STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
AS DRY AS THE SAHARA DESERT:
Good day ma’am Stella
Please post this as soon as you can. I really need advice from fellow bvs and your red pen.
Early 2018, before I turned 25, I got into a relationship with a guy I thought was going to be my husband. At first I wasn’t physically attracted to him when he started to ask me out in 2017, but I eventually became attracted to him.
I was a virgin, still am. But we were really intimate, I did all sorts just to please him since we weren’t having the “s#x”,and it was just the physical penetration that was left out. We had some issues last year, during that time, I came across a post talking about virginity and chastity and I realized that I wasn’t really a virgin with all we were doing as I wasn’t chaste.
Before this time, I used to get really wet down there at the slightest touch or kiss that I’d have to change panties. Even in high school, reading erotic novels got me wet.
The first time I was intimate with my ex, I was really wet as usual and he confirmed it. But from the second time till date, I have experienced the worst kind of dryness.
When I told my ex that the whole physical thing had to stop last year, he said the most awful things, from how I had been punishing him, to how I was dry and didn’t even know what I was doing. The dryness part almost killed me, because I was not like this before I met this guy. I was not even dry the first time we got together.
There are a couple of guys asking me out right now, and I’m just scared. I’m hoping to settle down soon. Although I’m not in a hurry to accept anyone, and I have made up my mind to remain chaste until my wedding night. I don’t want this dryness thing to be an issue in my marriage and I’m looking for a solution to this problem.
I am a very beautiful girl , I know this. I don’t want to end up getting married and having my husband cheat because his wife is dry. My ex’s statement keeps hunting me.
Please anyone that knows of a solution to this problem, I’ll really appreciate your advice.
Please anyone that knows of a solution to this problem, I’ll really appreciate your advice.
*Ah ah..what kind of dry would be so dry that someone would use it as a weapon against someone?..
Anyway,dont fret,it might be a different story when you meet someone else..it might be guilty conscience dryness oh...
Or you buy Jelly when you marry and discover it is still....
Gurlll you sold your wetness to the devil,Repent and claim it back!!peace✌️✌️
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI don't now that wetness can be sold.Bvs and their analysis eeeh.
DeleteYou were dry cos u weren't feeling him. Period
DeleteYou need Jesus
DeleteWhy is nobody talking about the fact that the guy is an a&$ wipe and a normal self respecting guy wouldn't abuse you like that.
Delete😁😁 please calm down. Better hand never touch u. Relas...when better hand touch you will be wet like lake Chad. Dont mind dat amateur bf u had. 😁
ReplyDeleteChai
DeleteTrust me, when you meet the right person, you'll get wet for him. Your mind was simply not attracted to that your ex...it's a mental thing
DeleteBuy ky jelly
Delete@anon 15:47 👌
DeletePoster leave that yarn.
DeleteAkpobero GI ubo.
Apko GI ubo di hot okwa igba mmiri ka okro
Poster you are not sexually attracted to him, that's why you experience dryness.
ReplyDeleteIt's either he doesn't know his game very well or your mind tunes off when he starts, find out which case it is.
You're very correct. Poster, nothing is wrong with you.
DeleteI also think that unnecessary pressure to perform can cause dryness in women and erectile dysfunction in men. Feeling guilt is also something that can cause it. I think that when you are doing legitimate gbenshing with a patient and skillful man ya'll will be fine. So stop the stress poster.
DeleteYou see as the evil one, Satan and
ReplyDeletehis devil have just tricked you and collected your sexual fulfillment?
God created we ladies to be wet when
aroused, just to prepare for the penis (of our husband) to enter.
Now, when you breach God's laws, there are bound to be consequences
in one way or the other.
Dear, give your life to Christ and stop the fornication. learn to fast and
pray to discipline your flesh like Christ taught and you will be fine.
You will be a new Creature when Jesus comes into your life. He is merciful and will heal you.
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Didnt you read where she said she told him she wanted to remain chaste till marriage... that was when he used the "dryness" insult against her... haba! Some ppl can commit suicide because of this type of statement... what happened to correcting in love??
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"The first time I was intimate with my ex, I was really wet as usual
and he confirmed it. But from the second time till date, I have experienced
the worst kind of dryness."
So after reading the "chastity post," you decided to open legs for him to dive
ReplyDeletefull length? 😮😮😮😮😮
I thought the chastity post was supposed to make you correct the errors of your ways?
😂😂😂
DeleteRead again
DeleteI tire o seriously
Delete🤣🤣🤣
DeleteKY Jelly
ReplyDeleteNigerian brand of virgins appall me terribly. Every hole has been drilled
ReplyDeleteand every play has been played around the introitus. Wow!
🐥🐤🐥🐤🐤🐤🐤🐤🐤🐤🐤
Ang mama
DeleteHahah,this comment is so funny abeg
DeleteStella, which one is guilty conscience dryness again? 😂😂😂. Poster, first of all, I don't think you have a problem o. But if you can, see a gynaecologist to hear what he/she has to say. Secondly, I hope you do not keep in touch with that ex of yours. If you do, do yourself a favour and block him on all social media platforms. If a man wants to cheat, he will whether you're wet and giving him all styles or not. Pray to have a man that fears God above all.
