I have a very beautiful friend that this happened to..............
She used all her Sugar Daddies monies t set up the guys life and then she quit being a runs girl and married him......
They have been married for 14 years the last time i checked....
She told him how she got the money and his reaction was awesome...This man does not Joke with her OMG......
Now let me zero down to myself...Will i continue seeing him?NO!!!
No.......
ReplyDeleteYes.
DeleteI've done it. I can still do it
DeleteI have done worse sef. He hurt me and broke my heart when he felt he was good to go.
DeleteHe later came back and apologised because life dealt with him mercilessly.
He doesn't joke with me now! Like he can lay his life down for me to live. Good deeds pay sha.
It was HARD for me to forgive and I also tested others after he left and knew deep in me he was better despite his ungrateful ass that time.
If you met me that time or asked me this question that time, will advise you to go and wash your head and eyes with native sponge because issa big NO NO! I was so bitter towards men ehn. Hated them all!
Now that I know better and reaping the fruits overdose, will say *if you can do it without expecting anything, do. But if it will pepper you if he fucks up, assist in your tiny* way and face front o*. The disappointment can cause semi madness o 😎
Yes, I would. My love is intense
DeleteMaybe
DeleteHmmm God abeg o
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahaha this woman sef , your exclamation carry weight abeg lol.
DeleteLooool
DeleteI just choked on my tea 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteLol
DeleteYou're so freaking hilarious.. 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteWill i continue seeing him? YES!
ReplyDeleteSecond date is not enough to write him off.
God forbid. My aunty told me not to even date nor marry a guy that stays in a room and parlor, not when my mother comes for omugwo we will start raising center table to drop mattress before we sleep at night.
ReplyDeleteCeacer biko I don't want a memo oo
You will get one
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂@ raising center table to drop mattress before we sleep at night it got me laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteLmao @ warning to caesar 😂😂😂😂
Delete@Fan
DeleteAnd you think your auntie raised you well?
The evidence of her mistake is all over your parroting here.
The guy will borrow money to rent a mansion and you will agree to
marry him and end up in debt. That is how bereft of dignity your
reasoning is. 😮😮😮
Rhoda I don't want that guy's trouble too😂
DeleteGoodness I swear😊
Excited baby you can imagine😂
Choco dear the guy na serious wahala😂
😂😂😂bia nwanyi a!😂😂😂
DeleteHehehehehehhe
Delete@Fan you're forcing me to love you. Ceaser, back off oo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteLmao @raising centre table 🤣🤣
DeleteWe would keep being friends dont know about furthering things .
ReplyDeleteI've tried this one time it didnt end well.
Why won't you further things😂 Naija girls
DeleteDarling Fan
DeleteI've been there and I wouldn't go there a second time
Humans arent loyal .😂😂😂😂😂😂
Well yes if he is determine and not a lazy fellow.
ReplyDeleteMy DH didn't have his own place when I agreed to marry him.😊
ReplyDeleteA man's life does not depend in the abundance of his possession. That's what Jesus taught. I will go for character above all else.
And my friends?😊
Ajuju😊😊
Them go dump the man and curse his generations unborn
And write chronicles😜😜😜
Whosai. We go read am
AGN a man without his OWN place/apartment should not be thinking about marriage.
Deleteyou are proud that you agreed to follow someone with no direction. o ma se o
Delete@Fan
DeleteAnd so?
I married him nevertheless.
There was no crime he committed by living in his dad's house.
He could afford to rent ten of wherever you live in Nigeria now as at then.
But his priority was marrying me and I am very very cool with that.
He is a man of his own mind and never wanted to have anything to do with his
dad's wealth and that earned him my respect. He rejected an suv his dad gave
us after our wedding .
You should think like an adult for once.
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No big deal if a man doesn't have his own place. Some prefer staying home till they get married. If his parents house is nice and my man has a very good job what is my business if he is still living at home.
DeleteOnce we marry we will get our own place with his money. That money is the koko not where he is he staying.
@Busybee
DeleteYou came under my comment to sting me eh? 😊😊
Yes, I am very proud of him. Married to him for more than
10 years and he treats me right, never argued with him even for a minute
and have 6 kids (five + 1 adopted) and we aren't complaining.
Those of you that look beyond character to marry houses and property
will write chronicles to complain that you are being treated like one
of the property at home? And why won't he treat you like that, were
you not "bought?" What if you marry someone with a rented apartment, is that his house?
Isn't your reasoning childish?😂😂😂
Well that's how you see it and there's nothing wrong with that cos what works for one may not work for another.
DeleteI and hubby started our family in the little apartment I rented for myself back then cos he was staying in his parent's house.
After the rent expired, he started paying the rent himself till now that we are moving to a better place.
He didn't have then didn't mean he was lazy and couldn't afford to but sometimes circumstances cause certain situations.
It depends on the individual.
PS. We are happy together only that I kept complaining of the place being too small with a nasty environment.
Why can't a woman have her own place?
DeleteYou see the hypocrisy of so many ladies and that is why a lot of you are still single and will remain so for so long.
