Hmmmmm......
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
TAGGED A SELFISH MOTHER:....
He still sends money but says he doesn't want his son to grow up in Nigeria and wants him to have a better life in America that i should think of it..
Should i let my son go?
The only sure option for me to relocate with my son is if we elope and i marry him and get my papers. I also got some substantial inheritance and looking at admission to some countries abroad like Canada::::
Should i relocate or invest the money in Naija? perhaps we could be closer to his dad if i get a study visa and his dad could get to see him more if we can relocate?
Don't really know what choice to make but he keeps saying I'm selfish for not releasing my son to a better life abroad as his dad is a citizen.:
Release your son to grow up without you?NO PLEASE!
Consider the option of relocating so that he can be near his dad...Please tell him you are cannot release your son unless you relocate together....
DO NOT RELEASE YOUR SON. That might be the last time you'll see him.
ReplyDeletePoster DO NOT RELEASE YOUR SON!!!! You can also relocate in order for him to be close to his dad
DeleteI don't understand this YOUR SON you guys are screaming about.
DeleteThe child doesn't belong to her alone. She also hasn't complained that his father is a horrible dad.
Poster you can consider relocating abroad so all of you will be together.
Don’t release your song
DeleteHe’s too young
And if your man marries someone else, he’ll be raised by a step mother. What’s the fun in that when you’re alive and well. If you send your son abroad now, who will take care of him . Your son is the son of a citizen and can go to America after secondary school or his first degree
Also what do you mean they didn’t let him marry you. With all the courts in Nigeria, what stopped him . Don’t go to America to be with him. If he didn’t marry in Nigeria why will he marry you when you get there
He should make way for you to be with your son until then never separate from your son at this tender age,you might just regret it!
ReplyDeleteNeve ever leave your child at a young age to go and be somewhere you don't have access to!!!
ReplyDeleteYou didn't state how old your son is but please don't leave him.
Instead find a way to relocate with your son so you can be closer to his father.
Yes o. I agree with kokolet. Please learn from Doris Simeon the actress. Thank God she has finally relocated
DeleteI wonder if she would be confused if abroad was not part of the whole ish.
DeleteAt 16.18, you are very dumb.
Delete@16:18, read the chronicle one more time...the lady has the means to relocate as well as stay in Nigeria, the dilemma is...stay in Naija with her son or relocate to Canada where her son can technically be closer to his Dad,the poster does not sound desparate to relocate, but is confused as to whether she should release her son to the father, and to be fair, her son will have a better opportunity abroad. Poster do not release your son, rather as you have the means relocate to Canada so your son can be closer to his Dad.
Delete16.18 please read not every woman is as desperate as the ones you roll with
DeleteStella has said it all! You are not selfish..We women are blessed with INTUITION please don't ever doubt it..Tell him you need to be close to your son as well..You don't have to marry him but you are his mother you need to be there..All the best...
ReplyDeleteGbam! Dassal! Stella has said it all, it's better fpr ur son to grow up outsode Nigeria where he will have better opportunities and exposure, but ensure you are with him
ReplyDeleteRelocate with your son. Your baby daddy's family are the one stylishly operating through him, they don't want you but want their grandson. It appears from your write up that both of you still have feelings for each other, relocate with your son, go for further studies if that would afford you the opportunity to be closer to him and for your son to see his dad regularly, who knows? You guys may eventually marry. All the best
ReplyDeleteGuten Tag
ReplyDeleteThe truth remains that every young man needs a dad figure to teach them how to be a man.
Personally,I can't release my son to him ,never. Let him relocate the 2of you.
You obviously are still in love with your son’s dad. Does he feel that way about you?
ReplyDeleteIf he loves you, he’d take you and your son out of Nigeria. He just wants his son.....you are no longer in the picture.
Please move on and live your life.
I’m never letting my son out of my sight if I were you. That’s all you’ve got.
If you are financially okay, you can relocate to the abroad. Your baby dadi can come visit him while you are there.
Gbam
DeleteRelocate for study and not necessarily to be with him.
ReplyDeleteYour son will also get the best of education with your relocation and his dad can also visit you guys while both of you are getting an education.
All the best.
Stella good advice.
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ReplyDeletePlease take Stella's response...#$HIKENA#
ReplyDeleteAny relocating should be a dual one.
