Good Morning!....
It's Friday and i feel alrighttttttt...lol
Please i take the blame for all the Brouhaha that happened yesterday inside in house news but i have to explain something.......If someone tells you ''shut up''and i release the comment and your goes '''God punish you and your family'' or something stronger,I am always overwhelmed and delete such comments...if someone insults you or makes a comment you don't like,please let your response be in line with the first attack.
That said,I apologise to the person who feels they were insulted and was laying curses upandan...I don't know if you are Male or female but please control your anger and let go,your words are very strong and i don't like it.
Don,tone down the way you address people on this Blog,you cannot be a BV who means well for me and be causing so much unrest and putting me on the spot...Consider this as a friendly warning..
Please you all should not turn here into a war zone,let it radiate positivity and what it used to,I will be opening the Boxing ring this afternoon so those of you who still have issues can settle it amongst yourselves.Please do not litter my comment section with your ISH.
To the 2 winners of the face of IHN contest,did i say that payment would be automatic?be patient and wait for alert,it will come today unfailingly.
My Darling PA in whom i am well pleased will begin to collect names for data giveaway,please mail her with proof that you are a BV and you will be picked.
Those of you who feel my PA is rude,she is not but if you insist,then i apologise on her behalf and ask you to forgive her.......Thank you.
To Err is human,to fight and have issues is also OK but we need to know when to stop and walk away.....
I noticed that less drama and negativity brings me more Blessings.....Sometimes,it is hard to ignore a good fight but i am making a conscious effort to ignore certain things because i prefer the blessings,you should as well *wink*
Enough of the blah blah blah Ojare.....
Make your day beautiful and stay outta harms way.
E go be!....✌✌✌..
Thank God it's Friyaayyyy....good morning everyone.
ReplyDeletei like u,,u no dey type too much,,,oro pupo o ku gban
DeleteStella thank you for addressing Don issue. This is really the right way. Thanks. Goodmorning house.
DeleteRhapsody Today!!
ReplyDeleteAn Important Factor For Success!!
Proverbs 8:10.
Excerpts!!
"Spiritual instructions may come to you in the most unexpected or unusual way, but be quick to carry them out"
"His instructions convey His wisdom, which if followed would lead to success, victory, excellence and glory. Realise that in life, your victories are, and would be, entirely dependent on divine strategies given to you by God through the Spirit and His Word"
"Always act on the instructions of the Spirit in divine wisdom. When you do, it'll make no difference the wall you're faced with in your life; it could be the wall of sickness or financial trouble, but they will crumble before you"
Today's Confession!!
The Word of God is my life, and His instructions are the meditations of my heart and the force that propel my actions. I'm making supernatural progress as I take heed to God's Word and do what it says, in Jesus' Name. Amen.
No matter what life throws at you "SMILE" it helps. Have a blessed day.
DeleteAmen
DeleteMadam poster, you see these girls singing "good riddance to bad rubbish", "you're still very young", " you will find love again" et al, do not listen to them. If you're very sure there's mutual love between the both of you, explore other ways of resolving this conundrum. The initial mistake was securing a job for a love interest in the same company knowing so well there'd be a brick wall in the future if marriage was muted. You're now at that bridge. I want you to cross it. Every responsible man in this country wants to be the one paying bills. I believe your man is scared of letting go of this job and not doing well thereafter. I want you to be there for him. If he's business inclined, the both of you should work together to figure a very good business. It should be seen as a family business. The both of you can also intensify efforts towards securing another job for him. Put in your best to convince him you'll always be there for him. The truth is that he has to be the one to leave since you make more, but I understand his fear. Allay his fears please. I wish I knew him. I would have made him see reasons why he should be the one to leave. But whatever you do, don't lose anyone that genuinely loves you. Forget the gangster approach of the girls here. If you're deeply certain of his love, use all your female powers to convince him he's the one to leave. I object to his immature way of handling this. He shouldn't have stayed away from you. But we're all human. We aren't infallible. Don't lose the love of your life. Many of those barking here are doing so because they lost theirs. They're frustrated. You don't need that. Employ wisdom to resolve this. I am not always particular about involving third parties, but if you're close to his dad, let him in on happenings. His DAD not his MUM! If after doing all this and there's no way around it, you can then quietly ease yourself out. If he genuinely loves you, he'll come back and do what he knows he should do. I wish you well.
