Shocking and disgusting indeed!
Thursday, January 16, 2020
Shocking Story.....
I have never read anything like this before in my life so i cannot even wrap my thoughts around what you are about to read........
Shocking and disgusting indeed!
Shocking and disgusting indeed!
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So you observed this habit for say one month yet you still stayed in the marriage because of Gen 2vs24.
ReplyDeleteSee, put up all the things in the house for sale on jiji, jumia, get99 and konga. Change the lock and go far away from that family.
Mother and son are spiritually and physically mad, imagine the remaining insane people in the family....if you decide to stay in the that marriage, then i greet you specially Proverbs 31vs10-31 woman.
...I am 100% sure this man flushes his poo outside the home: at work, eatery, hotel, or maybe a friend's place. So what stops him from doing it at home? Madam Wife, na you bin dey encourage your husband's dirty habit and i'm glad you've decided to put a stop to it.
DeleteWow.... This one touch you
DeleteHahahahahahahah @miss Ess I think jumia will help her matter, wat rubbish
DeleteOne month you said? I will call you to order the minute I notice it. WTF? I can't even stand babies' poo not to talk of an old arse man. Peeing and not flushing is a big issue to then this? Tufiakwa! God will not allow my eyes see bad thing. Let me not start with his agbaya of a mother.
DeleteWhy didn't he call you to wipe his bum too?? This is actually very stupid and entitled. He needs to wear diapers I swear. Marriage is union between two people. Not a union between two people but the wife is a lesser being and should be enslaved
DeleteThe things women tolerate. My ex husband use to do same. When I was leaving and tabled that amongst the many things I complained, his mother also answered me that what's the big deal if I flush the toilet. My mum was like flush adult shit? Anyway thank God I left that house. My son from that marriage suffers if he doesn't flush after using the toilet. The beating that comes with it will reset the that negative inheritance
DeleteI think she might as well start buying adult diaper for her husband to wear. That way, since he’s allergic to flushing toilets, she will change his diaper every four hours, wipe his ass clean and pour baby powder.Just negodu!!
DeleteLol @ baby powder.You are wicked.
DeleteGod forbid bad things. This is why you shouldn't start what you can't finish. Why would a normal human being use the toilet and feel comfortable not flushing?
ReplyDeleteMEN SHOULD BE ASHAMED BY THIS
DeleteMy dad does the same and I grew up thinking it's no big deal as my mum has never frowned on it so I flushed my dad's and brothers shit. He would also choose to brush his teeth in the kitchen sink even with used plate in it and my mum never told him to stop even when! Till I grew up and saw it's not ok, like I am disgusted out of my skin seeing him brush in the kitchen but I can't talk to my dad so I turn on my mum and she will rush to clean things up and beg me not to refuse food from the kitchen. Therefore, my mum will indeed be the kind of mother-in-law that will ask a wife what's the big deal. Because to my mum, I have never seen the kind of love and submission she has for my dad in any other marriage yet she is far much more successful than him o. My brothers today are expecting to find her kind of wife...I laugh in Swahili! Even i reject taking after her tolerant level biko! My two brothers are exactly like him! They visit me in my husband's house and expect me to tolerate Nonsense then turn around to say I am forming!
DeleteI am waiting to see the woman of this generation they will marry that will take that crap and flush their shit.
Trust me anon d problem of dome marriages r from foundation.
DeleteWith my madness? Nah! I never see the man. When I got married,hubby had the habit of flushing the toilet and not flushing it well. You will still see particpes. Omo! I changed it for him. Talo raye palapala? I will call him to flush the toilet and even shout so neighbours can hear. In fact, I made it look so bad that he is the cause of all my toilet infections. Now, he dares not.
DeleteIt's like he'll go and marry his mother.
Anon 18:31 did you just describe my dad.
DeleteHahahahaha.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't be me.
Na wa o
ReplyDeletepoor lady have women become slaves in marriage
the mother is a bad person
the women did absolutely nothing the man should clean after himself except its jazz
Read the 1st line and I'm disgusted, Stella please next time read this kind of emails alone and delete them I beg.
ReplyDeleteTo think I was eating eba after starving for days o.
