Oh Stella,Sunday Chronicle is mine i sent it days and even assumed you lost it, heartbreak didn't let me type it again.
I've returned his ring with all the evidence i gathered, hes a very shameless man and i cant just see him as i did, I'd have forgiven him but his presence irritates me. From the dirty chat you need to see him begging, that he'd lick her clean and all sorts, even denied having a girlfriend.
I'm also not talking to my friend cus the deal didn't include having sex with him, it shouldn't have come to that, she should have told her Uni friend to know where to draw the line, i might have forgiven him if it ended there, shes been sending apology texts that she told her friend, i just don't trust anyone at the moment.
How can a girl just be called to sleep with someone and she agrees, and she looks so innocent you wouldn't believe she can do such. Thanks Stella, I'm just healing right now, it was a 3yrs relationship.
Such a demon.
I dont know what to say again.....The Milk is spilled!
*That your friend is evil..I hope you stay away from her...
I pray you heal....
I pray you heal
ReplyDeleteEyaaaah, sorry poster. Don't worry about the 3years lost, God will surprise you with a faithful man. broken relationship is better than a broken Marriage. please stay away from that your friend too. I am also surprised too that the girl your friend hired could easily have sex with a strange man just like that.
DeleteI disagree with u Stells, if not for her friend she wld not have found out he was a public dog.
DeleteThank your friend for exposing him, he wld have dashed u a deadly infection or virus. U owe ur friend that much
You friend is a demon for agreeing to set ur fiance up..I am sure she is d one that initiated the idea by bringing d faithful talk about ur man..Why are u discussing ur man with ur friend in d first place?
DeleteDat ur friend planned it all and she is smiling now that u have returned ur engagement ring back.. For a set up like dis,a real friend won't allow d other lady to sleep with d guy..Infact immediately d friend hinted her about going to fuck d guy,she should have alerted u to confront d man to put a stop to d nonsense dat was about to happen..
A real friend would have used a new SIM card and WhatsApp with downloaded picture from d internet to do d set up and not doing it for real..
Dat serves u right..I can imagine ur type..U are one of those women who brag about their men and call them faithful when u don't know everything about him..
90% of men will fall for the set up..Trust me..These men are weak and can't resist a free pussy..When I was single, there is no man I want that I dont get..It doesn't matter who u are..When I target u,u must fall..So I assure u that ur next man will still fall..If u doubt,test ur need man.. Use a new sim card and test him..If u use a pretty endowed girl's picture to lure him,he will still fall..
Don't mind all these fake commenters here that are telling you to keep trying ur men till u find d right one..They will keep failing till u reach 40yrs..Don't believe d cooked up stories they post here..
Most of d female BVs have cheating husbands yet they haven't left their marriage..They are still doing midnight prayers for their husbands to change..
Many single girls here are dating guys with different girlfriends and still outdoing each other just to be d chosen one..U no dey read chronicles here?
U want to leave ur man bcos of this? Suffer him small and find a way to forgive and take him back..He fucked ur friend's friend so what? Is her toto stamped on his prick? U people take sex way too much..
Know it that he will be repent now and won't fall for such again no matter what..
U can try setting him up again to see if he will fall d second time or has turned a new leaf..Try using a new SIM card and change ur voice when talking to him on phone..Or u can have ur trusted sister do it.. If he falls the second time,pls walk away..
Hi Baby fire. I hope she reads this.
Delete@Poster, this your story, style and gameplay is sad to say the least.
DeleteIt's Satan's job schedule to go around arranging temptations for people and hoping that they fall. So I ask are you part of his team abi squad?
You are in a relationship......aren't you supposed to be safe guarding your man from unnecessary temptations? Instead you are the one setting him up in collaboration with your jezebel friend..lol.
Well you saw what you wanted to see innit? In your Next relationship make sure you arrange a fresh jezebel to test him too ( since the friendship between you and the first one has scattered) , you heah? Nansense.
On 2 the Next!
So this girl is still seeing the man as the demon and not her friend and herself?
ReplyDelete😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
The man did wrong pls
DeleteNothing wrong with testing him before marriage. It’s not same as testing her husband.
@15:41
Deleteis still gearing up to repeat this blunder in her own "situationship?"
😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
15.34 you are such a lost soul
Delete@Queen access bank
DeleteSo the person that is setting up fiances for orgies/romps is a found soul?
