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Tuesday, June 09, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
THREE MARRIAGE PROPOSALS


I'm so confused right now.

 I'm a single mother of 2kids. I try my best to live a morally upright life. Recently, joined the hallelujah challenge and one of my prayer points was to have a good husband. Few days after the prayers,3 men have proposed. 


One has always been trying to get my attention before now but he just got more serious. But this other guy, I've always had a huge crush on back then in school. Waltz back into my life and I'm like what's the odds. Says he has always wanted to be with me since back then but was always scared to talk to me.


 I like him a lot but he has introduced me to something I've never done before. Phone s#x. Its very erotic and hot and I like it a lot. I'm worried about the consequences, coz I feel like it will eventually corrupt me. But why is this guy coming now after 10yrs, is he here to block my blessings. Is phone s#x bad?.


 I told him i was celibate for now. Pls I need very matured minds to help me out




*Three proposals?hmmmmmmmmm,please dont accept anyone until you do your home work and find out why you are suddenly hot cake to them...
Are you financially well off?

Access the three of them and you will find out the one that suits you most ......or maybe none does....dont forget to discuss your kids with them,some women get married and end up being given ultimatum to send the kids to their fathers oh...Nigerian men do not like to have another mans child stay with them if they have to foot any bill....
Please note that if you are not able to take care of the needs of your kids,do not marry any man as ATM oooooh.

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  1. Dear poster, Stella has said it all.
    May God direct your decision.

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    1. If you feel they came as a result of your prayers then know that someone who God sent to you will not come with phone sex.

      God is not a God of confusion, my dear always remember that the devil also listens when we pray, you may say "why after 10years" but what if he is there to scatter your prayer?

      My advice is that you take your time in getting to know both of them, sex cant be the most important discussion on the phone, dont make it the new normal.

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    2. Poster look into madam Stella and Push up advices.... Thats is the koko....

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    3. Poster what of the third one?

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  2. You better define what you want and go for it. The person that is more serious and ready should be given a try. Not someone that is paving his way to chop your ponyir

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  3. In all these, i hope they know you have children,please dont hide your kids and do your home work thoroughly .. All the best

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  4. Three proposals but you didn't mention a single thing about the third man.

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    1. Ikegwuru o!😁🀸

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    2. Unknown, what does that word mean? I don't understand your language.

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Poster, did l hear you say phone sex. don't start what you cannot finish. Phone sex is not love, this are red flags for me. What are the qualities you love about this men.

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    4. @Sabella,maybe the man no follow for promo.
      Poster take your time cos not every man is ready to care for another man's children.I know it can be boring to be alone sometimes,but why not concentrate on your kids or marry a widower with kids.

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    5. @Sabella it literally means This is tiring or in pidgin I tire oh.
      It can conotes one being dumbfounded.


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    6. @Sabella ikegwuru means this is tiring or I am tired.

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    7. Poster, the phone sex man ❌❗🚩. If your spiritual antannae was up you would have picked up the red flag signals before you indulged. He 'was always scared to talk to you' but 10 years later he is bold enough to introduce you to immorality??? Maybe because you are a single mother he thinks you are easy fodder for his cheap sexual fantasy. Very annoying.😠
      Don't go and marry someone that will corrupt or molest your children.
      BE NOT DECEIVED. EVIL COMMUNICATION CORRUPTS GOOD MANNERS. 1 Cor 15:33

      Go back to your hallelujah challenge to flush our the chameleons and get an answer of peace from God.
      GOD IS NOT AN AUTHOR OF CONFUSION.

      Follow Stella's advice for the rest.

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    8. Oh! I see @ Dietitian Nezz
      Thanks Akuanyanugbo and anon 15:59. We learn something new everyday.πŸ˜ƒ

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    9. That phone sex guy is not meant for you. Pls stop that act fast. Tell him that God does not like the act and watch him exit himself.
      remaining 2 guys.

      Find out the remaining 2 guys' financial background and investigate what needs to be investigated. DO NOT RUSH as they may be hiding something from you. #FromMyMind.

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    10. Poster, come and read anonymous 16.29’s comment over and over again.
      Digest it very well.

      Will you be confident to go to Nathaniel Bassey’s page to testify of answered prayers after the Hallelujah challenge and also say you’ve started phone sex with the guy?

      If not that the crush you had is being reciprocated (however falsely), you should know that God will not answer your prayer with someone who will lead you into temptation.