Delete😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 very annoying somtin
DeleteVery annoying.
Deleteayama man
Let the idiotic son of a bitch goooo!!! WTF? Africans really think 'marriage' is the best thing to happen to a woman since slice bread such that a woman must remain a grateful slave and do everything to remain 'MARRIED' including eat the shit of an adult!!!
ReplyDeleteGod if for anything give me the patience to ask people "what do I do?" Because left with me I'd do worse and will be ready to worsen the situation if a bastard tries me.
ReplyDeleteShe should be happy that the pig left home for her. She shouldn't apologize for such thing. What a nasty habit.
ReplyDeleteSome mother in laws are just demon sha.
Imagine the mum in-law telling her to apologize and not do it again. Such nerve.
DeleteVery very nasty habit, is that something one should be proud of?
Such nerve o my sister. This wan weak me.
DeleteI tire o. I don't know men marry women for sole purpose of flushing toilet.
DeleteHis mother is part of his problem, if a mother can back up a man behaving like a lunatic.
It’s just an indication of bigger underlying issues. A man will dish out at home what he can’t try in public simply because he believes his omo-odo will and should deal with it.
DeleteHe even has the nerve to form angry, shameless man.
Don so you get sense small
DeleteOne sided story.
ReplyDeleteNow who is writing and asking for help?
Who is worried that husband hasn't come back since yesterday?
This is a simple thing you have been doing. Communication would have helped. Just by talking with him and telling him that you do not like it when he leaves the toilet without flushing it.
Now it has come to the internet court and become a case?
Ogbeni Ceasar, is this you?
DeleteAjuju, you live with them to know that she has not talked to him about it, right?
DeleteIts on the Internet but do you know her?
ceaser will never agree to something like this.
DeleteCommunication indeed...u are also the man's type. Talking ke? Who was talking to him about flushing before he married her, who talks to him to go and poo when he is pressed, how come he didn't poo on his body...ajo ife n'esi esi
DeletePlease Caesar will never support such a behavior.
DeleteThis lady. does not need to apologize. I hope they pushed his poo, wherever he’s at.
Why won't it be one sided story? If it was the woman now you would have judged her and written all your usual thrash and be asking your nonsense ajujus.
DeleteThere is a group I belong to on face book.
ReplyDeleteIf you see what married women post,you will be wondering what kind of hell 🔥 on earth are these women in.
To crown it all,fellow women o,fellow women will tell the woman to do everythig to keep her home,are u f****** kidding me!!!!!
Now why on this earth will I flush a grown man's faeces,are u a slave?is your placenta tied to that marriage.
Did u not see the signs of his stupid attitude before now,what you can not finish,do not start it.
How irritating,
What nonsense e
Stupid family.
You married a Tata so you have to make him realise he is matured. Flush it but don't apologise(my opinion). Print a large notice "FLUSH AFTER EVERY USE" and paste above the cistern in every toilet in the house.
ReplyDeleteFlush after every use lazy bone is better
DeleteThat will not make him start flushing. The lady has been flush his poo for a long time. Ladies, be careful what you tolerate from the beginning. Be yourself and do not do things to impress your guy. I am sure the guy is stinking rich otherwise she wouldn’t remain there doing onyeburu work.
Deleteabeg shut up with this he must be stinkinly rich rubbish. is it only rich people women tolerate stuff from? every woman tolerates a certain level of stuff from husband, some are just more nasty than others. this is a young marriage and she has realized it needs to stop. if we all jump out of marriage at the first offence nobody would remain married. when u comment think first.....anyway as for me i will never apologise...this will be the end of my shit flushing duites...lol...make marriage scatter from there oh cos this entitlement is too much
Deleteobviously, his mum spoilt him. I would advise that you put up with it, because it looks like he cant change. If you feel you cant put up with it, you might have to put your feet down. and this might lead to more issues from him and his mum.
ReplyDeleteDisgusting indeed! Women don suffer for this institution called marriage! What type of man is this?u poo and wait fr ur wife to flush cos ur hands are cut off or what?even d mother is an enabler,imagine what she said to her! God! How do I unread this disgusting news? God forbids a man like this and family..
