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Saturday, November 30, 2019

Help Comes Faster To Women - True Or False?

Do people respond more to women in times of need?If yes,why?










56 comments:

  1. So true....we were wired that way for people to give us extra care and attention

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    1. You haven't understood the question dear black girl. The question speaks in general not which gender helps the other more.

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    2. Anon 14.21,thanks I just read again.I think it's because women are seen as

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    3. Thanks anon14.21.I guess my answer should be that women are seen as weaker sex so we need that extra hand while the men are seen as strong so they should be able to wiggle out of situations.

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  3. Yes Ma'am...So true..have my own share of that bitter experience..after the whole drama she looked me in the eyes and told me...NOW YOU HAVE SEEN THE POWER OF A WOMAN..!!!

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  4. Yes it is true. We get help when we need it more than the men.

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  5. I really don't know how true it is but I know help comes to children of grace like me. On this blog alone they hated me but a lot of Abuja BVs has begged to see me and some blessed me. Even while I was still in Enugu a female doctor BV with MONEY AND CLASS was more than a sister to me.

    BTW they all call me super woman and encourage me to continue being Fan.

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    1. They don't like you, for encouraging you such a thing, they see you as a clown. Or they are very toxic individuals

      This is in a place of love, Fan it too much, tune it down please. You're so funny when you're not abusive or spitting piles. Please you're a mother and it not a good example to your child. Tune it down. Don't mind those people lying to you

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    2. Its "Bile" not "piles".

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    3. We association of SDKblog bitter women love you so much fan..

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    4. Fan
      This isn't 14:20
      But honestly when you're jovial and kind
      You make me smile ,
      Please I am begging you please ehn try to tone it down okay?
      You called me a fool days back when I teased you but that's okay ,
      However ignore who ever and whatever aggravates you on here ,
      Trust me it doesn't make you weak or less of who you are .
      Kisses 💋💋💋

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  6. True. Especially from the opposite sex they go out of their way to help with no strings attached sometimes.

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    1. Very true
      One time my car broke down
      4 different men came to help me ,
      When my driver came with another car he started complaining how if it were a guy no one would help him 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  7. Na men they do themselves. It's because of the Toto dey are doing the favour ooo.

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  8. I just got my first car this morning. And as I was driving down home something told me to give the car to my father. Now I'm confused and I don't know what to do if I should follow the voice or not.

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    1. Awww
      If you had a prompting to give it to your dad and you're sure that's what your heart wants you can go ahead .
      I cant say much on this. But follow your heart.

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    2. Obey before confusion scatter your head. Give it to your Dad. He will pray for you and Bless you.

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  9. I agree. I guess it's cos women are seen to be fragile and more in need of care and affection.

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    1. Yeah
      Most men feel compelled to help a woman first cos they see her as fragile

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  10. I agree. I guess it's cos women are seen to be fragile and more in need of care and affection.

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  11. Bimbo, a (Naija) girl wakes up and says, "I am hungry...and the only money I have is 5 naira
    not even transport money to go out"
    Her roommate Ada says, I don't have shishi but let's go out together -just follow me.
    5 hours later; Bimbo and Ada return to their hostel driven on an SUV,
    with;
    A carton of viju milk
    4 roasted chicken takeaways
    4 plates of jollof rice and chicken takeaways
    4 packs of sausage meats and suya
    4 dozens of canned milk

    Ada (picks her phone); Ahaaa, my bobo just texted me that he does not have transport money to
    visit me, let me send credit alert of 20k to him
    Bimbo: Wait till tomorrow. After all the marathon of today, do you still have
    strength to take him on?
    Ada: Okay, let me transfer your share of the 200k then... 😮😮😮😮

    You know another thing, if you watch these Naija girls return, they
    will be waddling like 🦆🦆,
    So why are they waddling like that?
    Nekwa ajuju oo
    Make my friends; Naija girls come and explain oo
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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    1. Talking about your daughters and sisters and yourself I guess. God will so punish you for demeaning his creature.

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    2. @16:07
      Haba! Persin no fit play with una again eh? 😂😂😂😂😂
      Why you come dey invoke punishment (a curseless curse does not come to rest -google it)
      Isn't it wetin Naija girls do on campus?
      I am not talking about Nigerian women o but "Naija girls"
      If you do not do the above, then you are not a Naija girl
      Kajikwo?
      Ajuju oo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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    3. You're very disgusting, tufiakwa gi🤮🤮. What sane person would conjure up such filth?You need to cleanse your mind and heart for habouring such hatred towards imaginary girls that don't even send you. Pls gist us, did a "naija girl" fork your husband or attempt to?🤣🤣

