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Saturday, November 30, 2019

Boredom Eliminating Post

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  1. True....I don’t keep friends anymore though.

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    1. False!

      All my friends love me. Anybody I would meet and have cause to interact with would love me.

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    2. Funny enough I don't even keep friends. My parents will always tell you that. One thing I know for certain is that, some people aren't worth keeping as a friend. Loyalty has a limit and people are sometimes unpredictable.

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    3. Many people are going to keep deceiving themselves until it will shock them. But I don't blame them, experience is often the most effective teacher.

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    4. Kamikaze, I love your heart. You seem to have the heart of a child but please be wary, okay?
      So that when the unexpected happens(which I pray it won't, for you seem like a good hearted person)you won't fall flat on your face.

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    5. "All"?@kamikaze. Please watch your back.I use to reason like you b4 till I found out in this life, it is only God that loves you.

      Even you that you think love yourself, trust me you don't love yourself but you don't even realise it.

      Only God no other human.

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    6. Thanks Anon 19.30. I understand what you mean but you see, I have had the same set of friends for about 20 years. Since I was 9. I have never had cause to doubt their loyalty. Not once in all these years. I hope I have also never given them cause to doubt mine. So I choose to believe they love me. Same as I love them. I refuse to even entertain a spectre of distrust towards them. I've constantly mentioned how lucky I am in my choice of friends.

      About the people I would meet and interact with, ofcourse they would love me. This life is rigged in my favour already and every single day has proven it. It is how I have chosen to live.

      Anon 19.34, if you believed in God,loving yourself and others around you is simply par for the course. After all, God is love

      Maybe the 'false' is for you people that go about amassing followers and worshippers and fans and labelling them all friends. People you share no values with. Different ideals and philosophies and morals and never the twain shall meet. If your 'friend' does not love you and you don't love the person back, how on earth are you 'friends'? Or who do you call a friend?

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    7. @ Kamikaze Matthew 10 vs 36. The ones closest to you are the ones that can harm you the most. Pls do not be deceived nor be so naive. Even Jesus Christ was not loved by all.

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    8. I am sorry for the experiences you have had Anon 20.27 but I find it incredibly sad that you do not have a friend that can defend you as staunchly I am defending mine. That no friend can call you loyal and trustworthy.
      Because if you had someone like that, just one person, then you would understand my point.
      Because if you are capable of being loyal and trustworthy, then you would accept that it is possible for me to have friends with same qualities.

      I will ask again, who do you call friend?

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    9. Kamikaze, your chronicles will be very touching.

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    10. Exactly! If you have friends who genuinely love you, I think it should count as a blessing. I haven't been so lucky when it comes to making friends. Most of them hang around mainly for what they can benefit and once that is achieved, they port. Imagine the awkwardness of your "best friend" "scamming" you...

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  2. Very true. I don’t love all my friends either. Equation balanced.

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  3. You are talking about friends. My mother will poison me if she has the chance. She thinks we are competing.

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    1. Eyaaa, sorry about this. Just try to stay your lane and don't let her into your business.

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    2. 😲😲😲😲😲

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  4. You are talking about friends. My mother will poison me if she has the chance. She thinks we are competing.

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  5. Everyone has a reason why they stick around..Listen more you will find out. Either they are using you or you are using them.

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  6. two-way question..do you know that you don't love all your friends?

    DeHeroine

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  7. I have a very limited friends apart from my family.

    There used to be this friend of mine turned roommate. She is the only daughter and her dad is a police man but me, I'm the first child of my family with four siblings. Back in school, I was just managing but this girl was always jealous; from my head down to what I'm putting on.

    If our mutual friend compliments me, it is a problem to her. She have got money but she can never get good stuffs for her self. Her cloths and accessories are always shabby (a very stingy girl even to her self).

    The day we mistakenly saw her account balance eeeeh, omohhhh I shock o. Was extremely flabbergasted. I will qualify her as that kind of rat that will be biting you and blowing 🌬 you at the process. You will never know it bite you until you try to take your bath.

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    1. Jessi you sound petty and basic. Police, shabby clothes, bank balance and rats... what on earth are you on about?!!

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  8. My friends love me.

    But not all my acquaintances like me.

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  9. True.
    I don't even keep friends anymore.
    Fake people everywhere

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  10. True talk ooo. I'm a one woman mopol ooo no friends.

