Na wah ooooh....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SUDDENLY IMPOTENT HUSBAND
Stella pls help me to post this.I had my twins on April 2016 though
lost one of them.I have been trying to conceive again but no way....
Hubby and i have spent a lot to places but no good result.The last hospital
we went according to the lab.result said hubby's sperm count is 0% and
we have infection (staphylococcus aureus).
we went according to the lab.result said hubby's sperm count is 0% and
we have infection (staphylococcus aureus).
After taking some medications for 6 months,no good result.But is it possible for a man thas has a child to be impotent?I've known hubby for 7yrs before 2016 and I Can boldly say no cheating from both sides.
Is there any BVs who can direct me to a good gynaecologist in Anambra(Nnewi south precisely)?Pls,i don't sleep any longer.Thank you BVs as am reading your comments.
huh?How can your hubby be impotent and he got you pregnant?..None of you has ever cheated?How did you get Staph?Cos that is a s#xually transmitted disease!!
I am so sorry but i dont understand this your chronicle at all...
Never vouch for any human. Some do things that will shock you.
ReplyDeleteStaph is NOT sexually transmitted.
DeleteThat's probably a contamination.
Poster make time and go to NAUTH.
Leave Staph doctors alone.
From your narative poster, your husband isn't impotent (wrong term here, about him no dey do?), but might be infertile.
DeleteIn which case you need visit a proper gynae and re-run your tests.
My husband had a child outside before we got married. After trying for some months, we went for a test, his sperm count was 10%. They also said we had staphylococcus infection. We treated and prayed. We took in like 8months after. It's possible that things like this happens. We are exposed to a lot of toxins everyday and these things affect us
DeleteMadam go to the university teaching hospital in your state and see a specialist. Don't sit back in Nnewi.
DeleteNB. Staph is not sexually transmitted as 16:10 has said.
I swear..Nne, never vouch for anyone not you...Biko..Before u swear an oath and it happens u were wrong all along..To avoid death ok
DeleteTwo of you should go to a good hospital for proper investigation. Dont point fingers yet.
ReplyDeleteHe is not cheating...🥂 cheers.
Dear poster, if you don't mind, I have a very good gynae in Port Harcourt and he is very affordable too. If you would like to give it a trial, please contact me through stella and I will link you up.
DeleteSecondly, staph can live in a man for years, and continue to eat up his sperm cells until there's nothing left... I know someone who had a child in 2004, but today has 0% active sperm cells, just because he left his staph untreated for so long.
Finally, always, always speak for yourself because you don't follow your husband everywhere he goes.
Why are we sounding like it's impossible for a husband to be faithful? It is very possible and if your husband is not a cheat, you will know.
DeleteI think the ratio of unfaithful women is equal the ratio of faithful men. I mean, just as you have less women who cheat so do you have less men who are faithful. So, there are faithful husbands.
Poster, your husband should go see any doctor just to get a second opinion
ReplyDeleteStaphylococcus is actually a STD
I pray you get the help you need
Nah....staph is not sexually transmitted.
DeleteHmmmm….this is seriously serious. Madam, you can only vouch for yourself o, abi you dey follow your husband everywhere ni? Staph doesn't just jump on people ,something is definitely wrong somewhere! SEEK MEDICAL HELP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE IN A GOVERNMENT HOSPITAL.
ReplyDeleteMadam poster sorry oh but you never talk true,how come he suddenly becomes impotent then with sti too? Plenty question marks dey this your chronicle abeg!
ReplyDeletePlease, Staphylococus aureus can also be transmitted due to unhygienic vaginal colonization by the organism. Use your google or ask any doctor. So dear, improve on your vaginal hygiene and let the doctors treat the present one.
ReplyDeleteif your husband is drinks alcohol, smokes etc. he can have low/dysfunctional sperm counts and morphologies.
Go to Unizik teaching hospital and see the gynae dept.
I know a lot of people here won't believe that you both do not cheat.
There is what is called "idopathic" (search it)..
But let me tell us a brand news; the
spiritual controls the physical. What is "unknown" to medical science is known to God..."An enemy has done that".
The spiritual angle you need to take while you seek the doctors, is to seek God, in fasting and prayers together with your husband. Jesus said in Matt. 9:12 that
the sick needs a doctor. But except the Lord builds the house, the laborers labor in vain.
Don't, please don't go to the agents of Satan or those masquerading as agents of God to seek for solution.
Good wishes.
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Thank you very much. This is a very sound advice. Poster please take this advice.
DeleteI wonder why people think staph is only a sexually transmitted disease/infection. FYI stap can be gotten from sharing towel, roll on, infected surfaces etc.
Maybe, he became impotent after the first baby or there's an error with the lab test. He might have taken some thing(s) that tampered with his system.