ReplyDeleteWow
ReplyDeleteIt's not easy trying to keep this Chastity thing...oh God.
ReplyDeletePoster nothing is wrong with you
Poster now that you are still single is better to work on the dryness than waiting till you get married which is a good decision.
ReplyDeleteTigernut, date, kunu Aya, water melon, coconut, Moringa seed, Goron Tula, all work wonders I don't have power to start typing but you can google them and see.
Visit those mallam selling kayan Mata and ask them for stuffs that can help you get wet always.
Please don't go for the kayan mats now cause it's going to make you feel horny oh!!!
DeleteIt's probably cos you are not feeling him that much. Just leave the guy and focus on other things, when you meet the right person the tap will start to overflow again.
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle made me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteStop deceiving yourself young lady.Flee fornication.You can't hide it from your Maker.You can't be smarter than God. This is one of the consequences of your devious acts.Jesus loves you . Repent!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm...it is well with you.
ReplyDeleteI think there is no emotional attraction between you both.just hold on, the right man will come and you will see your self getting wet like person wey rain beat...
ReplyDeleteRelax you hear, just relax,the same Happened to me,it's the guilt that's causing the dryness. You feel you are sinning against God and that's why you don't get what,it's the signal your brain is getting.
ReplyDeleteYou really don't have anything to worry about, when you get married and you finally have peace engaging in sex, you'd be wet again. Speaking from experience.
There is nothing wrong with you, it is guilty conscience that is worrying you
ReplyDeleteStella title hot me🤣😂🤣😂which one is as dry as Sahara desert again...
ReplyDeletePoster... You will be fine 😍
I no dey chook mouth for this kind talk.
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:51👍👍👍
ReplyDeleteGolden Six a Kedi healthcare product is very good, it can help make you over wet sef
ReplyDeleteI think your reading the virginity post and realizing that you are not really a virgin, as in being chaste was the cause of your dryness, I think you are feeling guilty. Just relax and concentrate on your new relationship. I will advise you to pray and tell God what you desire in a partner and Pls be specific. For example, ask for a guy who will not pressure you for sex. My take. Cheers
ReplyDeleteEvening primrose oil. problem solved or Gorontola
ReplyDeleteI think it depends on the time of your cycle and state of mind/how attractive you find him my dear sister. Maybe he said that to piss you off, Some of them are made that way.
ReplyDeleteI was in your shoes with my ex till I met my husband. The day we finally did it after the wedding, I was ashamed and scared because I was too wet( so wet that I had to clean up while playing love without his knowledge, And that was me that was labeled "DRY". At a point, I wanted to stop and see a doctor to confirm certain things to me before anything but guy man refused and said that today na today)and I thought my wetness will make me too open/wild because I never told him that I have never had sex before .( I made it clear to him that there will be no sex till marriage and he was ok with it)
After the deal, he couldn't stop hugging and kissing me because he was hopelessly surprised to find out I have never been penetrated down there because he knows my ex who lied to him about me.
Till date, even his ordinary gaze get me very wet and ready unless I'm really mad at him and he want to use sex as bail out ticket.
So relax dear, you're fine and fit. If you continue thinking too much about it, you will mess up your mind and turn your pussy to "German floor" or killer pussy that can chop off the rod when you finally meet the one you love because FEAR IS DEADLY AND DANGEROUS.
I REPEAT, YOU'RE FINE MY DEAR SISTER PLEASE RELAX.
Stella, please don't post my comment if my ID is not anonymous before the little kids here start misbehaving and looking for who to quote childishly.
Poster you are not really attracted to him,once you see someone that you love so much, before he even start using his hands on the right places you will be very well, so just calm down and concentrate cos nothing is wrong with you.
ReplyDeleteComing from a fellow girl who gets dry even while having sex; the secret to being wet is WATER. Not KYC gel(gosh that thing stings a lot) but water.
ReplyDeleteI can be wet this minutes and then i move into another position and gbam im dry the next second. Do i fret? No, because my bottle of WATER(the best lubricant) is there to keep me staying wet all through.
Anon 10:36,na only we two dey watch this programme!Guys nengi's target has ALWAYS been Kidd! never ozo,na manage she dey manage ozo!Noting the chemistry between Kidd and Erika,who do you think dares Kidd to kiss watoni during the drinking game? OBVIOUSLY NENGI!why? she believes watoni ain't competition so as long as she shakes the Kidd/Erika ship,she takes over! after hearing that he took private flight of 3mil to meet up,her antenna never came down!he is her primary Target! for Kidd, nengi was never in the picture! never!
ReplyDeleteFor Erika, she's a lovely girl with a bubbly personality but dumb as fuck! she no even know who dey do am for house!
My respect for Lucy just hit the roof!na game but some times you need to call out shit!
Ozo is just your friend,but you go to the bathroom when he is naked to do shit!hia!
You ask ozo if you lead him on? really?.God save you say no be LEO or KIDD you ask that kind thing,the answer for land you for emergency unit!