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Saturday, August 22, 2020

Saturday In House Gists - The Crazy Things We Did For Love Before It Broke

If you have heard that love makes people crazy or stupid, it could be because being in love actually does make chemical changes to the brain. Some people have been known to do crazy things when in love, especially during the early stages of a relationship.






The scientific explanations for why some people do stupid things in the name of love may help you understand why you behave the way you do.



One Beautiful Blog visitor says....

''Some years ago when I thought I met the man of my dreams, I lost all my senses and dedicated all my time to make him happy. Let us call him Mr. G. He was a staunch Muslim and the perfect example of a Yoruba demon. 


Mr G. had constant calls from a particular Muslim lady, let’s call her Ms P. She would give him 30 calls in an hour and whenever he picks her calls in my presence, Mr. G would be so rude to her. He always sounded frustrated whenever she called and I tried to calm him down with love and kisses.


Mr G decided to move into a bigger apartment. According to him, we needed space to start a family. Trust me as a devoted and loving girlfriend to be by his side through the whole wahala of moving houses. I did not have much financially but I used my savings to buy duvet sets and bedsheets for all the rooms in the new house just so the house would have a little of my touch.

Walking on the streets of Instagram one Saturday morning, I stumbled across the traditional wedding pictures and videos of Mr G and Ms P on a popular wedding blog. I was weak and when I tried to call Mr G, I found out that I had been blocked from reaching him. 

All I could think about was them spending their wedding night in the bedsheets and duvet I bought.

Mr G called me a week after the event to tell me that he was forced into the union and he wants me back. I blocked him. I have since moved on from that incident.

A person in love is a person with impaired judgement. The red flags were clear to see but I was blinded by love. Do you have any stories to tell?''





*Hmmmmmmm i was such a fool for love oooooh...My own plenty but God saved me from heartache that comes with heartbreak

I caught my first bobo with my then best friend and i drank alcohol and was really sick from throwing up...it was bad but i hid my pain and every other thing ...after that my brain began working again....heheheheehhehe

123 comments:

  1. Na where I want start from na? Sometimes, remembering the things I did for love I came to the realization that witchcraft truly exist.

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    1. Hahahaha. Gee us gist jor.old things have passed away na🀣🀣🀣

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    2. Hahahaha. Things we do for love.

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    3. Hahahahahahaha my own is traveling by road / air to go and see boo, how risky just to collect for 1 night and come back lol

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    4. I once emptied my account for a man before. Though it was a loan but it was everything i had in my account. This was 15yrs ago when i just entered university. I had received 1m from my fathers family,Cos my dad is late and it was rents from his property. 1m was plenty money then.
      Something my mother expected me to save for my education.
      That is how i transfer all to the coconut head. My mum saw my bank statement and called family meeting on my head.
      The guy returned the money but i still suffered at home.
      And he still even dumped me for another girl.

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    5. This kind of topic can never be stale because people have been fools for love, are being fools for love and will be fools for love. The hope is that we learn from our experiences. Where do I start telling my own tales from?

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    6. Teejay no kidding LL me oh.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  2. Mine was reporting every move I take,I must call or text when I'm going out😲😲 will have to take permission 3 days before I embark on any event like weddings, birthday or even salon! It's was draining! Las Las it ended in premium tearsπŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

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    1. Hey boo😘😘

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    2. Abeg, let me laughπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    3. One ex wanted to try dat nonsense with me. That time it was was still BB.
      He will call my regular phone first thing in d morning. I must tell him when i get to work, during my lunch,must tell when im leaving work...when i get home from work. If i miss his calls he can start saying im cheating. Very sick individual.
      Time i knew his not normal is when he said cant i reject a particular course just bcos dat course dey wont allow u to use ur phone throughout till u finish in d evening. And it was in Abuja for 1month.
      Na still fight finish our matter. Relationship lasted few mnths.

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚sorry I had to laugh

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    5. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚sorry jare

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    6. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    7. Lol @ premium tears. Paris ure a clown πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Sorry but your comment was really funny.

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  3. People are wicked oooooh .

    The most Complex B.

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  4. My own is that, I used my first year school fees and paid for someone in second year. Make i no talk wetin happened last last.. Chai this life self no balance.

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    1. Chaiiii🀣🀣

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. What should I call you?

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    3. Candy abeg pity me na!! I was in love na!

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Ok. I won't call you what I want to call you.

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    5. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚even you too, the life no balance at all

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    6. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    7. Jerusalem, u sef don enter one chance before? Hehehe, did life no balance at all o πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜­

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    8. E no balance at allπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  5. I do anything and everything for love. If it works out fine, if it doesn't, then fine, it wasn't meant to be. No regrets just good memories..