ReplyDeleteYou spoilt him. You have been doing it for long so now he sees it as your duty and not a favour. That is why it is advised what you can't continue don't start.
ReplyDeleteChai!!! Some women have suffered sha!
ReplyDeleteSome women dey chop shit fr marriage! Flush ur poo for what reason?what a dirty husband and foolish MIL.Please if you ask your house help to always flush your poo,you are also as wicked ,dirty and foolish as this man.I guess the lady started the flushing during courtship.
ReplyDeletewhy take dis long before u changed it for him?madam u allowed him nah, d first time u noticed it,u should have called him to order n make a mountain out of it.....dat ur husband is a wizard jare very wicked somebody!!!
ReplyDeleteMy brothers are just like your husband and they are both married...
ReplyDeleteThey don't flush the toilet after they have pooed and I feel they learnt this disgusting habit from my dad because he is just like them too and my mum was always fighting with him because of it...
I was with my brothers some few weeks back and they still have this disgusting animalistic habit, their wives flushes their poo..
One of the wife was asking me if he has always been like this and I blantantly told her that he has always been a "filthy pig"..
It is totally hard to live with such a filthy entitled badly raised pig who thinks that the women in their lives are servants...
Like how do you poo and not flush, you want to give your wife toilet infection ni?
Respect your husband they say, how can you be respected when you are not giving her something to be respected for?
Just imagine the nonsense. It’s so annoying.
DeleteSay what? Hian!
DeleteEewwwww
DeleteHei God o. God knows I can't o
DeleteSince when did flushing become a chore? Na wa o. So who flushes after when he was single or whenever he uses the loo out of the house? Very bad habit.
DeleteSomething's wrong with those men you called your brothers and even your dad, I'm sorry to say that but I don't know how a sane human being will use toilet and not flush properly and leave the toilet seat clean after use.
DeleteI blame your mom and your brother's wives for putting up with pigs..
1318, it means their wives knew from the beginning when they were dating and they still married them..
DeleteThank you for your honesty.
Oops!! Meant to say, @1316.
Delete1318 is something else.
Yuck 🤢 who raised these men like this?
ReplyDeleteOh my God!!! The mum even said the wife is disrespectful.
You poo and expect me to flush it....wifely dories. You are a beast. Am I your poo flusher?
All these dirty ill bred beasts.
Women, don’t start what you can’t finish.
You know what’s wrong from right. Don't condone such all in a bid to make your marriage work. Stop flushing his poo, he can go to hell with his smelly poisonous poo. Nonsense.
Why do people like this exist abeg? I'm so confused right now.
ReplyDeletePut the shit for him food make him chop. This na 2020, shine your eyes, no time for dullness.
ReplyDeleteSo, putting the poo in his food is shining your eyes in 2020?
DeleteWhat nonsense??
DeleteGet out of that house
ReplyDeleteWhat the fuck is that
Just to flush your poo
Like something that comes out from you should be flush by your wife.
Mother and son has shown the typical example of how terrible there relationship is.
And the mistake you made was not telling that stupid mother of is,if she can flush her son's poo.
Stupid people
Big banty
no need to leave just raise dust each time he does it na him go taya
DeleteThe man has a very wicked and dirty habit,he is not ready to change according to his behavior. In the interest of peace in that house, anytime its dirty you flush it. I suspect you are a house wife. If both of you leave the house early morning and come back late, at times you delay so that he will meet his shit first,maybe then he might have a rethink.
ReplyDeleteYuck! Their house must stink!
DeleteNdi husband ,i must marry by fire by force.God forbid this type of husbandry.
ReplyDeleteso his mother has been flushing for him long before he got married? Na waaaaaaa!
ReplyDeleteMadam!! If you are reading this blog..Do you have two toilets at home?? If yes make sure you locked up one toilet both through the key knob, Put Tokotaya and use padlock as well.. To be used only by you and your kids and always hold the key..He should keep messing up the other toilet dont flush it again...Then call his mother to come and flush the toilet for him...🤣🤣🤣
DeleteU woman take shit all in the name that I want to marry and later in the marriage you start complaining about the bullshit. I have a male colleague like your husband,each time I complain to him that he should flush his poo,he tells me that his wife does that and his a woman duty😳🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️Obviously his wife has been doing that even before they got married.