ReplyDeleteOh well! I am not sure all STIs/STDs are gotten through sex alone.
Could be as a result of using public toilet as well... "Maybe"!
Errmm.. madam voucher, how can you be so sure he never cheated?
Don't forget some men are very good at covering their acts.
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The husband is actually not impotent; at worst he is sterile and this could be caused by long term Staph infection which by the way is not only sexually transmitted. The advice from Anon 15:12 is just perfect mbok. Stay blessed and stay strong.
DeleteS. Aureus is actually a normal flora of the human body. I know it’s all those quacks selling drugs by the road side and inside buses that keep confusing you guys 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
DeleteMay God come through for you poster.
ReplyDeleteSmall gist..
It was like 9pm sha so I stepped out to see a friend.,that is how we started hearing a sob sound and gbam😲! A very young girl I'm certain is not up to 15yrs was crying for the boy and oh,his name is Michael.
She was apologising for something and this boy was feeling like a Boss😡. Her word.,'I'm sorry, please unblock me from WhatsApp but the things you said to me was so hurtful I had to order for red label'..TF😱! E shock us.,I had to be sure this was real..the boy then hugged her and told her to go in...we thought of having a talk with her but after leaving Michael,.hmm.,my people,she was 'busy'.🤐
Please parents, watch out for your kids and pray for them,sh*t is real out there and this teenagers ain't taking it easy at all..✌
Poster you and your husband should check yourselves first! Haba we be baby ni? This one is not hospital matter one of you is cheating Period! Ogini ne me ndi mmadu??
ReplyDeleteDumb comment, google staphylococcus aureos before you sprew trash, its not necessarily gotten through sex
DeleteIf only u knew even though staph can be transferred through sex, the original person transferring it may not have gotten it through sex. Husband or wife may have contacted it anyother way that isn't from cheating before transferring to the other person.
DeletePoster, don't use because of the comments u are seeing here now conclude that ur husband is cheating or has cheated.
That infection is not only gotten from Sex, Haha!!
DeleteLol.. The audacity in your ignorance tho. One does not need to see some of you to know how dumb and shallow some of you ladies on here are. It's better most of you continue with your 'stella has said it all' comments because you ooze of ignorance when ever you try to say something else from your empty heads. 😄
Delete21:01, 🤣🤣🤣 her level of airheadednes is second to none.
DeleteNo Stella..Staph is not only contacted through sex, it can also be contacted from the toilet. Even by mere sharing of towels, sponges etc
ReplyDeleteI wonder too. Stella you are wrong. A mild form can even be found on any part of the skin around the whole body!
DeleteThank you oooh
DeletePoster Staphylococcus aureus is a terrible organism that can cause havoc in the human body not a disease as wrongly circulated..I know it can affect the mobility and structure of the sperm cells but it cannot cause outright no sperm cells at all..It is too drastic from good sperm count to no sperm count at all in 4 years..I will advise that you visit a good diagnostic lab or military hospitals for proper diagnosis and investigation...Your husband has to be very honest about his lifestyle..All the best...
ReplyDeleteDr "Igbudu's" customer.
DeleteThe infection might have been latent in his system for over 4 years to have caused that kind of damage. Moreso it might just be a wrong diagnosis.
DeletePoster abeg speak for yourself
ReplyDeletePoster again also check yourself that you are not infected as well as paradventure you have S. Aureus, his sperm may have difficulty fertilizing your eggs..Both of you should check yourselves..All the best...
ReplyDeleteBe Happy and thankful to God for the one child you have. I know people who are praying for God to just Grant them just one child. Please sleep and be healthy for your child cos if anything happens to you hmmmmm who will care for your child.
ReplyDeleteStaphylococcus Aureus isn’t an STD!!! *facepalm*. It is part of the normal bacteria on everybody’s skin... it must have just contaminated the sample when it was taken.
ReplyDeleteEven Stella has concluded that someone cheated.
Poster, nobody cheated. Thankfully there is trust between you and your husband
I can’t believe that in 2020, nigerian laboratories are still giving Staph Aureus as STD diagnosis.
Whatever result you got form the people who gave you that diagnosis, just cancel it! Cancel it!!!
Go to a Standard gynaecologist while your husband visits a standard urologist.
That's what my doctor once told me o. Infact he says for the fact we are exposed alive,and moving it's a normal bacteria on the skin.!
DeleteThank you..I actually had to go n read about it.
DeleteThank u.
DeleteThis is how people start suspecting their spouses of infidelity that was never there. Poster, don't just conclude based on comments here oh.
My sisters, the matter is tiring
DeleteWhen I was much younger and would travel to the East in luxurious buses, I used to see all those native drug peddlers say that Staph aureus causes infection and infertility. I thought people would be better educated about that 20 years later. It is disheartening that even a laboratory is giving this false info at this time. That’s why doctors advice people not to self medicate and this includes not just waking up and going to laboratory to carry out test. The laboratory technician/scientist can test you but they can never diagnose you properly.
