okay she did bad setting him up but poster your man is a cheat.Sometimes I wonder if these men are animals that can't think for themselves or lack self control.Whether it was a test or real temptation ; doesn't change the fact that he failed n he was going to fail in real life situation

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    1. He's not a cheat. He was on his own, minding his business when they came to him. He never thought of it. She got what she wanted to see.

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    2. Don because he was on his own, he must cheat. Your head is not correct at all. Poster i like what you did. Now you know the guy is not worth it. Such a guy has been cheating behind your back codely but God has finally exposed him. You know your worth and you will get a guy who has self control.

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  29. Wait! Hollup!! You did what? In 2019? Set a man up with your friend & the lady is even someone you dunno? OMG!! Who do you this kin thing?? You don't trust a man no matter what because even the one who's standing strong in Christ still needs prayers talk more of one who politely turns ladies down?? Your mumu no get grade. Stella is right, he knows you snoop that's why he makes you think he can't cheat. He fell for a woman he hasn't met within 3 days & you think he is worth it?? Don't just let him know you set him up because that'll be the end of your relationship in a bitter way. Just confront him & let him know you know he's been cheating & unfaithful all along. Show him the chats if it doesn't implicate you. The choice to remain or leave lies with you.

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    1. Him having Sex with the woman is not the same as falling for her, either ways, poster u dodged a bullet.

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  30. Your friend shaaaa....

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  31. I really don't understand why everyone is blaming the poster. It took the guy just 3 days ooo.What is so special about the man that he shouldn't be tested. I really don't understand Nigerian women. So his specs comes along and he fails knowing that there will always be women who are his specs that will always be in the society. What happened to commitment. Don't we all have people hat are finer than our spouses... Do we all go about falling for all our specs?
    The point is only a renewed mind in Christ will stand. Temptations will always come...now or in the nearest future. Just 3 days and you guys are saying she scattered her relationship.
    Whew! I hope we know that God judges all sins and is no respecter of man. A cheat is a cheat.there is nothing like she enabled it. God never said in the Bible Men are allowed to be forgiven when they cheat. We will be judged individually not gender based.

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    1. Thank you Gabby!

      Ivannah

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    2. Abeg leave God alone. When you are in a relationship, send your friend to go and test your guy for you..

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    3. God bless you Gabby d star. So now cheating is normal to most women Or what? I really dont understand. God forbid bad thing. This is the reason why men will continue to treat some women like trash. what happened to commitment??

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  32. This silly chronicle reminds me of all those ppl who try to domesticate wild animals, eg. lion. One day, e go chop you for fun! Some girls just don't learn. Men are polygamous by nature, everyone knows that expect daydreamers.
    Small time now, another novice will still fall enter this trap! It's not tales by moonlight, neither is it jazz.
    The wise thing to do is apologise to him and move on, with or without the relationship - the bread and knife are with you.
    When guyman no be virgin!! #ikwakwakwa

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    1. King are you okay? She should apologize to the guy for cheating on her. Something is wrong with your head. you think some women don't know their self worth.

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    2. @king your mentality is the reason why men won't change. If they start sharing properties equally among divorced couples, or start giving the most properties to women during divorce in Africa, trust me, most men will stop cheating in Africa. Nonsense.

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    3. @anon 19:00 Na most men won't get married...

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    4. @African Baby, that word self-worth has become banal in this blog! We all(men/women) have variable quantity in us.
      @Anon 1900, you are partially right though. Americans/co cheat too! - surprise surprise!! 90% of men are generally weak in that department.

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    5. So because I want to marry a girl, I should test her loyalty by requesting anal sex, should she refuse, I jilt her because she won't be obedient in marriage...very dumb thing to be testing people. Who the fuck do you think you are?

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  33. I cannot believe so many ppl hold men to low standards. Yet accept than men should be the head of the house and family. Who wants a leader who has no self control or moral compass to lead them? What are men why they should not be held to the same high standards that women are held to?