ReplyDelete@1326, You mean he does that at work? Very unsanitary!!
DeleteHis sack letter will be sweet to type, plus the reference I'll give his new employer. Kmt
DeleteAm nt surprised! this marriages thing is just too over hype its coming from African Ladies. Some of you will soon wear diapers for hubby
ReplyDeleteEvil men everywhere. Imagine the audacity
ReplyDeleteIf na dangote poo I go flush am oo
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha. I don't trust you, you will use his shit for sacrifice so that anything you want, you get
Delete@1329, For where?? Dangote will hardly be home sef. He will be so busy with meetings, traveling, etc
DeleteWhere you wan see him kini to flush??
On a different note, even if it’s Bill Gates, l will not flush. All man for himself. The smell once you enter is disgusting enough. I pity the women doing it sha.
Hmmm, Madam leave he's done with ya!
ReplyDeleteDon't offload your husband.
ReplyDeleteDont run your mouth.
Be submissive and respectful.
Please continue to flush his poop, a woman builds her home and not destroy it.
Weldone ma!!!
Just negodu ndi uta! Idi okay? 😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteANG biko bia...
Ikwokwokwokwokwokwo
DeleteYou forgot to tell her to go the extra mile and wipe his yansh after he finishes shitting
After all Jesus also preached about going the extra mile, abi no be so?
mschhewww nonsense irritating talk. desperate pick-me oshi!
Delete@ snarker, na so. Let her kuku finish the work, wipe his bum and wear his diapers!!!
DeleteThere is nothing I won't read. If this marriage fails, some bastards will still blame the wife.
It is always the woman's fault, what a society!!!
I can't imagine my wife's son telling me this type of nonsense, that she is flushing the toilet for an adult when she is not a care worker, arrrh!!!
Parents raise your children right. Do not focus on the girl child alone.
@ 14.58, you don't need to be super intelligent to know that 13.30 is being sarcastic.
DeleteNo be if you go better school you go understand sarcasm? People wey reply you know if them finish primary six
DeleteMost bad habits from men stems from their mothers. Let's try to train the boy child very well. My neighbour still washes his 12yr old boxers and singlet even up to socks not to talk of uniform and play clothes. I adviced her to try and let his son sweep and do little things so as to pity his future wife. They have washing machine at home but she will never let her son and even the elder sis in SSS class wash. She's always shouting at them
ReplyDeleteI have seen a matured guy of 40yrs that his mum still washes his clothes for. In fact, he enters his room, pull his clothes off and leave it on the floor there, the mother will rather come pick them or send his younger sister to bring them for her to wash.
DeleteIf all his clothes are dirty and the mother is yet to wash them, he will start wearing his father's own. Imagine!
Start wearing his father's own ke 😱😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteMost bad habits from men stems from their mothers. Let's try to train the boy child very well. My neighbour still washes his 12yr old boxers and singlet even up to socks not to talk of uniform and play clothes. I adviced her to try and let his son sweep and do little things so as to pity his future wife. They have washing machine at home but she will never let her son and even the elder sis in SSS class wash. She's always shouting at them
ReplyDeleteI agree with you on your neighbours own and also the MIL in the write up. These mothers are spoiling their children.
DeleteHOWEVER! boys tend to emulate their fathers. Modelling good behaviour is important for men as their sons will do as they do not as they say. Women get blamed for everything in this world. I’m sure next they will say that women are the cause of climate change. Women are blamed for divorce hence why they put up with shit in marriage, in this case literally.
LMAO 😁😁 @ wearing his father's own 🙆🙆🙆
DeleteIt was mentioned on a radio program (Its Ok with Okey) yesterday and I was like, what? Hian!
ReplyDeleteWoman, you allowed it that was why he saw it as normal. Ish!
This is not marriage biko. It's things like this that creates fear in the hearts on single ladies. Na wa!
Yes oh so you listen to the show Cynthia!! Great..I was beyond disgusted listening to the story
DeleteWhat a sick man raised by an equally sick mother.
ReplyDeleteEvery mallam with him kettle...
ReplyDeleteMost mother support their children filthy characters and behaviour.