Her friend that is the pimp is a saved soul?
I am the one that is lost?
And you are a .... soul?
Please fill that gap very well.
I am surprised and also confused on how the friend is to be blamed here
DeleteReminds me of my NYSC days, one of my friends was over defensive about her boyfriend. If we go out to the club, she won't allow us dance with the boy.
DeleteSome weeks ago, she called me and said she had broken up with the guy, that he was always beating her and giving her other forms of abuse.
Lesson is there is no manuscript for a perfect relationship. Game way won cut go cut
Good thing you learnt your lesson. Trust no one!!!
ReplyDeleteStella her friend is not evil. Her fiance is hooha
ReplyDeleteNo one knows the circumstances or ways God will reveal what we cant see, her friend is not bad... she only helped open her eyes
DeleteEayah it is well with your soul
ReplyDeleteThank God she knows who the man really is. Apparently poster didn't know her fiance was a cheat. It seems she has given the testing chick a hubby though. It may be possible that the first time he saw her he spontaneously decided to dump you. That is why such things can backfire. But I believe if real love was there, he wouldn't have fallen.
DeleteHe deserve that testing girl. How can u be asked to test a guy, and u sleep with him on the same day? Two ashawo's
DeleteMehn.. that your friend is the perfect example of FRENEMY+FAKE FRIEND. Even your guy lack morals.
ReplyDeleteSending you love, light & healing. ❤️
Hahahahhahaah i am tired of typing
ReplyDeleteStop blaming people for your foolishness. Wether you like it or not, you played the major role.
ReplyDeleteOwn your mistakes and learn from it.
It’s good you have cut off from your friend...block her everywhere.
Don’t be deceived by mere looks, mostly especially the ones with that look, you have no idea what they are capable of.
Especially the girls with ajiboyish face and reading glasses that look like students studying medicine. Do not be deceived!!!
DeleteYou can imagine her blaming someone for her own stupidity. You agreed to run a test on your man, why blaming others when you're the principal actor.
DeleteGo cry for corner abeg
@baltika 9, you are funny 😂😂😂😂
DeleteDon’t mind that poster @don.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 You is funny Baltika
DeleteYou are lucky it’s just three years. What if you had invested more than three years like some. Seeetie, cut your loss and run. Dude denied even having a girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, stop confiding in that friend. She’s not that good a person. Sending you hugs.
What wrong did her friend do?Honestly, that friend helped this sister, if u ask me. That guy has always been a dog, and your friend helped u found out. So after he begged to lick her, and all, u would have accepted him if that girl refused to sleep with him, and not that he himself didn't want to do it? Smh
DeleteHope you have learnt your lesson. Pls don't continue with the relationship again.
ReplyDeleteNawa ooo
ReplyDeleteHope you learnt your lesson?
ReplyDeleteHope she has learnt what lesson? poster i am happy for you. You will get a better man. Good that you tested him if not you won't know he was a dog
DeleteI'm happy she left the beast
DeleteHe ain’t no beast but a cheat, abi is he a panel beater too?
Deletei pray you stop touchin your wound so that it can heal fast, never skip any stage in the healing process. Soon someone better will come your way, all men are scammers.
ReplyDeleteHmm your friend has been watching you on 3D for a very long time....#youseffoolishsha
ReplyDeleteThank goodness you dumped him, just within three days he has already fallen to the extent of sleeping with her. Nah this kind man wey go the sleep with your maid under your roof. And to think how some ladies sleep with random guys buffs me, that your friend is a wicked somebody.
ReplyDeleteYou ladies now use sex to do kola nuts
ReplyDeleteJisienu ike
As in!!!
DeleteThe girl git bo morals, sleeping with a random guy within 3days!
No wonder guys don't bother to woo a woman these days!
The sad part is how quick his boxers fell to his ankle, just 3days... i mean 72hrs, and hes already dived in head first, such spontaneous reaction wouldnt even permit him to think of the consequences aftrwards, a condom would be the last thing on his mind.
ReplyDeleteI'm more concerned about how fast he moved, such men think on impulse without processing....
Some think with their dicks. Simple. And the girl might coincidentally be his spec. When consequences wahala starts now, they will not want to take responsibility. And possibly he has fallen for the testing girl and vice versa.