    There is a quote that says" Do not regret anything you ever did in the past remember, while you were doing it, you were enjoying it".

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    1. Gate you so right. Let it go

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    2. You've got a wonderful mindset dear. Keep it up.

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    3. Hahahahahahahahah
      That was my mantra. But by the 5th heartbreak, my heart don collect brain. I’m not doing again. I’ve not been with a man in 2 years. The moment I meet a man and he shows interest in me, my defenses go up so high even me sef don tire.
      I have my peace I swear

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    4. Gate that's exactly my mindset aswell...We gave it all we cud and enjoyed it to the fullest...If anytin then goes wrong at anytime, we have enough good memories to remember, Regret is simply a wasted emotion

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    5. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ
      @Alphabeta regrets is truly a wasted emotions

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    6. Thanks Jerusalem, tbabe and twins squared.

      15:07 just pray to meet someone like yourself, dear. Why love when you won't love fully?

      Alphabeta, thank you o

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    7. Beautiful mindset @ gates

      Yup@ alphabeta no regrets is one of my mantra. Such a waste of time.

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    8. that's how we roll @ Gates!!!
      Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well .

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  6. This thing called love has caused more harm than good. I met my first love with another babe who came all the way from Ekpoma to Bayelsa in bed. She had actually spent a week with him before my meeting them together that day. See me crying profusely from this guys house to my house on foot with my hands on my head. In fact i actually sat on the floor of someone's backyard to cry for some minutes before dusting up to continue. This stupid guy didn't even bother to come after me. Chaiiiii.

    When i look back to that relationship, I feel like calling him to give him a piece of mind.

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Adon die!!πŸ™‰

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚Sorry Tbabe

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    4. Choi πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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    5. Am so sorry lol but this is so funny🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣...hope that bastard had his karma real hot!!

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  7. I gave him my hard earn 200 k to support his coming to Nigeria twice. I'll subscribe and be doing video call with my sweat.
    he was sick I kept calling like a fool only for him to recover he didn't bother to let me know,
    in fact the list is endless, I don't regret cos I did it for love but he took my kindness for stupidity.
    where I'm now, I'm grateful for my past if not I'll be where I'm now. Good radiance to bad rubbish.

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    1. it's good not to have regrets.
      He'd be the one regretting at last 😘😘

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  8. E plenty. I paid his hospital bills, and was there for him all through his admission, and he had the guts to invite his gfs to the hospital. I mean I have no qualms doing anything for love, but don't take the person for a fool.

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    1. So what should I call you now? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. I didn't call you anything na.

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚candy i understand how it feels

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£
      I'd type mine soon
      Lemme just finish what I'm doing

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    5. Chai🀣🀣🀣

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    6. Don't mind the fish head.

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  9. People do crazy things for lust not for Love.
    What clouds their judgment is fornication. Once it starts
    the lady won't be able to think straight again. The Scriptures
    says that "a person who commits sexual immorality lacks sense" Proverbs 6:32
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  10. I told her it's ok to have sex with a particular guy as long as there is no emotion attached because distance was messing us up. But Las Las you the scores naahh

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    1. @kazmor..🀯🀯nah you carry cupπŸ† for this mumu love thing shaa. You're the real G.O.A.T πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†are you for real???

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    3. Anon 15:43, you no well gaskia. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€ no kill me with laughter abeg.

      Kazmor, mennnn!

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    4. It's a one in a lifetime experience

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    5. Hahahahahaha. Interesting. Who's fault 🀷🀷🀷

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    6. @Chocolat that's the story of my 1st true love

      @Adlinah Jumbo my fault because I had to let go as we kept having issues regarding marriage.

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  11. Mine was that I was giving him money and he was giving it to the girlfriend he met at a party.
    He was a smoker and because I wanted to show i loved him, I started smoking weed and cigarette with him.
    At the end of the day, he dumped me without my knowledge or maybe, I was dating myself all those while.
    Let me go anonymous.

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  12. Can't remember the last time I did crazy thing for love. My own is, if I fall in love, I think about you everyday, morning, afternoon and night, every minutes, every seconds. Ahh me sef don tire. To fall in love dey do me anyhow, wanna focus on my life abeg.

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    1. I'm like this but I had to build my emotional intelligence lmao
      Before I'd start picking beans 🀣🀣🀣

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    2. Better focus on your life very well. This life no balance πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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  13. My mumu self was giving him money for promotion as e talk say im be upcoming artiste wey go soon blow... Guy milk me dry!