ReplyDeleteYou and your son as one package. No time for timing abeg
If you must relocate, do so worth your son. I'm of the opinion that you relocate but do so with your son. Do not invest your entire future and that of your son in this Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteDon't release your child so that your story won't end like Otedola first wife/babymama.
ReplyDeletePlease spill o
DeleteFelicity pls gist us what happened
DeleteFelicity, you cannot drop a bomb like this and just walk away naw
DeleteOtedola first daughter(Olawunmi Otedola) is dj Cuppy half sister,a woman claims she wasn't marry Otedola because of the difference in their background and she has been denied access to the girl.
DeleteThe story is online anyways
*wasn't allowed to
DeletePlease, relocate with your son.
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ReplyDeleteDid we read same chronicle?
DeleteYou either release him to his father or relocate with him. Pls give the boy a chance at a better life Biko it’s his right.
ReplyDeleteIf he wants a better life for his son and he feels relocating his son is it" let him relocate both of you.
ReplyDeleteOn no account should you leave your son.
Stella good advice. Please don't give him your son. Your son will also get a good life when you do that to study.
ReplyDeleteNever leave your son o!!! You may never see him again.
ReplyDeleteWicked family. So she's good enough for your son to impregnate but not good enough to marry
DON'T RELEASE YOUR SON! The best you can do is to relocate with your son to Canada....
ReplyDeleteHmm with the way Nigeria is, I feel like telling you to allow your son go meet with his dad.
ReplyDeleteA word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeleteHe is using the word SELFISH to make you feel guilty
Follow Stella advice
A word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeleteHe is using the word SELFISH to make you feel guilty
Follow Stella advice
If he want his son, then let him make arrangement that will favour you both. Do not release your son to any body. In as much as your son needs a father, he also need a mother by his son....
ReplyDeleteBest advice. 👍💯%
DeleteIf your son's dad is as good as you wrote, he would've filed for you and your son to join him abroad WITHOUT his family's knowledge.
Please, if you decide to relocate to Canada with your son, invest part of your inheritance in a three year-FGN bond or 1 year Treasury Bill which will drop into your account upon maturity. Have Internet banking/mobile banking access to your account.
Don't leave your son to grow up without you9
ReplyDeleteHe is an adult and a US citizen but his family has to decide who he can marry? Sorry! He only wants his son. Chances are he is already in another relationship over there
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts too.👌
DeleteDo not release your son. That will be unjust.
ReplyDeleteHe might grow up there to be a gangster and junkie. I know what
I am saying here, from experience. It is worse now.
But
Once, a man is abroad, legs are spread for him. If I talk, they will
arrange the crucifix, nails and hammer and hammer me up there.
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Can you not see that she’s a well to do woman with a substantial inheritance ? Not every woman is like you who only has her private parts and being married to boast of. The poster is an educated and well informed woman and if you still find this as an excuse to insult her then hold your hand to your chest and say “I am a witch”
Delete@17:47
DeleteThanks for your insults.
Why should a "well educated lady with inheritance,'
spread legs for a man that has not paid her bride price?
Does education save people from sin or does wealth save?
What you so much value are nothing before God.
You do not know my level or education or financial status, yet
you have opened your mouth wide. I don't care about all those okay?
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Poster pls take Stella's advice
ReplyDeletePoster pls on NO ACCOUNT WILL YOU AGREE TO RELEASES YOUR SON WITH THAT MAN FOR ONE SEC WITHOUT YOU BEEN THERE TO AVOID HIM KIDNAPPING HIM TO THE US OOO, IF HE WANTS HIS SON IN ABROAD WITH HIM, THEN IS A DUAL PACKAGE YOU AND YOUR SON OR NOTHING ELSE
ReplyDeleteNever release your son to anyone, take the option of relocating so that he can be close to his father.
ReplyDeleteA son needs his mother too. Please, DO NOT RELEASE YOUR SON!
ReplyDeleteLet the man file for both of you to join him.
You could also relocate to Canada as you said.
That man could be married over there but without a child.
Some guys do this.
Do NOT RELEASE YOUR SON! He is the selfish one not you. How can he separate a child from the mother? You two are one package. He wants to be in his son's life, he should make a way for you both. Dude should consider you mbok
ReplyDeleteWhy complicate your life by getting pregnant for a man that is not your husband or a man you cannot marry. When a man's family disapprove of you, why get pregnant for him and waste your time. Please do whatever you want to do, after all when you got pregnant, you did not consult us.
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