I have a room mate who litter the room and expect you to clean it, and complain bitterly when you do not clean.... she does this every now and then, so dirty a human, she does not bath at night, leave left over in the room.
Aside marriage, some people are difficult to live with no matter how patient or calm you are, they bring out the beast in you....
May God help us all
This thing swing both way abeg, only that most men don't like complaining about their wives.Perhaps some women raised the men so what are we talking about. It is now left for the woman to either stay or leave. No one can give her the right advice.
ReplyDeleteAs a man, I feel bad reading this. This life shaa, who get head nor get cap and who get cap nor get head. My wife does this too when we got married newly, she's changing sha, but I wonder why lever is so difficult to push or turned.
ReplyDeleteThis woman should not apologize in any way. Rubbish
Few months into marriage my husband pooed and forgot to flush. Coming back from work I was pressed you know that kind of feeling pressed that immediately you got to the front of your house the urine will almost start dropping, I was happy I was home, I rushed to the toilet and met poo. Gosh I was mad 😡 😡😡😡😡. The press to pee disappeared at the sight of it. I took my phone texted my husband on what I saw. He was like okay I got madddddddddeeerrrrrrrrr. When he came home he went to the toilet flushed it himself.
ReplyDeleteInstead of him to say sorry about what happened or just keep quiet , he was querying me on why I didn’t help him flush. Me flush your pooooooo Jesu!!!!! Gosh!!!!! I acted like a mad woman that night because I can’t keep up with rubbish.....na him beg last last. He has never seen me in that mad mood before. Women abeg don’t start what you cannot finish.
You should have flushed it instead of making such big deal out of it, that was a mistake on his part. I am sure you spoke rudely to him, that was why he didn’t apologize at first. Have you never made a mistake before 🤷🏿♀️
Deletehmm..if it was a one off something you could have flushed it but still send a text about it i wonder if there are other issues apart from the toilet incident?? because your anger seems beyond that
DeleteI should have flushed abi... you people should stop speaking from the both side of your mouth. I should have flushed Naso e Dey start wey I go continue Dey flush and start writing chronicles like the woman. When I texted him, he said okay. What happen oh my love I forgot I was in a rush when leaving the house but all he said was okay and I should have flushed it ba! Eshe gan eku advice.
DeleteAnon there were no other issue o. But his reaction to it seems nonchalant. So I had to give him hot so he can know such habit can’t and won’t be condone in our home. Naso e Dey start.
DeleteIf she had not reacted like that, he would become like the man in this post.
DeleteMy husband will never leave his poop or urine for another person to see let alone flush. If I see his poop in the toilet, I know he forgot and will happily flush without mentioning it.
DeleteYou did the right thing anonymous, always set the tone ..
DeleteI have three big brothers that are married and do not flush their poo and it all started from this...
One- offs because I was in a hurry became a constant thing...
Maybe if they were lashed out at their one- offs and I wasn't helping them to flush their poos, maybe their wives will not be flushing poos by now...
If you have never lived with pigs like these, Biko keep your unsolicited onye Emeka advice...
ok i hear you all but that aggressive anon 16;20 you are not the initial commentator so chill abeg ...if it was a singular event you flush and find out why this happened and then express your displeasure but she has explained her anger was with his reply so i now understand better ...
DeleteNa wa oh!!! bad habit neva die!! that was how he was brought up by the mother supporting such filthy and irritating habit. How can a grown up man use toilet and leave it like that? is that how he leaves his office toilet or other public toilet after use?
ReplyDeleteIf you decide to go beg this man, be prepared to flush toilet for him for the rest of your life together.
she needs to be prepared to wipe his ass after he is done taking a sh*t
DeleteYou started it by not putting a stop to it when he was misbehaving.
ReplyDeleteThrash mother raising thrash son.
ReplyDeleteMy ex husband mom also told me same.
She told me what was my work if I cant be flushing his poo.
Divorced his sorry ass.he should go and marry his mother.
Hi
so demeaning., i think the man that expects his wife to do that doesn't really love her. he sees her as a mere slave and wants to humiliate her with style
DeleteIn summary, no home training...