ReplyDeletePlease poster, do not listen to this egoistic igbo man that has no love for women in his heart. If he had read and understood the post u made yesterday, he would realise that the man is nothing but scum. Him saying 'you are not ready for marriage then' is the worst thing he could have possibly said in that situation.
DeleteIt shows he thinks u are desperate for marriage and used it to threaten you. That's the modus operandi of a wicked being.
Poster over 200 people can't be wrong and one person known for his hatred for women will now be right.
Do not listen to this. You are 28, you will be fine. The most important thing isn't to marry, it is to marry right.
Great words Eka 👍🏾.
DeleteVery mature advice Ceaser...
DeleteWhy can't she talk to her parents? She is single-handedly taking care of her entire family and her parents with their jobs as a policeman and cleaner, sacrificed heavily for her. Let them also have a say.
DeleteThis man is all ego and no planning. If she marries him, she'll be nursing his ego for the next 60 years. He knows who should have a job but has no plan of how to get himself or her a better one. He knows that business is an option but even as a proud Igbo man, he doesn't want to go into business. He is not in any way mature or realistic. No one is calling him a devil but this is not the kind of guy you want in a ship when the sea is rioting. He can't adjust, he can't improvise or innovate. He is not adaptable. He will keep singing ego and the ship will keep sinking. This kind of guy would ask you to sleep with his boss to get ahead because he doesn't want to lose the job you got for him. He should have been the one pioneering the job search but would rather their joint incomes drop by half as long as he can wear a white shirt and go to work. He should be the one trying to convince his wife to be about how he'll make up for the change in income and fund their home and extended family as she has been doing but rather, he tells her she is not ready to get married and resumes silent treatment. This is not a partner but a parasite. Ask the women on this blog who have such men as husbands. The moment he is downsized from the office, he will sit home and be pressing his laptop, eating and sleeping, borrowing from people around while you're the one running about trying to fill gaps and fulfill responsibility.
Ask the poster about his mentality about what a man and a woman should do in the house and you'll see that even when jobless or working less hoirs, this man would cite ego and be reading newspapers while you slave away on weekends. He is not the type that can navigate life's challenges and change with the times. If he can't get better, let him go.
I billion likes for this comment!
DeleteGod bless you.
WILLING TO CHANGE
ReplyDeleteYou won’t solve a problem by continuing the same behavior that caused it. That seems like an obvious truth, yet it is ignored every day.
It’s tempting to think that some magic factor can create the results you want without any disruption in your routine. Yet reality is not so convenient.
If you seek a different destination, you must follow a different path. Hope is a powerful motivator, but hope alone is a poor strategy.
The first step in successfully solving a problem is to take full responsibility for it. The next step is to immediately stop doing whatever caused the problem in the first place.
Then, once you’re no longer sliding backwards, figure out a workable way forward. Transformation is available to you when you choose to invest yourself in it, when you’re willing to change.
Rather than cursing your fate, instead of empty wishes, act to make a difference. Be willing to change, and go in a direction that leaves the problem far behind.
a dice thrown
DeleteGood morning..Thanks Niklaus for checking up on me..I saw your message very late..Hope you are good..
DeleteGood morning to you all.Do all have a nice weekend!
ReplyDeleteGood morning y'all, can someone be nice enough to explain this to me and correct me if I'm wrong please? If one of your parents has been in the US legally for 20 years and eventually files for you and it's granted, you become a citizen right? If yes, and you decide to marry from Nigeria, what becomes of the wife? Can he also file for her to become a citizen too? Thank you.
Delete@anonymous, I hope bv's reply you.As you see me so,I never step into aeroplane before not to talk of travelling to almighty Obodo oyinbo aka USA. I Dey look plane from up and wave byebye to everyone in the aeroplane and also praying for safe landing for them.
DeleteYou become a permanent resident (Green card), you can apply for citizenship after 5 years. Now, as a permanent resident, you can file for your spouse and she also becomes a permanent resident. I hope this helps. :)
DeleteYes you can file for your wife and she becomes a citizen too.
Delete@0907. Green card first. Nobody gets automatic citizenship except those born here. 0858 is right.
DeleteThanks to all of you
Delete😂 I Am, don't worry, one day you will enter that aeroplane. Dream big.
DeleteSOME PEOPLE DONT WANT YOUR HELP.
