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Hmmmm....Na wa
ReplyDeleteProblem is feminists and civilization .
ReplyDeleteNo lady wants to be submissive. They can't even work hard to pay their bills, yet they want equal right
So now women are to be blamed for the rate of divorce?
DeleteGod bless you.... though, sometimes, its Incompatibility, but I have also seen so many marriages fail bcos of Feminism.
Deletea man should provide for you, yet you cant cook for him.
may God help us all...
I beg to differ, anon 11:05.
DeleteYour reasoning is biased.
What about the men you have refused to dump the life of bachelorhood.
Some are yet to leave their father and mother and cleave to the woman they claim to love and married.
Many have refused to grow up and be responsible to their spouses and immediate family.
No one should get married or be pressured to marry if you know you can't be committed, ready to sacrifice and put in much work.
Yes, marriage is work.
You, yes you and your spouse must be ready to put it much work to make your marriage successful.
Marriageis a union of two forgivers and committed people.
It's mostly due to incompatibility, unwillingness to compromise from both sides and lack of love.
DeleteThis is of course apart from the obvious cases of domestic violence
I thought marriage is between a man and a woman, how come you're blaming women alone for the divorce? Nawa
DeleteProblem is Nigerian men cheat too much and this generation is not willing to take the shit our mother's and grandma's took.
DeleteEvery woman works now so her leaving is much easier.
Nigerian men see women as slaves. I wake up as early as 5am, prepare kids,feed them,drop them off at school. Go to my own office,work beside men. Still get home to cook,sort out kids,husband still demand for sex and attention. All this while keeping your figure and trying to stay young for him. While you also contribute with bills. It is alot for women.
80% is Incompatibility. Parents giving kids ultimatum
DeleteSo the men who disrespect their wives by cheating, being financially irresponsible, controlled by their family members and being emotionally and physically abusive are not to blame, abi?
DeleteOr where in the post did you see that women are the ones submitting the applications?
FYI, feminism is the reason you and your daughters can have an education, have a job, own a business and even vote.
Just because some badly behaved women call themselves feminists does not mean feminism is wrong.
The rates of husbands cheating on their wives is too much, some men don't even feel guilty
DeleteExactly @12:04, that’s why I am very careful with labels, cos depending on how loud a badly behaved ‘feminist’ is, women who are just doing their thing will just be painted with one brush.
DeleteI know what I believe in, equality of all men and women in the society and right for all to have access to opportunities, education, free speech, etc, to actualize their goals and explore their potentials. I also know I hold a fairly traditional view with respect to the family unit. I don’t know if this makes me a feminist or not, and I don’t care.
Women are becoming financially independent now.
DeleteSecondly, they are also getting support from their family. The rate of women killed by their spouses are increasing and parents and churches are accepting divorce now more than ever.
Third factor is the awareness. Thanks to social media.
Women are becoming financially independent now.
DeleteSecondly, they are also getting support from their family. The rate of women killed by their spouses are increasing and parents and churches are accepting divorce now more than ever.
Third factor is the awareness. Thanks to social media.
God save marriages
ReplyDeleteAmen oh
DeleteInstead of killing, pouring acid on them or taking off their teeth let their divorce be granted to allow them free themselves.
ReplyDeleteThank you jare. Shebi if Maryam Sanda or her husband had filed for divorce and separated before she "murdered" him, she wouldn't be appealing a death sentence in 2020. My dear people of God, if it's still not werking after you've given it your very best, separate or divorce mbok. Leave to live. If you die, the sun will still shine tomorrow. Life goes on with or without you.
DeleteAmebonawork 👏
Deleteif it doesn't work it's best they left the union, than end up killing themselves .
ReplyDeleteI concur. Better to be a "living single". Marriage is not overrated for those who found/met the right partner but if it's draining you physically, mentally or emotionally, pack and go!
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣if I talk now they will say I have talk... Make I jus Siddon read comments 😏😏😏
ReplyDeleteOlodo.
DeleteMajor is to be happy & at peace in one's marriage... I guess couples are no longer willing to manage a bad marriage like the people of old. I won't judge anyone, I'm not in their shoes.
ReplyDeleteSocial media influenced.
ReplyDeleteWhat is happening?
ReplyDeleteAjuju n'ese okwu.
They are imitating Oyinbo in everything including 72 days divorces.
The "wedded but not married" Naija girls press phones tdb and once they press out abroad dude, they offload the ones they call "useless husbands".😮😮
DNAs are becoming common and when the dudes find out that they are not the owners of the pikins, offload fiaaaaaaam!
Dudes are losing their jobs and my Naija sisis are offloading the "dummy ATMs" 😏😏
For both Val and xmas (not Christmas o), some spouses "traveled" to the village for burials (actually rods got buried into their 🤐🤐🤐 in hotel rooms).
Some Sisis wedded silly dudes wey chant "I get mansions in dubai, new york and Tokyo" bla bla bla only to find out after "I do" that dudes good morning na fat lie.😊😊
Ndi uta, how una see am?
Ajuju o 😊😊
Continue blaming women for everything.
DeleteI know women who used talk to like you. Life has humbled them. So continue.
Ride on ma'am, you never disappoint sha, said it loud so those at the back can hear you maam, you are the only woman in this blog that said nothing but the truth, and i respect you so much for that. seriously women are to be blame for all of this, feminism feminism every where, none of them are ready to endure and work on their marriages anymore, they want to copy oyibo, small thing divorce ah, im tired mehn, inshort im scared of marriage i no go lie, just scared of ladies of nowadays, like ladies are too stubborn now.
DeleteWhere did you get your stats from? Personally, I don't believe it..
ReplyDeleteMtswwwwww.. Twitter Twitter..