DeleteThen when he licked her clean he would come and kiss you with the same mouth. His quickness to fall and desperation after falling is more telling how weak his character is. He did not even put up a small resistance and pum pum sweet him so much have him sending the kind of texts he have never sent you in three years of togetherness. Girl, a weak man is not marriage material. Thank your lucky stars you know this now and didn't marry this weakling. Trust me, he has cheated before, you just never knew about it. I have learned that sometimes you never know why something is happening in life, this painful incident may be what saved you from aids, or contracting some oral Std that causes visible sores around and on your mouth. Bend your knees in prayer and thanksgiving because God has saved you from something by using that friend that you think is the devil. Don't hate her, but thank her for delivering you from a greater pain that would meet you one day if you had settled with that man.
ReplyDeleteThe talk should be he had been cheating.
DeleteThere are faithful men
Don't be deceived
I know you must be Caribbean or Jamaican unless Africans use the word ‘pun pum’ As well?
DeleteDing, ding, ding. Go collect your prize at the end of the booth. I think the Nigerians call in tohtoh, and the word means cake elsewhere, but I guess pum pum is like a cake, everybody wants a slice and many can't get enough of it😂🍰
DeletePoster please try and test the next guy.
ReplyDeleteHe will fall too.
DeleteI will suggest you give it time,forgive him and marry him. Yes,marry him!. Knowing that he has messed up ones when it was a set up, he would think twice before cheating on you again because every girl will look like a set up to him. You can stress him and put him on a lot of conditions before going ahead,like medical tests and so on. And this is something you can always use to reset his brain later in life because Babe, the next person you are getting might be worse than this oo. Don't come under my comment to run your mouth,everyone is entitled to their opinions. drop your opinions elsewhere
ReplyDeleteyes you are entitled to your screwed opinion
DeleteBad advice.
DeleteA man that is led by emotions is not a man to marry
Anon 16:04 you don't know your worth doesn't mean other women don't know their worth. There are still good men out there and poster will get one if she set her heart on it.
DeleteThis kind of man,if truly he loves you will not want to loose you and will change for the better. Is he now not better than someone you think is innocent but its the most dangerous man on earth or please are you going to keep testing all the men that comes your way? @16:20 and @16:25,whether you like it or not this poster up there will never trust any man that comes her way again,if care is not taken this poster will join team snoop and will be paranoid for the rest of her life. Everyone deserves a second chance.
Delete@Africa Baby,will she carry placard and be advertising she's looking for a husband? Or is it not trial and error she will do too. Except the guy is not good on all aspect,but if its only cheating and she's a good girl,its situation like this that changes a play boy to a good man for the rest of his life. Plenty good men out there but even them,they are not perfect. Its always remaining somewhere
DeleteIts not good sometimes to be so quick to judge. There must have been some reasons the poster initially vouched for her fiancé, that he fell within 3 days,you should want to know why and how..it could be the girl presented herself as a whore and I'm sure the guyman knows she's not a good girl,hence he wants to chop and clean mouth,forgetting that some chop you go chop and you no go chop another one again..
DeleteI thought I said you pple should drop your opinions elsewhere. FYI, I'm a man and I'm talking from a place of experience.
DeleteAnon, somehow I agree with you but I don't know why.
DeleteI feel you should forgive him and marry him so that you can shame your friend and the babe
ReplyDeleteShame who?
DeleteThey told her, she didnt believe, then they proved it to her.....
How will marrying him bring them shame?
Is that how you married your own husband
Deleteyaba left God bless you. You be real man. It is a shame That some women don't know they deserve better.
DeleteAll of you making noise here, your husbands cheat on you, una go clean mouth come here dey advice people to leave their own but you keep your yeye idiots at home o.
DeleteWhich one be my own sef. I no get husband or boyfriend and I'm not looking for one yet.
How can you blame your friend for helping you do what you requested of her? She did no wrong. I think she only advised you out of experience and you were really bent on proving her advice wrong. She didn't break your relationship please
ReplyDeleteYou have got your friend's friend, a husband. Assuredly, they will continue dating and don't be surprised, they will marry within 6 months.
ReplyDeleteFor you, just thank God. If you know what married women go through with cheating spouses, then, you will be dancing and celebrating.
For your friend, it's either she was jealous or she knew about your husband cheating ways and wanted to let you know.