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. E never still blow?

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    2. Na den na..Eton upcoming 'musicians'even handgun dey blow past them.

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    3. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣you want the title of a celebrity babe na

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ He suppose don blow now na... Davido??πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    5. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ i hope say e dn blow now

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    6. Be patience. He's gonna blow your mind in Davido voice πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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    7. Are you M fucking mate? Old bvs will understand

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    8. OMG!! Hahahahahahhaha.. I laughed so hard, I almost fell off the sofa πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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    9. Ibadan shopper you & your ex are clowns.
      I can't stop laughing

      The most Complex B

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    10. Lmao ,this is the funniest Ibadan Shopper.Omg ,children balloon blow pass him,lollll

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  14. Hmm, mine told me he missed an interview cos his phone was faulty. Lover girl removed her sim and gave him her phone . I got home and lied that i entered one chance but begged them yo give me my sim

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  15. Love has shown me shege, and after they left, they will still come back to beg for forgiveness... Dear god,ple ple change my love story to better oneπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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  16. I don't know if i have done anything really crazy thing for love, at least none that i regret.

    Tho i have really liked some guys that were not really into me, got over it and moved on.

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  17. I will close my eyes and be listening to love music, especially at midnight thinking about him. Cool Fm, Rhythm Fm, Star Fm did a good job with the late-night blues they played then. I lacked so much sleep then. Na wa!

    I copied his notes too after copying mine. He will just be feeling like a big boy as I was doing one mumu love-up. Smh for me. πŸ˜€

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚pele. I was always listening to Westlife then thinking about my ex. In my head, we got marriage and had children..smh

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚you too the kind thing love dn do person ehn

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    3. Cool FM used to play better songs back then

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    4. @the closing eyes thing.. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  18. My friend was treated so bad by her Guy everytime he wd break up with her cheating on her with her friends Even stealing her money i felt for her she was so inlove with him. She was a very Nice Christian girl but the things this Guy did is too much Even accusing her of being barren she is only 28yrs old. My friend got fade up she went diabolical on him All the women ran away from him he smells like fish where ever he goes People ran away from him lost his job his uncles threw his Mother out of his fathers house etc. Let me stop here

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    1. πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†Jesus Christ what did i just read????
      I hope she's revoke the curse on him

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    2. Truth be told someone used me and I'm pained. How I wish you can introduce me to the person that did the mixing for her. Some need to smell like shit for 3years so she can learn the hard way

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  19. I allowed him give me head,ah that was my first time ever and I so much regrets it cos I ended up being irritated by it
    Las Las he asked my best friend out and never apologized for it though she never accepted his offer,I was so stupid eh

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  20. I have always been a fool for love. When I love I love deeply, with my heart, body, spirit and soul. I think of you my every waking moment.
    After my last love experience, I just locked up my heart. I don't want to ever be hurt that way again.

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  21. Mine is when I gave my first boyfriend my ATM password and he kept going to widral my money, each time I asked him,he will deny, he was even following me to the bank to ask them whom was using my ATM card until the played their CCTV camera to show me that he was the one, he died in shame and was begging me to forgive him,but I done with him.

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    1. It was totally wrong of your ex boyfriend to use your ATM without your consent

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  22. I was so in love that l bought my boyfriend, a Camry.
    I just like a fool afterwards because he stopped taking my calls three days later. No skin pain. I have no regrets for helping him. I sent him a text saying, thanks for the memories, enjoy your car.. l blocked him after that.

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    1. You should have taken the car back. And given it to your male relative or a good friend sef..

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    2. If na me, I must take that car back.What effontery.You got a good heart,may God bless you

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  23. I took him to my grandfather,he was jobless,papa asked what should be done for him so i said,i want him to have money.I was warned cos it is part of the families tradition to bestow power to succeed on female children(female childrens in my grandfather's lineage are always wealthy.Everyone knows him.Months pass by,he got a good job,everything was working,then i was still in the uni,he got someone else pregnant,living life fine.Grandpa is no more.To ruin is life will cost me just 1500naira.

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  24. I broke up with him,never cared to even ask why or beg,it seems he was even happy.so after like three weeks i had missed him like mad i went back to beg only to see him with another girl in bed.the girl was the oppsite of me i was lekpa then the girl is orobo ,it dawned on me that he is tired of my bones. I still spent the night begging him ,guy man refused and then suggested he date the both of us,cos it was as if i would die without him,guy man no gree .said he cant double date.whenever i remb that incident i feel flogging myself.this guy was my first and only true love

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