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Please house I need your opinion on this. How would you handle a situation where by, your sisters-in-law who comes to stay with you and your husband for her Nysc refuses to eat your food because she doesn’t like that variety of food. Then she goes out to buy food stuff to cook for her self. Would you condole such in your house? Please I need your advice.
Why are you looking for trouble where there is none?Did she use your money to buy the food stuff`So if she does not eat that particular food,she should starve to death.......you give off the impression of a trouble maker please!
Why is Kitchen and food such a big deal for some women?I don't get it!..Please give your sister in law breathing space to cook her own food if she does not want to eats yours and with a good reason..
petty behaviour and you also sound bitter,wetin she do you?
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ReplyDeleteWhat happened
DeleteHope all is well Miss Ess? It is well.
DeletePoster that her sister inlaw cooks her own food.
DeleteI lived with my sister before I got married. I cook my own stew and soup because there's a certain fish she likes that I don't like. She buys what I like for me though. Even now her nannies cook their own food. They give her list of what they want and she buys it.
Your sister inlaw is an adult. I'm very sure if she's your sister you won't complain. Let her know you're suppose to cater for her need so she shouldn't be buying food stuff in your house. Ask her what she likes eating and buy it at home so she can cook from it. Make una no quarrel. #myopinion
BV with sister-in-law ish
DeleteAs Ms Stella said, you are looking for trouble where there is none
Leave the girl to her whims and caprices
It's not a big deal
What she is doing is not disrespectful in any way
Live your life and don't fret over her matter
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Ask her nicely why she doesn't eat your food, if she doesn't like your cooking, cook her kind of food sometimes. Let your hubby know as well before your in-laws will hear their daughter is feeding herself in her brother's house.
DeleteThank you Swag. I need not say more.
Delete@swag lafresh, you're wise sis. Good advise.
DeleteMiss Ess, kilode?
DeleteMadam you can jokingly tell her to put your own mouth in her food too. Eat her food, from there you can find out whether you cook pass her or not....
DeleteNo quarel
My dear I have one like her staying with me but I'm coaching/training her in my own little way even as she will be 20 years this year, she doesn't know how to cut okra, ugu, cook soup, stew, etc. I thank God she had learned how to cook beans, spaghetti this few months but I dey beat her because her mouth na 2 edged sword, you know those villa girls for East wey sabi talk anyhow like grand mothers na so she dey talk like old woman.
She has written waec but no result. Go for her fashion designing class, she said NO.
Make Una follow me dey pray for her too, I have given her one pray request to ask God to open her brain so that she can catch up like her mates this year.
Adult that doesn't like waking up until I wake her up, because I must cook afternoon food before I leave the house every morning. I DEY FIND WHO SABI COOK TO EVEN DEY STAY WITH ME.
Thank GOD that your sis-in-law can COOK.
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon bvs, happy day ahead of you.
DeleteAmen.
DeleteGood Afternoon blog visitors...
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon beeveeleons😎😎😎
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone. Poster allow your inlaw to prepare her own food or do you prefer her to starve.
ReplyDeleteSister in laws and food
ReplyDeleteSee me see wahala o 😮😮😮
You Naija girls that brand ya SILs "junior winches" even before you marry their brothers.
You know wetin I go do?
I go ask her to teach me how to make those types of meals, I will go to market with her, buy the things with our money and cook it with her and eat. That is being a good host.
Whatever she is eating is what your husband ate while he was growing up.
And nne, that ya husband may be enduring your meals o. Make you no write chronicles come yarn us say she go to chinyere house to chop food and chop "most palatable meals available".
Ahaaaa -full course buffet.
Will Naija girls hear?
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Hahahahaha not funny
DeleteHnmmm I agree with you on this. Your sister in-law should be your sis too. Pele pele o.
DeleteI think it is disrespectful to live in someone's house and say you can't eat their food, then you have no business living with them. Except for health issues.
DeleteHowever, it can be approached tactfully by both sides without rancour. But to say you can't eat what they offer is to insult their generosity. And no the woman feels slighted.