ReplyDelete“The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it” Proverbs 10:22, NKJV.
Here is understanding that can help you in life if you receive it:
Some people aren’t ready to change.
Some people don’t want your help.
If you can understand these two things, you will save yourself plenty of time and pain. Maybe you’re like me, you are wired to fix things, you’re wired to help things grow and make things better. But what do you do when they don’t want it?
I’ve learned over the years that you can bring a horse to water, but you cannot force it to drink. So many women are deeply depressed today because they gave all they had to someone that could care less. They bought cars, houses, clothes and shoes for someone that didn’t want their help. Now, their credit is all messed up and the man is gone out the door, the person is gone back on the streets, the relative ended up right back in jail, and the friend you tried to help went right back to the abusive boyfriend.
Listen, my sister, thank God you are wired the way you are, but you have to know when to back off and let God do the fixing. Let Him do the changing and let Him make the spiritual adjustments that you can’t see. Bless them, encourage them and yes, fervently pray for them, but you go on and live the life God has called you to live.
Daughters of the King Devo.
ogaooooooo,,,,,thus life sef
DeleteBelated birthday babe
DeleteGod bless you
Good morning
Missed my period lastmonth.
DeleteWas happy..
But my period showed up yesterday morning😔😭
Thanks Paris darl..Goodmorning and have an amazing day.
DeleteOh! Happy belated birthday, Essa Baibay..God bless you and yours.
DeleteGood advice
DeleteAnon 8:42
Please be comforted
Amen and thanks Perx darl. I appreciate.
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ReplyDeleteHow does one deal with toxic people? I have one and don't know how to cut her off. Having to deal with her tantrums from time to time is exhausting.
ReplyDeleteIgnore her,don't ever try to entertain her in any way! Walk away from her troubles
DeleteCaution her!! Dont behave like a sponge that can absorb all and then cut her off as quickly as possible..
DeleteHave you tried talking to her? If yes and she still could not change.
DeleteIgnore and cut her off slowly...
Some people are bad for you they will sap you of your mental strength and physical energy
Good morning. My dear ignore the person ooo! Tone down on communicating with the person. My own sister is a toxic person tooo! Give the person loooong rope! In short give am chance.
DeleteI ha a friend I thought was a good friend. In my mind, I was like, after all she doesn't ask me for money nor is she my friend because of what she can get from me unlike the others. The only thing she wanted was my friendship. But I was wrong she was an energy vampire, very clingy and toxic. At first I thought I could manage but she would want to download all her emotional issues on me and I am just your friend not a therapist. I just ran. She makes friends for emotional and social support. Truly, I tried my best but it wasn't enough. She called at every given hour if possible. If her neighbour offends her she will call me, if she is at the supermarket she will call me while shopping talking about the things she was buying at that point in time and I also have my own life. It was obvious she felt uncomfortable shopping alone so she relies on the phone to keep herself busy while picking things off the shelf. It got to a point my friend joked "are you sure you and this girl aren't in a relationship in her head?"
DeleteThe best you can do is stop being friends with her for your own sanity. Take care of you first.
Anon 8.34... what you listed doesn't make her a bad friend except there are more. Let's look it over from another angle...she probably sees you more than a friend, say more like an only sister and likes shares her day to day with you. Perhaps you are the only friend she felt comfortable enough to share in whatever she is dealing with and that is why she tells you...seems you are not much of a sharer like me but it doesn't make someone that does and thinks of you highly enough to always share and enjoys your company a bad friend, you could also have found a way to advice her to ignore or overlook some of the things she talks to you about...the beauty of friendship most times is in our differences.
DeleteI once had a friend like this.
DeleteHer neurotransmitters gets a high from unloading on me and mine gets same from fixing her issues..
Like Peach in You(on Netflix)..???
I miss her sometimes..
Thank you all. I appreciate your advice..
DeleteEssa, the kind of friend 8.34 described is not exactly good either. Having a person who is clingy and needy as a close friend is UNHEALTHY for both parties involved.
DeleteIt's up to each person to define what is good or bad for them. If you don't mind clingy ppl then that's fine, but for many others it drains them. I fully understand that comment because I have been there.
@Essa beddings.You see I am an empath so I feel drained when she does that every single day. Read up on energy vampire you would understand better.
DeleteI didn't reveal other things she did. You see..she doesn't reciprocate. When I discuss anything bothering me not all the time like she does to me, let's say, like once in three months I bring up an issue, She would listen but just say eeyah or nawa oo and that's all.