ReplyDeleteAbeg let him stay away if he likes, at least you wont be flushing poo for the period he is away. Women should raise their boy child properly. Women have been taking shit from men since 20 BC nonsense!
ReplyDeleteDIVORCE HIM!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhere do ladies get these kind of men. I hope you didn't marry for money. Your hubby seems to be an entitled and spoilt 'child'.
ReplyDeleteThis is total rubbish.
I don't like dirty toilets. I wouldn't like someone else to even see my poo.
That was how one videoed call me when washing cloth and told stylishly told me when we get married I would wash his clothes.
ReplyDeleteEven my own clothes I do not wash them so what are you saying? I know there are millions of women who would wash his clothes, but I am not those women. I don't wash clothes.
I think they have to fetch water to flush. Even at that, you go with a bucket of water to the loo.
ReplyDeleteYour scenario makes so much sense because I can’t for the life of me figure out how pushing down a lever is so much work that it has to be delegated to a woman!
DeleteYou better pack your load
ReplyDeleteWherever the idiot has gone to, I pray he poos and calls you to come and flush it, overzealous head of house mentality
ReplyDeleteI feel like beating the whole poo that he would have to poo in the entire life of your horseband right now....
ReplyDeleteYou need to see my face as i was reading this bombshell, oh! How i wish i did not read it in the first place.
Ordinary urine if you did not flush you are in trouble in my house talk more of poooooooo. I can't stand a dirty man abeg. As for the Mother i will tell her on phone that if she is so pained, she should come over and baby sit his grown arse dirty pig of a son.
Like Mother like son!
many nigerian men are entitled because their mothers raised them to think they are the precious treasures to be cherished and not the women. disgusting all around, you married a child. tell him and his mom to kick rocks and get him a nanny to be wiping his poo since he wants to act childish. nasty idiot
ReplyDeletePure rubbish from son and mother
DeleteEven dating, first visit I will not tell you because I am coming to see if you are a clean person. Even by ordinary tucking in or walking, I know a dirty man sef. I cannot pick stockings or boxers off the floor and I find it a great punishment washing my own clothes, how much more a man's own no matter the 'love' or societal PRESSURE. HOW MUCH MORE FAECES even if he forgot to? Cleanliness is a self-discipline and personal habit learned from infancy (as from 2 years, toilet habits are taught which defiles major aspects of human development including where and how a man uses his penis for sex, yes). Watch man who can bring out their dick to pee along the road, on their car tires etc, they can insert their dick into anything anytime and anywhere. Me flush adult faeces wey be say him no dey terminally sick? God forbid one million times.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteGod forbid billions and billions times
DeleteThe most annoying part of the story is the mum's reply, Imagine a mother who would have hide in shame is talking of disrespecting. I am very sure the guy is a breadwinner or her only son because some of them are badly raised.
ReplyDeleteIn this life, we all should not start what we can't end or accept on a long run. Both the mum and son needs a public disgrace for disrespecting and degrading the reasons by which marriage is instituted. It will serve as a lesson for the remain pigs in man shape. Ahhhh!!! Women we don suffer na he small.
Maybe he grew up in a home where dem nor get water to flush toilet... so dem fit dey later dia poops until water reach to flush all commot at once🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteI nor fit laff... this forum ehnnn.... e nor get wetin person nor go read for here o!😛😛
LMAO! You don craze o 😂😂
DeleteThis guy must be very dirty I wonder how you sleep with him because I know people like him dont clean up after having a poo.
ReplyDeleteI live abroad and the was I day our water was turned off for like 2hrs and I was not aware of it just went into the toilet and after I realised there was no water in the toilet thank having flushed when I was about using it and my wife will be coming home in the 2hrs and i dont want her to see my poo I had to call me office to let them know I will be coming late that something came up .
The same thing affecting my brother, he is a pig, very dirty,always smelling na the babe wey he go marry I pity. She is aware and she acts unbothered like it's Normal
ReplyDeleteShe won’t complain she’ll rather live in misery for the rest of her life smh
DeletePossible Scenarios
ReplyDeleteI wonder if the husband calls her name like little children when he is through using the toilet.
Husband:Honey i have finished pooing
Wife:Okay honey,am coming.