I'm not sure which anon you are, ambassador of poverty. Not every girl that won't date a poor man is looking for a rich man, some of us work hard, earn well and have standards. It doesn't matter how many millions he will have in the future, I'm not dating someone with mattress and no TV, and you need your head checked for defending such rubbish.
DeleteYou people are so desperate and lacking in self esteem that you can't even have expectations for your lives. Just follow the next available fellow and have 10 children, bearing Mrs. Your mates are building estates, be waiting for me to leave my job and husband to write chronicle for you to read with free data Radarada
@1:56
DeleteThose insults were not necessary.
anon 12:42 shut that your stinking mouth the FUQ up. was reading comments and had to respond to this your stupidity. me that I was forming struggle and build with a man all these years on top love. lol. was still single until I wisened up. all it earned me was humiliation, insults and ungrateful men. i am sure you are a dusty broke man or a desperate pick me woman(them go soon teach you sense if so). get into your thick dumb skull we don't all have same luck or same destinny. some are meant to build up a man and they get lucky and he stays loyal. some like me are so blessed that we don't have to build up anyone's son or become his second mother. we meet already made man that invests into us and builds us up , knows we can stand on our own funds but still MANS up to pamper us financially. That's a real MAN! sth u aint familiar with due to your countless years of subpar low effort busted and disgusted dating.
Deletemost desperate pick me women loathe that there are women like us. DUSTY men LIKE YOU HATE that you will never be man enough to take care of household without a woman's help. lmao and come online to say jealous things out your smelly mouth like we will never get married but you dumb bishes are to blind to see that WE GET MARRIED EVERYDAY! to high value alpha men. kind of man you will NEVER be. i AM an example and just in case u have something dumb to respond with, I am not jobless enough to come and read it talk less of going back and forth with your dusty self
anon 12:10 you dumb bob the builder bishes do KNOW that there are rich men who are also good men right.? being comfortable and a decent person are not mutually exclusive. infact going by news in naija everyday it seems the poor frustrated men are the ones who cheat and kill their wives and beat their wives on a regular basis. you pick me's just want to feel better about settling for the first man that came your way and building him up financially and struggling even when you're not sure of his loyalty. and that's fine. but what you're not gonna do is insult or be bitter towards women that choose a more hypergamous life, marrying well to do already made men. if u were so happy with your marriage decision then why are you always online telling such women that they are golddiggers and will remain single?? sounds like you're not as happy as u claim to be. but u fail to realize we ALL have choices in life. SOME of us Waited to choose the best men who will serve their best and mutual interest. while you chose to settle for less and jump at the first man who showed you attention all in the name of being MRS. we are not the same!
DeleteYes o I will gladly set him up
ReplyDeleteThen he dumps you for one who never contributed a kobi in his life. Dem never do you strong thing.
Deleteanon 20:51 allow her na. she may just be among the lucky few like ighodalo's wife. or she will learn her lesson the hard way. either way it is her experience to have
DeleteIt depends!
ReplyDeleteHave I done it before yes.. I dated my corper boyfriend.. Guy was really at his lowest as at then. I used to buy us things, I knew he doesn't have. I did so so much for us. That was when I found out I can go extra for this love thing. We eventually passed out and separated, tried the long distance thing but it was hard. we are still friends today and chat once once.. The last time he wrote me he said Babe let's get married. lol..Maybe dude is waiting for me to go first before he gives up.
ReplyDeleteThe heart wants what the heart wants. I've grown ever since, will I still do it.. I really don't know, but the people I meet now are not at that level but I found out from my service years that if I Love, i can overlook a lot and adjust. Esp if it grows from friendship and its worst if feelings are involved.
Yes I would. The only thing that would make me stop seeing him eventually is if he is contented with his situation and doesn't make any effort for it to improve.
ReplyDeleteI don't care about TV.... But, at this stage of my life, meeting such men or even crossing paths with men who only have mattress on the floor is not possible mehn.
ReplyDeleteAs in! See why I love you 😂😂
DeleteWell said!!!!
DeleteThank you!!!!!!!!!
You think so? We still have guys in their last 30s still squatting with a friend, so just imagine when that one wan mature
DeleteAh!You are so right.
DeleteHahaha
DeleteNow this is it！
Brutally honest.
What if he is pretending to be poor？
You could miss a Prince you know？
Of course I'll keep dating him! Stella, have you ever heard of potential? If he has potentials: intelligent, hardworking, focused, determined etc., a woman would be a fool to leave him. You don't walk away because you meet a cook cleaning the meat they are preparing to use to make some delicious pot of soup do you?
ReplyDeleteWell done
DeleteOnly GOD knows the difference between the one who will serve you when the meal is ready and the one who will cook with you and use your ingredients and utensils
And drive you away when the meal is ready
Yes! I'll keep seeing him. I won't right a good, hardworking and a promising man off just yet, naaa I won't, except he doesn't have these good qualities and may have lied when we just me.
ReplyDeleteHi Cynthia🤗
DeleteYes, I will continue seeing him as long as he is not lazy
ReplyDeleteYes I will, provided he has a good heart and hard working...
