STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
THE BLOOD OATH
Stella,thank you for what you have been doing.
My story goes like this: I had a blood covenant with my ex,we were so young then in secondary school I am 28 years old now my ex is 30 I had it at the age of 14.
My family were against us being together because we were so young, after some years I went to college. we went our separate ways but we still keep in touch we knew what goes on in our lives; he had two relationships which did not end well and the lady got married to a policeman; his life was shattered because the were still together when she got married.
I on the other hand was enjoying my relationship but it ended too because of trust issues ,note he is married now.I met a man called Friday and I told him everything about me from my anger issues to my blood covenant we were together for 1 year and eleven months in-between he proposed and I said yes until one day I went to search for his name on Facebook and I saw a post he made about his fiance having a blood covenant with her ex....
he was seeking for advice I was so angry with him so I confronted him on WhatsApp because he is in another state.he was trying to tell me that he had no reasons for doing that and he is not afraid of me if he has issues with that he will tell me I was not convinced I was hurt, this is someone I loved and trusted and never thought he could do this I just told him am tired and done!
He was not remorseful of what he did he was just telling me to calm down that I should not panic,I just called him and told him how he cheated on me and and how I wasted my two years with him not knowing he was like that and I ended the call,he later called I did not pick, in the morning he called I was asleep as I cried throughout the night and he sent me a message that he called I did not pick he just wanted to confirm what I said I did not reply after some days I called him he picked I wànted a conversation to know why he did that knowing how far we have gone he was not supposed to do that but rather talk to me about it.
he was giving me attitude I just told him sorry for talking to him that way and I apologized I called again he did not pick my call.i contacted his friend, the friend said he told him we were not together I having been trying to talk to him to no avail. Please bvs I need your candid advice. Stella your red pen is needed please.
*You have been trying to talk to him concerning what?The blood oath has been activated once again,so please move on,the Marriage will not hold...
Go and break the oath you took please.
I have a friend whose life was ruined by this thing,it hurts me to even talk about it now but she was ruined totally....never married or had a child,first class University material but could not graduate..its a long story.
Follow Stella plz, go and look for a way to break the oath o. Make God no let me use my leg waka go where dem dey do oath. Ojo ki ko
ReplyDeleteIf you are 28 which means you were born in 1992/3. You were not born in the medieval era so you must have at least heard about the consequences of oaths and blood oaths are nearly unbreakable because it tempers with your consciousness and mind keep building an error output which becomes your reality.
DeleteIf you ask me I would counsel against going to any church in search of deliverance as many here wouldn't advice. I will counsel mind renewal. You need to meditate, go into yourself and agree with yourself that there was no binding oath! Refuse to see it as active or having any effect on any aspect of your life. When you have failures and set backs, let that be the last thing on your mind you can blame it on. Don't forget all of us without blood oaths have setbacks and failures. Just create a beautiful picture for yourself and focused that you are God's own project. Your existence is purely for his pleasure and only the things that pleases him will happen to you irrespective of any oath.
Smile and let this be the last time you make reference to any oath.
Saphire God bless you for this advise, the oath is work I is you believe so, remove your mind from it, confess with your mouth and break the oath
DeleteI concur. True talk
DeleteThank you sapphire. She needs a life check.
DeleteSomeone has been cheating on you, posted about you on social media, and yet na you dey apologize. Lmao. Grow some self respect babe. Please stop calling anyone.
He should be the one begging you for forgiveness. Imagine the nonsense.
Also, that blood nonsense, bury it and forget it never tell anyone ever again.
You were weak, which was why you took the oath, and that's why you still dey get issues till now. Cos you're still weak.
It only affects you if you give it space to.
Stop calling your ex, he isnt worth it, worse , if you get back with him, just know you're the side chick oo or pastime. Dont say I didnt tell you.
Blood covenant is not broken by mere denunciation, it's broken with the death of one of the former lovers and the blood of the dead will be used to break the covenant
DeleteTalk talk..
ReplyDeleteI wonder if its only women d so called blood oath affects. Guy will marry n move on, women will be travelling in self pity.
BB nnem, exactly! We are emotional about everything. We will blame every woe on it meanwhile a carefree man do move on and dismissed rubbish and ingredients from his mind tey tey. Next she will start running from one church to the other and pastors love her kind ehn.
DeleteAs a man thinketh in his mind, so is he!
So people are still doing this.