      Sometime back, a pastor advised me to be very careful about sin while waiting on God for something.
      If you’re still indulging sinful acts, the devil will sneak in while you’re blinded by sin with a poor but well disguised imitation of the blessing or answer that God is preparing for you.
      You end up with mushy, stony rice and a badly prepped, meatless stew, when you could have eaten correct firewood Jollof rice with nicely peppered goat meat and plantain... or whatever catches your fancy.

      This is NOT the time to relax spiritually oh. For the devil to be sending temptation your way, means your blessing is around the corner.
      Be vigilant.

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    11. well said guys
      Poster praying that God gives you the spirit of discernment ,
      Most importantly be vigilant as the devil can mimic God's blessings.

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  5. poster i will say you should do your home work first before you say to any of the three men you mentioned. First of all write out their names one by one on a sheet of paper and outline all the things you like about each of them. The on another page you write out all he things you dislike about each of them.

    Once you are done with writing likes and dislikes about the three men, is time foe you to sit down an pick the one that has better options. Make sure you go for the one that has more likes than dislike. All the very best.

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  6. if your question is which of them to consider,your personally know them better than any one here and no matter the confusion,you know that one person deep down.

    As for the one introducing you to phone sex he's bad news in my own view. The consequences? You might end up masturbating cut him off now before he messes you up

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  7. Please take Stella’s advise and think well!!!!

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  8. How well do you know these guys?
    What do you know about them and their family background?
    Have they agreed to take your kids as theirs and treat them with love, care and respect?

    Please, don't accept a marriage proposal from a man you know nothing about, especially their family background.

    In whatever decision you take, make sure to put your kids first

    I think you are not listening to the voice of God Almighty yet. Go to Him and listen to Him.

    Stop having phone sex with that guy. He is not genuine at all! He should be the first that should be erased from the list.

    Yes, phone sex is a sin.

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    1. Thank you. You having phone sex after hallelujah challenge. Nathaniel bassey must hear this

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    2. Your last paragraph. I love your boldness in always saying the truth. Even though some may see you as sanctimonious. You are on God's side all the time and he will be on your side always. Love you ms.a

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    3. I dey tell you, Bishop must hear this 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    4. Apostle must hear of it πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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    5. Ms A thank you for speaking the truth from gospel truth! πŸ’―%πŸ‘Œ

      Anon 15:27 you picked out that terrible combo!
      Lol @Nathaniel bassey must hear this. 🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    6. Anon πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  9. How long have you been single?
    For now, do not rush to accept any proposal, keep praying.
    As for the phone sex, you enjoy it this much cos you haven't been sexually active. Mind you, that he is good with phone sex nor mean say e go good for real life o....just saying you shouldn't judge him with that.
    Doesn't matter how long it took for him to come around, you just never can tell. Just be open and don't rush things.
    As for phone sex being bad, to me, it isn't.....only if you are doing it with your husband/boyfriend. Anything outside that is not nice. Let's hear from the sanctimonious ones concerning this phone sex.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. Is it okay to call you a sinner for calling others sanctimonious?

      Are you feeling guilt already?

      Give your advice and move on instead of throwing shade at those who don't care about what you do with your boyfriend outside of marriage?

      Why being defensive when no one is addressing you?

      This is how your type tries to silence those who are bold enough to call sin what it is.

      Poster doesn't even have phone sex with him except he is your husband book lest your celibacy will be a thing of the past when you eventually meet. You are laying the foundation of immorality you will break your celibacy vow soon if you are not careful.

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    2. Have I ever portrayed myself as perfect or sin free?
      I don't remember mentioning your ass in my comment. Are you one of the "sanctimonious" ones?
      You should be proud to comment with your ID, except you are a hypocrite.

      Sluttychic.

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    3. No you have never acted like you were sinless but you have always portrayed yourself as someone who was happy staying in her sinful ways and who mocks others who know they sin but aren't comfortable in their sin. If not you won't call those who tell her phone sec is wrong derogatory names to feel good about your ways. Thanks for the insults and God bless.

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  10. Phone sex???? Seems like a man that won’t have control over his sexual urge, and that could lead to cheating after marriage in most cases not in all cases. Since he wants to marry u, why didn’t he just look forward to the marriage rather than engaging u in phone sex. More importantly, never do anything u are uncomfortable with in order to please a man, it never works. Be you and if he can’t respect that, then he ain’t the one for u.

