Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative -UPDATE

What an update!!!!

Hi Stella and Bvs,
I am the lady that sent a chronicle some months back about her fiance confessing that he has a small d**k and he only lasts 27 seconds. Let me first start by appreciating the candid advice I got from you all. Stella your advice touched me in particular, I felt a genuine big sisterly concern and warmth from your comment. God bless you all.


By the time the chronicle was posted, I must have sent it close to a month and the actual event happened a few weeks prior to that. I was in a sincerely confused state, I didn't know what to do or how to broach the subject with him so I sent the chronicle. I had a lot of time to think and many of the advice was leaning towards postponing the wedding.


I decided to focus on the reasons why I love him, we had never even kissed so s#x wasn't on the list. Then I appreciated the fact that either he was teasing me or not, he confided in me and was honest. An opportunity came for me some days after the chronicle was posted so we had to speed things up. We actually preponed ? the wedding.


So we had the court wedding in August since then uncle will try to get close, I have some antiquated beliefs so I always rebuff his advances. We decided to move the traditional and white forward as well and keep it simple (wow, there's actually no simple or small wedding in Nigeria). When we said simple, we were thinking like thirty people in total but I don't have the strength to go into the wedding wahala.


My church uses a hall in one hotel to fellowship, so because of time constraint and really no alternatives in the little time, we were lucky to get a great deal for the bigger hall in the hotel for the reception. It actually simplified the logistics for us. We decided to get rooms in the hotel as well so everything will just be in the same location. The plan was to check in a day before the wedding (after the engagement ceremony), on the said day, my father said no, that its inappropriate for me to go to my wedding from a hotel when he has a house.


The wedding was solemnised, when he was asked to kiss his bride, he just grabbed me and it went on like forever, btw, I had told him earlier that just a peck on the lips will do and he laughed and nodded. We took some pictures and we weNT to change for the reception. So guests just moved from one hall to another, while we went to our rooms to change. My friends, make up artist and hairdresser were with me, they had just helped me out of my gown, then my husband walked up to the room and asked everyone to excuse us that pastor said we should pray before coming down to the reception. I really didn't remember when he said so, but my darling husband came armed with a list of prayer points, he said he will call them when we were through.


We knelt down, held hands and actually started praying, the next thing I felt his lips on mine, hands all over my body, I was first stunned, I was like guests, my husband just said 'they will wait' and I can't even say what really happened afterwards, I just heard from my bridesmaid that I was screaming gibberish and my mum was giving me a 'look' throughout the reception. Save to say, we were very late for the reception so she had to come up to fetch us and heard some things.


I felt paralysed and I didn't even know how I later got dressed, did makeup and hair for the reception, I was looking like a lovesick puppy and sitting dazed throughout the reception, couldn't dance, couldn't even process what was going on around me, I had just had the most incredible experience of my life and everything happening around me was a blur. I couldn't wait to be alone with my husband and the reception was just looking long and unnecessarily dragging. The new groom was just dancing and having fun, absolutely content like a cat that just got the cream.


We left the reception, our friends were still carrying on, showered together and went to bed (don't want to bore you with the graphic detail). We actually had our first penetrative s#x, it wasn't painful like I had heard first times usually are, I felt like a sting, then discomfort and total bliss afterwards. I don't know how many rounds we went that night. We slept off and continued in the morning. Meanwhile, we were to have thanksgiving at my parents-in love's church but we got there almost at the end of the service. My parents were also there and I can still feel my mum giving me the bad eye.


The honeymoon was a trip in ecstasy, I guess I have been making up for all the lost years, I had never really thought of myself as a s#xual being and wow it's been an amazing experience and I can't thank God enough for my lover. His goal is to please and he does. Every time I have an orgasm, I just thank God, at other times I think of what I have been missing all these years and why I didn't start earlier. My husband is an excellent lover, not that I have anything/anyone to compare him with but he makes me feel out of this world. I never knew such could exist.


We are totally in sync, if he says he is a 27 secs man, then I am a 20 secs woman and I always finish before him, God has truly seen the ending from the beginning because when I am done, I want my husband to wrap up too. Imagine if I had someone that would be pounding away five minutes after I had climaxed. My husband isn't hung like a horse but his tool is more than adequate. When he said small, I was thinking of a biro cover small but wow, it just fits perfectly.


My journey to becoming a woman has been terrific and fellow old virgins, when you are with the right person and at the right time it is worth the wait. Don't let anyone rush you, yours will find you. The s#x is amazing yes! but what I love most about being married is the intimacy, the feeling of being naked and not ashamed, we do the most intimate things together (not sex now) like when he shaves me and I would never have thought it possible to surrender to a man that way.


I just need to work on my screaming and we need to work on our timing, my parents in-love hosted us when we got back from our honeymoon, and I was cooking in the kitchen, my husband came to help me and one thing led to the other and we were at it again unabashedly. My parents in- love just smile when they see us.


It's been seven amazing weeks and I thank God uncountable times daily for my partner and I pray the novelty never wears off. I just love the way he loves me, he left his very good job for me so I can chase my dreams and be fulfiled. My parents in-love are not so happy about that though but my husband is a giver in all ways. I tell him he's my gift that keeps on giving. I just thank God, I had lost hope on marriage because all exes wanted to taste the cookie but I am glad I was strong in my resolve.


Just some tips for men that find themselves in a similar situation with my husband, what worked for him is his honesty with me (so be open with your partners, acknowledge you have a problem and be willing to work through it with your partner), he stopped alcohol and sugary things because he's a sweet tooth, he stopped pornography and masturbation (the weird thing is masturbation was one of the strategies that we were told would help during therapy). Then we discovered he had performance anxiety, in his bid to impress his bedmate, he would exhaust himself and finish quickly so it's important to relax and enjoy the flow.


Ours is the case of all is well that ends well! Sorry for the long write up. Omugo chronicle loading. Stella whenever you come to down under, we would love to host you. Wedding pictures for your eyes only Stelz. We wish you all the very best of the season.


The Blushing Bride,
Mrs S.

Fellow old virgins offed me...hahahahhahahahahahahahahahaah

parents in love is parents in law right!

My dear enjoy,your hubby looks so good oh,27 seconds no dey show for face.....i have been going back to stare at your photo and imagine you screaming.........it even shows on your face,see how your eyes twinkling....na wah