The sister in-law can introduce dishes nicely and teach the madam of the house. I like learning.
But you can't come in and say you will be cooking differently in my kitchen just like that. Not nice.
She should just give her sister-in-law her own space that is it. I like my guest to feel free in my zone.
Delete@Lady T
DeleteSo if I understand you, if you live in a Calabar woman house, you go dey chop anu nkita -dog meat? 😮😮
If you live with chingo people, you go dey chop frog nwa awo okwa ya?
Answer my sincere ajujus o
Because Sdk just asked that question at gun point and all of you were shouting "I can't, I cacan't, shoot...over my
dead body" 😮😮
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I agree 100% with you lady T, if she can't eat my food then she should not live with us. I think it's disrespectful, except it's on Health ground or with good reason. Like maybe beans gives you heart burns or purges you then you can make noodles or I can even make it for you. Or you don't like some little things that I can adjust. But say I cook egusi, you take my pot, lit my gas and cook another version. Nna it shall never happen. It's highly disrespectful ojare. I never did it while growing up, I go to people's house and they cook what I don't like nna! I managed, an so I take learn how to eat amala and ewedu. It's disrespectful carrying all your dislikes to someone's house. If you are too picky then learn to stay on your own. Which one is going to cook another version of food. In fact if you don't eat my food I get offended come be to lite fire. I can't pretend on this Lady T, you are right abeg.
DeleteIt is highly disrespectful and the poster should discuss the issue with her husband first, poster make him understand she doesn't like the idea of his sister cooking separately for me it is wrong and I hope she will be able to stand another lady doing that to her.
DeletePoster please allow her cook her own food... You might feel some type of way but since she is buying her foodstuff herself, doesn't eat the kind of meals you do and cleans up your kitchen afterwards... Just let her be sho gbon.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone,i hope our hustle is going on well
ReplyDeleteLet her cook her food, so far she's not using your money, afterall it's her brother's house too,or make she starve?
ReplyDeleteThank God I pay half of my rent!! It's our house. Anyway, I'll let her cook for the whole house then. What she cooks we all eat. This life I can't kill myself oooh.
DeleteYou will let her cook for the "WHOLE" house? Like it's a punishment🤨😒 So she will be the one doing the cooking as from today? Cooking for you all in your house? You aren't even specific with what is annoying you. Is it the wastage of gas,
Deleteor increase in the light bill when she uses the electric cooker? Because you just said she buys the food with her so I don't understand. Or is it a case of being the woman of the house and wanting to stamp your authority in your territory(kitchen).
Good, next time ask her what she intend to cook, if she tells you, just tell her to add the whole family's stomach
DeleteAnon 15:15, I think it is a case of being the woman of the house and wanting to stamp authority.
DeleteMy advise is that you allow sleeping dogs lie,whatever happens between you both during the duration of her stay in your house matters a lot, treat her well and with LOVE.
Madam you are a wicked woman. It is her brother's house too. Would you treat your sister that way?
DeleteYes. When my sisters visit and want to cook, they cook for everyone so yes my sisters do same.
DeleteI agree with you poster that her cooking she loved so much should be done for the whole family. I am sure she stop when you tell her to do that.
DeleteMadam leave your in law alone,it's not wrong,I believe she does not like your cooking
ReplyDeleteThis your statement about the cooking is not too nice. Some SIL will be texting or talking to people at home that the wife is starving her by cooking what she deoes not eat. Most are terrible people and i dont blame the wife getting worried. When they will discuss her, no one will be there to fight for her including her husband.
ReplyDeletePoster do what suits you. Let your husband know what is going on but dont force het or quarrel her using your things to help her cooking.
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Yori Yori God bless you jare, someone even said it's her brothers house. There is just something wrong with it. It's even wrong showing you don't like someone's cooking. To even buying separate food stuff. I can't lie it's not about wickedness one ka odi. There is a signal it sends. When you go to Rome act like the Romans when you get to your house, you eat the way you like. Sometimes you do things to make the person squatting you happy. At least eat food or cook for the whole house.