And she doesn't wish me well. When I succeed she doesn't congratulate me instead she tries to change the topic immediately or she instantly seems moody. So I felt it was coincidence or she was in a bad mood at the time till it happened over and over again but I always carried her success on my head like it's mine. Until one day,when confiding in me she mistakenly slipped and said she doesn't feel good when people succeed other than her and have things she lacks that it makes her angry. I pretended like I didn't hear but that was what totally pushed me to end the friendship.
Anon 10:26.. remember I said except there is more... I am an empath as well but not much of a sharer..and I dont mind people sharing a lot with me to unburden themselves BUT also i totally understand and have a first hand experience of this being overwhelming sometimes.
DeleteNow I get the full picture... it's good you left her...she was a selfish friend, and you don't need such people around you.🤗
Would have loved to see the fight from Hogwarts 😁 awon wizard geng.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂
DeleteUp and grateful! TGIF😎😎
ReplyDeleteHappy to be here today, I pray for God's direction.
Good morning baby.
DeleteSparkie?? you changed to Paris?
Good morning to you all
ReplyDeleteLet me go to see what's happening in IHN, I'm just too lazy to read these days
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
on the same table
DeleteLarry was not here...😁😁
DeleteBelated happy birthday to Cynthia and Essa, God bless you both ♥️♥️♥️
ReplyDeleteThank God for giving you that frame of mind to resist satan and refuse that boys request. You were living before you met him, you were doing real good before you met him. Looking at it simplistically, you can see that that boy is nothing but a destroyer, who knows what other worst demands that boy would have made of you. Thank God you have escaped from his cluttches, certainly he would not have made a good pair.
A situation where you made somebody and the person wants to destroy you in pay back, you don’t need to be told that’s satan on the prowl. Babe go and celebrate your escape from that boy. The part that annoyed me was where he said “you are not ready for marriage” just because you won’t resign....how pathetic.
Thanks Sis. God bless you too.
DeleteThanks Sis. God bless you too.
DeleteAmen and thanks Slutty darl...i appreciate.
Delete@that "boy"😂
My mother will not allow somebody to sleep in the house😡😡 when she's getting ready for work, that's when she will start fighting the house and hitting everywhere
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteMy dad is like that.
The thing dey pain me eeeeeh
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
DeleteHahahahahahaha
DeleteGood morning Everyone..
ReplyDeleteThank God it's Friday💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
I love weekends💃💃
Ahead ahead🙌🙌🙌
good morning to this lovely family.
ReplyDeleteI so much appreciate my well wishers and those who took time to call me yesterday,may the good Lord countinue to bless you.
a blessed day ahead to this great house
love u all
Belated happy birthday
DeleteNumbers 20:18
ReplyDeleteAnd EDOM said unto him, Thou shalt NOT PASS by me, lest I come out against thee with the SWORD.
👉 Every household enemies or Spirit of Edom that will NOT let you PASS to your promised land this year shall be SLAY with the SWORD of the Holy Ghost in the name of JESUS.
#YOUR VICTORY IS SETTLED BECAUSE SURELY I WILL HELP SAITH THE LORD OF HOST.
Amen, Good morning cutest pat
DeleteUp and thankful to my Creator
ReplyDeleteTGIF💃💃🍻🍻
Have a joyous day y'all
Good morning darlings
I'm excited today is Friday, thank God for it.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone. Do have a blessed weekend ahead.
I pray for you this morning; that your voice shall not be silenced. Your songs of victory shall be loud and clear. Your expectations shall not be cut off, sufficient grace, good health, infinity blessings irreplaceable love, immeasurable joy, this and more are my wishes for you.Every new day in your life will unfold with fresh testimonies of God's goodness, favour and blessings.The Lord will give you wonderful testimonies that will provoke a new song. Victory shall be your testimony today and beyond in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteGood morning to everyone and please enough with the fighting and backlashing one another, LET LOVE LEAD GUYS😊😘😘
Freaking out right now.
ReplyDeleteAfraid of checking my call up letter
Check and tell us what's up.
DeleteNo matter how long you put it off,it is something that must be done.
What if you are pleasantly surprised when you check it?
Awww. Check and let us know how far. All the best to you dear.