    Sender, don't let anyone guilt you, just as how he cheated now he would have cheated same way after marriage. Let him go his way and know that there are men in this world who are of strong moral fibre, whose penises does not dictate how they conduct themselves in the world. You do not have to settle for less just to say you have the same average life with the same average man everyone else has. Do not settle for mediocre to fit into a world filled of mediocre who thing they are on the rooftop of life when they haven't even passed the floor.

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    1. Anon16:22, please don't compare asawo padlock and master key! Otherwise, ashawo business for no dey boom for naija like it is. In addition, only a handful of men won't fall in such situation with a very beautiful babe - some idiots may not use protection sef! I know it's a serious and delicate matter to your gender, but, it is what it is. To love someone is 60:40, meaning no one is a perfect 100, consequently, we have to choose based on our top most priority.

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  34. Alternative Facts1 September 2019 at 16:30

    You were wrong! Never test a human being or else you’ll probably get the same result. You can only test God because he’s perfect. You’re supposed to protect your relationship and shield your man from evil but you chose to expose him to the viles of the enemy. You messed up. If it was something that was going to kill him, that’s how he would have died. You’re not even serious. Next time you should protect your territory instead of trying to play “god”.. Are you perfect? We’re all a work-in-progress.

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  35. Stella you made my Sunday with your last paragraph.

    Sister that set her man up with her gf you do well you dey hear me. You are so stupid and dump, put your self in that guy's shoe and tell yourself the truth how you will feel if your bf set you up. I can never play such game, I will tell her no problem I know all men are not faithful. Go and tell your bf the truth,if he forgives you good and fine else you count your losses and move on.i don't like cheating bf/gf, I cannot forgive anyone that cheat on me no matter what but this one you set him up so forgive him and move on.
    Must you tell your gfs about your relationship? Learn to keep your personal life far from friends.

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  36. I experience same with you,only my man didn’t fall but told me to leave my friend that she isn’t a good person(never explain why even when I kept asking to know his reason. There are some few faithful man out there

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    1. Your man is a man. God bless him and his parents who raised him well

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    2. @Be Wise, I will do the same if I am not seriously attracted to the girl(seductress), or if I suspect fowl-play, or better still, just because she's my woman's friend, I may pass, doesn't mean I am a saint, or righteous holier-than-thou. Nonetheless, we(most men) all stray, eventually! Just as it's nothing to most women collecting money from random men, and feeling like Catwoman, same way men enjoy sharing a sperm here&there to keep the world happy. Hehehe

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    3. My dear, if you would do the same in just 3 days, then accept it, you're a dog,simple!

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  37. Poster, see how you play yourself. You use your relationship to play game.

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    1. She didn't play herself, that idiot has always been a dog. No self respect. This poster dodged a bullet.

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    2. She didn't play herself. I like what she did. Now she knows the man has always been pretending. Just within 3 days, He is already in bed with a queen Sheba. The man is too cheap abegi

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  38. Just look at what almost everyone is saying, excusing the man, blaming the woman.
    If the tables were turned, and she fell for a trap set by her guy with his friend after 3 months sef, not days, will you people still type the same thing in her defence?
    And tomorrow, we start wondering why many men do what they want and get away with it, y'all enable and cushion their nonsense.
    @poster, cheer up. At least you know the market you are about to buy. If you decide to overlook this, gather your heart and register at a reputable lab as a gift for yourself going forward. You will need it. If you do decide to call it quits, don't be a bitter woman, please. Better will find you, okay?
    Peace.

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    1. @Anonymous, don't be childish, there are many grown ass, accomplished men(bvs) in this blog too, stop with the manipulations already.
      Why compare men to women, ever? Can a lady go swimming without a bra in a public pool? - YES! ...is it appropriate? Capital NO. Can a man do it with impunity forever? ....... So stop with all the rubbish/childish comparisons, it actually doesn't help to potray the female gender as smart at all, - just twisted!

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  39. Just look at what almost everyone is saying, excusing the man, blaming the woman.
    If the tables were turned, and she fell for a trap set by her guy with his friend after 3 months sef, not days, will you people still type the same thing in her defence?
    And tomorrow, we start wondering why many men do what they want and get away with it, y'all enable and cushion their nonsense.
    @poster, cheer up. At least you know the market you are about to buy. If you decide to overlook this, gather your heart and register at a reputable lab as a gift for yourself going forward. You will need it. If you do decide to call it quits, don't be a bitter woman, please. Better will find you, okay?
    Peace.