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  11. Poster check well, I was involved in a similar situation. I was doing well for myself, helped a helpless man whose family couldn't help, set him up financially. today he call all I did for him nonsense. My happiness now are my kids, I don close eyes set his matter for table. He must hearam, after all the spring flows from me

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  12. Madam celebate. Well done oo. I hail oo

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  13. As a single mum of one, I feel disappointed in you. Seems all the years of single hood. U didnt learn anything. U didnt stand to understand the traits of a good man. Now proposals are just mere words until the guy has put action into it. Let me tell u, alot of pple see single moms as free chops and will even use proposal to get you then change their mind. Secondly u didnt state anything about character other than his admiration for u. Are u sure u dont want to be a single mum for the second time. Cos u r ready to throw away logic all for 5 mins of pleasure. Go on, that's y christianity is now a thing of laughter cos u dont know jesus was tempted after fasting but u have been tempted with the same thing christ preached about and u say "I like it". Oya continue. Third child loading.

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    1. Well said Anon. Poster "sometimes" the answer you get after a fasting/praises/midnight prayers is not the answer you seek but the kind of temptation Christ suffered himself after fasting for 40days aftew which the devil came to tempt him (wish i had understanding of this earlier). No man sent from God will engage you in phone sex...as a practising Christian it is wrong! I know say body no be firewood but if you hold on just a little bit more and seek God's face earnestly, He will show up in your life and show off. Praying you make the right decision hunπŸ€—

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    2. Well said Anon.. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    3. anon πŸ‘πŸ½πŸ‘ŒπŸ½πŸ‘πŸ½

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  14. Gbamst! Stellicious has said it all. Phone sex is as good as masturbation. That's all i can say

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  15. Poster please have you heard of fleeces? Even the bible says God answers prayers according to the idols of your heart..3 days, 3 proposals?..There may be one of them that is for you, but please calm down and be very careful, Ask God for wisdom and a discerning spirit..Someone is discussing phone sex and you know it is wrong, why are you accommodating him? This is not the time for anything goes, the man you will settle down with has to accept your kids and you or nothing..Be very careful my dear..Even the devil poses an angel of light! All the best

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  16. Hmmm.. This is time for you to be very patient enough to see the plans God has for you.. Sit back, don't rush! If any of them is yours, you will know and if not,You will still know.

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  17. The phone stx guy is just here to chop and go.
    All three signs are there.
    Someone who is RESPONSIBLE, respects you and wants to be with you in the long run wouldn't do that.
    Flee from him.
    He has clouded your mind so much that u forgot to mention the third one.
    Fleeeeeeeeee

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  18. This is what happens when you don't have a personal relationship with the Holy Spirit of which he speaks to you through dreams and visions. You'd be at an easy road like this and be confused.


    I always say, choosing a spouse the easiest part of marriage for a Christian. You don't have to date 15 men, do phone sex etc because the eyes of the spirit goes deep and sees the past, present and future of a person .


    The actual marriage and getting used to your spouse's personality is what takes work. If baba God helped in choosing, you can be assured that the person is good and it lightens the weigh of the work.


    Those who know, know.

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    1. But come to think of it, you said you did Hallelujah challenge. It means you prayed a lot during the period. So why not pray and ask the Lord who it is he has designed for you. God is not an author of confusion.

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    2. You have a point. God speaks to his children through dreams, visions and prophecy. These questions about picking the right one wouldn't even come up if she herself wasn't sitting on the edge. However, sometimes you don't need the Holy Spirit to guide you at every turn because as a born again Christian you are at the adult stage where you no longer take baby milk and you are spiritually discerning enough to know whom to discard and whom to entertain in your life. If this poster was spiritually inclined enough she would have discarded the guy whom she engages in phone sex with, right off the bat But funnily enough, he is the one she based this whole chronicle upon while saying next to nothing about the two other men. The poster needs to work on her walk with God more and get closer to him before thinking of picking anyone. From her post, you can tell she doesn't know what she wants and whom to pick. She doesn't even know herself well enough because is she not deeply rooted in Christ but I feel her uneasiness towards him, his the holy-spirit nudging her to let him go.

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    3. Anon 15:51 I'm the anon you replied at the beginning.

      You are partially right but what you don't know is that the phone sex guy might be her right husband but it will just takee a few years of waiting for God to cleans his ways.


      I've seen where God told ladies that that Muslim guy they didn't consider was their husband but they had to wait for a few years while still praying.

      By the time the guy became born again, he overtook and begin even more prayerful.