DeleteStella Dimoko Korkus honestly speaking I love this post as I read it this early morning, it was very deep and educating. Thanks for the way you cautuon, apologise and bring everyone together, you are indeed a mother hen 🐔. God bless you and all the BVs. #peace
ReplyDeleteExactly what I said after reading this, like you read my mind.
DeleteShe is so unique in her own way.i neva see.Goodmorning everyone
DeleteSDk PA, please choose me this time naaaa abeg
ReplyDeleteOluwa wetin dey cultivate for SDKville..Please lets fight amicably..Stella I cant wait for your boxing ring i want to address one or two people...Good morning all
ReplyDeleteGood morning Phoenix, it's been a while. Hope you're keeping well.
DeleteLol....
DeleteGood morning to you too
Mystery Woman I dey kampe..How are you? My dear Work and exam writing stuffs..Thanks for checking..Hope you are good too.Cheers
DeleteLol Goodmorning Phoenix.
DeleteY'all should better make the boxing ring worth it oooh.... No be to dey write 'i have nothing against anyone, I'm a peace maker'🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteHey Phoenix darl
Kami dear... thanks for yesterday. I appreciate.
DeleteStella your words above is like to a minister addressing a large congregation in church....
ReplyDeleteGod continue to bless you with wisdom and blessings ..
Goodmorning my people.
ReplyDeleteThanks to everyone who wished me a happy anniversary yesterday,i love you all😘😘
Abeg o bvs lets tone the insults down,some ppl take this blog as their safe haven where dey can have peace of mind,stop the negativity biko.
On that note,have a good day and cheers to the weekend,i particularly am excited about this weekend😁😛🚶♀️
Good morning BVs, chai! I'm back again, hopefully work will allow me enjoy this blog a little today.
ReplyDeleteAfter you won money, you hibernated. Now you're back for another giveaway.
DeleteGood morning.. TGIF
ReplyDeleteWhat happened in yesterday’s IHN 🤷🏿♀️
ReplyDeleteGood morning people
ReplyDeleteGood morning house!
ReplyDeleteBlessed and great day ahead!
Good morning bvs.. Pls wats the PA gmail add? I need that data abeg.. MTN dey suck my data the way my baby sucks my breast milk ni.. 2gb finishes in just 4 days.. Nawaa o.
ReplyDeleteGod bless u stella.. Fruitful wkend to us all.
Ah you sabi use sef,mine finishes in a day,mtn though
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ReplyDeleteI'm sincerely sorry Bvs 🙏❤️ forgive me for being "rude"❤️
Thank you boss for apologizing on my behalf.
Please Interested Bvs for Data giveaway, follow the above instructions of my BOSS
Kindly send mail to sdknewpa@gmail.com
Thank you
Good morning!
#letlovelead
You don't even talk sef talkmore of being rude,lol.nawa o for people
DeleteIs certified SDKPA the same as the other PA? Or is it just a name upgrade or package?
DeleteWell, apology accepted. Keep up the good work.
Good morning PA, please reply my mail ooo..
DeleteGood morning beautiful people😊
ReplyDeleteHave a blessed day everyone.
Stella with the beautiful heart.... how you doing mama? Do you watch Nigerian movies? They are doing well now ooo.... producing some nice movies. Well, one part of Nollywood tho but the other part ehn 🤐
Here are some movies I’ve watched and they get a pass mark of 5/10 and above from me.
Love potion 7/10
Sobi’s mystic 8/10
Unfinished business 6/10
Ovy’s voice 7/10
Expired maiden 6/10
Never saw it coming 5/10
Quagmire 7/10
Reach 5/10
Half shot of sunrise 5/10
Girlfriends 5/10
Body language 8/10
Circle of trust 6/10
Orunsewa 5/10
Everything can be found on Irokotv app. Today is Friday so knock yourselves out.
Please ooo if you’ve seen other movies on the app that are good (5/10 and above), please leave names.
Tanchu!!!!
**May**
Looking for baami 9/10
DeleteConundrum 8/10
Maybe mine 7/10
Time and chance 7/10
The innocent 7/10
Displaced 7/10
In every way 6/10
Special package 6/10
I've forgotten some abeg
Stella, could you please release my reply to this comment, thanks.
Deletelong post aIert,
ReplyDeleteI
would like to address some issues in Anon mode since it seems as though I've not been able to pass across my points clearly in this cheating husbands and side chick saga.