OR
Husband:When you are done frying the dodo,go and flush the toilet.
Wife:Okay dear
OR
He allows her to meet it when she enters the toilet or perceive it.
When she forgets to flush
Husband:Babe i told you to flush the toilet
Wife:Oh sorry i forgot.
Husband:Go and flush it now
Why is she complaining??? She cannot tell me she didnt sense all this when they were dating? She saw it and probably said to herself, I'll manage it, or it'll get better, or he will change! What you tolerate in courtship, chances are 9/10 you'd tolerate more! So now she wants a change uncommon to the man, she needs to stand her ground because if she gives in now, she will continue to give in!
ReplyDeleteThe man needs help. He has mental health issue possibly personality disorder with a bit of psychosis. Please don't run away from him, try and take him to a clinical psychologist he will be fine after few weeks of therapy.
ReplyDelete1) he didn't flush the toilet, again, as usual
ReplyDelete2) instead of feeling ashamed, accepting responsibility and flushing or getting some water, an ADULT male calls his mother over his own failings in the hygiene department.
3) his mother does not scold sense into him or apologize to you to calm things down but rather eggs him on.
4) the man child you married decided to run away from his excrement- both physical and otherwise.
My questions are-
1) why did you flush it down the first time? Ok, And the second? And the upteenth time? I have also overlooked something like this in the past from a replace so I am not judging but wanting you to share that mindset so we can learn.
2) why are you looking for him? Wherever he is, your toilet isn't smelling and you are not questioning your sanity. Let me assure you, where he is now, he is flushing his own poop because no slave is looking out for him.
3) when you saw the signs that he was someone who gets off on demeaning women, especially you, why did you hang on? Be honest, this is not the only thing he does to communicate his complete lack of respect for you and this is not the first time you'd notice the unhealthy bond between him and his mother.
3) if you have sons, how are you raising them? To live recklessly so God's children can pick up after thdm? How are you raising your daughters? To endure such things in love? To realize that boys will be boys? To permit themselves to be disrespect, demeaned, dehumanised and dismissed because that's their destiny? Are you your MIL in the making?
I remember being advised to wash undies as a sign of love in marriage. I am someone whose spirit revenges against me whenever I let myself get trampled upon. I explained I would never because it's not a love language- it is not about love but POWER. I asked if my own undies could also be washed and the adviser balked in response. I realized that if a person who isn't a paraplegic gets happy because you're washing dirty briefs, that person is looking for who to control, not love. That guy won't get a high if you handwashed rags- he wants to expose you to the dirtiest parts of him because he sees you as less than himself. Years later, she had forgotten the advice and was talking about how she no longer washes his undies and regrets ever doing so, how it was nonsense and how it made him take her for granted, how stopping has made him sit up, how he is a user... I reminded her of her advice and how I thankfully knew it would be a sin for me.
Putting yourself in ungodly positions that belittle a life you can't create is sin. It is not until you have sex outside marriage or settle for second fiddle.
Even those situations are because we judge the person in the mirror to be undeserving of basic respect. Our life and person is a sacred gift- you can't have both and truly say that you have received nothing from above. To offer such gifts anything less than the best will offend our creator. If a person looks to give you shit, literally or otherwise, you are not divinely permitted to manage it. Stay away from disrespect.
If you have more than one toilet, lock it and start using it alone with your children. You'll find out that he isn't as tolerant of his own poop as you've been all this time- what he's dishing, he won't serve to himself.
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Chei when I read such things I wonder why I am harassing my husband over the small small annoying things he does. He doesn’t do half of what women complain about here. He takes his own clothes to the dry cleaner, cook, serves me when he does, helps me clean out and is still generous and a great dad upon that. Oh and he flushes his own poo. Na woman be him own wahala wey Dey make me shout. I tire o. This world everyone get their own.
ReplyDeleteBye bye to yeye husband, ike nshi
ReplyDeleteWhat a silly childish entitled man
ReplyDeleteThat's how my MIL told me that 'it's a woman who provides', when I told her how her son borrowed from me & refused to pay back peacefully.
ReplyDeleteI blurted out God forbid and asked her if that's the advice she gave her own daughter? Shame to all bad parents who raise users and abusers!