DeleteTiana please shut up. Is it by force to like someone's cooking. Everyone have their taste. I am married and my house help sometimes doesn't like my cooking, i let her cook hers. I don't get offended and i can't send her away because of that. It is my house but i make sure everyone is comfortable. Wicked people everywhere.
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Madam please let your SIL be. Since she has a good reason for not eating your food.. She buys what she needs Abi? Cleans up after cooking? Biko, let is slide. Life is not that hard, besides she won't stay forever.
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DeleteIt is not proper that you're cooking with different pots, but there's nothing you can do right now. Tell her calmly that you don't like the Idea of her not eating with the rest family but, don't speak to her as if you hold grudges against her. Please, if she refused to listen to you, let her be. You can also ask her sometimes, what she would like to eat and if she name the food, you can tell her to cook it for everyone in the house so that you all can eat together or you can prepare the food yourself. No need fighting someone that is only living with you temporarily, especially not over foods.
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Good afternoon everyone..Hope you have a joyous day..Some people still dey holiday mood as I never do much today oh...Have a blessed day..
ReplyDeleteStella why you dey para like this this afternoon ehn?
ReplyDeleteI don't think the poster whose sister in law won't eat her food has asked a bad question. It just could be out of concern and not necessarily to make trouble with her. Dear poster, for the sake of peace, allow her be, as long as her brother ?your husband) ain't complaining, before she gives you a bad name.
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ReplyDeleteHello from IB city... Abeg make uba help me judge this matter... At what age is it appropriate for a nursing mother to resume work or any thing at all.. So I went out to a fashion school today so as to enrol there... I came back and told do that I want to resume on Monday instead of staying idle.. Although,the owner of the fashion school advised that I cannot cope with their busy schedule cos of my baby and I told her that I can drop him with MIL since it is a 9 - 5pm job... And baby is already 6months old... So now dh wants me to stay at home doing nothing cos I have a baby...What do I do? matured advice pls
ReplyDeleteResumption for nursing mothers depends on where you work. Most is 3months though. 6months is good enough for you to resume business/work. Some men do not like the idea of another taking care of their baby but you need your life too. If you had a good job before having a baby, won't you go back to it? Talk to him and make him see reasons with you.
DeleteAlhajaposh it's good u started dis yr with such zeal but I feel ur baby is too young to be left with granny.u can arrange with d designer to close earlier than usual until ur baby is older.if it's my hubby he won't allow me o.
DeleteDid you not discuss this during courtship? I don't understand. What did you guys agree then?
DeleteListen to your husband for peace sake. You can look into something else like buying and selling for the main time, till your baby is one. Thats just 6 months away.
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I'll advise you allow her be if she doesn't like eating your food. She has already told you she can't eat that kind of food which you can't force her to. Leave her alone and don't act like you are offended, it's only a matter of time till she leaves. Be patient.
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I might never be able to live where I can't cook myself seriously. There's just how my family cooks and not many people cook that way. Leave aunty to cook for herself. I will have a problem with her if she doesn't clean up after cooking. Initially it will feel somehow because I don't know any married woman who would want another kitchen in her kitchen. For me, I kuku don't like stress. Cook your meals, clean my kitchen. Again it's not possible because people love my food I just don't cook that much.
ReplyDeleteThank God my dear. This life is not to hard. Why should food be causing problem? Cook whatever you want in my kitchen but clean up when you are done. You are even free to use my foodstuffs. Poster take that girl like your kid sister
DeleteKiks abeg make I perch here..pls o I can't take it o,a visitor in my house is a visitor wether inlaw abi siblings and a visitor doesn't have a place in my kitchen.
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Gas or kerosene is expensive. If she doesn't want to eat, she should buy food or bread and not waste gas in the name of eating preference.
ReplyDeleteBut courtesy demands she eats whatever you're eating or stylishly eat before coming home. What do I know self?
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Thank you jare some people will shouting leave her leave her as if is dat easy. Poster just endure it since she is staying for just a year.
DeleteGod bless you. Sometimes we are going too western. What is wrong is wrong. It Is 2 kitchen in one home.