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  19. You also didn't give any specific detail about the first man except for the fact that he has shown interest in you for a while. Nothing About their, godly nature, personalities, career, physical attributes and all. You didn't mention any qualities you desire in a man to help us gauge who might be closer to the right one for you. Your university crush came back after 10 years? What piqued your interest in him in time past? I believe people grow and mature. The qualities you desired in a man 10 years ago can't be the same qualities you yearn for 10 years after because life has happened and you have matured. You are also grown! Mentally, spiritually, and all. You didn't mention a single quality he possesses so I am here wondering why you are still crushing on him after all these years. You are celibate but you have been exposed to a world of new sexual discoveries. I believe you know that celibacy goes beyond your physical bodies engaging in the act. You have to train your mind and watch the message you pass across because I believe at this point to him, your celibacy journey is just a word of mouth. Whenever you notice the conversation is leading to a different topic, kindly excuse yourself or change the topic and if he doesn't get it, ask him to call at a later time when he is ready to have a proper conversation with you. I feel you need to know yourself better before allowing anyone into your space. I feel you don't know what you want based on how you structure your post or are some parts missing? Do you know what you want in a man? You can't have it all in one person but you can have the needed qualities. Check your list to see if any of those men have 80% of the most important qualities you seek and start with it. Since you have kids and they are already talking marriage at this point, please have it in mind that whatever decision you make, your kid's welfare would/should be at the forefront of your mind.

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    1. Poster, take this advice from sabella and Stella.

      Yes, phone sex is a sin.

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    2. If you participated in the Hallelujah challenge without telling God that you need a God fearing/self control/honest man, then you need to repent.

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  20. Poster..pray and seek God's face before accepting any proposal from any of them! Ask God to reveal each of them to you! Praying you make the right decision πŸ™ also tell the one you will choose about your kids from the start,to avoid stories later

    As for the phone sex, desist from it! Before you know you will be tempted to do the do cos of the the frequent calls about it!

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    1. Exactly. Phone sex will make her think about the real thing.
      Poster better desist from such act.

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  21. Small thing , Bvs be like how well do you know him? Well I am sure most bvs knew there partner well at the end it crashed anyways!point is change is constant and no matter how well you think you know a person, he or she might decide to be a devil tomorrow for reasons best known to them!
    The question i ask is how well are you prepared ? Because truth is you can be only sure of yourself ? Are you prepared mentally,spiritually, finanicilly, and physically to embark on this journey knowing fully well that humans can change and when it does because you are prepared you can keep in a safe place while hoping your choices are the best ? Well poster just check truly inward if you are ready and if you feel you ready, give anyone a chance and when it doesn't go a step plan atleast you can have a safe blackout plan because you planned for HE journey ahead.you can never truly know a person if you like tick all he good boxes...there is only a thin line between good and bad! If we all focus and work on ourselves then it is easy for all!

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    1. Please listen to anon 15.29,@anon,I am not the poster but you made a whole lot of sense,God bless you and to the poster listen to him/her,so apt

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    2. Anon 15:29 People can change yes! But most times people are set in their ways and can't be influenced one way or the other albeit, drastically. Except in situations where a life-changing experience or discovery bigger than their reality happens to them which alters their physiology completely. Most times people are who they are and if any change occurs, then maybe, just maybe, they were pretending to start with or were suppressing that hidden aspect of themselves they were once scared to lay bare at the onset. I personally believe people simply build on pre-existing behavioural patterns. But to make a 360-degree u-turn without an underlying catalyst or life-changing event is always rare.

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    3. *Alters their Psyche*

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    4. ''the question is how well are you prepared because truth is you can only be sure of yourself'' very true anon

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    5. You can't be sure of yourself if you don't even know yourself. You will just be moving anyhow like leaf ehn.... You go wherever the winds pushes you.


      1529based on your reasoning there is no need for dating?. We can just pick anyone and marry them afterall a person current behaviour does not determine how they will act in the future. No need for dating again oooh just point and kill ba

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    6. Sa Bella, imagine a situation the lady is prepared all round and sure of her self and the men also prepared and sure of themselves , then the relationship would be free flow with less problems because everyone is armed for the best and committed to it...imagine a lady prepared for marriage financially physically spiritually and mentally meeting also same men that isn't also prepared...what do you think would happen ? Answer for yourself..anon is right .we should focus and work on ourselves and if everyone have same mindset, things would be better of

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    7. Anon 18:39 I understand your comment and I support it too if only that was anon 15:29's point but it wasn't? Read her/his first paragraph and see why I replied that way. Your comment is totally different from the anon's comment. The anon said, "been prepared in all areas and believing your man is prepared too isn't a guarantee for a good marriage in the future because many people like her, in the past did check all those qualities you agreed in your comments are important for an easy marriage, yet their relationship still nose-dived". So rather, the poster should should focus more on herself and not the man who can turn around and change into a different person tomorrow and see if anything happens tomorrow, she can stand on her feet. Hence my reason for stating that people are set in their ways and anyone changing from good to bad wasn't really good to begin with or something really huge beyond their control must have dealt with their psyche and paying attention to a potential spouse personality, beliefs, lifestyles no matter how we try to disapprove it,is a good determinant to a larger extent in deciphering how good the marriage will turn out.