ReplyDeleteIf he's the type of man I see that is not lazy. Trying everything in his power to make it. Great potential. Yes, would keep seeing him. The rich and famous we have today had the stories of their struggling days.
ReplyDeleteDepends sha.
ReplyDeleteIf he's lazy and unambitious, then he can screw off.
I can smell a man with great potentials for success a mile away. If his future looks bright and he's a good man in general, then why not? He doesn't have to be a millionaire now lol.
I will not settle for a poor man, not possible. After all you did not meet me in my father's house suffering.
I plead the 5th.
ReplyDeleteVery big yes
ReplyDeleteWhen I met dh we had nothing
ReplyDeleteUniversity lovers.... We rented apartment with our earnings.
A room and parlour duplex with just mattress on the floor. After a year, the turn around was awesome. Looking back 5years ago, never regretted sticking with him.
This year we are moving to our house and can afford to travel anywhere. Friends just look at us and smile.
He worship the ground I walk. Marry your friend and you wont regret.
Congrats and I'm happy for you.
DeleteA room and parlour duplex kwa...I smell small lies
Delete"Room and parlour duplex" 😂😂😂
DeleteI'm sure she meant a room and parlor self contained which has a set of stairs from the parlor downstairs to the bedroom room upstairs.
DeleteHe sure will worship the ground you walk if you are greatly complimenting him with your earnings and all.
Men are usually very nice when Madam is dropping steady in the house.
I leave in a mini flat duplex. My living room and kitchen is down and my bedroom with its corridor and bathroom is upstairs. My Landlord is a Londoner and I was amazed when I saw it, that was my first time of seeing a room and parlour duplex
DeleteDoes he have a job? Does he have plans and milestones set out and which he is working towards? Yes I can continue dating him. Definitely won’t cut him off after the second date.
ReplyDeleteI would have loved to OR let's just say back then I would. but you see, I have learnt my lesson the hard way no matter what I WILL NEVER BUILD WITH A BROKE GUY AGAIN or a guy with "potentials" after what they've made me go through? God forbid! nowadays you are free to call me a gold digger! I said what I said!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you.
DeleteNo body can call you gold digger, no need to waste precious time with broke nigger as they are never loyal.
DeleteI did that for my ex I never considered he had nothing, I was ready to build with him. I supported him with my money, bought him clothes, shoes, helped him get a good apartment, helped him made chairs, oga furnished his house boom na cheating, carrying other babes. He feels I miam money miss road.
ReplyDeleteIf it was before now I will stay to help him grow buy now I will not even waste two seconds I will share goodness in fellowship. I didn't come to this world to suffer mtcheeeew mtcheeeew mtcheeeew
Na their way o like this
DeleteNa their way looool
Why wouldn't he cheat when he's had enough of your kpekus? When they tell you girls to close your legs you wont hear. Who lose?
DeleteAnonymous bullshit spewer virgins have also done the same thing and gotten the same result.
DeleteLie nsi
😂😂😂😂 Ezigbo rie nsi
DeleteYes! provided he has a hustling spirit and very ambitious.
ReplyDeleteSo far I realise that woman who build with their husband have more respect and say in their marriage than the opposite. My opinion anyway.
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in my own opinion, as in my opinion... No No. life is a choice people, how you want it is how it will be.most young guys own duplex and so... and that's where my heart keeps pointing to.. problem is how to locate those guys
ReplyDeleteExactly.... But would you rather remain single if you don't locate such Duplex owning guys? 🤷
DeleteYes I will. Did it with my then boyfriend now husband, we are living like that time Neva existed. He spoils me silly just because I was there when he had just mattress on the floor.he got a multi-million deal from a bank and we've never been less greatful to God. LIFE IS FUNNY!
ReplyDeletewell count yourself among the lucky few. we don't all have same kind of luck. me personally I will never try such again and won't advise anyone to do so either. All it got me was humiliation, embarrassment, insults and a broken heart. I was willing to stay and build but I guess God has bigger plans for me and wants me to start off with a made man that I did not have to make myself. congrats again sha
DeleteI have to hear from God VERY CLEARLY to proceed to avoid stories that touch. Been there done that and not ready to tow that path again except of course like i said i hear from God assuring me of its expected end lol.
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ReplyDeleteBlog fam and the real OA, Pls help me interprete the meaning of giving ur wristwatch to someone inthe dream. It happened twice n both were willingly done. Im very distuibed. Anything i should do?
ReplyDeletemay mean you are giving too much of your time to someone or something that may not be worth it
DeleteI have done it before and will do it again. Love is a beautiful feeling. I will help him get something decent and If he chooses to walk after all the assistance l rendered, that’s his own business. Deep down, l doubt he will forget his humble beginning.
ReplyDeleteI did same,today I have more than 5 properties in my name bought by my sugar,when I met him he was squatting with friends no b say me get but the little I had I sacrificed all of it,it wasn't easy at first but Mercy found us.
ReplyDelete💪 恭喜你
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