DeleteIt wont work that way nau. For how long will they eat bread or eat out? My dad does not eat swallow right from childhood. So if he goes somewhere now he will he start forcing himself to eat it? There's nothing wrong with the SIL preparing her own food abeg.
DeleteThanks oh. It's just courtesy. I've lived with people at different times, I just had to learn to adapt to their various preferences or go back to my mother's house. I remember staying with my cousin and his wife for almost 5 months (ASUU strike), they eat pepper like it's going out of fashion!!! I saw she be being that I grew up in a house where pepper is almost non existent in our meals, but I still did not cook my meals separately. I used to joke regularly about their spicy food and on days when I was cooking for the house, I tried finding a balance (not too peppery and not bland). Na me carry load go do holiday with them abi.
DeleteAm I the only one that thinks it's wierd for your SIL to buy how own food? Why dont you include her own type of food when shopping?
ReplyDeleteNo you are not
DeleteAboki you get sense joor. this Tiana you must be a wicked woman in real life. I pity your in-laws
DeleteAnon 18:28 Aboki and Tiana are in agreement. You made me question my English for a second.
Delete@stella everything isn't trouble maker. Is it not money they use in buying gas?? If everyone that visits cooks, won't my husband and I move back to the village.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon housemates
ReplyDeletePoster,allow her to cook her own meals..moreover she's not collecting money from u to do it..she will be done with service soon,so bear it
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Food is the worst thing to use and quarrel.
ReplyDeleteIt shows some type of poverty growing up.
My opinion though
So true. How can even be angry because your SIL is cooking her own food. Are you a witch or a sadist?
DeleteVery stupid comment Anon 18:30
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ReplyDeleteBut maybe you are not even a good cook. I have found many women who thought they were amazing cooks to be subpar. I am very picky about flavour and I do not like to eat flavourless food or food full of Maggi and msg for flavoring because the person does not know how to use natural herbs and spices for flavour. Let her eat what her stomach can take in peace.
ReplyDeleteHow about her living in her own space then where she can cook all sorts of orisirisi and assorted
DeleteIt is a non issue. There is no law saying one has to eat something just because it is presented to them. Next she start eating food the same woman complaining now will start watching how much she is eating, start watching how much she has to spend on food. At least this way she can eat to her heart's content with nobody watching or murmuring the amount she takes or if she is putting a strain on them financially because she has big appetite.
DeleteAnon 17:36 you have said it all
DeleteI just love this blog(love u momma stella)So a family of 6 with their house help died a day after new year.Only one of their children survived.May God continue to protect us all
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ReplyDeleteThe lady whose sister in law is not eating her food. Talk to your husband about it. See if he can talk to her and handle the situation. Pray about the best way to approach the subject so as not to cause friction.
ReplyDeleteI understand how you feel, I would feel the same way. Try to reach a compromise with her.
Most likely her hubby won't side her. Its just not right having 2 kitchens in one. Like I said both parties cab shift and have a compromise as long as she is there.
DeleteBut it is rude and disrespectful to come into someone's home and say you can't eat their food. Regardless of the fact that its her brothers house. Its also the woman's matrimonial home. She knows how she runs her home.
The truth is when the chips are down most of you won't take it. Everyday Lady is cooking and her sis in-law cooks something else. You send wrong signals to the children etc. She has less authority where her brother is married and has a wife.
I am late
ReplyDeleteThose of you saying there is no biggie in SIL cooking her own separately una no fit take such I swear, do you know their financial capability it is very wrong if she cannot endure for just a year she should go get her own apartment shikenna
ReplyDeleteWhen my kids and I visited my brother in the US, I did my own cooking. My mother arrived months earlier n she told my brother’s wife to allow me sort my food n dat of my my kids. Her kids liked some of my food n would tell me to make some for them which I always did. But e get one kain fried rice my brother wife Dey cook ehhhh, anytime I see say she wan cook am, no cooking for me dat day ohhhhh. Na so I go dey lick mouth n nose join Dey salivate.
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