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  22. Dear poster, congrats for having proposals became that's what most women yearn for.
    I would advise you to pray and study them before saying yes to marriage, make sure that you don't give room to any form of sex,be it phone sex or real sex and God would help you to make decision. Also like Aunty stellita said, discuss your kids with the men oo,this is Paramount.
    Talking about phone sex, please how do people enjoy it,cos to me,if it's not real, it's not real

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  23. Poster seek God's direction but you see that one that is introducing you to phone sex? Run away from him.

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  24. Follow Stella's Advice
    And yes phone sex is a sin

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  25. You try your best to "live a morally upright life..." and you like phone sex a lot
    and you already think it will corrupt your life and are asking us if it is bad"
    Haven't you passed the judgment yourself.
    You know what the Lord says;
    "If your heart condemns you, God is greater than your heart..." 1 John 3:21
    The questions are;
    What other (corrupting) tools does this dude have in his arsenal?
    How many other ladies is he having phone sex with?
    Why not a dude that teaches you;
    phone prayer meeting,
    phone Bible studies,
    phone fellowship,
    phone healthy conversations,
    phone investment dialogue,
    phone home planning,
    phone financial workshops?
    Phone number of kids we'd have and spacing/family planning methods?
    I am married for so many years and when I dated my husband, those were the kinds of
    healthy conversations we held over the phone.
    Is it by phone sex that a family is built?πŸ“žπŸ“΅
    I have read most girls here talk about marrying "a god-fearing man"
    and I hope you do not think different from that. Is this your idea of
    a god-fearing man?
    And like Stella asked, why the rush now?

    Nne, it is time to drop this heavy entangling weight of iniquities and seek
    Jesus to lighten your path. πŸ””πŸ””πŸ””πŸ””πŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”Š

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  26. I will say you are the only one that knows how they make you feel, go with that. You are the one in the best position to make a choice.

    From what you wrote alone, I will say go with the first person as it seems he has put in more effort and patience in asking for your hand. By now, you should be more mature than ‘following a crush’ and the only recent thing your crush came to add to your life is ‘phone sex’, how laudable! At the very least, you need someone who will:
    - Be on the same page with you on your spiritual life. Take it from me, better for a prayerful man to marry a lukewarm woman than a prayerful woman to marry a lukewarm man. In marriage, it is harder to lift up a man spiritually, much harder.
    - be a provider, at the very least, provide for you and the kids you will have with him, bonus if he can take over the needs of your kids as well
    - accept your kids, and maturely work with you on a formula for taking care of their needs
    - be a good leader and friend, who you wouldn’t mind deferring to should the need arise
    - meet your sexual needs

    Please feel free to add other things that matter to you, but from this short write-up you have sent in, Mr Phone sex is not the best fit.

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  27. Poster please follow Stella's advice and don't forget to ask God for directions.

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  28. Madam please tread carefully. Single mums and young widows are now endangrred species. Don't let anyone fool you with marriage proposal .That's the language they now use to lure single girls and woman. Forget about the 3 of them for now and focus on your God,yourself and your children. After 40days of fasting, Jesus was hungry and the devil knew it so he came with offers. The devil knows you need a husband. Please resist the devil and flee. The days are full of evils. Stay alive for your kids.

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  29. Poster, 3 proposals. Hmm. 1st of all, tell Mr phone sex to sprint. Find out why all the sudden proposals. You must be attracted to your partner, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Even if they show interest in your kids, still seek the face of God yourself (don't meet any Pastor or Prophet to do it for you). I wish you all the best.

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  30. Poster these men may not be the answers to your prayers. Thread carefully.

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  31. Hallelujah Challenge followed by phone sex; Lobatan!! My dear you have not reached your bus stop o.

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  32. Three is a lot. You have to extensively do your research on these men physically and spiritually.