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    4. @Snarker

      Oh, "such filth, really??"
      Is this as filthy as what we read here? If you are new, let me remind you;
      A "naija girl" once asked Sdk if she should suffocate a toddler to enable her marry her boyfriend abroad who
      does not know about the existence of the boy.
      A "Naija girl" once dragged her neighbor's married boyfriend in from her corridor into her room and stripped for
      him to have sex after collecting 105k
      Don't you read anonymous Night (bomb) posts?
      Nne or Nnaa, the things we read here are worse than what I presented up there. And yes,
      a Naija girl once stripped and threatened to shout rape if my husband does not "fork"
      right inside our house and I had told it here before... If you bring it up any day, those
      who have been here will tell you how it all ended.
      Hope I answered your ajuju😊😊😊😊😊

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    5. It all makes sense now, no wonder you harbor such antipathy towards Naija girls and I really don't blame you. I was also once like you, so judgmental and disgusted towards girls who were wayward and of loose morals, girls I see exposing their private parts on social media because of likes and clout, girls that blatantly sold their bodies for money, girls that were sexually active until I realized that really, what they did was none of my goddamned business. Whatever they did was between them and their Creator. I would never support nonsense but at the same time, I am not qualified to play judge Judy in their lives. It'd make a lot of sense if you stop seeing all Naija girl as trash who do nothing else than to fork and discharge fetuses. Las las pray for them and leave them to God. Your approach and condescending words towards them are really alarming.

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    6. @Snarker
      I have been a blog visitor for exactly 9 years on this blog and only began my yarns on the 8th year (last year or early this year). My experience has nothing to do with what happened in my family home more than 10 years ago. It has everything to do
      with what I read on this blog. Stella for one was initially preaching abstinence when I began visiting this blog. I do not judge people like you jumped into conclusion. Once I quote Scriptures, you call it judgment.
      My ajuju is this 😊
      How many years have I sentenced anybody on this blog eh?
      Please cool down very well and I will keep my yarns going until Naija girls stop shooting off babies.
      Okay the shooting off of babies how does it relate to what you insinuated??
      Shouldn't you rather channel you energies to those that suffocate, shoot off and snatch and vamoose?
      Okwa ajujus ooo
      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  12. I'd say it all depends on your charisma, some people possess an inexplicable magnetic charm (natural) and appeal, they cant even understand themselves.. yet they dont look anywhere near Beyonce.

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  13. As for myself, I'll say NO. When I ask for assistance from guys, they want sex first.
    I ask from ladies, ha ... They want someone they can always insult.

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  14. Yea so true but we re seen as sex symbols so they always expect something in return no matter how small the help might be

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  15. Yes, very true, I had issue with my car on the road, within minutes, people came around to help and ask what went wrong, my husband said it is because I am a woman, that if it was him, people wont mind.

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  16. Well, this depends on the person being asked for the favour, I'd rather ask a woman for help than a man though. If I ask a man for a favour, it means that I have known him since my Childhood days. The mentality of some men these days is quack or maybe I don't have the LUCK.

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  17. That's how it seems like on the surface but truth is, everyone wants to take advantage of a female hence pretend they want to help. 99 percent of men will come rushing quickly because they want s*x in return and most of the women will help to boost their ego to feel superior than you.

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  18. Help comes to women from men fast but woman to woman?? Nooooo.
    Some women hardly help each other even pregnant women

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  19. I can't even deny that the prompt services I often get, which I truly enjoy is because of my looks.

    So yea,it is easier for a female...I guess

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    1. It's not because of your looks kami but because of what they feel your looks can offer them or what they could benefit from it.

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    2. Anon, I don't know...maybe but I do not always get propositioned yet even women and kids respond to me. It has just always been like that.

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    3. Anon 16.43, I am not the reason you look the way you do. Consult a biology text for explanations. Maybe if you smiled more often, you would understand better.

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    4. Then kami let's say you must be a fine lady with an amiable disposition.

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  20. People respond to whoever they can get something from in return. Irrespective of the gender. It's give and take at the end of the day.

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  21. Its easier for female to get help

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  22. U think it seems easier for women because they ask for help. Most men on the other hand like to behave as if they have no problems. They would rather die than humble themselves. Also, women ask for help from anyone, man or woman. Some men on the other hand have lost their female potential helpers because they look down on women.

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  23. I don't really agree. Men get help with no strings attached when they ask for it. Women are usually asked for sexual favors when they ask for help from some men. Those who refuse get no help and more insults.

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  24. Women get help bc they have what men want. Most of thr time, it comes with counter offers

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  25. Every lady i ever helped was someone i wanted to bang. Thats all

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  26. This is true because I've experienced it several times

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  27. It's funny that after all these advantages women enjoy, feminist still claim to be short changed..
    At the bus stop, they get free lifts, they enter a filled up bus, a man would stand up for them to sit, etc etc.. I don't blame these feminist tho, I blame men that would rather help an entitled lady that will never appreciate instead of helping a fellow man that would appreciate and make it up back to you someday.

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