Poster said she’s taking medication, I wonder what they have prescribed for her.
Poster just stop whatever medication you’re taking until you see a specialist.
Nkiru.Iwuchukwu come and learn from your fellow women..
DeleteRead Ada's comment, then scroll back up and read yours again and see the vast difference in knowledge. This is an insight as to how both of you would handle other serious life and family issues.
Even if you don't know much about a topic, try to read it up a lil then you can come back and make reasonable comments or contribution. But no, you'd rather dive in to upload your ignorance online the moment you see a woman trying to trust her husband. Olodo *Smh*
Please in Nigeria there are many variables. The lab may have not stored the sample properly and when they looked everything don die. You need to go to a good lab for a second opinion. Something may have happened from the time you got pregnant to when you started having issues.
ReplyDeleteI'm not understanding
DeleteYou have a very valid point. If the sample is not analyzed within few minutes, it could lead to false results. Also, the time interval between when the sample was collected and when the man took it to the hospital (if he took the sample at home) matters too.
DeleteAlways seek for a 2nd and 3rd opinion.
You can visit NAUTH. They have a gynae department.
Poster I am in the same shoe with you. Is like you just typed my story but mine was before I had my first child we resulted to native and I was able to conceive in 2016 after two years of trying and up till now no show. I treat staph aureus almost every month one doctor said is because my husban sperm Isn't healthy Abu what did he say self. God we helps me I have remove my mind but I will tell you it is not easy it's like you are looking for a child all over again and with the pain seeing your child grow alone. My husband was told he would never be able to father a child it was tough I tell you i am just grateful that I have my son.
ReplyDeleteThe word is...*resorted* to.. NOT... we 'resulted' to native and I was able to conceive in 2016
DeletePoster I am in the same shoe with you. Is like you just typed my story but mine was before I had my first child we resulted to native and I was able to conceive in 2016 after two years of trying and up till now no show. I treat staph aureus almost every month one doctor said is because my husband sperm Isn't healthy or so. God we help us, me I have remove my mind but I will tell you it is not easy it's like you are looking for a child all over again and with the pain seeing your child grow alone. My husband was told he would never be able to father a child it was tough I tell you i am just grateful that I have my son.
ReplyDeletePlease Stop treating Staphylococcus Aureus, you’re only causing more trouble for yourself and probably causing antibiotic resistance for whatever infection you actually have.
DeleteStaph Aureus can colonize your vagina but it doesn’t cause STD/STI, neither does it cause infertility. it is mostly harmless harmless to the reproductive system.
When it does cause infection in the body, it is usually skin/soft tissue infection, bone infection, maybe Toxic shock, but it doesn’t cause infertility
Staph is not an STD!!!
DeletePlease research, research and research!!!
Thank you.
Staph is not only gotten via Sex.
ReplyDeletestaphylococcus aureus is not a sexually transmitted disease, just googled. Its a bacteria that can be cured by cleaning regularly.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, sounds like your hubby's diet may be affecting his sperm or if he puts electronics like laptop or mobile phone near his p****.
Please work with him to change his diet - encourage him if he does to stop or substantially reduce drinking alcohol, no more junk food and be preparing for him lots of vegetables, encourage him to be drinking water and herb drink. He should also stop taking caffeine if he does. As a couple be exercising together and encourage him to lose weight if he is overweight or has a big belly.
Google tips to increase sperm count for me. Many men have had testimonies just by changing their diet. For some men excessive alcohol and unhealthy lifestyle seriously affects sperm.
You and hubby will be fine and by God's grace you will have more children together, just be working together to have good hygiene, and live and eat healthily.
Sending you lots of prayers and blessings
Staph aureus is not considered to be an STD. It can even be transferred from skin to skin
ReplyDeletesounds like the lab result may be wrong, it may be stress that is causing this, your hubby's diet or secondary infertility. It happens where some people struggle to conceive more than once. Commit it to God dear, you will be fine
ReplyDeleteThere is something awry with this chronicle.
ReplyDeleteMadam how will can you vouch for your husband?
Either the test result is wrong on the zero sperm. For the Staph infection it might not necessarily mean either of you contracted it through sexual intercourse, there are many ways of contracting the infection even by mere inhaling infected droplets of someone that has it when the sneeze or cough.
You both need urgent medical attention.
Hi Stella, Staphylococcus is not classified as a sexually transmitted disease though it can be transmitted skin to skin contact
ReplyDeleteNo, staph is not a sexually transmitted infection. And Yes, a man who has fathered a child before can later have azoospermia( zero sperm) . This can be due to a lot of causes and not STI. So it is possible that both of you can be faithful and such happen. Your husband needs to see a urologist and not a gynaecologist( except if there’s any other thing detected in your own tests) Further tests will be carried out on him and then treatment.
