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Thursday, September 03, 2020

Couch Convo -Must Do Pre-wedding Medical Tests For Intending Couples..

These days it is better to know before and not during or after.......








The tests are..........


1. Blood group test
2. Genotype test
3. HIV test
4. Hepatitis B and C
5. STD
6. Fertility test
7. Possible chronic genetic order
8. Thalassemia test
9. Mental health assessment

Add any you know.........


Don't just waste time on pre wedding pictures or gbenshing if  you have not done these...

71 comments:

  1. Very importanter! That number 8 though. I've not heard that before but will ask 'uncle Google'.

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    1. Mammy water or witchcraft test ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

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    2. Very very unpopular in this part of the world.

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  2. These tests are "necessarily compulsory" o, before love sets in.

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  3. Most times gbenshing is usually the first test that occurs.

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  4. My generation prefer pre-wedding photos to running these tests.

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  5. On point!!! to avoid story that touches

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  6. Are there really people in this age and time who get married without carrying out all these tests afore marriage?

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    1. You'd be surprised how many people aren't doing these.

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    2. You haven't read chronicles of some that got HIV after marriage or have birth to SS kids just cos they were carried away by luster, my bad love.

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    3. Surprisingly there are a lot of people who don't .

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  7. Before I wedded my husband, we did ours and the church also sent us for test in their private laboratory center... The result was sent to the parish priest and we were invited to his office to know the outcome.. Very very important to prospective couples.
    Hmm mm Stella, but y is woman eating cucumer and d husband watermelon? See as the man dey eat d melon sef..

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  8. Very important, my childhood friend died of sickle cell in her second year, it wasn't easy for her before her demise. One day she's laughing and playing with everyone, the next minute she's crying, to think that her parents were taking her to herbal homes instead of going to hospital. Rest on Happiness, you were such a bright girl

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  9. Many Nigerians don't care about these oh,they'd rather do ore wedding photos,lol..

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    1. But, many Nigerians actually care about these tests though!

      Many people in "the abroad" don't bother with many of these tests.

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  10. Add Virginity test. For both male and female. I cant come and be attending wedding of fornicators.๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ.

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    1. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ and they must swear to stay married as I can't buy expensive asoebi for marriage that will end within 2 years

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    2. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    3. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    4. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  11. I have never heard about that number 8 before. I had to go to Uncle Google

    A blood disorder involving lower-than-normal amounts of an oxygen-carrying protein.
    Thalassemia is an inherited blood disorder characterised by less oxygen-carrying protein (haemoglobin) and fewer red blood cells in the body than normal.
    Rare
    Fewer than 100 thousand cases per year (Nigeria)

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  12. Please let me get it;
    People will be fornicating, diving in raw and terminating, doing all the tonguing of
    the sheet holes etc. and when they want to marry, they start going to all these tests?
    ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ
    Let me ask another question;
    If someone has been living the life that Jesus taught
    keeping herself chaste and seeking God for everything including
    a husband, why should she bother with all these tests?

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    1. Whether they've been keeping themselves chaste or not, these tests are important, especially the blood group and genotype tests.

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    2. So Madam Holy Judge, its only through sex people have HIV, Hepatitis, infertility issues, Mental disorders and genetic issues. Get off your religious high horse and be realistic.
      All I have ever heard you talk a out is fornication and abortion.
      You magnify the works of the devil more than the ultimate love of Christ.
      Our Lord Jesus Christ did not judge the woman caught in adultery but showed her love and mercy that only God can give.

      What of the Samaritan woman at the well. She encountered Christ despite her lifestyle of fornication and adultery.
      She left His presence transformed.
      Your own Christ is all about Judgement.
      Please which Christ do you preach.

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    3. @Madam Fodie
      "Religious high horse?"
      Wow ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
      All I wrote there is about Christ and not religion.
      I only asked my questions and you called me "religious high horse?"
      So who is the judge here? ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
      And you ended up not giving me answers to my questions?
      So how many years or eternities in hell have I sentenced
      those that i "judged?" and who are they?
      Wow! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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    4. The real question is: which tests are you going to carry out to prevent unfaithfulness after marriage? Which tests prevent issues with finances after marriage? Is it not true that a lot of marriages collapse because of unfaithfulness and finances AFTER marriage? I would like someone to tell me the tests which if done before marriage prevent these issues I have raised AFTER marriage.