I've never exonerated any cheating husband in all of my posts and I never will. Both the cheater and the 'cheatee are just as culpable and I can not overemphasize this. I might come off as hard on the side chicks and I'm unapologetic about it because as a woman I'm yet to understand why a single lady will comfortably date a married man without remorse. And yes I take this issue to heart not because my hubby is a cheating husband, thankfully he's not and hopefully it stays that way. My stance stems out from my personal experiences and I've once shared my story here. My whole world came crashing because of a side chick and my dad paid the ultimate price with his life. I wouldn't want any unnecessary insults to his memory. Cos even though he wasn't a great husband he was the best Father and it would seem as though he loved his kids more than his wife. And that was what made it so difficult cos he was a perfect dad and the whole world knew it. And in those times it wasn't so easy to walk away from a marriage because of infidelity especially if the man was the accused.
My mum suffered ehn,S cried so much that it made her depressed till she suffered a nervous breakdown.
You see my dad joined the oil and gas industry at age 20 and for so many years we were a happy family till he was moved offshore. That was where and when the pilfering started. The ladies were just too much. An for Everytime he was caught, my dad would be filled with so much remorse that he'd cry and vow to stay faithful and all this happened right before our very eyes . And for a while it would seem as though every thing was normal till he had to go offshore again. It got to a point my mum always packed condoms in his bags and and later she just kept quiet and soaked it in.Afterall he never failed for one day in his responsibilities.
She accepted her fate and that was what broke her till she suffered a nervous breakdown cos the side Chicks kept getting bolder to the extent of confronting and telling her to shift,she was old skool They taunted her and she never reported any of them to my dad. She just kept quiet and took it all in. This was her undoing ,and one night after her usual crying she started speaking gibberish.
Fortunately and Unfortunately that was the turning point for my dad, at last he could see the damage he had caused. Her years of silence and depression had taken a toll on her mental health. He asked to be relieved from his offshore duties so he could be close to my mum. But then one particular side chick wasn't going to let go off my dad so easily.
And then the worst happened........
wow.
Deleteabeg wetin they this side chicks body wen the wife man open eyes marry no get kwa nu
With due respect to you but did the side chick woo your dad or your dad wooed them? We shouldn't excuse men for they are not babies who can't take decisions for themselves. Did they come to his house to drag him to their bosom or he willingly went? I am not judging still waiting for the concluding part of your story so I am only writing based on this first part you sent in.
DeleteI was the clinical psychologist anon who wrote in about my dad yanking my mum's freshly done artificial nails off her fingers and beating her with electric wire, slapping her in public and pouring alcoholic drink on her face in front of everyone. She is getting married to her old schoolmate and relocating soon. Yes I was the one.
Would it surprise you if I say I hated my dad for all that he did to my mother but still I hated him even more for cheating? At the age of 9 thanks to my dad, I and my brother caught an infection from him. It's A sexually transmitted infections infection that can be gotten through physical contact too when the pus of the infected person touches you.
He caught it from one of his side hens. All our bodies were filled with pus and we couldn't sleep at night from heavy crying because the pus would itch and swell when you itch it and the water from it would create another pus in a different area.
We were ostracized from class by the headmistress and my other classmates because the woman was protecting other kids. It was embarrassing. When it eventually healed it left scars on my body and my brother's that till we were in our twenties I almost had low self esteem because I am extremely light skinned so the scars on my legs were really visible. I am grown now and the scars are gone however you don't want to know how friends mocked me saying for something I knew nothing about. I can imagine how many stds my mother who was sleeping with him treated.
I have nothing against side frogs because they don't know me or owe me loyalty. We are not related and I don't expect them to send me or my mother. My dad was the one who was supposed to protect us and he gave them access to our lives through him.
Men aren't babies, they are grown up adult male with ample responsibilities before them which should set them straight and make them focus. They have will and common sense. Allow them use it and stop making excuses for them, it irks me.
My brother who married as a virgin doesn't cheat. He is really comfortable and women give him "greenlight" and it ends there because he nips it in the bud. These women thinks he doesn't notice but he tells me about everything and he calls them "strange women".
They can't call him nor bother his wife because they don't even have his number, nor his whereabouts. You greet him as a woman you would think he is deaf. You call him a a his wife's friend he would not pick and tell his wife to call you back and let you know he told her you called him. A lady at work who was sending messages and nudes he gathered enough evidence and sacked her afterwards before she tries to rope him in and scream rape. They say it everywhere that his wife has jazzed him but he replies them "is it not better to be jazzed by my wife rather than allow a side chick near me?