DeleteBB you have spoken well, this simply means that most times people just overburden themselves with what's not.
DeleteIf truly the oath is legit then it should tie both parties down and make them never to get married to another apart from the oath takers themselves.
Saphire very true
DeleteBlood oath destroying life . It is well with you poster.
ReplyDeleteI took blood bath with two different men in my teen years. Currently in my late 40s with 5 kids n married to none of them. One relocated, one is a top politician, we do not keep in touch anyway. Life cannot balance at all. Lol.
ReplyDeleteNothing is there yeye superstition, you can never see men worry about it
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Delete@Lyndy, it's not superstition o. You don't joke with such things, they are highly demonic as it draws evil spirits to the culprits. Some get away with it if their foundation is not polluted.
DeleteIts superstition. For you to do a blood oat, you have to be a little stewpeed and very gullible.
DeletePeople hardly change, so these characters will usually follow you into adulthood
You had oath with another person hence it was broken. If it was only one person you for no dey in the mood to talk wetin you dey talk. Oath is powerful. As for the poster, seems like the oath is working already. This your in and out relationships. Please find that guy and break it. Don't listen to the bvs telling you it doesn't matter o. Don't find yourself over 40 unmarried and then begin to blame your village people or your friends. DO THE RIGHT THING PLEASE. Stella is right!
Delete@17:04, I agree. It's usually gullible teenagers who allowed love becloud them that did that blood thingy. Those attitudes still manifest in adulthood. Think back to those who were already ambitious, hardworking and goal-getters from teenage. Today they are successful or running a company. (eg Genevieve was a single Mum at 18, one of many single Mums but didn't let self pity or her past take over. She hustled for auditions and so on and today is a success). Upbringing, character and determination matters a lot. Besides, Nigeria is a country where so many are struggling, so its very easy to look for what to blame for the lack of success. But the country by default isn't set up for many to be successful. Pastors use people like this to make money.
DeleteYou have a serious issue, bae attitude that you need to deal with before going into relationship.
ReplyDeleteNo man has time for bull crap.
Go and break the oath.
DeleteYou are right, her attitude is her number one problem. Take care of that, you will be ok.
DeleteWhy don't this oaths affect the men, just the ladies why? 🦋
DeleteMama I follow you do hmmmmmmmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteYou better take Stella advice.. Nothing we work until you breakfree from that covenant.Your ex that's married already I just pity him cause the oath you both took we definitely hunt him,he thinks his enjoying now.Both of you need deliverance.
ReplyDeleteThat's if there is a way out.
DeleteMy Aunt is still suffering from it. She is in her 40s, no husband, no child, no money nor good things of life. Stagnancy is just it for her.
DeleteAnonymous 15:24, and the man? What's his life like? Or is it only your aunt that misfortune has befallen?
DeleteExactly! Only her aunt is suffering it because na only women de carry this kain matter for head.
DeleteBut my own aunty didn’t do any oath and she also has no husband, no child, not good things of life. Stagnancy is just it for her as well. So what do we blame in this case??
DeleteMove the heck on,lovely
ReplyDeletePoster , so the blood oath allow you guys to lash other people?
ReplyDeleteThe blood oath no strong be that.
Don't mind them... It's easily for some people to blame their circumstances on a bad omen then to live their lives.
Deletelol e really no strong biko
DeleteI think it is mere superstition, if you believe that your misfortunes are because of the oath, it hunts you. I did it when I was younger because of the money the man was dishing out. I later found out the kind of person he was and refused to marry him. He has moved on and married with children the same with me
ReplyDeleteOshe! Loud it biko. Blood oath kor.
DeleteLol the guy was obviously scared and that was why he sought for advice. You shouldn't have taken it far na. He was willing to spend the rest of his life with and knows about the oath so he was curious. I just hope it's not the oath working but since u said your ex is married I don't think there's problem. The blood of Jesus is powerful, please break the yoke and I believe u will be fine..
ReplyDeleteENIOLA
Christ has wash away our sins...live ur life for him.
ReplyDeletePoster please go and break that blood covenant with whoever you did it with as it is speaking against you..You getting angry with your man does not hold water as nobody wants to die or inherit wahala from the repercussions of blood oaths (remember he is someone's son and brother) it is not a bragging right..Since you and your secondary school sweetheart were no longer together, the first thing was to break that covenant immediately thereby severing the ties and you both move on with your lives. Please do this immediately and accept Jesus as your lord and saviour.