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  13. The only test my fiance and I went to was genotype, and It was just
    to allay the fears of our relations and nothing more.

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  14. Owa extremely neccestri to avoid stories that touches the armpit in the nearest future.
    I knew of a wedding I attended when I was still in Uni and the bride was hiv positive.
    Everyone in the bride's family knew except maybe the groom family.
    I was just weak seeing the groom so happy and dancing up and down that day
    I sha ate jollof and drank malt but my conscience kept pricking me all week but what can one do??? My friend invited us for the wedding and she is a cousin to the bride ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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  15. Stella........These tests should be done as soon as we agree to start dating. You and your partner should go to a reputable lab, run these tests and wait for the result together. People dey hide plenty things and whilst some people are just blissfully ignorant.

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  16. You see that no 9 in this our time and age... muy importante!! Its really on the rise and we need more awareness and ways to manage those with them.

    People do the rest naw that's if you love your life.

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  17. Exactly one need to do every test,a colleague of mine got married and recently put to birth,was so happy for her not until my amebo supervisor gist me that the newly couple are both AS.
    Omo I was so shocked......

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  18. Do people do fertility tests before marriage? I know of genotype, HOV and Hepatitis though.

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  19. All these tests are very important but first and foremost Spiritual test to avoid unnecessary battles abeg

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  20. Why didn't I read "the test for good characters?"
    Ladies, their is a test that only you can do and that
    is done by thorough courtship not by spreading legs asunder.
    Learn the character of who you intend to marry. If you see
    anyone that you can't live with and he is not willing to change,
    break the deal. Better than wed and divorce!
    Do not occupy courtship with legs hanging asunder
    ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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    1. The marriage should be on hold till the medical issue is addressed..remember it can cause marital breakdown in future.

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    2. Then they will be real with it together. I think the important thing is that they are both awareness so they can make informed decisions.

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    3. Nezz but there's no fool proof way to even ascertain if some of these fertility issues have been resolved until the couple have consistently had sex for a while.
      It's a gamble at times, make God help person.

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    4. The marriage should be on hold o! To avoid pressure on the woman, some families blame the woman for fertility issues when they KNOW their son may have issues.

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  22. Very important especially when the relationship is still young and both parties are sure of being together.

    Add fertility test to it.

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  23. Pls my husband should have done wandering prick test. If he had the results would have said high probability of wandering and I would have run for my life!!

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  24. Yes o,fertility test,STI,genotype and blood group from a hospital were done.No time to check time as advised by the priest.

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  25. Very important o. Not doing pre-wedding pics and sorts.

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  26. Many ppl would love to do everyone of these tests and maybe more, but if money is tight they may choose to just take the chance and hope for the best.

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    1. Hope for the best ke with another life and peace of mind at stake. Is better to use money for the ceremony for the test and do court or office church wedding with only their parents as witness o.

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  27. To avoid stories that touch,before they find out brother righteous's john thomas cannot even stand and he's hiding under the guise of "I'm born again"๐Ÿ™„

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  28. Pocket test too is very necessary

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  29. Rhesus compatibility very important. Why many are suffering miscarriages and childless today.

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  30. I did HIV test before marriage, tested positive and my husband, my boyfriend of 5 years tested negative. Well he insisted on marrying me,and here we are,with wonderful kids 12 years later, hubby still negative, to think I thought the end gas cone that year, since that twelve years ago, I've never been sick except maybe once a year malaria, hubby has been 200 percent supportive, and I know I will outlive the disease. HIV isn't gotten only through sex,but if you are positive,Please be sincere with your partner, the one that will stay will stay and love you, I'm my husbands bestie, his all ,he has never used it against me, in fact there are times I will send him to pick my drugs for me at the clinic. My prayer is that God should give me a job in order to support him too

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    1. Amen. Jesus will see you through.

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    2. All thanks to God almighty who gave man the science to produce antiretroviral drugs. Continue to comply with your meds so as to remain healthy with a good mindset. HIV is real, stay safe.

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    3. May the lord bless him and your marriage, amen.

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    4. May God bless that your husband for me.

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    5. God bless your hubby anon 17:29.

      He is rare

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