These men are not as weak as you think stop enabling them. Most are just useless.
But do u know that if your dad had stayed true to his marital vows, this wouldn't have happened?
DeleteAnd oh! One of the side chicks came to our house. Please tell me how she knew the way to way house? Who gave her the address?
DeleteShe came in and told my mother "please excuse us, I want to talk with your husband". 😂
My mum refused and did you know what my ashewo father did? He went in wore his cloth and took the over ripe yellow plantian to his car and they went to only God knows where to act h fun. My mother cried all through, I even cried with her. But you see I never hated the side fowl or frog or whatever you call it. She did nothing wrong in my eyes. My dad caused everything. What if the side chick decided to kidnap or kill us considering that she knew all of us? Men who cheat are heartless for they put their families in harm's way
Anon 8:32 the love you had for your dad has blinded you from seeing the truth. Your father being a good father doesn't excuse that he was a bad husband. He owed your mother more loyalty than you his children because he married her not you. He was good to his children but wicked to another persons' child( your mother) till he made her depressed and you still blaming the girls outside who are about their own hustle.
DeleteGood morning my neighbor 🗣️🎶 how are y'all doing are y'all feeling okay 🎶?
ReplyDeleteInter house sport day today.
ReplyDeleteUp Blue house🙌🙌🙌
I dunno why I don't like sport.
My Blue house crew will be seeing me today at their stand since practice started.
I was in Yellow house in Secondary school and we always came out last😂😂😂
Ah!I pity Blue House then😂😂
DeleteEnjoy the day.
I was in Green house (unity) we never came last. We came first when I became the house captain, I was so so happy eh. lol
DeleteI was in yellow house and we were always 2nd or 3rd position. Your yellow house is fake o....lol.
DeleteHave fun
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Blue ended up with last position.
DeleteWhat a pity😭😭
Goodmorning everyone.I promise to make it early in today's spontaneous to the extent that I put an alarm to hit me at exactly 8am.Thank you Jesus.
ReplyDeleteTHIS IS FOR TTC WOMEN PLEASE!.It is a testimony and solution in one!.
Please Madam Stella post this for me ,thank you. I became worried for some days now concerning the rate of TTC women and the recent outcry especially on this Blog from them so I decided to help the little i can.My Immediate elder sister after given birth to her ist baby 9years ago conceived again and today is exactly one month our testimony landed.We give God the glory. So there was no place, i mean PLACE OR HOSPITALS SHE has not visited starting from Teaching hospitals of different states,privates hospitals uncountable, specialists, gynaecologists,prayer rooms and traditionals all in the name of looking for another child. But as God may have it,our eldest sister which is a magistrate came in contact with a senior lawyer she once served whom his wife was also TTcing for good 13yrs after her their baby also and the senior lawyer confirmed to my sister that his wife has finally taken in again,so my sister was curious to know how and the man told my sister that there is a woman at Ogidi town in Anambra state who God blessed with this special gift and she don't even collect much money. It happened that some women after giving birth to their ist issue especially if the delivery was induced,then womb used to shift upwards making it difficult to conceive bcos the sperm won't be able to locate the fallopian tube because of the way the womb is now seated in the stomach.So that was how the woman shifted the wife's woman just with bare hands and gave her soft drink,those that looks like crest to drink with force so that the gas from the drink will help push the womb down.My people this is how the woman conceived immediately on her ovulation. So our eldest sister took my sister there on the ist week of February, My people right NOW my sister is PREGNANT AGAIN after 9yrs(To God be the glory)!.
Right now my sister has taken three other women to that place and two have fallen pregnant my people. You don't even need much money,just with 15k you are good to go bcos the woman do not give any drugs and sometimes she will ask you to go and when you conceive then you can come back and give her anything from your mind .This is just a gift from God. Please I am here to help if I can though i work from monday to saturday and i don't even know the place but if I see people that are interested I will beg my sister to help because she also understand what it means to be TTcing .