ReplyDeleteWhen next you meet another man, don't mention any thing about you and someone having a blood covenant, you are now a new creature..E no heavy you for mouth when you dey tell that guy! Please there are certain things that should be left unsaid..Pray for wisdom..All the best
This blood oath thingy is one of the hardest covenant to break. Better start making enquiries on servants of God who are equipped to do it, because believe me, your prayers no fit carry am. And your ex must be a willing partner before it can be broken.
ReplyDeleteSee them☝️. That her prayer can not carry it. Awon prophet seekers, solution seekers. Jesus died for MOGs and not for her. Where do you people get these self-imposed limitations from and you seek to impose it on others?
DeletePoster no look for any MOG o. They will suck you dry of what is left. Those pastors thrive off situations like this magnifying an ant mole to a mountain. Pray and agree by yourself and move on.
You better call your ex boyfriend that both of you take oath together and destroy it for your own good and the good of your ex.
ReplyDeleteForget that he is married now,Go and ask after him, you will see that he is not finding things easy..
You will never have peace and him too will never have peace of mind until the oath is destroy or broken
Please call him and destroy the oath so you both will go separately in peace...
Hmmmm!!!!
Blood covenant as in you drank each other's blood?
ReplyDeleteMadam will you blame him? You need to break that oath.
ReplyDeleteTaking oath is bad bad bad, pls dear parents if you have teenage kids biko warn them against the dangers of oath o.
Good luck poster
I thought you were the one who broke up with him first?
ReplyDeleteWhat’s with the drama?
It was your decision to take a blood oath, and I think it is also his decision to feel some kind of way about marrying someone that did, It is not your place to tell him how to deal with those feelings.
The wrong I see him do here was not being upfront with you about his reservations regarding the oath.
Go and solve your problem madam, and leave him alone if he doesn’t want again. Maybe it’s best you look out for people that don’t believe in stuff like that to be in a relationship with.
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DeleteWhat about oath of saying you will never love someone like your ex but have fallen in love countless times but never able to sustain a relationship,could it be as a result of the oath?if yes,what's the solution?but I refuse to believe that because am a Christian and I have prayed against that countless times
ReplyDeleteBlood oath at 14? You both were young and didn't know what you were doing. You need to speak to your ex so that you'll find a way to break whatever is holding you bound. As for your fiance,his fears are valid just that he didn't go about it the right way. But you weren't picking his calls earlier nau,why are you panicking cos he's not picking yours the truth is your relationship now has trust issues and it's better you let go to clear your head and break that covenant before going into a relationship again
ReplyDeleteGo and break the oath covenant with your ex and move on peacely...
ReplyDeleteSerious issue on board..
You both need DELIVERANCE.
You ignored him and told him it was over, now he has accepted it, why trying to getting his attention again? Move on. You have to find a way to break that oat and set your self free from your ex.
ReplyDeleteAre blood oaths taken just between two people really effective??? I don't believe they are.
ReplyDeleteI pity anyone that indulge in blood oath... Most times, it doesn't end well... It's better to avoid it totally no matter the pressure...
ReplyDeleteTwo ladies I know that partook in blood oath did not end well. One died childless when she left the guy and got married and the other lady became a mentally challenged case...
Poster, look for your ex lover and break the blood oath and soul tie... Renounce every curses and calamity attached to it...
Also, consciously work on your anger issue... Sometimes, when you're very angry , keep calm...
Pls you need serious prayers to break that oath.Reach out to your ex,and break that bond.God see you through.
ReplyDeleteSister,go and break that oath first,then u can come back and collect more advice on how to work on yourself and attitude.
ReplyDeleteYou used your hand to dig your own grave I pray that you will be able to untangle your life free from the shackles of oat.. You invited the devil 👿, send him out yourself.
ReplyDeleteWhy are women allegedly the only ones affected by blood oaths? I don't believe in it.
ReplyDeleteThe women you all think were affected by blood oaths simply experienced the (negative) part of life. There are a lot of women who are childless or never married and they didn't partake in any blood oaths.
Truth be told, more women than men are likely to go through life without ever getting married or having kids because the number of women ready for a commitment at any given time are usually more than the men willing to be in committed relationships. That's why the women you think were affected by blood oaths are childless and/or unmarried while the men are most often not. A lazy and/or poor man will still meet a woman who would overlook his poverty or laziness just so she can get married and have kids. I know poor guys that women have FOUGHT over.