Whichever way, her friend had no business with sleeping with your man and I am sure, her friednd told her she was going to do so. I am surprised she didn't or couldn't stop her. (Except, if they both planned it)
Lastly, NEVER, EVER boast of your smooth happenings in life with anyone. Espcially spouses and fiances. My dear, the heart of many are wicked. By your boast, some will go all length (including jazz) to 'humble' u.
Wise up.
Her friend did nothing wrong. That man has always been a cheat, and she deserves that ashawo, cos they are mates in that category.
Delete👍
DeleteSo marriage is an award, even to a cheat. That’s why these men will keep cheating, they’ll be seen as the prize regardless
DeleteBut am not surprised about any of these issues,poster. Probably, u are in ur twenties, by the time ppl tell u their stories and u get more to see,ur eyes will shine.
ReplyDeleteNow listen, I will advise u as my own sister. Don't leave ur fiance if u guys are really serious. Why,u might ask...all of them are same ,including this ones telling u to leave. My baby, 98% of men cheat. Lemme make it simple, it rains everywhere, some light and some heavy. So just manage ur own rain. Dey ur dey.
But, u will sanction ur man. Maybe,money, car, business etc. Do give him a condition that will sit him up. Don't be surprised if u insist on leaving him,that bitch will enter fully as ur frenemy would have told her how lucky u were. I can't peruse so them teachers,bouce.
You think being married to a spouse you dont trust is an easy thing? You'd second-guess their every move, and paranoia will set in.
DeleteSuch a man can easily bring home a disease well wrapped in aluminium foil paper as souvenir, cus all caution is thrown to the wind when theyre on heat, their libido takes the lead till they cum.... and go and lie.
The girl should come and takeover!
DeleteMost women need men for money , car business which is why even severe conditions of domestic violence and abuse women stay weeping and pleading
STAY AWAY FROM THIS MAN GIRL....run run run run...he can marry his seductress and cheat on her with multiple women.
Married men ...some of your wives HATE you because you are chronic cheats
They will live with you because of what you can provide and pretend it does NOT matter but given the chance they could and would push you into harms way!
You did the right thing, sis.
ReplyDeleteKeep yo head up. 💖
How can you blame your friend for helping you do what you requested of her? She did no wrong. I think she only advised you out of experience and you were really bent on proving her advice wrong. She didn't break your relationship please
ReplyDeleteA good friend will not advice you to test your fiance. Rather she will tell you point blank what she feels about hi randiness. if you dont believe her, she will still support your decision and help you marry him. That's how good friends behave. She wasn't your friend, And you also na mumu, but God has used your mumuness to save you from what would have been a disaster marriage.
ReplyDeleteMove on if you can... If you go back anything you see you take.
Pele
Like I wrote,the kind of friendship you have ehn...... very ridiculous one!
ReplyDeleteHaunty blame yourself. You have your dinner to cat, that's all.
ReplyDeleteI not blame the guy or your friend, you got what you wanted, so enjoy the movie.
Always dragging words with women. i pity any Woman that will marry you. Instead of you to be happy for poster that shd dodged a bullet, you are there saying trash. Thank God poster wasn't married to the man before the Man will give her hiv/std.
DeleteWho's this faceless ode?
Deletewhich one is blame yourself, don just say you're also a cheat like he is, poster your man went too far and he's a chronic cheat, how can a guy in a relationship give a random girl head it means he has been given numerous girls heads nawa
ReplyDeleteHmmm...
ReplyDeleteSee some comments oh. A lot of naija women are ostriches sha, burying their head in the sand with their rumps exposed. They would rather not know or pretend all is well when they have a confirmed Randy dog as a partner. If you've ever worked in a health facility and seen the number of women with all these STDs ehn, you won't see cheating as one of those things. Your life is at stake. The common factor is that most of them knew but thought ignoring, facing their children, war-rooming and all would make it all better. Only a few were really in the dark about things, and those ones ehn, some pass on leaving lovely kids behind or living in tears and regrets.
Poster, you did well. Feel no guilt, move forward. God will give you the one that would treasure you, and make no mistake dear, they do exist.
My dear you can choose to stay and move on, the choice is absolutely yours. But here is a quick advise, In your next relationship don't EVER test your spouse.
ReplyDeleteIts even biblical, reason the bible said & i quote "Lead us not into temptation and deliver us from evil" but your case you by your hands led and delivered your spouse into temptation and evil. Please refrain from doing that rather pray they don't fall into the hand of any "temptress".
Shalom.
Make sure you setup you next bf since na ur way.
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