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  33. Anonymous 16.29has said it all,please exclude the phone sex man and pray about the other two, tell the holy spirit to show you a sign if anyone amongst the two is your husband,if not.

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  34. Chronicle poster, did they all actually ask for your hand in marriage or they just asked you out ( as in from being friends to let's get into a relationship) because that's what I sense from your write up. We women tend to mix things up.

    If it's a relationship, is the 2nd one a long distance relationship? Even at that, it is a no-no sef. He has no respect for you.

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  35. My sister forget that phone sex guy. Those that talk too much sex, send me nudes, I will fuck you till you scream, blablabla they mostly cannot even satisfy a woman in bed, don't know bedmantics one bit. Their own is to talk sex up and down

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  36. Poster, does the phone sex guy live in Lag? Formerly lived in Abuja? I know a guy who does that phone sex wella. Want to know if it's the same by coincidence.

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  37. Stella, idea for a post. If you're a single mum, you get married and your husband demands you send your children away, either to their father or your family. Bottom line, he doesn't want the child/children with him, what would you do?

    Thought about it from your red pen.

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  38. Sweetheart, if you didn't start with the Hallelujah challenge, this comment would have been a tad different. It's implied from your narrative that the 3 proposals are a result of your prayers during the challenge, no? Why then do you want to taint things with sexual pleasures? Why not honour God by being chaste, moreso when the one you are lusting after isn't present physically? You have been celibate and, according to you, have been trying to live morally upright so the concept of abstinence before marriage should be novel.

    I'm not going to shame you for enjoying phone sex, you're only human and you haven't "had some" in a while, above all, this experience is new to you which will make it all the more thrilling. Be that as it may, you have to get a grip of yourself and your desires. I can confidently tell you that this phone sex guy is NOT the right guy for you. How can you tell a guy you are celibate then...BOOM! He introduces you to phone sex! How inconsiderate!

    He is just buttering you up for the main event. After hearing him moan and all the naughty things he wants to do to you and make you touch yourself and imagine all sorts, how firm do you think your resistance will be when he appears in the flesh and he tells you how badly he wants you? A man who is serious about marriage will want to get to know you and your kids. He will do all he can to prove to you that he will be a good provider and protector. He will even tread cautiously when it comes to sex because he wouldn't want to offend you. It's only after you guys click and are going steady that he would test your boundaries to see how far you will allow him go.

    Darling, please be very careful because it's not just you, your kids are involved. There are too many predators out there looking for vulnerable ladies to prey on. Divorcees and single mums are usually their targets. Guard your heart diligently, you can't afford to fall too hard too fast. Once you are too carried away, objectivity takes a nosedive. For all you know, this guy may just be acting out a fantasy, he may just want to know what it feels like to have sex with you after 10 years. He would hit it twice, or thrice for good measure then waltz right back out of your life, leaving you disillusioned.

    The answer to your prayers may be 3 months away. Be vigilant when prayers seem answered with immediate effect, not all "open doors" were opened by God. The devil disguises as an angel of light. Watch and keep praying, you will recognize him when he eventually shows up.
    e-hugs and kisses.

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    1. Thank you Ronalda

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    2. I'm glad you didn't christian-shame her. Ah, you're not holy enough etc..
      Not everyone is on the same level, we all need a lil help, a lil encouragement, a lil prayer..

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  39. Dear Poster, please be very careful and vigilant !! I dnt have much to say cos Stella already advised u , pls follow her advice and make sure u always pray about it as well .. God help u

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  40. @poster, i have to be very blunt with you. I think you are just deluded. Hallelujah challenge is just about a month old and you are talking about proposals. From your story, you were not even in any relationship with these guys in recent times. Do not forget that people you've lost contact with can currently be far worse than you can ever think.

    You did not explain the details of your being a single mom of two, but just be careful you do not add more children to those two, with no man to father them because i think these guys are just frolicking with you without any desire for a committed marriage relationship and this will likely affect the development of these your kids later in life.

    Patience is what you really need. Trust in the Lord with ALL your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In ALL your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths. Regards to your two beautiful angels.

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  41. Poster, but you know phone sex isn't acceptable for a believer and you're still asking. You see what's happening to you now? This guy is already turning your mind and making you question your beliefs. That's how the enemy works - through subtle manipulation to get you to push back your boundaries and make excuses. Cut all communication from that guy immediately coz when you give the devil an inch, he takes a mile.

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  42. One of them is def for you,the others are sent to divert,derail,confuse,use,hurt and leave you in tears.Pray and study them well,they will eventually reveal who they are.

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