You dey mind them? Women and victim mentality. Nothing can ever happen naturally again in this imperfect world, especially in the lives of women. They must have done something in the past.
Delete"Truth be told, more women than men are likely to go through life without ever getting married or having kids because the number of women ready for a commitment at any given time are usually more than the men willing to be in committed relationships."
DeleteThank you jare. Apart from that, the pool of eligible men is reducing by the day. Many young Nig men are fleeing the country. Our men are scattered worldwide from USA to Dubai to even Gambia, Nig men are there, making the pool even smaller. That's why I encourage women to work towards success. There's a confidence and satisfaction success & exposure brings. If you spend single years fighting or worrying over men, in mid-age pastors will use you for cash cow. Change what you can and accept what you cannot change. Life is not perfect, everyone has their cross.
Just move on. E no work!
ReplyDeletei dont believe in the oath of a thing ..atimes guys do such so he can get under her..
ReplyDeletemy dear move on ...what if he died does it mean u wont move on ...me taking oath with a girl is for me to be having her when eva i want ..so please move on
Blood oath fire, poster your problem is your mouth, for closure sake go and break the oath with the guy so you can have peace of mind but I bet you the oath is not your problem. If you like go on and tell the next guy how you took an oath!!!! Some things are better left unsaid while you take it to God in prayer.
ReplyDeleteTomorrow any little thing that happens your spouse will blame it on your oath, did you think he told you everything that has happened in his past life? Be wise, you need to reach a level of understanding (years doesn't count as level of understanding) with a person before you can tell them things.
Poster even if that guy accepts you back, just know any negative thing that happens in your lives he will relate to the oath, are you ready to live that type of life? I will advise you to move on and control your mouth in future.
Poster call me 🤙
Exactly
DeletePlease ho and break the blood oath first or you go back to the guy you took the oath with.
ReplyDeletePoster please make sure that blood oath is destroyed with serious prayers and seeking God face. Blood oath dikwa very risky
ReplyDeletePoster go and break that oath with your ex, you have to move on with your life.
ReplyDeleteIf you didnt go to any babalawo, the blood oath na fake, nothing will happen to you, one idio tried to hook me with one nonesence oath, we cut ourselves with blades,we separated later and both doing well 20 years after
ReplyDeletePlease do not jump into another bondage by going to an agent of Satan to "break and oath.'
ReplyDeleteIsaiah 14:17 Satan does not allow his captives go free.
You played into his hands when you tasted blood in that oath against God's injunction Lev. 19:26 that you shall
not eat any blood (also Acts. 15:29).
Now understand that Jesus has secured your freedom with his own blood.(John 3:16, Acts 20:28)
Just call upon Jesus in your own words today and ask him to take away this reproach of Satan in your life
and come into your life and be your savior and you will see what happens. Then begin to study his word daily.
You have eternal life and he will bless you with his will. Jesus rules. 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
Thank you jor. Poster just pray and renounce whatever on your own. Don't contact your married ex for anything. Don't go to break an oath anything before prophets and fake pastors will use you to make their christmas money
DeleteI will advice you to look for the book;
ReplyDelete"Sin in the HOuse -a revelation of the blood covenant."
It is on amazon
Please go and break loose from that oath.. it's very important
ReplyDeleteYou’re asking for advice here, but you got angry that he asked for advice somewhere.... okay then
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DeleteWell the difference is she's anon , he's known by his FB friends so that kinda bothers her .
Read Rev12:11. Both of you should give your lives to Christ, come together and renounce yourselves from the oath and its consequences before God and man using the superior blood of Jesus and the name of Jesus. Have faith and move on with your lives and learn to keep quiet about it unless absolutely necessary.
ReplyDeleteYou are same age as me. At this age, if you don't know that it's not everything you tell a man then I wonder when you want to learn. Put your emotions to check girly! You just open mouth waaaa. I'm sure that blood oat is not the cause of your problems
ReplyDeleteSaphires advice has said it all for me.
ReplyDeletePlease go and sort yourself out. Break that covenant.
ReplyDeleteFor all please never ever enter a blood covenant. It is a very stubborn and difficult covenant to break and nothing good comes from it
Blood covenant is not broken by mere denunciation, it's broken with the death of one of the former lovers and the blood of the dead person will be used to break the covenant
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