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    1. My friend but sometimes, I miss having one

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  11. Firstly we need to define friendship. That's not a word I take lightly. I know not all my pals and acquaintances love me, but for me to call you my friend, I love you and you love me back. BTW I So ffor. just only three friends.
    So for me

    FALSE

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    1. You spoke my mind. Thank you.

      It's not everybody I relate with I call a friend, majority are acquaintances. For me to call you a friend, the feeling is mutual(love obviously) and I have a limited no of persons I call friends.

      I totally disagree with the statement.

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  12. Stella I believe you. I just realised any friend I have so try their possible best to sabotage my other friendships. My friend don't like me to keep other friends while this same friends will have millions of friend. Is that not witchcraft. As big as the world is, you expect me to be friends with only you while you don't do the same. Every friend I have met has done this. Now I just keep to myself. Enemy of progress posing as friend, I dodge😂

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    1. Most of them are not loyal while I'll be busy carrying their matter on my head. I've given myself sense. God and my family are the real friends I have now. Dassit!

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  13. I don’t really have friends so I don’t know if it’s true or not.

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  14. On the contrary "almost all" not "not all" if you check well you realise almost none likes you.
    One doesn't seem happy when good things happens for me, she becomes moody instantly.
    Another is only friends with me because of what she gets, her love is conditional.
    Another tries to belittle my achievement like it's nothing but prays for same thing.
    Most friendship we're like competition from their end. I was doing sisterhood, while they were doing one man mopol.
    Now it's me myself and God.

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  15. the ones I call my BFF,omo we love die oooo

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  16. Reason I don't have any friends anymore.

    Been burnt so bad.

    Now I'm thrice shy 😀😀

    Arms length ti take over.

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  17. Enter your comment...very true.i don't have friends

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  18. How I wish i can do voice note to say my experience, of what a friend did today.... My fingers dey pain me abeg,

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  19. Everybody here are commenting about friends that betrayed them. So everyone on this blog is a saint, abi?

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    1. See forget that thing. I have been beaten black and blue because of a friend before. A man beat me oooh and I had to pay for the objects that got broken in the process. Not small money then.


      I have left everything I was doing abruptly to tend to a friend before who didn't lift a pin for me and it turned out this person was in a silent competition with me.

      I have stood up on a friends behalf but this person could not do the same for me. Both in her absence and presence. Believe me when I say I was loyal. I am Sagittarius darling and we are loyal to a fault. This most loyal sign of the whole zodiac.Maybe we should call her problem timidity or she feels she could kiss those frenemies behind and come to apologise to me later and I would understand as the understanding friend that I is?

      They want who will cut their necks for them, not me please. But they are too lazy to reciprocate. They want to enjoy the perks of good friendship but want to be useless in the friendship And when you want to defend them they won't leave you alone. They keep calling but have nothing to offer not even loyalty. Ts not everyone who complains of having bad friends that are bad. You can never find the wicked friends complaining because they are the users and not the ones being used.
      I am anon 18:25,30 btw😘. I don't keep friends anymore for not everyone can match up with your level of commitment. God my family and myself we are majority🚶‍♂️
      Forgive any error it's puffin babes.

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    2. *when you want to *DEFRIEND*them, they won't leave you alone.

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  20. I hardly make friends but there's only one person I can truly call a friend and she really loves me. I mean she loves me more than ever and that person is me.

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  21. I literally have only one friend so if she doesn't love me wahala dey 🤣

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  22. Yes o ...
    My friends stop talking to me.when they knew i took up a cleaner job ,this are girls i help alot whwn all was well ....now am team no friends abeg....they even came to the bag i work ,i ran out of excitementto hug them o ..they all behave as if they dont or didnt stay together with me ..people that even promise to be my sis even whem i have none...now are behaving somwhow ...abegi

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  23. Either friend or acquaintance I consciously choose not to have any again! I'm one man army nau abeg.ever since I made this decision, I'm at peace cos no more envy,quarrel nor betrayal from anyone..

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  24. I once had a good friend I gossiped about to another friend. The other friend told her and added jara. I didn't really mean to but I just told the other one what happened to my real friend and she carried loud speaker.
    When my friend called me crying I felt so bad. That was what spoilt our relationship till date even though I begged and begged.
    I'm still very sorry, anyone I call my friend,I won't do such to ever

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  25. God heal all this broken souls.

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