DeleteMen insist on being the kind of husbands their fathers were but women no longer want to be the kinds of wives their mothers were. There lies the problem. One day, one party will yield.
ReplyDeleteFeminism! feminism!! feminism!!!
ReplyDeleteIf your husband hit you, divorce him
If your husband cheats on you, divorce him
If your husband keeps late night, divorce him
If your husband passwords his phone divorce him
If your husband has girls as friends divorce him
If your husband hangs out with the boys alot, divorce him
If your husband likes his mother or siblings more, divorce him.
If your husband shares the bills at home, divorce him.
If your husband is a 40seconds man, divorce him.
If your husband's manhood is like a matchstick, divorce him.
If your husband's manhood is like an anaconda, divorce him.
If your husband last 7hours at a go, divorce him.....
Tell me where is the RELATION..SHIP?
The more reason why they should be very much aware of what they're getting into.
DeleteA husband must not be all of that. The wife must get her own side effects too.
It's a union of two imperfect people.
marriage is now a nightmare for most women because horseband ridiculous demands
DeleteYou're sick, putting all blames on women
DeleteThe society has placed so much pressure on women in marriage...it so unfair to blame women completely for divorce cases while so many inresponsible, manipulative, wife beaters and absteen fathers every where.
DeleteThis is what my aunt that works at a Lagos court says all the time.
ReplyDeleteHalf of the cases they file is divorce.
Search within you before signing the dotted lines. Nobody ever said it will be all rosy. There'd be challenges.
Thanks to education and financial freedom, women can choose to not remain with a man who treats them the way the older generation treated their women. They are realising that it is better to be mocked as a divorcee than to remain with an abusive or lazy spouse or worse be dead
ReplyDeleteNo mentorship, lack of patience.
ReplyDeleteAnd many ladies want ready made homes. And some of the men are nor truthful of who and what they are. The ladies come in with an expectations, and when not met the center cannot hold.
The expectations too of some of the men is way too high.
If marriages must work there must be a compromise.
No lady is perfect no man is perfect.
If both can work around the who they are and accept each other with their idiosyncrasies then their will be less divorce cases.
Both men and women must work on themselves constantly. Then there will be less trouble.
Everyday is a fresh day, with new challenges we have to brace up and make it work by all means. Before the towel is thrown in. In my 2cents.
My Abuja people... I'm just imagening how huge the wedding must have been. All the money spent on pre wedding photos and plenty other things. Kai
ReplyDeletePeople dont think with their minds na preeq and toto them dey use think.
ReplyDeleteNa wa
DeleteMy grandparents were married for 52 years. People looked up to them and came to them for marital advice. And yet in that marriage, my grandma was often beaten by husband and she stayed, because she had no where to go. Whenever she left, they brought her right back with the excuse that if he stopped taking care of the kids, they wouldn't be able to help her. And she wasnt even a housewife oh, she worked. They drummed it into her head that he was all she had, so much so that when he had an outside baby, she stayed. What's sad is that by the time he had the outside baby, she could easily have left him and started a new life because her kids were grown and working, but she stayed anyway, because "he was all she had."
ReplyDeleteSo if we want long marriages like our grandparents,we have to be ready to tolerate the hell that they tolerated. Yes, their marriages lasted longer, but they were NOT happy marriages. Is marriage worth emotional death? Pain? Turmoil? Losing your identity? I don't think so. I think more and more, millennials and Gen Zs are realizing that. And marriage will soon be obsolete. A happy marriage is a blessing but you don't have to keep dying inside just to keep your marriage alive. It is better to have a healthy, happy fulfilled single parent, than to have a chaotic, toxic two parent household.
I am a much better parent to my two girls as a single woman than I was as a married woman.
Be deceiving yourself with that crap you put up there. No need telling anyone to believe it or not. Na body go tell all of una. If you decide to take good or bad advice, e no concern me. I know what I want in life.. I know the value of peace of mind and happiness in a relationship, and I'll keep preaching it to my fellow men, though course we have some stupid men too.. but we have more stupid girls. Na body go tell all of una at the end of the day
DeleteYou got the gist!!!
DeletePoster add mine ooo... I'm filing once I return to Abj next month. It is not me man will kill with depression resulting from emotional and psychological abuse!!!
ReplyDelete'I want to marry because he/she is ready' but not where love exists that's why. Marrying for the wrong reasons.
ReplyDeleteWomen are terrible
ReplyDeleteMen are terrible. Lazy and broke ass men, roaming around, looking for women to leech on. Just look around you and see. Who are the ones doing yahoo, yahoo? Kidnapping? Robbery?
DeleteAsk an average man ,what kind of woman do you want?
ReplyDeleteMan: she must be beautiful,with curve 8,tall, working class,a tigress in bed etc...
What kind of man do you want?
Woman: he must be rich rich rich, handsome,can fuck for 1hr,sociable etc
Thats how we got here.
I am not against divorce. My grouse is; These divorced women end up having affairs with married men for financial support! Becoming a nuisance to the married women who are trying hard to keep their marriage and forgiving their cheating husbands always. A divorced woman with 6 children had an affair with a married man with same amount of children. The wife quarreled with her husband several times before he broke off the affair. But she still suspects them.
ReplyDeletePeople rush into marriage without knowing who they are about to get married to, i see couples dating for two months and getting married, my course mate met one abroad returnee, December got married January, divorced March, the guy has two wifes and a junkie
ReplyDeleteNo Woman No Cry. That was sang by a legend many years ago. The divorced women were mislead by women who have already failed in marriage & have become ambassadors of "feminism". These same women come out of marriage but go about having affairs with other women's husbands whilst they couldn't keep theirs thereby creating problems in another woman's home. What does that tell us? Make Una continue.
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