ReplyDeletePoster try new life specialist hospital nnewi they have a branch at awka the man is a good gynaecologist and a fertility doctor please try him
ReplyDeletemy husband was diagonosed with low sperm count. sometimes zero,sometimes less than 800k, 80% dead , and so on and so forth. we have three kids now . our doctor was stunned cos he even recommended a sperm donor when we wanted to go for ivf. we also did 2 iuis and 2 ivfs that almost finished me and all failed. God came through naturally, so yes, technically, you need only once sperm to run his race, an you will be pregnant. stay happy and joyful, your baby will come.
ReplyDeleteWow, such a big testimony that will encourage those TTCing.
DeleteWow. God’s ways mehn. He just does what He wants to do. Awesome God.
DeleteEverybody has staph but it's dormant until an event wakes it up
ReplyDeleteThis staph aureus infection thing in Nigeria is a big medical scam!!! Yes! I will say it over and over again. I've been a victim of this nonsense. For many years I was swallowing antibiotics and doing tests as a single lady. Mind you, I had no sexual intercourse with anybody. My journey was traumatic and I got embarrassed and scared many times. Until i met a very experienced female gynaecologist who told me the truth and said there was nothing to worry about. For the first time, I met a doctor who or prescribed nothing for me. I'm married now and I have children. When I look back, I laugh and thank God for my life. This is me who spent almost all I had treating "staphylococcus aureus".
ReplyDeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteStella, Staphylococcus aureus isn't a Sexually transmitted disease oh..
Don't mind all those nonsense fake doctors all over Lagos park selling agbo and saying rubbish.. "I dey shame I dey shame you're dying in silence 😂" then they'll go ahead and state all the normal symptoms of the body as Staphylococcus aureus lol..
Na so them go still talk say injection and medicine no dey cure STD.. and the irony of it all is you'll see educated people buying this stuffs...
Make una no go dey damage una livers Becos abeg.. those guys are just fraudsters, who would say anything just to sell their rubbish..
Please try to research on things yourself.. make Google your friend.. everything is not BBN and gossip..
Blessings
People go come here d look 4 help. Stella u go dey talk trash sometimes. Get ur facts straight before laughing at people indirectly. Pls change ur attitude.
ReplyDeleteShurrup. She's not expected to know everything, she's not God. She spoke well from what she understood and as you can see from comments alot of people here thinks the same too. We learn everyday
DeleteYes she does not know everything but she should not be spreading misinformation like she is an authority on the subject.
DeleteIf I typed "shurrup" my comment for loss
DeleteThem suppose change Nigerian lab name to staphylococcus aureus lab smh a young lady come for test na staphylococcus smh
ReplyDeleteMay god help ur situation.
ReplyDeletePlease staph is not sexually transmitted oh...Please a healty sperm count can be become low..Please go and see a specialist and stop adding ignorance to you problems
ReplyDeletePlease do not give up hope. You can seek for a second opinion on the low sperm count. It happened to me. They said my husband’s sperm count was below optimal and he cannot impregnate me (at one very top fertility clinic in Lagos) meanwhile, we have one child already. But when he went to Enugu, they said it was okay!!!!! In Enugu, we went to see Prof. Hyacinth Onah of Mbanefo Hospital. It is located opposite trans-ekulu. I conceived of my second naturallly after seeing him. Meanwhile the Olive Branch big doctor was pushing us for IVF. Please, follow your instincts in these kinds of things. Seek for a second opinion. There is no way a man who has conceived before can end up with 0 sperm count. Also the staph infection could not have caused it. In addition, do a google search of food and vitamins that help increase sperm count, he should be taking them.
ReplyDeleteMost of all, stand on your faith in God that you will have another child.
Visit Life specialist hospital Umudim Nnewi. I am a nurse there and investigations can be done to ascertain the real problem
ReplyDeletePlease poster,go to Life Clinic@ Nnewi, when you get to Traffic light,ask people of Life Clinic the doctor is a specialist and also a lecturer@ Unizik and teaches medical students@Nnewi teaching hospital. Life Clinic is his own hospital and he specializes in Fertility treatment, good luck dear
ReplyDeletecouldn't trace source of their problem until he was diagnosed and confirmed at the hospital that he had zero sperm count. Out of frustration, I called a friend who once told me how the doctor solved her husband's ED problem. I reached out to the doctor and my son in-law problem was solved. it's been 9 months now and my daughter is heavily pregnant after 10 years. Dr. contact: uduehiherbalcare@gmail.com Tell: +234 706 647 4917
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