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  40. Who did this to African women? Stella, so what if the man get married to the other girl? Who is the man? That man is nothing but a cheat, who lacks self control, and is not worth the poster even accepting their wedding invitation. That man is no married materia. Poster, everyone must not get married. That dog is not special. Take your time, the right man would come. See the way everyone is hyping the cheat....

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    1. As in ehn...
      See how she's been blamed. Shey because she knows about this one? Who knows how many other girls he's shagging along with her, while acting as if she's the only one?
      He has no control, period.

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  41. So, out of all the intelligent things to say and do , it's setting up a man that dominates your talk topics????



    How to make millions , add value to one's life, live healthy, leave a mark in this life etc and this is what you guys talk about ????


    It calls in question your character as a woman and the type of friends you keep.

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    1. Oh please shut up. She only wanted to know the kinda guy she is dating. Now she knows. If you want to be blind to follow a man, please be blind alone. And who told you she is not making millions already or living a healthy lifestyle. At least, she is free from hiv/std the stupid guy would have probably brought to her. Poster you are lucky and just know God loves you for opening your eyes. Imagine if you had gotten married to this dog

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    2. @...Yoruba, loud it please.... this one enter, cum echo join sef.

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  42. You seem like someone who is easily swayed by peer pressure. You don't have a mind of your own and feel the need to prove something to others. If someone tells you that no man can be trusted you will simply reply with "hmmm it is well, may God help us". You will not learn and grow if you continue to disagree with everything strongly. You need to cut that "friend" off and start all over again. Start all over with the same guy or get back into the dating pool. Do what you think is right for you. They will think that you are immature and that's okay. Everyone has done something mumu at one point in their life, so don't be so hard on yourself.

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  43. True she shouldn't have tested him but at least her friend was right, she shouldn't trust him.

    She also shouldn't marry him.

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  44. I want to try this with my fiancΓ© too. I’m sure if it was a guy that did this you guys won’t bash him but would bash the lady that fell for the trap. Women keep getting the shorter end of the stick. My dear it’s better to be safe than sorry inugo! At least you won’t end up with a cheat for a husband

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    1. Please we need more of your type in our society. Make sure the babe seduce him well oo, also ensure that they do the do so that there will be no denial! I love you already sef.

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  45. Lesson for the day: dont go about testing people...you are guaranteed never to like the result. Most people who go about testing others are never really ready for the outcome. In my opinion, if you feel the need to purposely test ur man,then maybe he was never urs in the first place

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  46. Poster it's a clear case of seek and ye shall find. You sought for it. Pls learn to respect people's emotions. Everyone has a weakness. Next time to manage it not expose it. We all are dealing with something.

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  47. The Best way to avoid Temptation is to fall for it.Just call back you dog and put rope on him.You don learn you lesson But na wa for you sha why will u go that far??

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  48. @Poster, as a man, i am telling you that you did well. One silent reason why most people go through shit in life is because they leave everything to fate. If you must walk through fire for someone, at least you should know that person is worth the sacrifice. Always put people to test bit don't ever tell them or anyone about it, life does it to us as we are tested everyday. I know how much i have lost putting people who seek my help to test. Before i help you or do a business of N5m or N10m with you, i first test you with a little sum i can afford to lose and see if you can keep to your end of the bargain. A man can only be a man if he keeps to his words. I have never told a woman i love her when deep down i know i don't. I would rather use the word "Like"

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  49. So now you want to true away a relationship cos of a one night stand your man indulged in?...
    My dear all men are like that but trust me its just sex pure and simple. If he loves you, he loves you but not playing takes grace of God. Pray for him and love him more

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  50. Hi Poster. I just want to let you know the truth and the state of things right now in your relationship. You have lost this guy forever. If you tell him that you set him up, he will never ever trust you. If the girl he slept with is as good as she your friend claims, (infact she is sef, for her to get him to forget that he has engaged all in 3 days), wants him for keeps, she will get him. Please just know that you are now single again, all for your stupidity.

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