*ÑOTE PLEASE* This is for couples that are MEDICALLY OKAY OO.I said Medically okay that you and your hubby have gone to the hospital and they said you both have no problem atall yet you can't conceive that is when it maybe that your womb is not seated well.And this is for those that have given birth before and those that have never conceived before. I believe God can do a miracle. Thank you
I hope this is not that cryptic pregnancy and baby factory ish o. Everyone should be careful.
Deletehmm you sure say na better children e dey give dem so. well my grand mom use to be a powerful village mid wife. very good with thia kind tin
DeleteThis one seems like a stylish advert
DeleteWhich advert Eka, you always want to oppose things you don't know. Please if you are not interested, i just relieve myself by saying this out cos I promised I will give testimony concerning this immediately my sister took in.So please is not a must o I beg una.So you are dey free to think otherwise. Thank you. Makebi you guys and cryptic pregnancy always.Biko it is not my sister's portion you hear.Anon which one u sure say na beta children, does the woman gives children???oh chim!
DeleteI personally know someone who's son is now above 20. A traditional midwife reset her womb and she conceived.
DeleteThank you kisses.i have done my own part
DeleteThank you Aunty Stella for warning Don. That guy is very rude and insensitive when it comes to people's life problems.As in I have never met or hear a man be so unkind and rude as that Guy Don.I pray God give his wife to be a fortitude to bear what she will see in that marriage.i neva see
ReplyDeleteMc Pinky!!! Pls gerrin here 😊😊... I attended a wedding few weeks ago at Ikeja,and the mc who anchored the wedding introduced himself as MC Pinky. So exkizz☝️☝️ me plix was that you?😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteGoodmorning house. For those TTcing may God grant all your heart desires ,Amen!.Happy celebrations to those celebrating. Ego be
ReplyDeleteBeautiful morning to y'all .
ReplyDeleteHave a nice day y'all.
SDK you addresed this matter prim and properly this morning. Kudos 💪💪
ReplyDeleteTo everyone, There is no gain in negativity, insults and bitterness. Try harder to subdue that spirit from Satan.
This blog is a relaxing and calming place for a lot of people. Not every body can swallow the insults thrown at them without withdrawing back to their shell, there by causing them pain and afflictions.
Let us all be kind, considerate and show love to one another no matter how poorly or carelessly you were raised up in life.
Remember, you attract what you give and portray in life.
One love ❤️❤️all.
Nice one 👍
DeleteThank God for another Friday. Cannot wait for the rest and sleep that will commence from this evening. Have a great all and be safe out there!
ReplyDeleteGood morning bvs, weekend is here already.. I'm thank God for his mercies
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone
ReplyDeleteThank God it's Friday
Applying for the data giveaway right away
Good morning Stella. I'm grateful for my life and of my family. Count down to my EDD, I can't wait to see my baby and at the same time scared. I pray that God in his infinite mercy come through for my baby and there won't be need for any surgery for him after birth. Safe delivery to all pregnant women.
ReplyDeleteLol.. it’s always a mix of emotions as it approaches plus research says that only 5% of babies are born on their due date..
DeleteI wish you safe delivery mami..🤗
Amen to your prayers.
DeleteYou don't have to be scared God will surely see you through.
DeleteThanks yellwflwr and anno
DeleteGood morning everyone...
ReplyDeleteIf DON is a person of peace, he should be here with at least an apology.
ReplyDeletePlease house what viable business can I start with 1.8million naira. I'm so confused. Help please!
ReplyDeletealmost same dilemma with me too. mine is 6million. they are giving me only 4 percent in fixed deposit for 30days. even treasury bills rate has dropped. i need business ideas abeg. pls no 419 advice oh, na my hard earned money be this..lol
DeleteFood/Beverage/Alcohol... no matter how depressed the Nigerian economy gets...man must whack and shack
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Beautiful morning to you all.. Do have a fruitful day.
ReplyDeleteThank you Lord for this beautiful first Friday... I’m very grateful Lord🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
ReplyDeleteHello,bvs.Pls,Ijust applied for data giveaway.However,I used the screenshot of the comment I made in december 2019 becos the comments I made in January & February 2020 don't have the delete button on them.They only have the reply button.Pls, what do I have to do to make my recent comments have both the reply & delete buttons??...or do they have to be on the internet for about 3 months??..pls,help me out.Thanks.
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Delete@Eka joy.I have already.But it seems the ID is acting up now, that's why my I.d. is showing black rather than grey.In my December comment,my ID was complete.Thanks,though.will keep on testing it.
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