She hit the nail directly....
Friday, October 09, 2020
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🤔 true she made alittle sense but at the same time, nobody is perfect.
ReplyDeleteIf we keep looking for that perfect one, we might end up lonely, sad and depressed.
Just my opinion.
Tank God for ur opinion o
DeleteOf course nobody is perfect but there are some inadequacies that cannot and should not be overlooked, we all know ourselves and we know the things that we are not willing to deal with but for some reason, some women keep holding on to their toxic, hellish relationships.
DeleteSandra, hold your ears. Are you married if yes, you are on a very long thing! If no, you had better listen and assimilate what she said up there before we start hearing Chronicles!
DeleteIts good you're owning up to your opinion.
DeleteIf the amount of sadness you get outweighs the happiness, then you know it's not worth it.
DeleteI DON'T know her neither am I her fan but that post up there makes so much sense.
DeleteWe all deserve better if only we keep working on ourselves to be better.
Everyone needs that right person. Only then, will everything feel right. And trust me, you'll be glad you did.
*ayaoba*
Her quote is a 10000% correct.I made the mistake of chooking head and mismarrying. It destroyed my life. I knew the guy was no good. My brothers and sister told me but mbanu, I thought he would change. The signs are always there. Sometimes they are glaring.
DeleteThe right person is different from the perfect person, nobody can be perfect for you because of human factor but someone can be right for you, compliment youin a good way
DeleteOK. Good for her.
ReplyDeleteWell said✌️✌️
ReplyDeleteI'm a witness ooo. I stayed with one wrong person for two years in the name of no one is perfect,manage am. Hmmm, lessons learned, I've moved on sha. Pressure on single women make them feel worthless without a man and this leads to low self esteem which leads to tolerating nonsense from men.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, she is speaking from experience. It is well my dear sister
ReplyDeleteThey have break her heart. She has turn to motivational speaker.
Delete16:46 better type it in pidgin English @"They have *broken*... NOT.. 'break' her heart. She has *turned*... NOT.. 'turn' to motivational speaker".
DeleteBetter take her post seriously before "they CRUSH your own heart and you turn to A LOUD-SPEAKER.
19.17 lmaoooo
DeleteIkwakwakwakwa.
That's pigin na
anon 19:17 don't mind them. they will be laughing at other people's heartbreak not knowing their own is waiting for them in front. and even worse too.
DeleteGood men? They are out there somewhere. But perfect, no! Is any lady perfect too?
ReplyDeleteYou're missing the point, she's not saying we should look for only perfect men because those don't exist; she's just saying that women hide behind this excuse to stay in horrible relationships they are better off leaving.
DeleteYes, no one is perfect but there are some flaws that we shouldn't even think of compromising on.
Snarker thank you for breaking it down for varrey B. 👍
DeleteSoooo true. And then the breakup happens, and we begin to see more flaws.
ReplyDeleteAnother motivational speaker after a heartbreak.
ReplyDeleteMacBeth you missed all your English Comprehension classes.
DeleteTake the message, besides one must not experience a particular thing to
be a motivational speaker or speak about it.
Better alone
ReplyDeleteThan suffering abuse (physical, mental, emotional , financial)
Na now day break
ReplyDeleteLmao at:holding onto the nonsense"
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that most times a man who doesn't really love a woman will treat her anyhow cuz hes not bothered about losing her.
Summary, have standards
ReplyDeleteRealistic standards
Jet li 💯%👌✔️👍👍👍
DeleteOn point !!!
DeleteEm plane just arrive from .... Abeg.. pray things work for you .. u r still learning .. do u know what all those in 30yrs of marriage's been through? I don't support cheat and DV.. but pls.. diff peeps diff ish biko
ReplyDeleteThis your mentality is why men walk all over women. You think all the wives in marriages of 30 years enjoyed all the 'nonsense' ❓ Most of them endured it because of "what will people say?".
DeleteSMH
DeleteEven when you still tell them it will back fire, they will be rebuking it, untill it lands on their head gbam !
ReplyDeleteAs a woman, develop your intrinsic value, learn a skill, get into a career, avoid runs, develop your sense of worth outside any dating or marital relationship. When both parties each have a sense of worth, they will not devalue each other. Do not let the desire for a wedding party which is now mistaken for marriage in the Nigerian context, push you into a "nobody is perfect, I may not find another person wedding" that turns into a nightmare marriage.
ReplyDeleteNobody is perfect, male or female, only God. However, I believe every Adam has an Eve, and every Eve is the missing rib of her Adam. Maybe that's why God said "he that finds a wife finds a good (not perfect) thing and obtains favor from God".
The obsession with Nigerian wedding parties and pressure from relatives & friends is contributing to emergency weddings and failed marriages. I remember the words on a wedding invite 27 years or more ago, "Today, I am marrying my best friend". I found it interesting, recalling it often in my almost 30 years of interesting not perfect, but also not "an endure it, or a bad" marital journey.
There was a time Michelle Obama made more money than President Obama, who took up a lowly job as a community organizer working with South Side Chicago black churches to hold big corps that put asbestos in homes of black people accountable. His shoes were weatherbeaten and his car had a hole so big you could see the road from it. He promised her an exciting and adventurous journey. Today, some girls want the Barack without the work of a Michelle. I'm not suggesting you marry a poor or lazy man. A driven, ambitious, God-fearing man, with a good heart and good education who loves you, is the raw material you need. The respect outsiders see is because he knows you built the life you both have brick by brick, he will have nothing but respect, love & admiration for you even when God takes you both farther than you thought at the start.
For those looking for the ideal single man with 2 range rovers and a house in lekki phase 1, you are your own problem. Every delicious party jollof was once just "uncle Ben's" parboiled rice. Identify your own Uncle ben or better still pray for your own to find you, work hard (put the ingredients and work)together and pray like your life depends on prayer because it does and watch God make something beautiful out of your lives.
Caveat. if you are in a relationship with a man that cannot seem to stand up for you with his extended family, or a short-fused always angry man, leave before you get a ring. Those are red flags of a weak or disturbed mind, after the ring, you may regret ever knowing him. The first attribute means he is weak and all your in laws of various characters can walk over you, as he will not "leave and cleave", the second means he is foolish or emotionally disturbed because "anger rests in the bosom of fools".
If you are inside a DV marriage, leave while alive. I said God-fearing without mentioning christianity though I'm born again, Job 1 says "satan was there in the midst of them". Any gathering of God's children is an indirect invite to the enemy and many women married satan's junior brothers they met in church! Look out for the fear of God as you have no way of knowing who a christian is except by their fruits.
08:37 your comment said it all and more.
DeleteHowever, the past generations of parents raised a lot of bad sons and the present generation of parents are raising terrible sons and daughters.
SADLY, the future marital horizon is a combination of hurricane and tsunami waiting to unleash it's fury on the future generations❗